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Temptation Island - Season 6 - Episode 03: Playing with Fire
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00:13I just am so nervous to see what he's gonna, what he's saying.
00:25We're all putting ourselves in this position.
00:27Truly just like, we could get hurt at the end of it.
00:32But obviously for all of us, it's nothing new, unfortunately.
00:50I'm super anxious going into the bonfire.
00:53I know he's gonna flirt with other girls, have conversations.
00:56It's just how fine the line is and how close he's willing to get to it or pass it.
01:10Hey Mark.
01:11Hi.
01:19Welcome to your first bonfire.
01:21It's the time where we get to check in, I get to check in with you, and we get to
01:25talk about your experience.
01:27And it's also where you'll all get a glimpse through clips of what your boyfriend's experience might be.
01:35All right.
01:36So, we're gonna start with you, Ashley.
01:39Here we go.
01:42Well, I'm beginning to consider, like, maybe it's not meant to be with me and Ashley, and I'm figuring that
01:52out.
01:52Thanks for being my date.
01:54Thanks for inviting me, honestly.
01:55I was hoping that you were gonna ask me, what'd you think when I put my wristband on you?
01:59I don't know, you were hot.
02:02Duh.
02:03What are you most excited for for the day?
02:05Jumping in the water and seeing 30 foot stingray?
02:08That's crazy.
02:09I mean, hanging out with you is cool too.
02:11Duh.
02:15Okay, Ashley, what did you see?
02:20I don't know what to think.
02:22I feel numb to it.
02:24But you came here to see if you could trust him.
02:28Is that still why you're here?
02:30I do want to see if I can trust him.
02:32I'm still willing to give him that opportunity, but I don't know if he knows the line between just flirting
02:39and forming a connection with someone when you're fully in a relationship.
02:44And I'm just trying to figure out why I've allowed myself to stay in this situation for so long.
02:50That's really what we're talking about here is that you can't control him at all, but you can talk about
02:55what you deserve.
02:58Okay, we're gonna go over to Alexa.
03:02Let's see it.
03:05You know, at first, she was seeing other people at the same time.
03:09Yeah.
03:09And, you know, just being dishonest with some things.
03:13Yeah.
03:13But I do harbor, like, some resentment of, like, you know, not being the first choice.
03:16I'm usually always, like, pursued or get what I want.
03:19For me, that was, like, a reality shock.
03:25What are you feeling? What did you see?
03:29I saw him talking about issues that I already know we have.
03:35Lino can't keep bringing that up from so long ago when that is a different Alexa.
03:42I am not the same Alexa that I was when I made those choices.
03:46I was going through a divorce.
03:48I didn't know who I was.
03:51And that person is not this person today that's saying, I still want to marry you.
03:55Do you feel like you're walking around guilty for an indiscretion you did one month into your relationship four years
04:01ago?
04:02I don't just feel guilt from that.
04:04I feel guilt from my previous marriage.
04:06I feel guilt from being the one to end it.
04:10I feel guilt from making a mistake and hurting my family and friends in the process.
04:14I feel a lot of guilt.
04:16All of that guilt is self-imposed.
04:20I've never looked at it that way, but, yeah, that makes sense.
04:26That's not okay.
04:30Yeah.
04:31All right.
04:32Shantae, you're next.
04:36She's not the most sexual person.
04:38She's not the freakiest person, but she's just a great hearted human being.
04:41But she would like her to be?
04:42I don't know. I just love a good threesome.
04:44But you know what? She does have a lot of great qualities.
04:46You don't think you could have the best of both worlds?
04:49I don't think that's ever. No one can ever.
04:51You don't think so?
04:51What?
04:52No one's ever going to be the best of both worlds.
04:53Yeah, they can.
04:54Yeah.
05:01There you go.
05:03Wow.
05:05He's like, where you do?
05:08Oh, my God.
05:13He's taking a nice clothes.
05:14He's taking a nice clothes.
05:14He's taking a nice clothes.
05:16Jesus Christ.
05:22I appreciate you.
05:31Talk to me.
05:32I'm not surprised that the threesome comment came up.
05:36If those girls want to sit there and act like that,
05:38they think that that's okay, that's on them.
05:40That's disrespectful.
05:43Yeah.
05:43I don't know.
05:44Yikes.
05:45You know that there are 12 girls there that are meant to tempt.
05:48Yeah.
05:49What I want to know, Shantae, is how do you feel?
05:51He's the one that wanted to come here.
05:53He brought me here to show me that he can be just friends with women,
05:58and he's not really starting off with a great job
06:00because he knows I'm not going to like some girl licking on his neck,
06:04but he needs to take a look at himself and really think,
06:06am I ready to lose literally the best woman in his life?
06:10Sometimes the things that are big right now
06:13end up becoming small when your priorities change.
06:16Yeah.
06:16But sometimes the things that are small right now
06:19become immeasurably and unmovably difficult down the road.
