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Aired (February 14, 2026): Naniniwala ka bang puwedeng mahanap si Miss o Mister Right sa isang dating app?
Sa panahon ng dating apps, isang swipe lang ang pagitan ng pagkakakilala at panloloko. Marami ang naghahanap ng koneksyon online at may ilan na nakakatagpo ng tunay na pag-ibig, habang ang iba naman ay nabibiktima ng mga pekeng profile at love scam.
Sa dokumentaryong ito, sinilip ni Mav Gonzales ang magkabilang mukha ng online dating mula sa sarili niyang kuwento ng pag-ibig na nagsimula sa isang swipe hanggang sa mga relasyong sinubok ng distansya, pagdududa at panghuhusga.
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Sa panahon ng dating apps, isang swipe lang ang pagitan ng pagkakakilala at panloloko. Marami ang naghahanap ng koneksyon online at may ilan na nakakatagpo ng tunay na pag-ibig, habang ang iba naman ay nabibiktima ng mga pekeng profile at love scam.
Sa dokumentaryong ito, sinilip ni Mav Gonzales ang magkabilang mukha ng online dating mula sa sarili niyang kuwento ng pag-ibig na nagsimula sa isang swipe hanggang sa mga relasyong sinubok ng distansya, pagdududa at panghuhusga.
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00:00That's why I became single.
00:14Because I was busy working on my work, I didn't want to know about my love life.
00:18The most common answer is,
00:20it's not that bad,
00:21it's not that bad.
00:23I don't know what to know about it.
00:27Kung tutusin, bukod sa Pilipinas,
00:30napakaraming pagpipilian mula sa 195 na bansa.
00:35Walong bilyong tao sa mundo,
00:38paano makahanap yung para sa'yo?
00:42Noong panahon ng mga magulang ko,
00:45love letters,
00:48magdamagang usap sa telepono,
00:50at personal meet-up ang ligawan.
00:56Ngayon, telepono pa rin,
00:58pero cellphone na.
00:59Ging chap.
01:00Ang eyeball, instant na.
01:03Hit or miss?
01:05Yun nga lang,
01:06kalimitang miss ang karamihan.
01:09Ang tanong...
01:15Possible nga ba ang love at first swipe?
01:18Paano kung pag swipe right,
01:20makilala mo si Mr. Right?
01:33Tatlong taon na ang nakararaan,
01:36unang doku ko para sa eyewitness
01:38bilang isa sa mga bagong hosts nito.
01:42Gumawa kami ng isang social experiment,
01:45maghanap ng scammers sa mga dating app.
01:49Nakasama ko ang ilang Pilipinong nirescue mula sa Cambodia,
01:53mga biktima ng human trafficking na ginawang online scammers,
01:58at ang ginagamit nilang pambiktima,
02:00dating apps.
02:03Single pa ako noon,
02:04pero gaano man nakapanlulumo ang mga nadeskubre kong panluloko online,
02:10nakipagsapalaran pa rin akong gumawa ng sarili kong dating app profile.
02:16At doon ko napatunayan
02:18na posible ang love at first swipe.
02:26Ipapakilala ko sa inyo ngayon
02:28ng aking other half na si Matthew.
02:31Actually, nag-meet kami sa isang dating app
02:34dahil siguro at last point ako super busy sa work,
02:38pero ikaw, bakit ka nagdownload the dating app?
02:42Kasi busy ako pa rin.
02:44May mga trabaho dito sa Pilipinas na sa familia ko.
02:50So talagang walang time to go out and be social.
02:57Kasi ang friend ko sabi niya ay,
03:00dapat give yourself a chance to at least meet someone.
03:04Ganyan. If you're not gonna go out, then at least, you know,
03:07try on the dating app to see if you can find someone.
03:10But like, nung nakita mo yung profile ko,
03:13what made you swipe right?
03:15Be honest.
03:18So, ano?
03:21Kasi, I...
03:24Ano?
03:26Sa sakaling kita.
03:30So, the photo that I saw was one of you sitting and reading a book.
03:36She's showing a book that is something that I'm of interest, right?
