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First Dates Ireland S11E07 (2026)
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00:01this is the first date's restaurant and we're back finally a place where anything
00:13okay breathe is possible will you pique my interest
00:17there's two of them no nobody's losing their cool an instant attraction
00:25your gorgeous eyes stop it a match made in heaven
00:33i'm a big fan of your parents work or a sudden shock to the senses
00:40none of these daters know what to expect i'm in a village hall
00:45what happens next
00:57would you like to see each other again romantically
01:00yeah i would too oh jesus christ i was gonna have a hat
01:11are you one of those guys who prepare for the date or is that just the last minute
01:17the future did that run not much needs to be done to this
01:22you can polish
01:26do you have any strategy when it comes to a date none whatsoever none i'm going in
01:32blind it is just that thing of like just rocking up and just going for it like i have the
01:39hair
01:39washed and i pour have a bit of tan because i think whatever about your hair and makeup
01:43if you're tan you'll feel better in yourself trying to do things that remind me like alice
01:47you're great you got this you got this girl you got this brocco you look gorgeous
01:53thanks
01:57some people just can't get enough attention but mince not one of them she's maxed out
02:04do you get chatted up sometimes i do go out and i'm just like can people just leave me
02:08the fuck alone i'm like just fuck off
02:14sometimes i look at them i'd be like where are you coming from you i'm coming from clerny
02:19do you know what's wrong with the kerry men there's just something wrong with them especially
02:23the clerny men really something wrong with them what hobbies have you what hobbies have i i
02:32like to go to the gym i like to go for hot girl walk what's a hot girl walk so
02:37it's when
02:37you put on your sunglasses you chew a piece of gum and you look straight and you walk you
02:41walk like you own the town describe yourself in three words for me pretty a tad bit obnoxious
02:50and funny so would you say that you are particular like do you need a person i guess that has
02:57things
02:57are as successful and has to be a certain way definitely okay okay so what would you deem as
03:03a successful person someone i guess it was a good job has their life together and knows what they want
03:09is able to drive a hundred percent yeah i'm built to be a passenger princess if you don't have a
03:16full
03:16license you don't have a car i'm like immediately no i'm not driving you around the place i'm sorry not
03:22at all
03:23i can't be a car for apollo they gave me the a what are you looking for like a bentley
03:29or
03:29aston martin well if one wants to go my way then like so be it can you find me one
03:34well i'll try
03:35find myself one first then i'll get you one out to see if they have siblings wow okay god love
03:42the
03:42bars you should ask them that straight away oh my friend i'm jack i'm 21 and i'm from kerry
03:55boy racer or trusty pickup who will you be the judge from the first day's restaurant to find my new
04:02woman to find a bit of love it's a bit uh a bit exciting a bit exciting
04:09i could chat to a wall ah it's it's all the charm the charm is my biggest thing uh compliments
04:16first and then a bit of laughter and there's always one hello how are you nice to meet you jack
04:23nice to meet you jack how are you yeah beautiful for you and you have success with that i like
04:32to
04:32think so but uh not often i wouldn't be i wouldn't be too busy on the old dating scene so
04:37it's
04:38that is what it is are you ready to do this ready to bring it to the bar your date
04:42is at the bar
04:44yeah all right all right get your together yeah
04:52i've met people before that have you know i've brought the confidence out and and i like that
04:56that's what i love make people happy and you know feel confident about themselves but i'd love to
05:02meet someone who's confident themselves hi hi how are you hi it's nice to meet you
05:08what's your name sorry mim mim yeah jack so i got you a little uh i would say definitely i
05:14am a
05:14tough cookie i am hard to impress definitely where you from i'm from clarney no way how about you
05:23with yourself yeah i'm from clarney clarney tell me yeah right here what i'm just like castle island
05:31castle island just so safe yeah only down the road so how would you come up i drove up i
05:36stayed in
05:37mace uh last night uh family yeah okay journey up was working my car to drive
05:43let's hear it no you go first now what do you drive i drive with the flash
05:50no i have a few i have a few a few a few
05:58so i suppose i've gone into cars when i was about 11 or 12 through my father and uh car
06:04collection has
06:05just grown okay let's hear them all i have a few japanese cars okay um but i daily bmw
06:11oh wow okay
06:20the pain is blunt
