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00:00:22You're going to die.
00:00:26Um, do you know how old I am?
00:00:28Um, oh my God, okay, um, I'm 54.
00:00:35And that's it.
00:00:37There you go.
00:00:40Got your seatbelt on?
00:00:42Yeah.
00:00:43Oh, shit.
00:00:45Oh, God.
00:00:48I am 27.
00:00:55Oh, my God.
00:00:58Oh, wow.
00:01:00Seriously?
00:01:01Can I see your driver's license?
00:01:05Wow.
00:01:06Okay.
00:01:07Did not expect that.
00:01:10I figured that was going to happen.
00:01:14Oh, my God.
00:01:16That is insane.
00:01:17I literally thought you were, like, 10 years older.
00:01:20Um, okay.
00:01:22My youngest is 22.
00:01:25Okay.
00:01:25And my daughter's 25.
00:01:29And three years before that, I gave birth to my oldest, so he's 29.
00:01:35My son is older than you.
00:01:38Does that scare you?
00:01:48You know, honestly, the only, the biggest thing that scares me is the outside perception of everybody in the universe.
00:01:57Can't control it.
00:02:03No, you can't control it.
00:02:04Absolutely.
00:02:05Yeah, it scares me, but it's also just pretty amazing that, like, I connected with you, and I had no
00:02:12idea how old you were.
00:02:14I didn't want something I can't control to mess this up, because I feel like we hit it off from
00:02:21day one, and it would have hurt a lot.
00:02:30I am really excited to continue our relationship and get to know each other better.
00:02:38Whatever's next.
00:02:44I know I play with fire.
00:02:48Let's do it.
00:02:49Let's do it.
00:02:52Let's do it.
00:02:53Let's go.
00:02:54Nothing gamble, nothing gain.
00:02:55It's worth the price I have to pay.
00:02:58To see if this is real.
00:03:01Yeah, love is a risk.
00:03:03One thing I want to take.
00:03:06If you believe in love, show me something.
00:03:11If I had known his age going into it, like, I would have never probably started dating him.
00:03:17Like, I had a child before he was even born.
00:03:23They're her kids.
00:03:25They're not my kids, you know.
00:03:27Eventually, are there our kids?
00:03:29I don't know.
00:03:31Love is a risk.
00:03:33One thing I want to take.
00:03:36You know, his age is reflective of how much experience in life he has.
00:03:39So, now that we're moving on into the real world and we're going to live with each other, it will
00:03:44be interesting to see how well we can adapt to that life.
00:03:49I'm sexually attracted to her.
00:03:51I'm physically attracted to her.
00:03:52I'm emotionally attracted to her.
00:03:53So, I'm looking forward to as much time with her as possible to just grow this connection and see where
00:03:59it can go.
00:03:59I'm excited.
00:04:01Love is a risk.
00:04:03The one that I want to take.
00:04:06You gotta jump.
00:04:07Don't look at that.
00:04:08There's no escape.
00:04:10Love is a risk.
00:04:12The one that I want to take.
00:04:20Love is a risk.
00:04:21Guys, I'm sure you know who I've been talking to, Justin and Jorge, but they are literally total opposite
00:04:28and they're both really good guys and I just don't know.
00:04:32Are you still torn?
00:04:32I don't know.
00:04:33Like, they're literally just two different.
00:04:35She's like, it's so hard that two men are riding over me.
00:04:38Oh my gosh, guys.
00:04:40So hard.
00:04:40Life is so difficult.
00:04:42No, no, like, no, it's, like, the thing with me is with, like, my connection with Justin,
00:04:48we've talked about, like, our lives and stuff and, like, outside of this,
00:04:51and I can, like, clearly, like, see, like, our life, like, together.
00:04:55Yeah.
00:04:56But with Jorge, I get, like, excited and, like, giddy.
00:04:59I noticed that.
00:05:00Yeah, I get, like, excited and, like, giddy.
00:05:02Yesterday, Jorge had his shirt off, and I did not know he had tattoos.
00:05:06I literally was up there, and I could not stop staring.
00:05:09Yeah.
00:05:09Like, and, like, the sun, his body was, like, glistening.
00:05:13I was, like, that being is fine.
00:05:15I know, you little slut.
00:05:16Yeah, I love it.
00:05:18Oh, my gosh.
00:05:18Me just drinking the tea.
00:05:23My intention coming in here was I want to find love.
00:05:27I've been in love once before, and I got heartbroken.
00:05:32That's the only time I've been in love.
00:05:34That's hard, you know?
00:05:36You have to really put your heart out there and be vulnerable.
00:05:41But, um, yeah, I'm ready for that.
00:05:55Were we supposed to buckle these?
00:05:57Nah, right?
00:05:59Oh, my God.
00:06:01Oh, my God.
00:06:01Come to the world.
00:06:02The ever glow.
00:06:04The ever glow.
00:06:08God, this is gorgeous.
00:06:10I came here to find a connection and to meet a lot of people,
00:06:15but to ultimately find that person that I do want to settle down with.
00:06:19Oh, my God.
00:06:22I think I have a pretty clear sense of who I am,
00:06:25and I think I value things that are more mature than most people my age do.
00:06:29Turn your gear.
00:06:30Yeah.
00:06:31I'm really excited to hopefully continue my connection with Derek.
00:06:36Honestly, he seems like a really sweet guy.
00:06:38Seems like he has his life together.
00:06:40I would like to talk to him more, but I'm happy.
00:06:44I'm happy that I've even started to find something.
00:06:47I can do the pedaling, and I can move it, but the gear situation kind of had me.
00:06:52It threw you off.
00:06:53But you helped me out, so.
00:06:55So you're not a mountain biker.
00:06:57I'm a stationary biker.
00:06:59Yeah.
00:06:59I have never considered myself outdoorsy.
00:07:02I actually was just hiking in Austria.
00:07:04It was awesome.
00:07:05It was a solo trip.
00:07:07You did by yourself?
00:07:08Yeah, yeah.
