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00:00:19Workout, obviously.
00:00:21This is a great opportunity for me to possibly find someone, whether you're 25 or 55.
00:00:30Disregard me based on my age right off the bat.
00:00:37I love that I'm going to be able to experience meeting men not knowing their age.
00:00:43I want to be able to get to know their heart and what their passions are.
00:00:47Then I'll know, like, have I pushed some guys away that I shouldn't have.
00:00:56When you tell people your age, they put a stigma to that.
00:01:00I don't want to fit in a box.
00:01:01Why does it matter how old I am?
00:01:03It's what I feel like.
00:01:04It's my vibe.
00:01:05It's my energy.
00:01:06It's who I am as a person.
00:01:08Age is just a number.
00:01:15It is tough out there to find a partner.
00:01:17Like, oh, when someone's 40, they're over the hill.
00:01:19It's okay.
00:01:25Two steps for another one back.
00:01:28We try to keep up.
00:01:29The waves start to crash again.
00:01:34I wasn't nervous until now.
00:01:48It feels a little bit scary because I don't know if these guys are my age, my dad's age,
00:01:54my grandpa's age.
00:01:55I just don't know what we're dealing with.
00:01:57But what I don't know can't hurt me.
00:02:08Hello, everyone.
00:02:09I'm Nick Vial.
00:02:10And I'm Natalie Joy.
00:02:13You've all agreed to come here to take an unconventional approach to find love.
00:02:17It may seem crazy, but here you'll be dating and even committing without ever knowing how
00:02:25old your partner is.
00:02:27To answer the question, does age matter when it comes to love?
00:02:34It did it for us.
00:02:35We are 18 years apart.
00:02:38Wow.
00:02:39And happily married.
00:02:41Ours is a modern-day love story.
00:02:43I slid into his DMs.
00:02:45Hot, right?
00:02:47Our chemistry was instant.
00:02:49But honestly, I had my reservations about exploring a deeper connection.
00:02:53I was self-conscious about our age difference.
00:02:56I wasn't sure if we wanted the same thing, if we were in the same stages of life,
00:03:00or even if we liked the same movies.
00:03:04I was far less worried about others' opinions.
00:03:07I focused my energy on what Nick and I had in common.
00:03:11And what I found was a man I loved being around, who laughed at my jokes, and who was ready
00:03:16to start a family, just like I was.
00:03:18So I decided to get out of my head, and we gave it a shot.
00:03:22And what I ended up finding was the greatest connection of my life.
00:03:27Absolutely.
00:03:30For us, age is just a number.
00:03:32Woo!
00:03:33Woo!
00:03:33Wow!
00:03:34Now it's time for you to find the connection of your dreams.
00:03:39Oh yeah!
00:03:41I'm getting butterflies!
00:03:43During your time here, you'll choose who you want to date, based on attraction, compatibility,
00:03:49and chemistry.
00:03:50You can pursue anyone you're drawn to.
00:03:53There are no rules.
00:03:54Except one.
00:03:55The only question you can't ask is how old are you.
00:04:00Dang, y'all look good.
00:04:02Yeah!
00:04:04If you feel as if you've found that special connection, you can invite that person into
00:04:10the Promise Room.
00:04:11And take the next step in your journey together by exchanging rings and committing to one
00:04:17another.
00:04:17From there, all that's left is revealing the one thing you've been keeping secret.
00:04:24Your age.
00:04:25And if you still want to be together after that, you'll leave this retreat as a couple.
00:04:30Oh.
00:04:30Oh.
00:04:32And take the next step, moving in together, and seeing if the connection can survive in
00:04:37the real world.
00:04:38Oh my god, stop.
00:04:39And then comes perhaps the greatest test of all.
00:04:42You'll introduce each other to your closest friends and families.
00:04:46Oh shit.
00:04:49It's getting real.
00:04:51It's getting real.
00:04:51In the end, you'll have to make one final decision.
00:04:55Do you stay together and plan for a future, or leave this experience single once again?
00:05:01Why am I getting nervous?
00:05:03We got this girl.
00:05:04Okay.
00:05:05And what better way to kick things off than for you all today?
00:05:09We're going to date every single person here.
00:05:13Oh my gosh.
00:05:14That's going to be interesting.
00:05:16That's a lot of dates.
00:05:17I know, right?
00:05:17Busy day.
00:05:19Are you ready?
00:05:20Yes!
00:05:21Woo!
00:05:22Do it.
00:05:24Good luck.
00:05:26Okay.
00:05:26Okay.
00:05:26Instead of taking shots, do no chances.
00:05:30Don't go crying in this highway.
00:05:34Alright, straight to the real.
00:05:35Okay, yes.
00:05:35Go.
00:05:36What's working for you in dating, and what is not working?
00:05:39Like, you're here for a reason, right?
00:05:40Well, the men aren't working.
00:05:42Okay.
00:05:42Does that make sense?
00:05:42Got you.
00:05:43Yeah.
00:05:44Got you.
00:05:46Do you have green eyes?
00:05:47Yeah, do you have green eyes?
00:05:48Yeah.
00:05:48Okay.
00:05:49Can you tell?
00:05:49Our babies could have green eyes.
00:05:51Oh my God, right?
00:05:51Okay, how much money do you make, and what's your job?
00:05:54Yeah?
00:05:55Like diving in.
00:05:56For real?
00:05:57Okay, what's your job?
00:05:59Yeah, girl.
00:06:00All right.
00:06:02So what brought you here?
00:06:04Probably the foul men that exist in the world.
00:06:09People have a tendency to put me in a box when they find out my age.
00:06:12They probably think I don't know what I want, and I'm super nonchalant.
00:06:19But I'm not really looking to attract men within my age range, because they're usually
00:06:24super immature.
00:06:27I came from this experience looking for something more serious.
00:06:31Love you.
00:06:31Nice to meet you.
00:06:32David.
00:06:32Nice to meet you.
00:06:33David's my dad's name.
00:06:37Is it?
00:06:37All right.
00:06:38Is that a bad thing to start with?
00:06:39No, I don't think so.
00:06:40Do you like your dad?
00:06:41Love my dad.
00:06:42All right.
00:06:42Great guy.
00:06:43I'm definitely excited, but I don't think I've ever dated somebody that old, so it's
00:06:48definitely nerve-wracking.
00:06:49I'm like, what are we going to talk about?
00:06:53I like that.
00:06:54You have to play a song on the piano right now.
00:06:56What would it be?
00:06:57And you have to sing.
00:06:58I'd say maybe Desperado by the Eagles.
00:07:01Okay.
00:07:01A little classic.
00:07:02You probably hate this.
00:07:03What?
00:07:04But I love Taylor Swift.
00:07:05Love.
00:07:06Swifty.
00:07:07Yeah.
00:07:07Can't lie.
00:07:08Don't be ashamed.
00:07:09Yeah.
00:07:09Not ashamed.
00:07:09How many shows and pros have you seen?
00:07:11Just one.
00:07:12Oh.
00:07:12Just one.
00:07:13Okay.
00:07:13So you're a huge Swifty, but you've only been to one show.
00:07:15You don't like going to shows.
00:07:18Does the average person go to more than one?
00:07:20Oh, yeah.
00:07:21For sure.
00:07:24Am I the problem?
00:07:28What's your name?
00:07:29Ashley.
00:07:30Ashley.
00:07:30You are Ashley.
00:07:31I've heard about you.
