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01:00Today, the hadiths transmitted to us by Imam Bukhari and Imam Muslim, may Allah have mercy on them, contain many hadiths narrated from our mother Aisha, may Allah be pleased with her.
01:16Therefore, those fools who want to discredit these hadith imams, whom we know today as Imam Bukhari and Imam Muslim, did not want us to learn our religion from our mother Aisha (may Allah be pleased with her),
01:31They don't want us to learn the Quranic commentary of our mother Aisha (may Allah be pleased with her); instead, they want us to learn their own interpretations and commentaries on the Quran.
01:44Therefore, those ignorant people who cannot touch our mother Aisha (may Allah be pleased with her), who cannot say that the sayings attributed to Aisha are fabricated, or who cannot say that Aisha narrated such fabricated sayings, what are they doing with Imam Bukhari and Imam Muslim (may Allah have mercy on them)?
02:01They're trying.
02:03My brothers and sisters, our mother Aisha (may Allah be pleased with her) is among the seven people known as the Muksirun, who narrated the most hadiths from our Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him).
02:15Therefore, whenever we open a book of jurisprudence, a book of commentary, or a book of hadith, we always, absolutely always, refer to our mother Aisha (may Allah be pleased with her).
02:28In all of his books, he taught us one-third of our religion.
02:33My brothers and sisters, let me share an anecdote about the value that our mother Aisha (may Allah be pleased with her) placed on knowledge.
02:42One day, Abu Salama (may Allah be pleased with him), one of the companions, prayed to the Prophet Muhammad (peace and blessings be upon him), saying, "O Allah, make him knowledgeable in religion, make him an interpreter of religious texts."
02:54Abdullah ibn Abbas (may Allah be pleased with him) made a criticism regarding our Prophet.
03:00So, someone who was uneducated or had little knowledge, an aide-de-camp, leveled criticisms against the sultan.
03:08Our mother Aisha (may Allah be pleased with her) used the following expression in response to Abu Salama's criticism of Abdullah ibn Abbas, even though he himself did not have as much knowledge as Abdullah ibn Abbas.
03:21He said, "By Allah, Abu Salama has become like a chick crowing among roosters, like a chick."
03:30Allahu Akbar.
03:31Isn't this incredibly important, my brothers and sisters?
03:33Today, there are those who don't even know Arabic, who haven't studied grammar and syntax, who are completely unaware of the principles of hadith studies, but who, unfortunately, claim to be graduates of the theology faculties established by modernism.
03:49Those who say that there are so many fabricated hadiths in Imam Bukhari (may Allah have mercy on him) or those who say that there are so many fabricated hadiths in Imam Muslim
03:59If our mother Aisha (may Allah be pleased with her) had heard those who slandered these people without having this knowledge, what would she have said to them?
04:07Or what does the man say? All our scholars, the majority of learned men, have said this about this matter, but those fools who say that I, a humble person, do not think this way, even though I kiss the hands of each and every one of these learned men,
04:21What would my brothers say if they saw those ignorant people in armor?
04:25Or, the man says on television screens, "Imam Abu Hanifa is a man, and so am I."
04:31Therefore, these ignorant people who say, "Just as Imam Abu Hanifa made legal judgments, so do I," and who see themselves in the same category as Imam Abu Hanifa...
04:41If our mother Aisha (may Allah be pleased with her) had seen this, she would probably have said, "These people think of themselves as crows cawing among doves."
04:52Or, if our mother Aisha had seen those who slandered the scholars of our Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) in this way, saying, "These are like owls hooting among doves," she would have said something similar.
05:04Therefore, my brothers and sisters, when it comes to a subject, a matter, or any matter what it may be, the person who is an expert in that field should be the one to speak about it.
05:15People who are not experts shouldn't criticize or comment on those who are, but unfortunately, this is a disease that affects Muslims in our country and around the world, isn't it?
05:27He actually knows nothing about any subject, but unfortunately, he has an opinion on everything.
05:34This is the greatest disease of our time, my brothers and sisters.
05:38Therefore, it is our mother Aisha, to whom our Prophet Muhammad (peace and blessings be upon him) said, "Learn one-third of your religion," who advises us to ask those who know and are qualified about matters we are unaware of.
05:51My brothers and sisters, as you know, our mother Aisha (may Allah be pleased with her) married our Prophet Muhammad (peace and blessings be upon him) immediately after the Hijra (migration) and became the second wife of our Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him).
06:06After our mother Sevde, our Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) first married our mother Sevde, and then he married our mother Aisha (may Allah be pleased with her).
06:13My brothers and sisters, our mother Aisha says to our mother Sevde, "O Sevde, you are 60 years old, but I am younger than you. I attend to the needs of our Prophet, peace and blessings be upon him, more than you do."
06:25Therefore, our Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) stays with me one day and with you the next.
06:29Sometimes, when I ask our mother Sevde if she would allow me to keep the item instead of hers, she always agrees, my siblings.
06:40But then, my dear sisters, nine more women join that household.
06:45Our mother Umm Selim is coming.
06:46Our mother Zeynep arrives, and our mother Aisha (may Allah be pleased with her) begins to see our Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) every nine days in her own home.
06:57And so, my brothers and sisters, when our Prophet, peace and blessings be upon him, passed away, our mother Aisha, may Allah be pleased with her, was 28 years old, and she lived as a widow for 47 years after the Prophet, peace and blessings be upon him, passed away.
07:19My brothers and sisters, marriage is a difficult institution.
07:24So, think about our mother Aisha (may Allah be pleased with her).
07:26Despite loving our Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) so much, being very jealous of him, and despite the fact that our Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) had eight wives, she performed this difficult act of marriage.
07:39But how did she accomplish it, or how did she patiently endure it for 48 years as the wife of our Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) and the mother of all believers?
07:52Because she didn't view marriage as a purely moral institution.
07:57He viewed marriage as an act of worship.
08:00So, unlike us, he didn't just see prayer as an act of worship, or fasting as an act of worship; no, no, prayer is not an act of worship.
08:10Or rather, I apologize, worship is not prayer, worship is not fasting.
08:15But prayer and fasting are acts of worship.
08:17But what did we do? We narrowed down the scope of worship, didn't we?
08:21When we think of worship, prayer comes to mind, when we think of worship, fasting comes to mind.
08:24But it never occurred to any of us, when we were about to get married, that the institution of marriage itself is a form of worship, and a difficult one at that.
08:34Look, my dear brothers and sisters, as our scholars have said, every act of worship has a difficult aspect.
08:39For example, what does it mean to wake up for the morning prayer?
08:42It's difficult, isn't it, Professor Muhammed?
08:43But can anyone say, "Because it's difficult to get up for the morning prayer, I'm divorcing my spouse by performing the morning prayer from 3 to 9"?
08:50We cannot say that.
08:51Because why? Acts of worship aren't things that can be divorced in an instant by simply issuing a divorce.
08:56Or, for example, the Ramadan fast, fasting for 15 or 16 hours in August, is a difficult act of worship.
09:02So, can we say, "I am divorcing my wife from 3 to 9 during this Ramadan, the Ramadan of August"?
09:08We can't say that, can we, my brothers?
09:10So there is a difficult aspect to religious practices.
09:12But my brothers and sisters, for some reason, when it comes to marriage—that is, Muslims who consider fasting and prayer as acts of worship—do not consider marriage as an act of worship, and therefore, before even 5 months have passed...
09:27Less than a year after getting married, before their bodies have even mingled, before their scents have even become familiar to Mehmet abi, what are they doing?
09:35What can a man do with his wife after giving three to nine pronouncements of divorce? He can divorce her, my brothers.
09:41Can such a thing be considered a religious ceremony for marriage? No, it can't, right?
09:44So, marriage is a difficult act of worship, but when you endure its hardships and persevere through them, it is an act of worship that brings great reward in the sight of God, my brothers and sisters.
09:55Look, our master Umar (may Allah be pleased with him) says that these women from Mecca invented this in Medina.
10:01And when he saw these city women in Medina, and he lamented that they were beginning to rebel against him, he said:
10:11When he said, "I will go to our Prophet Muhammad (peace and blessings be upon him) and complain about these women..."
10:17He came to the house of our Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) and what did he hear?
10:21When shouting, yelling, and women's voices were heard coming from the house of our Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him)
10:26Umar (may Allah be pleased with him) said, "Oh my dear Prophet, your troubles are heavier than ours, your burden is heavier than ours."