00:07:08Awesome.
00:07:09What brought that on?
00:07:10I feel like I'm always saving money to travel, you know?
00:07:12Like, everybody's like, oh, I'm going to travel at some point.
00:07:14But it's like, thank you.
00:07:15Yeah.
00:07:16Um, like, when am I going to?
00:07:18Yeah.
00:07:18Like, now is the time.
00:07:20Right.
00:07:20Yeah.
00:07:20Are you a big traveler?
00:07:21Love it.
00:07:22Is that important to you?
00:07:22Absolutely.
00:07:23I travel a lot.
00:07:24I love the fact that you booked a trip.
00:07:26Yeah.
00:07:26Where else have you traveled?
00:07:27I've been to Spain.
00:07:29I've been to London.
00:07:30Where in Spain?
00:07:30Did you?
00:07:31Barcelona.
00:07:32Love it.
00:07:33Seville.
00:07:33Did you love it?
00:07:34Yeah, Barcelona's the best.
00:07:35How could you not love it?
00:07:36Yeah.
00:07:36Um, I was with my whole family, too, which was really nice.
00:07:39Yeah.
00:07:40Um, like, I have a pretty small family.
00:07:42So, it was, and it was my grandparents, and then, like, my great aunt, my aunt,
00:07:46and my mom.
00:07:46Okay.
00:07:47Um, but it was, like, our last family trip with everybody together.
00:07:51Yeah, how was that?
00:07:52I mean, it was, it was fantastic.
00:07:54It was great.
00:07:54Family is, like, it's very important to me.
00:07:56Like I said, I'm from a small family, and I, like, want to have a big family.
00:08:00Yeah.
00:08:01So, just appreciating those moments together is, like, that's, like, a big part of what
00:08:07I love.
00:08:08Yeah.
00:08:09I'm the same family, so big.
00:08:10Okay.
00:08:10So big to me.
00:08:11Okay.
00:08:12Yeah.
00:08:12No, I completely agree.
00:08:14I didn't get into details about my family, my two boys that I have now.
00:08:19I do want to tell her, but it'll be a shocker, I think, if I tell Pfeiffer that I have
00:08:24a 15-year-old
00:08:25son and a 5-year-old.
00:08:27Hopefully, that doesn't change the connection we have and the feelings that she has from me,
00:08:32though.
00:08:42Hey, Jolene, do you want to walk with me?
00:08:44Oh, yeah.
00:08:45Okay.
00:08:46You can bring the blanket.
00:08:47Oh, I can?
00:08:48Really?
00:08:48Yeah, of course.
00:08:48Yeah, why not?
00:08:49Yes!
00:08:49I have been on the apps before, and I'll be so crazy that I'll swipe when I drive, and
00:08:55I'm just, like, kind of addicted to it.
00:08:58I'm looking for something authentic and organic.
00:09:00I feel like dating girls in the past, like, I've gotten parts of the one.
00:09:05We're going to the Promise Room.
00:09:06See you guys later.
00:09:07No, I'm just kidding.
00:09:08I'm kidding.
00:09:09I'm kidding.
00:09:10So, coming into this, it pushes me to talk to girls who I normally would not, and it's
00:09:15opened my eyes a bit already.
00:09:19Damn, girl, you ballsy with it.
00:09:22Well, I don't know what else I'm supposed to say.
00:09:24I might crush you.
00:09:25No, you're fine.
00:09:26Okay.
00:09:26Okay.
00:09:27I was terrified going into this because I live a very comfortable, routine life, but
00:09:33there's, like, this little, this piece right here that just wants someone to be, like,
00:09:37come here, you compliment me thing, you know?
00:09:41My ex-husband and I, we took good care of our children together, and we continue to do so.
00:09:47And I remember driving home one day from work and just being so thankful for my life because
00:09:53I had this wonderful man at home who, like, takes my son to baseball and just feeling true
00:09:59happiness.
00:10:00happiness, and it didn't work out.
00:10:02We just kind of grew apart.
00:10:05But I want to feel that again.
00:10:08I so badly want to ask you how old you are.
00:10:10Really?
00:10:11Yeah.
00:10:12But I don't know why.
00:10:13I think it's just, like, instinct, but I'm trying to let that go.
00:10:18I know, but I'll tell you what.
00:10:20I look young.
00:10:24Okay.
00:10:25So, I'm probably older than you think I am.
00:10:26I'll just give you that.
00:10:28That's it.
00:10:29Oh, God, I hope so.
00:10:42I'm not used to, like, doing this, dating, like, multiple people at the same time, so this
00:10:47is just really hard, and I want to try to move as respectful as I can to both the guys.
00:10:52We're here today to do some forest bathing.
00:10:55I have here some blindfolds.
00:10:59One person leads, one person follows.
00:11:02And the person who leads has the responsibility of getting them to experience the forest with
00:11:09their other senses.
00:11:10Vanell is amazing.
00:11:12We work well together, to me, energy-wise.
00:11:14I want to show her a little bit the gentler side, the other side of horror.
00:11:18And I've experienced in the past where, you know, I don't let everybody see that side
00:11:23of me, because not everybody protects that side of me, right?
00:11:26But in her case, she's just, I don't know, something about her.
00:11:30It's gentle energy.
00:11:31I love it.
00:11:32If I trip and fall, it's over with.
00:11:34Lift your foot.
00:11:35There you go.
00:11:35Come on.
00:11:36You think I'd let you fall?
00:11:37No.
00:11:38Okay, now.
00:11:39Just trust me.
00:11:40You trust me?
00:11:41I do trust you.
00:11:42All right.
00:11:44Am I walking straight?
00:11:45You're just walking straight.
00:11:47Now, keep walking real slow.
00:11:50I got you.
00:11:51You will not stumble.
00:11:52You will not fall.
00:11:53I will not let that happen, okay?
00:11:54Mm-hmm.
00:11:57Oh, you did so good.
00:11:59Oh, my gosh.
00:12:01See?
00:12:01You got me all the way here.