00:07:32What?
00:07:33No, I'm just kidding.
00:07:34I'm just kidding.
00:07:34I'm just kidding.
00:07:35My age range is evil.
00:07:37Like, no one is safe.
00:07:39I swear.
00:07:39I could date you or your mom, and I'm open to both.
00:07:44Hi.
00:07:44Hi, how are you?
00:07:45How are you?
00:07:46What's your name?
00:07:47Tristan.
00:07:47Erin.
00:07:48Nice to meet you.
00:07:49Yeah, absolutely.
00:07:50I knew I was interested in older women the first time I saw Kim Zolciak in a church parking
00:07:56lot.
00:07:57I was like, damn.
00:07:59That's everything I want.
00:08:01There's like a 35-year-old busty blonde in a white Bentley, and I'm a 13-year-old boy.
00:08:06I was just like, dwing.
00:08:07I mean, wow.
00:08:09Do you like your name?
00:08:10You play your fits?
00:08:11Do you like yours?
00:08:11Yeah.
00:08:12It's kind of soft.
00:08:14Like, I would like a...
00:08:15It wasn't soft in Legends of the Fall.
00:08:17Yeah, yeah, yeah.
00:08:18Don't get me started.
00:08:19Is that where you were named?
00:08:20It's annoying.
00:08:21Yes.
00:08:21Yes, it was.
00:08:22That's a good named after.
00:08:24Do you like that movie?
00:08:24Have you seen it?
00:08:25It's one of my favorite movies.
00:08:26Okay.
00:08:27Me too.
00:08:28It's beautiful.
00:08:28Yeah.
00:08:29So what is your middle name?
00:08:30It starts with a B.
00:08:31Do I have to guess?
00:08:32Yes.
00:08:33Beatrice.
00:08:35No.
00:08:35And it's not Bitch.
00:08:37Okay.
00:08:38That was my second guess.
00:08:40I feel like I could just leave with Erin right now.
00:08:43She's beautiful.
00:08:44She's tall.
00:08:45She's charismatic.
00:08:46She was laughing at all the jokes.
00:08:48She was, like, giving me the eyes.
00:08:50I was like, it's my girl, dog.
00:08:51I already feel like I'm ready to get her alone.
00:08:54The chemistry was hot.
00:08:59Well, hello.
00:09:00Oh, hi.
00:09:02How are you?
00:09:02Good.
00:09:03My name is Andrew.
00:09:04I have two daughters, Olivia and Ella.
00:09:07I typically date younger.
00:09:10It's a little bit more crazy.
00:09:11It's a little bit more fun.
00:09:14I probably, for all the wrong reasons.
00:09:16But I'm trying to turn over a new leaf, kind of change things up a little bit.
00:09:21I do want a wife.
00:09:23I do want a partner.
00:09:24Definitely someone that maybe has more life experience and that is ready for something a
00:09:30little bit more serious.
00:09:31What has been something that you've not loved in your past, like, relationships?
00:09:36I think it's kind of, like, the same cycle.
00:09:39Really?
00:09:39So, I've gone back to old relationships, back to things that weren't necessarily serving
00:09:43me anymore.
00:09:44Sure.
00:09:44So, it's kind of, like, the same cycle.
00:09:46Oh, yeah.
00:09:46So, being here for me is kind of, like, different.
00:09:49Breaking that cycle?
00:09:49Yeah, yeah.
00:09:50Like, some old bad habits.
00:09:51Yeah.
00:09:52It's an exciting little journey that we're about to go on.
00:09:55I know.
00:10:00And I'm curious, do you normally date, like, older or younger?
00:10:03I normally date older.
00:10:05Do you?
00:10:05Yes, I do.
00:10:07I can see that because you're, like, have a lot of emotional intelligence, you can tell.
00:10:10Really?
00:10:11You picked that up already?
00:10:12For sure.
00:10:12Oh, wow.
00:10:13Two seconds, yeah.
00:10:14Wow.
00:10:15I guess I'll take the compliment.
00:10:16What about you?
00:10:18You know, I don't really have a type.
00:10:20I don't have a preference.
00:10:21Yeah.
00:10:22I probably mostly date younger just because of...
00:10:25Yeah.
00:10:26...life circumstances.
00:10:27I feel like older people are usually, like, married with kids and settle down, you know?
00:10:30I was married for five years when I was young.
00:10:33And I completely loved her, like, wildly in love with the woman.
00:10:38I think it was ultimately for the best.
00:10:41You know, it's a little bit of a scarlet letter on your resume, right, of, like, having a divorce
00:10:45and then no children and then being the age that I'm at.
00:10:49But the older you get and you invest in the wrong person, you don't get that time back.
00:10:54This is a great color on you, by the way.
00:10:56I love this dress.
00:10:57Yeah.
00:10:58Really?
00:10:58It's beautiful.
00:10:59Thank you so much.
00:11:00What are you most excited about for this whole thing?
00:11:03Um, I would say just being able to, like, actually get to know people without, like, outside
00:11:10life distractions.
00:11:12You know what I mean?
00:11:13Yeah.
00:11:13Just genuinely, like, you know.
00:11:15Focus on something that you know.
00:11:16Like, just genuinely actually getting to know someone.
00:11:18Yeah, that's awesome.
00:11:19Yeah.
00:11:19This is something that's just very out of my comfort zone.
00:11:22But I want to find love.
00:11:24I want to, you know, walk out here with a potential husband, like, a life partner.
00:11:29And my husband could be here.
00:11:31I'm extremely spontaneous.
00:11:33No.
00:11:33It's whatever.
00:11:34It's like, if I, if I feel like, yo, I'm from somewhere, I'm like, yo, you should go
00:11:37to Vegas.
00:11:37Like, yo, let's go.
00:11:38Yeah, I love that.
00:11:38Like, I'm just, I'm very spontaneous.
00:11:40My dad has said that he doesn't want me to marry anyone 10 years or older than me.
00:11:45But I don't date young men.
00:11:47Like, the oldest I would date here is the 40s.
00:11:49The 40s.
00:11:51Somewhere in the 40s.
00:11:55How are you?
00:11:56I'm good.
00:11:57How are you?
00:11:58I'm good.
00:11:58What was your name?
00:11:59Derek.
00:12:00Derek.
00:12:00I'm Pfeiffer.
00:12:01I love, this is amazing.
00:12:03Is it working?
00:12:04I love it.
00:12:05It's definitely working.
00:12:06Definitely working.
00:12:07I love your eyes.
00:12:09Me too.
00:12:10I'm very optimistic about this experience about getting to meet a variety of people.
00:12:16Meeting an older man is quite hard.
00:12:18As a younger woman, you go to the bar and most of the older men that you meet are kind
00:12:22of a little skeevy, like maybe even like a little bit predatory.
00:12:27Or on the flip side, they could think that I'm just looking for like money.
00:12:31And also like a lot of the places that I'm frequenting, older people just aren't, you
00:12:35know?
00:12:38Hi.
00:12:39I'm John.
00:12:39I'm Katherine.
00:12:40I'm a hugger.
00:12:41Nice to meet you.
00:12:41The speed dating is fun.
00:12:43It's a little unnatural.
00:12:44But I'm not here to date an older woman.
00:12:46I'm not here to date a younger woman.
00:12:48I'm here to date, no matter their age.
00:12:51Katherine.
00:12:51She looks like a Bond villain.
