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00:04i'm nervous i'm gonna take it one step at a time i'm absolutely petrified 12 virgins are traveling
00:12to a unique island retreat that could change their lives forever this is maybe the strangest day of
00:20my life being a virgin at the age of 22 feels very lonely i've just sort of given up all
00:26hope
00:28in a world saturated with sex more young adults than ever are caught in an intimacy epidemic
00:35the thought of having sex with someone scares me it gives me the ick i don't feel confident i'm
00:40missing out terrified of the thought of it nerve-wracking gut-wrenching embarrassing
00:45all i think about is what i'm going to get wrong can you point to the outer labia nope
00:53now oh my god they're getting a crash course in intimacy social media porn dating apps there are
01:03so many negative messages and we can help them blossom use it by stimulating the area guided by
01:09a team of experts you see yourself as proposal they'll confront their insecurities i'm hiding
01:16how upset actually do you feel exploring intimacy in every form yes yes good and maybe
01:29have sex with a trained therapist desperate times call for desperate measures
01:35or even one another why are you nervous around me i don't know it's so good
01:40i really do need to change my life the question is get a room guys who will finally be ready
01:49just like get a bit anxious to go all the way touching the hoop on virgin island
02:02in the first phase of the course shame really interrupts pleasure the group confronted their shame
02:11there you have excellent bertie made small steps forward what do you think
02:16but witnessing intimacy stared up jerry's feelings of religious shame i literally thought that god
02:23cursed me with vaginismus to stop me from having sex and alex revealed the extent of his anxiety
02:30penny for your thoughts the main overriding thing is still that worry of not getting an erection
02:37the phase ended for me shame is feeling ugly sorry with the group letting their shame
02:44let it go let it go go up in flames now things are set to escalate imagine that your cock
02:54is going
02:55inside my vagina with the second phase of the course good turn-ons in society a lot of people feel
03:03ashamed
03:03to talk about sex it can be very embarrassing take a moment to look at your vulva but to have
03:10a really
03:10fulfilling sex life you have to know what turns you on good morning morning it's the morning of day
03:26three on virgin island oh here we go then and time for the group to discover what's in store over
03:34the
03:34next two days the next phase is turn-ons i think turn-ons might involve a lot of dirty talk
03:42it is
03:42quite a step up from hugging and stroking people's arms talking about like what turns you on is a
03:47private thing but i guess nothing is private on this island good morning morning i'm feeling nervous
03:57and tense over this it's going to be a very big challenge turn-ons guys your aim is to find
04:05everyone's turn-ons thing is i know all my turn-ons but talking about it feels quite daunting if one
04:14of
04:14the guys gets a boner like they're going to be like we're so proud of you i'm very nervous it
04:21just all
04:22feels like something i'm not allowed to think about like oh my gosh no no no no no
04:31you ready to know your turn-ons no do you know your turn-ons harry stars
04:37the group may be sexual beginners hi but celeste and danielle want them to imagine they're experts
04:45and embrace their turn-ons people get really confused they're like what turns me on is it
04:54positions or do i need to buy a new toy but what really turns us on is the feeling that
05:01we get
05:02during sex we call this our core desires this is the cornerstone of the whole course everyone should
05:09know their core desires if you want to have an amazing sex life find out what you want to feel
05:14during
05:14sex and tell your partners for me in sex it's all about feeling very special i want to feel powerful
05:23i want to feel like they're lucky to have me and for me i really like to feel like i'm
05:30the queen
05:31people have many different feelings that they want to have during sex and all of them are beautiful we
05:35don't shame any of them so you can just lie down relax to get them in the mood danielle begins
05:45with a
05:45visualization exercise i wanted to start thinking about a fantasy that you might be having it can be
05:55something that you saw in a movie or some erotics that you read and then start noticing what is the
06:05feeling that you want to feel in that moment you might want to feel loved or precious
06:15might want to feel masterful desired
06:23whenever you're ready come back sit at the edge of your mat
06:29with their core desires in mind thank you the experts want the group to write them down on a stone
06:36and share with each other
06:55okay so who feel like they're ready to come up
07:01i'm going to go great wonderful
07:03for joy her desires have always been complicated