00:12:03Yes.
00:12:03That was good.
00:12:04Good job.
00:12:05You enjoyed it?
00:12:06Yeah.
00:12:07I feel excited.
00:12:10I feel, like, jittery.
00:12:12I feel, I don't know.
00:12:14I just had a really good time with Jorge.
00:12:16I've been wanting to just, like, see a different side to him because he has a really, like, big personality.
00:12:21And today, I was able to just, like, see him more calm, more serious.
00:12:26He seems like he's a little bit older than me.
00:12:29I'm sure he probably is.
00:12:30But he has, like, a young spirit in a way.
00:12:34So, honestly, the age factor with Jorge doesn't bother me.
00:12:39You're my only connection.
00:12:40Mm-hmm.
00:12:40Like, I'm not.
00:12:41Really?
00:12:42Mm-hmm.
00:12:42Wow.
00:12:43Because I'm not, like I told you, if I look at someone and I'm not feeling it and I know
00:12:50it won't be genuine, like, I'm not going to do it because it's not going to be real.
00:12:54But I'm not saying that to put pressure on you.
00:12:56Mm, you're not good.
00:13:01Justin and Jorge are literally total opposites.
00:13:05And I don't want to spend too much time tuggling between two guys.
00:13:09I want to, like, make a decision soon.
00:13:11But ultimately, like, I thought I was leaving here with Justin.
00:13:15Um, and deep down in my heart, I kind of feel if Justin was truly the person that I felt
00:13:22like, okay, that is the one, then maybe I wouldn't be so conflicted.
00:13:26I like when a man makes it known he wants me.
00:13:30Well, I think I've made it known, haven't I?
00:13:32Now.
00:13:52You gotta catch me up.
00:13:53I think, I mean, I feel like I'm in a really lucky spot.
00:13:58Um, I'm really happy with where I am with Derek right now.
00:14:02Uh-huh.
00:14:03Um.
00:14:03How far apart do you think you and Derek are in age?
00:14:06Mm, I would say, like, 13 to 16 years.
00:14:10Okay.
00:14:10That's my guess.
00:14:11Okay.
00:14:12Is there any, like, reservations you have about, like, a future with him?
00:14:16It feels really weird to be like, wow, this person and I are really aligned and everything
00:14:20seems to be going smoothly.
00:14:22Like, where is the big, like, when is the shoe gonna drop?
00:14:26Yeah.
00:14:26But I'm just kind of a scaredy cat, too, with this sort of thing.
00:14:29That's okay.
00:14:30But I think for your age, I don't know what your age is, but I can guess.
00:14:33And I think that you have a good head on your shoulders.
00:14:36Yeah.
00:14:36That means a lot.
00:14:37And I think you're a lot more confident than I was at your age in, like, putting yourself
00:14:42out there.
00:14:43How about you?
00:14:43I want to hear all about where your mind is at, how you're feeling about things.
00:14:47Oh, my gosh.
00:14:47Yeah.
00:14:47So, this has really been pushing me out of my comfort zone.
00:14:51I think that's great.
00:14:52Yeah.
00:14:52Yeah.
00:14:52What's funny is, like, in talking to some of the men, they're like, if a girl came after
00:14:56me, I think it's hot as fuck.
00:14:57I know.
00:14:58They say that.
00:14:59But at the same time, like, I don't want to be a chaser.
00:15:02Like, I'm not chasing anyone.
00:15:04So, it's like, yeah, do we push ourselves out of the comfort zone and try something
00:15:09different?
00:15:09Or do we just keep the status quo?
00:15:12Yeah.
00:15:13Yeah.
00:15:14Oh, my gosh.
00:15:15To be determined.
00:15:15It's a lot to think about.
00:15:28Make sure you strap it on.
00:15:30I found one.
00:15:32I got you.
00:15:33There's a few women here that have caught my eye, but honestly, I'm feeling some vibes
00:15:38with Libby.
00:15:38It's very, just, playful.
00:15:41She is fun, younger, very extroverted.
00:15:45How did I know you were not going to know how to do this?
00:15:48Libby is complete chaos.
00:15:50In the best ways possible, I think.
00:15:58I do not do huddles at all.
00:16:01You're fine.
00:16:01Oh, God.
00:16:02You're fine.
00:16:03You're good.
00:16:03I don't know about that.
00:16:04Can I back out?
00:16:06I am feeling a little bit of pressure and nerves because I need to go into this date and, you
00:16:12know, show up, be myself.
00:16:13But I think I have a tendency to get a little bit nervous when I'm interested in somebody
00:16:18and kind of feel a little bit more reserved and closed off.
00:16:22So, I'm hoping today I can just let my guard down and be normal.
00:16:28At this point, Andrew's really the only one that I genuinely find myself attracted to.
00:16:35And although my mind is running in circles about the kid thing and the age thing and whatever,
00:16:42I definitely have a little crush on him.
00:16:47I'm going to definitely give you the ick today.
00:16:49I'm just not going to look either.
00:16:51You're going to be like, I'm over this.
00:16:52I'm going to close my eyes.
00:16:52And if I hear screaming, I'm going to pretend I don't.
00:16:57One, two, one, go!
00:17:02Oh, God.
00:17:07Oh, my God.
00:17:16Oh, my God.
00:17:18I can't believe I almost cried.
00:17:22Libby is my type.
00:17:24Like, spot on.
00:17:25Like, my group chat is going to be like, dude, I thought you were going to do something different.
00:17:31It's not that I haven't tried.
00:17:33I've talked to a bunch of people.
00:17:34And I'm not saying that I'm not going to keep experiencing this experience and talking to other people.
00:17:39But, I mean, you know, if you just, if something's you, something's you.
00:17:43And I think that, you know, for me, it's been fun to date younger.
00:17:48Um, healthy, I don't know, probably not fun, yes.
00:17:55We survived.
00:17:56We made it.
00:17:58Yeah, you weren't helpful, though.
00:17:59I think I was nothing but helpful, personally, but I'm glad you got through it.
