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90 Day Fiance: Before the 90 Days - Season 8 - Episode 17: Welcome to Your Destination
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00:00:00Previously on Before the 90 Days.
00:00:03I'm just glad that we didn't break the bed.
00:00:06I'm not a virgin anymore.
00:00:08It's way better than what I thought, OK?
00:00:10Way better than what I do at night by myself.
00:00:13This has made me even more committed
00:00:15to do everything in my power to be with you.
00:00:18I'm starting to feel like maybe the right choice
00:00:21is to stay here in the Philippines,
00:00:23but I know that my mother,
00:00:25she's not going to have a good reaction to that.
00:00:34Go in peace.
00:00:36You are clear from today.
00:00:38I don't know what the **** just happened.
00:00:40Point is, if it's enough for us to be accepted
00:00:43as husband and wife, then that's all I wanted.
00:00:47Can we have sex?
00:00:51On our second anniversary, you forgot.
00:00:55This is your thing, being a romantic.
00:00:58I mean, is that not romantic?
00:01:01Like, making sure your lights is on
00:01:03because you're at home and then I'm working.
00:01:07I'm getting tired of this.
00:01:08Sometimes I feel uncomfortable
00:01:10that he has more say about the money.
00:01:13I don't like being controlled.
00:01:16Every time you do something for me,
00:01:18you throw it to my face.
00:01:23Tell me you love her.
00:01:25If I was in love with her,
00:01:26I would have made a move.
00:01:28Dude, you made a move. You're blowing.
00:01:30No, no, no, no, no, no.
00:01:32Laura made a move on me.
00:01:35This is betrayal.
00:01:36Am I an alternative?
00:01:38That she couldn't get what she wanted.
00:01:41My trust is broken like that.
00:01:46I love Trisha very, very much.
00:01:49I need more time.
00:01:53I haven't made up my mind yet
00:01:55whether or not I want another child.
00:01:58I'm one, I'm one, I'm one.
00:02:00Today, not yesterday.
00:02:01You have to decide it.
00:02:02But if no, we cannot be together anymore.
00:02:08I don't want to think of my man living with another girl.
00:02:12Hey, guys!
00:02:14Am I crazy?
00:02:15Or is my guy living with a girl
00:02:16and getting financially supported crazy?
00:02:20She's a psycho.
00:02:21Good luck.
00:02:24You all right?
00:02:24Yeah.
00:02:25Are you okay?
00:02:26So cute.
00:02:27You run to her after this, right?
00:02:29Asshole.
00:02:31I feel like I was falling in love, though.
00:02:33But that , I'm done.
00:02:57Go to the gym?
00:02:58Nah, I'm not feeling the best.
00:03:00Rough night.
00:03:01Another one?
00:03:03Her and Nat got right into it.
00:03:05She went off yelling at it, you know, in front of the whole bar.
00:03:09How many people were there?
00:03:10Oh, probably about 20.
00:03:11Oh, f*** off!
00:03:12She stands up and she's like,
00:03:14how do you feel if your boyfriend was getting supported by another girl financially?
00:03:19I feel sorry for you, bro.
00:03:22It's still funny, but I do feel sorry for you.
00:03:25I just don't know what to do.
00:03:26I'm confused.
00:03:33It's gonna be hard to come back from that.
00:03:35It's pretty damn embarrassing.
00:03:36Yeah, this one might be a bit broken, my friend.
00:03:41This morning, I'm really deflated.
00:03:43There was a really big, you know, event last night between Nat and Elise.
00:03:48I didn't speak to her when we came back to the apartment.
00:03:51Because, you know, I needed to clear my head and just calm down.
00:03:55That was such a crazy, outrageous thing for her to do.
00:04:00I don't know how much damage she realises she's done.
00:04:03It's thrown a lot of doubt in my mind.
00:04:05So, that's a lot to think about.
00:04:09I'm f***ing.
00:04:11Hurting.
00:04:13And for s***ing.
00:04:15Angry, angry.
00:04:16Hey.
00:04:19Elise.
00:04:21How are you?
00:04:25I'm, um, really embarrassed.
00:04:30I couldn't sleep and I just am embarrassed.
00:04:34I should not have acted that way.
00:04:42Is that a sorry?
00:04:46I'm sorry.
00:04:47I'm embarrassed for myself.
00:04:49Like, I'm sorry that I did that to you.
00:04:54Did you realise what you did last night in front of people?
00:04:58I don't like embarrassment or personal s*** coming up.
00:05:01I acted f***ing cool and I shouldn't have told everyone in the bar.
00:05:06I think that I was just really triggered.
00:05:09The fact that, like, I didn't know you lived with her, that just brought up a ton of emotions for
00:05:13me.
00:05:14And sometimes I let my emotions get the best of me.
00:05:17And I'm just worried now where this makes us stand.
00:05:28That s*** should never happen once.
00:05:31There's gonna be a common occurrence.
00:05:34s*** that.
00:05:36You know, I'm out.
00:05:44Well, I'm, I'm sorry.
00:05:52Are we still gonna go to the zoo?
00:05:59Like, I'm, I'm leaving soon. I, I, I don't know where your head's at.
00:06:09I would understand if you don't want to take me, I, I, whatever.
00:06:13But you can go to the zoo.
00:06:17I think it's a hard situation for Josh.
00:06:19For me, a public embarrassment like that would be, would be, that, that'd be the end.
00:06:23But, um, I mean, the fact that it's not for him means he's either a stronger man than me or
00:06:27he really likes it.
00:06:28But I think it was a massive overreaction.
00:06:31Couldn't have been worse, really.
00:06:33And, you know, it's, it's not a good sign.
00:06:35Especially so early in, in, in the, in the relationship.
00:06:40I gotta get ready.
00:06:41Can I have a hug?
00:06:44Yeah, you can come here and give me a hug.
00:06:51I think I actually really embarrassed Josh.
00:06:54Big time.
00:06:56I'm sorry.
00:06:58Yeah.
00:07:01But I do still stand by my point that there is something off between him and Nat.
00:07:06My delivery could have been better, but my point is still there.
00:07:11Well, good luck with that.
00:07:14My actions were atrocious last night.
00:07:16And I feel like if we have some alone time and, like, I can explain to him how sorry I
00:07:20really am, I'll have time to, like, when I'm back.
00:07:31Baby, look, dingoes.
00:07:34Mmm, they're cute.
00:07:36Coming in to see our koalas?
00:07:38Uh, yes.
00:07:38I can't come to Australia without seeing one.
00:07:41100%.
00:07:41Yeah.
00:07:41Hi.
00:07:43Hi.
00:07:47Hi.
00:07:55Hi.
00:07:57Hi.
00:07:58Hi.
00:07:58She's like a little teddy bear.
00:08:00He is like a little teddy.
00:08:02Most people probably think with animals in Australia, they think of venomous, big snakes, big spiders.
00:08:06We have a lot of cute animals as well.
00:08:09Like, you know, koalas.
00:08:11Fun fact.
00:08:13I do know koalas do carry chlamydia.
00:08:17Really?
00:08:18Yes.
00:08:20Thank you so much.
00:08:22Thank you so much.
00:08:22It's an absolute pleasure.
00:08:23Any time.
00:08:24Enjoy the rest of your day, guys.
00:08:25Bye.
00:08:27Well, I'm so happy we did that.
00:08:29We can check that off our bucket list.
00:08:32We can.
