Baylen Out Loud - Season 2 Episode 03- Addicted All Around
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00:00And he can't tell us apart.
00:03My hair in the way?
00:05Deadpool.
00:06Deadpool.
00:07There.
00:08There.
00:10Flins.
00:12Oh, that's it right there.
00:14It's so pretty.
00:16Today, we're taking our first tour
00:17of a possible wedding venue.
00:20Nice to meet you.
00:21Welcome to Crystal View.
00:22Oh.
00:23Hi.
00:25My first impression is very echoey.
00:29Are your tics OK?
00:30Joe Biden does crystal math.
00:32This might not be the right one for us.
00:36When I leave the house, I have to flick the lights
00:38three times before I think, because if I only do it once,
00:41then something bad's going to happen on the way
00:42to the airport.
00:44Sammy's anxiety and OCD becomes disabling.
00:47I can only say certain things.
00:49She has done a very good job at hiding it,
00:53but it has become more difficult.
00:58We have been talking about our marriage,
01:02and it started with some premarital counseling.
01:07If someone gets involved in our relationship or marriage
01:11too much, where does it end?
01:15Colin, did anything come up for you?
01:18I've been holding on to something for a while now,
01:22and it's not easy to say out loud,
01:24because I know it's going to affect Baylen.
01:27Um...
01:43So, Colin, did anything come up for you that you thought
01:47would be important to bring up together?
01:49Yeah, I mean, there is something I want to talk about.
01:56Yeah.
01:57So, obviously...
01:59Dick.
02:00You know that here soon I have to make, like, a career decision.
02:04Mm-hmm.
02:05And that is, like, a super, like, heavy burden
02:11that I guess I could say that I have.
02:13Um...
02:15I feel like the pressure is on me to either stay in the military
02:20or go into some kind of government job.
02:23Mm-hmm.
02:23That way we have health insurance.
02:26Being able to have that kind of benefits,
02:28especially with someone with her condition,
02:30I know is, like, huge.
02:34But I don't necessarily really want to do either one of those things.
02:39Right.
02:42I've been in the military for about five years now,
02:45and my contract will be expiring in about a year.
02:50I joined at 19, and I was just a kid and mature.
02:55The military is the reason that I'm the man who I am.
02:59But now I'm headed into a completely different phase of life,
03:03and lately I've been wondering if there's a different career path
03:08for me outside of the military.
03:10But if I do decide to change careers,
03:12I need a job that I'm going to be successful in,
03:16be happy in,
03:17and also still be able to provide for me and my family.
03:21I feel like I'm being pulled, almost.
03:25And so it's just like...
03:26Between what?
03:28Like, family members and friends,
03:30especially your dad,
03:32want me to, like, choose a career path
03:35that's secured financially.
03:37And it scares me that I, like, may not go in that direction
03:41that everyone else wants me to go in.
03:44Yeah, but none of that would make you happy.
03:47Yeah.
03:49Colin discussed feeling really concerned
03:51about the expectations from family and friends,
03:54stressors that he's been holding in for quite some time.
03:58And while a lot of couples struggle financially,
04:01they're already dealing with more of a challenge
04:04as a result of Balin's conditions.
04:06Do you feel like it is solely on you to provide for the both of you
04:10and your future family financially?
04:13Yeah, I mean, it's just really hard for her to work a regular job.
04:16So it kind of has to be, like, on me to be able to make the main source of income.
04:23That's a lot of pressure on you.
04:25Yeah.
04:27There's a lot that goes on trying to take care of Balin on a day-to-day basis.
04:32Just the weight of trying to fill the shoes of her parents,
04:37making sure that she's okay, she's taking her medicine,
04:42taking care of three dogs, the weight of expenses in the future.
04:47It's a lot.
04:47And I have to make sure that I don't let it affect Balin.
04:51I don't let Balin see that I have all of this going on up here.
04:55But it is weighing on me a lot.
04:57And everyone has a breaking point somewhere.
05:01I just don't want to hit mine.
05:04So what I hear you saying, Colin, is that you don't want to bring her that stress.
05:09You don't want to share that with her.
05:11But, like, I don't want you to hold it, like, into yourself.
05:15Like, you wouldn't want me to do that to myself.
05:18Yeah, but it's different.
05:19And, like, when I hear that, it just is, like...
05:22It's different, though.
05:23It's like you already have a lot of moving parts in your life.
05:26So then for me to, like, add on, like, my stress to that,
05:31I don't want to do that to you.
05:33Like, I don't want you to be overwhelmed and be stressed out.