03:41Pero she's not just smart.
03:44She's also, she has an attractive feature to her.
03:48Tapos, the heels were also a nice touch.
03:50Oo.
03:51Oo.
03:51But were you convinced that I was a real person nung nakita mo yung profile ko?
03:55Actually...
03:56I don't think, verified by yung profile ko?
03:58I'm not sure.
03:59Parang hindi.
04:00Hindi ko alam.
04:01I don't remember.
04:02Pero kasi yung cousin ko, diba?
04:04Sabi niya,
04:05Hey, is that a real profile?
04:07Kasi, ano?
04:08She's, uh...
04:10That's probably a scammer.
04:11Yung Mav Gonzalez is very famous.
04:13Ganyan-ganyan.
04:14I was like, sino ka?
04:15Sino siya?
04:16They're like, oh, she's a, you know,
04:18news reporter sa GMA.
04:20She's very...
04:21Ganyan-ganyan.
04:22And I was like, oh, I had no idea.
04:24So, yeah.
04:25When I first saw your profile,
04:27I had no idea who you were.
04:29Reporter o hindi,
04:31nagduda rin ako kung legit itong naswipe-right ko.
04:36When I saw your profile,
04:37I thought you were a scammer.
04:38Like, 50-50 scammer.
04:41Kasi, parang...
04:43Yung mga pictures mo,
04:46pasok dun sa...
04:50kind of pictures that scammers would post.
04:53Like, very model-esque.
04:56Ganyan.
04:56Mukhang model.
04:57Ganyan.
04:58Tapos, yung profile mo,
04:59medyo vague.
05:00Parang wala masyadong...
05:03super details.
05:03Sabi mo, you like Star Wars.
05:05Hmm.
05:06I do.
05:07Oo.
05:08Yeah.
05:08Pero isa kasi yun sa mga ginagawa ng mga scammers
05:10na parang naglalagay sila ng mga
05:12very niche na...
05:14interests,
05:15hobbies,
05:16and mga...
05:17parang mukha silang legit na tao.
05:19Oh.
05:20Tapos, sabi ko kasi poge niya.
05:22Sabi ko pili ko scammer.
05:24So,
05:25I remember,
05:26I asked you if you had a social media account.
05:30Hmm.
05:30But to be honest,
05:31hindi ko siya in-stock talaga.
05:33Like, when I saw your profile,
05:35I just looked na parang,
05:36okay, is it an old profile?
05:37Meron ba siyang mga pictures from matagal na?
05:40Kasi kung bago lahat ng pictures,
05:42then I know it's a fake profile.
05:44And we had common friends.
05:45So, parang that made me confident na,
05:48okay, mukhang totoong tao siya.
05:51Matapos ang isang linggong pag-uusap online,
05:54lumabas kami sa first date namin.
05:58Pero nung first date natin,
06:01how did you feel?
06:03Parang,
06:06was I the same person na nakita mo sa dating app?
06:10Did I look the same?
06:11Or parang yung personality ko ba?
06:13Conversing with you?
06:14Pareho?
06:15Ganun?
06:16I mean,
06:17you definitely
06:20were much prettier in person.
06:21Oh!
06:22Thank you ah!
06:24No, I mean,
06:24you looked the same.
06:25You did.
06:26Like, that was another thing
06:27that I really appreciated
06:28about your pictures.
06:30Na,
06:31there weren't
06:32super heavy na filter
06:34or daming ng,
06:35you know,
06:36like,
06:36things that covered you up
06:38to see who you were.
06:39Yung first date namin,
06:41we were together
06:42for eight hours.
06:44Oo nga.
06:45Nag-uusap,
06:46nag-ukituan lang kami
06:47ng mga walong oras.
06:49Napagsaraduhan na kami
06:50nung unang restaurant.
06:50Lumipat kami sa pangalawang restaurant
06:52at napagsaraduhan kami ulit
06:54kaya nang uwian na kami.
06:57Kung kami ni Matthew,
06:59naghahanap na talaga ng The One,
07:01may mga taong literal
07:03na naghahanap lang ng kausap
07:05sa dating app,
07:06kagaya ng college student na si Kenji.