06:25So my charge for you is to look inward to you
06:31and ask yourself, what do I really want or don't want?
06:37Okay.
06:39Thought I forgot you?
06:40No.
06:40Wouldn't do it.
06:45Ms. K up to the stage.
06:48Yo, look at Tyler, bro.
06:49She's about to kill it.
06:49She's about to kill it.
06:50Oh!
06:52Oh!
06:52Oh, shit!
07:01Play with me, huh?
07:03Just a little.
07:05Wow, baby.
07:08You're trouble.
07:09You're trouble.
07:11Oh.
07:12Don't fall for me.
07:13Okay.
07:21She's about to kill it.
07:24Mmm.
07:27I wasn't expecting that.
07:30What's crazy is the first time I had ever hung out with Tyler
07:33in a romantic setting and kissed him,
07:36first words out of his mouth were,
07:37you are trouble.
07:38So for him to use those exact same words,
07:41when we kissed for the very first time,
07:45it stings.
07:46But get some originality, at least.
07:48I mean...
07:50And I just feel some, uh, some anger.
07:54Anger's the easiest emotion for us to deal with.
07:57Mm-hmm.
07:59Hurt, scared, heartbroken,
08:01those are much more difficult to get your head around.
08:04Could you be protecting yourself?
08:06That-that's 100% what it is.
08:09It's armor, for sure.
08:10You know, I have been hurt by every single person
08:14that has walked into my life.
08:16There's been no relationship around me
08:18that's been 100% successful,
08:21no bumps, 100% security, safety.
08:25I think that's like a pipe dream.
08:26There is no such thing as a relationship
08:29where no one gets hurt.
08:30And that armor keeps you relatively safe,
08:33but ultimately rusts.
08:37You made it through your first bonfire.
08:39I told you you would.
08:40Okay?
08:41Tomorrow, you're gonna pick your next dates.
08:44So, tonight, when you go back,
08:46start thinking.
08:48You're here for a reason.
08:50You don't get this time again.
08:52Thanks, Mark.
08:53Go.
08:54No more diffusing.
08:56No more excusing the lies.
09:00No more abuse.
09:01Fighting for you.
09:04I just want the truth.
09:10You know, I almost feel like I'm fine being alone
09:15for the rest of my life, like just to protect me.
09:18I don't want anybody to get close to me.
09:21I'm good.
09:26I'm just over it.
09:27I'm so over it.
09:29I just want the truth.
09:40Okay.
09:41Hi, welcome back.
09:43How are y'all doing?
09:44Good.
09:44Good.
09:45Hey.
09:45How are you doing?
09:46Good.
09:47Good.
09:47How are you doing?
09:47Good.
09:48It was intense for a lot of us.
09:50Really?
09:51Yeah.
09:52She basically was saying in the video, like,
09:54I'm never gonna trust him.
09:56He's just embarrassing to me.
09:57I'm like, I don't want that guy.
09:59I felt relieved, though.
10:01you really only feel relieved i feel relieved i feel relieved really that's a telltale sign
10:07it is i mean i i know it is and i'm like accepting that great and i definitely started
10:13connecting a little bit more and so i was expecting him to come back and like really need
10:18consoling you know which i was prepared to do um so for him to come back and say that he
10:23felt relieved
10:24kind of changes the game for me yeah it was uh it was intense for a lot of us um
10:30just want to like
10:33decompress well what can we do to get the vibes up um i don't know if this is crazy but
10:39i feel like
10:39i could go in the hot tub hot tub sounds nice because it's just like relaxing relaxing yeah
10:51well i'm down if that's what you want to do i'm like i don't have to join you guys if
10:55you guys
10:56want to go the hot tub my connection with grant i think has been good but i also know he's
11:03feeling
11:04natalie and so that's been kind of weird to like watch what are you guys drinking it's a mixy with
11:11tequila i don't want to get hurt and i also don't want to put all my eggs in one basket
11:16in case you
11:16know i don't get to know anyone else and then he ends up having a stronger connection with her
11:21okay i'll have a drink okay let's go make a drink let's go make a drink come with us make
11:25a drink
11:25no you guys can go you don't want to make a drink though that'd be fun i'll have a drink
11:41i'll have a drink
11:46bitches are back hey guys it's been a night long night do you guys want to sit and talk for
11:52a little bit or
12:11i'm just so mentally exhausted from all of this and like sitting here trying to
12:23analyze grant's clip and like what to take away from it you're not alone you know that right for
12:29grant to want to come here to prove something to me and then he's sitting there saying
12:35i am questioning whether we're meant to be is like
12:42infuriating i figure out what it is with me that's like what i want and i don't know but that's
12:48gonna
12:48come on time i got a lovely clip of two girls and it was him like taking a shooter off
13:04of them
13:04and then some girl put whipped cream like right here and like licked it but like seductively slowly
13:12very intensively it's just like what the are you doing like just say no wait you said a shooter off
13:17of them like a body shot yeah like a body shot like off their belly button yeah i just see
13:24that
13:24as kind of disrespectful and then why are we saying this about threesomes i get that he's a sexual person
13:31but jesus christ don't tell me you want a future and family and xyz if you still want to live
13:37that
13:37lifestyle and i told him that if that's what you want to do do that i just i don't do
13:40that
13:41brian is definitely at our line our boundary staring at it i just hope that he can make that
13:49decision that even though he's at that line he's not going to cross it out of respect for himself and
13:53our relationship and for me i want him to kind of connect and understand the emotional side of me