10:37And he returned without complaining about any woman or anything like that.
10:41Allahu Akbar.
10:42So, my brothers, look, they too lived a life with women, and that life was difficult for them, even for a prophet.
10:50Again, my dear brothers, one of the companions of the Prophet married a woman who was so miserable that she made him suffer immensely.
10:59Rebellious, really rebellious?
11:01Doesn't he listen?
11:02He doesn't listen.
11:03Is Nuş the owner?
11:04Nuş is the owner.
11:05His companions came to him and said, "Brother, don't do this, this woman will ruin you."
11:12It's impossible to spend a lifetime with this woman like this.
11:16Our esteemed companions of the Prophet said this about a woman in vain.
11:18Allahu Akbar.
11:19Allahu Akbar.
11:21They said this woman was a fool.
11:22But look, my brothers and sisters, that companion of our Prophet gave such a beautiful answer.
11:27"What if I divorce this woman?" he said.
11:30"He's such an ungrateful person," he said.
11:32He's such a rebel, he said.
11:35After me, she'll go and marry another one of my siblings or something.
11:39It will cause him trouble too.
11:41He'll either put him in jail or bury him.
11:44Therefore, I said, I am being patient with this woman.
11:46Let her stay married to me for a lifetime.
11:50I am being patient with him.
11:51God gave me this power.
11:52But another brother of mine might not be able to be patient, and both his worldly life and his afterlife would be ruined.
11:57Look, this will teach us in a way that the ritual of marriage is difficult.
12:01One.
12:02What is he doing?
12:02The wit is telling us something, my brothers.
12:04And he says he won't divorce her.
12:06Allahu Akbar.
12:07But what are we doing?
12:08That's because we end up in these fragile, delicate marriages.
12:12Unfortunately, the fact that the boy and girl who met on the tram ended up separating in courtrooms is what brought their marriages to this point, my brothers and sisters.
12:21There's no patience, no solace, no surrender, no trust in God, is there?
12:27So, what should we do?
12:29From the example of our mother Aisha (may Allah be pleased with her), the wife of our Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him), we can understand that marriage is a difficult act of worship and that we must bear the burden of patience and reliance on God to fulfill this obligation.
12:44My brothers and sisters, if you wish, let us take a journey to the blessed time of our mother Aisha (may Allah be pleased with her) and our Prophet Muhammad (peace and blessings be upon him).
12:53We're not going to talk about the kind of love that involves couples sharing photos of each other on social media, posting pictures of the food they've eaten, and then fighting at home over who's going to wash the dishes.
13:07Or perhaps we're just pretending to be well so that friends and outsiders can see us doing well on WhatsApp statuses and Facebook profiles, but we're not talking about marriages where we're fighting like cats and dogs behind the scenes, wanting to devour each other.
13:25Let's bring up a topic here that deals with perfectly natural, perfectly genuine marriages.
13:32Look, my dear brothers and sisters, in this house too, just like in our house, just like in your house, plates were breaking, dishes were breaking, and the noise was reaching the neighbor upstairs.
13:44Sometimes the neighbor would come over, asking what was wrong, if there was a problem, why they were fighting.
13:48Didn't the same things happen in the house of our Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him)?
13:53Honestly, it was happening there too, brothers.
13:55Since they were also human beings, what were they doing?
13:58Sometimes they would even argue with our Prophet Muhammad (peace and blessings be upon him).
14:01Listen, my dear brothers and sisters, one day he was talking about our mother Aisha (may Allah be pleased with her).
14:07He says, "In Medina, we used to put oil in the lamps at night, and then there came a time when there wasn't even any oil."
14:16We used to make lamps with oil, we used to light ourselves at night, we made oil lamps, but then a time came when there wasn't even any oil left.
14:23If we found oil, we would eat it instead of putting it in the lamps.
14:28On such a night, I did not find our Prophet Muhammad (peace and blessings be upon him) in my bed.
14:33Then, as I began to wonder if the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) had left me and gone to another wife, I gently moved my hand along the ground.
14:44I looked and saw that our Prophet, peace and blessings be upon him, had risen in the middle of the night to perform the Tahajjud prayer, my brothers and sisters.
14:52Allahu Akbar.
14:53Then our mother Aisha says, "I blamed myself."
14:56I said, "Aisha, what do you think about the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him)?"
15:00I reproached myself for what I was doing, and I told this to our Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him).
15:06When I said, "O Messenger of Allah, I thought this about you, but do you perform the Tahajjud prayer?", the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him), instead of shouting or yelling at me, simply smiled at me.
15:23He smiled, thinking, "These women are jealous," and gave me no other reaction.
15:30You know how we shout, how we yell? We see shouting and yelling as a method of education that only corrects women or the children in front of us, my brothers and sisters.
15:41But Serdar abi, it turns out that smiling was also a teaching method in the life of our Prophet Muhammad (peace and blessings be upon him).
15:49Can a smile educate someone?
15:53By God, it educates, I swear it educates, my brothers.
15:55A smile is a powerful teaching tool.
15:57Just make sure that when someone does something wrong and your spouse gets jealous, you only smile, but don't let them perceive your smile as laughter.
16:09Let him perceive it as a smile, and perhaps that will be a lesson for him.
16:13My brothers and sisters, our mother Aisha (may Allah be pleased with her) says that one day she got up and the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) got out of bed, thinking she was asleep.
16:23Then she left the house, and I started following her, he says.
16:26Allahu Akbar.
16:28He's following.
16:29The woman is following her husband.
16:30Then I followed, and followed, and followed.
16:33Our Prophet, peace and blessings be upon him, came to Jannatul Baqi and stood there in the middle of the night.
16:39She cried, and cried, and cried.
16:41He prayed, then came back, he says.
16:43Allahu Akbar.
16:45Where are we going at midnight, my brothers?
16:46Are there any believing men among us who visit cemeteries at midnight, or who leave their wives' beds at midnight to perform the Tahajjud prayer?
16:59Allahu Akbar.
17:00So, does a Muslim man also have a nightlife?
17:02It existed.
17:03But he's not talking about a nightlife spent in nightclubs or discos, but rather a nightlife involving visiting cemeteries and getting up for Tahajjud prayers.
17:13Then, the Prophet's wife, Aisha (may Allah be pleased with her), and my sisters said, "Then the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) turned back from there and started walking towards home, and I started running quickly."
17:27I got home and immediately pulled the blanket over myself before he arrived.
17:31Then the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said, "Aisha, Aisha, was that figure in front of me you?"
17:39Was that shadow in death you?
17:41So you were following me?
17:44So you were being nosy?
17:47My siblings didn't yell, "So you were trying to expose me?"
17:53But what are we doing today?
17:54We're making a huge fuss because our wife accidentally checked our cell phone with the one she got.
18:03Yes, it might not be right for our spouse to snoop through our cell phones, but look, they even followed our Prophet Muhammad (peace and blessings be upon him).
18:12Our mother Aisha (may Allah be pleased with her) was curious and investigated, but what did the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) say?
18:18My brothers disciplined him, asking if it was you who cast the shadow in death.
18:21Allahu Akbar.
18:22But we usually scold our spouses relentlessly for going through our phones, right?
18:28What do we immediately do when someone commits a sin, engages in intimacy, and asks, "What kind of woman are you?"
18:34We're tearing Vahveylay apart, my brothers.
18:36If we did that, would our spouse suspect us?
18:40Come on in when you feel like you suspect which page we're on our phone, where we're looking.
18:47You don't need to look at my phone.
18:49Come, my wife, come, my lady, come, my sweetheart.
18:52If only we could show you our past, so that I could show you mine.
18:56Perhaps on that day, we will have acted as our Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said, "Was that you, Aisha, the shadow in front of me?" My brothers and sisters.
19:03Look, my brothers and sisters, our Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) says:
19:08To our mother Aisha (may Allah be pleased with her),
19:10Ayşe says, "I know you're angry with me too."
19:14"I know there are times when you are satisfied with me or that you love me," he says.
19:20When asked how he knew, our mother Aisha (peace and blessings be upon him) said:
19:24When you are angry with me, you swear by the Lord of Abraham,
19:30When you experience those moments when you love me so much, you swear by the Lord of Muhammad.
19:36Isn't that Allahu Akbar?
19:38Look what the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) is saying here?
19:41My brothers and sisters are describing a psychological analysis of a spouse.
