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00:05¡Gracias!
00:30I was walking my dogs at night and I had to move. I had to move for my mental safety.
00:37Tara said that she was, like, embarrassed of my car. Like, do you think I should tell her?
00:42I wouldn't be doing that, no.
00:44You put me in a really s*** position because I was talking about your friend.
00:50I don't think that this conversation's necessary.
00:53Was he said or was he not said?
00:55I think I need to step out of being on this TV show.
01:17It matters so much where you live in London.
01:20Something you always say when you meet someone new is, like, oh, which part of London do you live in?
01:24And when they say their neighborhood, you know so much about who they are.
01:28I've lived in Belgravia for 20 years and now I'm in Chelsea.
01:32It's become quite expensive, but I love it.
01:35I live in Knightsbridge. You're right by Chelsea, Mayfair, Notting Hill. You're right in the middle of the action.
01:41I live in Islington and Hackney, which is mostly arty people, creatives.
01:46Whereas I would say if you're in Kensington or Notting Hill, people are a bit more interested in material things.
01:52If you want to live well in London, I'd recommend find a rich husband.
02:05Hello, London calling.
02:07Portable Market is one of my favorite places in all of London.
02:11It's very British.
02:14Hey, madame.
02:16Are you at the opera?
02:19There's all these vintage shops and you can buy vintage earrings. You can buy cameras. You can buy literally almost
02:25anything.
02:26Hi, ladies. I found you.
02:28How are you?
02:29I'm good.
02:30It's so cool. It never gets old.
02:33Yeah.
02:33What have you found?
02:34Nothing.
02:35Telescopes.
02:35I'm having a look.
02:36Some opera glasses.
02:37Oh, wow. Amazing.
02:38Those are like opera glasses.
02:39I do.
02:39Those are kind of fab.
02:40I do, actually.
02:41Of course you do.
02:42And I go for the races.
02:43And I bring them just for the look.
02:45What do you all think?
02:47Um, coffee?
02:48Yes, please.
02:48Yeah, I was going to coffee.
02:49Iced coffee.
02:50Yes.
02:51Careful, careful, careful.
02:52Well, they need to stop.
02:54Sorry.
02:55Whoops.
02:56I think...
02:57Hi.
02:58Hello.
02:59How are you?
03:00We're good. How are you?
03:01Okay, I'll get white chocolate and raspberry.
03:03Why don't we get a ham and cheese croissant and a quiche?
03:05I'm going to blame it all on you because you're pregnant.
03:06Yeah.
03:07Oh, my goodness.
03:09I mean, I had a lot to drink last night.
03:11I feel like you needed more alcohol yesterday with everything that happened.
03:15Oh.
03:15So tell me, last night was very strange because when all of this kicked off...
03:20Yeah.
03:21So you are speaking about a person with that person in the room...
03:24Exactly, so go nice.
03:24...then you're attempting to talk about other people behind their back.
03:26Tell the truth!
03:27Jesus Christ.
03:28I was expecting you to say something.
03:31I was in shock, honestly.
03:33Yeah, bless you.
03:34I was in shock.
03:34And just kind of absorbing it.
03:35I wanted to hear what Missy had to say.
03:39I felt bad for Missy because I think she got blamed for being the messenger.
03:43Was he said or was he not said, Dara?
03:45I didn't say those things.
03:46You didn't say it, so I'm lying.
03:47I didn't say those things.
03:48I did say those things.
03:50I did say those things.
03:50Is that what you're saying?
03:50I'm lying.
03:51She was being made out to look crazy and you were stuck in the middle.
03:54So I feel sorry for Missy and I feel sorry for you.
03:56And Dara really should own up to this that she's been saying and stop running around denying it because it's
04:01just false.
04:01Just say it to me.
04:04I think the really upsetting part is that I had heard from friends over the years that Dara had spoken
04:11about me, but I didn't want to believe it.
04:13And then Missy, of all people, kind of just confirmed everything I hoped wasn't true.
04:19Yeah.
04:20I thought you handled it well, to be honest.
04:22Thank you.
04:22I teach poise.
04:24So in that moment, it was practicing what I preach.
04:27And it's not always what you want to do, but it's like composure in that moment for me is the
04:33strength.
04:33Yeah.
04:33Good on Micah for like being polite.
04:35But then why would you cry over a friend like that?
04:37She's hideous.
04:38Get rid of her.
04:39I would say when somebody's horrible or toxic, just flush, flush, flush.
04:45Have she reached out to you?
04:46She should have reached out to you already and apologized.
04:48I actually just had a missed call.
04:49I just had a missed call.
04:49I just had a missed call.
04:50Do you want to answer it?
04:52If I was her, I'd be embarrassed.
04:55Because I was a...
04:55I was embarrassed.
04:57I want to be privy to what Micah thinks and feels.
04:59I'm hurt to hear that.
05:01I'm stunned a little bit like it's my best friend.
05:03And then to hear that, it's like I'm such a loyal friend.
05:08So that's hard for me.
05:10I was embarrassed.
05:11You have nothing to be embarrassed of, darling.
05:13You didn't do anything.
05:13Honestly, you did nothing wrong.
05:14I always love to give people the benefit of the doubt.
05:17And this time I...
05:18I think because you come across as a little bit too genuine, people take advantage.