13:59because i'm a very big empathetic person like i feel people's emotions i like to talk things out
14:04if something's bothering me i want to talk about it and sometimes he'll talk it out but other times
14:09since he has that bubbly big personality he'll make a joke or he'll try to kind of like roll out
14:15of it
14:16and not want to talk about yeah not like not actively listen sometimes i don't even need you to say
14:20anything back just listen to what like i'm telling you and that's straight like i just want someone to
14:25emotionally be there in that moment you're okay with him like doing this stuff like you know like
14:30like first thing he says like yeah i heard you're into threesomes like you're okay with him having
14:33that bubbly personality our boundary is no kissing no sexual stuff none of that so like don't teeter
14:40the line and then think it's just going to be sunshine and rainbows but i mean we'll see
14:53you know mine started off fine it was just alexa it looked like she was crying just saying that
15:01i don't need leno i i'm going back to school i'm looking to open a business like i don't need
15:09him
15:09and then it just kind of cut off there ouch it kind of hurts just because i didn't think i
15:16would
15:16you know hear that at the first you know yeah first bonfire honestly yeah that's brutal you're
15:23a great guy you have this much going for you without her yeah i mean but that's the thing i
15:29always have
15:30okay so i've just spent three and a half years making you a better more eligible bachelorette and now
15:36i'm leaving but as an eligible bachelor that i was the entire time and now like you just took
15:43from me and what did i get to make me better my time and my energy and took away from
15:48my career
15:48aspirations you know i'll have to start thinking about things differently and open myself back up
15:56out there and you know sometimes it scares me sometimes it excites me i'm trying to lock in the
16:03spot to go on the next date i definitely think leno needs somebody like me in his life because
16:07i am that alpha woman i don't need a man i just want one surprised you're not drinking tonight though
16:14no not tonight i need to process clear head clear mind not overreact deal with it in the morning yeah
16:21fresh start
16:34can i get you anything
16:37i feel like i would like to have more one-on-one conversations with taylor i'd be dumb to tell
16:43you
16:43like i'm not feeling her and i would like to see see where this goes that's definitely
16:47just let's jump in the gun but like why else are we here all right talk to me oh when
16:55the clip
16:56started they were having lap dances all the stuff but he was sitting and he said no touching no touching
17:01and then she pulled him up and then he was just enamored started touching our body it's disrespectful
17:09yeah immature sensitive men they just they crumble they just don't know how to act do you think your
17:15man's an immature sensitive man tyler has tendencies like i'm just calling it like i see it
17:21and i will say that with my chest until the day i die like that's that's dope that you can
17:26actually
17:26speak on that because you don't need someone with tendencies at all i want somebody to be my rock
17:32and be rocking with me exactly i feel like you need somebody to be on your level and to build
17:40you
17:40up and i already know you're the kind of girl who's gonna build somebody else up and you have such
17:44a
17:44mature type of mindset and it's it's attractive and it just sucks that right now it's being wasted on
17:51a guy who doesn't deserve you and who has bitch tendencies honestly don't settle don't settle you're sweet
18:02i know you and nothing else just you hi guys i'm gonna walk you upstairs oh you are yeah i
18:12don't
18:13want you to get lost i'm just i'm not tired i need to waste time waste time you're about to
18:20see my messy
18:21room i hope tomorrow is a little bit more like upbeat you are like wanting an upbeat vibe like you
18:28seem
18:28very upbeat right now even oh i know we went up to tyler's room again which is exactly what i
18:36wanted
18:37to happen i wanted to see if maybe we lingered up there longer if the vibe was any different and
18:43instead of sitting on the seats he immediately went and laid in bed so my mind is working and i'm
18:49like
18:49okay i feel like this is saying a little something like it's not just me feeling what i'm feeling
18:55i don't even remember our first real conversation was at the kitchen table that one time yeah i still
19:02remember that outfit too which one the orange one you like that one i do like the low rise too
19:09yeah i put my belly ring in just for you just for me
19:25damn i'm just like so thankful that we have you guys to like talk to and get your opinions and
19:32take
19:32on things it was like a comforting thing going into it yeah like now i could just like kind of
19:37relax
19:37and be myself and just kind of go with the flow now lily's really genuine i feel the care coming
19:46through her like the energy is clear have you been feeling i'm feeling good i feel like it was a
19:53really
19:53long day yeah and yeah i was very interested to see like how you were going to feel coming back
19:59me particularly yeah obviously not obviously well i mean you're the only person that i've talked to
20:05since i came here i guess that is true yeah why is that because i was more concerned about how
20:10you were
20:10doing than other guys why because i like hanging out with you and i feel like we're forming a bit
20:16of a
20:16connection so yeah i think so too yeah you do then that's good you value how i'm feeling