00:12:55She's intimidating to talk to.
00:12:59How you doing?
00:13:00Good.
00:13:01Excited?
00:13:02You?
00:13:02Yeah.
00:13:02I'm happy to be here.
00:13:04Lauren's cool.
00:13:05But the conversation didn't flow, you know, tremendously.
00:13:09I think she's like physically attractive.
00:13:11All right.
00:13:12Another round.
00:13:13I love your nails too.
00:13:17John.
00:13:18John, Teresa.
00:13:19Great to meet you.
00:13:21Excited?
00:13:22Very excited, of course.
00:13:23Very good.
00:13:23I've been waiting for this forever.
00:13:25So tell me one thing that you would want me to remember about you.
00:13:29Oh, I like that.
00:13:29Okay, I like that.
00:13:30See?
00:13:30I look like Prince Harry.
00:13:32I can see that.
00:13:33So my joke is that I'm looking for Meghan minus the family drama.
00:13:37Really?
00:13:38Yeah.
00:13:38Well, I used to have dark hair, so.
00:13:39Okay.
00:13:40There you go.
00:13:40I can play it on.
00:13:41I dressed up like him for Halloween last year.
00:13:43Really?
00:13:44But I was by myself, so.
00:13:45Oh, bummer.
00:13:47Yeah.
00:13:47Maybe by October, you never know.
00:13:49Yeah.
00:13:49It's a good question.
00:13:50I like that.
00:13:51I like that.
00:13:52When I've, you know, been on dating apps and things like that, which suck.
00:13:56Most of the guys, I don't think, put their age range up to my age.
00:14:00And so it's been really, really hard to find someone.
00:14:04I've been married twice.
00:14:10Sorry.
00:14:11Um, I've had some really terrible relationships and I just feel like I'm at a point in my
00:14:20life where I finally deserve what it is that's right for me.
00:14:26Yeah.
00:14:27So it's, it's a good thing.
00:14:29What is your favorite quality about yourself?
00:14:33Um, probably that I'm very, like, easy going.
00:14:37I think life has given me enough that I've been able to, like, realize, like, the small
00:14:44things that pop up that are problems aren't that important.
00:14:48It's okay.
00:14:49Big picture.
00:14:49Yeah, exactly.
00:14:50Yeah.
00:14:51Yeah.
00:14:51I like that.
00:14:53Teresa's hot.
00:14:54Yeah.
00:14:54Best three minute date I've ever had.
00:14:57I don't know what's gonna happen tomorrow, but hopefully her and I are gonna get to know
00:15:01the show the better.
00:15:02All this late night talk with my girl keeps me falling in love, in love, in love.
00:15:11Oh, I've been dreaming.
00:15:13Oh, I've been dreaming.
00:15:15That you're my lady.
00:15:17That you're my lady.
00:15:20All right.
00:15:20How are y'all feeling?
00:15:22Yeah!
00:15:23Yeah.
00:15:24Woo!
00:15:27Hopefully some of you are starting to feel some sparks.
00:15:31Woo!
00:15:33Now, during your time here, you'll be going on lots of activities.
00:15:37Starting tomorrow morning, each day's adventures will be posted on the activity board.
00:15:41And if you're not off on an adventure, enjoy your time here at the retreat.
00:15:47Keep looking for that true connection.
00:15:51One that doesn't revolve around age.
00:15:56You came here to get away from it all and try something new.
00:15:59So let's all take a moment to celebrate that.
00:16:02All right.
00:16:03Let's toast to ageless dating and to all the adventures that lie ahead.
00:16:08Cheers!
00:16:10Cheers!
00:16:14Cheers!
00:16:15Cheers!
00:16:16Cheers!
00:16:17Yeah.
00:16:29Hands up, we'll reach for the stars.
00:16:33Chasing dreams no matter how far.
00:16:36And only one is these, but they're just too less.
00:16:40I know how the rules make these so fast.
00:16:44And only one is these, but they're just too less.
00:16:54All right, so after the first bear was clawing out my windows,
00:16:58I was trying to get a nap.
00:17:00I come back, I'm sitting in my bed,
00:17:02and the shades start, like, moving.
00:17:04I was like, holy shit, he's back.
00:17:06So I get up.
00:17:08There's a fucking window washer.
00:17:11Teresa's beautiful.
00:17:13We have good conversation.
00:17:14I live in Miami.
00:17:15It's beautiful women everywhere,
00:17:17but it's hard to find, like, a genuine connection.
00:17:19So I'm looking forward to connecting with her more.
00:17:22Do you have any cats?
00:17:23Two cats.
00:17:24Really?
00:17:25You like cats?
00:17:26I love cats.
00:17:27Jerry is five.
00:17:29Jenna's, like, seven.
00:17:31Jenna.
00:17:31So a boy and a girl.
00:17:32Mm-hmm.
00:17:33I do, I miss my dogs, for sure.
00:17:35What kind of dogs do you have?
00:17:36I have a beautiful...
00:17:37Oh, two German Shepherds.
00:17:38No.
00:17:38German Shepherds.
00:17:39German Shepherds.
00:17:40Yes, give it to me.
00:17:43A Labrador.
00:17:44No!
00:17:44No, not a Labrador.
00:17:45No, no.
00:17:46Oh, my God.
00:17:46I'm waiting.
00:17:46No.
00:17:47You have a Doberman.
00:17:50Yeah.
00:17:50I got the...
00:17:51What's her name?
00:17:51Yeah.
00:17:52She's so sweet.
00:17:53Peyton.
00:17:54Oh, I like that.
00:17:55My other dog's name is Boomer.
00:17:57After?
00:17:59My daughter named Boomer.
00:18:01I have three cats.
00:18:03P.S.
00:18:04Okay.
00:18:06All right.
00:18:07I'm petrified that he's too young.
00:18:10My oldest is 29, and my daughter's 25, and then my youngest is 22.
00:18:15So, a guy in their 20s would be really, like, shocking.
00:18:24I don't know how I would reconcile that.
00:18:29But, again, just trying not to think about it too much and just focus on who he is.
00:18:38Excuse us.
00:18:40Hey.
00:18:42Is that an actual drink?
00:18:43Yes, coffee.
00:18:44You want something that's a little bit cold now?
00:18:45No, I drink tea.
00:18:47Yesterday, the one that stuck out to me the most, I would say, is Justin Esch.
00:18:52He kind of was, like, more, like, calm and quiet.
00:18:55A lot of the other guys had, like, really big personalities and were really out there.
00:19:00And so, his, like, quiet demeanor kind of, like, intrigued me a little bit.
00:19:04Okay.
00:19:04Remind me where he lives.
00:19:06Charleston, South Carolina.
00:19:07Okay.
00:19:08And you?
00:19:08I remember that.
00:19:09Dallas.
00:19:09Dallas.
00:19:10That's right.
00:19:11Would you say you're, like, a relationship person?
00:19:13Yeah, I'm a serial monogamist.
00:19:15Okay.
00:19:15I think you said that yesterday.
00:19:17Yeah.
00:19:17Okay.
00:19:18I just think there's something kind of invaluable about being able to build a life with somebody
00:19:22versus just this hookup culture that we're in.
00:19:25So, I don't know how to navigate that.
00:19:27Yeah.
00:19:28I'm just not built that way.
00:19:30Neither am I.
00:19:31No?
00:19:32And tell me, I can't remember.
00:19:33You have kids or no?
