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#video #Unexpected - Season 7 Episode 11 - Co-Parenting Your Baby
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00:00Previously on Unexpected.
00:02Chris said I hope he'd get you.
00:03Oh, you're going to school.
00:04Hopefully Hunter graduates eighth grade.
00:07A lot of it is he doesn't get to see his dad anymore.
00:10Kind of all fell apart after Bella got pregnant.
00:12He said I ruined my life.
00:15Hunter just texted me and said, is Bella pregnant?
00:18Why would he text me that?
00:19How long did you wait after I want to start on the next day?
00:23I think we only waited four days.
00:26We're making dinner and milk prepping.
00:28I support my own losing weight.
00:29I just feel like I shouldn't go crazy.
00:31Jose, can you wash the baby, please?
00:34He's only working part time.
00:36Eight hours a week is not an excuse to be as unhelpful as he is.
00:39Give him to me.
00:40I need them to be able to carry the weight of being parents.
00:43And hopefully it happens before Mother's Day,
00:46because this mom is wore out.
00:48Where you been, dude?
00:49They done took her back down there.
00:52I wanted my mom back there with me, but she wasn't there.
00:55Where? What's your mom?
00:56I don't know.
00:58Her first outside experience.
01:01I do appreciate my dad for letting Jessie stay for two weeks since Oakley's here, but I still don't think
01:06it's long enough.
01:06All I ask is what kind of frisky business.
01:09Wow.
01:10Ain't no well about it.
01:11I don't really want to move out on my own, but I will if I have to.
01:16We don't want anybody to know she's here.
01:18Yes, sir.
01:18It's induction day, and I do not want any more drama from Bryce or his family.
01:22Baby might have been born already. We don't even know.
01:25Decent human beings would not inflict pain like this.
01:30She's coming back.
01:31I am so freaking pissed.
01:35Oh, she's here.
01:48She's so cute.
01:51How are you feeling, babe?
01:53Weird.
01:54Weird?
01:54Yeah.
01:56Why?
01:56Because it feels weird.
01:57What feels weird?
01:58Waking up in your house.
02:00But I can get used to it.
02:02Me too.
02:04I can get used to waking up to Jessie every day.
02:06But now that I wake up to him every day, he sweats so bad in his sleep, and he takes
02:10up the whole bed.
02:13Like, I mean the whole bed.
02:15This is our bed.
02:17And this is how he sleeps.
02:19It's terrible.
02:20Terrible.
02:26What time is the baby?
02:278.30.
02:28So I'll get up and then pump, and then get the baby ready, and pack the diaper ready.
02:33It's been a few days since we got home from the hospital, and it's been pretty good.
02:38Like, when it comes to nighttime, around 7 o'clock, somebody feeds the baby, whether it's dad, or me, or
02:44Jessie.
02:45Somebody feeds the baby, and then around 7.30, 8 o'clock, we give her a bath.
02:49And then we put her diaper on, put her brand new clothes on, and then we swatter her up all
02:53nice.
02:54And then me and Jessie take turns during the night.
02:57Jessie's been doing good.
02:58He's doing what he has to do.
02:59Hopefully, he keeps it up.
03:01But I guess we'll see sooner than later.
03:05She was awake so much last night.
03:07Like, we were all eyes open and everything.
03:09I'm ready to go to these appointments, come home, and leave her bed.
03:12Oh, my dad's calling me.
03:14Hello?
03:15Hey, you called?
03:15Yeah, I was going to say you forgot to leave the car seat, but AK's going to go get a
03:21car seat.
03:22Oh, yeah, I didn't know I was supposed to leave it.
03:25Oh, the doctor's appointment.
03:27Yeah.
03:28Oh, , man.
03:30Today's Oakley's one-week doctor's appointment.
03:33And we forgot her car seat in my dad's truck.
03:36My dad went to work at 6 o'clock in the morning.
03:39AK's on the way to get us.
03:40And I remember, oh, we don't have a car seat.
03:46Mom brain is a real thing, okay?
03:48But I'm sorry.
03:49Like, I'm tired.
03:51Your girl's tired.
03:53AK's going to go get one and then bring us to the appointment and do his...
03:57Hey, what's your mama?
03:57Ain't heard from her?
03:58No, I haven't heard from her.
04:00Yeah.
04:01Because of how big of a deal my mom made for my last doctor's appointment, I did try reaching out
04:05to her.
04:06She's a minor, and I'm her mother.
04:08She's only up to make her own decisions on who wants to bring her.
04:10You may think that, but you know what?
04:11She is a minor, and I am her mother.
04:13But she didn't respond.
04:15Sorry, babe.
04:16It's okay, Dad.
04:16I know I told you, like, yesterday morning, but, like, I forgot to remind you.
04:22Well, I would like to be involved with helping, but you have not reached out to me.
04:26Yes, I have.