20:26how do you have so much time natalie doesn't let go of her eye contact with you
20:34it's intense and it's magnetic honestly
20:40you're very tempting to me you sound like you're falling for temptation on temptation island
20:51it's out yeah no you're good night night good night y'all sleep well thank you for talking to me
20:55of course i was talking to you all night
21:01i don't want to go to baham
21:10i can tell by you like physical touch that's your love language i can tell that you do too though
21:16i know i do i really do grant is just not like typically someone that i would go for um
21:24but he
21:24has a really good heart and like the things that i've lacked in past relationships is like what he wears
21:30on his sleeve i don't know if i'm gonna i don't know if i'm gonna make it
21:36you think i'll make it till ever to the to the end what do you mean the end when i
21:43decide to
21:43enlighten you at the end of this process he automatically makes me feel really comfortable
21:51and that's what i really like i feel like i love this stage i love like the tease like what's
21:57going to
21:57happen it seems like the tables have turned and you're trying to tempt me what am i tempting you
22:05well of course you're tempting me why but i want you what's so tempting
22:25i set these boundaries for myself to not give in to temptation but i know that
22:31it's if i didn't think about ashley it would make me happy to be intimate with natalie i'm kind
22:37of having an internal battle you know with my brain and my heart
22:43i think that you should really consider your boundaries oh yeah why's that why's that i just
22:49want you to know what you want i just want you to really know what you want i think i
22:53want
22:54you can be sure what you want okay will do i'll just work on that good night bye
23:05i ain't brought your skin up a spying mire got that burning desire girl you know the sex is on
23:16fire
23:17oh oh oh oh light up the candles light up the candles baby yeah
23:33the master at work also like other guys and people that you meet like what
23:40some criteria or stuff that stands out to you that you really look for i usually like gravitate towards
23:45the most like confident guy in the room i love like doing new being adventurous so when i
23:52met grant that really drew me into him like passion for life yeah and that's what grant has and i
23:58think that's totally changed like what i want in someone but i was single for so long and i felt
24:04like
24:04i was in such a good headspace that i was like why would the universe give me this like piece
24:08of
24:08shit man like it was like i keep wanting to give him the benefit of the doubt i just don't
24:14know if he
24:14deserves me i don't know grant's either going to respect me or he's not and we'll figure that out at
24:24the end but i can't dictate my actions based off of his and my emotions
24:42you guys have been just rock solid through all of this you think so yeah i think so what made
24:49you
24:49come here um see i just i feel like i've got everything that i want except for somebody to
24:54share things with yeah and just looking for that that right person yeah i've been single for three
24:59years now um it doesn't feel that long but it sounds long yeah if we're getting i'm gonna be 30
25:06next year you're gonna have a midlife crisis maybe you're gonna get about it i'm looking forward to
25:1130 is gonna be the best years they're gonna be the best years i'm just thinking i'm gonna go back
25:15to
25:15school i'm gonna be a stronger person i don't know maybe i'll have learned a bunch of stuff from all
25:21you know we've got a a really good um easy connection right now so however she wants to
25:29to kind of play it friendship you know open up to me whatever i'm here for anything let's go
25:37do your feet get fruity yeah
25:38just having a good day having a good day having a real good morning
25:48i'm just having a good day
25:51i don't know okay one more time one more time we got it
26:04i feel like because i'm watching you work out like it counts for me working out i actually
26:07haven't worked out once no no it's okay take like a week off
26:17you want to sit here do i want to sit there because it's like rocks up oh
26:26so glad i can help yeah i think alex is starting to stand out more to me she has this
26:32little
26:33mysterious aura around her and it's something that excites me it's something that actually does
26:38tempt me oh man she's gonna get me in trouble shakes okay i'm gonna lay down now
26:52i know i got a feeling we're gonna leave it all let's get this show on the road two three
26:59four
27:06god damn it it's a point danny come on danny the competitiveness i'm like looking at them i'm like
27:14damn oh my gosh i was not open to romantic vibes until last night case is really sweet but cody's
27:29from south carolina he has like the exact same southern values and wants i have formed three
27:38connections here that are really strong i want to make sure that i did what i came to do you
27:47know
27:47be open be vulnerable and connect with as many people as i can i don't know i feel like i'm
27:54kind
27:54of playing with fire with cody a little bit the more i get to know him the stronger the spark
28:00is going
28:00to be and you're scared and you're scared of that yeah i don't want to touch the pot the pot
28:04is hot
28:08cool night they like to moonlight you got to move right all right so last night was our first bonfire
28:18a little emotional but today we're gonna loosen up a bit so we're gonna have a very sexy very tempting
28:24island paint relay race you're gonna cover yourselves with paint and you're gonna run up to your guy and