00:08:35I'm glad that Lisa's having a good time, but it's hard for me to enjoy the zoo with, you know,
00:08:40everything that went on last night.
00:08:50It's so weird that you're not, like, touching me.
00:08:54Is it going to be, like, just kind of quiet, or are we okay?
00:08:59Or, like, I'm trying to just, I don't know how, like, to interact right now.
00:09:05I don't know what to do.
00:09:09I told you, I told you how much I care about you, you know, and how much you mean to
00:09:13me.
00:09:14And then what, you go and do the most embarrassing thing I think I've been involved in.
00:09:20That was completely wrong.
00:09:22And I will own that.
00:09:23And I will take full responsibility that, like, that Elise last night was, like, that's not, that's not cool.
00:09:30And I'm sorry.
00:09:32All I'm trying to do is get you two to like each other.
00:09:35You are so much different to her.
00:09:37She's a friend.
00:09:39You are my girl.
00:09:41You embarrass her, you embarrass me.
00:09:44And you're supposed to be the one?
00:09:46Like, I don't know if I can be with someone after that.
00:09:52The thing is, like, I'm falling in love with you.
00:09:57Like, I am.
00:09:58But things like last night makes me hesitate, you know, on introducing you to more of my life.
00:10:09I think the bottom line is I am just so triggered that I didn't know that you lived with her.
00:10:16And it's just bringing up a lot of emotions.
00:10:19And I think just the.
00:10:20You've got answers.
00:10:21You've got answers.
00:10:24You've got answers.
00:10:25You're just not willing to accept them.
00:10:33I can understand why you're hurt.
00:10:35I can understand why you're upset.
00:10:37It will not happen again.
00:10:44No, I appreciate that.
00:10:47Are you giving me another chance?
00:10:53I'm not very confident.
00:10:56See how, uh, convincing you are.
00:10:59I'm sorry.
00:11:01When I hear Josh say he's falling for me, it, like, makes my heart feel so amazing.
00:11:06And it scares me to death that I literally almost lost him last night.
00:11:11Baby, they're so cute.
00:11:13Can we feed them?
00:11:14I feel like I might be projecting my past traumas of my exes onto Josh.
00:11:20And that's not fair to him.
00:11:22You are so cute.
00:11:25I feel super fortunate that Josh is willing to give me another chance and not throw this all away for
00:11:31one crazy Elise escapade.
00:11:35But if I don't change now, and if I act this way again, I could lose him.
00:11:52If I act this way later, I act this path.
00:11:57Now I think it's good to have to kill besides fluidosis.
00:11:58So I thank you too much.
00:12:00And during this time a few days after coming to Boston.
00:12:03I think a good idea of getting exposed now.
00:12:11My friends have been treated as a hospital named while at quando was born.
00:12:12Thanks for waiting for capturing her all my life, don't miss your soul.
00:12:12You're helping some of my beloved victims, Delhi Set is a completemate.
00:12:12Of seeing no more War, democratic bureau, the suas ļæ½?
00:12:12Many otherns should never refuse your whole family and bring theirula'll be good,
00:12:12I think that's more important.
00:12:14Although I feel more vƩhic SQL He loves you for the first time he has a hoomer on words.
00:12:33Earlier today, I met with Laura's friend, best friend, Michael.
00:12:41And I can't believe what he told me.
00:12:45She let me believe that Michael was the one who made the move, and she made the move.
00:12:56I always think that Michael has feelings for Laura, but now I see that she is the one who
00:13:04wanted to be more than friends.
00:13:08How do I know she doesn't still feel that way now?
00:13:12Maybe that's why she didn't tell me.
00:13:18Honestly, it's a big deal for me.
00:13:22Maybe this is not her first lie.
00:13:25Maybe there was a lot of lies.
00:13:27Maybe it's all a lie.
00:13:34Hey, baby.
00:13:35Hey.
00:13:36How was your day?
00:13:38Perfect.
00:13:39Was it okay?
00:13:40Yeah.
00:13:41I'm curious.
00:13:41I enjoyed it.
00:13:45Did you really?
00:13:46Yeah.
00:13:47He's a good guy.
00:13:50I've been saying that.
00:13:52That's a relief to hear.
00:13:54He's a good guy.
00:13:56But it turns out, you're not so good.
00:14:04Why, what did I do?
00:14:09He told me that you made a move on.
00:14:20There is one person, I was worried that she can come between us.
00:14:28That one person was your best friend.
00:14:31Yeah.
00:14:32That one person you kept secret about.
00:14:35I didn't say anything because it was like, literally nothing to tell.
00:14:42You make me think like, Michael is the enemy.
00:14:45He's trying to break us up.
00:14:46I didn't make you think that.
00:14:47You thought that all on your own.
00:14:49But you did not avoid it.
00:14:52It was almost a year ago.
00:14:55I didn't think I needed to tell you every little thing that's ever happened.
00:14:59This is a little thing.
00:15:00Are you sure?
00:15:01It is a little thing.
00:15:01It is not a little thing.
00:15:02It's 100% a little thing.
00:15:04It was one tiny little thing.
00:15:06We got drunk.
00:15:07We were on the couch.
00:15:08I tried to kiss him.
00:15:09Big deal.
00:15:13One night, almost a full year into our friendship, and before I met BeerCon, Michael and I were
00:15:20watching TV, and we both had a pretty solid buzz happening.
00:15:24Pretty soon, we were kind of laying on top of each other on my couch, and I tried to kiss
00:15:30Michael.
00:15:32He stopped me and shut it down.
00:15:36Although it was really hurtful in the moment, Michael and I never talked about it after
00:15:40that.
00:15:41It's not something that ever came up again, and I never told BeerCon that I once tried
00:15:47to kiss Michael, because I knew if I did, he would never be okay with Michael and me staying
00:15:54friends.
00:15:56I don't trust you.
00:16:01This is your obligation to tell me your path.
00:16:06You tried to kiss me, okay?
00:16:09Yeah, I did.
00:16:10That means you had feelings for it.
00:16:14You wanted something.
00:16:15You couldn't have it.
00:16:18Maybe you get drunk and try to kiss him again.
00:16:21He's still in your life, and you kept this from a secret.
00:16:25Nothing happened.
00:16:27And you are still saying nothing happened.
00:16:30It doesn't matter.
00:16:31You still didn't tell me this thing.
00:16:36Well, what would you like me to say?
00:16:39Maybe you would like, sorry.
00:16:43I was drunk.
00:16:44I tried to kiss him, but he refused me, but we are still friends.
00:16:52That was hard?
00:16:53Nope.
00:16:54You didn't want it to say.
00:16:59I'm trying to change my country.
00:17:01I'm trying to make plans for us, for our future.
00:17:06Now, I'm thinking about, maybe I shouldn't.
00:17:12This is so ridiculous.
00:17:19I'm surprised at Birkan's massive reaction.
00:17:25I don't think that it's that big of a deal that I didn't tell Birkan.
00:17:29I mean, let's be real.
00:17:31He's kept a lot of secrets from me, and I'm still here.
00:17:36That pisses me off.
00:17:39You're missing all the points.
00:17:42I suspected something is going on between you and Michael.
00:17:45Nothing is going on.
00:17:46Will you just shut up and listen?
00:17:49Don't tell me to shut up.
00:17:55I...
00:17:55No.
00:17:57Just admit it, you're wrong.
00:18:00Or just don't talk.