05:37Like, it's just, like, that way, like, it almost makes me feel like,
05:42like, okay, I have to do this on my own, in a way.
05:47Oh, I don't want you to feel like that.
05:49Yeah.
05:51I'm hearing that you're also struggling with other people's opinions
05:58and separating that from yours and mine.
06:02Like, you don't want to upset them or, like, not please everybody.
06:08Kind of like how I am.
06:11I knew that Colin was stressed about his career,
06:13but I didn't know that he was this overwhelmed.
06:18This is something I've always worried about.
06:21Because with my Tourette and other conditions, it can be a lot.
06:25Not just for me, but also for Colin to take on as my partner.
06:29So the last thing I want is Colin to protect me from these type of difficult subjects.
06:34It's not healthy for him or our relationship.
06:37It breaks my heart that he's been keeping this in.
06:42You don't want to put anything onto me, and I understand that.
06:48However, you doing that is hurting yourself.
06:52And I don't want to feel disconnected from you.
06:56Regarding the pressure he feels from family and friends' opinions,
07:00I know it sucks because I feel it too.
07:02I feel like I'm stuck in the middle of Colin and them.
07:05And that's going to be a harder issue for me to address because I usually see both sides.
07:11Everything that everyone else says almost shouldn't be a burden.
07:15And I know that it's still going to be.
07:18Mm-hmm.
07:19And I'm telling you, like, suck a fat .
07:26I'm telling you that, like, that's between us.
07:28That's not between my dad, your parents, no one.
07:32And if we believe that it can work, then it'll happen.
07:38Mm-hmm.
07:40That's the thing.
07:42It's just really nice to know that no matter what I decide, she just wants me to be happy.
07:47You have a few things to focus on until I see you next.
07:52Thank you so much.
07:53Thank you so much.
07:55But I still have a lot to figure out with our financial future.
07:59And I have a feeling Alan isn't really going to let it go until I make some real decisions.
08:04Can I just do something?
08:30What?
08:30What are we doing?
08:31I'm starting something for
08:34a project.
08:34Don't try to block it.
08:38You're clearly trying to hide something, which is weird.
08:44I'm making something for someone.
08:45It's a surprise.
08:46Okay.
08:47Right?
08:47You're acting weird.
08:51I can usually tell when Al has something up his sleeve.
08:55And there's always something crazy going on in this head of his where he's conjuring up some
08:59silly ideas.
09:00The sooner I find out, the better, because this is just awkward.
09:05Yeah.
09:05So I've been working on a surprise for Valen, just in case she can or can't have certain
09:11things at her wedding.
09:12But we don't know that much about her wedding or her venue yet.
09:15Like we only know she needs the dogs there.
09:18That's really all we know.
09:20So I don't know how you are coming up with this and thinking that it's just going to fit into whatever.
09:28It's going to fit in.
09:28Yeah.
09:29It's going to fit in.
09:31So here's the deal.
09:32I've been thinking a lot about Valen's wedding and how sensitive she is to her surroundings.
09:38And I want to pitch an idea to her.
09:40But before I pitch it, I want her to envision it.
09:44And that's what my secret little project is all about.
09:47Do you want it to be a surprise for me too?
09:49Am I not allowed to see this again?
09:50Yes, of course.
09:51I'm just going to do this.
09:51Okay.
09:52And I'm just going to show you this.
09:53And then you can say, wow.
09:55Or you can say that's never going anywhere.
09:58We let Sammy and Burke see it when they fly in for their long summer weekend with their mom and dad.
10:04Yeah.
10:05So you're telling me it's going to be done for the weekend.
10:08Yeah.
10:09And the longer you bother me about it, the less I'm working on this.
10:13You know what I mean?
10:14Like I got to get some things done.
10:19I'm a little nervous.
10:20I mean, with the wedding coming up and with Valen's condition,
10:24we know that she needs help.
10:27But I also don't want us to overstep our boundaries.
10:33Okay.
10:34But I guess I have no choice but to wait and see what's up Alan's sleeve in this carving situation.
10:41Nope, hurry up and wait.
10:46I can still see you.
10:48And I have so many questions for you.
10:51So many questions.
10:55Hi, baby.
10:57Sammy and Burke are both in town for a long weekend.
10:59They live out of state, so I don't see them as much.
11:02Did I tell you guys that me and Colin are in premarital therapy?
11:05I didn't know he was carrying stress with like the future and him getting out of the military.
11:09And because he knows you can't work a normal job.
11:11Mm-hmm.
11:13Yeah.
11:15Nailen, I want to show you something that we got outside.
11:17What?