00:18:04And I guess it was a fun thing for us to do.
00:18:06You know, it wasn't date two, and you see me scared like that up there.
00:18:09But as long as you didn't get the ick.
00:18:11I did.
00:18:12You got the ick?
00:18:13Mm-hmm.
00:18:13No, I'm kidding.
00:18:14You're all good.
00:18:14You're all good.
00:18:16All right, go on.
00:18:17I think there could be, like, a strong connection there.
00:18:20It's, like, I'm seeing a lot of her, like, funny side.
00:18:24And maybe there's, like, a little intimidation there or whatever, or nerves, you know?
00:18:29We're all, we all have a little bit of that.
00:18:31But I can tell there's, like, this other side to her that's, like, super sweet and soft.
00:18:36I think if she does have that side, like, to her, I definitely think that, you know, there would be
00:18:41something there.
00:18:42Okay, thank you.
00:18:43All right, can I ask you something?
00:18:45Yeah.
00:18:45And, like, don't get offended.
00:18:47You're funny as shit, but, like, is there, like, a softer side to you?
00:18:52Like, a more, like, serious, like, I really do want to have more kids.
00:18:58I really do want to find my person.
00:18:59I really am here to connect with someone.
00:19:02I feel like I love our banter.
00:19:04I love how we just laugh and give each other shit back and forth and don't compliment each other.
00:19:10Um, but is there, like, a serious side, like, a warm side to you?
00:19:16That's funny that you're, like, even asking me that.
00:19:18Why is that?
00:19:19It's hard for me because I know, like, in the past, like, when I fully let people in and been
00:19:25100% that side of myself, it's kind of hard to recover after you get really hurt, you know?
00:19:31I just have to, like, warm up to that place because, I don't know, I get, I'm kind of, like,
00:19:36guarded in the beginning.
00:19:37I can see.
00:19:38Can I tell?
00:19:39Um, but, yeah, we'll, we'll get to that place.
00:19:42See, it's, it strides for me to tell you that you're sort of, kind of cute.
00:19:46Okay.
00:19:46Well, I'll take sort of, kind of cute.
00:19:49Um, I feel like I know a lot about you, but I wanted to ask you more about your daughters
00:19:54because I feel like I don't know that much about them.
00:19:57Do you want to know how old they are?
00:19:58Mm-hmm.
00:19:59I know I wouldn't tell you the other day.
00:20:00Just tell me, you freak.
00:20:0214 and 12.
00:20:05Sorry, was that, I can't, I can't hide anything on me.
00:20:1214 and 12.
00:20:14Um, I'm a little shocked.
00:20:17A little shocked.
00:20:18I don't think, um, I was expecting that.
00:20:21That's, that's new.
00:20:23Does this surprise you?
00:20:24Shock?
00:20:25What are you thinking?
00:20:26I thought they were way younger than that.
00:20:27I'm curious as to how old you probably think I am.
00:20:30Oh, shoot, I don't know, and I don't want to make guesses.
00:20:34And I'm a little scared.
00:20:37Don't strike me as an old person.
00:20:40What is old to you?
00:20:41I don't know, you just, you, great skincare.
00:20:45Any recommendations?
00:20:46Yeah.
00:20:47Drink a lot of water.
00:20:48Okay, thanks for that.
00:20:50Thank you so much for that.
00:20:50Stay out of the sun.
00:20:52Yeah.
00:20:52I'm just feeling a little bit shocked and overwhelmed, and I think I might need a little bit of time
00:20:58to reflect on it.
00:20:59I'm not that far from 14.
00:21:03So, I'm definitely going to take a minute and reflect.
00:21:09Let it fall apart slowly, slowly.
00:21:19Yeah, we will stop.
00:21:21I've been to spas, but nothing like this.
00:21:25I'm keeping myself open to meeting the other guys, but I don't have the same connection with others that I
00:21:31do with West.
00:21:42What I want when it comes to relationships is marriage.
00:21:46Now, I'm not saying the next girl that I date is going to be my wife, but if I could
00:21:51choose, it would be, 100%.
00:21:53Going into this date, the three that I had my eye on are Vanessa, Lindy, and Catherine.
00:21:58I'm looking for a woman that I can spend my life with, a woman that I can take home, and
00:22:02my parents, my mom is happy, my dad is happy to see this woman next to me, no matter her
00:22:06age.
00:22:08Oh, my God.
00:22:09I think West, right now, is at the time in his life where he likes to have fun.
00:22:15He does immature things like backflips into the goal plunge, and I'm really continuing to try to, like, throw that
00:22:24out the window.
00:22:25It's, like, really tough for me.
00:22:27What do you think of it?
00:22:29I think it's beautiful here.
00:22:30I love it.
00:22:31It's relaxing.
00:22:32I like getting to know you better.
00:22:34Yeah.
00:22:35What would you want to know?
00:22:40I mean, things I can't ask, but...
00:22:44Why not?
00:22:45You could ask me anything.
00:22:48What?
00:22:48I wonder how old you...
00:22:49I know we're not supposed to date who's dating, and I just want to get to know you.
00:22:53I could take you to the promise room.
00:22:55We could line it up real quick.
00:22:58And I'm up for that.
00:23:01I know it's kind of crazy, like, all in right here, right now, but, you know, that's it.
00:23:07I'm not crazy.
00:23:09I think you are.
00:23:11You know, with younger guys, sometimes they get caught up in, like, the new stuff.
00:23:15You know, the new is exciting.
00:23:17I think part of me is, like, has these, like, walls up, like, why is he so complimentary so, like,
00:23:24soon?
00:23:24Like, what is his game here?
00:23:27My flirty aspect can be a red flag to people, but the things I say are genuine, they're honest, and
00:23:34I think, like, more feelings and actions show how I really feel, rather than, like, things I say.
00:23:49Absolutely natural beauty that we have around us.
00:23:51I know, it's so pretty.
00:23:53I love it.
00:23:54And it's natural beauty in front of you.