19:44Do we also understand when our spouse is angry with us, for example?
19:48Does our spouse love us, does he/she love us, or what do they like?
19:52Or do we have a study with our colleagues on how he will react at that moment?
19:58Or are we behaving in a completely straightforward manner?
20:01For example, we might back down because we wonder if this woman wouldn't like it.
20:05Or there are times when we say, "If I do this, they'll be happy," for example, my siblings.
20:11And so we too have lived with our Prophet, peace and blessings be upon him, and his wife Aisha.
20:16We will reach the pinnacle of such a life.
20:19May Allah grant each of us the blessing and ability to be among those spouses who transcend the boundaries of life.
20:25And look, my brothers and sisters, our mother Aisha (may Allah be pleased with her) says:
20:29"O Messenger of Allah," he says, "I may get angry with you, but when I get angry with you..."
20:34"I may forget your name from my lips," he says, "but I will never forget your love from my heart."
20:39Allahu Akbar.
20:40But unfortunately, we are the ones who can't even manage to be a proper husband and wife right now.
20:44in our smallest mistakes, in our smallest problems
20:47more than just talking about our spouse
20:50We're trying to remove them even from the depths of our hearts, aren't we?
20:55May God forgive us.
20:58Our mother Aisha's (may Allah be pleased with her) love was also a balanced love like this.
21:02Even when he was angry, he loved his prophet; he certainly loved him when he was very happy.
21:06But when we get angry, what are we capable of doing to anything?
21:09We can put it in the background.
21:11And so on, like, "What good have I ever received from you?"
21:13We can be ungrateful and say this to our spouse.
21:17May Allah grant us, my brothers and sisters, the grace not to be among those believers who tell their spouses everything that enters their mouths.
21:24Look, my brothers and sisters.
21:25Our Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) once said:
21:27Ayşe's superiority over other women
21:30He said that the key dish is superior to the other dishes.
21:34Allahu Akbar.
21:36Isn't it very important?
21:37Our Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) honored his wife, my brothers and sisters.
21:40Unfortunately, in our society, there's a tendency to disrespect spouses.
21:44There's a kind of ingratitude in men, like not even saying "thank you" for a meal their wife has prepared.
21:51Our Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) honored him.
21:53We've gone beyond honoring you, Talat abi.
21:55We say that the superiority of our belly over other bellies is like the superiority of a chili pepper over other peppers, right?
22:02Subhanallah.
22:05So, what had he done?
22:07He also spoiled his wife from time to time.
22:10But what are we doing?
22:11So, we're saying we shouldn't spoil them by saying such nice things, right?
22:16We are worried that if we give them too much leeway, they will become spoiled and then demand more, and so on.
22:23We never fulfill these promises we make to our spouses by paying them compliments.
22:26Look, my brothers, one day Amr ibn al-As came and said to our Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him):
22:31"O Messenger of Allah," he said, "who is the person you love most in this world?"
22:35Ayşe said.
22:36So who said "Ya Rasulallah" next?
22:38Ayşe said it again.
22:39So, O Messenger of Allah, who said that next?
22:41Ayşe said it again.
22:41"O Messenger of Allah," he said, "I do not ask about women."
22:44When asked which of the men, his father said Abu Bakr.
22:47Allahu Akbar.
22:49His father said Abu Bakr.
22:50My brothers and sisters, upon hearing this compliment, what must our mother Aisha (may Allah be pleased with her) have thought about her husband?
22:57Is it related to our Prophet?
22:59So, wherever you've gone, Professor Ismail, you might say, "What I love most in this world is my wife."
23:05If you were to say something like, "I love my wife, I love my wife" three times, and she were to mention it somewhere...
23:11If he heard that Ismail had said such things about me, how would he feel about you?
23:17Or how can his/her love for you increase?
23:19So, my brothers and sisters, honestly, this matter of loving is so simple. You know how we say, "If you can't even buy a rose..."?
23:25We say "give her a rose," but women are happy with very simple things.
23:30Look, educators say that even if you buy your spouse a Porsche or a very luxurious villa, it's still a small matter.
23:37My siblings say that even if you give them just one rose, they feel the same level of happiness.
23:41Allahu Akbar.
23:43So no matter how big a gift you give a woman, or even just a tiny flower, she'll appreciate it.
23:49Happiness is the same.
23:51Allahu Akbar.
23:52Or is that a bit of an injustice?
23:55So-and-so is buying diamonds for his wife, but a poor person can't afford it.
23:59To make that poor man happy too, look how Allah Almighty created that woman in such a way...
24:03Even though that poor man can't afford a diamond ring, he'll get flowers in the mosque's garden when he passes by.
24:09Even if he had no money, he could have taken a bouquet from the mosque's garden or picked one.
24:14Even a single flower can make that poor man as happy as the woman whose husband bought her diamonds.
24:21His wife will be happy too, my brothers.
24:23Therefore, it's not that difficult to make them happy.
24:25Look, here's another subtle detail: what did the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) say, Mehmet abi, about men?
24:32He said, "I love my father the most," Allahu Akbar, but unfortunately, in our society, most
24:39After the person we love, meaning our spouse, the person we hate most in the world is not their father or mother.
24:44In this world we live in, our spouse's mother is our mother-in-law, or our spouse's father is our father-in-law.
24:51isn't it?
24:52We are competing, I mean, we are competing globally in this field.
24:56That's what the man says.
24:58They ask the man, "What if you, your wife, your mother-in-law, and Professor Necati fell into a sea or an ocean?"
25:04They're asking, "Who should we save?"
25:06"Honestly, I wouldn't save either of them, I'd save the fish," the guy says.
25:10Subhanallah.
25:12He says he'll save the fish.
25:14He says it won't save my wife or my mother-in-law.
25:17Isn't it so that I can save the fish that are going to die, which would be a shame?
25:21We're creating quite a vortex, my brothers.
25:24Look, my brothers, there is a scholar named Ibn Muayyum.
25:29There is a book called Hilyetül Evliya.
25:31He narrated this hadith, but our scholars have said that this hadith is weak.
25:35But what can we do, since we're setting a good example?
25:39Our scholars are weak.
25:40They said that hadiths can be narrated in order to be taken as examples.
25:42In his book, he says that one day, someone came to our mother Aisha (may Allah be pleased with her), peace and blessings be upon him.
25:49He said, "O Messenger of Allah, how much do you love me?"
25:52He said, "Oh Aisha, I love you very much."
25:55"So how much do you love the Messenger of Allah?" he asked.
25:58"I love Ayşe very much," he said.
25:59But how can you love him so much?
26:01You know, that little bit of feminine curiosity...
26:03Women are curious, always eager to learn new things.
26:05Or perhaps it's to make you repeat something over and over again?
26:10But how do you love the Messenger of Allah?
26:11Our Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said:
26:14"I love you like it's an unbreakable knot, Ayşe," he said.
26:17Like a Gordian knot.
26:19Of course, our mother Aisha (may Allah be pleased with her) was happy about this.
26:22Some time has passed.
26:24After some time had passed, our mother Aisha (may Allah be pleased with her) said to her:
26:29"O Messenger of Allah, how is the knot doing?" he asked.
26:32The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said:
26:34Oh Aisha, just like the first day, just like the first day.
26:38Allahu Akbar.
26:39Do you know how such affection, such love, arises, my brothers and sisters?
26:45The excitement you feel when you go to a marriage interview with your spouse
26:48If it's still continuing even after 30 years
26:52You too, our Prophet Muhammad (peace and blessings be upon him)
26:55You are bound to your wife as tightly as you love your Ayşe.
26:59But on the way home, not to home
27:03Go as if you were going to a hotel
27:05actually even if you go to the hotel
27:08If you want to stay, you will go to a hotel even if it's free.
27:10If a situation arises where you won't be going home
27:13So what I'm trying to say is...
27:14If you treat your home like a hotel and only go home to sleep
27:19then your spouse
27:20You don't love each other like it's an unbreakable knot, my brothers and sisters.
27:22I mean, if the hotel were free, the guy would go to the hotel.
27:25The man has to go home.
27:27But it's not just any kind of homecoming.
27:29With the same excitement as the first day
27:30when our feet don't want to go backwards, like going home
27:33I will be leaving shortly, my sultan.