05:23Which is not a bad thing, but you gotta be careful.
05:26I don't know.
05:26I always say don't mistake my kindness for weakness.
05:29Yeah.
05:30Tell her that.
05:31Tell her that.
05:32I will.
05:33For my own mental kind of well-being, I want to talk to Dara.
05:39I want to hear from Dara.
05:40I want to give Dara the opportunity to tell me these things and to tell me the truth.
05:45Well, you know what you could do?
05:47You could say, listen, we have to have a chat, but I only do it by walkie-talkie.
06:02The good vibes.
06:04I worked so hard to live in London.
06:07In my previous relationships, you know, I had these beautiful big homes and cars and everything.
06:14And then I moved into my apartment in London.
06:16And yes, it is a two-bedroom apartment, but I'm making it my own.
06:21Here we go.
06:22I love this.
06:23My son, Julian, lives with his dad in Copenhagen.
06:27So, it's just me and my daughter, River.
06:29So, it's perfect for us.
06:31And I'm actually really proud of myself.
06:34Just starting from scratch and saying, you know what?
06:37I did that.
06:40Missy!
06:41Hello!
06:42Hi, bitch!
06:44You look good.
06:46Oh, I'm a bit hangover, to be honest with you.
06:49I'm bald.
06:51So, I called you because I would love to invite you for a day out of London in a beautiful
06:57vineyard.
06:58I have a surprise.
07:00So, I've booked a trip out of town for us to a winery.
07:04Oh!
07:05I've organized cars.
07:06We're all going to go together.
07:07I thought we all needed a bit of a minute, come out of the city, just gather our energies back.
07:14Yeah, it's going to be fun.
07:15No, but for a pregnant person, like, what am I going to do at a winery?
07:19It would be nice for you to come out of London and, you know, have some fresh air.
07:25I think because of what happened at Dara's dinner, I felt like I was a bit of a drama queen.
07:30Was he sad or was he not sad?
07:31I didn't say those things.
07:32You didn't say it, so I'm lying.
07:34I didn't say those things.
07:34Is that what you're saying?
07:35I'm lying.
07:36And it's not who I am.
07:38So, I feel it's a great opportunity for me to have a big reset with a group.
07:43I do like to get out of London.
07:45You know, start from scratch, you know, just have some wholesome time together.
07:50How much am I allowed to drink?
07:51As much as you want.
07:53Just control yourself.
07:56I mean, yeah.
08:08Hello.
08:09I've come to act as my unit.
08:10All right.
08:11Let's go outside.
08:19Okay.
08:20Can I see what hats I've got in there?
08:21You can indeed.
08:23There you go.
08:24Sorry.
08:25Oops.
08:26More hats.
08:28I had some wonderful times in those hats.
08:30Lots of just running around London, picking up anything that we found fun or attractive.
08:36And my riding hat.
08:37That's good.
08:45Look, you never know what weather you're going to get in London.
08:50I have a coat on, just in case.
08:52Although, it's pretty big.
08:54Holy .
08:55This is where storage units keep their storage.
08:59Oh.
09:01Hi, my baby.
09:04Oh, what's wrong?
09:05Oh, it's just a lot of stuff, isn't it?
09:08I have to keep everything.
09:10And we just need to get a bigger house.
09:12I was left very much destitute and penniless in my divorce.
09:16This is not the first time I've rebuilt.
09:19But hopefully, this time I get it right and it's the last time I have to rebuild.
09:23I think the first foundation of dealing with your home, so it really feels like it enhances your life.
09:29You kind of want to engage with all the things that make you feel like you.
09:33I want my things back.
09:34I want to walk into my space and feel like I'm at home.
09:37This was Polly's hat.
09:39I can't get rid of Polly's hat.
09:41But why don't you keep, like, one or two of Polly's hats?
09:45You know, she's dead.
09:46I'm not going to get more Polly stuff.
09:49Yeah.
09:50I had two sisters and now I have one sister.
09:55Um, my elder sister died by suicide in 2013.
10:00She had bipolar disorder.
10:03I loved her enormously, but my relationship with her was complicated.
10:07It was a very challenging relationship.
10:11Are these hairs?
10:14God, I miss her.
10:18I think it's going to be a heavy day for Martha.
10:20You know, she's got a lot of memories in those boxes.
10:23Oh, one of daddy's old sailing birds.
10:25The best lives have really big ups and downs, Martha.
10:28And you've had higher ups than most people could ever dream of.
10:31And now you're on a down, and so it feels...
10:33Oh, yeah, but I've just been on a down for quite a long while.
10:36You know, it just feels so, um...
10:38It feels like such a failure to not have my life more together at 45.
10:44And I just, I don't really know how to get out of it.
10:50I know.
10:50But listen, this is part of moving out of it though, right?
10:53You have a safe new home.
10:54I don't know how safe it is, because now I've given my keys to a stranger.
11:00Are you sure he was even a builder?
11:02I guess, please, yeah.
11:03So he's like, I'm not doing the job.
11:05I'm like, drop back my keys.
11:06But you gave him your house keys?
11:10So tell me exactly what happened.
11:11Did you get any references from this guy?
11:14No, I didn't get any references.
11:16Did you get any pictures of the work he had done before?
11:19No.
11:20Oh my God, Martha.
11:21And you gave him keys to your house?
11:25What the is going on?