00:18:02Maybe when you grow up a little bit, you'll learn to communicate a little better.
00:18:06You're one of the young husbands.
00:18:08Deal with it.
00:18:10You know what?
00:18:12I wish we never met.
00:18:15I don't have to go through all of this.
00:18:16I'm sorry.
00:18:17I'm sorry.
00:18:17I'm sorry.
00:18:18I'm sorry.
00:18:18You met...
00:18:19You wish that who never met?
00:18:22Us.
00:18:22You and me?
00:18:23Yeah.
00:18:25I can trust you.
00:18:28That's fine.
00:18:29I will get back on a plane and leave.
00:18:38If you care this much...
00:18:40No, I don't.
00:18:41You cross the line.
00:18:43If you're going to tell me that you wish we never met, I have nothing left to say to you.
00:18:49Okay.
00:18:50Okay.
00:19:04There's one thing you didn't fulfill last night for me.
00:19:08What is that?
00:19:10Oral sex.
00:19:12I feel like women have been giving her the oral sex.
00:19:15I am not a woman.
00:19:17I have my...
00:19:21There's only a few things I've asked of you.
00:19:27My mom, she's been blowing me up all morning, sending me tons and tons of stuff.
00:19:31She's been bringing me tons of text messages.
00:19:33Babe, mom would strangle you everything she can just to get rid of our relationship.
00:19:39We both needed some space away from my mother.
00:19:43But I'm terrified to tell her that I'm planning on staying in the Philippines.
00:19:49It's time for you to grow up and be a man.
00:19:51Not just following her orders around.
00:20:02I wasn't sure that I believed it.
00:20:04Then you came and made it so easy.
00:20:07I got this in a close.
00:20:09It looks like we're going to get wrapped up in bananas.
00:20:12Woo!
00:20:13Banana?
00:20:14You going to put me at the plate?
00:20:15Yeah.
00:20:21Hello!
00:20:24Oh!
00:20:25Oh!
00:20:27Hello, everyone.
00:20:28Hello.
00:20:28Hello, pa.
00:20:30Welcome.
00:20:30Hello.
00:20:32Good afternoon, pa.
00:20:32Welcome to the banana leaf wrap.
00:20:35This is a good experience for you, ma'am and sir.
00:20:37Because banana leaf wrap is good for skin.
00:20:40We need to proceed, ma'am.
00:20:41All right.
00:20:42yeah thank you should i really need to remove my tops or something no if you want it's okay
00:20:51last night she and i having the night away with each other getting a chance to be with each other
00:20:57intimately and it was definitely something that we both needed and i'm hoping the spa treatment
00:21:03is going to help us de-stress because i only have a few more days left here in the philippines
00:21:10and i have a lot of hard decisions to make about my future with sheena and then we need to
00:21:18put a
00:21:18banana leaf wrap their body mom very great oh wow i sure hope the wrap fits me
00:21:26i'm extra extra long this is my first time that i've done this banana leaf treatment
00:21:34and it feels like you're being placed on like as a food which is most people in my country
00:21:40they would use but at least to wrap food around it's going for me how's things looking up there
00:21:47ladies pretty good it's okay sir yeah i feel like a giant wrapped tamale here
00:21:55they're gonna throw me in in the oven next i was waiting to be steamed alive they're gonna steam you
00:22:02this is so strange like i don't understand why all my clothes are still on oh my goodness
00:22:08but it's very relaxing to be basically tied down with banana leaves and unable to move as the sun
00:22:17blasts me in the face and melts off my
00:22:23woes it was highly recommended by the hotel
00:22:27well honey this is quite relaxing yeah i'm having a lot of fun here and it's starting to rain
00:22:34oh yeah i love the rain yeah gotta gotta love the rain and the banana leaf
00:22:40oh the banana leaf just being here with you it's just amazing yeah i i've been thinking about
00:22:52everything and i feel like last night just strengthened the urge to be with you more
00:22:57and and so maybe i could get a job and start working here for the next few years
00:23:06wow i kept praying for you to stay here i love you baby bear i would try to prepare things
00:23:14as well
00:23:14for you to stay here i'll trust try to help you find a job if not then i could work
00:23:19on my own
00:23:20find a better job i'll do what i can my love she and i from the very start have always
00:23:27dreamed about
00:23:28making our lives in the united states together but at this point living in the philippines is
00:23:35i feel the best option it means i get to be with sheena faster i feel that sheena is always
00:23:43encouraging me to be my best self and to try to do things that are way out of my bounds
00:23:50it's a big
00:23:51gamble but just thinking now about being away from her just rips up my heart and tears out my soul
00:23:58i personally believe you're my wife even though we haven't signed any papers or gone to any you know
00:24:04church you're my wife and i don't want to be away from my second half and i hope that your
00:24:12mom would
00:24:12happen to respect that as our decision to make not hers but to us only
00:24:21well she's been blowing me up all morning sending me tons and tons of text messages
00:24:27even though my mom has been giving me the cold shoulder ever since i proposed to sheena
00:24:33i felt like i needed to text her to tell her that we met with the immigration lawyer
00:24:41that's when she really started blowing me up
00:24:48my mom has always been a very controlling person and i'm terrified to tell her and dev that i'm planning
00:24:54on staying in the philippines i'm worried knowing that i'm going to disappoint my mom
00:25:01babe mom would strangle you everything as she can just to get rid of our relationship
00:25:08even though i happen to try to do many things for her it's time for you to grow up and
00:25:14be a man and try
00:25:16to tell mom that you want to do some things that you wanted to do not just following her orders
00:25:20her
00:25:21orders around you have to make your own decisions my mother she's always been my safety net but her
00:25:31meddling constantly causes conflict between sheena and i i think it's a good thing living in the
00:25:38philippines because it's going to definitely give me some space away from my mother hello mom sir excuse
00:25:45voice times up okay thank you but at the same time i am 100 defying everything my mom has told
00:25:53me not to
00:25:54do and i'm scared i'm tired of waiting and i'm ready to start our lives together it's your time to
00:26:04shine
00:26:04honey i'm there for you you have to decide it yes or no but if no we cannot be together
00:26:22anymore
00:26:32you have to decide it you want have a baby with me or not
00:26:41can you tell them that we haven't even been talking for a year yet
00:27:13you just want the answer you want to have a baby or not
00:27:24you just want to have a baby or not to have a baby or not to have a baby or
00:27:29not to have a baby
00:27:31um my uncle said we are strict about having children because they represent our family line
00:27:40continuing that's what we believe and it's not going to change so we only wait for you and you know
00:27:49that
00:27:52it's not going to have a baby in their culture having a baby is the most important thing
00:27:59i understand that and i would hate for trish not to be respected by her community over this
00:28:05if trish didn't have a baby i feel like she would be ashamed
00:28:11i would feel awful if she looked at herself in that way
00:28:17and they're waiting for our answer
00:28:24okay
00:28:26but at the same time i'm feeling like i'm a piece of meat in a pressure cooker
00:28:34you don't feel like i'm being forced to um make a life-changing decision in in such little time
00:28:48i know how important it is to the family and i really know how important it is to trish
00:28:58if we're going to be together and get married
00:29:01then i want to make you happy i want you to feel like your life is complete
00:29:09so
00:29:13i have to say yes
00:29:18so you're saying yes now yes
00:29:22yes why you change your mind like that
00:29:26i didn't fully understand you know before
00:29:47i'm really shocked that rick said yes suddenly because he was not sure about his answer
00:29:56maybe because of my uncle's pressure but i'm really excited and also my family is very excited to hear that
00:30:05response
00:30:12so when are we going to have the baby
00:30:20i will file for the visa
00:30:23yeah it's going to take at least eight months to a year and then once she's approved after we get
00:30:29married
00:30:30and that's when we're going to start planning our our family together
00:30:34we're going to file for the future
00:30:44all right
00:31:12So, what if after 20 years you start...