07:07when i was in year seven and eight i thought it wasn't okay to be gay um
07:13i spoke to a church pastor when he started going on a rant
07:17about gay people being really sexual and slutty and promiscuous
07:20and i realized myself that i was bisexual
07:25but sex with a woman is like a undiscovered landscape i do feel a bit guilty for wanting to explore
07:35so i put uh cherished um revered uh lost in the moment free and ultimately ravished
07:46yay that's my girl
07:51as others step up i'll do it some themes emerge for me i think the most important thing is to
07:57feel
07:57wanted feeling wanted i've put wanted i've mainly put wanted and appreciated are common desires i want to
08:05feel loved loved everyone wants to feel loved i've only got pampered on mine special praised and then we
08:12feel like nice have a safe space while some want to be dominated i want to feel on edge and
08:18teased
08:18dominated i feel like a little bit of a perv telling you this but yeah we love pervs we love
08:27so far only 24 year old bertie hasn't stepped up
08:34i do a lot of volunteering work in charity fundraising events i'm the one to try and
08:40get a lot of rich people to give money for charity we're disappointed in it but but when it comes
08:46to
08:47you discussing you know sexual things i don't see myself as a confident player i i think turn-ons
08:58especially from the more sexual aspect should not be shared in front of everybody it should be kept
09:04as a secret between you and your partner which is why i wrote i have turn-ons but i'm not
09:11sharing
09:11them in front of everyone it should only be a secret between you and your partner that's about it really
09:30how are we all feeling i really liked it yeah i was just like oh wow this feels a bit
09:36different
09:37felt something in my nipples like as well you know what i mean oh yeah yeah like it felt a
09:41bit
09:44the turn-ons exercise may have worked for some when i go home if i'm ever in a relationship with
09:49someone i'm just gonna put it by their bedside table turn on
09:56but bertie is just not feeling it i was the only person in the group to not
10:00do it i didn't want to like say things in front of everybody you know i do kind of feel
10:05like i've been
10:06like the odd one out in the group now i feel like i've just taken a bit of a setback
10:10after that
10:12it certainly wasn't the most enjoyable workshop put it that way i felt a bit of uh uncomfortableness
10:20like everywhere really
10:24to help the group discover their turn-ons who's got the one-to-ones today mate they'll all have one
10:30-on-ones
10:31you've got a little a little okay which one's a little she's a sexological body worker island vibes
10:38ah thank you no no starting with alex who has struggled to get turned on under the pressure of
10:44intimacy sex has been a sense of anxiety for me growing up my dad was quite emotionally repressed
10:52himself we had sex education in school at year five and i talked to my dad about it and he
10:58said oh
10:58that's rude don't talk about that i then became so embarrassed to talk or think about sex whenever
11:06sex or relationships or anything came on tv i used to leave the room it's estimated that half of modern
11:16men have experienced performance anxiety to help alex sexological body worker elil plans to get physical
11:24i want to work with him on receiving touch for me and recognizing when that performance anxiety
11:30kicks in and letting me know what he needs in order to bring arousal up so hopefully the erections will
11:37come when he has a lot of pleasure hello so the idea of today is for us to do full
11:48body pleasure mapping
11:50you're going to be guiding the whole thing whenever you feel yourself starting to worry about
11:56performance you can just say like can we slow down so take your clothes off
12:04i think i'd like to keep my boxes on yeah okay pleasure mapping is an exercise where elil touches
12:11alex all over his body so we can start laying down including his genitals so alex can lie back
12:19and concentrate on pleasure that feels nice yeah
12:27i've heard three people that i would describe as as a girlfriend but i never had sex with anyone
12:36the first time i tried i had a panic attack i was so nervous i couldn't get an erection and
12:41um
12:42i then convinced myself that sex is something i guess scary or or nerve-wracking it's constantly playing
12:49on my mind is this the right speed yeah that's great
12:57very erotic so touching close to your underwear line it's almost like teasing you yeah all right
13:07you know what are you noticing getting more turned on really getting like excited
13:14it felt really nice when you're brushing past my genitals would you like me to do that yeah yeah
13:22and i love when you move like that it kind of really lets me know that you're enjoying yourself
13:42amazing amazing amazing amazing amazing i'm gonna take my hand off very slowly
13:51so did you feel me fully aroused yeah could you feel youthfully aroused yeah yeah amazing