11:18Yeah, what are we doing?
11:20Julie doesn't have a clue.
11:22I keep her in the dark about things because that's the fastest way to get my ideas ruined
11:27just to invite her into my mind space on these.
11:30You're being creepy and weird right now.
11:33It's me to brush your teeth for the day.
11:49Flop gets a whole one.
11:50We have no food.
11:56Are you not hungry?
11:58No.
11:59We can go grocery shopping and get food and we can cook something.
12:02Okay.
12:03So what are you up to today?
12:05Any plans?
12:05I am going to go hang out with Sammy and Burke.
12:09She finally got to be able to be on a plane because of her OCD and all of her rituals, so.
12:15Yeah, that's good.
12:16I'm glad.
12:17How are you feeling after therapy?
12:20Fine.
12:22Like, I feel closer.
12:25Mm-hmm.
12:27I don't know how I feel.
12:29What?
12:29I feel fine.
12:33Okay.
12:35After one session of premarital counseling, this marriage stuff is getting
12:40down in Dallas.
12:42It's getting real.
12:44Stop.
12:45I knew you were going to laugh.
12:46I look over there and there's just a...
12:48I didn't know that you carried a lot of weight and a lot of burden on your shoulders with finances
12:56and wedding planning and saving money and
13:02the stress of work and the unknown of that.
13:05I had no idea.
13:07Yeah.
13:07I just don't want you to carry the stress by yourself.
13:12If I'm...
13:14I can handle some stress.
13:17I honestly really appreciate Baylen saying that she wants to help out with all of the
13:22burdens that I've been carrying.
13:24But there's a reason why I haven't, you know, brought this up to her.
13:29And it's because I know that stressful stuff sets off her anxiety.
13:35But a part of this whole counseling thing is learning to trust.
13:39If she says that I need to be open about something, then I need to be.
13:43Let's talk about some of the big expenses that we have coming up.
13:48Do you want me to get out my calculator for this?
13:51Wedding.
13:54House, eventually.
13:56Bachelor, bachelorette trip.
13:57Honeymoon.
13:58Let's stop adding all of the stuff.
14:00Yeah, but it's a lot of money right there.
14:03Gosh.
14:06It's okay.
14:07It's fine.
14:07So, I mean, we need to find ways to be able to save money
14:12so that we can be able to not have to worry about all of those in the next year.
14:19What do we cut?
14:21Well, we spend a lot of money.
14:22Dick.
14:23On.
14:24Sorry.
14:24Good?
14:25Yeah.
14:26Sure?
14:26Yep.
14:27Dick.
14:28Yep.
14:28Okay, here we go.
14:31I mean, we can start cutting by you not shopping as much.
14:41It's so hard to save when your love language is overpriced deliveries and shopping.
14:48It's kind of hard.
14:50Every day, she's looking on some website.
14:55The reason why I have, like, the shopping addiction is because I don't go out and regularly
15:02go shopping because of my dicks.
15:06No, you're just addicted all around.
15:08Is that your name?
15:11Well, you name it, I got it.
15:15Just about.
15:15Also, if we can start cooking more meals here.
15:20The both of us not ordering food deliveries?
15:22Yep.
15:23We do that a lot.
15:24A lot.
15:25Wow.
15:26I really want to cook more, but as you know, as we get later into the day and, like,
15:30making meals and, like, just with my tics, it gets a lot harder.
15:35So I know that I go to almost, like, ordering food as, like, a comfort because I'm just too scared,
15:42but I feel like I can, like, come out of my comfort zone a little bit because I need,
15:46we need to save some money.
15:48Mm-hmm.
15:49I would appreciate that.
15:50The more we talk about it, the more I realize this isn't going to be easy,
15:56you little bitch.
15:57Yep.
15:58But we're going to try.
15:59Yep.
15:59You little bitch.
16:03What is setting that dick off?
16:05I don't know.
16:06We gon' have a good time, we gon' have a good time, yeah,
16:12live it up, we gon' have a good time, we gon' have a good time, get your paper up,
16:18we gon' have a good time, we gon' have a good time, yeah,
16:20live it up, live it up.
16:26Bitch.
16:29Sammy and Burke are both in town for a long weekend.
16:31They both live out of state, so I don't see them as much.
16:34So we're meeting up in a bar around my neighborhood.
16:40Where are Burke and Sammy?
16:44I don't like this.
16:47I die, um.
16:49I die, um.
16:53Of course they're late.
16:55I absolutely hate walking into anywhere alone.
17:00It's kind of like torture, because I'm just worried about the other people's reactions that are in the building.