07:09More on,
07:10sa mga tourism student,
07:11they have to learn
07:12how to speak in English.
07:14So,
07:15nung time na naghahanap ako
07:16ng mga kausap na foreigner,
07:18para ma-enhance yung communication
07:19skill ko sa English.
07:21Kalaunan,
07:22naisipan din ni Kenji
07:24na humanap talaga
07:25ng life partner
07:26sa dating app.
07:27At first,
07:28naghahanap ng kausap
07:29and then,
07:31realized na
07:32I'm getting old
07:33why I don't have a partner
07:34unlike other student
07:36na experience na nila
07:39yung ganitong part
07:40ng life nila
07:41na nagkakamira ng partner.
07:42Siguro po,
07:43umabot ng thousands na
07:45yung mga nakausap ko.
07:47Yup.
07:48And then,
07:48some of them leave,
07:49some of them
07:51nakausap ko ng months.
07:54And then,
07:55wala.
07:55Hindi rin talaga tumatagal.
07:57Matapos ang libo-libong swipe
07:59prong ni Kenji
08:00sa dating app,
08:01nakilala niya
08:03ang Amerikanong si Jacob.
08:05Super
08:07pogi niya
08:08nung time na yun.
08:09So parang
08:09sabi ko
08:12okay,
08:12let's try
08:13communicate with him.
08:14Let's see
08:15kung katagal
08:16until
08:17yun.
08:20Like,
08:21I thought he looked,
08:22I was like,
08:23am I really pulling someone
08:25this good looking?
08:26You know?
08:27That's what I thought.
08:31So I was like,
08:32there's no way that
08:34he's going to be real.
08:36There's no way.
08:37So at first,
08:38I wasn't really giving it my all.
08:40I wasn't dedicating
08:42a lot of time.
08:43I wasn't trying to
08:44push for it.
08:46And I think I was,
08:47I think I was talking to like
08:49three other people too
08:51at the time.
09:04And I'm not trying to brag
09:05or say it any type of way,
09:06but it's like,
09:07I had a lot of people
09:08constantly bombarding me.
09:09And
09:10whenever
09:11he first messaged me
09:12and I saw him,
09:13I was like,
09:14yeah, sure,
09:15I'll give it a try.
09:17I was a little weary
09:18because
09:19I experienced a lot of people
09:21tried to get money out of me,
09:23tried to,
09:24you know,
09:24get personal information,
09:26you know,
09:26tried to scam you
09:27in some type of way.
09:28I heard all kinds
09:29of different stories.
09:30Pero umpisa pa lang,
09:32muntik nang mapornada
09:33ang love story nila.
09:35Wala na raw kasing
09:36paramdam si Jacob.
09:38Ghosted na agad
09:39si Kenji.
09:39Na-planning po ako
09:42or parang
09:42na-paranode ako
09:43na bakit hindi nagre-reply
09:45or bakit antagal mag-reply
09:46or baka
09:47may ibang kausap.
09:49Siyempre,
09:49hindi ko rin po sure
09:50kung may ibang kausap
09:52since
09:52hindi pa naman po kami
09:53totally official.
09:55Tapos hanggang sa,
09:56nung na-explain niya,
09:57parang nahil naman yung
09:59yung pagiging paranoid ko,
10:00naging okay naman.
10:02Nakatulog siya,
10:02day off daw niya po,
10:04so kailangan din po
10:05ng tahinga
10:06kasi pagod po siya
10:07the whole week.
10:09Mula sa chat,
10:11nagsimula silang
10:12mag-video call.
10:13Hanggang sa kalaunan,
10:15ang chatmate
10:16naging
10:16official relationship na.
10:19Normal day lang po
10:20magpapadala yan minsan
10:21ng apat na bulaklak.
10:23Sabi ko,
10:23paano ko tawakan
10:25or bakit?
10:26Anong meron
10:27sa araw na to?
10:28Bakit mo ako pinapadala
10:28ng bulaklak?
10:29Mga ganun.
10:29Ganun po kasi siya
10:30mag-surprise.