11:27She has serious life experience.
11:29That has told her, you cannot trust strangers.
11:32Who knows if he made copies of the keys?
11:35I don't know.
11:37Martha, I'm sitting here feeling sorry for you.
11:39And now I'm looking at you thinking, are you doing this on purpose?
11:43No, I'm not.
11:44No, I'm scared to be there.
11:45But I'm not going to be thrown out of my house by another man.
11:48No, no, no.
11:49You're not going to be thrown out of your house by another man.
11:51You're going to be thrown out of your house by you.
11:54Seriously, seriously though.
11:55If you're going to keep acting like this, I'm going to have to step back from our friendship.
12:00No.
12:11Seriously, seriously though.
12:12If you're going to keep acting like this, I'm going to have to step back from our friendship.
12:17No.
12:18If I had to come into your house and find your dead body, what do you think that would do
12:22to all of us?
12:23I don't want to become one of those horrible people just because the world has been cruel to me.
12:28I just refused.
12:29I'm sorry.
12:30You don't have to be cruel not to be a victim.
12:32You have to care about yourself more than other people.
12:35That's a really hard muscle to exercise when you've never done that.
12:40I've always been nice to you no matter what, but I cannot be this close to someone who was on
12:45a suicide mission.
12:48But if you keep acting like this, you're just going to be dead with nothing to show for it.
12:53And I'm going to say, oh, my friend Martha, I loved her so much.
12:56No, I know.
12:56You have waited your whole life for someone to take care of you and they never showed up.
13:01You have to take, listen to me, Martha.
13:03Stop.
13:03I'm listening.
13:04Stop.
13:05I am learning, but it is a tough learning curve, Margot.
13:08I am trying.
13:09I'm just not very good at it.
13:15It makes me so angry and it makes me so angry that I trust these people and they're horrible.
13:22Margot can be quite critical of me.
13:25I know that she does it because she wants me to be my best version.
13:29Everything she's saying is right.
13:31I do have to grow up.
13:33But sometimes it's tough to take.
13:35Yeah.
13:36I'm angry this time, Margot, and I'm not angry with you.
13:39I understand why you're angry with me.
13:41I promise I'm not taking this one.
13:42Okay.
13:43I love you.
13:44I love you so much.
13:45I love you.
13:45I'm sorry I yelled at you.
13:47No, you're right.
13:48I was an idiot.
13:50I was an absolute fool.
14:01Well, thanks for coming down, Mum.
14:03That's okay.
14:03Do a bit of baby shopping.
14:05I haven't really got much.
14:08Luna, I'm curious.
14:09After you.
14:11Oh, hi.
14:12How are you doing today?
14:13So, we're sort of...
14:14I'm pregnant.
14:15Congratulations.
14:16Thank you.
14:17Yeah, we're just looking for some baby bits, really.
14:19We've got a lovely baby section.
14:21Just through this way.
14:23Someone said to me you shouldn't get anything with more than three poppers.
14:26One, two, three, four, five.
14:29Four, five.
14:29That's a good rule.
14:31I love my mum.
14:32We're really close.
14:33And honestly, I think my shopping addiction started from her.
14:36Every single week she would take me to the mall and buy loads of stuff.
14:40It was her fault, I'm telling you.
14:42What did you used to dress me in as a baby?
14:44Easy things to get on and off.
14:46I feel like I tried to start dressing myself quite early.
14:49You did.
14:51I've always been interested in fashion.
14:53As a young kid, I would come down the stairs in my house
14:56and my dad would say,
14:57Ooh, having fun with fashion again.
15:00All the other girls are telling me to get a night nurse
15:03and, like, that's the only way you can sleep.
15:05And I just sort of think, I sort of want to give it a go.
15:08Well, then give it a go.
15:10And then I'll just call you when I need help.
15:12I'll call you a night nurse for you.
15:13I'm hoping Dad as well will get involved.
15:17Oh, yes.
15:17You'll certainly push a pram.
15:18Especially if you come and stay.
15:20Yeah, I plan to come and stay quite a lot, actually.
15:22So you've got a lovely house now.
15:24We do.
15:25My dad worked his way up from becoming an engineer
15:28to being a director and then a CEO.
15:30Then in 2008, we had the financial crash
15:33and a lot of people were made redundant.
15:35And my dad was made redundant.
15:37But with that came a very lucrative redundancy pay.
15:40I do have sort of memories of, like,
15:43him doing these, like, bouncy things and whatever, you know?
15:46Yeah.
15:47We went from being a sort of middle-class family
15:49to very much upper-middle-class family in terms of wealth.
15:54But with the class system in the UK,
15:57it's as much about what you're born into.
15:59So you don't necessarily just move up, like,
16:02because you've got a bit more money.
16:04And I think the term for us would be nouveau riche.
16:07So how do you think Joshua's going to be about?
16:10Looking after the baby.
16:11He's very sweet with the cat.
16:14Hello.
16:16Someone's sunbathing.
16:18Yeah.
16:19Which is, like, the only thing that I can sort of compare it to.
16:22You don't have to change the cat's nappy, then.
16:23No, but he turns the litter tray, so that's quite good.
16:26That's true. That's good practice.
16:27Yeah.
16:27He works so much.
16:29I said to him, you know,
16:30you might want to think about taking the first two weeks off work,
16:33like, and that was an absolute no.