00:23:55Oh, wow.
00:23:56That was very smooth.
00:23:58That was very smooth.
00:23:59I've got to give you props for that.
00:24:01Good job.
00:24:02High five on that.
00:24:05Hey, guys.
00:24:06Hi.
00:24:07How are you?
00:24:08I don't want to interrupt.
00:24:09No, you're fine.
00:24:09You can interrupt.
00:24:10I was wondering if you want to go to the other pool.
00:24:12We didn't go there yet.
00:24:13Let's go.
00:24:14Okay.
00:24:14Let's do it.
00:24:14All right, I'll bring him back.
00:24:15Don't worry.
00:24:16You guys have fun.
00:24:17Okay.
00:24:17You take your time.
00:24:18Okay.
00:24:19I have not been successful at dating.
00:24:22I lived in a small town my whole life.
00:24:24I've met everyone.
00:24:25I've dated everyone I wanted to date.
00:24:27This one might be deeper.
00:24:28Will you save me if I...
00:24:30No, I have the opportunity to meet people from all different places, all different ages,
00:24:35and I want to explore things, and I want to see who's out there.
00:24:39Are you upset right?
00:24:41Are you real?
00:24:42I'm really not.
00:24:43I'm actually happy about that.
00:24:44Okay, good.
00:24:45I was waiting for that.
00:24:46I'm like, you know, I don't like to compete for attention.
00:24:48Me neither, but I didn't know.
00:24:50So I would have given you another five minutes, and then I would have stolen you away.
00:24:54I didn't want to, like...
00:24:55I was just trying to get a little reaction.
00:24:57Oh, it's called triangulation.
00:24:59A little triangulation.
00:25:01You were trying to triangulate.
00:25:03Well, it worked.
00:25:03Look, here we are.
00:25:04It did work.
00:25:04Mm-hmm.
00:25:05Here we are.
00:25:06Where did you tell me you live again?
00:25:08I live in Miami.
00:25:09You are such a Miami boy.
00:25:11Can I come and visit you one day?
00:25:13Absolutely.
00:25:14100%.
00:25:14No, after this entire thing, we're going back to Miami together.
00:25:18Together?
00:25:18I won't make you come to Ohio to see me.
00:25:20I told you, Ohio's my, like, backyard.
00:25:22Okay.
00:25:24Yeah.
00:25:24Coming in.
00:25:25Yes.
00:25:25Come, come, come.
00:25:25I love it.
00:25:26Okay.
00:25:26Yeah.
00:25:27I'm glad that we got to have our time together today.
00:25:29Yeah, and we'll have more time together, I hope.
00:25:31Yeah, for sure.
00:25:32Is that cool with you?
00:25:33Mm-hmm.
00:25:33It's cool with me.
00:25:34All right, good.
00:25:35Okay, good.
00:25:35I'm going to kiss your hand.
00:25:37Oh, she didn't really have to.
00:25:39And I'm sorry I stole you away from other girls.
00:25:41I'll try not to do that.
00:25:43No, continue to do that.
00:25:44Okay.
00:25:44All right.
00:25:45Sounds good.
00:25:46Should we kiss?
00:25:47One, two?
00:25:48Just a quick one.
00:25:53You have a nice look.
00:25:54Is this love, is all we've had to know.
00:26:02You're so beautiful.
00:26:04I'm glad that you appreciate it.
00:26:05This won't be the end of this.
00:26:07You think?
00:26:07Okay, good.
00:26:08See you tomorrow.
00:26:09I'll end the next day and the next day.
00:26:10Okay, good.
00:26:10Okay, good.
00:26:11All right.
00:26:13I'm happy about this.
00:26:14Yeah.
00:26:14I'm not bad.
00:26:15Mm-hmm.
00:26:216'2", huh?
00:26:23Hey, I'm 6'1", 1⁄2".
00:26:25You don't have to lie with me.
00:26:27Anything over 5'8 is a win.
00:26:29Exactly.
00:26:29You don't have to lie with me.
00:26:58for a true connection like i really want to find someone um a husband you know um someone to love
00:27:06and that truly loves me i actually like lavender you do yeah coming here i found two amazing guys
00:27:14that you know i really connected with and like i just have a lot to figure out i i just
00:27:21i don't
00:27:21know i just really don't know what to do ladies first okay yeah yeah okay my connection with vanell
00:27:27so far has been really great we have really good strong kind of uh chemistry it's not common to like
00:27:34really have somebody that you meet you kind of connect with on all those levels and that quickly
00:27:40um so i would ask vanell to go to the promise room today i would um i don't know that
00:27:47she
00:27:47necessarily feels the same way about me but the truth is that is how i feel about her
00:28:00tell me about yesterday oh my date yeah we went for his bathing and stuff yeah not really my vibe
00:28:08but
00:28:08i got to have a conversation with jorge yeah but now i also like someone else too and i'm just
00:28:16not used
00:28:16to like being in that position yeah like dating multiple people at once or opening up myself to
00:28:22dating multiple people but like this experience you know forces you to do that yeah yeah who do you
00:28:28feel like you have more chemistry with you guys are just so different we are so different um
00:28:35um i think i have chemistry with you yeah um a different kind of chemistry with jorge yeah it's just
00:28:44different i know it's just yeah
00:28:50i'm not gonna lie a lot of the time i was thinking about jorge and i don't know i just
00:28:58am
00:29:02i think today i kind of got the clarity that i was wanting and it's more of just like a
00:29:08feeling like
00:29:09when i was with jorge yesterday on our date i was more like getting like nervous
00:29:14and today with justin it was more of like i didn't really feel that
00:29:23anything else you think about no
00:29:31you sure
00:29:34i feel like those wheels are turning up there
00:29:39i don't know
00:29:40i just don't want to make anyone hot
00:29:44just she's such a good guy
00:29:49and it just like
00:29:52he's just he just has such a pure heart and i just don't want to like upset him or like
00:29:58break his
00:29:59heart or i just feel bad
00:30:06what do you worry about um
00:30:12i don't know i guess i just like worry that like
00:30:17maybe we're just not a good match
00:30:24okay
00:30:27it's a little bit
00:30:30bittersweet i guess because it's like you've been i've been through this before where you connect with
00:30:35somebody like on a visceral level and then something comes in between you and um yeah it's part of
00:30:43dating
00:30:56just because i was her first connection doesn't mean that i was her best connection
00:31:03i really hope jorge sees the same kind of beauty and perspective in her that i see in her
00:31:11because i know that she deserves that i don't know that i know what the rest of my life will
00:31:17look
00:31:17like but i am still open to finding like my person and i hope that they're out there
00:31:23uh that's the goal for me
00:31:33so how'd you sleep how do you feel it was pretty good yeah the cold plunge and the hot tub
00:31:38it felt