27:36I'll ring the doorbell
27:37He will open the door and take my hands
27:40then he will get my coat
27:41He will take my jacket
27:42will hang it up
27:43then he will hug me
27:45with these dreams
27:46If we are going home with these hopes
27:48Here we are too
27:49that tangled knot
27:51love, affection
27:52We become believers who have grasped the truth, my brothers.
27:55But on the way home
27:56I'll see this idiot's face again when I go there.
27:58if we are going
27:59I'll have to deal with this pig again when I go there.
28:02if we are going home
28:03my brothers and sisters that love, that affection
28:05even in front of our house door
28:08It hasn't passed.
28:09May God grant us such marriages.
28:11such conversations with our spouse
28:14so that they may join us
28:15Let's pray, God willing.
28:18Brothers and sisters, listen, there's a very subtle detail here.
28:21Sometimes we have this affection, this love
28:23We can't catch them.
28:24Because why?
28:25We find a lot of flaws, folks.
28:27So now
28:27The poor woman had been cooking all day.
28:30He tried, he made soup, he tried
28:32then lots of birds like that
28:34He set a table that was missing milk.
28:35Professor Musa.
28:37The man comes and says:
28:38"What happened, sir?" he asks.
28:42He asks what happened.
28:44So what happened? he asks.
28:46or this says
28:47The soup was a bit low on salt.
28:49Drink the root of the damn thing!
28:50So much food has been prepared
28:53Brother Serdar...
28:54even though that soup was low in salt
28:55Even if it's poison, what do you do that day?
28:57It is drunk.
28:58But please don't drink it.
29:00But even if it's poison...
29:01It's meant to be drunk, right?
29:02He put in so much effort.
29:04Drink the root of the damn thing.
29:05Look, so much food has been prepared.
29:07It also allows one to find fault in that.
29:08Even if it's poison.
29:09It turned out very well.
29:10Say something like "my life" or something.
29:11Isn't it?
29:13You'll do better.
29:14Say "my love" or something like that.
29:16But what about us?
29:17That's what he does.
29:18And where is this one?
29:19What kind of moral code?
29:20What does this even mean?
29:23Subhanallah.
29:24Look at this disrespect!
29:25My siblings?
29:26They've recently gotten married.
29:27Maybe she doesn't know how to iron.
29:29Your spouse?
29:30So your pants
29:31woke up in the morning
29:32My wife will go to work.
29:33so he doesn't wear unironed trousers
29:35in a desperate way
29:37She's trying to iron.
29:39Or two lines
29:40It just happened.
29:45That's what he does.
29:47Brother Mehmet is doing it.
29:49What happened?
29:51Why does it have two lines?
29:53Either she won't wear it, or it's difficult.
29:54Not two lines that day
29:56If he brought it to you in a sack
29:57and put on that sack
29:59You need to go to work.
30:00He got up this morning.
30:01She tried to iron it nicely.
30:03We're not looking at his confession, folks.
30:05Isn't it?
30:06And after that
30:07Why these marriages?
30:08Does it crackle like that?
30:08Why?
30:09Because we
30:09We have become a community that finds peace.
30:11A fault-finding community
30:12That's what we've become, my brothers.
30:14You ask the man
30:15related to his wife
30:15You're asking me to name five good qualities.
30:17Man
30:18The tulip is turning.
30:19He's turning into a stutterer.
30:19But you say that
30:20List the negative qualities.
30:22Man
30:22like a comb
30:23He starts counting.
30:24Subhanallah.
30:26Therefore, for this reason...
30:27What doesn't God do?
30:28It doesn't even create any connections between us.
30:29Look, my brothers and sisters.
30:30Peace and blessings be upon him
30:31To the house of our Prophet
30:32In Medina
30:33The meat hasn't arrived ten times.
30:35The meat arrived nine times.
30:36And peace and blessings be upon him
30:37Our Prophet ate these meats
30:38To the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him)
30:40when they brought
30:41Tell our mother Ayşe to cook
30:42He ordered it.
30:43So his
30:43In Medina life
30:44at home
30:45Meat arrived nine times.
30:46My siblings.
30:46That's what the historian says.
30:48Every meat
30:49Aisha (may Allah be pleased with her)
30:51when our mother cooked
30:52It warms up on its own first.
30:54then from where he bit
30:55It would warm Ayşe up.
30:56Isn't it?
30:57Or perhaps first
30:58It warms Ayşe up.
30:59then he bites there himself
31:00He would then say:
31:01Our mother Ayşe
31:02O Messenger of Allah
31:03why are you doing this?
31:04when he said
31:05Peace and blessings be upon him
31:07He said
31:07my gentlemen
31:09I am a Nazi prophet.
31:11Ayşem said
31:12your skin to my skin
31:12I want him to interfere.
31:13he said.
31:14Allahu Akbar.
31:15But we
31:16We brought it to such a state that
31:17or this prophet
31:18your skin to my skin
31:19I want it to touch me
31:20even though he said
31:21we are his followers
31:22as believers
31:23or with our wife
31:24to a market over there
31:25We are coming
31:25To Kayalı Park
31:26Oh Muslims
31:28don't put your arm around me
31:28to the woman
31:29two meters
31:30walk behind me
31:31we say
31:31My brothers, you know.
31:32Or the prophet says
31:33look at your skin
31:34I want it to touch my skin.
31:35Or the belly
31:36let him take her arm
31:37Like this.
31:38Oh Muslims
31:38will see
31:39or Muslims
31:40What would she say to you if she saw you?
31:41Don't hold my hand.
31:43Why shouldn't I hold on?
31:43From my wife's hand?
31:45From my wife's hand too
31:46my amount
31:46From Kayalı Park as well
31:48From Aladdin too
31:49on foot
31:49I'll go.
31:50What's wrong with that?
31:50That's what they said, brother.
31:54Subhanallah.
31:54But unfortunately, that's not the case in our country.
31:55My siblings are like this
31:56There are insurmountable obstacles, aren't there?
31:58Woman
31:58early
31:59It won't fit your arm.
32:00That's a woman's job.
32:01Early birds don't hold your hand.
32:02Where will he grab it from?
32:03He will hold Erken's hand
32:03Of course, woman.
32:04Of course, she'll take his arm.
32:07Are we newly married?
32:08Newlyweds?
32:09He's entering, that is.
32:09with your arm?
32:10Isn't it?
32:11Newlyweds?
32:12Are they holding onto each other?
32:13Professor Aydın.
32:14Subhanallah.
32:15Like the first day
32:16We're going to experience love, aren't we?
32:16together with him.
32:18We will hold his hand too.
32:19We'll wear them on our arms too.
32:20Isn't it?
32:20So, this is how we'll go for a walk.
32:22Then we will say:
32:23Here is the scholar
32:24infidels
32:25worthy
32:25Kemalists
32:26a Muslim
32:27so the family can see
32:28we will say.
32:29My brothers and sisters
32:29Let's be an example to them too.
32:31Allahu Akbar.
32:32At work
32:32sallallahu alayhi wa sallam
32:34That's what he said.
32:35Listen, my brothers and sisters.
32:36peace and blessings be upon him
32:36our lord
32:37as we know
32:40at the moment of death
32:41He has suffered a lot.
32:42Well
32:43Our mother Ayşe says:
32:44no human
32:45as much as him
32:46in the throes of death
32:46He hadn't felt any pain.
32:48I him
32:48like this head
32:50I laid her on my lap.
32:50I said
32:51O Messenger of Allah
32:51I see that
32:53You are suffering a lot.
32:54I said.
32:55Then his eyes
32:56lifted to me
32:56He said
32:57Ayşem said
32:57Ayşem
32:59I am with you
32:59in heaven
33:00I'll be with you
33:01I said.
33:02To me
33:02in this world
33:03pains
33:04none of them are sorrowful
33:05It is not a lament
33:06my brothers said.
33:07Allahu Akbar.
33:08Well
33:09only with his wife
33:10together
33:10in this world
33:11being together
33:12rather
33:13in paradise too
33:14being together
33:15dreamer
33:16thinking
33:17this
33:17living hope
33:18a prophet
33:19We are one community.
33:20But today
33:20only to his wife
33:21in this world
33:22dishwasher
33:23looking with the eyes
33:24a man
33:25this dream
33:26Can it be established?
33:27To his wife only
33:28children
33:28caregiver
33:30did
33:30to your children
33:32motherhood
33:33He had it done
33:34or
33:34to the woman
33:35as a caregiver
33:36a minister a man
33:36this dream
33:37Can it be established?
