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00:00:00Previously, feedback from their peers...
00:00:03Steve-O needs to put on his captain's hat.
00:00:05...allowed some couples to deepen their connections.
00:00:08There's two ways to a woman's heart.
00:00:11Chocolate or cheese.
00:00:13Only the best for my wife.
00:00:15I'm excited by you taking the lead.
00:00:18It reminds you are appreciated.
00:00:22Want a nacho kiss?
00:00:23Thank you for sending tasks that really understand the dynamic of Stephen and I
00:00:28and what we needed.
00:00:30Probing questions reinforced some were on the same page.
00:00:34Yes, I do see as a father of my children.
00:00:36Once again, Danny avoided direct questions from Beck.
00:00:40Do you think you will fall in love with me and why?
00:00:43I want to be very careful I'll answer this question.
00:00:49Um...
00:00:49Chris and Sam were caught in a tense stalemate.
00:00:52Not getting defensive at all.
00:00:54Even like a little sorry it felt like that way for you, Sam.
00:00:56I'm sorry that it felt that way.
00:00:57Yeah, cool.
00:00:57Yeah, I'm sorry that it felt that way.
00:00:58Lead with that.
00:01:00And despite Scott's willingness to get fresh perspective...
00:01:04I'm definitely going to take it on board and I hope Gia does too.
00:01:07No thanks.
00:01:08Gia was less than impressed.
00:01:10Hi.
00:01:12We're just going through this.
00:01:13Oh, I want to get out.
00:01:14I love you.
00:01:15As her and Scott pulled off a disappearing act.
00:01:19Tonight.
00:01:20I feel like I have been caught up in the Gia room, Beck.
00:01:24What?
00:01:24It's been toxic from the start.
00:01:26I refuse to play the game anymore.
00:01:29Alissa's reached her limit and is standing her ground.
00:01:33I've had enough.
00:01:34And it's the first time she'll come face to face with Beck after those text messages.
00:01:41The vibe with Alissa was icy cold.
00:01:43It was vile and vicious.
00:01:45Very different vibe tonight, Alissa, doesn't she?
00:01:47Hang on, hang on a minute.
00:01:48Hang on, hang on.
00:01:49Oh, God.
00:01:50Stop using me!
00:01:52Why are you laughing?
00:01:54What bombshell has Sam dropped on Chris right before the dinner party?
00:01:58I'm fuming.
00:01:59I feel uncomfortable.
00:02:00I feel betrayed.
00:02:02I've never had someone do this to me.
00:02:05And then...
00:02:05That needs to stop.
00:02:07That needs to stop.
00:02:08Has Danny reached his breaking point?
00:02:10I want you to be wary about what you text people.
00:02:13Two months ago, Danny.
00:02:14Two months ago.
00:02:15I can't believe it was ten years ago.
00:02:27After a week of honest feedback about their relationships,
00:02:31tonight our couples are coming together
00:02:34to reflect and unpack at the sixth dinner party.
00:02:39And after feedback week,
00:02:41Stella and Phillip's relationship is going from strength to strength.
00:02:45Would you like a coffee?
00:02:47Just peppermint tea.
00:02:48Just peppermint tea.
00:02:49Please.
00:02:49A bit of honey.
00:02:50A bit of honey.
00:02:51Yeah, why not?
00:02:51Just spice it up a little bit.
00:02:54Feedback week was amazing, to be honest.
00:02:56Trying to understand each other,
00:02:57and that's definitely deepened our connection.
00:03:00I think feedback week was one of the best weeks.
00:03:03Yeah, it was good.
00:03:03It still really was.
00:03:04It was a good week.
00:03:05Yeah, everything's going great.
00:03:07Ready to rumble?
00:03:09I thoroughly enjoyed it, so hopefully everyone else got much out of it like we did.
00:03:16For Rachel and Stephen, feedback week brought plenty to smile about.
00:03:22I'm actually excited to share with the group, like, what a good week we've had.
00:03:26It was fun.
00:03:27It was flirty.
00:03:28We were really lucky.
00:03:30Yeah.
00:03:31I feel like we've really leant into feedback.
00:03:33Like, Stephen's definitely stepped up.
00:03:35It's time to let Steve-O put his captain hat on and lead for the day.
00:03:41Are you making me a microwave meal?
00:03:43Only the best for my wife.
00:03:47No one makes nachos like me, though, do they?
00:03:51No.
00:03:52And maybe they shouldn't.
00:03:59I like that task.
00:04:01I'd love to do it for more than one day, actually.
00:04:03You know, you'd be waking up, and I'll have my sailor's hat on,
00:04:05and you'd be like, oh, what's this guy up to?
00:04:09Oh, that was exactly what you're up to.
00:04:20After a bizarre disappearing act over the weekend...
00:04:26..Gia and Scott have returned to their apartment.
00:04:33I hated feedback week.
00:04:35I don't know, I just think everything got to me.
00:04:36..and I just wasn't feeling really good, and I wanted to leave.
00:04:40I can see the difference in you with, um,
00:04:43being away from the experiment, like...
00:04:45Yeah, I know.
00:04:46I don't think Gia's good at, um, you know,
00:04:48taking feedback from anyone.
00:04:50So I planned ourselves a nice little weekend getaway,
00:04:53and I feel like it was the best thing we've ever done.
00:04:55I think the weekend away did really well for Scott and I.
00:04:59I feel much better today after our weekend.
00:05:01Yeah.
00:05:02Everything's been reset.
00:05:03I feel like we had a factory reset.
00:05:05And I guess the topics of tonight will probably be...
00:05:08Feedback week.
00:05:10The only issues that Scott and I have in our relationship
00:05:12are that we're in this experiment with people that we don't like.
00:05:15And also, uh, I don't take advice from people doing worse than me either.
00:05:21So, that's the only drama.
00:05:23Whenever these setbacks happen for me and Scott,
00:05:25I think it makes us stronger.
00:05:27Going into this dinner party with a smile on a doll
00:05:30and a spring in our step.
00:05:32Yeah.
00:05:33Moving forward, I just want to focus on Scott and I
00:05:35and have fun with a few people that are here now.
00:05:38Are you ready to hit the road, hit this dinner party, or what?
00:05:41Let's do it.
00:05:44Gia and Scott weren't the only couple
00:05:46who had a difficult feedback week.
00:05:51I...
00:05:52I've been anxious all weekend.
00:05:54Um, you know, I've been holding in some stuff with Chris
00:05:57that I'm not really happy with how, uh, feedback week ended.
00:06:01At the last commitment ceremony,
00:06:03Chris's plan for Sam to move to Sydney took him by surprise.
00:06:08Are you starting to think about life outside the experiment?
00:06:12I think what it would probably look like is he'd go to Sydney.
00:06:14I would stay primarily at the farm
00:06:16and then maybe we can float back and forth for a bit
00:06:18from Sydney to the farm.
00:06:20But when Sam raised the issue with Chris...
00:06:23Oh, that's the first time I heard that plan
00:06:25and it was kind of like you've just, like, made a decision
00:06:27on how this is going.
00:06:28Well, no, actually, no.
00:06:30That's not true.
00:06:31I feel like you're getting really, like, defensive with me now.
00:06:34I'm not getting defensive at all.
00:06:35Well, even, like, a little sorry it felt like that way.
00:06:37I'm sorry that it felt that way.
00:06:38OK, cool.
00:06:41That comment was maybe misconstrued or whatever.
00:06:45I'm happy to, like, just, like, move forward from it.
00:06:47Even now, I feel like you're getting defensive.
00:06:49I'm not getting defensive.
00:06:50I'm having a conversation.
00:06:51Leaving things unresolved.
00:06:55I just feel like Chris isn't understanding me.
00:06:58Like, he basically told the experts a plan
00:07:01of how it's going to work after the experiment
00:07:03without consulting me at all.
00:07:04And that just made me feel like I didn't really have a voice
00:07:06and I wasn't being heard
00:07:07and I didn't have much empathy around
00:07:08how this was all going to end.
00:07:10The next day, he tried to turn the whole thing around on me
00:07:13and gaslight me.
00:07:15And the only reason I've held it in
00:07:17is because I just can't feel like I can get through to him by myself.
00:07:21Yeah, going into tonight,
00:07:23I'm feeling really anxious about bringing this up.
00:07:25And the anxiety comes from I don't think
00:07:26it's going to be received well from Chris.
00:07:29I can see Chris cutting me off tonight
00:07:31if I try to talk about it.
00:07:32So I just need that group dynamic to bring it up.
00:07:35But hopefully, with the support of the group,
00:07:37maybe we can get there.
00:07:41Over the weekend,
00:07:43Feedback Week has prompted a change
00:07:45in Bec and Danny's relationship status.
00:07:48What about the fact that I'm not only a wife,
00:07:51but I'm a girlfriend now?
00:07:54Like, it still doesn't make too much sense to me,
00:07:57but whatever we roll with it.
00:08:01Danny and I talked about, you know,
00:08:04are we going to call each other husband and wife after this?
00:08:06And he was like, well, yeah, you're my wife.
00:08:08And I was like,
00:08:09what about the security of actually being your girlfriend?
00:08:12And he was like, will you be my girlfriend?
00:08:14And I was like, do you want me to be?
00:08:16And he said, absolutely.
00:08:18So I'm a girlfriend and a wife.
00:08:21Double parked.