00:31:38really good so brave action yeah for sure since the spa date i've just been feeling really like
00:31:45icky as soon as the kiss happened i was like what am i doing like this is not me at
00:31:51all
00:31:52like i felt like i moved way too fast and then it just didn't feel right to me afterwards it
00:31:58just
00:31:58made me take like a big step back and like rethink what i was doing the last thing you said
00:32:04to me it
00:32:05was like honesty it's about honesty honesty like do this journey let's just keep that word in mind you
00:32:10know 100 you know if there are other people you want to explore dates with like i wouldn't be upset
00:32:15like i want you to like have this experience like a whole experience for you and i don't want you
00:32:20to
00:32:20feel like likewise yeah part of that is what we're here for and no matter what comes out of this
00:32:24i
00:32:24appreciated that i appreciate this it's like yeah that's priceless honestly right every guy that i
00:32:30date has been a love bomber and immediately just throws everything into it acts like everything's so
00:32:36great and i'm so perfect and everything's right and so the fact that like everything with chris happened
00:32:41so fast so touchy-feely and everything there was something in my brain that was like warning warning
00:32:46like this is not good this is not healthy so at this point i'm feeling like you know chris really
00:32:53isn't the one i didn't want to be disrespectful to you or your time so i'm glad that it was
00:32:59well
00:32:59well received so i'm glad we had our time honestly i had a great time getting to know vanessa
00:33:05but i would love to get to know other girls while i'm here because i feel like i would
00:33:10regret not doing that and i'll be happy for her as well if she ends up with somebody else here
00:33:14and
00:33:14actually finds love
00:33:26i think that we should spin back on our conversation i know you were kind of asking about like the
00:33:31more
00:33:31serious serious side of you yeah i want to see that side yeah and i know that like it might
00:33:38come
00:33:38off as just kind of all funny and like silly you don't want to put yourself out there that much
00:33:43and
00:33:44like possibly get hurt yeah that yeah there we go i get it yeah yeah so how's relationship was said
00:33:51um
00:33:52mother of your children um it's amazing honestly you guys kiss we kiss like really good like it's
00:34:03really amazing i mean at one point maybe we did but no that's kind of how the kids are made
00:34:08yeah that is how kids are made yeah oh my god oh god it made me blush like a little
00:34:17bit made me a
00:34:18little uncomfortable there i'm just kidding i'm sorry i have no worries yeah all right well let me ask
00:34:24you this you know my daughters are like 14 and 12 so like my life is very established in baltimore
00:34:32like it just is like my business is there my kids are there you know say we continue this like
00:34:39do you see yourself in a long-distance relationship do you see yourself possibly like relocating if
00:34:46you know things went that far yeah well um i think i'm somebody who like when i like somebody i
00:34:53go all
00:34:53in and honestly i am catching a little bit of real feelings for you and there's a there's a five
00:35:00okay
00:35:00fly fly fly fly help help help i'm so such an outdoorsy man yeah i've heard that before with
00:35:07your man that's the second time i saved your life i think we're on like four now yeah according to
00:35:12you
00:35:12at least yes every time we spend a little bit more time together i'm seeing there's much more to her
00:35:20than i thought i mean i'm looking for a ride or die and i think honestly after tonight i want
00:35:27to see
00:35:27where it goes i haven't really felt like this in a while about anyone and i guess i don't mind
00:35:57i came here looking for
00:36:01a different way of dating luckily for me like i'm sitting in a position where like i have made a
00:36:08connection and i'm looking to like build on that can we make it now i see the day i want
00:36:16this to last
00:36:17forever i go wherever you i want to take libby to the promise room because i want to continue to
00:36:23commit to this connection that i have with her she keeps me a little off balance and somehow i just
00:36:31i find myself wanting more of that for me having two daughters you know i'm not making that commitment
00:36:41with anyone if i can't see them possibly being in my daughter's lives
00:36:45hey hey hey hey i would say libby's definitely in her 20s there's just this energy about her that's
00:36:55like hard to ignore i feel nervous overall because there's a level of commitment to it that is
00:37:09really serious but i could potentially genuinely see a future with andrew because i think that he
00:37:15has a lot of qualities that resemble things that i'm looking for in a future partner i think that he
00:37:21accepts those parts of myself that i sometimes feel insecure about initially when i learned that
00:37:29andrew had kids i was extremely thrown off my fear is that our lives are just too different and we're
00:37:35going in different paths but i'm trying to be open-minded through this whole experience
00:37:41i'm nervous for andrew to find out my age because i think that it's possible he thinks i'm a little
00:37:46older than i am i don't know if he thinks realistically after hearing my age that i'm somebody who could
00:37:53be a serious potential partner for him surprise hey
00:38:14hey thanks you look handsome
00:38:25okay so i came here because my life back home definitely felt like it was a little bit at a
00:38:36standstill so i wanted to take a different approach i wanted to be a little bit more intentional
00:38:44with finding a connection with someone and from the moment i sat down across from you i knew i was
00:38:52in
00:38:52trouble you bring out a side of me that's typically more introverted and it just leaves me wanting more
00:39:03so i know that you know i have two kids one's 14 and one is 12 and it's just very
00:39:11important for me to be able to
00:39:13be with someone where i can merge my entire life and i'm just hoping that that's something you will be
00:39:20open to growing into
00:39:24at some point i've never been scared of the fact that you had kids and honestly that was one of
00:39:30the
00:39:30things that i liked about you it made me take you more seriously so it doesn't bother me and you
00:39:35chose
00:39:36to be here even though i was kind of hard to get through too at some times a little bit
00:39:41and i'm excited for the rest that's to come
00:39:49oh my gosh you're asking me to marry you i am oh this is crazy right
