Lumi Ray’s Favorite Pickup Line

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In this lighthearted and revealing conversation, Lumi Ray shares her favorite pickup line and talks about what makes an introduction feel genuine and respectful. The focus of this interview is on communication, confidence, and first impressions, rather than superficial tactics.  This video takes a documentary-style approach to exploring how humor, authenticity, and timing play a role in forming connections. Lumi reflects on why simple, honest communication often works best and how tone and intention can shape early interactions.  Ideal for viewers interested in behind-the-scenes conversations, real talk interviews, and discussions about social dynamics, this episode offers thoughtful insight into how people connect in everyday situations.  Whether you’re curious about conversation starters or enjoy candid interviews that explore communication with maturity, this video provides context, honesty, and perspective.  👉 Follow our DailyMotion channel for more interviews, real stories, and documentary-style discussions. 👍 Like, comment, and share to support the channel’s growth.  #LumiRay #Interview #BehindTheScenes #Documentary #RealTalk #Communication

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00:00I was going to ask you about that because dating generally outside of the industry is really

00:04is hard and you don't seem to be having issues with it. No I mean I've I'm like I have my own

00:13issues with just like so far I haven't dated anyone who's been like I don't want you to

00:19shoot with guys or like they're uncomfortable about it. I was with this one dude for a second

00:27and he was super nice. He literally told me he's like I don't want you to change anything like

00:32about your life now that we're like hanging out and stuff and that just that ended just from

00:40honestly I didn't feel like we were a good match but but so far anybody I've dated I try not to at

00:48least jump into anything like anybody I start seeing it's kind of like pretty casual for a while

00:55and then yeah I just haven't got had to really get to the point where we're gonna have that

01:00conversation thankfully but so far um I've dated like a couple people and they've all been very

01:08they're just like let's just talk about it or or they're kind of into it. I've had like I've had

01:16like two guys be like I watch your I'll watch your stuff sometimes I'm like oh like today this guy I'm

01:24seeing was like sent me something I was like oh god you found my Twitter it's like oh no and he was

01:31like yeah he's like I was just wondering if you ever tweet about the time you tried to kill me with

01:3716 habaneros so I was like no. That's what happens when you date a cook. She'll sneak 16 habaneros into

01:48your food and piss her off. I wasn't I wasn't pissed off I was trying to impress him because he's part

01:54Peruvian and I was like oh I'm gonna make this Peruvian dish and I like spice and I was like

02:00you're Peruvian you must like spice and we started eating it and I was like huh he's like it's really

02:09good and I'm like yeah and then we're both like sweating after like two minutes we're like he's

02:13like how many habaneros did you put in there I was like I like six he's like probably put like one

02:25and we would have been fine I was like okay well so I almost killed him that night on accident.

02:32Habaneros are intense I love them but yeah now I know.

02:37So how do you meet guys because you're kind of known for sliding into like famous people's DMs right?

02:43Yes.

02:44So you're not necessarily on Tinder?

02:46No not Tinder. I have a Raya. That's usually that's like the safest one I feel like.

02:54So far that's usually where I meet people or Instagram. I've yeah I usually just I've slid

03:03in and just usually say would bang just that's it and usually.

03:08Will you bang?

03:09I guess that's all I say is would bang.

03:12Like I would bang you is like what I'm saying.

03:16Oh I would bang. Oh sorry.

03:17Yeah that's all I say.

03:18I mean it's short and to the point.

03:20Yeah so I'm like especially if it's like yeah someone I'm kind of just like it's a famous

03:26person I don't really see that being a relationship but.

03:30And they respond?

03:33Yeah.

03:35Well also too like people get a lot I mean I know for me I get so many fucking DMs

03:40that like a lot of times like I won't see people's DMs.

03:45Yeah I think yeah well I have the blue check mark so I feel like that helps but also.

03:51That puts you in the primary section.

03:53Yeah but also always like I always set that like I feel like just saying like oh I'd smash

04:02right bang kind of gets their attention more especially if it's like a celebrity you kind

04:07of have a crush on because they're not like I'm sure they get messages all the time about

04:13girls like I'm yeah I'm in your city.

04:17Like kind of trying to step around.

04:19Yeah.

04:20Yeah.

04:20The ultimate.

04:21Which I'm like if it's a dude that's like pretty up there like an A-list like there's

04:27not much he's probably wanting to do.

04:30Yeah.

04:30I mean sometimes they're like so where'd you grow up?

04:34Yeah.

04:34And then you're like I mean like I just I just messaged you that but okay.

04:42Yeah.

04:43Yeah.

04:43Uh so you're not shy about your love for hooking up with comedians.

04:49No.

04:49What attracts you to comics specifically?

04:52Um I mean I've if there's one job I think more vulnerable than being naked on camera it's

04:59telling jokes to a crowd.

05:01Oh girl like stand-up comedy gives me fucking so much anxiety.

05:06Yeah.

05:06Like I that is the one thing that I don't think I would ever have the guts to do.

05:10Like I will do all things before stand-up comedy.

05:14I will jump out of an airplane.

05:15I will jump into a pool full of roaches.

05:18I will have sex on camera which I won't do now.

05:22Right.