00:08:23I think it's the security of, like,
00:08:25when we leave,
00:08:26we'll still be husband and wife, right?
00:08:29Well, yeah, of course.
00:08:31Yeah.
00:08:31So, but...
00:08:32If I just kind of whip the ring off and be like,
00:08:34right,
00:08:36we're mates.
00:08:38But, um...
00:08:38It's just the security of it, I think.
00:08:40It's nice.
00:08:42Interesting, isn't it?
00:08:43Tonight, I'm walking to a dinner party,
00:08:44not only as a wife in the experiment,
00:08:46but as a girlfriend overall,
00:08:49it proves that, you know,
00:08:50he's got my back.
00:08:51We're ride or die.
00:08:52And this is really serious.
00:08:54It's never been done before.
00:08:56No.
00:08:56There's not a wife who's a girlfriend.
00:08:58Yeah.
00:08:59Well, except from you now.
00:09:01But, yeah.
00:09:02I like it.
00:09:05Well, when a woman's your wife,
00:09:09to go back to being a girlfriend
00:09:10almost seems like you're downgrading.
00:09:13You know, men, a lot of the time,
00:09:14we do things we don't want to do
00:09:16or...
00:09:17Not that I didn't want to do it,
00:09:18I'm not saying that,
00:09:18but we just do things
00:09:20to make these women feel good.
00:09:22So, that's what it was.
00:09:25How are we feeling
00:09:26about going to the dinner party, boo?
00:09:28Feel good.
00:09:28Feel relaxed.
00:09:29I actually feel pretty good as well.
00:09:31Going into this dinner party
00:09:33is probably the least stressed I've been,
00:09:35but then again,
00:09:35that could be a really bad omen.
00:09:37Obviously, like,
00:09:38I've been on apology tours.
00:09:41Like...
00:09:42You've apologised more than OJ Sims.
00:09:44I know I have.
00:09:45It's a...
00:09:46And I'm still apologising now
00:09:48for messages that were wrote
00:09:49two and a half months ago.
00:09:50It's a disaster.
00:09:51Suck it up, champ.
00:09:53If Alyssa, you know,
00:09:54brings it up tonight,
00:09:55then I'm just going to sit
00:09:56as quiet as a field mouse.
00:09:58I'm not going to defend someone
00:09:59who's in the wrong.
00:10:00Yeah, I don't condone bad behaviour,
00:10:03even if it's from my wife,
00:10:04I don't condone it.
00:10:05But this should be the last time,
00:10:07I'd assume.
00:10:08It can't keep coming up.
00:10:09It has to.
00:10:10Yeah, I hope we can get
00:10:12to the end of the sorries.
00:10:13Do you know what I mean?
00:10:14Let's get to the end of them sorries
00:10:16because I didn't come
00:10:17on this experiment
00:10:19to just hear sorry.
00:10:25While Beck and Danny
00:10:26are hoping to move on,
00:10:28little do they know,
00:10:30the texts have since been circulated
00:10:33to the entire group.
00:10:49Yeah, the text messages
00:10:50are pretty bleak.
00:10:54Very descriptive, polarising.
00:10:57It was so long ago.
00:10:58It was two months ago
00:10:59that I wrote this message
00:11:00when I was furious
00:11:01after I'd gotten off the phone
00:11:03to Gia and Scott,
00:11:04being told that Alyssa and David
00:11:07were saying that Daniel's not into you,
00:11:10you're in a fake relationship,
00:11:12you're this, that and the other,
00:11:12and I was like,
00:11:13f*** you, you know?
00:11:14Regardless if it was six,
00:11:16eight, ten weeks ago.
00:11:17A month ago, two months ago.
00:11:19You still sent it,
00:11:21you still said it,
00:11:22and what you said
00:11:23was really, really horrible.
00:11:27Gia did this on purpose.
00:11:29She's taken the worst of me,
00:11:32right?
00:11:33And left the worst of her out of it.
00:11:38Gia's sitting there scot-free,
00:11:39but actually...
00:11:44..she's venomous.
00:11:46I wrote that message, right?
00:11:48I was angry.
00:11:49I did it.
00:11:49At the end of the day,
00:11:51she's hurting Alyssa and David.
00:11:53Gia, you're hurting Alyssa and David.
00:11:58Oh, here we go again.
00:12:00Obviously, I'm feeling pretty hurt still
00:12:02from reading the messages
00:12:03that were sent to me.
00:12:06I don't even want to use the words
00:12:08and the language
00:12:08because it's completely foul.
00:12:11And, yeah, I feel like
00:12:13it really needs to be addressed.
00:12:17Bec, I read the receipts.
00:12:19You said those things
00:12:21about David and I.
00:12:23Why?
00:12:24Like, what sparked that fuel
00:12:26and how does something so hatred
00:12:28come out of your mouth?
00:12:29I'm going to call it out.
00:12:31100%, and you should...
00:12:32You don't deserve to be treated
00:12:33the way they've treated you.
00:12:35Since the beginning of the experiment,
00:12:38Alyssa and David have been the target
00:12:40of unwanted scrutiny.
00:12:42Because I will say,
00:12:43I think it's a fake showmance.
00:12:45100% agree.
00:12:46I'm sorry, got to agree.
00:12:48Alyssa came under fire
00:12:50at every opportunity.
00:12:53Excuse me, that's not nice.
00:12:55Alyssa, shut up.
00:12:57Shut up, Alyssa,
00:12:59you ratchet idiot.
00:13:01So, ultimately, girls...
00:13:03But ultimately, I wanted to be fake
00:13:05as usual.
00:13:07And nowhere was safe.
00:13:10We've literally been staying up
00:13:11for late hours just talking.
00:13:13Sounds like an infomercial.
00:13:15Selling hair products.
00:13:17Desperately 3am on your TV.
00:13:20Even when it got too much
00:13:22for Alyssa...
00:13:23I care about what people think.
00:13:25I care about people's feelings.
00:13:27You know?
00:13:28I don't want to have
00:13:29this conflict.
00:13:31The blows kept coming.
00:13:35There's a bit of chatter
00:13:36around Adelaide
00:13:39about Beck trying to actually
00:13:41dig shit up on Alyssa.
00:13:45Are you talking to people
00:13:46in Adelaide, like,
00:13:48about Alyssa?
00:13:49No.
00:13:51You're not digging up information?
00:13:53No.
00:13:53Not at all.
00:13:55With the texting drama
00:13:56being the latest
00:13:57in a long line of attacks.
00:13:59Why do you think
00:14:01people are coming after you?
00:14:03Ask them.
00:14:05I don't know.
00:14:07I don't know.
00:14:12I refuse to play the game anymore.
00:14:14You know?
00:14:15And be that
00:14:15horn in the middle.
00:14:17I don't care what's
00:14:18going to happen
00:14:19between Beck and Gia.
00:14:20You have to speak your truth
00:14:22and I know you will.
00:14:23Going into tonight,
00:14:25we've got each other's backs.
00:14:26Boys.
00:14:27I have never said
00:14:28a bad word
00:14:29about anyone.
00:14:31So,
00:14:32I'm not going to
00:14:33tolerate it anymore.
00:14:34Enough is enough.
00:14:35The behaviour
00:14:36needs to be addressed.
00:14:39Tonight,
00:14:40I am done.
00:14:42I just
00:14:43had enough.
00:14:44Had enough.
00:14:57Today is a good day.
00:14:58Walking to a dinner party.
00:15:00We're reset.
00:15:01We're refreshed.
00:15:03Vibes are high.
00:15:05And...
00:15:07Hold for sorry.
00:15:07Don't know about that.
00:15:10You told me.
00:15:20Dinner party number six.
00:15:21Now,
00:15:22they're coming off
00:15:22feedback week,
00:15:23which is always
00:15:23a pivotal part
00:15:24of the experiment.
00:15:25How does that make you feel
00:15:26knowing that someone loves you?
00:15:28It's good.
00:15:30It's some giggling.
00:15:33They all have
00:15:34pretty much
00:15:35a front row seat
00:15:36to each other's relationships.
00:15:38They're so intertwined by now.
00:15:39So,
00:15:39it'll be really interesting
00:15:40to see
00:15:41how they've
00:15:42taken on the feedback
00:15:43from the other people
00:15:44in the experiment.
00:15:48I think everyone's
00:15:49going to kind of discuss
00:15:50what letters they got,
00:15:51how their date went.
00:15:52Danny,
00:15:52it might be like,
00:15:53why didn't you turn up
00:15:54to the date?
00:15:54And I'll be like,
00:15:54because you're a wanker.
00:15:57Give me your hands.
00:16:02Oh,
00:16:02that was so smelly.
00:16:04It was so cute.
00:16:05Couples are starting
00:16:06to talk about
00:16:07beyond the experiment,
00:16:08which brings up
00:16:09even more.
00:16:10And I think
00:16:10it's a good time
00:16:11to be having
00:16:12those conversations
00:16:13before they go
00:16:13into home states
00:16:14so they can really
00:16:15prepare themselves
00:16:16to ask that question.
00:16:17Is this relationship
00:16:19going to survive
00:16:19outside the experiment?
00:16:20You look like
00:16:21an absolute queen today.
00:16:23And that's the highlight
00:16:24of my night already.
00:16:26And we haven't even
00:16:26started the dinner party.