14:01have you ever felt aroused like that with someone not like that not to the point where i'm like
14:07moving my hips and feeling tingly you are very very erect yeah you did so good thank you so much
14:15bye-bye i don't think i've ever felt that sort of level of eroticism before she's just has such a
14:20calming presence so yeah feeling really good and sort of inspires confidence going forward
14:29hey guys how did your one-on-one go good it went into genital touching and yeah that that felt
14:36really good
14:48it was really windy last night yeah like for a while i think like my tent was gonna blow away
14:54oh my god do a dorothy go to the yellow brick road celeste and danielle i've turned into a tin
14:59man and a scarecrow i'd probably be the lion because i'm the cowardly one
15:06it's the afternoon on virgin island how does that feel yeah yeah it feels good as the one-on-one
15:14sessions continue it's good you seem more open to me just baby steps the turn-on phase of the course
15:22is gathering pace may i direct you in touching my breasts yeah yes and a little more pressure okay
15:33and the group continues to open up to each other when i was at school all the boys like would
15:39walk
15:39past and be like oh you're all lesbians because you go to an all-girls school yeah when i was
15:45um like
15:4512 i remember thinking oh my gosh why has god given me so many gay friends i now have to
15:50convert all of
15:51them took me a couple years to realize that i was in fact one of them
15:57years of sexual anxiety have taken a physical toll on joy i have vaginismus this physical and
16:04psychological problem it causes pain if i can't insert a finger into my vagina you know how can i
16:11physically have sex with guidance from a lil she'll learn how to relax her body around touch we can
16:18actually practice towards penetration in a very slow process creating an alignment between what the
16:26head wants to do and what the body actually feels comfortable with hello beautiful
16:35so our attention for today is if you feel comfortable we can explore the opening of your vagina
16:42sometimes that's been hard because they all like close yeah maybe we can see it today
16:51i want you to just start by maybe putting your hands on your valva
16:57would you like to have a look where you're touching a little encourages joy to explore her body
17:03oh my gosh that's so weird can you see and in doing so change the way she feels about it
17:09take a moment
17:10to look at your valva and connect to her she's beautiful it's weird because i feel like she looks ugly
17:19when i was 12 i had this realization that i had been masturbating i went to christian camp and there
17:26was
17:27this call to come to the front for prayer for sexual sin i felt convicted like oh my gosh they're
17:33speaking about me i've i've sinned and i told my youth pastor and then she staged an intervention
17:41yeah it stuck with me it's been it's been hard to get that out of my head and now i
17:47want to be free to
17:48explore a sexual side to myself i want to enjoy my life and accept myself so what part are you
17:56curious
17:56about i think i want to just touch the outer labia can do like that you can like bring a
18:06little bit of
18:06vibration that's quite nice bit of rousing yeah yeah do you want to try it with oil yeah
18:17put it all over your vulva
18:22it does feel totally different yeah can you see your opening yeah you can see a tiny dot there yeah
18:29so that's your that's your clit oh that's so interesting the clit is like a miniature penis
18:34you will feel there's like a shaft see if you can feel the shaft okay
18:41sexological bodywork includes one-way touch can i yeah here oh allowing a lil with consent to help joy
18:52discover pleasure so how does it feel it feels really good i can feel arousal that's new
19:07awesome thank you very much for giving me this experience it's such a precious feeling
19:12very special it's like it's like she's safe she's safe she's good
19:23you got her yeah and i know what she looks like now as well
19:34hiya how was your thing um it was really good yeah it was really good she was like you need
19:42to focus
19:43on what feels good for you i think it's just like really i'm allowed i feel really good i feel
19:50really
19:50good yeah i just keep learning all these things about myself so proud to really connect with my body
19:55and so pleased that i felt like we just had this breakthrough
20:01joy has leapt forwards but not everyone is riding high bertie would you like to join us slash would you
20:07like a blanket um go on then what go on yet then to the blanket or go on then to
20:13joining us i'll see
20:14what i'll see i'll see how you feel yeah i think it's quite a chill convert at the moment yeah
20:18i'll see
20:18what i can do lovely lovely to talk to you nice to talk to you i can socialize don't worry
20:24i know you can
20:24i'm just inviting you to i'll see
20:41hear the clipboards it's late afternoon this questionnaire is multiple choice please choose
20:49all that apply to help the group explore the type of person that turns them on i've brought boobs