06:26for old school romantic liam love is the gift that keeps on giving oh life could be a dream
06:35if i look to me you do happen for somebody you care about them you have interest in them
06:43you want to take care of them and you want them to take care of you
06:48welcome how's it going very good mr yourself great name please name mateo nice to meet you liam nice how
06:55how is everything heaven is great yeah hopefully you'll get better yeah yeah yeah if the attraction
07:01is there initially brilliant i'm not going to try and impress them purely to impress them as i used to
07:07do i like that there they'll give a bit of a gift there be nice to cuddle up to somebody
07:13at times just
07:14like the intimacy that'd be nice it's not for you i've actually stopped focusing on you i'm focusing on
07:23the chocolates that's not good i know that's what i'm saying it's not for you
07:26chocolate chocolate yeah oh that's a decent box of chocolates as well is it oh god yeah absolutely
07:31chance though fair play to you smart as i said you can't eat flowers i got married in 86
07:38split up in 96 i was in another relationship after a few years for a few years and i have
07:46not been in
07:47any relationship since then listen at least you put yourself out there that's very number one yeah
07:53you see what happens we see what happens nothing stops esther putting herself out there certainly not
08:01the neighbors i'm 64 i'm not doing too bad like i wouldn't care to opens i go out into the
08:09back
08:09garden in my bikini if somebody's didn't want to look at me i couldn't care less
08:21i suppose i'm not the normal nanny yeah that's what they tell me i wouldn't like somebody to get their
08:29knickers in a knot over nothing no time for that life's too short
08:43but it doesn't define your night ahead oh i so didn't want to get that wrong i used to be
08:50very
08:50confident i think i need to get my competence back no don't be like you're a gorgeous lady why would
08:56you
08:56be nervous oh why would you be nervous but he's gonna be nervous when you come there can i look
09:01around you know he can't no be cool okay be cool be cool she's beautiful she's very beautiful yeah yeah
09:08they've done well here they're doing well they're doing well they're doing well i can't stop looking
09:12at your eyes i'm blue same like yours oh my god no anyway i need to behave myself okay i
09:21think you're ready
09:22you do okay good yeah let's do it i suppose it'd be exciting i kind of like to get done
09:31up you know
09:31and go out there and feel sure about esther you don't look half bad all right now hello hello how
09:39are you
09:40i'm good how are you how are you great i'm liam how are you are you hugger all right it's
09:45nice to see you
09:46you look fantastic beautiful dress do you like chocolates i do
09:57oh my god i do indeed somebody kind of looks okay hair no hair whatever you know we're all getting
10:07a
10:07little bit older here will you have a drink i surely will yeah um a little bit of everything that
10:13you
10:13have put into one glass with about 12 straws i'll have a glass of wine that's what white red uh
10:22white
10:22what are you having i just sparkly water oh yeah yeah yeah that's a baby show
10:33so how many siblings have you two sisters okay yourself i just have one older brother one older
10:39brother how old is he he's 22 we're just like a year and like nine months apart we would be
10:44close but
10:45we still do absolutely kill each other till this day and is he living with you yeah four of you
10:50in the
10:51house no my parents are divorced so my parents got divorced when i was like maybe like eight or nine
10:55you know so it's just myself my mom my brother oh okay do you want me to talk to that
11:01no i haven't
11:03spoken to him i'd say like five or six years that's mad yeah no like we live in the same
11:07town and everything
11:07like there's no hate no nothing we just don't talk yeah it's just awesome you're the same it's great
11:12right yeah living with that okay so you know where that then so uh yeah i haven't talked to my
11:17mom in
11:18nine years okay and how old were you when they kind of got separated and stuff uh 12 well they
11:23said very
11:24i was very young like uh i can't even remember it's probably a toddler like and then i lived with
11:29my mom until i was about 12. okay and then my father was starting my father just he took me
11:36in
11:37he taught me everything you know i i was a proper little scumbag when i was younger like and uh
11:44oh it's
11:45just i'm happier way more respect for everything you know i feel like i'm a nice person though because
11:50of him and yeah he changed me 100 percent well my brother is still ironing so it's uh it's uh
11:58it's his
11:58fault i am into cars you know yeah all that car but i love it so is it just the
12:03two of you living at home
12:03just two of us yeah okay that's not right
12:10are you divorced or are you passed or i'm divorced i'm married i was um i met my husband when
12:18i was