33:37my brothers
33:38at home his wife
33:40God's
33:41with his trust
33:41the prophet
33:42by his word
33:43received
33:44his wife
33:44at home
33:45laundress
33:46aspect
33:46servant
33:47aspect
33:47a seeing
33:47Male
33:48heaven
33:50imaginary
33:50Can it be established?
33:51Cannot establish
33:51My siblings.
33:53At work
33:53sallallahu
33:53peace and blessings be upon him
33:54our lord
33:55With Ayşe
33:55from the relationship
33:56take one
33:57Here are some more examples.
33:58My brothers
33:59Look
33:59one day
34:00They are coming
34:02They say
34:02To our mother Ayşe
34:03Yusuf
34:03from the Prophet (peace be upon him)
34:04I'm talking about it.
34:04Yusuf said:
34:05It was beautiful
34:05Yusuf like this
34:06when you say beautiful
34:06Aisha radiyallahu
34:08Our mother Anha
34:09just like
34:09from his wife
34:10He was convinced that
34:11prophet
34:12our lord
34:12What kind of
34:13He acted like a husband
34:14He said
34:15To Yusuf
34:16looking
34:16your finger
34:17women who cut
34:18once
34:19Mine
34:19to my prophet
34:21to my wife
34:21Let them see
34:22hearts
34:24be chopped
34:25my brothers said
34:25Allahu Akbar
34:26that much
34:27He loved her very much.
34:28Another day
34:28They have arrived
34:29They said:
34:30from the Tabi'in
34:30that is, the prophet
34:32not seeing
34:32Those who saw the Companions
34:33Oh Aisha
34:34our mother
34:35The Messenger of Allah
34:35moral
34:36How was it?
34:36how
34:38we knew
34:38you knew
34:39Can you explain?
34:40when they asked
34:41What does he say?
34:41you ever
34:42Koran
34:43Don't you read?
34:44says
34:44his morals
34:45The Quran
34:46moral
34:47it was like
34:47Ayşe
34:49radiyallahu anha
34:50our mother
34:51with his wife
34:51relevant
34:51like this
34:52commented
34:53Alright
34:53my brothers
34:54today our
34:55to our spouses
34:55if they ask
34:56your husband
34:57moral
34:58what kind of
34:58morality
34:59if they ask
34:59I wonder what
35:00will say
35:00morning prayers
35:02unable to defecate
35:02what he did at night
35:04unknown
35:05once
35:06in your life
35:06Tahajjud
35:07what he did
35:07I haven't seen
35:08once
35:08Musaf
35:09opened
35:09I haven't seen
35:10once
35:11God's
35:11religious
35:11that you are worried
35:13I haven't seen
35:14I was a man
35:14Does that describe it?
35:16or?
35:16my husband
35:17both of himself
35:19and in the morning
35:19in their prayers
35:20Mine
35:20morning prayer
35:21My Fatih
35:22Is that why?
35:22It describes us
35:23my brothers
35:24Allahu Akbar
35:25that is, our spouses
35:26on us
35:27testimony
35:28very important
35:29at work
35:29Ayşe
35:30radiyallahu
35:30anha
35:31our mother's
35:31peace be upon him
35:32And greetings
35:32our lord
35:33on it
35:33testimony
35:34That's how it was
35:35Allah
35:35to all of us
35:36our spouses
35:37such testimony
35:38what he/she has done
35:38to be husbands
35:39fate and
35:40May it be effective
35:41my brothers
35:42Look, one day
35:42as I said
35:44in their homes
35:44shouts
35:45They called
35:45was coming
35:46one day
35:46Abu Bakr
35:47radiyallahu
35:47anha
35:48our lord
35:48Ayşe
35:49radiyallahu
35:49anha
35:50from his house
35:50in passing
35:51crying sounds
35:52has arrived
35:53crying sounds
35:54has arrived
35:55think
35:56a father-in-law
35:57daughter's
35:57in front of his house
35:58in passing
35:59crying sound
36:00if it comes
36:00What do you think?
36:00our groom
36:02our daughter
36:03or upset
36:04or beat
36:05Isn't that right?
36:05But
36:06Abu Bakr
36:07radiyallahu
36:08anha
36:08our lord
36:08inside
36:09angrily
36:10entered
36:10He said
36:11What did you do?
36:12Ayşe
36:12said
36:13my prophet
36:14You upset me
36:14said
36:15my brothers
36:16later
36:17removed
36:18arm
36:18a total slap in the face
36:19about to shoot
36:19Ayşe
36:19to our mother
36:20sallallahu
36:21peace and blessings be upon him
36:22He said
36:23Abu Bakr
36:23Leave Ayşe alone?
36:24said
36:25Leave Ayşe alone?
36:26said
36:26But we today
36:27with the groom
36:28as candidates
36:28or
36:29as grooms
36:30grumpy
36:31our profits
36:31coming
36:32their fathers
36:33Honestly, our eyes
36:34in front
36:34maybe brushing
36:35maybe
36:36tattoo
36:37How much
36:37we desire
36:37isn't it?
36:38Allahu Akbar
36:39later
36:41Abu Bakr
36:41sent
36:42then a joke
36:43did
36:43To Ayşe
36:44He said
36:44Ayşe?
36:44said
36:45have you seen?
36:46said
36:46you said
36:47He's angry
36:48How with the man
36:48I saved
36:49said
36:49you that angry
36:50How with the man
36:51I saved
36:51said
36:51Allahu Akbar
36:53Subhanallah
36:54God for us all
36:55such a conversation
36:56May God grant you affection.
36:57my brothers
36:58or
36:59think
36:59my brothers
37:00in such a situation
37:01a father-in-law
37:02if he/she heard
37:03that his daughter was crying
37:04income
37:04well
37:05the brush to his daughter
37:06from pressing
37:07rather
37:08what to your daughter
37:09shows the way
37:09the one who made you cry
37:11since your husband
37:12because
37:13Why still?
37:13Kadese
37:14become a member
37:15or
37:15that application
37:16From the Google Store
37:17download
37:18Why press it?
37:19police
37:20in front of the door
37:21You didn't pile it up
37:21saying
37:21houses
37:23stoves
37:23will extinguish
37:24Unfortunately
37:25like this
37:26inconsistent
37:27works
37:27They do
37:27isn't it?
37:28therefore
37:29my brothers
37:30peace be upon him
37:31and peace be upon you
37:31our lord
37:32every moment
37:33Abu Bakr
37:33radiyallahu anh
37:34our lord
37:35every moment
37:35to us
37:36an example
37:37a lesson to be learned
37:38tables
37:38God takes us as an example
37:39to learn a lesson
37:40fate and
37:41May it be effective
37:42Look, my brothers...
37:43one day
37:45peace be upon him
37:45and peace be upon you
37:46our lord
37:46He says
37:46Ayşem says
37:47I say
37:48you say
37:49If you die before me
37:50later
37:51And I, you
37:52if I shroud him
37:53then you
37:54If I put it in the ground
37:54Wouldn't you like that?
37:55when he said
37:55Our mother Ayşe
37:57He said
37:57I don't want that.
37:59The Messenger of Allah
37:59said
38:00Why?
38:01asked
38:01because he said
38:02wrap me in a shroud
38:03after burying it in the ground
38:04You will get married immediately
38:05isn't it?
38:05said
38:05on me
38:07You will smell the rose
38:08isn't it?
38:08said
38:08Allahu Akbar
38:09my brothers
38:10the nature of women
38:11Isn't this it?
38:12jealousy
38:12given to them
38:13from the most beautiful natures
38:14one of them
38:15but adjusted
38:16when
38:16Beautiful
38:17Was it out of adjustment?
38:18not beautiful
38:19isn't it?
38:20He said me
38:22wrapped in a shroud
38:23he placed it in the ground
38:23you will get married
38:24he said immediately
38:24isn't it?
38:25In that case
38:25my brothers
38:26well
38:26think
38:27peace and blessings be upon him
38:29when you say that
38:29smiled
38:31But what about us?
38:33we are doing
38:33without stopping
38:34woman's
38:35such jealousy
38:36that it is in nature
38:37even though we know
38:37longitudinally
38:38to his head
38:38knob
38:39as if hitting
38:39Don't annoy me
38:41I'm going crazy
38:42If you make me tell you
38:42from what you will do
38:43No, I mean...
38:44I'll take the second one.