00:16:29Hopefully,
00:16:30I can get a,
00:16:31you know,
00:16:32a couple bites
00:16:33of food down before
00:16:35someone raises
00:16:35their glass
00:16:36and ding,
00:16:37ding, ding, ding.
00:16:38I've got something
00:16:39to say.
00:16:43Let's go, babe.
00:16:44Oh, it's busy in here.
00:16:46Vic and Danny.
00:16:48How good does my wife look?
00:16:50Give everyone a 12.
00:16:52Not that there's
00:16:53no one in it, ever.
00:16:54Looking fancy
00:16:54and looking very together
00:16:55and very comfortable.
00:16:57Yes.
00:17:00Thanks, baby.
00:17:02I'll have a little one
00:17:03with you.
00:17:03Okay.
00:17:04That's cute.
00:17:04Not the tension
00:17:05that we saw
00:17:06from these two last week
00:17:07walking into that
00:17:08cocktail party.
00:17:09At least we're coming
00:17:10into this dinner party
00:17:12in such a good spot.
00:17:13Hmm.
00:17:14You didn't run away?
00:17:15I didn't run away.
00:17:15I always show up.
00:17:16You always show up, babe.
00:17:18Unlike Gia.
00:17:19I mean...
00:17:21Big news this week is
00:17:22you're now my wife
00:17:24and my girlfriend.
00:17:27Any wonder
00:17:28Bec's looking so happy
00:17:29and relaxed.
00:17:30She got a whole lot
00:17:32of validation.
00:17:34Danny asking me
00:17:35to be his girlfriend
00:17:35definitely gives me
00:17:36reassurance.
00:17:37It just feels like
00:17:39it's not just the experiment,
00:17:40but it's real life
00:17:41and it's really important.
00:17:44Is it important to you
00:17:45or not?
00:17:46I'm not going to lie.
00:17:46Not that important
00:17:47because, like,
00:17:48I take this experiment
00:17:49seriously anyway.
00:17:50Yeah.
00:17:50So, like,
00:17:51when we got married,
00:17:53getting married on national TV
00:17:54is about as serious
00:17:54as it gets.
00:17:55Do you know what you mean?
00:17:56So, I was just like...
00:17:57But, yeah.
00:17:58If it's important to you,
00:17:59it's important to me.
00:17:59That's right.
00:18:00It's one of them ones.
00:18:01That's right.
00:18:02I'm just not looking forward
00:18:03to having to, um...
00:18:06deal with the text messages.
00:18:08Well, one text message
00:18:09that I sent from two months ago
00:18:11to a group of women
00:18:12that I thought were my friends
00:18:13that I've obviously seen
00:18:14that aren't.
00:18:16Bec shouldn't have
00:18:16sent the messages.
00:18:17I've said that to her.
00:18:19It's hard for me
00:18:20to defend her.
00:18:21As a husband,
00:18:22it puts me in a bad situation
00:18:24because I feel like
00:18:25I'm letting her down
00:18:26when I don't defend her,
00:18:27but it's also
00:18:28I don't condone that behaviour
00:18:29so I don't want to defend her.
00:18:31I have all these text messages
00:18:33that Gia's written
00:18:33about these people,
00:18:34but I wouldn't stoop
00:18:35to that level
00:18:35of sending them out to people
00:18:37because as much as Gia annoys me,
00:18:40I don't want to hurt
00:18:40all these other people
00:18:41that she's talked about.
00:18:43Gia's come to war with me.
00:18:45Like, she just needs to stop.
00:18:48I'm sick of it.
00:18:50Hey!
00:18:52Hey!
00:18:53Oh, look at you!
00:18:55Oh, Stella and Phillip.
00:18:57Here we go.
00:18:58Another happy, confident entrant.
00:19:00Yes.
00:19:01Great to see.
00:19:03You guys had a good week?
00:19:04Yes, we did.
00:19:05Yeah, we had a good week.
00:19:06It was probably
00:19:06one of the best weeks,
00:19:07to be fair.
00:19:08They've seen.
00:19:10Oh!
00:19:11Hey!
00:19:12Hello.
00:19:14Rachel and Steve.
00:19:16Keeping out of trouble?
00:19:17Trying to.
00:19:18Nah, I'm keeping out of trouble.
00:19:20Oh, you're good.
00:19:20Nah, I'm screwing with you guys.
00:19:21Nah, it's been good.
00:19:22Hold the chat.
00:19:25I didn't just become a wife.
00:19:27I'm now a girlfriend.
00:19:28Oh!
00:19:31Okay.
00:19:32Okay.
00:19:34Cheers, God.
00:19:35Oh, and it's empty class.
00:19:36But, like, cheers.
00:19:37Okay.
00:19:37Cheers to that.
00:19:38Congratulations.
00:19:39That's cute AF.
00:19:41Excuse me.
00:19:41You didn't ask me to be a girlfriend.
00:19:43I did.
00:19:44You didn't ask me to be a girlfriend.
00:19:45Yes, yes, I did.
00:19:45And what did you tell me?
00:19:46What?
00:19:47Well, we're not going backwards.
00:19:48Okay, yeah.
00:19:49Okay.
00:19:49Hey, yeah?
00:19:50Yeah?
00:19:51Yeah?
00:19:51Yeah?
00:19:52Yeah?
00:20:00We're proud of you showing up tonight.
00:20:02We're just there to show that you are a strong person and not because you need to tear other
00:20:07people down.
00:20:09I've never done that.
00:20:10We've always been kind and I don't understand the why.
00:20:15I just want some clarity.
00:20:17Yeah.
00:20:17I think we all deserve that clarity.
00:20:19We just need some clarity and just to put it to bed for once for all.
00:20:35Oh, Alyssa and David, all smiles.
00:20:39They're very cute.
00:20:40Always so affectionate.
00:20:42Love the blue liner on your eyes.
00:20:44They're so sexy.
00:20:50I saw Bec and I'm always kind.
00:20:53I'm going to say hello.
00:20:54I'm going to give her a hug.
00:20:57You look like JLo.
00:20:58Yeah.
00:20:59I don't see too much of the blue.
00:21:01But inside, I'm like, oh, this person has stabbed me so hard in the back.
00:21:09I've seen the messages.
00:21:12How vicious and how hurtful they were.
00:21:17I don't know what's going on here, but I'm not playing a game anymore.
00:21:23So I feel like there is a lot to be said.
00:21:27How was your week?
00:21:30It was...
00:21:33It was an interesting week.
00:21:35I feel like it was a big one.
00:21:36It was a big one.
00:21:37Yeah.
00:21:39She has a very different vibe tonight, Alyssa, doesn't she?
00:21:42She's quiet.
00:21:43She seems inside her head.
00:21:44Yes.
00:21:46I don't know.
00:21:47Unless she has an issue with Bec because of the texts that have gone on in the past.
00:21:51True.
00:21:53So do you feel like...
00:21:55Because can I...
00:21:56I don't want to talk about it right now.
00:21:58We'll talk about it at the dinner table.
00:22:01The vibe with Alyssa is icy.
00:22:03It's icy cold.
00:22:05She's been quite cold in a sense that she didn't even want to speak to me.
00:22:09Can I tell you guys something?
00:22:11My husband didn't get to do the task where he met with someone.
00:22:15I met with David.
00:22:16He didn't get to do it.
00:22:17Gia refused to.
00:22:19And he was quite upset about it.
00:22:21Bec had a lot to say about Gia.
00:22:24And I'm thinking, do I pull out the screenshots?
00:22:28She's probably going to say,
00:22:29Alyssa, that was like four, five weeks ago.
00:22:32It doesn't matter.
00:22:35Regardless of if it was four weeks ago or yesterday, it doesn't matter.
00:22:40Take some accountability for your f***ing bad behaviour.
00:22:45We're not friends, girl.
00:23:18We're not friends, girl.
00:23:45Just a heads up, I'm not super happy with how things ended last week.
00:23:50And the only reason I haven't spoken about it is because I didn't feel like I was getting through to
00:23:53you just by myself.
00:23:54And I feel like I need some people around to give us both an outside perspective on the situation.
00:24:00Is this in relation to the comment that I said to Mel?
00:24:03That's what I brought up, but it's the whole defensiveness from that.
00:24:10I just don't feel like you're hearing me.
00:24:12And I don't feel like you're genuine with your apology.
00:24:15I don't feel like you really understand what you've done wrong.
00:24:19And I've tried to explain it, but we're just not...
00:24:21I'm fuming.
00:24:28I'm angry.
00:24:31Because my husband and my partner has just dropped a bombshell on me five minutes before entering a social gathering.
00:24:38You make it seem like I don't leave a space that's safe for you to come up and feedback for
00:24:43me.
00:24:43And that's basically, like, the definition of gaslighting is turning the situation around to me.
00:24:49I feel uncomfortable.
00:24:50I feel betrayed.
00:24:54I'm anxious and nauseous because I f***ing hate standing up for myself like this.
00:24:58I thought this was all over.
00:25:00So this is all new to me.
00:25:02I had no idea what was going on.
00:25:04And I could feel the awkwardness yesterday when I got home.
00:25:07And I'm afraid.
00:25:09Now we're walking to a dinner party and getting everyone involved.
00:25:11I just got called a gaslighter and got told that my apologies weren't genuine.
00:25:16I've never had someone do this to me.
00:25:47I've never had someone do this to me.
00:25:48Chris and Sam, very separate.
00:25:50Why are they not holding hands?