10:33Matapos ang halos
10:35dalawang taon,
10:36nagpa siya si Jacob
10:37na bumisita sa Pilipinas.
10:43October 2023,
10:45dumating sa bansa
10:46si Jacob.
10:48Medyo kinabahan po ako
10:50pero parang
10:52nandun na rin
10:53yung excitement eh.
10:54So parang hinagko
10:55na rin po siya
10:55sa skin.
10:56Of course,
10:57nakakahiya kasi
10:58ang daming tao.
11:04Pang-apat na bisita na ito
11:06ni Jacob sa Pilipinas.
11:08Pero sa tuwing dumadalaw siya
11:10kay Kenji,
11:11may lagi siyang napapansin.
11:35Parang sa akin,
11:36hindi na siya bago.
11:38Parang sa akin,
11:40hindi na siya bago.
11:40Parang,
11:40it's 2023 na.
11:42baka gusto niyang bagoyin yung tawag.
11:44Lagi sinasabi nila na
11:45isang Pinay na naman
11:47or isang Pinay na naman
11:47ang hinahang sa kahirapan.
11:49Which is,
11:51I know to myself na
11:52yung tao is
11:54I've been through a lot
11:56and he's been through a lot as well.
11:58So parang sa amin,
11:59alam namin sa isa't isa
12:00na hindi kami into money
12:02or hindi namin haba sa isa't isa yung ganun.
12:05So we're looking for
12:06a real and pure relationship lang talaga.
12:12Maswerte ako
12:12dahil wala akong naranasang panguhusga
12:15mula sa mga estranghero.
12:17Katulad ng naranasan ni Nakenji.
12:23Magkakaiba man ng lahi,
12:25paano mo nga ba malalaman
12:27na pang forever na ang nahanap mo?
12:31There was a statement you made
12:33early on in our dating phase.
12:37Kasi we were like,
12:38oh wow, this is moving very fast
12:40and this is also just,
12:42you know, I feel very safe with you.
12:44I feel like this is almost too good to be true.
12:48Diba?
12:49Sabi mo, sometimes it's too good and it's true.
12:55And I think I really took that to heart.
12:57Or I took that to like, okay, sige.
13:01Dalawang buwan matapos kami magkakilala,
13:04dinala ako ni Matthew
13:06sa tuktok ng magpinagbanderahan
13:08sa probinsya ng tatay niya.
13:10Come on.
13:11So I'm like, okay, well,
13:12we talk about the future
13:13and then we talked about the future
13:15and next thing we know
13:18we're on top of a mountain proposing.
13:21So...
13:22Oof!
13:23Oof!
13:24Oh god!
13:25Sorry!
13:27Okay.
13:28Alright, yep.
13:29That was a little harder than I thought.
13:31I don't know.
13:32Are you marrying me?
13:32Uh-uh!
13:34Do you know how long it took for me to get that?
13:39Oi!
13:44Yeah, I...
13:48I just feel like
13:50at some point, you have to
13:54place your bed
13:56and...
13:57and roll with it.
13:59Bad trip?
14:00Bad trip?
14:01Oh, sige.
14:01Rabay ka talaga.
14:07Siempre?
14:08Yes?
14:08Yes?
14:09Oh.
14:10I love you.
14:11I don't know if I'm persistent.
14:13Put this on your left.
14:14Oh, left hand.
14:14Oh, eto.
14:15Yeah.
14:16Oh.
14:17Hello, hello.
14:18Oh, yeah.
14:19Ah!
14:23I now pronounce you husband and wife.
14:25You may kiss if you bite.
14:31Noong nakaraang taon din,
14:33ikinasal kami ni Matthew sa Amerika.
14:37Hanggang ngayon,
14:39meron pa rin kaming mga nadidiskubre sa isa't isa
14:42na wala sa dating profiles namin.
14:44First time, uh, you know, we actually lived together was, you know, after we got married.
14:52Diba?
14:52Um, so, parang, ano, the way that you were cooking sometimes.
15:00Or the way that you prepare food, ganyan, I'm like, uh, I don't know.
15:05Sabi ko sa kanya, di, huwag ka tumingin.