12:1815 yeah and we married when i was 18 and then we separated after 15 years yeah and it was
12:31a hard
12:32breakup yeah yeah yeah but we have the best relationship that's great at the end it didn't
12:39work out and it was a difficult breakup but all we had been doing was just trying to keep stuff
12:45together it wasn't working and we were doing it for the kids and i'll tell you i am so glad
12:52i married him yeah yeah yeah because i have two daughters yeah yeah yeah yeah and i have grand
12:58children yeah yeah yeah it's brilliant you get on so well now oh yeah yeah yeah he drives me bad
13:05he would not be with me for all the tea and shine yeah yeah and i wouldn't be with him
13:12but you see the relationship you have is good yeah grateful yeah yeah yeah how about you
13:19myself and my ex though we could hardly be in a separate room oh yeah sure that happens yeah
13:28introducing kevin from leash well that's one way to describe him and here's another okay just a
13:35basic old gay man that's all yeah i'm always the one doing the chasing usually like i want to do
13:47like a full
13:47research i thought maybe if i take it out with my own hands it might make the situation a bit
13:55easier
13:58welcome hello how's everything i'm good thanks how are you when you get a little bit older you
14:03realize that love is not all rainbows and lollipops and fizzes in your tummy all right mister no it's
14:10about who's your lobster what's her name calvin nice to meet you nice to meet you calvin yeah like the
14:17county like the county you probably get that all the time do you where's that look it's a conversation
14:20starter isn't it yeah um my grandmother is from calvin okay and then there's everyone that calls
14:25me kevin and kelvin and calvin and gavin and i'm just like yeah no problem yeah call me tom if
14:30you
14:30if it makes you happy i don't know it doesn't bother me where are you from uh leash strabelly oh
14:36i'm from
14:36zero very good fellow leash man yes it's tough isn't it dating's not that good though it's not no no
14:44no
14:44hence why i'm standing here in front of you a few small kids as well so they keep me occupied
14:50how many
14:50kids are they three how old are they so 13 11 and eight so you've only recently come out kind
14:57of really
14:58well like recent as uh like january 21 that's pretty recent how do you feel about the food or how
15:21do i feel
15:22inside i'd love to say there will be tea to come here
15:32i'm fussy fussy i'm not fussy either yeah don't eat onions tomatoes peppers okay when i get pizza
15:39red onion is a must yeah but we can get a half and half
15:46in the grand scheme of things martin believes that size really matters i'm looking for love a big love
16:00i'm i'm very soft inside when i have a bad day i have a bad day if i want to
16:04cry i do cry so i like
16:06someone who's going to come and hug me and say everything's going to be okay instead of coming
16:10to me and say grow up you're a big man i like man kind of bigger maybe both maybe beard
16:18not skinny
16:22come and compose how are you nice to meet you nice to meet you too your name please marchin
16:27martin spolsky spolsky how is everything good yeah stressed a little bit just follow your instincts
16:35man they got you so far your date is at the bar oh really so i'm the um second either
16:42each ma in a gym out breathe in breathe out i'm gonna be very shy at the start i'm actually
16:50even thinking
16:50don't bring me a very hot kind hi hi hi how are you how are you nice to meet you
16:58nice to meet you
16:58how are you what's your name calvin calvin yes marching my nice nice to meet you lovely
17:04you nervous i am a little bit well i was thinking like if i'm gonna sit down have a drink
17:08then it's
17:08gonna be okay you know yeah it'll be fine where are you coming from uh i live in dublin okay
17:14i live in
17:15sugar but i'm from poland okay originally i live here 20 years very good where are you from uh leash
17:20leash
17:20yeah never been leash yeah i don't even know actually where it is well it's like right in the
17:25middle i feed off vibes and look even if it's not somebody that i match with i mean let's have
17:33dinner
17:33and have a drink and have a laugh uh tell me your name sorry kavan come in one more time
17:40i'm sorry
17:40i'm so that's okay don't be stressed
17:57do you enjoy your job i do i kind of fell into it when i was like 17 i was
18:01like christmas style
18:02so i started working in pharmacy when i slowly made my way up sometimes it can be stressful but at
18:07the
18:07most times i do like interacting with people from all types of backgrounds did you go to college or no
18:12no no straight forward yeah same as myself okay yeah yeah yeah so i've been into wind turbines
18:18because we go into the back ass of nowhere what i do is i take them down and put them
18:24back up right
18:25so those big windmills the big windmills well this week now i got thrown in tipperary the week okay
18:31live the choices like staying overnight and coming back every day okay and where do you usually stayed i'm on