04:28On days, like, we have appointments, I'd be texting you all day long.
04:31Days that we have appointments.
04:32You're lying right now.
04:34You're lying.
04:35Mom, you never answer me.
04:36You're lying, man.
04:37You never answer anybody.
04:38Bull crap, Mia.
04:39You don't text me at all.
04:40Look and see.
04:42I texted you this day telling you you had mail at the house and you didn't answer me.
04:46What was I supposed to say to I have mail?
04:48You don't even answer me.
04:48When do you text me, like, just to say, hey, Mom?
04:52Why would I text you just to say, hey, Mom, because you're not going to answer me?
04:55Yeah.
04:56Since I got out of the hospital, you've texted me twice.
04:59No.
04:59Yes.
05:00Let me see.
05:01This is when I was in the hospital.
05:03You told me you were in the car.
05:05Mm-hmm.
05:06How's the baby?
05:07Wait, wait, wait.
05:08Let me get my phone.
05:09Where did you contact me?
05:12Mom, you're my mother.
05:14Mia, you're my daughter.
05:15And you're my mom.
05:15Where have you contacted me?
05:16When do you contact me?
05:18Mia, I know you see what's going on there.
05:19She literally just told me that she didn't.
05:21She's texted me more than twice.
05:22Let me see.
05:22She just saw that she only texted me twice.
05:24You're lying.
05:25Pick up your phone.
05:26You just...
05:26Let me see.
05:27Pick up your phone.
05:28I'm done talking.
05:30Pick up your phone.
05:31I'm done talking.
05:31My God.
05:58Oh, please.
06:07Hello.
06:07All right.
06:08I love you.
06:08Have a good day.
06:09I love you, too.
06:10Be careful.
06:10Kiss her for me.
06:11I will.
06:14I would say because of how my mom is, I know exactly what I don't want to be as a
06:18mom,
06:18and I know exactly what I do want to be as a mom.
06:21No matter how old my daughter, no matter if she was 16 like I am or 26, I would always
06:26be there for her if she needed me.
06:37Happy First Mother's Day.
06:41Enjoy every moment of being a mother because it goes fast.
06:47My First Mother's Day is interesting.
06:51It's like, it was always like, oh, I get to appreciate my mom today.
06:55Now it's like, I get to appreciate my mom today and be appreciated.
06:59It's crazy.
07:02It was kind of my holiday and now I got to share it, but that's cool.
07:05That's with her.
07:06I'm willing to do that.
07:13Aww.
07:15You know Maya loves her roses.
07:17I know.
07:18Thank you so much.
07:19That's for me?
07:21Oh.
07:24You want me to hold the baby so you can open your stuff?
07:26No.
07:26He just went to sleep.
07:29On a day that's all about moms, I'm feeling grateful for you.
07:33In so many ways, you've been like a mom to me.
07:38Here, read it out loud for me.
07:41You didn't even get through the first slide.
07:43No, I know.
07:43I'm over here on this side.
07:46Thank you for everything you have done for me, Mama G.
07:48I am forever grateful for you taking me in.
07:50You've taught me a lot and that's why you deserve the best Mother's Day.
07:53Aww.
07:56Thank you, Jose.
07:58And I love you like you're my son.
08:02I love you too.
08:04Mama G is a lot of things to me, including my mom.
08:08I feel like she has helped me a lot.
08:11Not even just being a better dad, just personally.
08:14If there's like any problem or anything that I'm going through, she's always there.
08:19So yeah, I do love her.
08:21You better.
08:22To Amaya from Jose.
08:25Happy Mother's Day.
08:26I hope you enjoy this.
08:29A gift card for the perfect style.
08:31The value is $200.
08:34Is that for you?
08:35Thank God.
08:37What is this?
08:37Nailed it.
08:38Treat yourself to beautiful nails.
08:41Value $50.
08:43Ooh.
08:43Dang.
08:45Great gift.
08:46I know.
08:47I gave her gifts as an offering of my shortcomings.
08:51I do feel bad that Maya isn't really feeling supported by me with Sammy.
08:57And typically I'd just be taking her out to eat and stuff.
09:01But now that she's on a diet, I want to help support her.
09:04So I just got her a hair appointment instead.
09:06I am impressed that he did all this on his own because boys are kind of stupid.
09:10I'm not going to lie.
09:12Like...
09:13And he's doing pretty good at supporting me on my weight loss journey, even though I know
09:18he's cheating when he thinks I'm not looking.
09:22Lies.
09:23Right.
09:25Go ahead and read it.
09:26I want to hear this.
09:30Okay.
09:33I'm not going to lie.
09:35I'm not going to lie.
09:36I'm not going to lie.
09:36You're the greatest mom to Sammy and take care of him all the time for me while I'm
09:40at work.
09:40I think you deserve this and so much more.
09:44Oh, my God.
09:45That's beautiful.