17:07Oh, thank God they're here.
17:18Oh, thank God.
17:20Hi, baby.
17:22Don't ever let me be the first one at the function ever again.
17:25Hi, baby.
17:26I love you.
17:29I haven't seen Sammy in a long time.
17:32You look so good with your hair like this.
17:34Oh, thanks.
17:36She has, um, severe OCD and anxiety, so it's always been hard for her to leave her comfort and travel home.
17:44Hi, Burke.
17:45What's up, baby?
17:45What's up?
17:47What's up?
17:48My oldest brother, Burke, is living in Tampa.
17:51He is currently honestly thriving down there and loves it.
17:55How was your flight today?
17:56I was worried that you weren't going to get on the plane.
17:58Dude, I was at past this flight.
18:00I can't get up and walk around, but I, like, can't sit still.
18:03I, like, can't watch a movie.
18:05I just...
18:06It's just a lot.
18:08Traveling with my OCD and flying is...
18:11Obsessive-compulsive dick.
18:13...disorder, um, is very challenging for me.
18:16And some days are harder than others.
18:19Objection!
18:22Where the is the function?
18:23Your mom has one life and she's 30% off this week.
18:26It's very common for Baylin to have new tics after you haven't seen her in a while because
18:32she can pick up anything from a TV show, a movie, music.
18:37Yep.
18:37Take a dick.
18:39Self-serve that dick.
18:40They don't really surprise me that much anymore because there's been some crazy ones.
18:44Yeah.
18:44I mean, you really can't get much more crazy, especially that airport one with the gun.
18:47Yeah.
18:48You know what I mean?
18:48Yeah.
18:49I have a gun.
18:51Oh my god, it's right there.
18:53I have a gun.
18:54Yeah.
18:54Maybe try to whisper it.
18:58Are you going to play shuffleboard?
18:59Yeah.
19:00Yeah, sure.
19:02So, do you want to be red or blue?
19:05I'll be blue.
19:06So, we're going to try to knock each other's off.
19:07It's going to take a little bit because you just got to barely let go of the thing.
19:12Oh, that one broke.
19:14Not bad though.
19:16Bro.
19:18So, now you want to try to knock his off because...
19:21All right.
19:21All right.
19:22The three of us being the oldest and hanging out is a lot different than like the three
19:27younger ones hanging out because we're not fighting over boogers or like baseball bats.
19:34Too hard.
19:35That's what she said.
19:36Your mom's too hard.
19:37That's money too.
19:42Bitch.
19:46I'm exhausted.
19:48We should have stretched out beforehand.
19:49Dude.
19:50Did I tell you guys that me and Colin are in premarital therapy?
19:54So, who brought that up?
19:55Mom and dad.
19:56I think it's a great idea.
19:57I'm all for it.
19:58It's great to be on the same page about children.
20:01Like, do you want to go to church every Sunday?
20:03Do you want to do this stuff?
20:04How...
20:05And we're so...
20:05Well, some of that stuff should be basic conversations you have with each other.
20:08Yes, like, there's multiple things.
20:10Like, I didn't know he was carrying stress with like the future and him getting out of the military.
20:14Saving enough, having enough money for all these expenses and all these things and...
20:19Because he knows you can't work a normal job?
20:20Mm-hmm.
20:21It's hard for me to work a nine-to-five as much as I would love to.
20:25It's hard with my tics.
20:28Yeah.
20:29But I do want to help contribute in like some way.
20:34Yeah.
20:36So, what's Colin's plan after he gets out of the military?
20:39He doesn't honestly know.
20:41No.
20:41He officially gets out next year.
20:44Kind of like that's when he'll like be transitioning out to his next job if he has one.
20:48What do you...
20:49If he has one?
20:50Yeah.
20:51I mean, it's important when you have a job.
20:54You don't want to leave it until something else is lined up there.
20:56I know.
20:57That's the thing.
20:59I can definitely sympathize with Colin because
21:04the responsibility and due diligence of
21:07taking care of not only yourself but two people and providing for dogs and doing all that,
21:13I definitely empathize with him.
21:16Mm-hmm.
21:16But I think it's also like a you know what you signed up for.
21:20You knew she couldn't work a normal job.
21:22He needs to find like steady income job.
21:24Yeah.
21:24Not even a stable job.
21:25Just a providing job for the both of them.
21:29But it's not our job to tell him which job.
21:30Yes.
21:31You know what I mean?
21:31Yes.
21:32He's got to come up with that himself.
21:33I'm not going to go to Colin and be like,
21:35hey, you need a 40-hour work week with health insurance and this.