18:38going home if i had a reason to go home i go home i love the lads you know it's
18:44like a second family
18:45the views as well when you're working like go up there two o'clock in the morning and then you
18:51hit the
18:51sunset at five or six in the morning it's beautiful like how long have you been doing that then i
18:56think
18:57two years now okay what age are you 21 21 when's your birthday september i'm 20 i'll be 21 like
19:05a week
19:05and a half i'm 13. she's not gonna get caught for a birthday present so i'm like okay
19:18oh wow so i have your steak oh thank you and the chicken supreme lovely thank you another good
19:27choice enjoy thank you i'd like to be somebody with similar values as myself i believe happiness is
19:35be grateful for what we have instead of being miserable about what we haven't got so what do you
19:42do then um for the pleasure enjoyment are you like me you do all i get annoyed myself and i
19:53didn't do
19:54something i'm still walking yeah i'm doing a good bit of walking lately because i've booked the camino
20:00you know and you have not oh yeah my life only started when i gave up drinking it'll be 20
20:08years
20:08ago this year since i gave it up and it's the best thing i ever did in my life my
20:13greatest achievement
20:15no i'm not doing the whole lot of it why why it's too long i wasn't happy i wasn't happy
20:24it was far from
20:25happy and i used to go to the pub for three or four points and that was the story of
20:32my life but i
20:32never left after three or four points have you ever done it i have not and i never will i'll
20:37be fecking
20:38taken off you must be joking me relationships when i was younger people i grew up with people women and
20:48it wouldn't last long and they'd all tell me i'm a lovely person but they never told me the bush
20:55but i am convinced now that both was i was an alcoholic something i want to do i'm totally on
21:01my own
21:02because like i never really went anywhere without people before there was somebody with me or whatever
21:07and it's meant to be a spiritual kind of journey yeah it's how to become for his own totally you
21:14know
21:14but it's something a challenge well done you i haven't done it yet it doesn't matter when i got married
21:23i found a girl that loved me and i was afraid to let her go because i believed nobody else
21:31is going to
21:31love me and that's part of the reason i married that girl
21:37you know i'm so insecure in myself and that i put all that down to alcoholism
21:45i've learned to be comfortable on me own be happy again
21:48you know i'm content i've learned to like myself i think because i never liked myself too much
21:56but since i've been on me own i've learned to like myself
21:58that i'm not that fat of a person really believe it or not i'll give you a reward
22:11i have my sister with me she lives with me now oh i brought her here uh two years ago
22:17good good
22:18you have a siblings i have um two brothers and a sister yeah who is the oldest i'm the oldest
22:24you're
22:25the oldest oh you're taking care of everything yeah yeah um i'm not nervous about being rejected but
22:31sometimes people are not willing to date um men that have uh kids and that's fine that's on them
22:38but i feel like it's not something that i need to declare but then sometimes they're a bit shocked
22:43like oh you didn't say you had kids and like well did that did i need to um so i
22:49also have um three
22:50kids you have three kids yeah so they keep me busy too nice to hear yeah yeah um do you
22:56like kids or
22:57i do like kids and i have son as well do you yes wow that's the another reason i came
23:03to ireland yeah
23:03is he here is he here yes and how old is he uh he's 21 years old right now he
23:09lives and leaves in
23:10varna okay so after one year when i got the job and everything and i was feeling safe yeah i
23:17brought
23:18his mother and him and does she still live in this environment she's still there with him we've been
23:23friends forever and we still not love each other i can't say love each other but like you know what
23:27i mean like we've been in this together let's say you know what i mean yeah so uh i have
23:33one song you
23:34but you have three like so you have fun yeah yeah they're they're they're great kids i want to know
23:39more um they're they're they're the love of my life yeah we have a lot of fun uh so when
23:45i do when i
23:45see them i really make the most and we do stuff but then like i won't lie i get really
23:50lonely then when
23:51they leave and i don't want it to be just me what would you say you're looking for then what
24:10am i
24:10looking for yeah it's a cool question that yeah um uh i'm just looking for someone someone i can
24:22like uh be around you know like put the footlight before i don't know i get a bit serious like
24:28okay
24:32no i'm looking for someone i can come home to you know when i'm working or something
24:37yeah yeah so i want someone to give money free time to them look after them like i know what