28:34you're gonna cover him best you can you just cannot use your hands and then the losing boy has to
28:40do
28:40a naked lap while we all watch plot twist so the stakes are high everyone okay
28:49great party yeah yeah yeah team brian i cannot wait so let's get it
29:05all right first ladies up in three two one go
29:13go come on come on lay down lay down lay down
29:19the thing with me and tyler is i already feel super comfortable with him so sorry you guys are
29:24going to lose oh babe come on k please come back oh hi
29:34oh wow oh i can't touch go go go go hey more k
29:40hey
30:05what's the team name
30:06tyler's angel hey and did we win yeah
30:14grant you were last for sure yeah bro where is your pain
30:18i'm dark oh i'm not in the end
30:21nah all right losers
30:39we purposely threw the game so we could see grant run around that deck
30:53you guys did that on purpose yeah
30:57who was grabbing my ass oh my god there's so many titties
31:01what do you guys say we go shower off absolutely in your shower
31:05what's good
31:23what do you think about going in the day
31:33How many can I do Danny how many can I do hello joining in let's see let's see it
31:43A for effort that actually looked really athletic that was actually really impressive
31:48thank you so we get to go on dates tomorrow and I think Shantae and I were thinking maybe you
32:00guys
32:00would want to go we'd love to you've just been so nice and sweet and respectful and I was like
32:05he would want to have fun I am very attracted to Logan but I think Danny is the most fun
32:15in the
32:15house right now I think I need someone to just keep my energy up and I think him and Gio
32:21will
32:22have good energy off of each other that'll keep me and Shantae like excited and happy to be there
32:27trying to just get to know you better you know yes I am for ready to have some fun
32:39so far everyone's really cool I want to build genuine connections like we could end up being
32:42like really close friends after this like who knows you know what I mean or like any of us
32:45mm-hmm if I was like my old self right before the girlfriend I had now this is exactly how
32:53I
32:54fuck women I'm gonna play that cool role and that's me too I fuck my friends bro I fuck full
33:00friend groups because like there's a lot of comfortability there yeah you know what I'm saying
33:03like and then like you we would fuck and then they would just then they're back to being my friend
33:11yeah I don't know I told you like my sex drive is out of control but it's like I'm just
33:16over here I'm
33:17trying to just ask myself questions like am I with the right person am I because now I see you
33:23can be
33:24there's a lot of girls here who are very sexual and very emotionally and will support me you know
33:28I'm saying like there is that out there you know why I only thought like I have to give up
33:33one or the
33:33other and it's like maybe you don't have to kill you can have a woman that will jump your bones
33:39at
33:39any minute and what Shantae brings with the you know emotional support and you know songs I don't
33:46know big fan of Alex right now she's definitely worked in the house on the physical side um just
33:51because she just knows how to look she has pretty eyes she just you know she knows what she's doing
33:56I think before anything though I do want to be like that support system for you too like because
34:03I do fuck with you you know I'll fuck with you too yeah we would I do fuck with you
34:07I think you're
34:08really the friends that fucked you know I'm saying I think Lino is super wholesome but I'm really
34:14feeling Breon and I think we have so much sexual tension like I just want to rip his clothes off
34:19while you're over here talking like that looking at me looking like that while you're over here
34:25talking like that yeah you're making me think about that all right guys it's gonna be a good night we
34:32got some s'mores playing we've got a bonfire earlier you guys all gave a secret about yourself
34:39we're going to guess after that we're all going to find out tonight what that is
34:43what'd you say this person had sex with someone 24 years older than them logan logan logan
34:57hashing this person loves to go downtown they put in the work it's gotta be air you guys caught me
35:04let's just say the tongue doesn't stop wow everybody likes to get down on jigs
35:09like hey let them boys eat let them boys eat come on get locked jaw it's fine this person prefers
35:16someone that likes to eat ass what that's logan that's danny or logan cody's a little too quiet
35:25sometimes you just start doing what you're doing you know and like to have a good time
35:30i've never eaten ass and i don't intend to eat ass live fast and eat ass that's it
35:38this person likes to role play it's definitely taylor
35:45nothing's wrong with a little school girl action or a little bad cop makes sense yeah definitely
35:50makes sense not a surprise are you the cop or are you the prisoner what good answer this person had
35:59sex on a yacht beach with the groupie in his mom's car behind a target multiple countries
36:11like what i didn't see that one coming i'm not gonna kink shame s'mores s'mores
36:17s'mores i want a s'more oh my god danny are you gonna make me a s'more yeah i got you
36:21right here
36:21oh thank you you like it crispy creamy or what oh creamy baby hell yeah i'll make it perfect all
36:28right i know you will i was not expecting you to like ass play a little freaky freaky you know
36:36you
36:36know i mean you like role play too yeah i mean that's not as pretty free
36:42oh