20:56the experts have handed out a list of questions body hair i like my girls with a full beard mate
21:05face shape i've never thought about this what's mine are you calling me a square head
21:12i don't think the color of hair or the color of eyes matter as long as the hair looks presentable
21:22great hygiene yeah clean hands clean nails and they've got to have i'm going to put banter
21:31you know you put a banter for marianne the questionnaire proves revealing
21:38a deal first date setting i just want to go hiking and then have a picnic somewhere but
21:45then i don't really necessarily want to be alone with a guy hiking on the first date yeah it depends
21:49on how safe i feel you know a lot goes on in my head all the time because i was
21:57diagnosed with adhd
21:58when i was about four and there's just a lot of emotions like i'm never not thinking about safety
22:04like when people do one night stands in my head i'm like xyz could go wrong how are you going
22:09to an
22:09unknown place with this my brain goes sort of into overdrive i don't trust men all right we're done
22:18dusted high five cool yeah i know it is me but i don't know how to move forward
22:28marianne is very much in her head she's trying to manage her boundaries so she won't get hurt
22:38and in that way she's holding herself back from fully experiencing life
22:44good to see you danielle wants to try and help marianne confront her barriers
22:51what do you want for yourself in the retreat when it comes to sort of entity i always just have
22:57i'm just my first thought is just safety so a lot of what you're trying to do now is really
23:02like
23:03keep yourself in check if like it just feels like i'm all alone and i have to put up a
23:11guard
23:12i'm just saying sort of no to everything and i think my yourself feels quite sad that i'm still stuck
23:28that feeling
23:28i i feel like i had a lot of issues growing up in south africa in school i was one
23:33of three
23:33mixed-race girls and we didn't really know how to fit in because we weren't like black enough for the
23:38black guys white enough for the white guys i get viewed as this exotic thing sweetheart it's okay if
23:46put my hand on my hair it has been sort of like a competition of guys they would never be
23:52in a
23:52relationship with us but they just want to like get our clothes off and so it's really really hard for
23:57me to like trust men i just feel yeah that i'm missing out on things and i can't divert differentiate
24:07like what's actual fear and what's just like protection yeah can i please have a hug oh i would love
24:16to
24:20marianne needs to learn to trust that men don't necessarily wanna take advantage of her
24:26and working with men to deal with all those issues that's her biggest challenge on the island
24:43thank you so much my pleasure
24:47i knew i was gonna be emotional but everything sort of hit me
24:58it was nice to have this session because like i can just think more clearly about what's to come
25:05but that's quite daunting
25:21morning morning
25:25another day begins on virgin island
25:34and it's the turn-ons phase of the course
25:40this phase is pretty intimidating i always thought myself as dead playful dead flirty
25:47but i started being really sheltered so i do feel like i've got a lot to learn
25:53i personally feel a bit deflated a bit dejected i'm lacking behind i know it's a marathon and not a
26:02sprint but some people are running i'm trudging the phase is exposing deep-seated fears
26:14when it comes to younger people around intimacy and touch there's just a lot more self-consciousness
26:20a lot of people are afraid you know oh maybe i'm gonna get cancelled or cross a boundary
26:25nowadays there is a lot of risk in saying the wrong thing like if i make a weird stupid mistake
26:30talking to a girl that's that's done in it i don't want to do something wrong i don't want to
26:35do things too fast or too slow if i do come across as a creep in any way shape or
26:40form i don't mean to
26:42i'm so scared of the thought of that happening what do you think we're gonna do i have no idea
26:48having already worked on discovering their turn-ons oh this is so scary
26:55celeste and danielle now want the group to feel it in their bodies
26:59this is a really safe place that we can practice touching all over each other's bodies
27:05this exercise can definitely get people aroused and frankly i hope it does
27:14okay one of the things that really gets in the way of us feeling our turn-ons is inhibition and
27:21today's workshop is all about letting out your inner animal
27:30so we're going to do a little demo then you'll get a chance to practice with each other
27:35sex doesn't have to be this thing that is very curated it can be animalistic and fun animal game
27:42you don't need much to be good at it it's more about connecting with your own impulses and unleashing
27:48your inner animal
27:53there's another animal just next to you
27:58you can smell
28:04uh
28:15uh
28:16uh
28:18uh
28:22Oh.