16:35No, so he's not going to do his six-month paternity work.
16:38No.
16:38Exactly.
16:39I would never tell Joshua to slow down,
16:41but at the same time, he's completely focused on his work.
16:45His suit looks amazing, Lofty.
16:47Absolutely amazing.
16:49All right, let's do a couple of joint shots.
16:51Perfect.
16:52I just hope that he'll be able to take enough time away
16:54from his other baby, which is his work,
16:57to focus on our baby at the time.
16:59So, today comes to 348 pounds and 98 pence.
17:07Ah, baby sis, thanks, Nanny Jane.
17:15So excited.
17:16Yeah, it's going to be fun.
17:18Pit-a-potter.
17:19Hi, welcome to Pit-a-potter.
17:21Good morning.
17:22Would you like me to take your jacket so you guys can get an apron?
17:25I'll take that for you.
17:26Thank you.
17:27Feel free to choose anything we have here.
17:29Oh, there's piggy banks.
17:30Yeah.
17:30Oh, I see.
17:31You've got everything.
17:32Oh, what fun.
17:33Mimi, what would you like to pick?
17:34Come and have a look.
17:35A football would be nice.
17:37Look at the little piggy banks.
17:38Look at the owl, Mimi.
17:39I think you should pick one of these.
17:41I want to buy you a vase.
17:43Oh, thank you.
17:44I want to do a burger.
17:45I'm pretty hands-on as a mum.
17:47Because Mimi, obviously, is on the spectrum,
17:50and so she's behind people on a lot of things,
17:53I try and bring her into anything that's hands-on that she enjoys.
17:57Because she's a really lively character when she enjoys doing something.
18:01She has a heart of gold.
18:02I'm doing a vase just for mum because mum broke it.
18:05That's right.
18:06Actually, I think your dad broke my vase.
18:08No, he didn't.
18:09Yeah, he did.
18:09The Vanini vase that I spent a lot of money on.
18:12The good news is Mimi's making me a new one.
18:14It's a good thing I have you, Mimi.
18:16Stuart and I, we've had a lot of ups and downs.
18:19Daddy's going to nick one of those.
18:20Daddy!
18:21Hey, hey.
18:21Daddy's privileged.
18:24Like, a lot of ups and downs.
18:26Try doing this, Mimi.
18:27Look, you don't have to put the paint inside,
18:29but I kind of try and just move on and turn the page,
18:32only because I know the experience of when two parents have a very fractured relationship.
18:41Oops!
18:42You can get it everywhere.
18:43It doesn't matter.
18:44Remember what mummy told you?
18:46Everything good in life is messy.
18:49I came from a very horrific breakup family.
18:54Very young.
18:55And I think my mother blamed my brother and I for everything.
18:59For the divorce, which was a bit weird because we were just kids.
19:03Look at this mum.
19:05That's really good.
19:06That's really, really good.
19:07And then when I was 10 or 11, my father took us to live with him in Haiti.
19:14My father was, you know, associated with people in the regime of Duvalier,
19:19in business ways.
19:20And then we moved to Miami.
19:22We didn't talk to my mother for like 10 years.
19:25And they never spoke ever again.
19:29So guys, I thought you might go see your dad.
19:31Would that be good?
19:33I would love to see my dad.
19:34Okay.
19:35What about you, Mimi?
19:36Yeah.
19:37I think my mother had her own personal issues.
19:40But she was young.
19:41She was in her 20s.
19:42She was probably angry.
19:44Really, she married the wrong guy.
19:46But yeah.
19:47You know, I don't feel I've ever had a very strong maternal presence in my life.
19:52Yours looked really good, actually.
19:54When I was young.
19:55Probably why I didn't want to have kids.
19:58I don't want to them up.
20:01Look at this mum.
20:02That's really good.
20:04Mimi's a bit of a Jackson Pollock.
20:05Yeah, I'm having fun.
20:07That's what counts.
20:09Coming up on Ladies of London.
20:12You shouldn't have told her.
20:13I didn't tell her.
20:14I just can't believe it.
20:25Hello.
20:26Can I have you?
20:27Hi.
20:27May I please have a vanilla latte?
20:29Yeah.
20:30Would you like to sit in or is it a takeaway?
20:32Sit in, please.
20:33Have a seat and I will bring it down to you.
20:35Lovely.
20:35Thank you so much.
20:37Hi.
20:38We're in the same outfit again.
20:40We are in sync.
20:42Hi.
20:44You look great.
20:46Oh.
20:47I was literally like posting an Instagram.
20:49Just now?
20:51I've been waiting here forever.
20:53Have you?
20:54Oh.
20:55Did you order something?
20:56I did.
20:56I got a vanilla latte.
20:58The usual.
20:59There's the Dara that is the good friend.
21:02And then there's the side of Dara that I'm learning really fast I can't trust.
21:07Haven't I seen you in forever?
21:09Mm-hmm.
21:10I'm not sure which Dara is here today.
21:13How's it going?
21:15I don't feel great after we last saw each other.
21:19Yeah.
21:19Like I feel like I've been holding on to that.
21:21And I think.
21:22Have you really?
21:23Mm-hmm.
21:24I don't know.
21:25We need to do that question.
21:28No.
21:30I'm glad you asked about it.