24:42i want
24:42and when i do find someone who has everything i want i'll go for it until then i won't like
24:48what are
24:48your interests like clothes so you like dressing up and you look lovely so i'll give you that one i
24:55say
24:55people think right off the bat that i'm like so like self-obsessed and just like a bitch really but
25:01like like once you get to know me people do think i'm lovely well you look after yourself that's the
25:06main
25:06thing that's lovely yeah like i like to look done up every day yeah like i wake up at 5
25:1045 most
25:11mornings i start work at like half seven so i like to have like my hair and makeup done for
25:16like half
25:16seven in the morning so you wake up just under two hours before work to get ready yeah i gotta
25:24look
25:24perfect every day yeah i think i drive you mad do you wash your face in the morning don't even
25:29answer
25:30i don't know i don't know i don't want to hear it anymore ew i'm hardy like
25:37i'll tell you auntie now i would come back here tomorrow for that steak it's lovely sweet cheese
25:42it's always gorgeous and the pepper sauce sorry my tea doesn't want to lose your family
25:49don't worry about it i have that problem as well don't worry about it your grand
25:57what's the most embarrassing date you've ever been on we met and we had dinner which was quite
26:02nice and it was lovely and he said can i give you a kiss and i said yeah okay i
26:07said we'll have to
26:08buy him dinner whatever i'll have to give him a kiss if i'm at home now they come out i
26:12don't have to be
26:13what okay obviously wear it but but when i'm at home they come out oh i would not would you
26:19not i would
26:21not he kissed me and he says to me i have a present for you in the car
26:31maybe come out with a bag of fish
26:36do you not use fixing it i do it doesn't it when you start eating it seems to come loose
26:41top or bottom top really yeah yeah yeah maybe i'm doing something wrong no you're not used enough
26:49is it gone are the days of the military and roses i'm thinking back of fish
26:57if you'll excuse me i'm going to live and take them back
27:13how does a penguin build a house he glues it together
27:19why do the norwegians put barcodes on their ships so when they dock they can scandinavian
27:27did you hear about the cheese factory that exploded in france the brie was everywhere
27:35will is hoping to be just as good a dater as he is a comedian it's all in the delivery
27:41hey how's
27:42it going man with a gift absolutely 100% healthy how are you well well i'd never dated in secondary
27:50school i just didn't feel like anybody like me that sounded really bad i felt like i had no
27:57flirting game whatsoever how do you feel buddy i'm a little nervous but like i think they're good
28:02nerves as i've grown up a bit i've kind of become more confident in myself and uh just trying to
28:07put
28:07myself out there a little bit now you know and what's your regular type or do you have a type
28:12that's
28:12a great question i don't necessarily have like a particular type um just somebody who i can just
28:17get on with it's a bit of a upper like someone who loves to talk maybe someone who shares the
28:21same
28:21obsession for football as i do you know ah yes the beautiful game until that is cuiva starts handing
28:29out red cards since 2022 i have been compiling like an ic list someone who doesn't like garlic dip now
28:38that's a strong one malibu and milk being your choice to drink on a night out apparently it's like
28:44called a malibu or something i bet you're proud of yourself now you didn't do it properly that's
28:52like the scariest part how are you i'm cuiva cuiva what they want to ask me to look at yourself
28:58yeah
28:59girl you look you look lovely thank you so much okay you're gonna be very nervous when he sees you
29:04well so what kind of person then are you looking to meet tall handsome family orientated a kind
29:14considerate person but also is willing to listen to me yeah he's looking over there in a mirror so
29:20he's getting nervous so let's go there enjoy it okay all right hey how's it going all good i'm will
29:30about watching will how's it going i got you some chocolates oh that's so sweet you're very welcome
29:37no worries at all is there anything that you definitely want to find out about them oh that's
29:41a great question uh their football alliance i go back and forth to the uk quite a bit for football
29:47matches just like different areas okay now who do you support because this is going to be like a deal
29:51breaker now is it oh my goodness so i'm a chelsea fan okay it's not too bad who do you
29:57support
29:58liverpool that's actually okay yeah like that's if you said like united right yeah if you said spurs
30:04how old are you well how old are you how do you think i'm 40 you're 40 i'm 39 39
30:14yeah
30:15you're behind the corner yeah just about exactly and sir like thank you so thank you so much
30:25but do you feel bad that you're getting old older like it's funny like i feel um i feel a