05:22Um I will do anything before I do stand-up comedy because that is so scary and I almost

05:27hate going to to like open mic nights because when that person gets up there that's not

05:33that funny and nobody's laughing at their jokes like the pain that I feel inside for that

05:38person is like it's very overwhelming and uncomfortable.

05:43Yeah.

05:44Yeah.

05:45I get that.

05:46And you have I feel like you also have to be kind of vulnerable to be good right?

05:50For sure.

05:51And that's why like any of my favorite comics um I'm like now friends with which is interesting

05:58but they're all very authentic people and they're also like the kind of comics that don't

06:07like because there's comics that like kind of do the douche-ier thing where they're making

06:12fun of everyone else but I like like even me like I've read some stand-up and it's always

06:18like stuff based off me and my own shit.

06:21Yeah.

06:22Because I feel like if you can't laugh at yourself then you're not a good comic.

06:26Yeah.

06:27And I think that people find humor in the things that are always personally relatable.

06:34Yeah.

06:34Exactly.

06:34Because we all have vulnerabilities.

06:36Exactly.

06:36So when someone can stand up there and not only talk about their vulnerabilities but you

06:41know make you laugh about them.

06:42Yeah.

06:43Then that I think that triggers something in all of us.

06:46Yeah.

06:46Because you're also like oh I feel included.

06:49Yes.

06:50Oh I feel seen.

06:51Yes.

06:52I'm not the only person who feels that way.

06:54Yeah.

06:54Because I feel like a lot of people I mean you go to a comedy show for entertainment

06:59but you're also weirdly going for this like therapeutic kind of thing because you're like

07:05oh let's all and so I like those kind of comics that kind of go up and they're like

07:10all right like let's talk about trauma or like let's but in like a very light-hearted

07:16fun way or just like the world's issues and what's going on but somehow like having a very

07:23clever punch line to make it feel a little less heavy.

07:28Yeah.

07:29For what's going on.

07:30Yeah.

07:31Because there's a lot going on.

07:33Yeah.

07:34There's a lot for people to cope with right now.

07:36Exactly.

07:36So I'm like I feel like that's mostly why people go at least right now probably more than anything.

07:43Who are some of your favorite comedians and they don't have to be people you slept with

07:46and just because you say their name doesn't necessarily mean that you slept with them.

07:49I just want to put that out there unless you want to say you slept with them then that's

07:52fine.

07:52Yeah.

07:53Yeah.

07:53Okay.

07:56My favorites are Brent Morin, Andrew Santino, Bobby Lee.

08:03I only slept with Brent.

08:06I don't know who that is.

08:07He's lovely.

08:08He's like one of my best friends too so it's like.

08:13What's his name?

08:14Brent what?

08:14Brent Morin.

08:15He's like his he's like probably one of the only comics where I've re-watched

08:22his Netflix special like over and over again.

08:24He's very he's very good writer.

08:26Very smart.

08:30Yeah.

08:30His comedy is almost like theater though.

08:33It's I don't know.

08:34It's very interesting.

08:36Trying to think who else.

08:38Love Larry David.

08:39I don't know if he does stand up but just as a comedian and a writer he yeah he's like

08:45he he's like he's I mean he's he's Seinfeld.

08:50Yeah.

08:51But yeah.

08:52You know better.

08:53But George.

08:54Yeah.

08:55Yeah.

08:56That's great.

08:57Yeah.

08:57The list goes on.

08:58I'm like I can name so many but we'll be here for another like.

09:04Now you said that over the summer you were considering doing stand up comedy yourself.

09:10Are you still considering that?

09:12Yeah.

09:12Have you done it yet?

09:14Not yet.

09:15I've written some stuff out and was talking to my friend Bobby about coming on stage and

09:23one of his things I think at Brea Improv.

09:26So we'll see.

09:27Are you nervous?

09:28Are you nervous?

09:29At this point I'm just kind of like I don't know I'm kind of going to the new year with

09:35like you just gotta do it.

09:37So for I'm trying to do stand up I'm gonna get my diving certification I'm gonna do like

09:42things that scare me just because my I mean my how I even decided to start doing porn was

09:51I had the thought of like well try anything once like you just gotta do it like why so

09:57and now it's led me to a great career and great life so yeah let's see what comedy leads to let's

10:04see what maybe swimming with sharks leads to hopefully I'll and I'm sure I'm sure anal is on

10:10that list too right yeah well I've I've shot actually I don't know maybe I've shot I've shot

10:17anal I haven't I haven't done a DP yet and I want to but everyone's like hold out for a showcase

10:22and I'm like oh yeah yeah which I'm like I get it but you know what there's I wouldn't say that

10:29there is um that's bad advice yeah for sure yes once you've done it it's also money like yeah do it

10:36again yeah why not like make it the whole thing yeah you might not you know make the whole thing at

10:42theater yeah exactly oh that'd be so fun yeah I do oh you want to do a live DP on a theater stage

10:50do a special where you do stand-up comedy and then you get and then I do that'd be amazing

10:55I'm sure no one's done that yet nobody has done that yet I will love to do that yeah I'm so down

11:03I don't know who would what company would be I guess I could do it you could do it yeah

11:08like we got avians for your featurette so I'm like it definitely gave me inspiration of like

11:14also that I want to try to direct something next year yeah so

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