09:46Thank you, Jose.
09:47Are you going to get up and give him a hug?
09:49Yes.
09:49Can I, like, collect myself?
09:50Get yourself together.
09:51Yes.
09:51I think the man deserves it after that.
09:54It does mean a lot that he appreciates what I do and he recognizes that.
10:00But it doesn't change the fact that he's still not being as helpful as me and the baby
10:05need him to be.
10:09Get up.
10:11No.
10:12Oh.
10:15Thank you so much.
10:17You're welcome.
10:18I think you should sell that with a kiss at least.
10:21Jeez.
10:21You guys act like you hate each other.
10:23She does hate me.
10:24I don't.
10:27Wow.
10:28No, that's why he doesn't get that.
10:30I feel like only time will tell on how, like, if we're going to stop fighting so much
10:36and, like, if he's going to help more with the baby.
10:38Like, the gifts don't really mean nothing regarding to that.
10:41So, I am grateful, though.
10:45Well, we got to give Sammy a bath and you got to go to work.
10:48Wow, you're kicking me out already.
10:50Thank you for everything.
10:51I appreciate my card and my flowers.
10:54No, seriously, thank you.
10:54You're welcome.
10:55Jose has to put in the work.
10:57It takes more than financials to be a parent a lot more.
11:05But I'm glad he's trying.
11:10I would like for dad to come to the game.
11:12Did he ever answer your text?
11:14No.
11:15The relationship with my dad has been not good since Wes's been born.
11:19He won't come see him.
11:20I still have hope.
11:21He can see that I have not ruined my life because my life is not ruined.
11:25Go, Hannah, go!
11:27So, Bryce's name is not on the birth certificate?
11:30No.
11:32Haisley is the one who's going to suffer in the end because she's going to miss out on a lifetime
11:37of a father that adores her.
11:39I don't want to talk about it no more because it's going to piss me off.
11:58Can I have her?
11:59I'm trying to sing to her.
12:01Yeah.
12:01Oh, hold on.
12:02Can I bond with my namesake?
12:05Hiya.
12:06She even has all my initials.
12:08Hey, princess.
12:11She's named after me.
12:15I just love her.
12:16There's no better feeling in the world than to hold your daughter's daughter.
12:22Can I see them?
12:23Because I just love looking at her name.
12:25Yeah, I like her name.
12:27So, this is Haisley Natasha Skye Stone.
12:31Haisley's middle name is Natasha Skye.
12:34I just felt like my mom earned that.
12:38She was 6 pounds 19.
12:416 pounds 6 ounces 19 and 3 quarters inches long.
12:45Period.
12:46Okay.
12:47And my mom gots it down.
12:50Yep.
12:57So, Bryce's name is not on the birth certificate?
13:00No.
13:02He's not here.
13:04You can't put someone on the birth certificate that's not here.
13:09I did not put Bryce on the birth certificate because I just, no thanks.
13:16Bryce still doesn't know he has a daughter.
13:19Like, he still hasn't reached out.
13:20And he knows that I wanted to get induced on the 5th.
13:25I mean, that says what it needs to say about him.
13:30Obviously, he doesn't deserve to be on the birth certificate.
13:32Okay.
13:36I'm here just to put me on the birth certificate.
13:40Just like, I just want you to laugh.
13:43I'm just trying to make you feel better.
13:46Paisley is the one who's gonna suffer in the end because she's gonna miss out on a lifetime
13:51of a father that adores her.
13:54And he did everything right.
13:55And now he's just like out, you know?
13:58Well, like, throw him away.
14:00Well, hey.
14:10I don't want to talk about it no more because it's gonna piss me off.
14:14There ain't nothing I can do about it.
14:15It is what it is.
14:18That's the whole thing is he can't do anything about it, you know?
14:21And it's frustrating to him because he loves the baby.
14:23He's trying to do the right thing.
14:25And, uh, what?
14:26He's just cut out from seeing his baby?
14:28Yeah, so unless the paternity is established, you can't see her.
14:32You're just gonna have to be strong, be tough.
14:34And, uh, hey, it's not you doing it.
14:36It's them doing it to you.
14:37So, uh, you're just gonna have to suck it up.
14:40It's just part of one of those hard things of life, you know?
14:43Okay, he feels very uncomfortable talking about it anymore.
14:46I know he does.
14:46I'm going.
14:48Okay, well, I'm gonna come meet you.
14:50All right.
14:56Oh.
14:58Boy, I tell you .
15:02I ain't never seen no people like this in the world.
15:05Hills have eyes, people.
15:11You all right to drive or you want me to drive you home?
15:15You sure?
15:16Me or Nan could ride with you.
15:19Huh?
15:19Okay.
15:20Well, wait a minute.
15:20We'll follow you home, huh?
15:22All right.
15:23I love you, son.
15:28I love you.
15:31I love you.