30:31lot better
30:32now i feel like i look better and i feel a lot more confident because i think i'm a bit
30:38more me now
30:39i'm so happy to be 40 and sometimes i even think like if i'm gonna be 45 i'm gonna be
30:44even better than
30:44that i'll be 50 i'm gonna be like on the top of the world like people used to say oh
30:50i wish i'll be
30:50younger i would like to go back to being 30 never i think i was so stupid i was 30
30:55years old well not
30:58the same like i think my priorities were different like for my 20s and for a lot of for half
31:05of my 30s
31:06i feel like i just i had my head down i was married i was trying to raise babies
31:13you know i just didn't have time to think about anything but i i definitely know more now
31:20than i did when i was in my 30s i had my situation a little bit easier i would say
31:27because
31:29when my son's mother got pregnant she knew that i'm gay right oh i told her that i don't want
31:36to be
31:36gay please take it away from right i have to be honest i was so in love with her i
31:42was we were
31:43together for like four years and i was i got very protective about her yeah i loved her to bits
31:50okay
31:51as a human yeah you know what i mean you you need to kind of learn from your mistakes and
31:56and grow
31:57and don't tell them mistakes you learned those mistakes for the reason you know they brought you here you know
32:09hi how are you would you like sour sweets now summer sweets yeah no one gets sweetened on chocolate sweet
32:20right we'll say movie night bang right what are we getting like a pack of fingers i can inhale
32:27a pack of fingers i feel like that's luxury then i've never had the fingers fingers like a pack of
32:32cadbury fingers right then we're gonna have a pack of cadbury fingers right we know yeah
32:40lovely she's gorgeous you were nervous well yeah nervous and i don't get nervous
32:45um no she uh but she she brought it out of me she brought it out of me like i'd
32:50say i kind of
32:50more go for like crisps than popcorn geez what do we have the opposite opposite to attract it's uh
33:00i'd say the biggest problem is not deciding if i want to go on a second day but deciding what
33:04to do
33:04on the second days you're happy you came oh yeah yeah deadly yeah yourself oh no no no you can't
33:11roll
33:12my eyes why didn't would you like to see each other again romantically we go three two one yeah go
33:20on okay
33:21three two one yeah yeah yeah you hesitate no no no no i don't know i don't know of course
33:30thank you so much for that you're good don't worry don't worry i think you're very down to earth
33:38you're very like humbled and like downtrodden you're like the opposite of me whereas i'm like
33:42very jumpy and like intimidating whereas you're more like i wouldn't say you're intimidating i feel
33:46like you're an honest person i feel like you'd be good at communicating now yeah yeah
33:51that's really nice that doesn't say beautiful for you don't look the label don't look like i
33:57wait till you get home stay with me forever you guys fancy each other yeah yeah
34:09he's lovely he did win my heart over like he's so much time for people and stuff like and like
34:13the main thing is really finding someone who has time for someone hello how are you how are we getting
34:20on
34:37the last wine please of course white wine all good absolutely gorgeous brilliant and how's the company
34:49yeah he's a lovely man yeah yeah thank you so sweet he brought me chocolates it can be something
34:57that will lead to something else yeah which you can yeah
35:03i'm doing teaching in college oh wow yeah that's real cool secondary school i love her
35:08do you i've always wanted to be a teacher like yeah i was like when i was like five and
35:12stuff and because
35:13my mom works in a school yeah she'd like bring home like little like stamps and stuff i love and
35:18i
35:18used to like always pretend to play school i qualified as an sna there oh my god did you my
35:23mom's an
35:23sna stop yeah no way yes yes what got you to do sna i do um like voluntary work uh
35:31with barrettstown oh my
35:33god so um yeah then kind of that led me to doing like the special needs kind of yeah but
35:39like i don't do
35:39it per se i just have the qualification still trying to find my feet do you know that way like
35:44i think that's the same way everybody around my age it's like you're still trying to find out what
35:48you really are passionate about you know i applied actually for a firefighter paramedic a couple of
35:54days ago so see how that goes that could be another route as well you know what do you do
35:58in your spare
35:59time it's a great question what do i do in my spare time um hanging out with mates obviously the
36:04boys
36:04um the boys the boys yeah the boys the lads definitely feel like i'm better in person
36:11i'm shocking at texting for the life of me like i can't text at all like i love just going
36:16for like