28:30Oh.
28:32Oh.
28:33Oh.
28:34Oh.
28:38Lovegasm.
28:45Okay.
28:47I'm looking for a brave volunteer.
28:55Purdue, I've got an injured foot.
28:58I know it sounds like a lame excuse, but with, like, my foot and everything, it's...
29:01No.
29:02Okay. Anyone else?
29:04Can I do it with you, Marianne?
29:05Yeah. I'm going to go with Marianne.
29:07Great. Wonderful.
29:10Joy takes the opportunity to practise with a woman.
29:15So just take some nice, deep breaths in and out.
29:22When you feel ready, start exploring each other with your hands.
29:32Good. I love the way you're staying with the sensation and with your own bodies.
29:52And how was that for you?
29:54Marianne made me feel very safe.
29:56Same. It was very fun.
30:00As more of the group step up...
30:03Just follow what your body wants to do.
30:08..their animal instincts start to emerge.
30:13Touching and sensing.
30:20Woo-hoo!
30:24Anyone else?
30:28Yes.
30:29Fuck it.
30:29Yes, Bertie.
30:30Yay!
30:32Up until now, Bertie keeps holding back.
30:35If I don't do it now, I'll regret it later.
30:38I think this is the worst time to be a young adult.
30:43Because if you're someone like me who struggles with approaching and talking to women, it's near impossible.
30:50Right.
30:52I constantly think about what I could do wrong rather than what I could do right.
30:58But I have to do this because I want to improve my life.
31:05Start noticing that there's an animal inside you and you can rub against them.
31:14Mmm.
31:16I can hold.
31:19Are you okay?
31:20I'm good, yeah.
31:20Yeah?
31:21You sure?
31:22Yeah, I'm fine.
31:23You're getting comfy physically.
31:24Yeah.
31:27Mmm.
31:31That's okay.
31:33Yeah?
31:34Let yourself feel how good it feels.
31:48I think we're done.
31:49Yeah, me too.
31:50Yeah?
31:50Yeah.
31:54Amazing.
31:54You want to share a little bit?
31:56I was a bit apprehensive about doing it at first.
31:58I mean, I thought you were doing a good job.
31:59It just all felt natural and not really nice.
32:01You've got nice hair to touch as well.
32:03All that wax has come in handy.
32:05That's what it is.
32:10There we go.
32:12Well done to you.
32:20So, how was that?
32:23I was still in that, like, ooh, frisky mood, let's say.
32:27And I was like, okay, so I'm going to just have to calm myself back down
32:29and start from Bertie's level.
32:32All right, Bertie.
32:33Hello.
32:34How did you find it?
32:35Good, good.
32:36You had the right amount of pressure on me that I like.
32:38It felt so natural and I was like, this is...
32:41Yeah.
32:43To say this is one of the bravest things I've done would be the
32:45understatement of the millennium.