36:48my intention with k is to really see if this is really genuine would you do me a huge favor
36:54yeah
36:55in like five minutes would you go ahead and give this to k yeah awesome i am gonna take k
36:59on my next day and i and i'm ready for that that's great i shouldn't guess that i got ass
37:09on the date
37:10it was so cute i'm gonna keep that note forever i think it showed with the note that he definitely
37:16wanted to try and do something different something that he feels like he could tailor to me specifically
37:22you're so cute oh did you get my my note i did it was passed along he's putting in some
37:28effort
37:29which is awesome you have cute handwriting oh you're making it look it looks like a toddler wrote it
37:35doesn't it it does but honestly we've kind of been vibing on all the levels of deep conversations
37:41kind of more like you know good banter over the past couple days like i really haven't found myself
37:47you know exploring other options and after the bonfire last night and just how we've been connecting
37:53like you know i just kind of feel us going in that direction and so hence why i just wanted
37:58to
37:58write you that note we're gonna have so much fun at least i hope so i feel like why would
38:04we not
38:04how could we possibly not
38:11this was a tougher decision for me to pick who i wanted to ask on a date
38:16do i want to ask someone i've really connected with do i want to ask someone who i haven't had
38:23the chance to talk to too much or do i want to ask someone who hasn't been able to go
38:27on a date yet
38:28do you mind if i steal courtney for a quick second of course i'll get out of here
38:32i was meant to head to the pool anyway
38:36babe bye bye hi thank you
38:41they're very nice if you could take a little bouquet thank you but um i think i just enjoyed
38:48every conversation we've had you're beautiful and you are my number one in the house
38:55you know what i'm saying oh for sure it's not even close
39:01would you go on a date with you i would love to good good i've been waiting for you now
39:07oh good
39:08ultimately i chose courtney i think me and her vibe really really well she's also challenging me if
39:15i want to be with chante like is that really what you want in my opinion she deserves a date
39:19for me
39:20and um you know i know it'll be a great time i'm excited for whatever it is i mean if
39:24it's with
39:25courtney it's not gonna be a bad time alex alex alex what's up i've been thinking a while and
39:37tomorrow's our second date and i want to ask you i would love to go on your day tomorrow that
39:45makes
39:45me happy but i'm really excited actually i'm glad it's with you too really we're gonna have so much
39:51fun i know it was an easy choice for me since you've been cooked up in here i want to
40:01ask if
40:01you would go on my date with me tomorrow are you joking no i would love that really absolutely okay
40:07let's do it i'm excited i appreciate you i really do i really do i appreciate you what is your
40:13like
40:14day-to-day with work no so like during the week i have an office downtown charleston okay and then
40:20when i
40:21get off work i do my real estate appointments yeah yeah i love the grounds i love that that means
40:26a
40:27lot you know to actually do something that you actually love yeah well would you like to go on a
40:36date with me tomorrow i would love to okay i would love to have a hug yes of course i'm
40:41still interested
40:42in taylor like that hasn't changed since i got here i think we established a really good connection and
40:48i've been trying to give her space obviously she's been getting pressed by certain individuals but
40:54i'm excited yes i'm super excited
41:05you're very numb high demand you're busy yeah i wrote you something actually really yeah yeah this is
41:21so cute he starts the letter talking about how i received the most bracelets which was like just
41:27felt good and he kind of just is talking about how much strength and courage it takes to just even
41:32put
41:33myself in this position and that he admires that and whatever happens next i should be really proud of
41:39myself for taking these steps to get there that was really sweet i'm trying hard not to cry
41:46that was really sweet no don't cry thank you you're welcome
41:52it is so nice to confirm that there are men out there that are willing to put in the effort
41:56and do
41:57little things thank you so much you're welcome
42:03we gonna keep on chasing the sunshine looking for those blue skies and bright lights i know we're gonna
42:20find it when we're climbing excited let's get out the villa and go have fun yeah this is what the
42:29good
42:29life feels like and we're living in it
42:37this is so pretty wait it feels so good i picked max for my date because he has been such
42:46a good listener
42:47what a great group to do this with honestly yeah hell yeah it's really really easy to open myself up
42:53and to talk to him about vulnerable things and he gives me another perspective um to look at stuff
43:01it's a beautiful view yeah oh my god the crab
43:05he blends in
43:10you guys wanna do a cheers yeah cheers some unforgettable memories with two amazing women
43:16that's right thank you thanks man cheers cheers cheers let me ask y'all a question what brought y'all
43:24here i mean for me um tyler he cheated in the past so he wanted to prove something and the
43:32fastest way
43:33to prove it is go on this experience and get to the end and see if he can withhold you
43:38know temptation
43:39and then again just to gain clarity if tyler is my person overall i wouldn't bring my girl here yeah
43:44i mean