00:31:16At the end of August, in about three months, then I will propose to Trish.
00:31:24So, in three months we are going to be engaged and he will start the process?
00:31:32If everything goes in the direction that it's been going in the last few days, then yes.
00:31:38That's what's going to happen.
00:31:57They are going to give a blessing for everything.
00:32:03This is great news. I'm so happy that it's turning out this way.
00:32:11Honestly, I felt bullied in this decision because I really wanted to be with Trish and the only way that
00:32:21I would be able to is to agree to have a baby with her.
00:32:24But seeing Trish's reaction on how excited she is, it's definitely making me feel more positive.
00:32:37I'm starting to get excited about the possibilities of having this family with Trish.
00:32:45She would be a great mother.
00:32:48And I'm actually starting to envision it and things looking really good.
00:32:55Her happiness is all I want.
00:33:08When you get back to America, you have to make an inquiry how I will get to America, right?
00:33:13I'm going to do that, but you do know I can't keep sending as much money as I have been.
00:33:20Every penny has to go towards an immigration lawyer. I can't even spend money anymore. I'm done.
00:33:39I want to snuggle before we get up. One last snuggle.
00:33:52Now I have more sex with you. Before you go, before you...
00:33:55I hope so.
00:34:00Baby.
00:34:01Baby.
00:34:02There's one thing you didn't fulfill last night for me.
00:34:05One promise.
00:34:07What is that?
00:34:08406.
00:34:09Oh.
00:34:12Why are you putting it off?
00:34:14I know you like it.
00:34:15You've been talking, you've been hammering on that.
00:34:18There's only a few things I've asked of you.
00:34:21And that's a major one right there for me.
00:34:24It's major for me.
00:34:27I've never had oral sex with Lisa.
00:34:30Because I've never tried it before.
00:34:32I don't know how to do it.
00:34:35Her fellow women have been giving her the oral sex she wants.
00:34:38And she wants me to be doing the same.
00:34:41I am not a woman.
00:34:43I have my .
00:34:46Yes, I give her what I have.
00:34:51When we get married, I'll make it up to you.
00:34:53Okay?
00:34:54Promise.
00:34:55I promise you.
00:34:56You better keep this promise because I've done so much.
00:34:59I'm sorry.
00:35:01Okay?
00:35:02I'll make it up to you.
00:35:07I wish it's possible for us to stay like, spend like one more week.
00:35:12It's not possible.
00:35:14I've got to start getting ready.
00:35:18Okay.
00:35:19I'm leaving to go home today after three weeks in Nigeria.
00:35:24And more than half of my trip was fighting with Daniel about my lies.
00:35:29And then I had to make up for all those lies.
00:35:34And I'm finally at a happy point.
00:35:36Everything is done.
00:35:38I just want to stay here with Daniel and get married.
00:35:41I don't want to go home.
00:35:44Um, baby, you know, I really wanted to marry you before you left.
00:35:51I sent you to help us to find my papers.
00:35:55So that means when you get back to America, you have to make an inquiry how I will get to
00:36:00America, right?
00:36:01I'm going to do that, babe.
00:36:03My first step is to get back to work.
00:36:05And then I am going to get in touch with an immigration lawyer.
00:36:09Okay.
00:36:10We are going to find out which is better, the K-1 visa or getting married in Nigeria.
00:36:16Which one is going to get you to America faster?
00:36:19That would be nice.
00:36:20Okay?
00:36:21So that's what we'll do.
00:36:22That's okay.
00:36:25But, babe, you do know I can't keep sending as much money as I have been.
00:36:33At this point, every penny has to go towards an immigration lawyer getting you to America, doing what we need
00:36:41to do.
00:36:41I cannot send any more money.
00:36:43I can't even spend money anymore.
00:36:45I'm done.
00:36:50That's fine, but you know how hard Nigeria is.
00:36:54Okay?
00:36:55So maybe I have to call you and ask you for assistance.
00:37:01Thanks.
00:37:03You have to try not to because I have to save for us to get you to America.
00:37:09Um, babe.
00:37:11There's no problem about that.
00:37:13I have you.
00:37:14Yeah.
00:37:15So we have a game plan now.
00:37:17Yes.
00:37:18Hmm.
00:37:22All right.
00:37:23I have to get dressed.
00:37:24You have to get dressed.
00:37:24We have to get going.
00:37:25Yes.
00:37:27She said she's not going to give me money anymore.
00:37:29Fine, because I'm not getting married to her because of the money she's giving me.
00:37:34No.
00:37:35I'm getting married to her because she's the one I want to settle down with.
00:37:40She has good plans for me.
00:37:41She's the one possessing my visa to come to America.
00:37:45She's not expecting me to do it by myself.
00:37:48Babes.
00:37:49What?
00:37:50This is so funny.
00:37:51Are you going to wear it today?
00:37:53Do you know what women will say to me?
00:37:55What?
00:37:55They will say your wife is weak.
00:37:58Will you wear it when I'm gone?
00:38:00Oh, my God.
00:38:02So, um, she deserves an applause.
00:38:05She deserves, you know, good things.
00:38:07That's why I'll wait for you forever.
00:38:16All I want is love.
00:38:18And she has been giving it to me.
00:38:20I will miss her, um, her soft kiss.
00:38:23I will miss everything about her.
00:38:27Even the sky is crying. It's raining.
00:38:31You're my husband. I love you.
00:38:33I love you.
00:38:34I love you.
00:38:39I knew it was going to be hard.
00:38:40I didn't know it was going to be this hard.
00:38:42Last time we were here, I got engaged.
00:38:46To you.
00:38:48Oh, my God, baby.
00:38:56This trip was nothing what I expected.
00:38:58I didn't imagine getting engaged when I landed.
00:39:01I didn't imagine meeting his uncle and getting a blessing.
00:39:04I didn't imagine seeing a king of all people.
00:39:09I didn't imagine any of this.
00:39:11I didn't imagine I'd buy a goat.
00:39:13I mean, none of this.
00:39:15I never could have experienced without coming here.
00:39:24I don't want to go.
00:39:27Do I have to go?
00:39:31I can't let you deal with you.
00:39:32It'll happen soon.
00:39:35When you get sad, look at my picture.
00:39:55It's okay.
00:39:58It's okay, baby.
00:40:00It's okay, baby.
00:40:03I love you so much.
00:40:05I love you so, so much.
00:40:08We'll be together soon.
00:40:11Am I yours or just passing by?
00:40:15My baby.
00:40:19I feel that I will not see her again because anything can happen.
00:40:26She might go back to her country and she might change her mind on most of the promises, like bringing
00:40:32me to her country, you know, the visa.
00:40:36I am hoping she will do it, but we are not married legally yet.
00:40:41So it's very hard for me to say goodbye.
00:40:45I'm gonna miss you so much.
00:40:49I love you, baby.
00:40:50I can't do it.
00:40:50You have to walk away from me.