00:39:59you're so you're so nervous i know you're okay i'm typically not nervous yeah big commitment it is a big
00:40:06commitment will you commit to me i will yay
00:40:15good job okay well i feel like there's only one more thing for us to do um
00:40:28i am 38 years young
00:40:34don't know if i was expecting 38. definitely a little shocked no i i thought you were younger like
00:40:42i thought you were a lot younger but um it's gonna be okay are you scared i'm a little nervous
00:40:52okay i am
00:41:15i feel like you've shown me enough that you know despite the age gap um i've seen another
00:41:24other side of you that is more serious and if you're all in on this and you didn't run when
00:41:32you hurt my age i'm not going to either so don't they say that age is just a number it's
00:41:37just a number
00:41:38yeah so we're good
00:41:48i'm feeling shocked
00:41:55i've dated younger women before but this is definitely the biggest age gap and yeah i mean
00:42:02it makes me nervous i am a little shocked about andrew's age honestly don't know what i was thinking
00:42:08it was but i don't think i thought it was 38. i didn't think i would ever be with somebody
00:42:1816 years
00:42:19older than me
00:42:20when i was 22 yeah my life was was crazy um i definitely wasn't ready to be fully committed to
00:42:34someone i don't think i feel like if i think about it too much i'm gonna get in my head
00:42:38like
00:42:39you know can she meet me where i'm at in life can i meet her where she's at in life
00:42:44but
00:42:46i'm already in it there's no turning back
00:42:58so i told you what it was like for me growing up yeah what was it like for you did
00:43:03you did you play
00:43:04outside did they have outside i did but like i was an only child so i was always begging my
00:43:09dad to like
00:43:10to play with yeah like when he was working you know did you have neighbor kids to play with i
00:43:15did
00:43:15but we moved when i was about seven or eight so after that yeah i was kind of by myself
00:43:20yeah you
00:43:21know i came here wanting to find somebody find a connection in the past i'm notorious for running
00:43:28away from something when it gets serious and i want a real relationship that's not something
00:43:33you know i've had in a while oh i like this this is so pretty it is it's gorgeous all
00:43:38right we gotta walk
00:43:38stop in the middle and look down i want to find love everybody in my family is married everybody
00:43:51has a partner um two years ago my mom was diagnosed with cancer
00:44:01we recently just lost her and just watching my dad like be there for her
00:44:06and just how much he loved her it just made me realize like i'm alone and it's time for me
00:44:11to find
00:44:12my person i wish i had like a penny or something to make a wish in here
00:44:23i wish that vanessa likes me there we go yeah initially i connected with chris but it wasn't
00:44:31something that was like really meaningful and not gonna settle honestly i feel like logan is
00:44:38really a gentleman like i could see some potential here it's so cute yeah it's nice vanessa and i had
00:44:44a really good conversation and i'm excited to continue to get to know her more i feel like we have
00:44:49a
00:44:49connection there's no question about it i've been meaning to ask where you're from because your eyes
00:45:08are just so exotic uh incredible looking honestly i'm from bakersfield california i mean there's just
00:45:13something like i said when they asked me like what's your type and i said eyes so many times me
00:45:17too yeah me and vanessa had a connection but that ended very quickly so leah with her beautiful smile
00:45:24just walked up to me and she's somebody that i've been wanting to get to know from the beginning but
00:45:30we
00:45:30didn't have really any time to have a serious conversation where do you live i live in miami
00:45:36you're in my name too yeah yeah yeah well i mean my background is lebanese my mom and my mom
00:45:41was born
00:45:41haiti actually i'm ready for something exciting and something i haven't had yet which is love
00:45:48i want the right person who wants me and chooses me because it sucks not finding somebody
00:45:55like when i first had the first like go around first of all it was disappointing we didn't get
00:45:59to talk i know because i was like and i was like oh well there he goes and i was
00:46:03like one day
00:46:04but here we are so that's cool chris is the guy that i would want to approach me and i'm
00:46:10like
00:46:10really surprised and happy that i finally connecting with someone so i'm super hopeful
00:46:15that i'm oof let's pray let's pray that he's ready because i am
00:46:34how have you been i've been good i think i've just
00:46:39obviously like our last conversation i told you that i had another connection here
00:46:43mm-hmm and i was just like needing clarity and yesterday i went on a date with him and you
00:46:50not
00:46:50being there just made me realize how much i like you i think for the remainder of this process like
00:46:56i just want to continue this with you god hey are we onto something i don't know but are you
00:47:07my ride
00:47:07that i i want to be i'm really clear on banal i think that she and i have an insane
00:47:15connection
00:47:16it's difficult to actually find someone you really connect with but i feel somewhat anxious to tell
00:47:23it my age because i've experienced in the past where the age came up and she was like oh no
00:47:29i i can't
00:47:30date that's like dating someone that's close to my dad's age so i hope she'll be accepting of it
00:47:36i really do so what do you say so if you want to pursue it then i mean i do
00:47:41i do too all right there
00:47:46Jorge just makes me feel seen like he accepts me for who i am and i love him
00:47:57i love the person he is for who he is
00:48:06honestly like dating him like i could tell he is older than me
00:48:09um i would think that he's probably like in his 40s but my dad told me that he doesn't want
00:48:18me to
00:48:18get married to anyone 10 years older than me so the 40s need to be pushing it
00:48:22i'm ready to show you my cards and chase all the stars that we see
00:48:42this definitely is a big day for me i want to take jorge to the promise room because
00:48:50i see a future with him i can't put into words like the chemistry we have it's just a feeling
00:49:06jorge makes me excited he makes me happy he's just a man like a man i just looked like
00:49:15i was gonna say that i'm sorry i really like i really like being around him that's the second