43:45that's really i'm a jealous type as well i guess you know and what's mine is mine i'm not going
43:49to
43:50share it with 12 other guys letting their thing look like i couldn't do it i feel like he's the
43:55typical
43:56guy that i go for he's super dominant super assertive i feel like he's a smooth talker i definitely feel
44:02like it's a red flag this is something i've dealt with in the past in multiple different relationships
44:06so you know i'm just looking out for myself did you guys have any conversations with your boyfriends
44:12like you know there is a chance that we come here and we leave either you know not together or
44:19with
44:19another person like were those conversations had yeah we have a lot of stakes if we don't leave
44:25together it's not just me and him devastated it's it's a lot of people in our lives i mean i
44:30hope he's
44:30thinking with this head and not that head literally what guys tend to think with yeah i know like for
44:35me i feel like love is a choice and you know lena and i tell each other how much we
44:40love each other
44:42but he still feels like second choice but if i've been choosing you for how many years now
44:49is that not love but if he doesn't see that then i can't choose him absolutely i can't because i
44:55i'm
44:55i'm getting tired like i'm getting exhausted of explaining myself it's it's i can't do that for
45:01the rest of my life if i dig really really deep anything i don't even want to say it
45:09but i don't think no i don't think i can be with lena if he keeps bringing this up
45:16but i want to be with him i feel like he's so stuck on this whole second choice thing
45:23and like i'm not the villain in his story i want him to realize that's so bad
45:32i mean for me i do know i love him as far as like feeling the love being reciprocated
45:38i'm just really hoping that he's doing the introspection that we are over here but i know
45:45that house is wild so you know
46:02have you gone bowling a lot or just no i think i've been bowling like twice in my life oh
46:07it's about to
46:08be real bad maybe go like girls first all right so you can study my tactics yeah i can see
46:13your form
46:14dude i think your shorts could be a little a little shorter just a little bit look at her go
46:19first pins of the day there you go all right very positive the first few times no this happened
46:28that's why i don't want to hear it listen all right okay and that's your day that's not my day
46:38tyler is not really good at bowling but at least he's cute so i'll let it slide
46:54okay
47:01you go check out our kay games see what they got honestly i haven't done a lot of dates like
47:07this
47:07with taylor and i don't know why but being here i'm looking to have some fun looking for lighthearted
47:12and uh kay is always in a good mood what game are we gonna play
47:22are you good at basketball yeah i used to play professional no you did not
47:31we did really good let's go to the ticket counters we should get matching bracelets that's cute oh those
47:38rings we should get matching rings you can get rings i think we're gonna wait on the ring purple
47:44i'll take a plaque temptation used to have a real negative connotation to me but now that i'm here i'm
47:49kind of learning like temptation can be something that's really good and really fun hold on i'll put
47:54it on oh i just want to keep going on uh dates with kay it's been a high the whole
48:00time my cheeks
48:01hurt i think that's a good sign it's like a glove yeah
48:07i come here often do you yeah a little bit i mean it's kind of sexy yeah don't usually see
48:11pretty
48:11girls like you so it's nice oh yeah getting to see his competitive side honestly was really attractive
48:16it's a turn-on i need a lesson let's move to you oh yeah and you go through as hard
48:24as you can
48:25just boom
48:26sweet words that taste like honey i just want to savor them under the covers pulled me for a lover
48:36told me i'm your favorite
48:39nice and easy nice and yeah then i got every moment with courtney you could have a kiss um that
48:45was the
48:45best i've ever seen right here are you a pro just maybe not tonight where you want to go hello
48:55you
48:55tell me whatever you want i do you know what i'm saying i think blue
49:05i'm paying for you brother ready to rock let's go are you raising
49:11we got it we got it later daddy
49:20damn
49:27definitely is stepping out of a comfort level for me because i lean more towards the introvert side
49:33this is growth for me so it's cool to see
49:39she's riding to the death with her man i give her a lot of respect for that
49:43she's very loyal so i must be that friend for her that she needs and
49:48that's how my mama raised me just respect the women and what they want
49:57oh my gosh
50:00oh my god
50:05oh my heart's been ripped wide open
50:14So many mixed emotions.
50:19We're going to do some yoga, maybe a little acro.
50:22Oh!
50:24Should we get a little wet before we go in?
50:28I'm Jesse.
50:29I'm your acro instructor today.
50:30Nice to meet you.
50:32So tropical.
50:33Honestly, I like the rain.
50:36Okay, ready?
50:37One, two, three.
50:40So think when you jump, sit.
50:42As soon as you jump, sit.
50:44There it is.
50:45Now come straight legs.
50:47We got it!
50:48Hey!
50:48Wait, now how do you go?
50:50You got my ankle.
50:51I grab your ankle?
50:56Got it, got it, got it, got it!
50:57Oh, yes!
50:59Look at it!
50:59You did it!
51:00Okay, you can put me down.
51:03We're getting in.
51:04This day was amazing.
51:06Having someone that's confident in you and trust you
51:09is really attractive, and honestly,
51:11it's hard to find that in your day-to-day relationships
51:13or even with a partner.