00:40:52I can't do it.
00:41:06Okay, I'll go.
00:41:08I'll go.
00:41:12It's very hard.
00:41:13I feel like I'm not gonna see him again, even though I know I'm going to.
00:41:16I'm making these plans, but I'm thinking, what if they fall through?
00:41:22What if it's more than six months?
00:41:24What if it's more than a year?
00:41:25What if, what if, what if it's two years?
00:41:30What happens between Daniel and I?
00:41:32I don't know.
00:41:49This is nice.
00:41:51It's a big house.
00:41:52We can have sex in a lot of rooms.
00:41:55I was really upset with Elise and how she acted at the bar the other night.
00:41:59But she's trying to make it up to me.
00:42:01You know, I've never used the kitchen in my house.
00:42:03So the fact that I'm doing this must mean I really like you.
00:42:25It's a match in the dark.
00:42:31Okay, we have everything you think?
00:42:33Yep.
00:42:34Okay, to a trip.
00:42:35It's just us.
00:42:37Chris gets the place to himself now.
00:42:40Silence is coming soon.
00:42:43It's finally peaceful on the moon.
00:42:50Blue Mountains.
00:42:51It's lighter.
00:42:53What's this?
00:42:55It's called deodorant.
00:43:00I was really upset with Elise and how she acted at the bar the other night.
00:43:04But Elise has realised she was in the wrong.
00:43:06And she's trying to make it up to me.
00:43:07And she's organised a two night stay at the Blue Mountains.
00:43:12Take me away.
00:43:13The Blue Mountains are known for their hiking and waterfalls.
00:43:16And it's a different part of nature besides the beaches that Sydney has.
00:43:20So I'm excited.
00:43:21You know, I've never even been.
00:43:24I wouldn't say all is forgiven, but she's trying.
00:43:27And this is a good start.
00:43:38Oh my God, are we here?
00:43:40We are here.
00:43:43It's nice.
00:43:44It's a big house.
00:43:44We can have sex in a lot of rooms.
00:43:48Yes, we can.
00:43:52I knew absolutely nothing about the Blue Mountains.
00:43:55But Josh has always spoken about it and how much he wanted to go.
00:43:59So I decided to book us a trip.
00:44:01And there's hot tubs there.
00:44:02So I was like, love that.
00:44:05Look, baby.
00:44:06Look what I got us.
00:44:08Whoa.
00:44:09Oh, wow.
00:44:10A lot of space for a lot of activities.
00:44:13You're the best.
00:44:14I know.
00:44:15I thought it was a great idea to get out of Bondi, away from Nat, away from Chris, away from
00:44:21boats.
00:44:22I just want for us to really unplug and just be with each other more.
00:44:28Get out of the kitchen.
00:44:30I was cooking for you.
00:44:33You know, I've never used the kitchen in my house.
00:44:36So the fact that I'm doing this for you must mean I really like you.
00:44:39Well, that does mean a lot.
00:44:41This should be fun.
00:44:48Baby!
00:44:49What have you done?
00:44:51Baby!
00:44:51Ew, ew!
00:44:52This is not the worst stuff I thought was going to be in my mouth.
00:44:56Oh, no.
00:44:58Baby!
00:45:01I'm real crying.
00:45:03Ew, ew, ew, ew, ew.
00:45:05Oh, that was a process.
00:45:08Half of it went in my mouth, my face, my boobs.
00:45:12Maybe, should I take it off?
00:45:16Why isn't this coming to a boil?
00:45:18I don't know how to turn on the stove.
00:45:20Oh.
00:45:22Which pasta do you want?
00:45:24That's so embarrassing.
00:45:26What packet was that in?
00:45:28I'm making you two types of pasta.
00:45:30Perfect.
00:45:35Nope.
00:45:36Not ready.
00:45:37Oh, God.
00:45:38This feels really good.
00:45:43Oh, my God.
00:45:47I read somewhere, I heard, that you'll know if pasta's ready if it sticks to the wall.
00:45:52so like if you cook pasta and then it sticks to the wall then you know it's ready like yeah
00:45:57but
00:45:57i don't think that's the same with penne pasta let's throw in the pasta
00:46:05oh my god there's water in here i think i just ruined the sauce baby
00:46:13the kitchen is definitely not her element but i love seeing the side of elisa's doing something
00:46:19that she's not used to doing all right at least she keeps me on my toes i don't like it
00:46:27when
00:46:27things get stagnant or boring or stale and i know it's not going to be dull with her let's see
00:46:32how
00:46:32we go is it good it's not that bad it's horrible be honest i'm not picky it was the most
00:46:47fun i've
00:46:48had making dinner i laughed my head off and i needed that me too you know what's so cute about
00:46:56josh is like when i up or i do something stupid or i feel really awkward like he makes so
00:47:01light of it
00:47:02i don't know it's like it's the little moments like like then that i'm like you know what like
00:47:07i feel like he could be my forever but there's just one thing he hasn't followed through on and
00:47:13it's been constantly playing in the back of my mind i don't know if i can go back to florida
00:47:20not having met your son to see how you are as a father you would have you would have met
00:47:26him
00:47:26already i would want you to but he's moved away so for now like can we face time will that
00:47:33work yeah
00:47:35i'm not trying to harp on him again after everything that we've went through but i'm leaving
00:47:39soon and i haven't met anyone in his family i haven't met his son and this is a huge part
00:47:45of
00:47:45his life that i'm completely missing out on so i really really hope that it can happen before the
00:47:51end of my trip pretty full me too
00:47:59we're looking for wedding bands i like classic stuff
00:48:04it is really important for me to have the wedding ring 268 dollar
00:48:12i think he's not sure you don't want some men mistaken me as you know still available single
00:48:19woman they can have you sure why not we have a wiener
00:48:46yeah you really wanted that don't you
00:48:48there we go
00:48:55ready boo
00:49:01oops
00:49:19that was fun yeah that was so fun
00:49:22oh look at those jobs that's where you can find very nice wedding gowns and dresses like really pretty
00:49:31nice nice can't wait for the anniversary party yeah
00:49:39things with jovonne and i are really good and now in a couple of days we're having our
00:49:45anniversary party where we're going to renew our vows
00:49:51since we never had a wedding in person basically it's just like a second wedding to me you know
00:49:59because last time we didn't get to touch each other face to face
00:50:05i've been dreaming about this and now it's happening and i just can't wait
00:50:12okay boo are you ready yeah i guess so now that we're going to renew our vows good afternoon
00:50:26and we decided to look at rings we've been married almost three years and sometimes i still can't believe that
00:50:36jubon hasn't put a ring on it yet
00:50:40i feel like i feel like i'm the only woman in the world that got married without a wedding band
00:50:48hi hello what are you looking for uh we're looking for wedding bands we have different style okay what are
00:50:56you prepared for well i'm okay with a simple
00:50:59plain wedding band i want it more classic i like classic stuff
00:51:09i want this one
00:51:14it is really important for me to have the wedding ring my symbol of love
00:51:20you need a ring to symbolize that i assume you don't want some men mistaken me as
00:51:25you know still available single woman they can have you okay okay she's on the market i'm playing
00:51:35relax when is your wedding well we're actually married already but we don't have an official
00:51:43wedding rings yet we get our marriage online that's why
00:51:47liar you know to be fair you know i did get you a ring okay you send me your money
00:51:57and i bought a ring
00:51:58that's under 100 that's turned my finger green but that's what i thought no i thought it's just a