32:48This isn't peer pressure or anything like that.
32:51I just feel like I kind of have to participate
32:54because if I am going on this island to be the same old person
32:59that I was for all my life, what am I doing here?
33:05As the course is going on, I can see people learning and changing.
33:09Everybody's trying new things, but for some people,
33:12therapy is very slow and totally goes at the pace of the client.
33:20BUZZER
33:22Bertie may be working things out,
33:24but discovering turn-ons for some is slow progress.
33:28Guys, do you like hairy vaginas?
33:31I actually don't care.
33:33Yeah.
33:34Each to their own.
33:35And it starts coming out of their nickel line and you're like,
33:37oh, God, you need to shave.
33:39Oh, no.
33:40I don't really look after myself very much, but...
33:43No-one's seeing it, so...
33:45After this, that won't be true.
33:50Intimacy is challenging for everyone on the island,
33:53but for 21-year-old Callum, it's also linked to tragedy.
33:57My dad passed away two years ago.
34:01He was an alcoholic.
34:06I don't really know how to respond to it.
34:10I'm living on my own in his house where he used to live
34:13and probably spend...
34:16It's probably about 16 hours a day gaming.
34:19..I suppose it is a way to escape everything in the world.
34:24I struggle to meet people in person.
34:26It makes me feel...
34:28..alone.
34:33The experts want Callum to tackle his grief.
34:37Hi. Hello.
34:38..with clinical therapist Abbey.
34:44Are there times in your life where you felt uncomfortable
34:47talking about these things?
34:48Yeah, I think so.
34:50I'm never really honest or open.
34:52I think it was when my dad passed
34:54that I really started to notice a lot of the stuff about myself.
34:57Talk to me a little bit about that.
35:01I really punished myself about everything.
35:04Yeah, he got admitted to hospital because he'd fallen.
35:07He was on the floor for two days and he couldn't get up.
35:10He couldn't reach his phone to tell anyone.
35:12Yeah.
35:13And the next day, being told that, you know,
35:16he's not got long left to live, so...
35:19He died within two weeks.
35:20Yeah.
35:21He got...
35:22It's okay.
35:25Liver cirrhosis.
35:26Talk about the feeling that comes up around that.
35:28I still feel like I...
35:30I failed him.
35:31That's not...
35:32It's not for you to take on.
35:38Is it reasonable for you to take responsibility of that?
35:41Maybe not.
35:44What are the thoughts running in your head?
35:49Regret.
35:50Yeah.
35:55I just want to make him proud and not flatten his name.
36:02You're making him proud.
36:11It's really emotional because a lot of it is shit, basically, that I hate dealing with,
36:17but I've never really had that emotional response.
36:20And I spoke properly with someone who understands it, and it's kind of a fuzzy feeling.
36:26I just feel...
36:28I feel like I'm a little off steam.
36:29I want to run around.
36:36Hello.
36:37Hello.
36:38Hello.
36:38How did it go?
36:39Very emotional.
36:41Looking at shit from a different angle, I suppose.
36:43Do you feel good that it's been light off your chest?
36:46Mm.
36:47Tell you what, though, it's so hot in the teepee.
36:49I sweated it all out, so...
36:51It wasn't tears, it was just sweat coming at your eyes.
36:54Yeah, yeah, yeah.
36:55You weren't tears, no.
37:06Are you going to bomb it in?
37:08Yeah, yeah, yeah.
37:09It's late afternoon.
37:11We just, like, glided in.
37:13And many of the group are embracing island life.
37:17To be a man, eh?
37:19Get your hair wet and just, like, come out and be fine.
37:21Yeah, yeah.
37:21Not need to moisturise.
37:23Not need to, like, shower.
37:25Well, I think men need showers.
37:27I hope.
37:28I hope they shower.
37:30As some take a dip, the experts have decided it's time for others
37:35to immerse themselves in the retreat's most advanced therapy,
37:39undertaken by three specialists.