15:31Did I put this...
15:32I got an outfit.
15:33Hi.
15:34Isabel's ready to go.
15:37Okay, thank you.
15:39Okay, come on, baby. Come on.
15:42I don't know. You have to be in a person.
15:45I try to make sure it plays the best one for my little sweet princess.
15:52There's been a lot of victories with bringing Haisley home,
15:56Isabella home, like, alive, healthy.
15:59Bryce is, like, out of the picture.
16:02Thanks, y'all. Bye.
16:05Bye.
16:06Yeah, whatever. Deuces, buddy.
16:09Like, go live your life.
16:11I don't know what to tell you.
16:15Oh.
16:19Sit up, pumpkin.
16:21Now that Haisley's here, my only priority is Haisley and...
16:27and my happiness.
16:30But Haisley first, of course.
16:48We're going to go see your goofy daddy play baseball.
16:52Get away from me.
16:56Oh, my God, that sounded wet, Hunter.
16:59I think that was wet.
17:00Hang on, let me go check my pants.
17:03He's going to have a time, Mark.
17:04He's going to have a quick shower.
17:10So who's all going to the game?
17:13Mom and y'all.
17:15But I would like for Dad to come to the game
17:19and let him see Wes.
17:21Did he ever answer your text?
17:24No.
17:25That's sad.
17:27The relationship with my dad has been going not good
17:31since Wes has been born.
17:33He won't come see him, but I'd like him to.
17:37Why hasn't he met him yet?
17:39Because he's not making an effort.
17:42It is literally as simple as just showing up
17:44and being there physically being there.
17:47Physically, mentally.
17:53We're here at Hunter's baseball game
17:55and his dad's not here.
17:57So imagine that maybe Hunter will realize eventually.
18:03Yeah, we're all Hunter needs
18:05because obviously his dad's never been there anyway.
18:11I still have hope
18:12that I'll have a good relationship with him
18:14like in a couple years, not now.
18:17When he can see that I have not ruined my life
18:19because my life is not ruined.
18:21I get to play sports.
18:22I get to do the stuff I wanted to do.
18:25Now he gets to teach his son how to do it all.
18:27Yeah.
18:29Mom, it's a big baby.
18:32His onesie ain't going to fit much longer.
18:35Sweet man, daddy's about to bat.
18:37I'm surprised.
18:38Despite Hunter's dad not showing up for him,
18:41Hunter has accomplished so much.
18:43He finished eighth grade.
18:46Aren't you so glad you're done?
18:48No.
18:49Why?
18:50Yeah.
18:50Yes.
18:52We didn't want to add a year to school.
18:54No.
18:55Good grief.
18:56It feels good passing eighth grade
18:59because my grades were pretty low.
19:01And then at the end of the year,
19:03I got him up.
19:04Pretty low is an understatement.
19:07They were all zeros.
19:09And then I got him up to like A's and B's
19:11when I actually tried.
19:13He's done really, really good.
19:15And he's really started helping me with Wes.
19:19He actually is changing poopy diapers now, so.
19:23Change his diapers.
19:24Yep.
19:26Which I don't give him an option,
19:28but he just does it.
19:29Was it just pee?
19:30No.
19:31Yes, it was.
19:32Nope, it was poop.
19:33Oh.
19:34That was some very pee-looking poop.
19:36See, I change the pee diapers,
19:39sometimes poopy ones.
19:40I don't do no runny poop.
19:42That's Bella's.
19:43Like the runny poop dripping out the diaper.
19:45You just on me.
19:48Did he?
19:49I'm sorry.
19:50All over his blanket?
19:52Yeah.
19:53Hunter is doing a lot better than I thought he would
19:56for being 13 years old as a dad and a...
19:59Big dog.
20:01I don't know if I would say he's like a big dog or anything,
20:04but I'd say he's doing all right.
20:07All right, really?
20:09I'm proud of him a little bit.
20:11A little bit.
20:13That's all I need.
20:14That's a lot coming from him.
20:16Mm-hmm.
20:17Home run, Hunter.
20:18Yep.
20:21You better run!
20:23Go, Hunter, go!
20:25Hunter, I want to have another baby.
20:28I just want to relive what I had with Wes
20:30because he's growing so fast.
20:37You're crazy.
20:41Am I the only...
20:43Um, a little bit, yeah.
20:46Each to their own.
20:47No.
20:49We'll just have to see.
20:52Never.
20:53That's what you say.
20:54I don't know.
20:57We'll see.
21:10Hey, are y'all so excited.
21:11It's your first day of high school.
21:14I am.
21:15Okay, get in here.
21:16Y'all gotta go to school.
21:17I love you.
21:18I love you.
21:18It's so good.
21:23I do think I'm lucky that I have parents who are so supportive
21:26and help me and my sister with our babies.
21:29Hi, beauty girl.
21:32Oh, look, they're holding hands, kinda.