00:49:21time i've done that oh my gosh okay stop
00:49:27i'm nervous about learning his age i don't know if i could move forward with him in these over late
00:49:3240s
00:49:35that's just a huge age gap huge um and my family would freak out
00:49:45i am a little bit nervous because well actually i have some things on my heart i want to talk
00:49:52to
00:49:52jorge about i would potentially have to walk away from really wanting to be with jorge if our
00:49:58conversation doesn't go well i am preparing myself for the worst a little bit because i just don't
00:50:07know how he would react it would be literally heartbreaking to walk away from jorge
00:50:15oh my god i really like him we made him wee a little more than kids
00:50:25vanilla is truly a genuine interesting intriguing woman who i'm enamored with
00:50:32a quiet world and you'd have me believe it's like been so many different things in a brief
00:50:41amount of time that i've been attracted to i want to find out more i want to continue down that
00:50:47road
00:50:47i haven't felt connected to a woman in quite some time and i'll be damned if i lose control
00:50:54it would suck if vanell was affected by my age because that would be the end of the connection
00:50:59right so it would suck that we can't pursue it further and find out more and see if this is
00:51:04really what we both believe it is i'm a little bit nervous with that
00:51:12but ultimately if it bothers her then it wasn't meant to be right it's the way it goes
00:51:21what will be will be that's never made much sense to me and i'll be damned if i lose control
00:51:34how are you i'm nervous don't be come here
00:51:47so coming into this experience
00:51:51i wanted to find a genuine connection
00:51:56and coming to this i wanted to find a potential husband and since meeting you
00:52:07i feel like i found that i didn't think that i would find a connection this deep with you
00:52:16with you i feel safe i feel cared for i feel protected i feel respected and i like that you
00:52:26are yourself
00:52:28with whoever you're interacting with
00:52:36you're doing good yeah um coming to this experience i was hopeful but still like nah
00:52:43santa claus not gonna happen you know but hopefully that i could find you know the woman that i wanted
00:52:49to be in my life you know and that means a lot to me and that's it's not easy as
00:52:53you know it's not easy at
00:52:55all it works well with us because your quiet confidence and energy cool me out because i'm on
00:53:0110. you know that you've seen how i am and so i need that i really need that and want
00:53:07that in my life
00:53:08it is what it is you know when you know yeah you know thank you for that but i do
00:53:12have something on
00:53:13my heart that i have been wanting to tell you okay
00:53:20um so you know faith is really important to me and honoring god in every way i can is really
00:53:26important
00:53:26to me
00:53:31one of the ways i have made a promise to god is to honor god with my celibacy i've been
00:53:38celibate for
00:53:39almost two years now and i didn't make a promise to wait till marriage and i think in my past
00:53:45relationships when it came to my faith i've been very wavering with that and i'm at a point in my
00:53:51life where i'm no longer doing that so i need someone that understands how important that is to
00:53:58me and that wants to walk on that journey with me
00:54:04so i just need to know like what you think about that
00:54:14well first off i'm not i see you're getting nervous about it yeah and there's no need to be
00:54:19nervous about it because if that's what you're feeling and if that's what is important to you
00:54:24you don't have to be nervous you can say it with your chest you can say it with like you
00:54:27mean it
00:54:27because that's what you mean right um is that something that i've done or is that something that
00:54:33i've actually actively practiced no i haven't is it something that i would respect with you of course
00:54:38i'll respect it with you um i'm not gonna back off of you now after we've gotten to this place
00:54:45because you say that that's not that doesn't scare me you know it doesn't make me i'm i'm a grown
00:54:50ass
00:54:50man you know what i'm saying come on i'm not afraid of that no it's okay no that makes that
00:54:57makes me
00:54:57really happy i think also something else i wanted to talk about is like i don't know if you
00:55:07have kids if you want kids like you want to know if i want kids yes but i'm not gonna
00:55:14have kids outside
00:55:15of a marriage that's not gonna happen that's not gonna happen so if i'm gonna have a child with
00:55:21someone we have to be in a marriage that's not gonna break up i'm not willing to have no baby
00:55:26mamas
00:55:26no i'm not having that so that's not gonna happen but to answer your question yes i wouldn't mind
00:55:31having kids if you're my wife well then that's what we're talking about so yes the answer is yes
00:55:38any more questions get them out no that's that's all i pretty much have you sure i'm excited too
00:55:48now's the time i don't know i'm just really happy that i found you in this experience like really like
00:55:56i feel like if i'm being really honest like maybe i was meant to come here to meet someone like
00:56:02you like you have really made this experience just so amazing for me um thank you are you not
00:56:12nervous anymore no you calm me down so fast that's what it's supposed to be yeah so now we're here
00:56:19in
00:56:19this promise room we're here in this promise room and you need to know my age
00:56:27but hold up so are we making that commitment
00:56:33i choose to yes you choose to i choose to as well so i'm gonna put it on first because
00:56:39i think i think
00:56:40that's the is the one that i have waited all my life for okay
00:56:48does anything about you finding out my age scare you i guess you're gonna tell me now yes i am
00:56:56mm-hmm i'm 27. what you're 27. uh man whoo okay yeah i'm you know it's a this is the
00:57:12way god's
00:57:13testing my words like okay it's not nothing but a number okay it doesn't bank me back off of you
00:57:17okay
00:57:18so you ready for mine because i don't know if you're ready for this i am i really don't know
00:57:24if you're ready for this one you ready
00:57:29in 60.
00:57:36i'm too far gone
00:57:40there's no way back
00:57:43i'm caught in the ecstasy
00:57:48there's no way back
00:57:52i don't know how i can face everybody now every time i try i just mess up something inside me
00:58:01knows that i
00:58:02need something different
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