00:52:07substitute drink how about poor sir what do you think when it come to bands like i prefer
00:52:17like black like black like this silver in the middle kind of sporty but they don't sell that
00:52:22i already bought myself a non-expensive ring before we got married and i like it a lot
00:52:33i'm not a jewelry person and i really don't want to spend money on something i don't need or want
00:52:46i don't want to spend money on something i don't want to spend money on something i don't want to
00:52:48do you have something that's a little bit wider i have different kind of design okay this
00:52:58this one is good i like this one more simple but really looks like i'm married you know what i
00:53:07mean
00:53:07how much is this per gram no yes 15 510 in peso 15 5 10 how much is that us
00:53:16that's 268 in dollar
00:53:19at 268 yeah do you have anything budget no we didn't really have a budget but
00:53:28he's not sure are we gonna buy this we made today yeah i could come back
00:53:49yeah because i gotta sort out my bank stuff okay
00:53:55why would you bring me ring shopping if we're not gonna buy anything anyway
00:54:01what's the point of going out just to get an idea of what you want
00:54:14thank you so much bye-bye
00:54:20i feel so humiliated that i can't even have the cheapest ring it's not just a jewelry
00:54:29it's a symbol of our marriage i waited six years to be together in person
00:54:36he never applied for spousal visa and now i still don't have a ring
00:54:44once again he is making me feel like he's not invested in our relationship
00:55:07i don't know why he insists i'm in love with you i really don't i mean you did jump on
00:55:14a plane and come
00:55:14to my rescue i don't think he's the only person that thinks that there's a lot of layers there and
00:55:24i mean
00:55:40oh
00:55:45hey hey welcome to turn from that phone call you gave me yeah me too
00:56:01i'm assuming you've talked in beer con yeah i did it was super great thanks for that i kind of
00:56:08partly blame you okay
00:56:13i don't know you don't know i don't know what was said between you and him
00:56:18i only know my end of the story okay so we have to come together okay super curious what was
00:56:26going
00:56:26through your head telling him that i hit on you like i don't understand what how that even came
00:56:34up we never did anything and he's pissed off about it because i didn't tell him told me that he
00:56:41wishes
00:56:41he never met me and i kind of feel like there was zero reason for you to bring that up
00:56:48okay and i'd like to know why you did okay i'm proud enough because beer con was under the impression
00:56:56that i was in love with you that man kept pushing and pushing and pushing and at some point i
00:57:04need
00:57:04to him to understand that i said no to us having a relationship but you were the one that asked
00:57:12and from
00:57:13that he got very upset and i tried to reassure him it was a year ago it didn't i mean
00:57:18it was before you
00:57:19met him i feel like honestly it feels like a backhanded way of trying to sabotage it how long
00:57:27you haven't been here with him how long have you been here with him two and a half weeks and
00:57:33in two
00:57:33and a half weeks you cannot convince him that was not a threat but that's not on me i did
00:57:45everything
00:57:45i could to diffuse that situation i don't know why he insists that i'm in love with you i really
00:57:54don't
00:57:54i mean you did jump on a plane and come to my rescue i don't think he's the only person
00:58:00that thinks that
00:58:05i'm a liar there but no that's not something i want to happen anyhow
00:58:13more friends i don't want to anymore
00:58:18at the end of the day i want you to be happy all i ever heard was little stories here
00:58:23and there
00:58:23about him from you you said all these bad things and just why does she keep talking to this guy
00:58:30So I came to meet him, to see all the other good stuff.
00:58:34And you don't have to worry about him and I anymore.
00:58:37You just need to make sure that he's the right guy for you
00:58:40before you make a commitment.
00:58:42I don't even know what to do right now.
00:58:44Like, there's part of me that just wants to, like,
00:58:45go have another conversation with him,
00:58:47but I don't even know what to say.
00:58:48Because he just told me he wishes he never met me.
00:58:51Okay. But the opposite of love is not anger, it's apathy.
00:58:54Yeah.
00:58:54So angry means he still loves you.
00:58:58I don't believe Michael when he says
00:59:01he doesn't have any feelings for me at all romantically.
00:59:05But I think, ultimately, he does have my best interest in mind.
00:59:09And I think he does care about the future
00:59:11of my relationship with BeerCon.
00:59:15BeerCon is the person I need in my life.
00:59:17And I want to fix this.
00:59:20I just don't really know how to go about it.
00:59:23So what do I do?
00:59:25I feel like he never could understand that I didn't feel like
00:59:28that was that big of a deal.
00:59:30Do you acknowledge that he felt the way he did?
00:59:33It didn't matter whether he was right or not.
00:59:36No, I never said that.
00:59:38At the end of the day, the relationship is more important
00:59:42than the argument, which means somebody has to say, I'm sorry.
00:59:49It's amazing how the words, I'm sorry, when said truly,
00:59:52can diffuse the situation.
00:59:55OK.
00:59:56I see your point.
00:59:58I guess I'll go give him a call and see if I can fix that.
01:00:08I'll let you know how it goes.
01:00:11Yeah.
01:00:30How are you?
01:00:33I'm good.
01:00:34OK.
01:00:34How are you?
01:00:35I'm OK.
01:00:38I was just wondering if we could talk.
01:00:44Uh-uh.
01:00:46Not today.
01:00:47I'm sorry.
01:00:48Did you say not today?
01:00:51Yeah.
01:00:55Am I not supposed to come back to the apartment?
01:00:58I'm sorry.
01:00:59Just give me the space.
01:01:04OK.
01:01:05I guess I will get a room somewhere.
01:01:09OK.
01:01:10We both need time.
01:01:13Yeah.
01:01:14And we both need to think about what's going on.
01:01:17Mm-hmm.
01:01:20OK.
01:01:22OK.
01:01:23OK.
01:01:23Bye.
01:01:26Bye.
01:01:32I don't want to force you, but like, am I ever going to meet your son?
01:01:37When Elise asked to meet my son, I can see that she really, really cares.
01:01:41But honestly, after all the fighting with Elise, I've had my doubts about trying to let her in
01:01:46to the most important part of my life.
01:01:56Oh, my God.
01:01:58Oh, that's hot.
01:01:59Oh, that's hot.
01:02:00Oh, it's really hot.
01:02:03That's burning me.
01:02:05Oh, you found the champagne, I thought.
01:02:07It did.
01:02:08Sounded good.
01:02:08I think we should open it.
01:02:11I think we should open it.
01:02:14Wow.
01:02:16Cheers to that.
01:02:24What a perfect ending to a perfect little night.
01:02:29Good drive.
01:02:31Good drive.
01:02:31Good cooking.
01:02:34It's so funny, huh?
01:02:35So funny.
01:02:36OK?
01:02:37I tried.
01:02:39So am I making it up to you?
01:02:41Am I doing a good job so far?
01:02:43Yeah.
01:02:43Absolutely.
01:02:46Well, have I made it up to you enough that, like, you can let me in your own world?
01:02:52You have.
01:02:55Well, I want to be with you, and I'm scared that I've came literally around the world and
01:03:01all I've met is, like, a few friends.
01:03:04And I don't want to force you, but, like, am I ever going to meet your son?
01:03:14When Elise asks to meet my son or, you know, talk to my son, I find that endearing.
01:03:19But honestly, the last couple of days, after all the fighting with Elise, I've had my doubts
01:03:24about whether I'll introduce him or not.