37:42Surrogate partner therapy works with the surrogate partner
37:45and the client, practising with everything from different kinds
37:48of touch, through genital touching, oral sex, or even intercourse,
37:53so that people can practise the full range of sexual experiences.
37:57First is 35-year-old Ellen.
38:00Hello.
38:01Hello.
38:01Hello.
38:03While all surrogate partner therapy is supported by clinical therapist Abby...
38:07What I do is therapeutic emotional discussion.
38:11Kat will be Ellen's surrogate partner therapist.
38:14So I do the relationship side.
38:17Doing touch work and relational work is, like, completely led by you.
38:21OK.
38:21And hands are, like, really important in lesbian sex.
38:25Yeah.
38:27Meanwhile, Tegan will work with surrogate partner therapist Rizden.
38:30And notice the sensation of me touching you.
38:38How did that feel?
38:39It felt good. It felt really nice.
38:41OK, great.
38:42But before Marianne can consider a surrogate relationship,
38:46she first has to learn to trust men.
38:50It gets to a point where I need to feel the energy,
38:52you can feel they want more, and I can't cross the boundary.
38:55Just can't.
38:56My brain just gets stuck.
38:58I really want to challenge myself.
39:00I want to do it with a guy and see how I feel.
39:06Trust is everything.
39:08Out of all my friends, I'm the only virgin.
39:09And I do feel lonely.
39:12But I do want to be in a relationship with someone.
39:15If I haven't figured it out by 26 years,
39:18then clearly I do need some help.
39:21First step for Marianne...
39:23Hello.
39:25..is simply being comfortable in the same room
39:27as potential surrogate partner Andre.
39:31How are you feeling now?
39:33A little bit anxious in my stomach.
39:35And that's just because of unknowns and things.
39:39Yeah.
39:40Working with Marianne, it's very important that we start slowly
39:44to build the trust in myself.
39:47I'm going to be moving around the room
39:49and going to be noticing how your body is reacting to where I am.
39:55The idea is just to learn how someone being close to you
39:58can potentially feel.
40:00Yeah.
40:02Okay, so go ahead and close your eyes.
40:11And so I've moved.
40:12You might feel I'm further away.
40:19See if there's any noticeable change in sensation.
40:27Growing up, I really never saw how a relationship should be.
40:33My dad just wasn't there.
40:36And seven, eight years ago, I found out I had a new horse sister.
40:39My dad was sort of collecting mini-families.
40:44Yeah.
40:47Just noticing what's happening in your body.
40:51So anything that reminds me of my dad, you're instantly vetoed.
40:54Trust-wise, I'm very sceptical.
41:00What was, like, kind of going on in your head?
41:02By the end, I liked it.
41:06Hmm.
41:07It just felt warm by the end.
41:10I felt, if I'm being honest, more sort of turned on
41:13with the second one that was there for some reason.
41:16Oh, yeah.
41:16Wonderful.
41:17Okay, great.
41:18I feel a lot more relaxed here.
41:21Good.
41:22After the exercise...
41:24What a hug.
41:25I would love a hug.
41:26Marianne is clearly calmer.
41:29It helps that you smell like salted caramel.
41:31Do I really?
41:33Yeah.
41:33It's very, like...
41:34I like that.
41:36I'm feeling a lot more reassured working with a guy.
41:40He's very lovely and I felt very relaxed.
41:44It has helped my brain not be as fearful.
41:50I'm really proud of myself.
41:55Hi.
41:56Hi, Marianne.
41:57Welcome back.
41:57How did your one-to-one go?
41:59It was good.
42:00Hell yeah.
42:01Nice to meet you.
42:02How many people can actually fit in this bed?
42:04That's a real question.
42:05Bertie, do you want to come join us in the bed?
42:07Um...
42:08Actually, please do.
42:09It's an open invitation.
42:11All right, no worries.
42:14After getting back on track earlier,
42:16the experts don't want Bertie to lose momentum again.
42:20Bertie jumped up.
42:21I thought he was going to use his foot as an excuse, but he didn't.
42:24And he was so good.
42:26He seemed so sensual.