00:19:34No, I don't.
00:19:36Okay.
00:19:36You want kids?
00:19:37I do want to get married.
00:19:39I want marriage.
00:19:40So, my partner, if they want kids, I will want kids.
00:19:43Yeah.
00:19:43If they don't want kids, I'm okay with my marriages.
00:19:46Wow.
00:19:46Okay.
00:19:46So.
00:19:47You don't meet a lot of women that are, like, flexible in that.
00:19:49Yeah.
00:19:49It's very, I feel like it's very binary.
00:19:51Yeah.
00:19:51Yeah.
00:19:52What about you?
00:19:52That's good.
00:19:53I always wanted them my whole life.
00:19:56I think as I got older, I kind of, like, I separated my, I tied a lot of my happiness
00:20:02to that when I was younger.
00:20:03I was like, this is something, you know, that I want in my life.
00:20:06I always wanted children.
00:20:11I love kids.
00:20:12I always felt, like, called to be a father.
00:20:16And I think, like, at some point, you have to kind of divorce yourself from goals that
00:20:22are outside of your control completely.
00:20:24Like, you know, I'm 44.
00:20:27You know, could I find somebody to just have a baby with?
00:20:30Probably.
00:20:30But is that the right thing to do?
00:20:33You know, I don't think so.
00:20:34Not for me.
00:20:37And you kind of wake up, and it's like, oh, wow.
00:20:41You know, it might not happen.
00:20:43And so, but that's okay, I think.
00:20:56So, talk about something else, so I don't cry on television.
00:21:04I do love kids.
00:21:05Oh, I love that.
00:21:06I do, too.
00:21:07I have four nephews.
00:21:10No.
00:21:10Yeah.
00:21:18First morning here.
00:21:19This has been so wild.
00:21:20I know.
00:21:21Yeah.
00:21:21Already.
00:21:22How are you guys feeling?
00:21:23So, yeah, I mean, it is interesting to, like, look at, like, the whole diverse group.
00:21:28Yeah.
00:21:28And, like, the different ages and everything.
00:21:30I do, I will say, like, I've been, like, kind of looking around at the guys mainly and
00:21:34being, like, how, wondering, like, what their ages are.
00:21:37There was a big variety.
00:21:39I was going to say.
00:21:40There was a huge variety.
00:21:42Like, Tristan versus, like, David.
00:21:45Versus Jorge.
00:21:46Jorge.
00:21:47Jorge, right.
00:21:47Some people, I forgot the names.
00:21:48I feel like there's so many of them.
00:21:50It just, like, went over my head.
00:21:51Yeah.
00:21:52I'm so excited for the dates.
00:21:53I know.
00:21:54Me, too.
00:21:54I, like, can't wait to see, like, what activities we have.
00:22:05Oh, no.
00:22:07Oh, snap.
00:22:09Oh, no.
00:22:10I have never gone to whitewater often before.
00:22:13But I will try anything.
00:22:15Not anything.
00:22:16Once.
00:22:17Uh, some things.
00:22:19I will try some things once.
00:22:23Oh, no.
00:22:24Yeah, we're good.
00:22:25We'll take the front.
00:22:26Andrew, I don't know if I saw him at first.
00:22:29But he definitely is really cute.
00:22:31I think I caught some good muscles going over there.
00:22:35I'm ready.
00:22:36This is exciting.
00:22:37I was, like, super excited when I saw that Libby was going to be on this date.
00:22:42She is typically who I date.
00:22:44Blonde, good looking, fun.
00:22:47She probably is a little younger.
00:22:49Like, she gives off that vibe.
00:22:50But I'm definitely, like, excited to get to know Libby more and just see where it goes.
00:22:56What's going on, baby?
00:22:56Have fun, baby.
00:22:58Ready for the first method?
00:23:01Look at this face.
00:23:05Get down, get down, get down.
00:23:07Get down.
00:23:10Oh, my God.
00:23:12Oh, my God.
00:23:17Guys.
00:23:20I saw my luck possible in my eyes.
00:23:34Cheers to the rafting and not dying, not falling in.
00:23:38Not dying.
00:23:40Did you like it?
00:23:42I didn't survive without you.
00:23:44You saved me.
00:23:45You definitely give off city girl vibes, for sure.
00:23:48You didn't show it at all.
00:23:50No.
00:23:52Stop, stop.
00:23:55I am a young, hot dad.
00:23:58Like, I want to still have fun.
00:23:59I'm going to have fun.
00:24:01And I think that's probably why I gravitate to someone that's more fun,
00:24:03because I'm, like, you know, not ready to fully grow up and be boring.
00:24:10I feel like you're definitely my type a little bit.
00:24:14Oh, really?
00:24:15What's your type?
00:24:16Blonde.
00:24:19I'm going to give off probably a little bit younger of a vibe.
00:24:23Let me still say that.
00:24:25You're like a hardcore Swiftie, aren't you?
00:24:27Oh, my God.
00:24:30I'm not going to lie to you and tell you I'm not someone that I am.
00:24:33Why are you here?
00:24:35Why am I here?
00:24:35I'm just going to give you.
00:24:36I'm done with the small talk.
00:24:37The guys that I've dated, I think, are a little immature.
00:24:42And I'm just kind of tired of...
00:24:44That's why you don't date your age.
00:24:46Yes.
00:24:47What about you?
00:24:49Yeah, I think just something different as well.
00:24:52Like, I definitely, like, am ready to, like, find my partner, like, someone to do life with.
00:24:58Yeah.
00:24:58I'm not playing around.
00:24:59I like that.
00:25:00Yeah, so I have two kids.
00:25:05I like kids.
00:25:07Have you ever dated someone that has kids?
00:25:09No, I've never dated anybody with kids.
00:25:13Like, is that something that you would be into?
00:25:17Like...
00:25:17I think that somebody having kids isn't the scariest thing in the world to me, for sure.
00:25:21Okay.
00:25:23All right.
00:25:24And if anything, I think it shows that you have enough of your life together, that you
00:25:31can be a good father, hopefully.
00:25:33At least, hopefully you're that.
00:25:35That's right.
00:25:43He definitely isn't one of the people here that I would guess to have kids, but it doesn't
00:25:48really scare me.
00:25:49I kind of like the fact that he's more mature.
00:25:51I think that if I met him out and about, and I found out that he had kids, I think
00:25:56my
00:25:56mind would start to spiral about his age, and I probably would get a little freaked
00:25:59out and be more reserved, but I think that this is a great experience for me to open
00:26:04up and kind of put those reservations aside.
00:26:07Well, I mean, I'm definitely feeling this.
00:26:11I like your vibe.
00:26:13I think you're kind of sometimes sort of, okay, cool.
00:26:19Do you want to get married?
00:26:21Do I want to get married?
00:26:23Oh, thank you so much.
00:26:24You shut up.
00:26:25I mean, I'm pretty, I'm not going to lie.
00:26:27I feel a little giddy.
00:26:29A little giddy.
00:26:30A little nervous.
00:26:31You know, a little excited.
00:26:33A little everything.
00:26:34Do I want to get married?
00:26:36Are you going to get down with me in these wetsuits?
00:26:39It's giving a little bit of a hunger game.
00:26:42I don't even know.
00:26:43I don't think I've ever seen hunger games.
00:26:45Okay, well.
00:26:48Yeah, I'm sorry.
00:26:49That might have been too much credit for you.