01:03:27Obviously, I'm very protective of my son.
01:03:29So I want to be confident that this relationship is going to work.
01:03:34I understand he's young, and it's, like, a video call, and it's probably, like, a lot
01:03:40to explain to him.
01:03:42Yeah.
01:03:42I do want to prove how much you mean to me.
01:03:45But, um, that's been playing on me heavily.
01:03:51What's been playing on you heavily?
01:03:53Can you explain that?
01:03:55It's just been, you know, a tough year.
01:03:58I didn't move him away, but, you know, it was an hour and a half playing wrong.
01:04:03And I don't see him as much as I want.
01:04:08I still feel like he thinks I can get up there a lot more than I can.
01:04:11So it's just a guilty feeling for me at the moment.
01:04:18So I miss him, you know, especially when you're here, you know.
01:04:23Really?
01:04:24Well, yeah.
01:04:24Well, because when you're here, I think, you know, if he was here as well, it would be like,
01:04:28I'd love you two to get along, and then it would be, like, a perfect little world.
01:04:35I guess it's just painful to think about it.
01:04:40It's okay to have feelings, and it's okay to be upset.
01:04:45If you weren't emotional about your son, and you didn't feel this way, I would be worried.
01:04:49I'd be very, very worried.
01:04:52It means you're a good dad, and it means you care.
01:04:59You know, it's like having a son's responsibility and, like, excitement, and you do things with him.
01:05:03And then when something like that gets taken away from you, you're like, I feel like I lost myself.
01:05:10Yeah, I feel like I've sort of lost a bit of myself.
01:05:15My relationship with my son, we're really tight.
01:05:18I've been there since he was born.
01:05:20He's my little partner in crime.
01:05:22We go camping, we go fishing, surfing, you know, we kick footballs, we go and play golf.
01:05:28It's such a good part of my life.
01:05:31So it really did hurt this year when I didn't have that.
01:05:37I want to help make you feel like you're back together.
01:05:43I want to be that rock for you.
01:05:47I ain't gonna do that.
01:05:50Be there for you, support you in any way I can, but you have to let me into your life.
01:05:55I can't do that without getting brought into your life.
01:06:01This is very emotional because being away from my son affected me, you know, more than I thought.
01:06:07But I don't want that to hold me back from bringing Elise fully into my life.
01:06:11I can see that she really, really cares.
01:06:13She's shown that she's worthy of, you know, getting to know my son.
01:06:18But at the same time, it is scary to let her in, the most important part of my life.
01:06:23What if things don't work out?
01:06:24You know, that's going to be pretty devastating for all of us.
01:06:28Well, I'm here for you now.
01:06:51I mean, after getting her family's approval.
01:06:59I just f*** it up.
01:07:03I just f*** it up.
01:07:04I don't want anything from you.
01:07:09I just f*** it up.
01:07:27This is becoming a face in the sky.
01:07:29Or bit it up.
01:07:32Caesarā
01:07:32No, he's so careful.
01:07:35My family is happy that you're going to give me a baby.
01:07:49Thank you for your blessings.
01:07:52Oh, my God, they're crying.
01:07:54Thank you, man.
01:08:00I'm nervous that I've agreed and told them yes,
01:08:04that I'm willing to have a child.
01:08:06But it felt great to get Trisha's father's blessing.
01:08:10Overall, I've been enjoying my time with Trisha's family,
01:08:14but I'm sure glad that we're headed back to Antananarivo.
01:08:18Now Trisha and I, we can sleep together
01:08:20and, you know, take a nice, warm shower together
01:08:23and not have to worry about the eyeballs on us.
01:08:29They were really happy.
01:08:31You see all of them?
01:08:36I thought there was going to be, like, fireworks set-offs
01:08:40after I said that, after I agreed to have that baby.
01:08:44They're so sweet.
01:08:45Gonna miss them.
01:08:50I'm ready to have a baby.
01:08:52But what if you change your mind?
01:09:14I still have these doubts lingering in the back of my mind
01:09:18about whether or not I'm financially ready to have another child.
01:09:23But I know that if I don't follow through with my promises,
01:09:28this could put Trish in a very bad situation with her family.
01:09:33I know how much her family means to her.
01:09:36So I feel like I have to keep my word.
01:09:41I'm hoping in time that I'd be in a better situation
01:09:44to financially support another child.
01:09:50Yeah, I'm kind of banking on that.
01:09:55Looks like we're starting to get everything mapped out, huh?
01:09:58I don't know.
01:09:58Our future.
01:10:03Yeah.
01:10:06Do, Mom.
01:10:07Baby doesn't love you more than anything.
01:10:20Do you have to use the restroom or anything?
01:10:23I don't.
01:10:24I don't eat anything but just, um,
01:10:26or any chicken.
01:10:33Well, damn.
01:10:35My flight's been delayed.
01:10:37That's it.
01:10:38We wait for an hour.
01:10:41I hope this bad boy's going straight to Tanner.
01:10:45Couple of days in Tanner before my baby.
01:10:55That's really sad.
01:10:58Sad story.
01:11:01It's just all beginning.
01:11:04Oh, God.
01:11:29We were waiting on our flight,
01:11:30and it just kept getting delayed.
01:11:33The whole while Trish is asking me if I loved her.
01:11:37I kept telling her, yes, I love you.
01:11:41Eventually, she says, you know why I'm asking?
01:11:46And then Trish demanded that I give her my phone.
01:11:52It kind of, it kind of hit me that, um, I noticed she kept looking over at my phone.
01:11:59Um, and she probably saw that my ex had texted me.
01:12:06Is this the same ex you went to see in Columbia?
01:12:10Yes.
01:12:24A few days ago, I got a text message from my ex, and she was telling me that, um, you
01:12:34know,
01:12:34she misses the times that we, we had together, and, and I responded, and I responded inappropriately.
01:12:55Why?
01:12:56I would never hide something.
01:13:00This is what I'm talking about.
01:13:02You never told me what's really.
01:13:04I just told me.
01:13:05You didn't told me if I didn't ask.
01:13:17He told me that he's not talking to his ex.
01:13:22That it's just completely over between Rick and that girl.
01:13:27But they start talking while we are at my father's house.
01:13:42He makes me sad.
01:13:51Like, I love him.
01:13:54We talk about the babies, the future.
01:14:01My dad just give him blessing.
01:14:18I mean, after getting her family's approval, everything just felt different than it did the whole couple weeks prior.
01:14:29How did I come so close to getting what I wanted and then I just up?
01:14:40I'm not sure if I'll get another chance to make things right with Trish.
01:14:44And it feels like this is really the end and the final chapter.
01:14:58Are there plans being made and arrangements made to get you over to the United States?
01:15:04We are leaving tomorrow.
01:15:06I know my mom is not going to accept it, but I'm ready to do what I need to do
01:15:11to ensure she and I are together.
01:15:13I have decided I'm going to stay here in the Philippines.
01:15:18This is our choice.
01:15:20What the you just came out of your mouth?
01:15:36It's our choice.
01:15:40We are the next day.
01:15:41I'm super glad that we were able to sleep in today.
01:15:45I know he feels relaxed when mom isn't around me in her bad and sorrow mood.
01:16:02So when I talked to Forrest, he's like, oh, surprise mom.
01:16:06I went and met with a lawyer.
01:16:08And the lawyer says he has to have a certain amount of income, something like that.