42:28So, like, um, animalistic.
42:30It's really important that he feels successful.
42:32Yeah.
42:34When it comes to dating and sex, I just want to be able to be more confident in myself and
42:42know what I'm doing.
42:43Because the thought of me approaching a woman and asking them out, it would make them think,
42:49Oh, God, this is embarrassing.
42:52What have I done to deserve being arsed out by Bertie?
42:57To help boost his confidence...
42:59Good afternoon.
43:00Good afternoon.
43:01Celeste wants to push Bertie's boundaries.
43:05How was the workshop for you?
43:07I know I got a few things wrong, but that was the first time I didn't really feel uncomfortable.
43:11I was super proud and impressed.
43:13And I think we can use this session to just do more kinds of practices that will be helpful for
43:18you.
43:19Sounds good.
43:19To get more technique together.
43:21It's good to try to brush my teeth, then.
43:27Celeste starts.
43:28So try to, like, lay me back.
43:30Like this?
43:31Yeah, exactly.
43:33Simulating the missionary position.
43:35How am I going to do this?
43:36It'll be awkward at first.
43:37Yeah.
43:38So don't worry about that, okay?
43:39Okay.
43:40Teaching Bertie the basics.
43:42And then you want to line up so that your dick is connected to my pussy.
43:47Oh, God.
43:48Okay.
43:48Okay.
43:50Right.
43:50Right.
43:51Like this?
43:52Yeah, exactly.
43:58And you'll need to hold up some of your weight.
44:01Yeah, sorry.
44:02It's okay.
44:02And if you want me to show you what I mean, I'm happy to do that.
44:05That's fine.
44:05You can if you want to.
44:06Okay.
44:07If you lie down.
44:10Okay, so if I'm on top of you.
44:11Yeah.
44:12See how, like, I'm not all the way down here.
44:15Because it's just a little too much pressure on the chest.
44:17Yes.
44:18Yes.
44:23When you thrust, I want you to imagine that your cock is going inside my vagina.
44:28Like this.
44:28Yes, exactly.
44:30Yes.
44:30Yes.
44:31Yes.
44:33Yes.
44:34Yes.
44:34Let's try it.
44:38Then you get between my legs.
44:40Yeah.
44:41And you pull me up.
44:43Exactly.
44:44You can kind of be all the way up.
44:46Yes.
44:47Yes.
44:47Yes.
44:48Good.
44:50Yeah, like that.
44:55Thank you very much.
44:56I feel lightheaded.
44:57Oh, yes, I bet.
44:59You are an absolute miracle worker.
45:01I ain't leaving.
45:02Thank you very much.
45:03I'm just going to be rooting you on in every moment.
45:06Oh, yeah.
45:07I love you.
45:12Oh, Bertie boy.
45:14Hiya.
45:14Hello.
45:15How was it?
45:15Good.
45:16Celeste has taught me how certain sexual positions work.
45:21Wow.
45:22So, yeah.
45:24I feel very happy at the moment.
45:26It's amazing what a bit of rolling around on the floor doing different sexual positions can do to one's mentality.
45:34But I've made progress.
45:37And I'm proud of myself for that.
45:38And I'm thankful for everything that Celeste has taught me.
45:42Oh, my God.
45:47All that thrusting has made me hurt my bollocks.
45:52It's because I have to sleep on my back tonight.
45:54Christ almighty.
45:56Next time.
45:57Look at my pussy.
45:59I'm definitely a lesbian.
46:00The dating phase panics Ellen.
46:02I just don't feel like I'm good enough.
46:06Alex ups his game.
46:07Do you want to see how hard you are?
46:09And things heat up.
46:11Cheers.
46:12With island dates.
46:13I'm so nervous though.
46:14Why?
46:15I think it's because it's you.
46:23I think it's because it's you.
46:45There's a ķ“ģ¼ sized plane.äøå.
46:45I think it.
46:46We'll check now.
46:46pain. I think
46:46more questions. But I'm sure about
46:46The pain. The pain.
46:47The pain.
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