38:45we say
38:45isn't it?
38:46from the debt
38:46It's not like that at all.
38:47from what you will do
38:49and so on
38:50not
38:50We'll take the second one.
38:52so to a woman
38:52my brothers
38:53second purchase
38:54Is this a joke?
38:55I'll do it for you
38:55or yours
38:56Should I beat him up?
38:57if you say
38:57Honestly, woman
38:58He says
38:59Beat me though
38:59second purchase
39:00Don't joke
39:00Isn't that right?
39:01But what about us?
39:02we are doing
39:02this mouth of ours
39:03like that
39:04like a rosehip
39:04it opens
39:05longitudinally
39:05repeat this
39:06we are standing
39:06when you do
39:07No way
39:07already going to do it
39:09He wouldn't say that
39:10My teacher Abu Bakr
39:10He goes and buys a second one.
39:11already
39:11those who will not
39:13He's already saying that.
39:14but from the other side
39:15What are you doing
39:16You're upsetting me.
39:16Subhanallah
39:18Here is Aisha (may Allah be pleased with her)
39:20our mother gave us
39:2114 centuries ago
39:22maybe this too
39:23recommends
39:23you are mine
39:24you are my children
39:25Allah
39:26She made me your mother
39:27me too
39:28as your mother
39:29My advice to you
39:29I'm saying
39:30to your spouses
39:31into their heads
39:33like striking with a mallet
39:34second purchase
39:34joke
39:35stop doing it
39:36saying
39:36I have some advice for you
39:37I am here
39:38saying
39:38Look at us
39:39give advice
39:40my brothers
39:40God received this advice.
39:42to be among the believers
39:43May God grant it and make it effective.
39:44Let us pray
39:45Look, my brothers...
39:47then one day
39:47Hazrat Safiye
39:48Our mother, may Allah be pleased with her
39:50peace and blessings be upon him
39:51He brought food with our master
39:52Our mother Ayşe
39:53Professor Aydın
39:54later
39:55peace and blessings be upon him
39:56a little with our master
39:57He was stirring up trouble.
39:58sweetly
39:59He said
40:00Ayşe said
40:00"Did you see?" he said.
40:02Safiye said
40:02He told us
40:03What delicious food they sent!
40:04said
40:04peace and blessings be upon him
40:06when you say that
40:06Our mother Aisha (may Allah be pleased with her)
40:08Is this you telling me?
40:09saying
40:09he took the tray
40:11reversed
40:11spilled it on the food
40:12my brothers
40:13Allahu Akbar
40:14Allahu Akbar
40:16He took the wrong picture of the food.
40:17turn it upside down
40:17spilled
40:18or my brothers today
40:20If our mother sent us a meal
40:21And if he/she were to say to our spouse:
40:23Today my mother
40:24What a delicious meal he sent!
40:25if
40:26then take
40:27If only he would turn it upside down
40:28reason for divorce
40:29This would be grounds for divorce.
40:31you are my mother's
40:33the food he sent
40:34how to flip it over
40:34you beat
40:35isn't it?
40:36or my sister
40:37He sent me a meal today.
40:38What a delicious meal!
40:39if we say
40:40turn it upside down
40:41spill
40:42grounds for divorce
40:43my brothers
40:43Allahu Akbar
40:45but peace and blessings be upon him
40:46Our master smiled.
40:47Ayşe said it didn't work out.
40:48He said it didn't happen.
40:50What about the Messenger of Allah?
40:51What am I going to do?
40:52He said that he had done it.
40:53You'll pay for it with your diet, he said.
40:54Okay, O Messenger of Allah.
40:56Tell me what to do.
40:56you will go
40:57plate to plate
40:58He called the food a meal.
41:00but he said
41:00I cook
41:01when you say I don't know
41:02Then you will go to Safiye
41:04You will apologize
41:05from him
41:06cooking together
41:08learning
41:08together
41:09with him
41:09making the same dish
41:10you will bring it back
41:11Ayşem said
41:12Allahu Akbar
41:13He's gone too.
41:13"Okay, O Messenger of Allah," he said.
41:15Just look at this accompaniment.
41:17my brothers
41:18when you make a mistake
41:20His wife
41:20You made this mistake
41:21You need to apologize.
41:23You did a job
41:24when he said
41:24a spouse who says okay
41:25there is us
41:26but ours today
41:28Our desires are so
41:28puffy
41:29from pride
41:30because of pride
41:31Unfortunately
41:32to our spouse
41:33You made a mistake here.
41:34when we say
41:35Unfortunately
41:36We do not accept it.
41:37isn't it?
41:37And then why?
41:38there is no affection
41:39There is no affection.
41:40Because
41:41not to hurt each other
41:42for
41:42We're not making an effort.
41:44each other's hearts
41:45to do
41:46We're not making an effort.
41:47I always want things my way.
41:49I always want to be right
41:50There's no such thing.
41:51Allahu Akbar
41:52Here is our mother Ayşe.
41:54here
41:55it teaches this
41:56not to make delicious
41:58teaching
41:58my brothers
41:59Look at my beautiful one
42:00my brothers
42:00It was the sixth of the Hijri year.
42:01And
42:02peace and blessings be upon him
42:03our lord
42:04perhaps in your life
42:05from the most difficult events
42:06one happened
42:07sallallahu alayhi wa sallam
42:09our lord
42:10I am independent
42:10He went out on a battle
42:11and my brothers
42:12so that
42:13the army in one place
42:15accommodated
42:16but the army
42:17at the place where he stayed
42:19no water
42:19no water
42:20And
42:21where there is no water
42:23peace and blessings be upon him
42:24our lord
42:25He gave instructions to the army.
42:26Nobody from here
42:27will not move
42:28Aisha (may Allah be pleased with her)
42:29to our mother too
42:30mother
42:31Umm Ruman
42:31she gave a necklace as a gift
42:32as a wedding gift
42:33that necklace
42:34The clip is broken.
42:35and beads
42:37scattered
42:37Aisha (may Allah be pleased with her)
42:38our mother too
42:39those beads
42:39started searching
42:40and then
42:41peace and blessings be upon him
42:43our lord
42:43Ayşe's
42:44beads
42:45when he saw what he was looking for
42:46a little
42:47caravan
42:47put on hold
42:48started
42:48from there
42:49hypocrites
42:49started
42:50to speak
42:50Mohammed
42:51his wife
42:52for pleasure
42:53the whole caravan
42:53is keeping me waiting
42:54saying
42:54Allahu Akbar
42:55Mohammed
42:56his wife
42:57for pleasure
42:58all
42:59the army
42:59is keeping me waiting
43:00saying
43:00my brothers
43:01Abu Bakr
43:01our lord
43:02has arrived
43:02Ayşe said
43:03my daughter
43:03the whole caravan
43:04said
43:04because of you
43:05waiting
43:05as soon as possible
43:06those beads
43:07find
43:08Let the caravan move on.
43:09said
43:09my brothers
43:10Look
43:10Allah Almighty
43:12That's fate.
43:13appreciated
43:14Allah Almighty
43:16That's fate.
43:16from your appreciation
43:17because of that day
43:18believers
43:19because they couldn't find water
43:21because
43:22They couldn't perform ablution.
43:23And our Lord
43:24Surah An-Nisa
43:2643.
43:26verse
43:27sent
43:28sheer
43:28Ayşe
43:29her necklace
43:29because he lost
43:30because
43:31Muslims
43:32with tayammum
43:33performing ablution
43:34so that he/she can learn
43:35this event
43:36over
43:36Allah
43:36Surah An-Nisa
43:3843.
43:38verse
43:39send
43:39if water
43:40If you can't find it
43:41In that case
43:42What to do?
43:42your hands
43:43and your faces
43:44with the soil
43:44Perform tayammum (dry ablution)
43:45that
43:45verses
43:46sent
43:46my brothers
43:47Allahu Akbar
43:48well
43:48his
43:49lost
43:50One
43:50bead
43:51or
43:52even her necklace
43:52to a verse
43:54to be revealed
43:55caused
43:56my brothers
43:57Allahu Akbar
43:57and the believers
43:59that day
44:00Tayammum ablution
44:00by taking
44:01morning prayer
44:02they have done
44:03my brothers
44:04so that
44:04the army advanced
44:06then the army
44:06somewhere else again
44:07when it stops
44:08peace and blessings be upon him
44:10the wife of our master
44:11Aisha (may Allah be pleased with her)
44:12Our mother again
44:12because the clip is broken
44:14because
44:14beads scattered
44:15and my brothers
44:16so that
44:17again
44:18searching for her necklace
44:19started
44:19And this time
44:20her necklace
44:21couldn't find
44:21And
44:22caravan a little bit
44:23started to progress
44:24later
44:25Aisha (may Allah be pleased with her)
44:26our mother
44:27as the caravan was leaving
44:28beads again
44:29when you start searching
44:30He missed the caravan
44:31And
44:32found the beads
44:33But
44:34She found the necklace.