00:26:51I take that back.
00:26:56I don't need you to tell me.
00:27:01So.
00:27:03Vanell and I actually ran into each other at the speed.
00:27:07We had a little mutual thing going in.
00:27:10She's right down my alley.
00:27:12You know, I know what I want and I know what I don't want.
00:27:15You know, I've learned over the years.
00:27:17I got married really young.
00:27:18When I was 26, I was divorced by 30.
00:27:21I have two kids.
00:27:22Since then, I've had some relationships with Vanell.
00:27:26The vibes are amazing.
00:27:27I mean, I think we both feel each other.
00:27:29We both are attracted to each other.
00:27:31The conversation is easy.
00:27:32So I hope it stays like that.
00:27:34So now I have questions for you.
00:27:36All right.
00:27:37So first of all, what is your passion?
00:27:41I would say my biggest passion is, number one, faith is really important to me.
00:27:47So I would say trying to live out every day, honoring God with every action I have.
00:27:51I get it.
00:27:52You know, I'm a PK.
00:27:53I'm a pastor's kid.
00:27:55So, you know what I'm saying?
00:27:55I get it.
00:27:56What are you looking for in a man?
00:27:58Someone that's God-fearing.
00:27:59Okay.
00:28:00A dominant leader, but not like overpowering.
00:28:03Dominant, but not overpowering.
00:28:04Yes.
00:28:04Okay.
00:28:05Yes, dominant.
00:28:06Someone that has integrity.
00:28:07Okay.
00:28:08Someone that's just respectful and just like easygoing.
00:28:11Someone to have fun and, you know, be goofy and silly with.
00:28:15What about you?
00:28:16I always look for what's opposite of me because I'm on 100.
00:28:20Yeah.
00:28:20So I look for peaceful energy.
00:28:22So you got peaceful energy.
00:28:23When I first met you, I was a little bit kind of like, I don't know if him and I
00:28:27would connect
00:28:27because you're very opposite of me.
00:28:29Like, I'm like quiet introvert.
00:28:31Yes.
00:28:32And you're very like social and like big personality.
00:28:34So I was like, I don't know.
00:28:35That's exactly what I'm looking for.
00:28:37You know how they say opposites track, right?
00:28:38Well, I don't ever want anybody who's as intense as I am.
00:28:42Who's going to calm that down?
00:28:43Like, I need someone who's like chill.
00:28:45So like when they're not coming around, I'm like, okay, let me just chill.
00:28:49But I feel like you're also just like very like goofy and silly, which like.
00:28:53I can be.
00:28:53It takes someone to like bring that side out of me.
00:28:56Of course.
00:28:57Like a man needs to be plugged into his woman so that she walks in the room and he looks
00:29:01at her and says, what's going on?
00:29:03Like he's in tune to her.
00:29:04Okay.
00:29:04I'm not going to lie.
00:29:05You seem like the whole package right now.
00:29:07Like I'm surprised you're single.
00:29:09And now you know.
00:29:10Now I know.
00:29:10Any other questions about that?
00:29:12Not about how you feel now.
00:29:14Now I know.
00:29:15Now you know how I feel?
00:29:16Mm-hmm.
00:29:16Well, let's go.
00:29:19We didn't do cheers.
00:29:20Cheers to our first date.
00:29:21Cheers.
00:29:22Cheers to our second date.
00:29:23Cheers to our third date.
00:29:24Okay.
00:29:24That's coming up, right?
00:29:26I do feel butterflies inside.
00:29:29And honestly, like, like I didn't expect to like even like like him or be interested in
00:29:34him.
00:29:34I should let you walk in front of me so I can see it.
00:29:36Oh my gosh.
00:29:38Ain't nothing back here.
00:29:39Oh, you sure?
00:29:41Yes.
00:29:41You sure about that?
00:29:42He keeps me on my toes.
00:29:43Like, I don't know what he's going to say or do next.
00:29:46As I'm getting to know him, I like that about him.
00:29:49And I'm seeing that he's genuinely just himself.
00:29:52He's not like pretending to be anybody else.
00:29:54But I do have another connection with Justin.
00:29:58And it's been going really well.
00:30:00So that's why I'm kind of like scrambled in my head.
00:30:02I'm like, oh my gosh, what am I getting myself into?
00:30:07Oh.
00:30:09Oh.
00:30:09Oh.
00:30:10Oh.
00:30:11Oh.
00:30:12All right.
00:30:12Let's go.
00:30:13Cheers.
00:30:13See what's going to happen.
00:30:15Right.
00:30:15This is very, yeah.
00:30:16Cheers.
00:30:17Justin, who you've been talking to?
00:30:21Vanell.
00:30:22You know, Vanell and I have really connected, I think.
00:30:24Nice.
00:30:25I'm not sure how old she is.
00:30:26She's younger.
00:30:27But articulate and kind.
00:30:30I love kind to people.
00:30:31Yeah.
00:30:32You know.
00:30:32So she's giving you some of those signals?
00:30:35I think so.
00:30:36Yeah.
00:30:37She says that she is.
00:30:39Whether or not she's telling somebody else the same thing, I don't know.
00:30:41Oh.
00:30:42Right.
00:30:42We'll know that from a moment.
00:30:43How would you know?
00:30:43Yeah.
00:30:44She has every right to you, right?
00:30:45Yeah.
00:30:46Of course.
00:30:46Right now.
00:30:46She just met me.
00:30:47She should be.
00:30:47Yeah, right.
00:30:50All right.
00:30:50You can't tell me you've been on a more beautiful date than this.
00:30:54Um, I cannot, actually.
00:30:56This is pretty phenomenal.
00:30:58John is very, like, surprising, actually.
00:31:03Um, he's pretty great.
00:31:05And we got along.
00:31:07Like, our compatibility seems to be, like, right on.
00:31:10So I'm interested in continuing that and really excited to see where it goes.
00:31:15I think those onion layers are going to peel back and we're going to decide whether or not we're right
00:31:21for each other.
00:31:22Cheers.
00:31:23Cheers.
00:31:23Cheers, too.
00:31:24Okay.
00:31:25I would say getting to know each other better and having a great time while we're here.
00:31:31Is that good?
00:31:31Basic, but cheers.
00:31:34Oh, oh.
00:31:37Before I came here, I celebrated my youngest graduation.
00:31:41I said goodbye to that stage of my life.
00:31:45And here I am on to my next chapter with someone who makes me feel super safe.
00:31:52And excited about the possibility of him being my partner.
00:31:59Um, have you lived anywhere else than Miami?
00:32:03I lived in Boca.
00:32:04Oh.
00:32:05What was that for?
00:32:07Baseball.
00:32:08And then I had injuries.
00:32:12Oh, no.
00:32:12I was like, baseball was A through Z.
00:32:14Like, that was like, John was going to be a professional baseball player.
00:32:18And that's it.
00:32:20Really?
00:32:20Yeah.
00:32:21So then I had the surgeries.
00:32:22So you put all your eggs in that basket.
00:32:24It's hard.
00:32:25It was my identity.
00:32:26I get that.
00:32:28I played softball.
00:32:30Softball's hard.
00:32:31Yeah.
00:32:32I was probably like 10 when I got on the team.
00:32:35Then I played all throughout, like, my younger years.
00:32:39And then after I graduated college, I was, like, playing on, like, a recreational softball team.
00:32:46And someone literally came up to me and they recruited me.