00:25:52I've never seen this from them.
00:25:55Hello, my man.
00:25:57Sam and Chris, we just look like two mates walking in, to be honest, or not even good mates.
00:26:02Hi, honey.
00:26:04That was frosty.
00:26:05It looked disconnected, disinterested.
00:26:09It was shocking, to be honest.
00:26:13This is new.
00:26:14Something's happened.
00:26:16Oh, babe, yucky.
00:26:18What's going on, babe?
00:26:19Um, where do I start?
00:26:21I'm sure he wants to do it in this forum, so you'll hear all about it.
00:26:25I just got told five minutes before entering the dinner party by Sam that he will be bringing
00:26:30up in front of the whole group that my four apologies weren't genuine enough on the back
00:26:35end of calling me a gaslighter.
00:26:36So I've just walked into the dinner party, hoping to have some drinks with my friends
00:26:39and catch up with everyone, and he has just dropped a bomb on me in the car, like five
00:26:45minutes before walking in the door.
00:26:46Like, amazing.
00:26:49How you been, mate?
00:26:51Been a rough week, man.
00:26:52You look flat as a pancake.
00:26:54What's up?
00:26:55Um.
00:26:58So basically, sitting on the couch at the commitment ceremony, Mel asked, like, what's the plan
00:27:01after the experiment?
00:27:02And Chris, like, said, well, Sam's going to move to Sydney, and then you can do this, move
00:27:05there, move that.
00:27:06Like, this is how it's all going to work.
00:27:07Like, we had never discussed a plan.
00:27:09Oh, really?
00:27:10We never discussed it?
00:27:13By watching it, I just assumed you'd had them conversations.
00:27:15Yeah, so we hadn't.
00:27:16And at the end of the day, it's fine.
00:27:17Like, he might have been excited or whatever, but then in feedback week, I, like, just wanted
00:27:21to say, I just wanted to say to him, like, hey, man, like, when you made the plan of,
00:27:27like, how it's already made, and he just goes, that's not what I said.
00:27:30What I said was, like, dismissing, shutting it down.
00:27:33Do you get quite aggressive?
00:27:34That conversation went awfully.
00:27:35Then, basically, I was like, he's like, what do you want me to do?
00:27:39I was like, can you just say sorry?
00:27:40Like, the apology just comes with defensiveness.
00:27:43Like, he apologised in the same voice that he was defensive.
00:27:46Yeah.
00:27:46Like, it's like, it's not genuine.
00:27:47I don't feel it yet.
00:27:49And he's just so defensive with me today as well.
00:27:51And I'm like, all I'm trying to do is be heard.
00:27:53And, like, he's upset that I've spoken up.
00:27:55Yeah.
00:27:57That's not okay.
00:27:58Balcony.
00:27:58Yeah.
00:27:59Yeah.
00:28:02Hi!
00:28:04Lucky loss.
00:28:06Ah, and here's Gia and Scott.
00:28:08We didn't know if we wanted to come, you know?
00:28:10Nice for Gia to show up tonight, do you know what I mean?
00:28:13She's got one of them robes, what Harry Potter has,
00:28:16where she goes invisible from time to time.
00:28:18How are you?
00:28:19How are you, mate?
00:28:19Good, mate.
00:28:20Good to see you.
00:28:21How you going?
00:28:21Yeah, how you going?
00:28:22How are you?
00:28:23Surprising to see Gia and Scott actually hugging Bec and Danny.
00:28:27Particularly Scott, who made it very clear that he didn't want to have anything to do with
00:28:31Bec.
00:28:32Oh, thank you.
00:28:33Oh, thank you.
00:28:33Hi, Gia.
00:28:33Hello, guys.
00:28:34Hi, how are you?
00:28:37Oh, look at your men.
00:28:37You guys look duffer.
00:28:39Danny, how are you?
00:28:40Good to see you.
00:28:41You too.
00:28:42Hello.
00:28:42Hello.
00:28:42My eyes are very, very, very much open with Gia.
00:28:47You've shared personal messages between you, myself and a few other ladies, right,
00:28:52to try and take me down.
00:28:55You are vicious.
00:28:58Stay away from me.
00:28:59Stay away.
00:29:01Hi, babe.
00:29:02Love you.
00:29:03We got separated.
00:29:04Yeah, hold it.
00:29:05It's on.
00:29:06It's on.
00:29:06Do you want to grab a drink?
00:29:07Yeah.
00:29:08I was so happy to see Chris.
00:29:09I knew he'd been stressing.
00:29:11The way he ran, it was like, he needs to talk to his girl.
00:29:14We were in the car on the way over, and we have not spoken all day.
00:29:17It's been awkward as f***.
00:29:18And then in the car, he called me a gaslighter.
00:29:23I never really liked Sam from the minute I saw him.
00:29:27Sam doesn't play his cards how his cards really are.
00:29:32He's waited until tonight to do this.
00:29:35This is a, like, this all happened last week.
00:29:37Yeah.
00:29:38Very calculated.
00:29:39Very super calculated and cruel.
00:29:41But I'm going to back myself.
00:29:42Yeah.
00:29:43I'm not apologising again.
00:29:43I've apologised four f***ing times.
00:29:45How much more can you do?
00:29:47Yeah.
00:29:47It's just, it's, it's, it's, it's, it's childish.
00:29:50You want to play games like a little boy?
00:29:53Sorry.
00:29:54No, you're not doing that to Chris.
00:29:55Obviously, he's going to have, like, back on his side, so.
00:29:58Well, yeah, that's even.
00:29:59Yeah.
00:29:59Yeah.
00:30:01So, us versus them.
00:30:02That's right.
00:30:03Mmm.
00:30:06Dinner is served.
00:30:13All right.
00:30:14Bon appétit.
00:30:16Oh, the table's compressed.
00:30:18I think tonight we're going to see some of the consequences of that feedback week playing out.
00:30:25And with a small amount of couples left in the experiment, the dinner parties become much more intimate.
00:30:29Yes.
00:30:30You're very much a part of all of the drama that unfolds.
00:30:36It's a lot easier to have one conversation in the group rather than a variety of them going on at
00:30:41the same time.
00:30:42It puts a lot of pressure on what they actually choose to talk about.
00:30:57It puts a lot of pressure on what they actually choose to talk about.
00:31:15Oh, there's a tension in there, isn't there?
00:31:18There is tension.
00:31:24It was very awkward at the Saturday dinner party.
00:31:30There were crickets.
00:31:31I could hear them.
00:31:32I was sitting, cutting my steak, and I could hear...
00:31:36I'm looking at Beck, and I already know what she said about me and my husband behind my back.
00:31:42Obviously, Gia's hurt me too, but nothing can top the screenshots of the messages that Beck said about David and
00:31:50I.
00:31:54How have you been, Alyssa? Are you OK?
00:31:57I've had enough of this ya-ya, these individual conversations and sweeping shit under the rug.
00:32:02I feel like it all needs to be brought to light, and I feel like the other couples need to
00:32:06know as well.
00:32:06So if everybody wants to listen in, so there were obviously some receipts from the last commitment ceremony...
00:32:18..that Juliet received from Gia.
00:32:25..and...
00:32:27..after that commitment ceremony, Juliet was like,
00:32:30Alyssa, I really need you to see these messages, um...
00:32:33..and I guess reading those messages brought up a lot of hurt.
00:32:37Because, you know, this happened weeks ago.
00:32:41This happened, like, four or five weeks ago.
00:32:44Five weeks ago.
00:32:46Five weeks ago.
00:32:46Two months ago.
00:32:47Babe, I've got some dates on there.
00:32:48Two months ago.
00:32:50Yeah, anyway, whatever.
00:32:50But it doesn't matter, babe.
00:32:52Like, it doesn't matter because they were the most vicious...
00:32:57..volgar.
00:32:58Yeah.
00:32:58..I would never say that to someone in real life, let alone in a message.
00:33:04Like, people at this table don't even know that I was called a rat.
00:33:10Ooh.
00:33:11Ooh.
00:33:11My husband's a rat.
00:33:17My head is so far up my arse and how much of a I am.
00:33:24Ugh.
00:33:29Um, and we're licking .
00:33:34Oh, no.
00:33:37OK.ĐŒĐž
00:33:45They
00:33:46were all the most vicious, vulgar. Yeah.
00:33:49I would
00:33:50never say that to someone in real life, let alone
00:33:53in a message. Like people
00:33:56at this table don't even know that I was called a rat. My husband's
00:34:03a rat?
00:34:05my head is so far up my ass and how much of a I am
00:34:12we're licking
00:34:16oh no
00:34:18why why why would you do that
00:34:21why would you do that
00:34:24really vile language
00:34:26that's really destructive
00:34:29incredibly disappointing
00:34:32Gia played a part in them as well but what came out of your mouth
00:34:35I'm telling you I was in tears
00:34:37it was vile and vicious babe
00:34:39I've seen repetitive behaviour not just with me
00:34:41but with other people at this table
00:34:43where you've come at them and I'm just like
00:34:45wait wait wait wait
00:34:46hang on hang on hang on
00:34:48I don't think you can say that the people at this dinner table
00:34:51I know but everybody's been affected by your behaviour babe
00:34:54I'm sorry everyone at this table
00:34:56at some point has been affected
00:34:57by your behaviour
00:35:00and I know that you're saying sorry
00:35:03and I know that you've said sorry
00:35:04but I'm saying right now
00:35:05listen to me for one second
00:35:11I feel like Alyssa was really trying to hold her own
00:35:13but Bec keeps talking over the top of her
00:35:16we saw it at retreat with me
00:35:19it's just really frustrating
00:35:22I understand what you're saying
00:35:23I'm just trying to have one
00:35:24just let me have a piece
00:35:26I understand what you're saying right
00:35:28I agree that the messages that I wrote were unacceptable
00:35:33they were disgusting
00:35:34and they were disgusting
00:35:35yeah
00:35:36the reality of the situation is that you've seen snippets
00:35:39right?