21:32No.
21:32We're going to do a little genetic to the screen.
21:35Um.
21:36Good luck to her.
21:37Thank you.
21:37Thank you very much.
21:38Thank you.
21:39Like personally as far as like me talking to Missy.
21:45I feel like that was deeply miscommunicated.
21:47We were talking about your friend.
21:50Where you was a bit like oh she's a bit cringe.
21:54I didn't say those things.
21:56You didn't say.
21:56So I'm lying.
21:57I didn't say those things.
21:57I did say those things.
22:00It's really just not that big of a deal.
22:02I think what's a big deal is that she had to say it from all those people.
22:05That's what the issue is you know.
22:06But you can imagine my shock.
22:09Could you imagine my shock?
22:11Well.
22:12I'm.
22:13But I was.
22:14I was the one in the moment where it was like the negative things were being said about
22:18me.
22:20I was.
22:21I was really.
22:22I was not only shocked but I was so hurt and I was like the person that I would have
22:26wanted to lean across the table to hug to be like protect me was the person that they
22:31were saying these things was coming from.
22:32I do stick up for you all the time.
22:36Like.
22:37Again.
22:37That's what friendship is.
22:38That's what friendship should be.
22:40I'm not.
22:42I don't.
22:42In fact I stuck up for you that night at the table.
22:45Micah's my sister.
22:47I absolutely loved the walkie talkies.
22:51I'm just telling you how I felt that night.
22:53That's all I'm saying.
22:54I understand.
22:55But I felt the same way.
22:56Yeah.
22:58Again right there though.
22:59You shouldn't have told her.
23:01I didn't tell her babe.
23:02I didn't tell her.
23:04Dara's just denying and chilling and looking at me like don't believe these people.
23:09But I believe Missy.
23:11Did I say anything directly to Missy?
23:14No.
23:14She obviously overheard it.
23:18You have no reason not to trust me.
23:20I mean.
23:21Christ sake.
23:21You know.
23:22I don't even know how to respond to that.
23:24You know I've come to this table to find out what the authentic story and truth is here.
23:30And it's only denials defensiveness and deflection and the three magical D's.
23:36I just want to feel now more than ever.
23:38I need to feel safe in a friendship.
23:40Right.
23:40But it goes both ways too.
23:42Right.
23:43So.
23:43Yeah.
23:44It should be.
23:44It should definitely go both ways.
23:46And it's making sure there's never.
23:49There's never a question.
23:50Always feeling safe with each other.
23:51And always feeling like I got your back.
23:54You got mine.
23:56Do you feel like I've always done that for you?
23:58Yeah.
23:58And I hope you feel like I've always done that for you.
24:01When really.
24:04I can't.
24:05I just can't believe it.
24:06I'm hurt to hear that.
24:08I'm stunned.
24:09It's like my best friend.
24:10And then to hear that.
24:12That's hard for me.
24:13I was in shock.
24:16I don't know.
24:17I feel like we're going as it was.
24:19Um.
24:20Ugh.
24:22Anyways.
24:23Micah.
24:23I love you.
24:24And I'm so sorry.
24:25And I don't want you to be upset.
24:27I have known Dara since we were teenagers.
24:31And so if this is the end of our friendship, I am gutted.
24:36I have to get back to work.
24:38Okay.
24:41You know, if a friendship doesn't bring kindness and love into your life, then why do you have it?
24:50Life's too short.
24:52You know, I'm done.
24:56Coming up on Ladies of London.
24:59In the early 2000s, I made a movie that was the sexiest British film ever made.
25:04Is it a porn film?
25:19I know.
25:21Sorry.
25:22Up.
25:23Up.
25:23Please.
25:24Thank you.
25:25The most wonderful thing about Great Britain is the weather.
25:29Because it's always reliable.
25:33Welcome to England, darling.
25:35Thank you so much.
25:36Reliably ghastly.
25:38Oh.
25:38Hi, my love.
25:40Got a good old taste of British weather here, haven't we?
25:43Hi, darling.
25:45Oh, mwah.
25:45And I have not dressed for it.
25:47Mwah.
25:48Mwah.
25:49Mwah.
25:49These are coming.
25:51I am prepared.
25:53If you don't have to wear a leather trench coat.
25:55I know.
25:56Are you even in a British summer?
25:58Wow, you look gorgeous.
26:00I don't mind a little rain, but it's pissing down, Raina.
26:03Hi, darling.
26:04Oh, you clever girl.
26:05You've got wellies.
26:07Hi.
26:07Hi, sweetie.
26:08We're on our way, finally.
26:10How does one dress for a day at a vineyard in a hurricane?
26:13I don't even know they had vineyards in England.
26:14So, who's looking forward to the winery?
26:17Hands up.
26:18A wine tasting with Kimmy?
26:20This is going to go bad for everyone.
26:22No, this is every day of your life.
26:23What are you talking about?
26:30It's always roadworks.
26:33These roadworks never end, do they?
26:37This traffic is horrific.
26:40Oh, gosh, we're going to be late.
26:42What time did they say at 18?
26:44One.
26:46I make it eight.
26:49I have to leave it two on the dot.
26:51You have to leave it two?
26:52Yeah.
26:52I imagine we were supposed to get her slightly earlier.
26:55Oh, my gosh.
26:57Here we are.