00:32:49It's like something out of a movie.
00:32:51I know.
00:32:51It was weird.
00:32:52I think there's a movie about the all-girls baseball team.
00:32:54Yes, there is.
00:32:55What's it called?
00:32:56League of Her Own.
00:32:57League of Her Own.
00:32:57Yeah, yeah, exactly.
00:32:58Yeah.
00:32:59Yeah.
00:32:59I think Madonna's in it.
00:33:01Um.
00:33:02Madonna?
00:33:03She acts?
00:33:05So much I need to teach you.
00:33:08We have a lot in common, which is frickin' awesome.
00:33:12Um, I think that connection is much stronger when you have similar interests.
00:33:18I'm embracing what could come of this, for sure.
00:33:22Um, so, do you have any siblings?
00:33:26Um, so, sort of sensitive topic, but, yeah, I have a brother, but he passed away when I was 18.
00:33:32So, he was, like, three years older than me.
00:33:34But he is the reason why, like, I became an athlete and, like, played baseball.
00:33:41Sorry to hear that.
00:33:42It's okay.
00:33:43Yeah.
00:33:44I was a freshman in college, so.
00:33:46You want to talk about it, or?
00:33:48Not right now.
00:33:49Yeah.
00:33:50Yeah.
00:33:51I mean, it's fine.
00:33:52Like, I'm okay with it, but it's, you know, still sensitive, and he was huge for my life.
00:34:00So.
00:34:01Life is very precious.
00:34:02It's, you know, it's here and then it's not, and you just, you know, gotta not take it for granted
00:34:08and all that good stuff.
00:34:12You know, it's cheesy, but it's true.
00:34:14Yeah.
00:34:15Life's a wild ride.
00:34:17Look at us now.
00:34:19I know.
00:34:20I'm a beautiful whistler.
00:34:22I'm trying to, like, take it all in.
00:34:24You, this, the heat.
00:34:28Good.
00:34:28It's only gonna get better.
00:34:31Think so?
00:34:32I think so.
00:34:38I'm gonna go for it.
00:34:44All right.
00:34:48This is the best day to ever.
00:34:50Yeah, this is absolutely.
00:34:51Cheers.
00:34:53I just feel really great around him, and I really enjoy kissing him.
00:34:58All right, hold me up.
00:34:59I feel like we already have that vibe.
00:35:05You know, like, you just know.
00:35:07Like, you know when you, like, when you kiss someone, you just feel it.
00:35:11It's hard to explain.
00:35:13He's, like, pretty much the full package, I guess.
00:35:17I feel like he's the right speed for me and a very mature guy.
00:35:23You're taking me back to your place?
00:35:25Yeah, you want to share a tent?
00:35:26A great first kiss.
00:35:28Best one ever.
00:35:29Oh, don't, it was, you were self-conscious about it.
00:35:32It's hard to make you feel better.
00:35:34Where's my tulip?
00:35:36Aw.
00:35:38You know, tulips are my favorite flower.
00:35:40Just like our wine?
00:35:41Truly.
00:35:47That's crazy.
00:35:48She's like, right, we got us.
00:35:49Yeah.
00:36:09When was your last relationship?
00:36:14When?
00:36:14Yeah.
00:36:15Oh.
00:36:18When was it or when did it end?
00:36:21When was it?
00:36:22When did it end?
00:36:22Okay, so, hold on.
00:36:24Isn't it like the same thing?
00:36:25When was it?
00:36:26When did it end?
00:36:26I'm sorry, I'm just dodging the question.
00:36:28I'm just dodging the question.
00:36:30So, um, no.
00:36:31I would say, I would say it ended probably five months ago.
00:36:36And it started maybe, like, 10 to 12 months ago.
00:36:40So.
00:36:41Why did it end?
00:36:42It was, why did it end?
00:36:44Um, honestly, because he had a lot that he needed to, como se dice, fix.
00:36:53Um, and I wasn't willing to take that on.
00:36:55I mean, I think it's really hard when you love a person and you want the best for them
00:36:59and you see the best for them.
00:37:01But at some point, it's not worth sacrificing your own well-being.
00:37:05So, for me, it was just choosing myself over somebody who wasn't good for me.
00:37:10My daughters are a huge part of my life.
00:37:12So, when I'm dating someone these days, it's definitely, I need to see the potential in
00:37:17them of someone that could be in my daughter's lives.
00:37:20Someone that I can trust enough to let that guard down and let them into every part of
00:37:27my life.
00:37:27That's what I want to lean into.
00:37:30We only just start to guide us home because we become one way together.
00:37:37We have that five of us forever.
00:37:40Through the storm, we hold each other close because we become one way together.
00:37:48We have that love, love will last forever.
00:37:55Hey guys.
00:37:57Good morning.
00:37:57How'd you guys sleep?
00:37:59So good.
00:38:00I had some weird dreams.
00:38:02Really?
00:38:02Yeah, like, I don't know, stress dreams, probably.
00:38:07Yeah.
00:38:07Was it about John, or how are you guys doing?
00:38:10We're good.
00:38:11I mean, obviously, I'm just, like, how the hell old is he?
00:38:17I think that's my biggest thing.
00:38:18Obviously, I'm, like, wake up in the middle of the night, like, oh, shit.
00:38:22I was, like, shocked when I went on my one-on-one with John.
00:38:26Girl, you were so, so bad.
00:38:28I was like, what?
00:38:28You didn't have to do that a little bit.
00:38:30Yeah.
00:38:30Yeah, yeah, yeah.
00:38:31He was just, like, I'm going to go for it.
00:38:33But, you know, I just, I always am, like, waiting for the other shoe to drop, so.
00:38:37That guy's locked in on you, Teresa.
00:38:40He hasn't looked at anyone else, I swear.
00:38:41No, he's locked in.
00:38:43And he's genuine about it.
00:38:44And you guys actually, like, you're a cute couple.
00:38:46Like, you guys are really good together.
00:38:48We're rooting for you.
00:38:49I'm going to say, like, in the next few days, I see you guys there, Promise Room.
00:38:52This is, like, the fun stage.
00:38:53I will lead you ladies through to the Promise Room.
00:38:56Lead us to the Promise Land.
00:39:16Oh, boy.
00:39:16This is going to be fun.
00:39:18You'll put them silver linings upon me.
00:39:22Now I'm up on that gold, babe.
00:39:24Now I'm getting around.
00:39:25Look at the river.
00:39:27Wow.
00:39:27Welcome, everybody.
00:39:29Thanks for having me.
00:39:31Yes.
00:39:32Welcome to Pemberton, British Columbia.
00:39:35Beautiful coastal mountains here.
00:39:36We have some wonderful beverages for you to enjoy.
00:39:39I will pour some white.
00:39:42This is really good.
00:39:43This is my favorite.
00:39:44Mmm.
00:39:45Oh, wow.
00:39:47Cheers.
00:39:48Cheers.
00:39:49Cheers.
00:39:49Cheers.
00:39:51Cheers.
00:39:52So when you swirl it and you have the legs, does that mean sugar?
00:39:56Yes.
00:39:56See?
00:39:57The legs are sugar.
00:39:58Interesting.
00:39:58The thicker the legs, the more sugar.
00:40:02We'll see if that's true.
00:40:03Are they thicker?
00:40:04No, they're warm.
00:40:06I'd say they're around.
00:40:07Will we?
00:40:08I would hope so.
