Baylen Out Loud - Season 2 Episode 10- Get Me Out of Here!
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00:00I didn't picture anything other than blackness because I was unconscious every day.
00:04That sounds f***ing terrible.
00:06I would have never dated you in college.
00:10I have decided to go in the direction of real estate.
00:17If this doesn't work out, what are you going to do?
00:21Come up with something that you have as a backup plan as well.
00:26Oh my gosh.
00:27My friend Anita has a daughter that has autism and Tourette's syndrome.
00:33And you remember the link I sent you on the device?
00:37New Pulse.
00:38Kind of like deep brain stimulation, but not invasive.
00:41I think you should explore it.
00:43You got that baby fever going on.
00:45I don't have baby fever.
00:46I just want kids.
00:48Colin's really moving up the timeline here.
00:51I actually have a question for the doctor.
00:53How do your medications would work when you're pregnant?
01:01We're not talking about this right now.
01:03You're excited to meet Dr. Flaherty?
01:25I am.
01:26I'm really excited to meet her.
01:27We're in Boston to meet with my neurologist, Dr. Flaherty.
01:30She's been my regular doctor ever since my parents and I met her last year.
01:35We usually do virtual appointments because Boston's about nine hours away.
01:39But I do want to see her in person because I have some serious concerns.
01:43You have a nine-inch penis.
01:45That's a serious concern.
01:47Hopefully she can give us the real on everything.
01:52Yeah.
01:53I was able to get a couple of days off of work to be able to go with Balin.
01:57Her parents usually go to these appointments, but since we're getting married, I want to
02:02be able to step in and be there for her.
02:06Hello.
02:06I like to usually always have someone come with me to my doctor's appointments because
02:11I always forget something.
02:13It's good to see you.
02:14This is my fiancé, Colin.
02:16Very nice to meet you.
02:17And it's his first time at a doctor's appointment ever.
02:20I've heard a lot of great things about you, so I'm excited.
02:24Dick.
02:25So what's on your mind to talk about?
02:28A lot.
02:30I have several other conditions on top of my Tourette's, including a mood disorder that
02:35can definitely increase my tics.
02:38My doctor prescribed a medication a little while ago that helps with my mood.
02:46However, one of its unfortunate side effects is weight gain.
02:50I know the medicine that you put me on for my mood.
02:54It's been working, but I also am just concerned with the fact that since I've been on it, I've
03:00gained 18 pounds.
03:01Getting on this new mood stabilizer has really, really helped, but with the wedding coming
03:07up and getting some comments online questioning if I'm pregnant or not, the weight gain has
03:13definitely started to affect my mental health.
03:17A lot of the medicines that boost serotonin, it turns out they actually block what are called
03:22satiety receptors in your gut, the things that tell you you're no longer hungry.
03:26So when they're blocked, your brain is getting a message, you're still hungry, you're still
03:29hungry.
03:30Wow.
03:31It's a major side effect.
03:32You know, it's not like just cosmetic.
03:34It's important for your health that you can maintain a normal weight.
03:38So in my mind, the new meds, the GLP-1 agonists, they're the best treatment for it.
03:46GLP-1 agonists are drugs that you take weekly injections and they decrease the brain's desire
03:53for food.
03:54That's what I'd recommend is to start one of those meds.
03:57And I can stay on the other meds I like?
03:59Yeah.
03:59Yay.
04:01I'm really glad that I'm able to stay on my existing medication to help with my mood.
04:06And ticks.
04:08Hopefully I'm able with the GLP-1 to lose some weight and regain my confidence back.
04:15How is your physical pain?
04:17Terrible.
04:18Tell me.
04:19I've had numbness.
04:21It's in my pinky and my ring and my thumb.
04:24I think it's from hitting myself when I tick.
04:28I'll hit like my chest.
04:31But there'll be times like I've hit my head off doors, things like that.
04:37I like to either smack it back against walls or hit tables with the front of my head.
04:42Uh-huh.
04:42Yeah.
04:43Yeah.
04:43My motor ticks cause me so much pain and exhaust me.
04:48Just moving my neck casually really hurts when you do it 300 times a day.
04:54When Balyn's dealing with her motor ticks, literally you just have to like sit there and make sure that she doesn't really hurt herself.
05:03But it is hard to sit by and watch.
05:07Watch that dick reel in that dick.
05:09So one thing I can tell you pretty certainly is that the hand tingling problem that you're having is not from hitting your head.
05:15That is something that's, if you're gaining weight and you're also getting like puffy skin from it being hot and you know you've got fluid extra swelling in your skin, that can make those nerves pinch.
05:25Oh, that's a relief.
05:27Yeah.
05:28I want to ask you about something else I heard about.
05:31There's this device called NuPulse.
05:34Mm-hmm.
05:34I know it's a non-invasive device that you wear that helps your ticks.
05:39Yeah, so there's not that much known about it, but it's doing it through electrical stimulation and it seems to quiet things down a little bit, so.
05:48Have you read into any of the clinical studies that they've done?
05:52A little bit, yes.
05:53Yes, and it seemed like it had a significant effect, like they were reasonable papers.
05:58It seemed like it's pretty safe.
06:00And is it specifically for like your motor ticks or will it also help your vocal ticks as well?
06:07I don't think so, but why not try it?
06:10I could be so wrong.
06:11You know, maybe it would help the hitting ticks.
06:12Mm-hmm.
06:12That would be good.
06:13That's what we were hoping.
06:15The NuPulse bracelet is different from deep brain stimulation, which we decided wasn't going to be helpful for her.