36:16ice cream or something like with the girls i love a sweet treat yeah at easter i love mini eggs
36:22mini eggs are like my you're like do not say you don't like them i love mini eggs okay i
36:27thought you're
36:27gonna say you don't like so at easter i stockpile stop no we're the same person i do the exact
36:33same
36:34do the exact same yeah yeah i'd rather it be like you swiped and then all of a sudden they're
36:39right in front of you and you're on the date right there and then because then you actually
36:42get to know the person you know what is your favorite food that's a great question i love a
36:47bit of coleslaw do you yeah would you have on everything now if i'm making like a toasty or
36:51something like you get a spoon and eat that was like no no no i wouldn't just get a top
36:55of
36:55car start slamming in front of me you know what you want i don't know i haven't been looking at
37:12it to be i just goes lost in the conversation in the moment to be honest take as long as
37:18you need
37:18can we have one more minute is that okay yeah of course you can have as long as you need
37:20thank
37:21you thank you so much thank you great conversation you're interrupting actually sorry sorry
37:27and so what made you come to dublin then uh i was looking for life right and i wanted to
37:33have
37:33some kind of gay scene as well yeah which i'd never seen before did you go out on the scene
37:38much
37:38very no very shy so i was trying and trying and trying but still very shy are you going like
37:44like
37:44yeah like i i'm i'm still relatively new to this um i used to go to the bar beside the
37:52george yeah i
37:53could hear the phone inside but i was too nervous to go in there by myself i always had to
37:59be a little
38:00bit drunk to walk in there especially panty back because you know how you walk in yeah it's a bit
38:06don't
38:06all eyes on you yeah you know what i mean it's like a walk yeah you know i couldn't live
38:11my life
38:12in poland as a gay person so that was the first main reason why i left the place i i
38:19lived you know
38:19it was like a gangs everywhere drugs everywhere everybody expect for me to prove what a man i
38:26you know everybody will fight with you and everything and i was none of that and i was pretending to
38:33be
38:33someone else for a long time and it was painful to hide how soft i was inside i had to
38:40become
38:41you know so i was like i'm doing all of these bad things and everything but inside me i was
38:45terrifying
38:46okay you know every day was a challenge for me just because i was scared that if they will see
38:51that softness inside me i'm gonna be in trouble so then after work after school and i was going back
38:57home and there was nobody at home closing the door and britney spears straight away yeah hit me baby one
39:04more
39:10time
39:10oh my god what was i saying there i don't care what you said i'm just eating it bloody raspberry
39:17you don't like them i'm not beautiful you'll have people out there over there and i'll say i want
39:25whatever she's having yeah she looks all right she's a lovey lovey woman good crack good crack are you
39:36driving i am not where do you get the bus um i have to get the lewis from here yeah
39:43to bus iris and then i'll get a bus
39:48i'll escort you back to the tires if you want that'd be great because they're not getting loose
39:53about it that'd be great yeah yeah yeah i'd appreciate that there was a little something
39:58there you know but they like they did they i wouldn't give up on the romantic bit
40:04okay thank you so much thank you and everything was lovely thank you oh it was just perfect i'm so
40:12happy to hear that would you guys like to see each other romantically again i'm not answering
40:20i'd like to see yesterday again i'm 50 50 on the romantic bit but if i don't mean any offense
40:26that in any way same yeah that's good no i would like to see you again good good i think
40:35he's a
40:36lovely guy you know i am yeah oh where are you so thank you again so much thank you have
40:47you oh thank
40:49you thanks all right bye now thank you you think if you were to have a friendship meetup what would
40:55you
40:55do we discussed that on the lewis specs and placards
41:16last year i went to three times haven't been this year yet need to go i try and get there
41:21at least once
41:21every season i try and get over to stanford bridge at least once did your family like kind of bring
41:25you up into like a football or something that you that was my granddad he's gone kind of five years
41:31now but like that memory will but having those memories of being able to go there with him i do
41:36find it emotional my mom like she'd be one of my best friends like i could tell her anything really
41:41that's why i love and she's never judged me like like she definitely she would be like my role model
41:46she's someone i look up to really yeah oh yeah that's so nice i love my family my mom is
41:53like my best
41:53friend my mom got sick when i was young that was definitely a bit of a oof then she got