21:36Mom has sacrificed a lot.
21:38She literally quit her job so she could be an in-home babysitter,
21:41and Dad takes extra hours just to make sure we have enough.
21:45It looks like I'm gonna have to work for a long time
21:47to take care of these grandkids.
21:50Say bye-bye.
21:52Bye-bye to Mom.
21:56And they're gone.
22:00Have you changed your mind at all
22:02about getting on any type of birth control yourself?
22:06I'm not getting on birth control.
22:08I don't need a birth control.
22:10You do realize you've taken a plan B
22:12if you figure it up every month since you've had him.
22:15I'm not pregnant anymore.
22:17No.
22:18I would be surprised if she made it to her junior year
22:21and not be pregnant again.
22:23We'll see if I can make it to my 16th birthday.
22:26Let's go, mama!
22:28My heart is sinking because I want her to do nothing more
22:31than buckle that buckle.
22:34I can't.
22:35It's not reaching.
22:48It's been like three months
22:50since that terrible-ass go-kart date with Jose.
22:53Hey, slow, wait.
22:54Very quick.
23:01Not fitting into the go-kart
23:03was the motivation I needed
23:04to change my diet and start working out.
23:07But let me tell you,
23:08it has not been an easy journey.
23:10One and up.
23:12You got that perfect.
23:14Two.
23:14Being that big,
23:15after gaining a whole bunch of weight rapidly like that,
23:18and I'm not going to say out of nowhere
23:20because I know what I was eating while I was pregnant.
23:23I was on them donuts at 3 a.m.,
23:25but just starting working out out of nowhere
23:27is really hard.
23:28Ooh, that hurts.
23:30What hurts, your knees?
23:31Like right here.
23:31Your quads, yes.
23:35So I feel like I've pushed through a lot of BS.
23:37And one more.
23:40And relax.
23:42Awesome.
23:44I gained 60 pounds during my pregnancy,
23:47and my first goal of my weight loss
23:50was to hit 285
23:52because that's how much I weighed
23:54before I got pregnant.
23:56And I'm hoping that my hard work
23:58is finally paying off.
23:59So it's been three months
24:02since I've been working out with Carolina.
24:04I'm about to check right now
24:06to see if I've made any progress.
24:08I'm nervous, okay.
24:11The progress is showing off.
24:15285.
24:16She hit it.
24:17Ay.
24:20Ay.
24:21But I don't know
24:22if it's going to be enough
24:23to fit into the go-kart.
24:29There she is!
24:31Oh, my God!
24:32Y'all are so embarrassing!
24:34Come on, Carol!
24:35Come on, baby!
24:37Let's go, Mama!
24:39Oh, man!
24:40Let's go, man!
24:42Come on, Mama!
24:49I can't...
24:50I just want to reach in.
24:52My heart is sinking
24:54because I want her
24:55to do nothing more
24:56than buckle
24:57that buckle.
25:02Getting that phone call
25:03from Amaya
25:04when she was on the date
25:06and just hearing her, like,
25:09break down
25:09in the bathroom
25:10by herself,
25:12it was hard.
25:13Why are you crying?
25:15Because I didn't fit
25:16on the go-karts.
25:17I want to go home.
25:18Why couldn't you fit?
25:20I was...
25:21I'm too fat.
25:23You got this!
25:25Come on, Mama!
25:26You're gonna have it!
25:27You're gonna have it!
25:28Come on, Mai Mai!
25:29Let's go, Mai Mai!
25:31I'm just hoping
25:32that she gets it to click
25:33because I know
25:35how upset
25:35Mai was about the go-karts.
25:37You've never been
25:38too fat for anything.
25:39Yes, I have.
25:40No, you haven't.
25:41Not like that.
25:42And I don't want her
25:43to feel that way
25:43ever again.
25:54It's like, click.
25:56I'm, like, so happy.
26:01Yeah!
26:03I could jump
26:04onto a building right now,
26:05not off.
26:06I could jump
26:06from the ground up, okay?
26:08Oh, that's how...
26:09That's how happy I am.
26:15I'm really proud of Mai
26:17being able to meet
26:18her goal weight
26:19since she has been
26:20crying to me
26:21and she's been
26:22working really hard for it.
26:23Don't say I've been
26:24crying to you.
26:25Like, what do you have?
26:26Girl, you have been crying.
26:28Y'all are so, like...
26:29Amaya literally, like,
26:30fits and crying.
26:31Y'all are telling
26:32the business, for real.
26:33But it's true.
26:34Because it's real.
26:35Oh, don't.
26:35That's how much
26:36it means to you.
26:37You're right.
26:39Oh, my God!
26:41Oh, my God!
26:41Oh, my God!
26:45So it's not just
26:46Amaya that I'm proud of.