01:16:14He didn't do anything right at all.
01:16:18I'm upset right now.
01:16:20Forrest is coming back.
01:16:21And for the last few days, Dev and I haven't heard anything from Forrest or Sheena.
01:16:26And we've just felt like we've kind of been left in the dark.
01:16:30You know, I don't know what to expect when they get back from their little rendezvous romantic vacation.
01:16:39I don't know what the conversation is going to be.
01:16:45We're supposed to be flying out tomorrow.
01:16:48And we're not sure what they're thinking or planning at all.
01:17:02Hey, mom.
01:17:04How's things going?
01:17:06It's going pretty good.
01:17:07How are you guys?
01:17:12Well, I think we need to have a talk.
01:17:15Yeah.
01:17:15I think we need to figure things out a little bit.
01:17:18Yeah.
01:17:20That's kind of why we're here.
01:17:24Today was supposed to be my last day in the Philippines.
01:17:27But Sheena and I have made the decision for me to stay here.
01:17:32And basically start a life here with her.
01:17:36You ready?
01:17:36Yeah, we're going to have to go.
01:17:38Let's go.
01:17:38All right, guys.
01:17:39I know that my mom is not going to accept it.
01:17:43But she has to understand that I'm not the child that, you know, she's seen all these years.
01:17:49I have changed a lot in trip.
01:17:52And I'm ready to do what I need to do to ensure Sheena and I are together.
01:18:01Oh, my God.
01:18:03Wow.
01:18:04Look at that.
01:18:06They moved to every place.
01:18:09Grace, well, look at that.
01:18:16Came from originally from a punishment during the Spanish era that people would have to put their feet and they
01:18:22have to avoid the bamboo while hitting its feet.
01:18:25It's just that it tells a whole story.
01:18:27Yes.
01:18:28Just sit down.
01:18:28I agree.
01:18:29Oh, my goodness.
01:18:30Oh, look at that.
01:18:32Yay!
01:18:32Yay!
01:18:33Oh, thank you.
01:18:34Oh, that's beautiful.
01:18:36That's awesome.
01:18:37Good job, guys.
01:18:38That's awesome.
01:18:39Well, you realize you have to be not only in a rhythm with the bamboo, but you have to be
01:18:45in a rhythm with your partner, too, at the same time.
01:18:48Kind of like life.
01:18:50Well, I think Sheena and I were worth moving in perfect rhythm.
01:18:57Yeah, definitely.
01:19:03So, Sheena, do we get menus, or how does it work?
01:19:07I think there's a set menu that's going to be prepared, so you can try, guys.
01:19:17Thank you so much.
01:19:21So, with the, the, um, where, where you guys went, just fill me in what happened and give me all
01:19:28the details.
01:19:30Um, yeah, I feel like me and Sheena, we really bonded, but, in more ways than one.
01:19:46You had sex, didn't you?
01:19:52You know what?
01:19:53Yeah, we did.
01:19:56Now time.
01:19:58I enjoyed it.
01:19:59It was fun.
01:20:01Yeah.
01:20:04You guys, uh, think that you have a good physical connection with each other?
01:20:10Yeah.
01:20:12I feel like our souls have been connected.
01:20:16Really connected, and now we can really understand each other.
01:20:22I'm happy that, you know, my son finally lost his virginity, finally, you know, nookie, nookie, nookie, bang, bang, bang,
01:20:30bang.
01:20:33And also, too, that's an important aspect, to know if they had compatibility on all aspects, including sexuality.
01:20:42Well, that's good.
01:20:44I'm glad you guys are both de-virginized, finally.
01:20:47That's...
01:20:47Yeah, Mom.
01:20:52Well, you know it's a sad thing that we have to leave you and that Forrest has to leave you
01:20:58tomorrow.
01:21:00But it must be very painful.
01:21:02But are there plans being made and arrangements made somehow to try and get you over to the United States?
01:21:14Did you guys talk, make any plans?
01:21:19Because this is, we are leaving tomorrow.
01:21:25Yeah, we talked a lot yesterday with the K-1 visa.
01:21:31I found out that being on disability, I don't make enough money.
01:21:37So, she and I have decided that I'm going to stay here and live here in the Philippines.
01:21:47Forrest?
01:21:48I'm tired of being alone.
01:21:50Oh, my God.
01:21:51I did not expect to be staying here long term.
01:21:56Oh, you didn't expect it.
01:21:58Well, I want my love with me and my second half.
01:22:01This is our choice.
01:22:04What's that that you just came out of your mouth?
01:22:07Mom.
01:22:08Where's your list of pros and cons that you wrote out?
01:22:11Was that in between the ?
01:22:13Excuse me?
01:22:15You can say one thing something you want to say, but for me, I have him.
01:22:18He had me.
01:22:19I don't care if you're here for my son.
01:22:20I'm doing my best for my part for your son because I love your son and I worked everything
01:22:25hard for him for our future.
01:22:26I want you to trust your son for once in a while.
01:22:33I trust my son.
01:22:35I don't trust you.
01:22:41I'm sorry.
01:22:42I just want to need space.
01:22:44I'm sorry.
01:22:46I'm sorry.
01:22:47Excuse me.
01:22:56I'm sorry.
01:23:01I'm sorry.
01:23:02I'm sorry.
01:23:04I'm sorry.
01:23:13I'm sorry.
01:23:16I don't trust you.
01:23:16You won't be able to make any money.
01:23:17I saw you're going to be my sugar mama.
01:23:21I wish we could have talked it out last night.
01:23:24You've been texting with him this morning?
01:23:26What has he been saying?
01:23:27I asked him if we could talk, and he said, sure.
01:23:30So I want to show him that my feelings for him
01:23:34are so much stronger than how I ever felt about Michael.
01:23:39Why did you mislead me when Michael made the move?
01:23:42I was worried.
01:23:44Maybe you would try to put a stop to my friendship with him.
01:23:53Are you excited about today?
01:23:56I think I should ask you that question, though.
01:23:59I just don't know what I'm going to say for my vows.
01:24:02It's just going to be like the basics.
01:24:05I just wanted today to be full of love.
01:24:10But it just feels like any other day for him.
01:24:14I don't know.
01:24:15I can't pretend that everything is fine.
01:24:21I love your son, and I'll do anything my best for him.
01:24:24Love doesn't pay the bills, Gina.
01:24:27You know, I'm like in panic mode that he's going to move to the Philippines.
01:24:31It's not going to work.
01:24:32It won't work.
01:24:34How much do you think that you're going to make working here?
01:24:37Where are you going to live, Forrest?
01:24:39Have you even factored how much it's going to cost?
01:24:43I don't know what to do.
01:24:47All the messages in the text.
01:24:49Why did you betray me?
01:24:52Why don't you block her?
01:24:54If you want this relationship, tell her that you don't want her anymore.
01:24:59That I'm with you.
01:25:00I love Trish, but love isn't so black and white.
01:25:07I need to be honest about my feelings.
01:25:11I don't know what to do.
01:25:14Oh, my God.
01:25:17Stunning.
01:25:17I don't think Elyse realized, you know, what she'd signed up for.
01:25:21Come on!
01:25:22Stop, baby.
01:25:23I'm so ungodly now.
01:25:25Come on, baby.
01:25:27What are you doing?
01:25:28At first, I'm just thinking she's being a drama queen.
01:25:33I start to think, oh, is she okay?
01:25:38Help me, girl!
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