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Many men misunderstand what it means to lead in a relationship.

This powerful message reveals how true strength is shown through support, emotional presence, and service — not pressure.

Watch this to transform how you love and connect.

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Credit: Scot Anderson
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00:00Husbands out there, we have to be men who take away the pressures of life from our wife.
00:06We're strong for them, but we're gentle with them.
00:09I don't understand so many times men will come home from work or the office,
00:12and the first thing they do is kind of offload onto their wife and put pressure on what I want.
00:18I need this or that.
00:19Instead of being somebody who comes home and says, honey, how can I help you?
00:22What can I do for you?
00:23Because here's the reality.
00:25You got off at five.
00:26She doesn't get off until the kids go to bed at 9 or 10 o'clock at night,
00:30and so she doesn't get a break.
00:33You shouldn't be that break.
00:34You should come on and go, hey, honey, why don't you go have a little bit of time?
00:36Go read a book in the room real quick.
00:37I got the kids right now.
00:39I'm going to take care of this for you.
00:40Hey, do you need some help with dinner?
00:41Do you need some help?
00:42I'll run the kids around looking for opportunities to serve your wife,
00:46to help them make her a night.
00:47I'm going to tell you what.
00:48At the end of the night, your night will be much better if you helped her get to the end
00:52of the night.
00:53But if she feels like she has to do it on her own and everything is about you,
00:57when you get home and you've had such a hard day, no, you're built for a hard day.
01:00We don't get to have hard days.
01:01We come home with a good attitude because you're a man made to be a champion of life.
01:05You come home with a good attitude.
01:07You come home with a serving attitude.
01:09How can I serve my wife until we are done with everything that is going on in our night?
01:14And once the kids are in bed and the stories are read,
01:17now the two of you can enjoy each other knowing that we have conquered this thing called home together that
01:25night.
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