00:40:09I would absolutely hope so.
00:40:11Yeah.
00:40:12Well, I know what we're doing later.
00:40:14That's easy.
00:40:15Says you.
00:40:16Says you.
00:40:17Okay, okay.
00:40:17You know, I've said from the get-go, I really am open to getting to know these men regardless
00:40:25of their ages, but I have a 21-year-old nephew, and he reminds me of him.
00:40:32It's like...
00:40:32Should we make out?
00:40:36Too soon?
00:40:37Oh.
00:40:41Um, really?
00:40:42If we did that, then you'd have this all over you.
00:40:44I wouldn't lie.
00:40:46You're pretty smooth, Tristan.
00:40:48I'm not gonna lie.
00:40:49Look, I don't know if I can really let that guy into my bed.
00:40:52You know what I mean?
00:40:54I'm not gonna lie.
00:40:55I like the mom part.
00:40:55You do?
00:40:56Do you have mommy issues?
00:40:56My mom is only 19 years older than me, so when I date women that are getting up there, this
00:41:03is gonna sound horrible, but if you're not as hot as my mom, I'm not gonna marry you.
00:41:08Was your mom distant?
00:41:10No, she was very strict.
00:41:12Oh, well, that might be distant.
00:41:14No, she was...
00:41:17Maybe.
00:41:18He's really young.
00:41:19little baby face.
00:41:21And then I'm finding that that does matter.
00:41:24Where did you come from?
00:41:26Cheers, Prince Harry.
00:41:27Cheers.
00:41:28Where's Meghan Markle?
00:41:29He loves that.
00:41:30Enjoying it?
00:41:33Some people might be chasing money, some people might be chasing fame.
00:41:36I'm chasing, like, a feeling, like you want to wake up and be excited to have a partner,
00:41:42and Teresa's slowly checking off my boxes of what I want in a partner.
00:41:49Gorge.
00:41:49Oh, it's crazy, isn't it?
00:41:50Mm-hmm.
00:41:51I feel at ease with her and not to get too deep, but it's because she's Teresa.
00:41:58I, if I could bottle it up and sell it, I would.
00:42:02I got lucky.
00:42:04How are you feeling?
00:42:06I feel good.
00:42:07It's kind of crazy, isn't it?
00:42:09Yes.
00:42:09In a good way.
00:42:11Mm-hmm.
00:42:11I did wake up in the middle of the night and I was like, ugh, what is happening?
00:42:16Me too.
00:42:16Did you?
00:42:16Yeah, it was, I swear.
00:42:18Yeah.
00:42:19Yeah, it was like, I think it hit me last night, and I was like, not anything bad, it was
00:42:23just like...
00:42:23No, same.
00:42:24It was just like, what is, what's going on?
00:42:26No.
00:42:27But, no, sincerely, like, I left the date last night, couldn't stop thinking about you.
00:42:33No interest in anybody else.
00:42:36Okay, good.
00:42:37Me neither.
00:42:38Good.
00:42:39No?
00:42:39Oh, God.
00:42:41So, game's over, and I was kidding.
00:42:43Oh, God.
00:42:43I was kidding.
00:42:45Yeah, I mean that.
00:42:47I don't think there's no added pressure to that, but...
00:42:50Yeah.
00:42:51Like, I don't...
00:42:53That's the one I'm here for.
00:42:55Um, so, yeah.
00:43:08Kissing him is amazing.
00:43:10Like, I was shocked when I kissed him yesterday, and it was just like, sparks and good stuff.
00:43:16We just have this magnetic attraction to each other, and yeah, I want to kiss him some more.
00:43:21So, let's go.
00:43:31I definitely think this is a moment to see if Justin and I are compatible, but I still very much
00:43:37want to get to know Jorge more.
00:43:39I do like both of them, but Justin, he's just so sweet.
00:43:44We want the same things, um, and that's also what has drawn me to him, and he's just, like, made
00:43:50me just feel so comfortable, and just, like, so wanted, and just, yeah, just all the things that a woman
00:43:56wants to feel.
00:43:58What you did say yesterday is that, like, you don't really, like, fall easily, or, like...
00:44:03Um, no.
00:44:03Or don't, really, yeah.
00:44:06I love very hard, slow to love, right?
00:44:10How slow?
00:44:11I don't know.
00:44:12I thought we connected super early, like, literally the first day.
00:44:16We were, like, 30 seconds together, and I was like, oh, this girl, I like this girl, if you want.
00:44:23But I don't want you to, you know, I don't want you to feel like you can't get to know
00:44:25anybody or whatever, but...
00:44:26I mean, of course not, but I listen to what I want, like, my heart.
00:44:31I suspect you usually get what you want.
00:44:40You can't look at me like that.
00:44:42How am I looking at you?
00:44:44I don't know, like, you're gonna kiss me or something.
00:44:46Yeah?
00:44:47Does that make you nervous?
00:44:48A little bit.
00:44:50Why?
00:44:51I don't know.
00:44:54Stop, Justin.
00:44:57I feel like a schoolgirl.
00:44:59I don't know why.
00:45:00You feel like a schoolgirl?
00:45:02You know where you're, like, in high school or something, you're, like, talking to someone you're just, like, getting...
00:45:07Yeah?
00:45:08Yeah, I feel like that right now.
00:45:09That's what you feel like?
00:45:10Mm-hmm.
00:45:11I like talking to you.
00:45:13Yeah.
00:45:39I like talking to you.
00:45:43I like talking to you so fast.
00:45:44Yeah, that's right.
00:45:44I should have asked you.
00:45:45No, it's okay.
00:45:46No, I reciprocated.
00:45:48You did?
00:45:48Yeah.
00:45:49I wanted to.
00:45:51And I love that you did that.
00:45:53Yeah.
00:45:54Mm-hmm.
00:45:54So far, smitten is a good way to say it, I would say.
00:45:59I'm smitten with Vanell.
00:46:00I suspect Vanell is younger than me.
00:46:03She has no gray in her hair, and I have gray in my beard.
00:46:07Um, I know how old I am.
00:46:10But despite that, I feel a lot of connection with her.
00:46:13I want to know how old you are.
00:46:15Do you?
00:46:19We can go to the promis room, and you can find out.
00:46:22I guess that's true.
00:46:24But I will say, my dad has told me, but now I don't want you to marry anyone that's over
00:46:2910 years older than you.
00:46:30Oh, no.
00:46:31You're not older than me.
00:46:32But my family knows that I'm older, guys.
00:46:33Should we just end this now?
00:46:35We could still be in the criteria.
00:46:38Yeah, it's possible.
00:46:39That's true.
00:46:41I doubt it.
00:46:42I could be older than I look.
00:46:43You could be.
00:46:44Black don't crack, right?
00:46:45That's true.
00:46:46That's true.
00:46:47Mm-hmm.
00:46:49Today really just sped up our relationship to another level.
00:46:52Like, I really did not expect us to, like, kiss today.
00:46:55It's only been, like, a few days of me knowing him, and now I find myself in a love triangle
00:47:01with Justin and Jorge.
00:47:03His age does matter to me to an extent, but I'm really trying to lead with, like, my heart
00:47:10and not try to, like, get in my head about that.
00:47:13I'm glad I met you.
00:47:15I'm glad I met you, too.
00:47:17I know what you know, what I'm thinking, while our bodies have a chance to make.
00:47:21I have a chance to move.