15:08Alam mo ba, I didn't know you could eat salt as a dish.
15:10I didn't know that was ulam.
15:12Like, salt talaga.
15:13That was one time.
15:15Sobra ng asin yung bok choy.
15:17But I declared it.
15:19Sabi ko, don't eat it na, maalat.
15:21Pero I tried.
15:22I really tried to eat it and not that.
15:25Hindi niya matutuwa ako pang kinain pa rin niya.
15:27So, kahit magkakasakit na siya sa bato,
15:30inugkakainin pa rin niya yung bulay.
15:34Nagsasama na rin sa iisang bubong ang dalawa
15:37sa tuwing nasa Pilipinas si Jacob.
15:40At matindi rin adjustment ang nangyari sa kanila,
15:43lalo na tuwing matutulog.
15:46Actually, how he sleeps sometimes scares me.
15:49Because I get worried that he stops breathing sometimes.
15:53So, it scares me. It freaks me out.
15:55So, whenever I'm laying with him,
15:58especially if he falls asleep first
15:59or if I wake up a couple tops throughout the night.
16:08I do snore.
16:09He does snore, but not constantly throughout the night.
16:12Not always.
16:14And not too bad.
16:16It's kind of, the way he sleeps,
16:18kind of, like I said, it will kind of worry me sometimes.
16:21Mahilig lumabas ang dalawa.
16:24Manood ng sine at kumain sa labas.
16:27Hello guys!
16:28If naghahanap kayo ng paded na one-piece swimsuit
16:30na pwede rin gawing tap sa mga lakad.
16:32Pero kapag nasa kondo,
16:34nag-online selling sila.
16:36So, yung sa online selling po,
16:39na pinasok namin ngayon,
16:41we tried lang po na mag-affiliate sa isang app.
16:48Minsan po siya yung nagsishow ng mga products
16:50sa TikTok.
16:52Kasi po, minsan masinahanap siya.
16:55Minsan ako ganun.
16:56Depende po sa product po na pinapadala eh.
17:00Lagpas dalawang buwan pa lang silang sumusubok
17:03mag-online selling.
17:04Kaya hindi pa malaki ang kanilang kita.
17:08Pero isa ito sa kinaaaliwan nilang gawin.
17:12Yun nga lang, ilang linggo na lang
17:15iuuwi na sa Amerika si Jacob.
17:23Wala na raw itong balak bumalik sa Pilipinas.
17:26Ito na raw ang huli niyang pagbisita rito.
17:30I got denied twice with the J-1 visa.
17:33I was planning to try for a third time
17:35but I feel like the visa was too expensive
17:39and parang I feel like I'm wasting my time
17:42and efforts at the same time.
17:46LDR o long-distance relationship na ba ang kasunod nito?
17:58Hindi lahat kapareho ko ng karanasan.
18:01Marami kasing inbis na pag-ibig,
18:03scam ang nahahanap sa dating app.
18:06Meron na akong mga experiences sa dating app
18:08na personal na it didn't go well,
18:11scammer, fake profile,
18:13lahat na ng scam na pwede sa dating app.
18:17I think na-experience ko na siya.
18:19Oh?
18:20Who are you dating?
18:21Grabe.
18:22Marami iba-iba.
18:25Sa aming episode na Swipe Right Swipe Wrong,
18:29ibinahagi sa amin ang mga Pinoy
18:31na naging scammer bilang trabaho.
18:34May mga team leader silang Chinese
18:36na nagmamando kung sino ang potensyal na biktima.
18:40Kailangan namin manghikahit ng mga kliyente,
18:45magpa-invest,
18:46then magpe-pretend kami na
18:48babaeng mayama na edukada.
18:50Parang papainlabi namin yung mga kliyente namin
18:54para mag-invest.
18:55Kukuha namin namin yung loob.
18:57So kahit lalaki,
18:58babae yung pinapagamit nila na persona, na profile?
19:02Yes po.
19:03Kung magandun, walang pili, basta may pera.
19:08Yung sa profiles,
19:10binibigyan kami ng idea ng boss namin
19:12or supervisor namin
19:14kung ano yung dapat gamitin.