21:41That's my dad's.
21:42My dad can do that.
21:44I just think it's hard for you.
21:45Like, let's say he gets out of the military and then waits like six months,
21:49like Burke did after college for a job.
21:50Who knows on the time frame.
21:52Yes.
21:53That's why he's stressed.
21:58I do love spending time with Burke and Sammy.
22:00However, they both do have very strong opinions.
22:03They're very, very protective of me.
22:07All right.
22:08That's okay.
22:08Do you want a nap?
22:09No, no.
22:11No, let's just go.
22:14Colin and I just talked about in therapy the pressure he feels
22:18when my family weighs in in our business.
22:20If Sammy and Burke are doing all this questioning,
22:22I can't even imagine what my parents are going to think.
22:25Oh my God.
22:29This is the first time that I've had a solid, tight group of girlfriends.
22:33Pump that dick, bitch.
22:34Oh my God.
22:35I'm scared.
22:36It's really nice to spend time with people where the main focus
22:38isn't about mine and Colin's future.
22:40I love mine.
22:41Oh my God.
22:43It's great.
22:43It's great.
22:45Between therapy and wedding planning lately,
23:03things have been very stressful.
23:05So since Colin is working late tonight,
23:09I'm having a girls night where we are just going to let loose and have tons of fun.
23:13Take a dick, bitch.
23:21Since I moved to DC,
23:23I actually met a lot of new people through my best friend Lila,
23:26as well as through Colin's friend.
23:28Okay.
23:29So who's in charge of the liquor?
23:30Wait, aren't you a bartender?
23:32Oh yeah.
23:32There we go.
23:34This is the first time that I've had a solid, tight group of girlfriends.
23:40It's great.
23:43So how's your wedding planning going?
23:45We've looked at one venue.
23:47When we went there, it was beautiful.
23:48It had these huge stairs that were filled with flowers.
23:51However, it's very echoey, which turned out to be a very big trigger.
23:57I'm just hearing myself echo as I tick.
24:00Me and Colin agreed that it just wasn't the right place for us.
24:03You want to be somewhere where you're comfortable, of course.
24:06The first time that I met Balin, she was ticking.
24:08But at the same time, for me personally, I grew up having a friend that had Tourette's.
24:12So I kind of already knew what it was and that it's an uncontrollable thing.
24:16And it's worse to hold them in than it is to just let it all out.
24:19And so she would tick and then we just kind of move on with our conversation.
24:22There were some other things that I didn't realize that I didn't like.
24:26Like I didn't like circle tables because it only got you secluded to the people that were at your table.
24:32So I kind of want long tables and then I would want to be separated, like him and I.
24:37Like a sweetheart table?
24:39Mm-hmm.
24:39Oh, that's, I love that.
24:40Honestly, having a sweetheart table was so nice, like my wedding, because it was like we got to
24:45sit there and enjoy each other and not be surrounded by a bunch of people.
24:50The fact that my tics are not being brought up, like no one's just dying laughing out of anywhere.
24:56I feel accepted and I feel like I belong in this group because we're all just being ourselves.
25:03Two girls' lives!
25:04Nice!
25:05Nice!
25:06Salut!
25:09This is so strong.
25:13Okay, so I'm going to do something you guys have never seen before and I'm going to make us all
25:15some cotton candy.
25:16Oh my gosh!
25:17It's cotton candy!
25:19Has anybody ever made cotton candy before?
25:20A long time ago.
25:21Absolutely.
25:22I have never.
25:24It's coming out!
25:25Look at it!
25:26Pump that dick, bitch!
25:28Oh my gosh!
25:29That looks good!
25:31Oh, thank you!
25:32That's literally perfect!
25:34A little sugar hangover.
25:35By the way.
25:36With wedding planning, me and Colin decided that we were going to start premarital therapy.
25:42One thing that was brought up was finances and saving money and kind of like this huge stress
25:49stress that he has with this, like him getting out of the military.
25:52So, when you heard Colin say that in...
25:56That bitch!
25:57Is that something that like you knew that he was feeling?
26:01No.
26:02And I know it was hard for him to say it.
26:04He's like holding it onto himself thinking that like I can't help him.
26:07Hearing that Balin and Colin are doing premarital counseling I thought was really inspiring and I
26:13think that's something that a lot of newlyweds or fiancés aren't really talking about as much
26:18anymore when it used to be a lot more common to do.
26:20Especially with what she's dealing with her Tourette syndrome, they can set themselves up for a
26:26healthy marriage and hopefully for the rest of their life.
26:28So, I was like, you know what, we'll save money with like not ordering out so much.