00:35:40snippets
00:35:40well then what else is there?
00:35:42but I'm not going to do that
00:35:43there is no excuse for what I wrote
00:35:45I am sorry to you for what I wrote about you
00:35:49would I ever say that to your face?
00:35:51never
00:35:51did I?
00:35:52do I think that?
00:35:53no
00:35:53definitely not
00:35:56Bec controls conversation
00:35:57Bec controls narrative
00:35:58I could just feel this
00:36:00beside me being like
00:36:01accept some accountability
00:36:02and stop deflecting to everyone else
00:36:06is it okay?
00:36:07no
00:36:10but I'm not going to
00:36:11send you the messages
00:36:12that everyone else has said about you
00:36:14to hurt you
00:36:15to get to her
00:36:16because that makes me just as bad
00:36:22she isn't able to take on any sort of accountability for her actions
00:36:29this is what Bec does
00:36:31yeah
00:36:31she is wrong
00:36:33and tries to think of anyone else who's involved
00:36:36that she can then blame for her actions
00:36:39we have a war right
00:36:41but Gia sent them to Juliet
00:36:43and Juliet's going to shit on everyone
00:36:44and what that's done is hurt you two
00:36:47when you guys don't deserve to be hurt
00:36:50you don't have to trust me
00:36:52you don't have to believe me
00:36:54but I am apologetic to both of you sincerely
00:37:00Bec wanted to do what she always does
00:37:04which is sweep things under the carpet
00:37:06but the important thing is
00:37:08Alyssa stood up for herself
00:37:09in the real world
00:37:10if you read messages like that
00:37:12you'd never go back
00:37:13you'd never trust that person
00:37:14you cut them off
00:37:15but obviously because of this experiment
00:37:17we're faced with the fact
00:37:18we have to still be cordial
00:37:20but you understand how like
00:37:22in the real world
00:37:22there's no coming back
00:37:23there's no
00:37:24you can't trust someone
00:37:25and be friends with
00:37:27those text messages
00:37:29were vile
00:37:30and I don't think anyone
00:37:32would ever accommodate
00:37:33for people in their lives
00:37:36that talk about them like that
00:37:37at any period of time
00:37:41I know that you've said sorry
00:37:44but this shit is
00:37:46I just want to stay out of it
00:37:50this could have exploded
00:37:52escalated
00:37:53and got very hostile
00:37:54it's interesting that Alyssa
00:37:55she's essentially
00:37:58stayed at a conversational tone
00:38:00and this has not escalated at all
00:38:02yeah
00:38:03it's very mature of her
00:38:06it's just noise
00:38:08I've heard this before
00:38:09Beck and I have tried
00:38:10to work on our relationship
00:38:14and I'm sorry
00:38:15but I think I've given her
00:38:16way too many chances
00:38:20I'm here for my husband
00:38:21you know
00:38:22I'm so lucky
00:38:23that I have David
00:38:26ultimately
00:38:26like I'm just gonna
00:38:28put her to bed
00:38:30I'm pretty disgusted
00:38:31in the behaviour
00:38:33and I'm not here
00:38:33for mean girl shit
00:38:40coming up
00:38:41I have to change
00:38:42my whole life
00:38:43to fit into your life
00:38:45do I get any say
00:38:47in how this is gonna work
00:38:48at all
00:38:50and Beck's behaviour
00:38:51takes its toll
00:38:53on Danny
00:38:56I just want you
00:38:57to be wary
00:38:58about what you say
00:38:59I'm very wary
00:39:01I want you to be wary
00:39:02about what you text people
00:39:15you too
00:39:18look at Stella and Philip
00:39:20so much love
00:39:24so just
00:39:26in sync
00:39:32so relaxed
00:39:33lot of swag
00:39:34yes
00:39:35and so together
00:39:39Philip and Stella
00:39:40we haven't heard about
00:39:41like your feedback week
00:39:42like what's very good
00:39:45we had
00:39:45we'd just come up
00:39:47for a really good week
00:39:47and it was awesome
00:39:48we had
00:39:49good probing questions
00:39:51and
00:39:51yeah
00:39:52we were just going
00:39:52back and forth
00:39:53it was almost like
00:39:54the honeymoon box
00:39:54so they were really good
00:39:55probing questions
00:39:56it was a good
00:39:58it's a great week
00:39:59I'm excited
00:40:02clearly some couples
00:40:03have actually
00:40:05embraced
00:40:05the feedback
00:40:07and have got closer together
00:40:08but for others
00:40:10it's just absolutely
00:40:11it's just absolutely
00:40:11unraveled them
00:40:17can I just say something
00:40:20Chris and I are going through
00:40:21something that's actually
00:40:22internal
00:40:24I can't get to a conclusion
00:40:26with just the two of us
00:40:27and that's why
00:40:27I kind of wanted to bring that up tonight
00:40:29so if we could get that
00:40:30sort of
00:40:30yeah let's do it
00:40:31yeah
00:40:33if you don't mind
00:40:33I'm going to kick it off
00:40:35obviously my energy is not great tonight
00:40:37this is not my usual vibe
00:40:38you know that
00:40:40I'm going to just give you a bit of background
00:40:41on what happened
00:40:42Sam and I had an issue
00:40:43mid last week
00:40:44which I thought we had squashed
00:40:46on the drive over here
00:40:49Sam mentioned to me
00:40:50that he wanted to bring this issue up
00:40:51in front of the whole group
00:40:53and then on the back end of that
00:40:54why?
00:40:55why did I want to do it?
00:40:56can I just please talk?
00:40:59on the back end of that
00:41:00insinuated that I was a gaslighter
00:41:05a gaslighter is a very strong word
00:41:07to throw around
00:41:09so obviously my energy is off
00:41:11I feel like I've been thrown under the bus
00:41:14so I'm going to let Sam speak
00:41:16and I'll hear him
00:41:16and then you can get my version of the events
00:41:25basically when Mel
00:41:27asked us on the couch last week
00:41:29like what's the plan after this?
00:41:31she said what does life look outside the experiment?
00:41:34okay can I talk?
00:41:35sure
00:41:40and Chris said
00:41:42well the best way it could work is like
00:41:44Sam can move to Sydney
00:41:47but the thing is
00:41:49Chris and I had never ever discussed
00:41:51a plan of how it was going to work
00:41:53outside the experiment
00:41:58so then to hear him say to Mel
00:42:00like this is how the plan was going to work
00:42:01I'm like
00:42:01do I get any say
00:42:03in how this is going to work at all?
00:42:07feedback week I thought would be
00:42:08a really good time for me to bring this up
00:42:11so we're sitting on the couch
00:42:12and I say
00:42:13Chris when you said this to Mel
00:42:15I just felt like I didn't have a voice
00:42:16and he cut me off
00:42:17and he goes
00:42:17I didn't say that
00:42:18you could have spoken up
00:42:19you had every opportunity to speak
00:42:21just as much as I did
00:42:21and then I said
00:42:23I wish there was just more empathy
00:42:24around the fact that I
00:42:26have to change my whole life
00:42:28to fit into your life
00:42:31I was like
00:42:31could you say you're sorry
00:42:32and he goes
00:42:32I'm sorry
00:42:33I'm sorry
00:42:33I hate your feelings
00:42:33I'm sorry
00:42:38I haven't had a genuine apology
00:42:41and when I try and bring it up
00:42:43I'm just met with defensiveness
00:42:44and I feel like right now
00:42:45my feelings have been shut down about it
00:42:48there's no recognition
00:42:49no acknowledgement
00:42:50of the other's experience
00:42:54and unfortunately like
00:42:55this wasn't the first time
00:42:56I've witnessed you shutting me down
00:42:58but it's the first time
00:42:59that I've spoken up about it
00:43:02and that me speaking up about it
00:43:04has just caused you to like
00:43:05hate me
00:43:06and just be like
00:43:07off me
00:43:07and I just don't understand
00:43:09what I've done wrong
00:43:12hate
00:43:13see they're in a terrible way
00:43:15aren't they
00:43:17okay let me
00:43:18let me talk
00:43:18my turn
00:43:21hand on heart
00:43:22I apologised three times
00:43:23and I said
00:43:23I'm so
00:43:24I'm sorry
00:43:24I did not mean to make you feel that way
00:43:27I then apologised
00:43:28two more times
00:43:29he thinks it wasn't genuine
00:43:30I'm telling you
00:43:31it was
00:43:32why I'm so off Sam
00:43:33is because he's chosen to do it
00:43:35in this forum
00:43:35in front of everybody
00:43:37he's thrown this at me
00:43:38ten minutes prior to entering
00:43:40the dinner party
00:43:40on the back end of calling me
00:43:41a gaslighter
00:43:42sometimes yes I am fiery
00:43:44sometimes I do get defensive
00:43:45but there's got to be some point
00:43:46where I've got to back myself
00:43:48for him to throw me under the bus
00:43:50do you think he's throwing you
00:43:51under the bus though
00:43:52I feel like this could have been
00:43:54done in a different way
00:43:55I would have preferred to do it
00:43:56privately
00:43:57we tried that
00:43:59we speak to the experts
00:44:00in front of the whole group
00:44:01every week
00:44:02to help our relationships
00:44:03I think where Sam
00:44:04was trying to speak to you
00:44:05was in front of the whole group
00:44:07because he felt like
00:44:08he wasn't getting nowhere
00:44:12so he I think he thought
00:44:14if he had the group involved
00:44:15he could get some opinions
00:44:16and it could help your relationship
00:44:18Chris if you give a genuine apology
00:44:20I get that Sam
00:44:21I am genuinely sorry
00:44:23that I hurt your feelings
00:44:24I did not want to put pressure on you
00:44:26why are you laughing?