44:35but there
44:36fell asleep
44:37and caravan
44:37walk away
44:38gone
44:38peace and blessings be upon him
44:40our lord
44:40behind the caravan
44:42Safwan ibn Muattal
44:43saying
44:43a companion
44:44placed
44:45and those left behind
44:46He ordered them to collect it.
44:46Safvan is gone
44:48He saw that
44:49Aisha (may Allah be pleased with her)
44:50Our mother is there
44:51And
44:52Inna lillahi
44:53And indeed, to Him we shall return.
44:54raciun
44:54said
44:54Aisha (may Allah be pleased with her)
44:56our mother immediately
44:57Devlin
44:57hevdecine
44:58mounted
44:59And
44:59to catch up with the caravan
45:00worked
45:01but he
45:02to the caravan
45:03while raising
45:04of course, hypocrites
45:05He hasn't been idle
45:06And they said:
45:07my brothers
45:07Ayşe
45:08Safwan ibn Muaddalla
45:10committed adultery
45:11my brothers said
45:12Allahu Akbar
45:12and this news
45:14all of Medina
45:15spread among the enlightened
45:16But our mother Ayşe
45:17For 30 days
45:19because he/she is sick
45:19He hasn't heard this news either.
45:20and then
45:22this news
45:23When Ayşe came to our mother
45:24He was so upset.
45:25He was so upset.
45:27Our mother Ayşe says:
45:28He says it's because of my sadness.
45:29Prophet Yusuf
45:30his father
45:31I swear to God!
45:32Jacob's name
45:33I forgot, he says.
45:33And
45:34It says in the Surah Yusuf:
45:36he
45:36Jacob says
45:37I was going to say the prayer.
45:39says
45:39because I forgot his name
45:41I said
45:41Yusuf's father
45:43the prayer he had said
45:44I am doing it today
45:46my part
45:46It requires great patience.
45:48I said and
45:49I started to be patient.
45:50says
45:50and my brothers
45:51This event took place in Medina.
45:52started
45:53to shake
45:54but my brothers
45:55Look, scholars
45:56They say
45:57in this incident
45:58People were divided into three groups.
45:591-
46:00acting ignorantly
46:01Muslims
46:022-
46:03remaining silent
46:04Muslims
46:043-
46:05behaving maturely
46:06Muslims
46:06Allahu Akbar
46:07My brothers
46:10these 3 Muslims
46:11Keep the prototype safe.
46:14in your mind
46:14acting ignorantly
46:16remaining silent
46:17And also
46:18behaving maturely
46:19Muslims
46:20Look
46:20Allah
46:21Glory be to Him, the Light
46:22Surah
46:23verses 11-27
46:24sent
46:25And the verses are as follows:
46:26that day
46:27that slanderous news
46:28when
46:29believing man
46:30and believers
46:30women
46:31This is obvious
46:32a slander
46:33their saying
46:33Wasn't it necessary?
46:34my brothers said
46:35Allahu Akbar
46:36They said this verse
46:38scholars
46:39acting ignorantly
46:41Muslims
46:42And
46:42remaining silent
46:43With Muslims
46:44relevant
46:44They said it landed.
46:45my brothers
46:46acting ignorantly
46:47who
46:47for example
46:48Hasan bin Sabit
46:49radiyallahu anh
46:51our lord
46:51this news
46:53spread
46:53Alright
46:54this man
46:54this news
46:55Why is he spreading it?
46:55well
46:57a man
46:57180 degrees
46:58suddenly
46:58Why does it turn?
46:59my brothers
47:00Look
47:00They say
47:01our historians
47:01Because
47:02Hasan bin Sabit's
47:03Safwan bin
47:04With Muaddal
47:04in the past
47:05He had a feud.
47:06this hostility
47:08What did the devil do?
47:09He brought it that day
47:09revealed
47:10know that
47:11So everything
47:13rose garden
47:13gustanlik
47:14as you go
47:15so-called trust
47:17you loved very much
47:18related to you
47:19never an evil
47:19he will not
47:20you thought
47:21a man
47:21suddenly
47:22if
47:22if it is returning
47:23180 degrees
47:25if it changes movement
47:26Know this, my brothers.
47:28in the past to you
47:29a hostility
47:29was feeding
47:30and that hostility
47:31The devil came
47:33that day
47:33revealed
47:34my brothers
47:35Allahu Akbar
47:36For example, again
47:37acting ignorantly
47:38Muslim man
47:38one of them
47:39They said:
47:40my brothers
47:41Zeynep bint Jahsh
47:42our mother's
47:43sister
47:44Hawla bint Jahsh
47:46He said
47:47Prophet
47:49sallallahu alayhi wa sallam
47:50Ayşe
47:51Ayşe
47:52From my sister Zeynep
47:53He loves it more
47:54Regarding Ayşe
47:55such slander
47:56if I adjust
47:56to him
47:57love diminishes
47:58He likes Zeynep more.
47:59He loves his older sister more.
48:00saying
48:00Look at this slander.
48:02to this gossip
48:03What did he do?
48:04he listened
48:04my brothers
48:05Allahu Akbar
48:06you know, we're here
48:07Our esteemed companions
48:08to insult
48:08We don't explain this.
48:09Allah Almighty
48:11What Adam did
48:12while describing life
48:13our father Adam
48:14It does not insult
48:15While talking about Yunus
48:16It does not insult
48:17Moses (peace be upon him)
48:18that he killed the man
48:19while explaining
48:19to insult
48:20He doesn't explain
48:20Let's just learn a lesson.
48:21he explains
48:22we too
48:23to insult
48:24We are not explaining
48:24Let's learn a lesson.
48:26that's how we explain it
48:26and my brothers
48:29Look at these
48:29They said:
48:30act ignorantly
48:31And then there are those who remain silent.
48:32the verse was revealed
48:33second group
48:34those who remain silent
48:35What are they doing?
48:36an incident happened
48:36Look, something happened.
48:38my brothers
48:39related to that event
48:41be silent
48:42Our scholars have said so.
48:43This is possible
48:44So Ayşe did this job
48:45He might have done it.
48:46He may not have done it.
48:47God says no.
48:48He might have done it.
48:50You can't say that, he says.
48:51unless there is evidence
48:53unless there is a witness
48:54You will say:
48:55He hasn't done it
48:56related to a Muslim
48:58when news arrives
48:59He has never done that.
49:01you need to say
49:02that gives us manners
49:02It creates the rule.
49:03my brothers
49:04isn't it?
49:05Allahu Akbar
49:06thence
49:07my brothers
49:07also remaining silent
49:09Look
49:09the verse you
49:11This causes him to warn
49:12therefore
49:12when an event occurs
49:14we bear fair witness
49:15if we don't
49:16if we remain silent
49:18Here is God
49:18Glory be to Him
49:19this too
49:19that it is not true
49:20says
49:21and my brothers
49:22in the third section
49:23Who was it?
49:24behaving maturely
49:25Muslims
49:25Who were they?
49:26my beautiful brothers
49:27They were Omar
49:28They were men like that
49:29Peace and blessings be upon him
49:30They slandered his wife.
49:31He came to Ömer
49:33He said
49:33Omer, what am I going to do?
49:34He said, "O Messenger of Allah!"
49:35as he said
49:35one day you will pray for us
49:36You were leading the prayers, weren't you?
49:37you said
49:38he said something like this
49:38from his foot, he said
49:39citrus fruits
49:40your shoes
49:41We saw him take it out
49:42We are behind you too.
49:43as a community
49:44what you did
49:45to do
49:46We took it out too.
49:46said
49:47Yes, Ömer said.
49:48you know, that day
49:49You told us, didn't you?
49:50I'm on my feet
49:51citrus fruits
49:52I took it out
49:52Why did you remove it?