26:34And it's like, okay, well now I have to start making food.
26:37So, fun times.
26:38So, what kind of foods are you going to be making?
26:40I haven't figured that out yet.
26:41That's a good question.
26:43We should figure that out.
26:44We'll make your recipe book.
26:45Yeah.
26:46Ooh, that's a good idea.
26:47We could all literally send in our favorite recipes.
26:50Make sure that half of it I can put in the air fryer.
26:52I love the air fryer.
26:54We should get you a crock pot.
26:55Crock pot is so easy.
26:56You can just throw it in there in the morning, turn it on, and then you don't have to deal with
26:59it all day.
27:00And it's so nice.
27:01Crock pot.
27:02I have a gift for everybody.
27:04Right, punky boy?
27:06I have a gift.
27:07Tonight, I have a special fun surprise for my girls.
27:13Girls night with a twist.
27:16Twist that dick around, wrap it, slap it, tap it, that dick.
27:22Everybody, pick a bag.
27:24Here you go.
27:25Just hand it to us.
27:26Oh gosh.
27:27I'm scared.
27:28All right, can we open it?
27:29Oh!
27:29Mine's multicolored.
27:31Mine is literally multicolored.
27:33I don't want my brain.
27:34I got purple.
27:35So the theme for the night is wigs.
27:39This is so fun.
27:40Oh!
27:41I don't think I have my underwear.
27:43I love my underwear.
27:47This is what girls night is all about.
27:48We've had candy, we've had the jungle juice, like the crazy wigs.
28:08Sophie time!
28:09Sophie time!
28:10This is a very Balan night.
28:13This was exactly what I needed.
28:14Me and the girls laughing, having fun.
28:17It's really nice to spend time with people where the main focus isn't about my Tourette's
28:21or mine and Colin's future.
28:24I would say that tonight was a super successful girls night.
28:28Holy , I look like Beckner.
28:29I want you to be able to, like, think about something for a second.
28:36I truly thought he was insane.
28:38Like, this is, this is no girl's dream.
28:59How many blankets do we need?
29:10Do you think I sound good?
29:11I think you sound like you got a tracheotomy, actually.
29:14Is this a good look for me?
29:15Is this a good sound?
29:16Sounds great.
29:17Means I can't yell at kids.
29:20One of you jokers gave this to me.
29:22This is not my fault.
29:24Yeah, well, did you come here with this?
29:28I did not.
29:29Okay, well, then you're not culpable.
29:33Since my siblings Sammy and Burke are in town, my dad wants to have a barbecue this weekend.
29:39But also, my dad's been bugging me to come by the house to see something,
29:45and I have no idea what it is.
29:47So I decided to get a two-hour ride share from DC to be able to see everybody.
29:54them kids.
29:56Oh, baby, finally made it.
30:00Hi.
30:00Hey.
30:00Hey.
30:02How was it?
30:02Yeah, the ride was good.
30:03Okay.
30:04It wasn't like the other time where I got motion sickness, because ride shares in DC are...
30:08I know.
30:09How long is it?
30:10Like two hours?
30:11The whole way.
30:13Whoa.
30:13Whoa.
30:14Are we gonna eat?
30:16Yeah, I'm just waiting for Burke to finish grilling.
30:18He's out there grilling.
30:19Come on.
30:19Are you hungry?
30:20Yeah.
30:21Are you?
30:21Yeah, a little bit.
30:22Where's the wieners?
30:23Are you all done?
30:24We're almost done.
30:24Yeah, almost.
30:25Okay.
30:25We're just talking about how you knew your way around a wiener.
30:27These wieners are very big.
30:29Um, you were telling me how you had a girls' night.
30:32How did that go?
30:33Yes, so it went great.
30:34Um, me and my friends have, like, these regular, like, girls' nights where they'll all come over,
30:39but they're all themed nights.
30:41So, we did wig nights.
30:44You don't have to wear it, Beckner, because...
30:46Wait, what?
30:46I'm actually you.
30:50That's you, Beckner.
30:51Let's do a side-by-side, see the accuracy.
30:53Looks like you guys both just fried ramen noodles and just plop them out there.
30:56That's good.
30:57It's okay, we'll just get...
30:58Look at Beckner.
30:59The wig looks better than Beckners right now.
31:01Honestly, put it on.
31:03Put it on, Yoder.
31:04So, you have other wigs?
31:07Yeah.
31:07Yes, but I only have one other wig for one person in the room who needs it.
31:11Dad, Dad, yeah.
31:12It looks like somebody shaved their pubes and just threw it on a wig.