19:16Kung halimbawa,
19:16bibigyan niya kami ng account
19:18na nasa Instagram,
19:19kukuha kami ng pictures at videos.
19:22At nakatapos nun,
19:24kailangan yung profile namin ay
19:26high-end class na babae.
19:28Kailangan mayaman ka,
19:30maganda,
19:31at laging nagta-travel.
19:32At naka-base sa US.
19:33So sa isang profile,
19:36mga ganong karaming picture at videos ang nakahanda?
19:38Just in case may manghingi.
19:40Ganito po kasi, may GC po ang bawat team.
19:44For example,
19:44humingi ka ng tulong sa GC nyo.
19:46Boss, can I have a picture like eating in the restaurant,
19:50like Mexican restaurant?
19:52Magsisend yung boss namin ng sample pictures
19:55na pwede mong isend dun sa client.
19:57Lolita, pag nagtanong naman tungkol sa konwari,
19:59anong pinag-aralan?
20:00Ano ang sa nag-aral?
20:02Meron bang ganon?
20:03Kailangan ganitong klaseng school ang pinasukan mo ah?
20:07May mga sinag-Harvard po gan.
20:09Oh my God!
20:10Talagang Harvard ang sinasabi?
20:12Oh, okay.
20:13Kaya pala talagang yung iba kahit na aral,
20:16feeling nila...
20:24Mayroong manual na pinakabisado sa kanila.
20:28Tinatawag nila itong Biblia.
20:30Ito yung parang Bible or manual or handbook nila
20:34na binibigay sa kanila ng mga employers nila.
20:37So nakasulat dito,
20:38kada araw kung ano yung gagawin nila,
20:40paano sila makikipag-usap dun sa mga potential na isa-scam nila.
20:44Yung itsura niya as in literal na agent, client,
20:48meron talagang sagutan
20:49at kung ano yung possible na isasagot nung kliyente,
20:52meron din silang ready na response.
20:54Uulitin ito sa ikatlong araw
20:56hanggang magkaroon ang pagkakataong banggitin ang cryptocurrency.
21:01Pag gumagat ang kausap nila na mag-invest,
21:04ipapasa na ang cellphone sa kanilang team leader.
21:07Ibibigay muna nila ang unang kikitain ng biktima
21:10para mapaniwala ito
21:12at mag-invest pa ng mas malaking pera.
21:16Madalas kapag si client,
21:18sobrang laki na nang na-deposit niya
21:20at gusto niya nang umalis or umayaw.
21:23Kapag sinabi niya nang
21:24pwede ko na ba withdraw in lahat ng pera ko,
21:27pwede ko na ba kuhanin yung kinita ko,
21:30yun na yung time na ibablock na siya sa WhatsApp
21:33hanggang sa wala ka ng connection sa kanya.
21:35Ikuinento rin nila
21:36na pati pala video calls
21:38pwede nang mapeking ngayon.
21:41Sa video call,
21:42may bagong na-discover
21:44na green screen sa messenger.
21:47So kahit na video call,
21:49hindi mo na pala pwede pagkatiwalaan
21:51na totoong tao yung kausap mo?
21:53Tama.
21:53Kasi nagagamit na yung green screen
21:57sa panluloko din.
21:58Lalo na yung mga matatanda,
22:01yung edad 40 to 50.
22:02Hindi sila masyadong teki
22:04pagdating sa messenger.
22:05Kaya akala nila,
22:07totoo yung kausap nila.
22:09Tuturuan nila ako ngayon
22:10kung paano mag-record yung video
22:12para pag nag-video call kayo
22:13kahit na hindi ikaw talaga
22:15yung nakapronta sa camera,
22:16magdumukhang ikaw yung nandun.
22:18So, paano unan natin nga?
22:20I-record po muna yung sarili ninyo.
22:23Sa camera?
22:24Kunyari, ikaw po yung model.
22:27Okay.
22:28So, as in ganyan lang,
22:29paharap lang.
22:30Tapos...
22:31Magsalita ko ngayon tayo.