51:14I'm feeling valued at an end.
51:16That's something that made me feel great.
51:18Hey.
51:18Hey.
51:19How you doing?
51:21Absolutely fantastic.
51:22Doing this, like, partner acrobatic yoga
51:26involves a lot of touching.
51:27See how this works.
51:30You look good up there.
51:31You look good down there.
51:32Yeah.
51:42Ellie's a beautiful girl.
51:43I've already been trying to resist myself.
51:46Give me, like, a heads up before you go popping up there.
51:52Yes, I would say I have a crush on Grant.
51:57You're flying.
51:58I think he's definitely feeling me,
52:01and I'm feeling him.
52:03Yes!
52:04Ah!
52:04So see how you went forward?
52:06Nice.
52:06Cartwheel.
52:07Cartwheel.
52:08That was great!
52:09Oh, that was sick!
52:11Good job.
52:12The chemistry is definitely here right now.
52:15I mean, it's apparent.
52:16We're both feeling it.
52:18Super swag.
52:19Good job.
52:29This is shit that, like, makes me feel alive.
52:31Just, like, driving.
52:32Especially when your heart drops.
52:34And I always kill us.
52:35Yeah.
52:36Yeah.
52:36I'm really glad I brought you here, though.
52:38I felt like it wasn't fair.
52:39I mean, obviously, I'm going through a lot of shit,
52:40but I didn't feel like it was fair
52:42that everyone's just getting this not great version of me.
52:46So it's definitely time to focus on myself
52:47and, like, show you guys that I'm actually a good time
52:50and, like, not sad, mopey.
52:54You're also high vibes.
52:55I needed high vibes.
52:56High vibes.
52:56High vibes for everything.
52:57And hopefully, you know, after this, you know,
52:59everything will just kind of warm up a little bit, you know?
53:02That other fun side of Ashley comes out, you know?
53:05With everything that's been going on with Grant,
53:08this was one of the first times in weeks
53:11that I felt alive and out there in the world
53:15and not just inside my head.
53:20I haven't felt that freedom in a while,
53:22and it was refreshing to have someone
53:24who's so silly and goofy
53:25and has this great personality
53:27that's not just a facade.
53:29I'm always here to talk about anything, you know?
53:31I just want to get to know you.
53:32That's all I want.
53:33All I want is for you just to be comfortable.
53:40I obviously came in with a completely different mindset.
53:44I mean, you were one of the first girls to approach me,
53:46and I had to kind of run away.
53:47I just think you like me.
53:48I just think you like me, and that's what I saw,
53:50and I was like, let me skedaddle.
53:53Let me get out of here.
53:55Yeah, and I would say that, like,
53:58yeah, we have this weird, like, energy connection
54:00where we don't really have to talk.
54:02Yeah, I agree.
54:02And I catch us, like, staring at each other a lot, and it's...
54:05It's very comfortable.
54:06It is very comfortable.
54:08Quickly, which I feel like is a very telltale sign.
54:11It's like a nice surprise.
54:12Yeah.
54:12Of my insecurities, my dependency,
54:16I can't get you off of me,
54:19and I'm in too deep.
54:21We should take a picture with this.
54:22Oh, you can kind of see it right there.
54:24Yeah?
54:24Okay, fine.
54:25So do you.
54:27I feel like there's potential
54:30for a connection between us.
54:32Maybe, but we'll see.
54:35Yeah.
54:39I'm getting closer to accepting the situation I'm in,
54:43and, you know, hearing the way she was talking about me,
54:46like, at the bonfire that I was at,
54:48it kind of made it more clear that
54:51I don't think it's meant to be anymore.
54:53Yeah.
54:53Unfortunately.
54:55So I kind of just have to, like,
54:57completely accept that, you know?
54:59I want to keep getting to know you.
55:01And I want to keep getting to know you, too.
55:03Okay, good.
55:03It feels so good
55:06Lying on you
55:07knowing I never could
55:09Get a little bit of strawberry dust on you.
55:13There you go.
55:14Take over my body,
55:16you capture me
55:19You ready to go back to the villa?
55:21I'm very ready.
55:22Let's do it.
55:22Okay.
55:22I can't get you off of me
55:24And I'm in too deep
55:27What have you done to me?
55:31You pull me close
55:33And I can't say no
55:35What have you done to me?
55:39I'm in control
55:41So you get me alone
55:44Loving your heart so good
55:48I'll give you hope if I could
55:51What have you done to me?
55:55What have you done?
55:58I'll give you hope if I could
56:01What have you done to me?
56:06What have you done?
56:07What have you done to me?
56:09What have you done to me?
56:11What have you done to me?
56:13What have you done to me?
56:13What have you done to me?
56:13What have you done to me?
56:13What have you done to me?
56:13What have you done to me?
56:15What have you done to me?
56:15What have you done to me?
56:16What have you done to me?
56:17What have you done to me?
56:20What have you done to me?
56:21What have you done to me?
56:22You
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