31:15Look at this, look at this.
31:24What do you think?
31:25Damn.
31:26I think it looks good.
31:27Wait, no, I'm not going to take a picture.
31:28Because I haven't seen it.
31:30I don't think you want it.
31:31You look like Sven!
31:32With his hair.
31:33No, no, now I look like Sven.
31:34Dad.
31:42With a baseball bat.
31:43No, it's this.
31:44There.
31:44It's this.
31:45Oh, God.
31:46I think you look like you should be on some sort of list, maybe 200 feet away from schools or something.
31:59Well, before we eat, Baylen, I want to show you something that we got outside.
32:02Okay.
32:02Do you want this all?
32:03You guys should come all.
32:05I've been working on a surprise.
32:07I want to share with the family, but especially Baylen.
32:10I want to do it.
32:11I want to do it.
32:12Come on.
32:12Here.
32:13Come on.
32:14What are we doing?
32:16Yeah, what are we doing?
32:17Julie doesn't have a clue.
32:19I keep her in the dark about things because that's the fastest way to get my ideas ruined,
32:25is to invite her into my mind space on these.
32:29Where are we going?
32:30Right here.
32:31What the are we doing?
32:32I want you to be able to, like, think about something for a second.
32:36I have no idea why my dad is taking us out back.
32:40I am so confused on so many different levels.
32:43You're being creepy and weird right now.
32:46He's like, let me show you my knife collection.
32:49Now listen, I don't know where you are with the whole wedding location search.
32:53So I know that you want animals at your wedding, right?
32:58Mm-hmm.
32:59Goats and alpacas and Ringling Brothers or whatever you want.
33:04And a lot of wedding venues probably aren't going to let you have animals, okay?
33:10Mm-hmm.
33:11You got one chance to make this amazing?
33:13Yeah.
33:14This is it.
33:15You can put all those things right here.
33:19Let's have the wedding here in the backyard.
33:23How is that funny?
33:25No, I'm being serious.
33:26Serious?
33:29I've been working on a plan to have the entire yard wide open for Balen's wedding.
33:35Rip the fence down, cut trees, build a platform, whatever she wants.
33:42Let's start doing something.
33:43Come on, Dad.
33:47Come on, Dad.
33:48Seriously?
33:50Who the hell wants a wedding in their backyard?
33:52I don't even know what to say.
33:56So much for trying to take some pressure off of Colin.
33:59This whole idea is only going to add to it.
34:01This is crazy.
34:03This is it.
34:12This is it.
34:13Let's have the wedding here in the backyard.
34:16How was that funny?
34:17No, I'm being serious.
34:21I'm envisioning it.
34:23There's not a lot to envision.
34:26You can have whatever you want here.
34:28I'll get those tents put up.
34:32This is where she comes up the aisle.
34:35And then we pass the lump.
34:36We pass the lump.
34:38I trip.
34:39All right.
34:40I truly thought he was insane.
34:42Like, this is no girl's dream.
34:45How many people do you think inviting?
34:47We are probably thinking about inviting 175 and thinking between 125 and 150 will show up.
34:53With two toilets here.
34:54With two toilets.
34:56We're looking at a couple port-a-potties.
35:00Like, imagine 150 people in this house.
35:03Oh, no.
35:03They'd have to get Uber to, like, the Holiday Inn or something.
35:06No.
35:06Obviously, 150 people are going to lay up cots here.
35:10I mean, come on.
35:11I'm talking about people wandering around getting food.
35:13I mean, just imagine 150 people just hammered.
35:16It's brutal.
35:17Brutal.
35:18All right.
35:18So we'll think of different venues, but appreciate your offer.
35:21Let's move on.
35:22But if you go to another venue and then they don't allow
35:24half of the stuff that you want in your wedding.
35:26This is the wedding.
35:27It's an option.
35:27This is an option.
35:28This is something that, I mean, let's hope it only happens once in your life.
35:31It is an option.
35:32The last option, but it is an option.
35:34It could be the last option.
35:36The last one.
35:37It's fine.
35:39It's all right.
35:40It's, it, I am enjoying this.
35:42But to me, I'm not worried about the food.
35:47I'm not worried about desserts.
35:48I'm not worried about tents.
35:49I'm not worried about outdoors cat.
35:51I'm not worried about this.
35:52I'm worried about, is Balen going to be comfortable at this location?
35:57Because we all know that when she gets overstimulated, she could have a bad tick attack and end up on the floor.
36:03Having her wedding here at the house, she has a safe place that she's familiar with, comfortable with.