27:05We're here.
27:06Welcome to England, darling.
27:09Oh, God, it's pouring.
27:10Oh, my God.
27:12Oh, my God.
27:13This is a really great day not to wear a hat.
27:16Hello.
27:16Gosh, this is lovely.
27:17I love it.
27:17Beautiful.
27:19I love you all so.
27:21I'm not speaking to you.
27:22So much.
27:23Have fun.
27:24All the fun.
27:25I know.
27:25I love you.
27:26I'm such a selfish bitch.
27:28The journey took three times as long as it should have done.
27:30I really wanted to be here today.
27:33I can't believe you're leaving.
27:34Oh, baby.
27:36Bye.
27:36I mean, heaven knows I love a wine tasting.
27:39But this afternoon, I have charity meetings.
27:41I work for three charities and I have to say that they will always take precedence over a social event.
27:48I messaged you.
27:50Bye.
27:51Oh, my love.
27:52It's time to wake up.
27:53Bye.
27:55Ladies, welcome to our original vineyard.
27:59Thank you.
28:00To not drinking alcohol.
28:02So I give that to you.
28:03My reluctant partner.
28:05I hate being in a winery and not drinking wine.
28:09We're going to be starting off with our Brut.
28:11Smelling it is even worse because then you get a whiff of it and you're like, I just want to
28:15drink it.
28:17The worst place ever to bring a pregnant woman.
28:19So we pair diamonds to sparkling wine because they're two of the best things in the world.
28:25So they must be enjoyed together.
28:27So I'm going to invite you to try and pair the wine we've just tried with one of the gemstones
28:32here.
28:32There is only one right answer.
28:35I would pair this one with your Blanc de Blanc because it's all Chardonnay and I'd say that was your
28:40white champagne.
28:41I feel like you're the expert of the group.
28:43She's the expert.
28:44She is.
28:45And Kimi knows everything.
28:46She totally is.
28:46And I would say that's your Blanc de Noir because it's all Pinot Noir and it's slightly darker, a little
28:51murky.
28:51Oh, that's really...
28:53Yeah, we've got an expert here, haven't we?
28:58Citrusy, freshly baked breads.
28:59It's like lemon posset with like fresh creme fraiche at the end.
29:03Do you want a job?
29:04She does.
29:05She needs a job.
29:07Don't be fooled by the shocking, outrageously inappropriate sense of humour.
29:12I don't date a man that doesn't eat bush.
29:15I love you.
29:16You're skinny, you're hot and I'm not even a lesbian.
29:20I want to see your boobs.
29:22I want to see your boobs.
29:23I haven't got any boobs.
29:23My boobs are like falling out all the time.
29:27Kimi's personality sometimes overshadows her profound intelligence and life experience.
29:33A bit of guava in Jolly Rancher.
29:36Okay, ladies.
29:37You're going to go and have a lovely meal.
29:41Oh, we're back here.
29:42Oh, I see how it works.
29:44Hey.
29:46Well, we would like some sparkling blanc de blanc.
29:49I just wanted to thank everyone for coming out today.
29:52I know it's a bit of a drive to come out.
29:54But I really appreciate you guys coming out.
29:57I feel because of what happened last, you see me in this like crazy mode because I was so frustrated.
30:04Tell the truth.
30:05Tell the truth.
30:08I just thought you were a featherweight fighter.
30:10No, but I mean, I do have the Albanian, you know.
30:13I'm quite feisty.
30:14I'm very feisty.
30:15I'm not going to laugh.
30:16But I also like the truth and I've just promised myself from leaving my very toxic relationship
30:23that I want to show up authentic to everyone and get to know people on a real basis.
30:30I thought it would just be like quite a nice thing to share a few personal stuff
30:35or whatever you feel comfortable with.
30:38Who's going first?
30:40Um...
30:41Kimmy.
30:41Kimmy.
30:42I have three nipples.
30:42Kimmy go first.
30:43I'm just joking.
30:45Well, I spent a lot of time in Haiti growing up when my parents got divorced and my father's
30:51Haitian.
30:51So every time I go to Miami with my father, and my father's really funny.
30:55There's a huge shopping mall in Miami and all the ladies in the kiosks are Haitian.
31:01And my father always says to them in Creole, he goes, you know, I found this little white
31:04girl in the mall.
31:04Oh, my God!
31:05Stop!
31:07And then I turn around and I say in Creole, I'm like, no, I already slept with him.
31:10Don't worry, give him a discount.
31:12I'm like, no, I already slept with him.
31:12I'm sure you're not doing.
31:15Beat that.
31:16How?
31:17I love it.
31:18Yay!
31:19Oh, my goodness.
31:20Thank you.
31:21Yes.
31:21Um, so, my mom's from Boston, my dad's from Barbados, so I'm half Bayesian.
31:26Growing up, I didn't come from a place where that was normal.
31:30To have like a mixed family upbringing was special to me and I always felt like really,
31:36really proud of that.
31:37Um, just kind of, you know, I didn't grow up with formal manners at all or etiquette.
31:42And so, my career basically came out of a deep insecurity of having no idea what was going
31:48on.
31:49Yeah, that's really interesting.
31:51And so, I think people naturally have a judgment, of course, about what I do.
31:54I have just been copying everything.