41:58sick again
41:59and then we're like okay i remember as well the second time me and my brother moved in with my
42:05nanny
42:05and it was my birthday and she just got chemo so i couldn't spend it with her
42:10i couldn't even give her a hug and i suppose like i think that's maybe why i love birthdays so
42:15much now
42:15because i missed that one little birthday do you have many siblings just the one brother oh he's
42:21older than me oh yeah yeah we're chill that's class but we're very different really he's so introverted
42:27i'm so extrovert really yeah yeah my dad brother they used to watch matches when i was younger i was
42:34like turn that off like i want to watch telly but now then since i've got like an interest in
42:39that
42:39we've become closer as well what's your dream date dream date that's a great question it really
42:45depends i suppose like for me ideally like i'd love to do like an activity date so it's like you
42:50go bowling or you go play a couple games of pool or something and then like maybe golf or something
42:55to eat after what about you what's like your dream date my top top date yeah i'm going to a
42:59match
42:59going to a match all right yeah that is that like that would be like top of my list i
43:05mean that's
43:05a second date sort of now but all right like are you coming to anfield or am i going to
43:09have to like
43:09i mean because they're off a daily in park and watch the balls first and then
43:14you're going to introduce me to the league of ireland yeah
43:25thank you so much it looks sexy and the chocolate heart enjoy thank you so much thank you
43:36where do you like to holiday uh usually every year i'm going to gran canaria i went most recently
43:43in may or april and the the second one is um citrus i was just about to say like you
43:53go there and you
43:54have old dublin standing in front of you yeah i'm going to stitches in september are you yeah me too
43:59really i am yeah for bear week yes we're so basic aren't we
44:08what is your like more far away place we've ever been i've been to canada to uh play rugby
44:16we've played rugby yeah i didn't really show me your tights
44:21i like the way i look i think i've done the best with what i have
44:25you look good you look you have a good shape thank you i like your tattoos thank you bus
44:30somebody could be hitting on me and i am completely oblivious
44:37thank you i'm just like wasn't that a really nice person to come up and chat to me okay bye
44:45would you like no sorry thank you i should have asked you
44:55it's absolutely pleasure i have to tell that to meet you
44:58oh thank you so much it's been a total pleasure to meet the two of you too thank you
45:07so moment of truth yeah would you like to see each other again romantically
45:14you you want to go first or would i go first i can go first okay uh yes
45:20yes i would like to see you again okay um for me not romantically okay that's okay yeah
45:29how has everything been overall it was lovely yeah good food yeah great good company yeah
45:34you're a great guy yeah i really enjoyed speaking with you you're a handsome guy so it was it was
45:40really enjoyable yeah i suppose i just didn't feel a spark yeah yeah thanks again so thank you i was
45:47kind of pretty sure you would say no ah but i was still wanted to say uh yes
45:57i do like him and i would definitely want to meet you megan but it's like i don't feel
46:02devastated or hurt by that you know what i mean it's fine
46:13it's going really well yeah i think it's gone from my perspective anyway i think it's going
46:17really well excellent she's lovely she's honestly she's gorgeous girl the moment she walked in i was
46:23like yeah definitely it's definitely been the easiest date i've ever had like it's just been so
46:29smooth like you know that way so you're a happy man i'm very happy man yeah but game face on
46:34absolutely
46:34yeah yeah yeah play it cool now thank you thank you thank you i've never been with a girl that's
46:39kind
46:39of been as much as my type as she has conversation was just so natural she was just such a
46:45yapper which i
46:45love humor as well which is always good just so nice just such a wonderful person like you know that
46:52way
46:55but uh where where were we where were we that's a great question hello hi
47:06i'm going to get this no no no no please no no no we can split it's okay no let
47:11me get this honestly
47:12no you don't have to but i want to please let me get this
47:19would you two like to see each other again romantically ladies first
47:28yes i would yes i would
47:33thank you so much
47:34i had a ball good vibes from the onset i felt very comfortable he's very cute
47:48mini eggs as well that's a huge huge plus for me i'd share a bag of mini eggs with you
47:53i would as well
47:58where will the second day be a balls match
48:01okay oh yes
48:03you're going to bring me to anfield now then of course i am we'll do the stadium tour i've already
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