36:09And if we can take some of that emotional baggage and struggle away from her to make her day amazing,
36:17then, then that's what it's truly about.
36:20It's not everyone else's wedding.
36:22It's her wedding.
36:23Okay.
36:24It's what you want.
36:25So, either way, whether you choose here or you choose somewhere else, I want you to come over here
36:31and look at something.
36:32It's one more thing for you to think about and visualize, all right?
36:36Let's go over here.
36:37Come on.
36:38You'll like this.
36:40Here, Balen, come over here and stand in front of this.
36:42Look this way.
36:42So I can take this off and then you can be surprised.
36:44It looks like he ordered a bed frame.
36:46I know.
36:47Wait, so he's been out back making this and you guys haven't, he, he told me he was doing something special.
36:55What?
36:58What?
36:59Why are you guys laughing?
37:01Only your dad.
37:02Oh, my God.
37:04What are we doing?
37:06So this, so listen, so no matter what you pick, you, you can use this for a venue.
37:12All right?
37:12Okay.
37:12Well, it's not going to be.
37:15Oh, my goodness.
37:22This is going in the apartment.
37:24No?
37:25Okay.
37:25We just need to add some sprinkles.
37:27Do you know what they are?
37:28That's a horse.
37:31That's Fluffy and Toots.
37:32Toots me.
37:35Thank you so much.
37:36This probably took you so long.
37:39I am freaking so excited.
37:42I love alpacas.
37:44Mr. and Mrs. Dooley, there we go.
37:45That's Chuck and that's Marlene.
37:47Marlene's a dirty, filthy whore.
37:49All right, as our maid of honor, we accept this.
37:53We're not super sure about the venue portion of the whole thing.
37:56I think the venue's good.
37:57I could see, like, two big circus tents, your animals running around.
38:01A place to, like, take photos and there can be, like, flowers in the background.
38:04Yeah, whatever you want to do.
38:05It's your wedding.
38:06It ended up being a great surprise.
38:09I'm totally impressed.
38:11The backyard venue idea, I'm not so sure of, but the bench is beautiful.
38:17It probably took you so long to make.
38:20How long did it take you to make this?
38:2216 hours.
38:23No, time, I don't know, time to stand still when it carves.
38:26So I'm not given a time frame.
38:29It's worth it.
38:31When Baylen was at her worst four years ago in her medical journey,
38:36I really questioned that a day like this would come.
38:39Baylen deserves to have the perfect wedding day like anybody else.
38:42It's been a long journey, and her day needs to be as amazing
38:49as her expectations wanted.
38:51I want her to be able to say,
38:54Dad, this is the best day ever.
39:02You can put, like, a bow tie.
39:05We can put whatever you want.
39:06It's kind of like Mr. and Mrs. Julie.
39:08That'd be so cute.
39:09Okay, that is really cute.
39:12That's a really cute idea.
39:13How heavy are these?
39:14What if she...
39:15Well, they're heavy.
39:16Oh, yeah, they gotta be heavy.
39:17I mean, what if the venue's like four hours down the road?
39:21Like, I'll just drive it down the road, or what if it's here?
39:24This sweet gift from my dad has definitely
39:29made it harder to choose a wedding venue.
39:32I mean, I totally get what my dad thinks.
39:35It would be better for me to have it here.
39:37And even though it's not exactly what I thought I wanted for my wedding,
39:41he's been taking care of me a long time, so I definitely trust his judgment.
39:48So what do you think?
39:49I'm thinking...
39:49It's an option.
39:51It is an option.
39:53Me and Colin are trying to save money for this specific reason, so I can bring it up to him.
40:00However, I don't think my parents' backyard is Colin's first wedding venue choice.
40:06And I know Colin feels a lot of pressure when my dad gives suggestions,
40:10even when they're meant to be helpful.
40:12And honestly, I'm a little afraid to ask.
40:15I can't look at the chickens.
40:27Have you told Colin?
40:28No.
40:28You told me what?
40:30The last time I saw my dad, he pitched the backyard as a wedding venue.
40:35I haven't even told Colin yet, and I'm not even sure I want to.
40:38I'm a little nervous. I've never hosted a kid before.
40:53I'm going to show you how to bedazzle.
40:58Take this, and it goes in the wax.
41:00Is something burning?
41:02Wait, whoa, whoa, whoa. What's over there burning?
41:05Do you think that you're still just trying to hold on to Balin?
41:09It's just, you know, when I went to pick her up and when I talked about her...
41:14Oh my gosh, we're not talking about this again.
41:17I haven't shared this story with that many people.
41:20Bye.
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