22:33Hi!
22:35How are you?
22:36Gano'n makaba dapat yung ganito?
22:3810 seconds.
22:3910 seconds.
22:42Ayan.
22:44Messenger.
22:46Eto.
22:46As in video call agad.
22:54Effects.
22:56Ooh!
22:58Okay.
22:58Ayan na, o.
23:01Hi!
23:03Pero tingin nyo, o.
23:04Kapag humarap na ako.
23:05Hello!
23:08Supeke lang siya.
23:10Pero hindi ba pag ganito,
23:12hindi ba sila nakakahalata na tipong...
23:16Bakit ano?
23:17Hindi nga sabay yung buka ng bibig mo yun sa video?
23:19Video?
23:20Hindi talaga.
23:21Yung nga po yung matatanda.
23:23Yung talaga.
23:23Hindi sila date free.
23:24Kaya nga po parang mas madali sila.
23:26Yun talaga ang target.
23:28I think important din na,
23:30pag nagmatch kayo sa dating app,
23:32mag-set agad kayo kung kailan kayo mag-meet.
23:35Huwag kang papayag na chatmates lang kayo indefinitely.
23:39I don't know, di ba?
23:41Parang we planned agad the first date.
23:44I mean, we were both busy at that time.
23:46Kaya it took us like over a week to plan the date.
23:48Pero we planned na magkita ka agad.
23:52Suwerte ako.
23:54Dahil nung nagmatch kami ni Matthew,
23:56kasalukuyang nasa Pilipinas siya.
23:59Sa kaso ni Nakenji at Jacob,
24:02long-distance relationship ang sumusubok sa kanila.
24:06At ilang linggo na lang,
24:09lilisanin na ni Jacob ang kondong kanilang tinitirhan.
24:14Pinagahandaan na raw ni Jacob ang magiging bukay nila sa Amerika.
24:18I plan on dragging him to America, you know.
24:22I'm already looking at like six acres of land.
24:24You're gonna get Kenji, marry him in the US, right?
24:30Yeah.
24:31Para sa magnobyo,
24:33nahanap na raw nila ang kanilang forever.
24:37He wasn't my first, but you know,
24:39he's definitely gonna be my last on it.
24:50Apat na taon ng magnobyo si Nakenji at Jacob.
24:54At napatunayan daw nilang may forever sa dating apps.
24:59Basta't matsaga kang mag-swipe at maghanap.
25:04Kami naman ni Matthew, dito muna titira sa Pilipinas.
25:08At hinihintay na rin namin ang pagdating ng aming unang anak ngayong taon.
25:13Ako tingin ko, parang mali yung notion na
25:16pag sa dating app kayo nag-meet,
25:19cheap or hindi serious.
25:21Kasi dati, sinabi ko, di ba,
25:23mabuti nang wala kesa mali.
25:25At sobrang daming nakarelate kasi feeling nila,
25:27oo nga, bakit ako magsasayang ng oras
25:29sa tao na hindi naman talaga okay for me.
25:32Pero sinabi ko rin na,
25:34pero hindi mo makahanap yung taong para sa'yo
25:36kung hindi ka tataya.
25:38And who knows?
25:40Maybe yung pagsaswipe-swipe mo dyan,
25:43maawi ka rin sa sing-sing.
25:48Saan ka man maghanap ng forever,
25:51dapat maging maingat.
25:54Kilalaning mabuti,
25:55lalo na sa dating apps,
25:57dahil baka mapaasa ka lang,
25:59mag-ghost o mas malalap,
26:02mas scam.
26:03Pero huwag ka mapagod humanap at tumaya.
26:06Dahil baka sa pang isang libong swipe right mo,
26:10makilala mo na si Miss o Mr. Right.
26:15Magandang gabi.
26:17Ako po si Mav Gonzalez.
26:20At ito ang Eyewitness.
26:48Maraming salamat sa pagtutok sa eyewitness mga kapuso.
26:51Anong masasabi niyo sa dokumentaryong ito?
26:54I-comment na yan at mag-subscribe
26:55sa GMA Public Affairs YouTube channel.
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