00:44:36Sam was trying to speak to you
00:44:38in front of the whole group
00:44:39because he felt like
00:44:40he wasn't getting nowhere
00:44:41so he I think he thought
00:44:43if he had the group involved
00:44:44he could get some opinions
00:44:45and it could help your relationship
00:44:46Chris if you give a genuine apology
00:44:48I get that Sam
00:44:49I am genuinely sorry
00:44:51that I hurt your feelings
00:44:52I did not want to put pressure on you
00:44:55why are you laughing?
00:44:58because I asked you to do this
00:44:59this morning
00:45:00I'm doing it again
00:45:01I'm doing it right now
00:45:02this is what you wanted
00:45:02you want it in front of the group
00:45:03and you won't even let me
00:45:04finish the apology
00:45:06watching Sam and Chris
00:45:09they're both valid
00:45:10in what they're saying
00:45:11they're both valid
00:45:11in their feelings
00:45:13they're both hurting
00:45:17so I was actually
00:45:18very surprised to hear
00:45:19how Chris was talking
00:45:21about things
00:45:21how Sam was talking
00:45:22about things
00:45:22to see them behaving
00:45:24in that manner
00:45:25it's a shame
00:45:26a week ago
00:45:27I was like
00:45:27Sam and Chris
00:45:28are super strong
00:45:29but now
00:45:30I think the boys
00:45:31are in real trouble
00:45:34I am genuinely sorry
00:45:36that I hurt your feelings
00:45:37and I put pressure on you
00:45:38that was not my intention
00:45:39I'm sorry that I was defensive
00:45:41I just feel like
00:45:42there's got to be a point
00:45:43where I apologise three times
00:45:45and then again the next morning
00:45:46that's the first time
00:45:46you apologise for being defensive
00:45:51they're in real
00:45:51real dire straits
00:45:53you know
00:45:53but what it has done
00:45:57is it's opened up
00:45:58their issues
00:46:00in their relationship
00:46:00that we can actually target
00:46:02at the next commitment ceremony
00:46:06it just shows
00:46:07how powerful
00:46:08emotional tone is
00:46:10when couples are trying
00:46:11to deal with conflict
00:46:13and repair
00:46:15it's like a dagger
00:46:17to the heart
00:46:18I feel like my heart's
00:46:19been stabbed
00:46:20I've done so much
00:46:22to be in this experiment
00:46:23to find love
00:46:24and a husband
00:46:25and to have
00:46:26this argument
00:46:27over the authenticity
00:46:28of my sorries
00:46:30which were five
00:46:31and then be laughed
00:46:32at the phrase
00:46:32it's a f***ing joke
00:46:36okay
00:46:36how about
00:46:37hey
00:46:38how about a positive break
00:46:39how was feedback week
00:46:41for you guys
00:46:41yeah
00:46:42look feedback week
00:46:43was really good
00:46:44for Stephen and I
00:46:45positive
00:46:45personally I feel that way
00:46:47I hope Stephen feels the same way
00:46:49but yeah
00:46:50it's been good
00:46:53Alyssa
00:46:55loved the catch up
00:46:56we had a lot
00:46:56lots of fun
00:46:57and everything
00:46:58a bit of advice
00:46:59from Alyssa
00:47:00that I really took
00:47:01on board
00:47:01was to be a little
00:47:02bit more masculine
00:47:03and bring some
00:47:04leadership
00:47:04and
00:47:06into the relationship
00:47:07which
00:47:09I'm definitely
00:47:10going to put my
00:47:10captain's undies on
00:47:12and hat
00:47:12and
00:47:13you know
00:47:14lead
00:47:15and what else
00:47:18did I tell you babe
00:47:25do I have to mention that
00:47:26no
00:47:27well do you know what
00:47:27no
00:47:28because I respect Rachel
00:47:29as my bestie
00:47:30and we're not going
00:47:31down that road
00:47:32on that topic
00:47:34I'm probably going to say
00:47:35this right now
00:47:35in front of everyone
00:47:36that
00:47:37I feel like
00:47:38me and Rachel's
00:47:40sex life
00:47:40has been in the spotlight
00:47:41for way too
00:47:42bloody long
00:47:46now
00:47:46yeah
00:47:47we've had our troubles
00:47:48in it
00:47:48and we're getting
00:47:49closer
00:47:51intimately
00:47:52right
00:47:52however
00:47:54now it's gotten
00:47:54to the point
00:47:55when I get close
00:47:56to Rachel
00:47:57if Rachel
00:47:57gets close to me
00:47:58we've got this
00:47:59thought in the back
00:48:00of our mind
00:48:00now
00:48:01it's starting
00:48:02to get to the
00:48:02point now
00:48:03like
00:48:03are we doing
00:48:04this
00:48:05you know
00:48:05because
00:48:06we want to
00:48:07and it's a
00:48:07passionate moment
00:48:08or are we doing
00:48:09this because
00:48:09we're getting
00:48:09told to
00:48:10and there's
00:48:10pressure on it
00:48:12because I feel
00:48:13like there's
00:48:13so much
00:48:13pressure on
00:48:14can you two
00:48:15have sex
00:48:16already
00:48:16can you two
00:48:16have sex
00:48:17already
00:48:17so
00:48:17on that
00:48:19note
00:48:19we've heard
00:48:19everyone
00:48:20loud and
00:48:20clear
00:48:21when the
00:48:22moment
00:48:22comes
00:48:23you all
00:48:23know
00:48:24we'll set
00:48:25fireworks off
00:48:25from the balcony
00:48:26right
00:48:29good on you
00:48:30Steve-o
00:48:30this is the
00:48:31first time
00:48:31that I've seen
00:48:32I've seen him
00:48:32taking like a
00:48:33stance
00:48:33about the
00:48:34relationship
00:48:34kind of
00:48:35taking the
00:48:36lead
00:48:36you guys
00:48:37are taking
00:48:37steps forward
00:48:38hey
00:48:39yeah
00:48:39when it
00:48:40comes to
00:48:40our sex
00:48:41life
00:48:43they can
00:48:44say what
00:48:44they bloody
00:48:45want
00:48:46I'm
00:48:47I'm not
00:48:47here for
00:48:47the
00:48:48drama
00:48:49not
00:48:49here
00:48:49for
00:48:49anything
00:48:50else
00:48:50besides
00:48:50Rachel
00:48:51so
00:48:52and
00:48:53on the
00:48:54last night
00:48:54of a
00:48:55feedback week
00:48:55we had
00:48:56nachos
00:48:56and watched
00:48:57a fishing
00:48:58video on
00:48:59YouTube
00:49:06can I
00:49:07could
00:49:07yeah
00:49:07can I
00:49:08ask you
00:49:09obviously
00:49:09we was
00:49:10meant to
00:49:10have a
00:49:10meeting
00:49:11or whatever
00:49:11you want
00:49:11to call
00:49:12it
00:49:12what was
00:49:14the reason
00:49:15just out of
00:49:15interest
00:49:16why did
00:49:16you not
00:49:16show up
00:49:19because
00:49:20we had
00:49:20a really
00:49:21tough week
00:49:22in our
00:49:22relationship
00:49:22to be honest
00:49:23and I was
00:49:24packing my
00:49:24bags
00:49:24trying to
00:49:25leave
00:49:25she tried
00:49:25to leave
00:49:26and it's
00:49:26the whole
00:49:27week
00:49:27so it's
00:49:27no
00:49:27it's
00:49:28in my
00:49:39mindset was
00:49:40to go
00:49:40into it
00:49:41and really
00:49:41talk positive
00:49:43I actually
00:49:44don't have
00:49:44no negative
00:49:44feedback
00:49:45between yours
00:49:45and Scott's
00:49:46relationship
00:49:46I think
00:49:47Scott's been
00:49:47really honourable
00:49:48how he's
00:49:48like took
00:49:49your daughter
00:49:49on board
00:49:50and stuff
00:49:50like that
00:49:50I think
00:49:51you guys
00:49:51have got
00:49:51a good
00:49:51relationship
00:49:52you back
00:49:52each other
00:49:54I've only
00:49:55got blokes
00:49:56in my life
00:49:56really
00:49:57yeah
00:49:57like my
00:49:58mum and
00:49:58everyone's
00:49:59back home
00:49:59so like
00:50:00it would
00:50:00have been
00:50:00nice to
00:50:01get some
00:50:01advice
00:50:01from a
00:50:02woman
00:50:02in the
00:50:02experiment
00:50:03for like
00:50:03a third
00:50:04party
00:50:05Danny is
00:50:06a liar
00:50:07he's full
00:50:07of shit
00:50:08it would
00:50:09have been
00:50:09probably
00:50:09a screaming
00:50:10match
00:50:10we would