31:57Like, I was just eating my fish without my knife and then I was like, oh, I know I'm
32:01not supposed to scoop and I'm supposed to stab it.
32:03I just copied you.
32:05In the early 2000s, I made a movie that, at the time, was the sexiest British film.
32:11Ever made.
32:13It was called Nine Songs.
32:14The News of the World put out like a hotline for anyone who had information on me and I
32:19became literally like, hunted game.
32:21Most wanted.
32:22Is it a porn film?
32:23Wow.
32:23No, okay.
32:24And it went to Cannes.
32:26I'm gonna go a bit more deeper, I think.
32:29Yeah, I lost my brother very publicly in London.
32:34Um, may I ask what happened?
32:37Um, well, he got shot in London.
32:40I'm so sorry.
32:41Yeah, of course.
32:54I lost my brother very publicly in London.
32:57Hmm.
33:04I'm so sorry.
33:06He was so handsome and beautiful and caring and he loved everyone.
33:11When was this?
33:12So, um, six years ago.
33:13Did he have kids?
33:14Yeah, two.
33:15I'm so sorry.
33:16He actually got killed in front of his son.
33:18Oh, that's awful.
33:20He was walking home from nursery with his wife and son.
33:24Oh my gosh.
33:24Oh my gosh.
33:25And they were outside their front door and the wife looks back and he's getting shot.
33:31Oh.
33:31And the wife is like banging on the door to like throw the baby in.
33:36Oh my gosh.
33:36And it was Christmas Eve.
33:38What?
33:38Which is even worse.
33:40Jesus.
33:42I think this is the first time I actually ever speak about this.
33:46Yourself.
33:46And myself because I also felt like everyone thinks now like my family some crocs and like
33:53why did he die?
33:54Was he a drug dealer?
33:55Everyone was like judging the death.
33:58It's taking me so long to talk about it because it's something I buried so deep in my stomach.
34:03Me saying it loud is almost like I confirm it's happened.
34:07You know one thing is like Alex is still in your veins.
34:10Like he still lives in you.
34:11I do feel that with a group I'm being supported and understood and this is my time to be brave
34:18and to own it and to be like it's okay Missy.
34:21It's hard to deal with.
34:22It is.
34:24So this is definitely not the tone I was expecting for a viticulture lunch.
34:30And I feel bad for Missy but it's more than I had anticipated.
34:34How about we talk about something funny?
34:36Welcome to you my love.
34:38That was a big one.
34:39Oh my goodness.
34:39I know that's a really hard one to follow.
34:41I was like I own Longley.
34:43Pass.
34:50Is it hard or do you struggle sometimes?
34:53It's a huge challenge.
34:54I feel a huge responsibility.
34:55Especially because you're a mom too.
34:56Totally.
34:57I work harder now than ever.
34:58What does your husband do?
35:00He runs a business so it's everything.
35:01Yeah it's full time.
35:02You do it together.
35:03And he's like the funniest guy ever.
35:04He's hilarious.
35:05He's very seriously business minded.
35:06So wait is it your husband is a duke or?
35:09Marquis.
35:11I don't know.
35:12What's the difference?
35:13Because I'm not English.
35:13I don't know.
35:14It's higher than a duke.
35:18I'm skinny.
35:21Thank God for her.
35:23I mean that was really funny.
35:25All right.
35:26Martha.
35:27I have a white tattoo.
35:28I had a sister who killed herself.
35:31Oh gosh.
35:31And it's the, she was called Polly and it's the P from her signature.
35:34And I wanted it in white but I got it done like two or three days after she died and
35:38I just wasn't in a fit state to fight with a tattooist.
35:40Oh God.
35:43Listening to everyone's sad story like a shrink.
35:46Painful.
35:48What's your thing we don't know?
35:49Well I want to kind of reciprocate everyone being really vulnerable.
35:53About eight years ago my dad was diagnosed with liver cancer.
35:57Oh God.
35:58They started him on this kind of miracle drug and it's been eight years now and he's like still with
36:04us.
36:04Wow.
36:04Wow.
36:05Which is amazing.
36:06Really nice.
36:07Oh this is intolerable.
36:10It was supposed to be a nice day out.
36:11I felt bad for the vineyard people.
36:13It's like sorry.
36:14I think we should have a little bit of fun now and let's go have some drinks.
36:19Perfect.
36:20And the sun's out darling.
36:21And the sun's out.
36:22Like let's do this.
36:23Go to the bathroom.
36:24You did an amazing job Missy.
36:27Oh.
36:28Wow.
36:29What a champagne.
36:30Wow.
36:31Oh hey.
36:32Educate coach.
36:33Is this going to help?
36:34Now we're in my element.
36:35I went to the University of Florida and I know how to play beer pong.
36:40I think British people do play beer pong.
36:42I definitely play beer pong.
36:44But I don't think any of the other ladies know how to play beer pong.
36:47Do you want to go first?
36:49No.
36:49No.
36:50Alright.
36:50If I lose this game I'll be fine probably.
36:53I think it's worse to be good at this game.
36:56Honestly.
36:59Too hot.
37:01Oh yeah.
37:03Oh God.
37:06Thank you.
37:08Thank you.
37:08Can we get one drink before we sit down?
37:10Yeah sure.
37:10Oh let's go.
37:12Oh.
37:13Sorry.
37:14Oh.
37:17Yeah.