26:48I'm definitely proud
26:48of Jose
26:49and the changes
26:50that he's made
26:51as far as stepping up
26:52and helping Amaya
26:54more with Sammy.
26:56and taking them
26:57and, yes,
26:59while you sleep.
27:00Okay.
27:01She gets more sleep
27:02now than she has ever.
27:04Mm-hmm.
27:07Woo!
27:11Nothing is perfect
27:12and we definitely
27:13have our arguments
27:14since being teen parents
27:16is stressful.
27:18But I just feel like
27:20I found my person.
27:21I did let you pass.
27:23No.
27:24Yes, I did.
27:24It always starts
27:26as an argument
27:27that ends up
27:27in us, like, flirting.
27:28Then she's like,
27:29Jose, I love you.
27:30Oh, my God.
27:31I still love you.
27:33I hate you.
27:34I've never said
27:36I hate him.
27:37Hi!
27:38Say, Mommy!
27:40Mommy did it!
27:41My hopes for Amaya
27:43and Jose's relationship
27:44is that they can
27:46continue to give each other
27:48the balance that they need,
27:51you know?
27:51It takes a little bit
27:52of giving
27:53and a little bit
27:53of taking
27:54in any relationship,
27:55but I just hope
27:56that they do
27:57what's best for Sammy.
28:08Hey!
28:12We heard you
28:12the first time.
28:13Well, I told you, Mom.
28:15Yeah.
28:21What's changed
28:21in the last few months?
28:23Me and Amaya broke up
28:25and then I moved out
28:26and started living
28:28with my grandma.
28:30I'm not going to cry about it.
28:32Well, I always don't cry about it,
28:34but I'm not going to just
28:35stick on that
28:37for the rest of my life,
28:38but I feel like
28:39there are some moments
28:40where I could have viewed
28:42myself living a life
28:43with them and all that
28:45and building a home
28:46with all of them,
28:47but now it's just
28:49like memories.
28:51What did you bring up?
28:53Well, she didn't want
28:55to be in a relationship
28:56with me.
28:56That's not what happened,
28:57actually.
28:58We broke up
28:59because we had been
29:00arguing a lot
29:00and one morning
29:02he was yelling at me,
29:03talking about some
29:04I never shut the up
29:05and da-da-da
29:06and all this.
29:07So I broke up with him
29:09because you're not
29:09about to talk to me
29:10like that.
29:11What?
29:14You ready to go 99?
29:17I don't know.
29:19I hope that for
29:21the sake of Sammy,
29:23they're not going
29:23to be together,
29:24at least co-parent,
29:25but I would love
29:27to see them together,
29:28though.
29:29I would love to see
29:30Sammy raised in a house
29:31with both his father
29:32and mother.
29:34Why is that important?
29:39When I was pregnant
29:40with her,
29:40I knew I was going
29:42to be a single mom.
29:49And I just don't want
29:51her to go through that
29:55because it's not easy
29:58at all.
30:18This is not an easy
30:19decision for me
30:20at all.
30:21He won't let
30:21Jesse move in.
30:22If he don't want us
30:23living our life
30:24at his house,
30:24then we'll live our life
30:25at a different house.
30:49We've been home
30:50for about two weeks
30:51and Jesse has been
30:52a very big help.
30:53But my dad,
30:54he won't let Jesse
30:55come move in
30:56and he don't want
30:57me to move out.
30:58But, you know,
31:00he can't have his cake
31:01and eat it, too.
31:02If he don't want us
31:03living our life
31:04at his house,
31:04then we'll live our life
31:05at a different house.
31:14Dad's home.
31:16Come see her.
31:19She looks so cute.
31:20Come look at her.
31:27I want to talk to the kids
31:28about Jesse staying
31:29at the house
31:30because Mia's been
31:31nagging me
31:32ridiculously about it.
31:34And it's time
31:35we had the conversation.
31:37Now, look.
31:41I've been going
31:41through a moral dilemma
31:43about this situation.
31:45This is not part
31:47of the plan.
31:51but I'm giving you
31:52a chance to stay here
31:55past the two weeks
31:56because I love my daughter
31:58and I don't want
31:59to lose her.
32:01Okay?
32:02Yes, sir.
32:04I was raised Catholic.
32:06I mean, you don't shack up.
32:07You don't sleep around.
32:08You know,
32:09you wait till you're married.
32:10I mean, I know
32:11those are ridiculous things
32:14to ask of kids,
32:15especially these days.
32:17But, you know,
32:18if that's how you're raised,
32:19at least you sort of
32:20try to abide by that,
32:21you know?
32:23But after Mia
32:25gave me the ultimatum,
32:26I prayed about it
32:27almost every night.
32:29When he leaves,
32:30then I'm going to be
32:30going back and forth
32:31with the baby.
32:32We're not having
32:32this conversation right now.
32:34I'm just telling you.