00:50:10have been
00:50:10arguing
00:50:11do I
00:50:11need to
00:50:11be doing
00:50:12that
00:50:12right
00:50:12now
00:50:12no
00:50:13it was
00:50:14just a
00:50:14bad
00:50:14week
00:50:14and I
00:50:15think
00:50:15I
00:50:15couldn't
00:50:15personally
00:50:16take
00:50:16any more
00:50:17at that
00:50:17point
00:50:17because
00:50:17I
00:50:17was
00:50:18like
00:50:18I'm
00:50:19damned
00:50:19if I
00:50:19do
00:50:19if I
00:50:20don't
00:50:20if I
00:50:20go
00:50:20when me
00:50:21and Danny
00:50:21argue
00:50:21I'm
00:50:21going to
00:50:21look
00:50:22terrible
00:50:27maybe
00:50:28just next
00:50:28time
00:50:28try and
00:50:29look at
00:50:29him
00:50:29more
00:50:30positively
00:50:30because
00:50:30I
00:50:30wouldn't
00:50:31have
00:50:31come
00:50:31at you
00:50:31with
00:50:31no
00:50:31disrespect
00:50:32and honestly
00:50:32it wasn't
00:50:33that it
00:50:33was like
00:50:34oh my
00:50:34god
00:50:34it's
00:50:34Danny
00:50:34that
00:50:35it was
00:50:36like
00:50:36we
00:50:36had
00:50:37a
00:50:37really
00:50:37tough
00:50:38week
00:50:38in our
00:50:38relationship
00:50:39to be
00:50:39honest
00:50:41she
00:50:41didn't
00:50:41turn up
00:50:41to speak
00:50:42to Danny
00:50:42because
00:50:42you know
00:50:43she lied
00:50:43about Danny
00:50:44when you
00:50:44said that
00:50:45my husband
00:50:46wants to
00:50:46be with
00:50:46you
00:50:47I
00:50:47think
00:50:48Gia
00:50:48cares
00:50:48about
00:50:49Gia
00:50:50and
00:50:51taking
00:50:51people
00:50:51out
00:50:51you're
00:50:52the one
00:50:52sending
00:50:53screenshots
00:50:53to
00:50:53people
00:50:54and
00:50:54throwing
00:50:55people
00:50:55under
00:50:55the
00:50:55bus
00:50:56and
00:50:56being
00:50:56vicious
00:50:56and
00:50:57manipulative
00:50:58so
00:50:58we
00:51:02so
00:51:04over
00:51:05her
00:51:06and
00:51:06her
00:51:07fake
00:51:08two
00:51:09faceness
00:51:11what was
00:51:12the reason
00:51:13for sending
00:51:14the messages
00:51:15to Juliet
00:51:16because
00:51:16you don't
00:51:18know Juliet
00:51:18you don't
00:51:19trust Juliet
00:51:20but you've
00:51:21sent messages
00:51:21to her
00:51:23about
00:51:23Alyssa
00:51:24and David
00:51:25but
00:51:25was the
00:51:26point
00:51:26to
00:51:26take me
00:51:27down
00:51:27like
00:51:28is that
00:51:28the
00:51:28point
00:51:28was that
00:51:29the
00:51:29point
00:51:33well you
00:51:34tried to
00:51:34take me
00:51:34down
00:51:35so I
00:51:35gave
00:51:35a
00:51:35bad
00:51:36to
00:51:36you
00:51:37oh
00:51:38god
00:51:47what was
00:51:48the
00:51:49reason
00:51:49for
00:51:49sending
00:51:50the
00:51:51messages
00:51:51to
00:51:52Juliet
00:51:52because
00:51:52you don't
00:51:54know
00:51:54Juliet
00:51:54you don't
00:51:55trust
00:51:55Juliet
00:51:56but you've
00:51:57sent messages
00:51:57to her
00:51:59about
00:51:59Alyssa
00:52:00and David
00:52:01but
00:52:01was the
00:52:02point
00:52:02to
00:52:03take me
00:52:03down
00:52:03like
00:52:04is that
00:52:04the
00:52:04point
00:52:04was that
00:52:05the
00:52:05point
00:52:09well you
00:52:10tried to
00:52:10take me
00:52:10down
00:52:11so I
00:52:11gave it
00:52:11back to
00:52:12you
00:52:14oh god
00:52:16you're
00:52:17still
00:52:17feeding
00:52:18that
00:52:18dynamic
00:52:19that we've
00:52:20been trying
00:52:21to call
00:52:21out for
00:52:21weeks
00:52:22now
00:52:22how
00:52:23how
00:52:24how did
00:52:25I try
00:52:26and take
00:52:26that
00:52:28stop
00:52:28using me
00:52:30stop
00:52:30using me
00:52:31as a
00:52:31pawn
00:52:32I don't
00:52:33know what
00:52:33the
00:52:33going on
00:52:34here
00:52:34but
00:52:34I'm not
00:52:35playing a
00:52:35game
00:52:36anymore
00:52:38do you
00:52:38own
00:52:38bag
00:52:39they can
00:52:40just
00:52:40hate
00:52:40each
00:52:40other
00:52:40forever
00:52:41ultimately
00:52:42my main
00:52:42focus
00:52:42is David
00:52:43I want
00:52:44to give
00:52:44my husband
00:52:44my everything
00:52:45and I
00:52:45don't
00:52:45want
00:52:45to get
00:52:46caught
00:52:46up
00:52:46in
00:52:46the
00:52:46ah
00:52:46yeah
00:52:47anymore
00:52:49once
00:52:50again
00:52:50Alyssa
00:52:51is the
00:52:52collateral
00:52:52damage
00:52:53in
00:52:53other
00:52:53people's
00:52:54fights
00:52:56and it's
00:52:56so
00:52:57unfortunate
00:52:57because it
00:52:58really is
00:52:59generating
00:53:00distress
00:53:00in other
00:53:01couples
00:53:01I don't
00:53:02want to
00:53:02engage
00:53:03anymore
00:53:03I'm
00:53:03actually
00:53:03done
00:53:04with
00:53:04this
00:53:04conversation
00:53:04thank you
00:53:05I can't
00:53:05do any
00:53:05more drama
00:53:06I can't
00:53:07do any
00:53:07more drama
00:53:08it's
00:53:08going to
00:53:08go
00:53:08round
00:53:09and
00:53:09around
00:53:09and
00:53:09I'm
00:53:09not
00:53:09doing
00:53:10it
00:53:10thank
00:53:10you
00:53:10so
00:53:10much
00:53:18I
00:53:19just
00:53:19needed
00:53:19to
00:53:19know
00:53:20what
00:53:20whether
00:53:21or not
00:53:21the
00:53:21whole
00:53:21point
00:53:22was
00:53:22to
00:53:22take
00:53:22me
00:53:23down
00:53:23that's
00:53:23all
00:53:23I
00:53:23wanted
00:53:24to
00:53:24know
00:53:24yes
00:53:24it
00:53:25was
00:53:25because
00:53:25you
00:53:26girls
00:53:26ultimately
00:53:27throw
00:53:27each
00:53:28other
00:53:28under
00:53:28the
00:53:28bus
00:53:29every
00:53:29time
00:53:30and
00:53:31you
00:53:31do
00:53:31you
00:53:31know
00:53:31what
00:53:32do
00:53:32that's
00:53:32even
00:53:32worse
00:53:33what's
00:53:34worse
00:53:34is
00:53:34your
00:53:34collateral
00:53:35damage
00:53:35for
00:53:36a
00:53:36war
00:53:39which
00:53:39is
00:53:39that
00:53:40needs
00:53:40to
00:53:40stop
00:53:41I
00:53:41need
00:53:41to
00:53:42stop
00:53:42well
00:53:42but
00:53:44directed
00:53:44that
00:53:44way
00:53:46more
00:53:47drama
00:53:49I
00:53:50don't
00:53:50know
00:53:50how
00:53:50to
00:53:50feel
00:53:50about
00:53:51it
00:53:51my
00:53:52feelings
00:53:52are
00:53:52strong
00:53:53for
00:53:53Beck
00:53:53I
00:53:53care
00:53:53about
00:53:54Beck
00:53:54a
00:53:54lot
00:53:55but
00:53:55sometimes
00:53:56I
00:53:56feel
00:53:56that
00:53:56I'm
00:53:57more
00:53:57focused
00:53:57with
00:53:58drama
00:53:58than
00:53:58it
00:53:58is
00:53:59on
00:53:59our
00:53:59relationship
00:54:01I
00:54:01just
00:54:01wanted
00:54:02to
00:54:02know
00:54:02if
00:54:02the
00:54:02whole
00:54:02point
00:54:03was
00:54:03to
00:54:04throw
00:54:04me
00:54:04under
00:54:04the
00:54:04bus
00:54:04and
00:54:04you
00:54:05guys
00:54:05are
00:54:05collateral
00:54:05I
00:54:05just
00:54:06had
00:54:06to
00:54:06ask
00:54:06the
00:54:06question
00:54:06that
00:54:06was
00:54:07it
00:54:07that
00:54:07all
00:54:07I
00:54:08needed
00:54:08to
00:54:08know
00:54:14I
00:54:15feel
00:54:15like
00:54:15Beck
00:54:15and
00:54:15you
00:54:16are
00:54:16out
00:54:16for
00:54:16like
00:54:16top
00:54:16dog
00:54:16spot
00:54:17and
00:54:17I'm
00:54:17sorry
00:54:17there
00:54:18is
00:54:18no
00:54:18top
00:54:18dog
00:54:18here
00:54:20let's
00:54:20remember
00:54:20why
00:54:20we're
00:54:21here
00:54:21to
00:54:22meet
00:54:22a
00:54:23match
00:54:23to
00:54:23have
00:54:24the
00:54:24opportunity
00:54:24to
00:54:24find
00:54:25love
00:54:25so
00:54:25if
00:54:26you're
00:54:26more
00:54:26busy
00:54:27about
00:54:27like
00:54:27sending
00:54:28shitty
00:54:28messages
00:54:29about
00:54:29people
00:54:30sending
00:54:31out
00:54:31screenshots
00:54:31and
00:54:32like
00:54:32oh
00:54:32you
00:54:32said
00:54:33this
00:54:33and
00:54:33you
00:54:35then
00:54:35why