37:17If you're good at Prosecco pong then where have you been lately?
37:22Just do what Martha did.
37:24Okay.
37:25Yes.
37:26Yes.
37:31Do you have like an elderflower soda or something?
37:35We do yes we have.
37:36I'll have that.
37:37Yeah thanks.
37:37I just wanted to say to Missy thank you for being really vulnerable earlier.
37:42Yeah.
37:42And like letting us all open up as well.
37:44Thank you for coming.
37:45Oh my God.
37:47That was like way too much.
37:48Because we had to chat about like it was really like an amazing meeting.
37:52We didn't really hear anything from Kimmy that we didn't already know.
37:56I was just wondering if she's normally that way or if she can be.
38:00Oh my God she's amazing.
38:01Yeah.
38:01Or if she can be vulnerable.
38:02Because like I think it would be nice to like know something more about her.
38:05I mean everybody's really great.
38:07It's just you know I think some people are quieter than others.
38:10Like I thought Emma was really quiet.
38:12Well I mean she was not divulging any personal information.
38:16I mean I know a lot about her and her husband.
38:18You know Sue Lynn first.
38:20So he and I were very good friends before they were together.
38:24Did that change when they got together?
38:26Oh no we were just friends.
38:27But really naughty friends.
38:29Did you ever hook up?
38:48No I swear I never found out.
38:51I just broke off.
38:51Do you think Emma thinks you're a bad influence?
38:55Oh yeah.
38:56Don't miss.
38:59You know if you put he and I in a box we can laugh our heads off and he's a
39:03bit crazy.
39:04And she's kind of the grown up.
39:05She's a little bit.
39:05Quite ironic because she's the younger person.
39:09Oh my god.
39:10Excuse me.
39:12Do you have any otters there?
39:13Yeah.
39:14Ooh.
39:14If I get this.
39:15Can I go in with the otters?
39:18Sweet.
39:21You can feed the otters.
39:22In a wholesome manner.
39:24In a wholesome manner.
39:25Go.
39:28We're bumpers.
39:30We're like bumpers.
39:30Yay!
39:32Yay!
39:39I thought the winery went so well.
39:41I feel supported.
39:43I feel like the group is understanding.
39:45Have you guys been playing beer park?
39:47Yeah.
39:48Guess who won?
39:49You.
39:50And Martha.
39:51I've really never done anything practical with my life.
39:54We're getting to know each other different.
39:56It's just so refreshing.
39:58To London we go now.
40:00Yay!
40:02Oh look.
40:04The sun's out.
40:05Bitches.
40:08Is the baby kicking it up?
40:10It's kicking at lunch time.
40:11But I think that's because it was starving.
40:14And also maybe like the conversation.
40:18So you hated it.
40:19Hated what?
40:20The chat.
40:21At lunch today.
40:24I mean I just can't deal with that.
40:26When people start opening up too much I find it disingenuous.
40:29Yeah but I didn't know that about this week.
40:31I feel right back.
40:32I know that story.
40:34And it was like some drug related thing.
40:36Well that's what the press said.
40:37Who knows what the real story was.
40:38Well I'm just saying.
40:39I'm just saying though.
40:41But at the end of the day there was definitely some drug related thing.
40:45But I mean it is what it is.
40:47It's like let's not make it into some sob story.
40:49It is a sob story.
40:51It is literally a sob story.
40:52So you think that just happened by accident?
40:54It doesn't matter.
40:55Have you ever watched Saturday Night Live?
40:57There used to be a character called Debbie Downer.
40:59Debbie was always like the person that would come to the party.
41:01She'd be like, oh, my sister died.
41:04And then like the whole party would go to .
41:06I hate Debbie Downer.
41:10Call me old fashioned.
41:12It's sad.
41:13It's horrible.
41:14But it is what it is.
41:16I mean, Jesus Christ.
41:17What's a girl got to do around here to get some sympathy or empathy?
41:25Well, there you go.
41:26Oh, my God.
41:27Well, no, I've seen a lot of stories like this.
41:29Yeah, but I've never met anyone that that was their family.
41:32I have.
41:32When I was living in Haiti as a young girl, the gun crime I've seen growing up is unreal.
41:37Yeah, yeah.
41:38Like none of this fazes me.
41:39She's being pretty flippant about something really horrific.
41:44But equally, I think that's a deflection.
41:47I don't want to sit there and harp on bad things that happened to me 30 years ago.
41:52It doesn't help me.
41:53It makes me feel worse.
41:55I don't know why you lecturing me.
41:56I was not kidding with you.
41:57I'm not.
41:58I'm just going to throw my hat at you.
42:00Just kick it off.
42:01You just happened to be in her eye line.
42:12Next time on Ladies of London.
42:14I was just calling to see if you're free to come to like a little art thing.
42:18I'd like to introduce everyone to what they're going to be painting.
42:21Oh my goodness.
42:21Do you call it a banana or a banana?
42:23Every time I eat a banana, I get a new boyfriend.
42:26Kimmy, she was like, oh, come on.
42:29That's just what happens with drugs.
42:31It's not normal.
42:32Okay.
42:33How people can even make fun of that.
42:34There was no making fun.
42:36Margo was there.
42:36Margo's a liar.
42:38Get your finger out of my face, Kimmy.
42:40You're a bitch.
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