00:47:23Move a little close to me.
00:47:24Move a little close to me.
00:47:26Yeah.
00:47:33Waking up today at the retreat, I feel like John is the one that I really want to see this
00:47:39through with.
00:47:39It is crazy that it's only been a couple of days, and my connection with John is super
00:47:46strong.
00:47:46Like, he just knows, he already knows me.
00:47:49Like, we have this, like, really strange ease with each other.
00:47:58So I'm taking John to the promise room.
00:48:02I think we're ready for that.
00:48:04There is a very good chance that I found my partner.
00:48:13In the past, I had been terribly hurt.
00:48:17I had been lied to, deceived, um, and also controlled in a couple of relationships.
00:48:29Even though I'm nervous about sharing my kids' ages with John, I feel that I can trust him
00:48:37and be vulnerable, and...
00:48:44Sorry.
00:48:49Yeah, I feel like I can trust him.
00:48:54Um, and that our connection is strong enough that once I do tell him, you know, about my
00:49:01kids and my age and everything, I don't think he's gonna run away.
00:49:10Being 100% vulnerable and out there is scary.
00:49:15Going to the promise room, the only thing on my mind right now is expressing to Teresa how
00:49:20I feel and seeing how she reacts to my age.
00:49:25If age ruined this, it would hurt.
00:49:28I've been in that situation before, and it hurts, and I don't want to be in that situation again.
00:49:44Hi.
00:49:47You look great.
00:49:48How are you?
00:49:51How are you?
00:49:52Good.
00:49:52How are you?
00:49:52I'm good.
00:49:53Good.
00:49:56Good attention.
00:49:59You know, I came here because, um, I thought this was a really great opportunity for me
00:50:08to hopefully meet somebody who was ready for a relationship.
00:50:15In the past, I've been really hurt.
00:50:22And I was really touched because you, right away, like, made me feel super safe.
00:50:31And, um, and, um, to me, that's very rare.
00:50:44So I'm really grateful that I got here and that we found each other so quickly.
00:50:51And I'm looking forward to hopefully continuing down that path and getting to know you more and expanding our relationship
00:51:01hopefully.
00:51:02Mm-hmm.
00:51:03Mm-hmm.
00:51:04Mm-hmm.
00:51:33I think that I can be trustworthy and reliable in that kind of rock that I feel like we've been
00:51:42throughout this whole experience.
00:51:45I'm looking forward to whatever's next.
00:51:46Yeah.
00:51:47Me too.
00:51:50All right.
00:51:50Well, so I think this is your size.
00:51:56A little bit bigger than yours.
00:51:58Um, so this is a ring I wanted to offer to you, um, and hope that you'll accept it in
00:52:07that, um, it just symbolizes that I want to continue to grow this relationship, see where it goes, and learn
00:52:19more about each other.
00:52:23Can I say yes now, or?
00:52:32And this is a ring for you to express how thankful I am to have met you.
00:52:41Aw.
00:52:41I hope you will accept this ring.
00:52:46Mm, yeah, I'll accept it.
00:52:54Voila.
00:52:55Can you work?
00:52:55Yeah.
00:52:56Let's go.
00:52:58Um, so I have some kind of big things to tell you.
00:53:04Um, again, this is very sensitive and, um, so yeah, my age, you're gonna die.
00:53:20Oh, my God.
00:53:21Oh, my God.
00:53:23I think anything that you can't control in life that has a weight of importance is really scary.
00:53:32If she thinks the age gap is more significant than she expected, than she thinks, than she feels, um, yeah,
00:53:40it could affect us for sure.
00:53:42I think it's going to be, like, a really big shock, because I don't think he has any idea.
00:53:50No, no, no, no, no, no, no, no.
00:53:52In the past, everyone thinks I'm significantly older than they am.
00:53:56It's not, like, one to two years, like, oh, sure, I think I'm going to shock her.
00:53:59Ugh.
00:54:01I mean, I think he's in his 30s, but I'm hoping he's 38 or older.
00:54:08He's going to be so shocked.
00:54:13I'm 27 years old.
00:54:20Taking someone to the Promise Room is something that I take very seriously.
00:54:25To me, it means commitment, and it means acceptance.
00:54:30I'm nervous about learning his age.
00:54:34I don't know if I could move forward with him if he's over late 40s.
00:54:39Got your seatbelt on?
00:54:40I've gotten.
00:54:43I don't know if you're running for this.
00:54:48I am...
00:54:5127.
00:54:53Oh, my God.
00:54:57Oh, wow.
00:54:58Oh, my God.
00:55:00Trying to roll with that whole age is just a number thing.
00:55:09I just can't believe it's going so well.
00:55:11I did not expect to find something this serious this fast.
00:55:18Have you guys had sex yet?
00:55:20Yeah, we have.
00:55:21Good for you.
00:55:22I'm so jealous.
00:55:24It's time to introduce your bold new love story to the people who matter most.
00:55:29Your friends, your families.
00:55:32My kids coming here would be, like, insane.
00:55:36Like, so scared to see them.
00:55:38Oh, my God.
00:55:40It's both up there.
00:55:41Wow.
00:55:42She seems a little high maintenance.
00:55:45You may need some Botox.
00:55:46She seems really fun.
00:55:48She just can't rent a car to drive out to.
00:55:50No.
00:55:50This age will be jarring for them.
00:55:53They will not accept it.
00:55:56I just want to make sure you're thinking realistically.
00:55:59I don't want to do this.
00:56:02Do you just like me as a friend?
00:56:03This whole thing has been a lot, man.
00:56:05I feel like it's killing you.
00:56:07I'm starting to think, is this age a problem for us?
00:56:10Maybe I'm not as mature as I thought.
00:56:13Potentially having two immediate children?
00:56:17I mean, like, it is, it is what it is.
00:56:21You're trying to turn this on me.
00:56:23I'm not trying to turn this on me.
00:56:24Yes, you are!
00:56:26Lily was the fun person that I had at the retreat.
00:56:28What the fuck are we doing?
00:56:30I'm really done with this conversation.
00:56:33Can I get this mic off me?
00:56:34I'm not ashamed of how old he is.
00:56:36I'm not ashamed of it.
00:56:37It's really none of your business.
00:56:39Oh, I'm sorry.
00:56:46I don't know whether we're going to get over that huge age gap.
00:56:50Is my life too overwhelming for her?
00:56:52It's very possible that he is going to break my heart on this mountain today.
00:56:57I don't want to live my life without her.
00:56:59I might be feeling dangerous and I might do something crazy.
00:57:04And so...
00:57:10We want to continue this journey and do life together.
00:57:17I've been living in the fifties.
00:57:21Everything I see, black and white TV.
00:57:25When you're with me, things look pretty.
00:57:29Got me feeling like you're my time machine.
00:57:33Saturated to the extreme.
00:57:362020.
00:57:38HD.
00:57:40Digital visual like something from a screen.
00:57:43A filter from a dream.
00:57:45You're so colorful to me.
00:57:48You're vibrant.
00:57:50You make my life so vibrant.
00:57:53You're so good in the ecstasy.
00:57:56You hide it.
00:57:58I just can't hide my excitement.
00:58:01So vibrant when you're next to me.
00:58:06Love, yeah.
00:58:07We love you, loving.
00:58:09Cause you're all mine, yeah, yeah.
00:58:16We love you.
00:58:17Love you.
00:58:39Love you.
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