32:35It's still not cool to me,
32:37you know,
32:37but I just don't want
32:39to lose my daughter
32:40and my grandbaby,
32:42so we're going
32:42to give it a shot.
32:47This is not
32:48an easy decision
32:48for me at all.
32:49I know.
32:50No, I don't think
32:51you know.
32:51I do.
32:52No, I don't think
32:53you will know
32:53until you get older.
32:56So don't take it lightly.
32:57Do your best.
32:58You hear me?
32:59Yes, sir.
32:59I'm serious, bro.
33:00It's on you.
33:01It means a lot to me
33:03that my dad
33:03didn't just squash the idea.
33:09It would have been
33:10a constant just
33:12every freaking day.
33:13I need help, dad.
33:15He's dramatic.
33:16That's what I'm getting at.
33:17Somebody would have
33:18been dramatic.
33:19No, he's dramatic.
33:20I can't do it alone, dad.
33:22He's dramatic,
33:24but I'm thankful
33:25that he let him stay,
33:27and I'm thankful
33:28that he loves
33:31the baby girl
33:32just as much as I do.
33:36I am told for sure.
33:40I love you, baby.
33:44That's all I got to say.
33:47I really, really
33:48appreciated it all,
33:49and so did Mia,
33:50but we were just
33:51so in shock
33:52because of how strong
33:54he is about his morals
33:55and all that,
33:56so we didn't really
33:57know what to say,
33:57but I was very appreciated.
34:00Appreciative.
34:01Is that the word?
34:02Yeah, that's close to that.
34:03Yeah, appreciative
34:03about it,
34:04and now I'm willing to
34:05do anything it'll take
34:07to prove him
34:08that he didn't
34:08make a mistake.
34:10Good.
34:11You got to do it.
34:12I mean, you know?
34:14It's just,
34:15it's no choice.
34:17Well, I mean,
34:18you do have a choice,
34:19but you don't.
34:22Yeah, you don't.
34:24Yeah.
34:25What a big moment,
34:26huh, babe?
34:27Big moment.
34:28I didn't expect that.
34:30Got to stay
34:31on top of our game.
34:34Yes.
34:35Yes.
34:36We're not exactly
34:37starting our life
34:38as a new family
34:38because I don't have,
34:39like, the,
34:40what is it?
34:41Like, I don't have
34:42the things older people
34:43can do since I'm still
34:44a minor and young,
34:45but eventually,
34:46hopefully we can get
34:47our own space
34:48and our own thing,
34:49and I really do
34:50plan on marrying her
34:51one day,
34:52but that's a huge step,
34:53so it's definitely
34:54going to take time.
34:55Yeah, yeah.
34:56Do you think of Jesse
34:57as more of a son-in-law now?
35:00More of a son-in-law, yes.
35:01It's not really
35:02seeing him step up,
35:04it's more of me
35:04stepping back.
35:06I guess,
35:07in a certain way to me,
35:08it sounds stupid,
35:09but, like,
35:09it's giving your daughter
35:10away at the wedding.
35:12It's like,
35:13I got to kind of
35:13just let him
35:14do what I want to do.
35:16Like, instinctively,
35:17I want to be by her side
35:19to do whatever
35:19has got to be done,
35:20and now I've got to
35:21not do that.
35:23So that's going to get
35:24some getting used to,
35:25but it's good, yeah.
35:29Just don't mess it up.
35:34I love you.
35:36I love you.
35:37Are you excited?
35:39Are you happy?
35:41Like, in a few years,
35:42like, once
35:43the baby's old enough
35:45and we're stable
35:46and we have what we need,
35:48I do want to marry Jesse.
35:50Well, first he has to propose,
35:53and then
35:54we'll start
35:55the other process.
36:11How would you say
36:12it's been gone?
36:13Full run now.
36:15You take it.
36:15Living with Jesse's gone good
36:18for the most part.
36:20He just gets my nerves
36:21a lot easier now.
36:24But that's it.
36:27I've had a few talks
36:28with him.
36:29That's amazing.
36:29Everything's been going
36:30pretty good now,
36:31I would say.
36:33I would say.
36:35Yeah.
36:37I don't know.
36:40I don't know.
36:41I don't know.
36:41I don't know.
36:43You asked.
36:46You wanted.
36:53I'm going to get
36:54something out of there.
36:56You got some quick hands, dog.
36:58I know.
37:09Once you've been
37:10with the men
37:11who act like Bryce acts,
37:13then you know
37:14how this ends.
37:15I don't like men
37:16who are mama's boys
37:17and crybabies.
37:18Mom.
37:19Okay, next question.
37:21Before we all start
37:22beefing on this couch.
37:23Before I beat up Bryce,
37:24I can't remember.
37:26For what?
37:35So tonight,
37:36we're having a family dinner.
37:41And, um...
37:44I don't know.
37:45It's unbelievable.
37:46But, you know,
37:49here we are.
