Rachael Cavalli_ Working For the Kid s Future

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In this thoughtful and purpose-driven conversation, Rachael Cavalli discusses her involvement in initiatives focused on supporting the future of young people. She reflects on responsibility, awareness, and why giving back and using one’s platform for positive impact matters.  This video takes a documentary-style approach to exploring advocacy, long-term thinking, and the role individuals can play in creating safer and more supportive environments for future generations. Rachael shares her perspective on motivation, accountability, and the importance of education and protection.  Ideal for viewers interested in real-life conversations, social impact discussions, and candid interviews, this episode offers meaningful insight into how personal experiences can inspire advocacy and purposeful action.  Whether you’re curious about community-focused work or appreciate mature interviews that highlight responsibility and forward-thinking values, this video provides context, honesty, and perspective.  👉 Follow our DailyMotion channel for more interviews, real stories, and documentary-style discussions. 👍 Like, comment, and share to support the channel’s growth.  #RachaelCavalli #Interview #Documentary #RealStories #SocialImpact #RealTalk

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00:00so uh what about what about your kids how old were they when you got into the industry they

00:05were a little bit younger um my oldest was I want to say 14 at the time maybe uh his friends

00:14actually knew and I think that he kind of knew but he didn't he kept saying it wasn't my mom

00:19and then I was just honest with him and you know they've done pretty well now that we've talked

00:27about it I feel like you should definitely do that if you have kids talking about it so they

00:31know how to react towards kids because again if you give energy to something it you know if they

00:37see that that affects them and they want to pick on them then it gets the problem gets bigger right

00:42so now that they don't you know they know and they know how to handle it they don't talk about it with

00:47their friends their friends you know don't ask now they don't know I mean people back home obviously

00:51do but now that they're here and in school and stuff nobody knows so yeah that you know yeah

00:59um was that a hard conversation kind of my youngest are girls and they didn't really understand

01:06they were yeah until they probably got a little like three years down the road I'd say

01:12how old were they at the time shoot my youngest was maybe six yeah five or six because it's like

01:20one of those things I've had this conversation with so many other workers who are parents like

01:24the age appropriate way to tell your kids you know how do you tell them right um obviously when

01:32they're very young they don't know what adult entertainment is right um I mean you probably

01:37know that my parents were no when I was growing yeah so I grew up like so this is something I have

01:42experience with my mom and my dad and that picture frame right next to you um yeah they were uh my

01:50mom was one of like the first female wow so she worked for playboy hustler penthouse like all that

01:56stuff super cool so and my dad helped her run the business so my parents were in before I was even

02:01born I'm the oldest so you know I always get that question like what was it like to grow up you know

02:06with parents who were and you know it was for me it was it didn't bother me at all I mean obviously

02:14here I am here I am now um but you know because that wasn't something that as a kid I didn't really

02:22understand what it was and I remember I think the first way that my parents explained to it was they

02:26said mommy and daddy make movies and take pictures for grown-ups yeah and you're not a grown-up and that

02:32was like the extent of all I knew and um you know the back office was off limits to me and I didn't

02:37really question it that much and then eventually like I figured it out but I don't remember like

02:41this moment of being like oh this is what it is yeah it just kind of I don't know it's it's like

02:47normalcy is relative right so that's how I feel too yeah like I had a very normal childhood my parents

02:54were wonderful to me they were there for me they were present they loved me they supported me

02:58um they encouraged me they you know like put me in extracurricular activities and like I did

03:04cotillion which is hilarious um so you know it wasn't like a big thing for me and I definitely like

03:11you know had those issues at school where kids made fun of me or they knew about it but it didn't

03:17affect me like in a in a big way and I've talked to other people who've had similar experiences but

03:24their parents hid it from them and lied to them for a very long time and then they found out in

03:29a really like traumatizing way and that's what I was afraid of damaging yeah I'm sure it could be

03:35yeah it's like you're lying you know you've been lying to me this whole time like who are you

03:39but it's hard it's such a hard conversation to have yeah because you're not doing anything illegal

03:44no right and you're making good money and you're providing for your family and you're being safe

03:50um but there's such a stigma around it yeah and it's you know a profession that's not appropriate

03:58for children so how do you explain to your children that it's something that you do it is it is tricky

04:03definitely yeah what advice would you give to other parents who are like maybe in a similar situation now

04:09and don't know how to tell their kids or when to tell their kids I mean it's definitely timing is

04:14probably everything like I said if if he hadn't told him I don't even know how I would have told him

04:19um but definitely should do like a one-on-one talk at some point so yeah even if you're just

04:27like you don't tell him you're having sex like you're acting in you know adult movies that you

04:32know you know something to let him it's hard do you wish that there was some kind of like literacy or

04:40like knowledge foundation of knowledge out there that parents like you could access to figure out how

04:45to have this conversation that would be their kids because there really isn't there isn't any

04:50information like you said so many people like judge you for it and put it out there such a bad thing

04:55that they don't know yeah like wait what you know yeah what I've found interesting since the you know

05:02since the internet and you know how it's taken over everything and all the kids are on it and kids

05:08accessing you know um adult content when they're underage there's been some like porn literacy

05:14uh organizations that have popped up and there was one woman that I interviewed in particular

05:20called Justine Angfonte and she actually does porn literacy for kids and when I say kids I mean like

05:28high school age um and it was really interesting because obviously she's not like showing them porn like

05:33she's not engaging in anything like illegal like she does this at schools um if the parents give

05:38permission for her to do so but she you know teaches kind of kids I think about the context of adult

05:44adult entertainment um in a way that is appropriate to them and that they like kind of understand at

05:51their age and it's such like a tricky such tricky waters to navigate and I'm always admiring people who

05:58are like trying to find a solution to talking to kids about this kind of stuff rather than just

06:04pretending it doesn't exist or just wanting to have the entire porn industry shut down because that's

06:10just like not happening yeah worst case scenario it's getting you know pushed underground and then

06:16it's illegal yeah bigger yeah right kind of crazy yeah so it's like trying to address you know the

06:21issue like in a responsible way and it's like yeah it's a tough controversial definitely is yeah

06:27yeah for sure

06:28yeah

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