49:53when he said
49:54We told you that
49:55because you did it
49:56we did
49:56You also told us that
49:57But Gabriel came
49:59my shoes
50:00under
50:01that it is impure
50:02said
50:03I took it out of him
50:03you said
50:04Yes, Ömer said.
50:06He said, "O Messenger of Allah..."
50:07Allah
50:08your shoes
50:10citrus fruits
50:10under
50:11even filth
50:12if it cleans
50:13even the filth
50:14if it cleans
50:15thrown into your house
50:16this filth
50:17Doesn't it clean?
50:18He said, "O Messenger of Allah..."
50:19Allahu Akbar
50:20That's what friendship is all about.
50:21My brothers
50:22in a difficult time
50:23standing next to you
50:25in a difficult time
50:26and from behind
50:27He's not the one who stabbed him
50:29in a difficult time
50:30like your upright posture
50:31will stand next to
50:32like a strong fortress
50:34They are the men
50:35your friend
50:36at the slightest trouble
50:37stab you in the back
50:39the man who went to his jacket
50:41There's a man without character.
50:42Can they be friends?
50:43my brothers
50:44I can't be
50:46my brothers
50:46for him
50:47our friends
50:48Unfortunately
50:48while determining
50:49we are defining it incorrectly
50:50first me
50:51to myself too
50:52I'm saying
50:52if friend
50:54if we are looking
50:54in our most difficult moment
50:55what they did
50:57Look at their attitudes.
50:58my brothers
50:59in your difficult time
51:00you
51:01leave
51:01if they are leaving
51:02Is she your wife?
51:03He already did
51:04like that
51:04if someone says
51:05He is your friend
51:06No way, my brothers.
51:07No
51:08friend
51:09Acting like Omar
51:10man
51:10with one kick
51:12I'll stop by.
51:13not anyway
51:14You've fallen
51:14Let me hold your hand
51:16Let me lift my brother
51:17means
51:18my brothers
51:19committing treason
51:20is not
51:20my brothers
51:21Allahu Akbar
51:22That's the kind of person Omar is.
51:23friend
51:24My brothers, God
51:25behaving maturely towards us
51:26From Muslims
51:27May God grant us the opportunity to become like that.
51:28Look, my brothers
51:29Here
51:29There is another very important point.
51:31Prophet
51:31peace and blessings be upon him
51:33our lord
51:33to your wife
51:35slander
51:35those who throw
51:36forgiven
51:37my brothers
51:37He forgave her.
51:38forgiven
51:40but the man
51:41wife
51:41such rumors
51:43He is doing that
51:43such gossip
51:44He is doing that
51:44to the man
51:44you mean
51:45Look, teacher...
51:45tell your wife
51:46these rumors
51:48these gossips
51:48don't do it
51:49you say
51:49man's
51:50his wife
51:51chastity
51:52or
51:52honor
51:53honor
51:53I swear!
51:54I swear by God
51:54as if from Ayşe
51:55as if it were bigger
51:56What can the man do?
51:58He/She can act distant towards you
51:59my brothers
52:00Allahu Akbar
52:00Oh Ayşe
52:02that he is innocent
52:03in
52:03slander
52:04They threw
52:05therefore
52:06peace and blessings be upon him
52:08our lord
52:09slander
52:09those who throw
52:10forgave
52:10But you
52:11your wife
52:12as if God
52:13from the sky
52:13with a basket
52:14as if sent
52:14man's
52:15with his wife
52:16relevant
52:16Something
52:16don't say
52:17Ha
52:17if you tell
52:18evolution
52:18passes
52:19if you speak
52:20life
52:21from his notebook
52:21will take you out
52:22Subhanallah
52:23you know
52:24you
52:25sallallahu
52:25peace and blessings be upon him
52:26our lord
52:27girl
52:27Fatima
52:28even if
52:29theft
52:30if he does
52:30his too
52:31I'll cut off your hand
52:31his hadith
52:31saying
52:32You believed
52:33you know
52:34these hadiths
52:35you were transferring
52:36So
52:36none of yours
52:37when he returned to his wife
52:38at all
52:39the form of work
52:39That doesn't happen
52:40my brothers
52:40God for us all
52:41to be fair
52:43fate and
52:43effective
52:44may he/she do
52:44Look, my brothers
52:45another lesson
52:46Here
52:46that's my beautiful
52:47my brothers
52:48peace and blessings be upon him
52:49our lord
52:50to his wife
52:50the slander that was thrown
52:51didn't know
52:52he doesn't know
52:53Subhanallah
52:54from the sky
52:55revelation recipient
52:55a prophet
52:56loss
52:57he doesn't know
52:57But
52:58man's
52:59teacher
52:59master
53:00sheikh
53:00master
53:01Unfortunately
53:02hearts
53:03spy
53:04because
53:04because
53:05from hearts
53:06the past
53:06Brother Mehmet
53:06What are you doing?
53:07He knows
53:07for him
53:08He says
53:08sheikh
53:09master's
53:09to your presence
53:09as you leave
53:10be careful
53:11those hearts
53:11He is a spy
53:12from your hearts
53:13what happened
53:14he knows
53:15information about the loss
53:16of the sheikh
53:17Muttalik
53:17that
53:18an obvious
53:19in a way
53:19can say
53:20my brothers
53:20Allahu Akbar
53:21sallallahu alayhi wa sallam
53:23defamation of spouse
53:24your father
53:24he doesn't know
53:25wife's
53:25committing adultery
53:26that he didn't
53:27he doesn't know
53:27in
53:27your
53:28sheikh
53:28your lord
53:29How
53:29He's becoming a spy.
53:30in
53:30from hearts
53:31the past
53:31He knows
53:31Professor Musa
53:32Allahu Akbar
53:33therefore
53:34This
53:35It is polytheism
53:35my brothers
53:36From God
53:37Another
53:37even
53:38even the prophet
53:38if
53:39loss
53:40knows
53:40means
53:41God's
53:41casing
53:42God's
53:43to his absence
53:43partner
53:43is to be
53:44And this too
53:45God's
53:45casing
53:45human
53:46blasphemy
53:47drags
53:47saying
53:48we need to know
53:49required
53:49and me
53:51Look
53:52fee
53:5358.
53:54in the year
53:54Ayşe
53:55radiyallahu
53:56anha
53:56our mother
53:56death
53:57done
53:57But
53:58death
53:59without
53:59before
53:59in a wish
54:00found
54:01in the will
54:01found
54:02He said
54:02Me
54:02Paradise
54:04balance
54:04bury it
54:04for
54:05Me
54:06sallallahu
54:07peace and blessings be upon him
54:07next to our master
54:08Don't bury it.
54:08From where
54:09saying
54:09They asked
54:09Because
54:10I
54:11in the verse
54:13Ahzab
54:13in the chapter
54:14Oh, faith!
54:15eden
54:15women
54:16in your homes
54:17sit down
54:18in the age of ignorance
54:19open
54:19scattered
54:20you
54:20opens like
54:21Don't scatter
54:21his order
54:22Please come in
54:23I didn't listen
54:23And
54:24In Camel
54:25To Ali
54:25I objected
54:26therefore
54:27to this verse
54:28reversed work
54:29I did
54:29because of this
54:30sallallahu
54:31peace and blessings be upon him
54:31our lord
54:32next
54:33from being buried
54:34I am embarrassed
54:34me his
54:36next
54:36Don't bury it.
54:37me, paradise
54:38bury the balance
54:38they said
54:39my brothers
54:39Allahu Akbar
54:40Allahu Akbar
54:42but we
54:42Today
54:42the food we have eaten
54:44interest
54:44in
54:45a believer
54:46I give you my rights
54:47I will not forgive
54:48even though he said
54:49Umrah tours from here
54:51organize
54:51my darling
54:52I am a prophet
54:53his grave
54:54to visit
54:55cheeky
54:56We can go
54:57my brothers
54:57Allahu Akbar
54:58What we will learn from Ayşe
55:00There are such wonderful things.
55:01isn't it?
55:01Allah
55:02Ayşe
55:02radiyallahu anha
55:03our mother
55:04taking a lesson
55:05to be among the believers
55:06to each of us
55:07fate and influence
55:08God, our minds
55:10wisdom
55:10to our eyes
55:11clairvoyance
55:11to our hearts
55:12conversation
55:12give
55:13Praise be to Allah.
55:14Lord of the Worlds
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