37:52Hey, guys.
38:05Bryce, how did you
38:06and Belle men think?
38:10I always find a way.
38:13No, Bryce did
38:14what was important
38:15and did things
38:17that, you know,
38:18every man should do
38:19when they have a baby.
38:20Go get a job,
38:22paying child support,
38:23than being
38:23a responsible parent.
38:25And then she said,
38:27let's live together
38:28and he went
38:29and got him a place
38:29within, what,
38:3048 hours?
38:31Yeah.
38:32Later, please.
38:33What I hope to know
38:35build a home with you
38:37around
38:38and have a life
38:40with you all around
38:41and have a life
38:42with you all around
38:44and have a life
38:46with you all around
38:47always be
38:50yeah
38:50and have a life
38:52with you all around
38:52Here.
38:53Go, Dada.
38:55You coming, Dada?
38:56Take your socks off, too, please.
39:01You really eating
39:02on the remote?
39:06How is he as a dad?
39:07Bryce is a good dad,
39:09just sometimes
39:09he doesn't know
39:10what to do
39:12which is understandable
39:13because he's a guy.
39:15I'm trying to get
39:16her foot in here
39:17and it's not.
39:18Do you need help?
39:20Bryce, do you
39:21just want to help men?
39:22I like men
39:24that provide
39:24and do what
39:25they're supposed to do.
39:26I don't like men
39:27who are mama's boys
39:28and crybabies.
39:29Do you think
39:30even a few months ago
39:31that these types of words
39:32would be coming
39:32out of your mouth?
39:34Oh.
39:36Wait, wait, what?
39:37Will you shut your mouth?
39:38Um, no.
39:40But the issue
39:41with his grandparents
39:42and his mom,
39:43not many men
39:45at his age
39:46are going to pick
39:47the baby
39:48and the girlfriend
39:48over their family.
39:50Ow!
39:52Nobody's asking
39:53like you to choose.
39:55Yeah, but I'd much
39:56rather be at home
39:56spend time with y'all
39:57than go over there.
39:59I didn't get a headache
40:00going in there.
40:02No, I'm kidding.
40:03You're not kidding,
40:04but it's okay, Bryce.
40:06Mom!
40:07Okay, next question.
40:08Before we all start
40:09beefing on this couch.
40:15They've seen him
40:16real happy.
40:17I haven't heard
40:17from him much,
40:18you know,
40:19because he doesn't
40:20really want our help.
40:21He wants to be
40:22on his own
40:22and it's been
40:23hard for us.
40:25In a dream world,
40:26I would wish
40:28that, you know,
40:30they would come
40:30to our house
40:31and have dinner.
40:33You know,
40:33it's like a normal family.
40:35What is your relationship
40:36like with Tasha?
40:38Hmm.
40:40God bless her,
40:41whatever,
40:42you know,
40:42I hope she lives
40:43a happy life,
40:44but there's not
40:45going to be
40:45a relationship
40:46between us.
40:49hon,
40:50is it that hard
40:51to put a friggin'
40:52come on,
40:52easy,
40:53come on,
40:53let's show that
40:54how we do this.
40:55You just yank it
40:56down our foot,
40:56I am scared
40:57to hurt her.
40:58Babies,
40:59even the hospital
40:59told us this,
41:00babies are not
41:01as fragile
41:02as everybody
41:03thinks they are.
41:04Well,
41:04I wasn't there
41:05to hear that.
41:07who's fault
41:07is that?
41:09Mom,
41:09I guess.
41:11After all
41:12the drama
41:12and the fighting,
41:14are you guys
41:14surprised that
41:15things have worked
41:15out the way
41:16that they're
41:17working out now?
41:17I'm very surprised.
41:19I'm not surprised.
41:20It was just a matter
41:20of time until she
41:21fell back in love
41:22with me.
41:24No.
41:25Your dad,
41:26I kiss her?
41:29I'm stealing
41:30them all from
41:30Mommy.
41:32You want a boobie?
41:34You want a boobie?
41:36Okay,
41:36we can get a boobie.
41:37We can get a boobie.
41:38We can get a boobie.
41:49Can I let her?
41:53Do you guys think
41:54that your relationship
41:55will work this time?
41:56And if so,
41:57it's so different this time.
42:00I don't hear
42:00what she has to say.
42:02I think so
42:03because I think
42:04we're both
42:04like mentally there.
42:06We're not as stressed
42:07out as like we was.
42:09I mean,
42:10Bryce does piss me off,
42:11but like,
42:12I just have to thank
42:13It's not as bad
42:13as it used to be.
42:14Now it's like,
42:15piss her off,
42:15give her five minutes,
42:16go give her a hug
42:17and a kiss,
42:17and then hold Hazely
42:19and she'll be all right.
42:19you know what I do.
42:28You talk to me all right,
42:31It's just a peek where you're going to do it.
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