00:54:36are
00:54:36you
00:54:36here
00:54:49hi
00:54:50Barry
00:54:50Jeff
00:54:51you
00:54:51yeah
00:54:55you sure
00:54:56I just
00:54:57I'm sick of the drama
00:54:58I came here to focus
00:55:00on a relationship
00:55:01and stuff
00:55:01at a dinner party
00:55:03this drama
00:55:04yeah obviously
00:55:05a bit ashamed of Beck
00:55:06to be honest
00:55:07I'm not gonna lie
00:55:08I'm not gonna candy coat it
00:55:10um frustrated
00:55:11because I know that's not
00:55:13how Beck is as a person
00:55:14how would you feel
00:55:15in the same situation
00:55:17if every week
00:55:18every single week
00:55:20you were coming to a dinner party
00:55:21and there was something else
00:55:22I don't care how long of that was
00:55:24or what the circumstances is
00:55:26I don't really care
00:55:27what would you expect
00:55:28how would you feel
00:55:28in the same situation
00:55:29please answer the question
00:55:31yeah of course
00:55:32it would be frustrating
00:55:33okay
00:55:33and that's all
00:55:34we're in an experiment babe
00:55:35with vicious vicious vipers around
00:55:38do you think that this is what life is
00:55:40outside of this experiment
00:55:42I didn't come here for drama
00:55:44I came here for love
00:55:46I want to talk about
00:55:47how can I become a better partner
00:55:49and a better husband
00:55:50I feel like sometimes
00:55:51all I do is talk about drama
00:55:53I'm just saying
00:55:54from my point of view
00:55:55I need help
00:55:57as a man
00:55:58with our relationship
00:55:58I struggle with a lot of these things
00:56:00you know that
00:56:01that's why I came on this experiment
00:56:02because I've failed in the real world
00:56:04I'd rather be at these dinner parties
00:56:06towards positive things
00:56:07and not drama
00:56:08that's not where I'm coming from
00:56:11oh no
00:56:14this is a troubling sign
00:56:15isn't it
00:56:16that Danny
00:56:16has started to second guess
00:56:19his commitment
00:56:20to Beck
00:56:22and
00:56:23these text messages
00:56:24while he knew they were out there
00:56:26they've come up again
00:56:26and he's really now
00:56:29retreating
00:56:29yep
00:56:31I don't know why you're getting me upset
00:56:33I'm just saying
00:56:33my peers
00:56:34you're also ride or die
00:56:36I am ride or die
00:56:37you're throwing me under the bar
00:56:39I'm not throwing you under the bus
00:56:40I'm not throwing you under the bus
00:56:41I'm ride or die
00:56:42you swat out of the retreat
00:56:43you swat out of the retreat
00:56:46Beck and Danny's relationship
00:56:47has been so much stronger
00:56:49the past few weeks
00:56:50so to see this now
00:56:51at this point
00:56:52in the process
00:56:54is very discouraging
00:56:55because I want us to have
00:56:57a really good relationship
00:56:58we have a really good
00:56:59we do
00:56:59Daniel do not sit here
00:57:00do not sit here
00:57:01I didn't say we did
00:57:02just relax
00:57:03do not sit here
00:57:04don't be sassy with me
00:57:05don't sit here and say
00:57:07I want us to have a good relationship
00:57:10but we don't
00:57:11because of drama
00:57:11at dinner parties
00:57:12did I say we don't?
00:57:13no
00:57:13I just want you to be wary
00:57:14did I say we don't?
00:57:15did I say we don't?
00:57:16no
00:57:16no
00:57:17I said I want us to have a good relationship
00:57:19be wary about what you say
00:57:20I'm very wary
00:57:22I want you to be wary
00:57:23about what you text people
00:57:25sure
00:57:26two months ago Daniel
00:57:27two months ago
00:57:28it was ten years ago
00:57:31I'm done
00:57:32I've got to go
00:57:35has no one ever
00:57:36f***ed up before
00:57:36we've been talking about this
00:57:37for nearly two months
00:57:40I can't
00:57:55don't sit here and say
00:57:57I want us to have a good relationship
00:57:59but we don't
00:58:01because of drama
00:58:01at dinner parties
00:58:02did I say we don't?
00:58:03I want us to have a good relationship
00:58:05I want you to be wary
00:58:05about what you say
00:58:06I'm very wary
00:58:08I want you to be wary
00:58:09about what you text people
00:58:11sure
00:58:11two months ago Daniel
00:58:12two months ago
00:58:13I can't think it was ten years ago
00:58:18I'm done
00:58:19I've got to go
00:58:33I'm done
00:58:35I'm not going back in
00:58:36I'm done
00:58:37I want out
00:58:38now
00:58:38I'm done
00:58:44I'm done
00:58:45I'm not going back
00:58:46into that dinner party
00:58:47I want some joint down here
00:58:49let's go to the couch for a sec
00:58:53I want out
00:58:54take me downstairs
00:58:55I want out
00:58:57get me out of here
00:58:58f***ing fuming
00:59:01how are you feeling?
00:59:05I feel like
00:59:06I'm wasting my time
00:59:08at a dinner party
00:59:09talking about
00:59:10abusive text messages
00:59:11that are sent
00:59:12I came here to work
00:59:13on my relationship
00:59:15and to try and be
00:59:16a good husband
00:59:16and stuff
00:59:17and it's like
00:59:17I can't voice my opinion
00:59:18because then she says
00:59:19I'm throwing her under the bus
00:59:23he says
00:59:23oh we're ride or die
00:59:24we're ride or die
00:59:25we're not
00:59:26we're not ride or die
00:59:29we're not ride or die
00:59:31this is not okay
00:59:34every single week
00:59:35I come to these dinner parties
00:59:36every single week
00:59:38and it's
00:59:39this has happened
00:59:40this has happened
00:59:41do you have said this to you
00:59:42it's like
00:59:42I don't care no more
00:59:44I'm here for a wife
00:59:46and a relationship
00:59:47I'm not here for drama
00:59:50do not
00:59:51do not
00:59:52sit there in front of everyone
00:59:53and not show solidarity to me
00:59:55because I've had to
00:59:57apologise to someone
01:00:01pretend
01:00:03just pretend
01:00:04for the sake of
01:00:05me
01:00:07f***ing pretend
01:00:08for two minutes
01:00:12Sunday night
01:00:14it's the second last
01:00:15commitment ceremony
01:00:17you ask the question
01:00:18of like
01:00:18alright
01:00:19if we go outside
01:00:19of the experiment
01:00:20how quick would you
01:00:21expect
01:00:21like a proposal
01:00:22I say the sooner
01:00:23the better
01:00:24wow
01:00:24and some
01:00:25are already
01:00:26locking in plans
01:00:27for married life
01:00:28outside of the experiment
01:00:30my man is leaving
01:00:31and he is actually
01:00:32starting to show me
01:00:33what my life here
01:00:34in Sydney
01:00:35could look like
01:00:36and then
01:00:37so last week
01:00:38you said
01:00:39that the noise
01:00:40from the group
01:00:41and around Gia
01:00:42doesn't affect
01:00:43your relationship
01:00:44do you still believe that
01:00:46will Scott speak up
01:00:48and confess how he feels
01:00:50in front of Gia
01:00:51I will admit
01:00:52like
01:00:56the question
01:00:57what was it
01:00:58like it was a bit
01:00:58could you see yourself
01:00:59falling in love with me
01:01:00yeah
01:01:00why is Danny
01:01:02dodging the question
01:01:04um
01:01:07well
01:01:10in one of the most
01:01:12confronting couch
01:01:13sessions
01:01:13ever seen
01:01:15it's a pretty
01:01:16black and white
01:01:17question
01:01:20before the blind
01:01:22side
01:01:25that will leave
01:01:26the room
01:01:27speechless
01:01:29I just can't
01:01:30believe it
01:01:32and now
01:01:33the fallout
01:01:35after the dinner
01:01:36party
01:01:36only on Stan
01:01:38I just can
01:01:38I just can't
01:01:39see you
01:01:39I just can't
01:01:41again
01:01:41I just can't
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