06:21It doesn't require surgery.
06:23It's something you just put on your wrist.
06:24Mm-hmm.
06:26For someone with bad ticks, if NuPulse helps those ticks, it can be life-changing.
06:31They'll go out more.
06:32They can do more activities.
06:34They may not injure themselves as often.
06:35Well, I would love to try this device.
06:40Yeah.
06:41It's not available here.
06:42If you did want to try it, you'd have to go to the UK, I'm afraid.
06:46Yeah.
06:49We're definitely going to have to like talk about it.
06:52Yeah.
06:54Okay, so I'll prescribe that GLP-1 agonist and we can talk about how to administer it.
06:59I actually do have one more question.
07:02If we plan on having a family and having kids, the medications that she's on right now, how is that going to affect her during pregnancy if she would have to get off of any or get on new ones?
07:19It's definitely something we can talk about and think a lot about, but the meds that you're on, I think, are okay.
07:26Okay.
07:28No more baby questions.
07:29No more baby questions.
07:32Balen had said that she's done having the conversation about kids, but I wasn't bringing it up to her.
07:38I was bringing it up to the doctor and it wasn't about kids.
07:41It was about being pregnant.
07:44So a little bit different.
07:46Oh, yeah.
07:47Huge difference.
07:49Huge.
07:50Sometimes it's just like, no means no.
07:54Are you ready?
07:55Yeah, I'm ready to go.
07:56Okay.
07:57Thank you so much.
07:58Yeah, thank you.
07:58Yeah, it's great to see you both.
07:59It was nice to meet you.
08:01I know.
08:02It was really nice to be a part of Balen's neurologist appointment.
08:06It was really cool to learn the ins and outs, and I would love to be able to come to more of these appointments.
08:12Let me stop and got these umbrellas in case it rains.
08:21Yeah, because it does look like it is about to rain.
08:23It's very...
08:24I can take it.
08:26Sweet.
08:27Very pretty city, though.
08:28It is.
08:29You know, just chill right here and take in this view.
08:32I'd love to.
08:33I'd love to.
08:34You bald bitch.
08:35Do the bald people have to stand right there?
08:37Bald bitch.
08:38Oh, my God.
08:40Damn.
08:41He has the biggest mustache I've ever seen in my entire life.
08:44That's a squirrel.
08:46Oh, my God.
08:47When I tick at random strangers, it can feel annoying.
08:53You little wanker.
08:55You little wanker.
08:57In all Nantucket, they are wankers.
09:00Nantucket?
09:01Nantucket.
09:01There's a boat over there that says Nantucket.
09:03What do you want me to do?
09:04Everything's in my peripheral.
09:05Everybody's screwed right now.
09:07But, like, sometimes you just can't help it.
09:09Sometimes it's just like, what the f*** do we have going on here?
09:14I really like Alice.
09:15She's really smart.
09:17She's heard about New Pulse.
09:18Isn't that exciting?
09:19It's really nice that she is saying, hey, it's not going to hurt.
09:22Right?
09:22But then there's also, like, the flip side of it is, like, it's not going to hurt, but
09:25you've got to go all the way to the U.K.
09:27Yeah.
09:27It's starting to rain.
09:30All right.
09:30Oh, they're minis.
09:31Oh, all right.
09:33I feel like I'm in the U.K. right now.
09:36Hello.
09:36Hello.
09:37I'll be speaking in a British accent the entire time we're over there if we go.
09:41Yeah.
09:42But in reality, hopping on a plane and leaving tomorrow isn't, like, our best,
09:47bet with wedding planning and saving money.
09:50Devices that can help reduce ticks don't come around often.
09:54But money isn't the only obstacle with a trip like this.
09:58You're winning!
09:59Mother f***.
10:00I have never gone to that part of the world, so who really knows how my ticks will be triggered
10:05there.
10:06Plus, Colin's going to have to get time off of work.
10:09I'm going to have to get a passport.
10:10And there is my struggle with plane travel.
10:13I'm worried about the flight.
10:17Like, whenever I navigate the airport is when I'm the most anxious.
10:21Yeah.
10:21And it's not...
10:22For me, I'm anxious when we take off.
10:24But also, I don't like the idea of flying over water the entire time.
10:29So you're actually more nervous than me to fly?
10:32Yeah.
10:33Do you know how many planes go missing just poof when they're flying over water?
10:37I don't like that.
10:38Why are we talking about this right now?
10:40I'm just saying.
10:41You're not helping my anxiety at all.
10:43Well, that's where my anxiety is.
10:44Okay, that's great.
10:45Suck it back in.
10:47I've known that Colin has flight anxiety.
10:49It's not new to me.
10:50Because when me and Colin took a trip to LA, Colin's anxiety on that flight was terrible.
10:57Yeah, but I feel like I can hold myself together to the point where I'm not making Balen's
11:02anxiety, like, really bad.
11:03But, I mean, at the end of the day, I'm still going to have anxiety about it.
11:06Like, that's literally how planes go missing.
11:09They crash on the water.
11:10Here we go.
11:11Here we go.
11:12Here we go.
11:14You can't even hold it together right now.
11:17Oh, my God.
11:18Anyway, we still haven't even heard back about our budget regarding the wedding.
11:22So, I mean, I think it would be kind of irrational to go ahead and fly over to the UK.
11:27Oh, yeah, completely.
11:28I know.
11:29And I don't think...
11:30I just think that I'm going to bring it up to my mom, let her know about how the conversation
11:33went, her and my dad, because they would know best, and just kind of see what their advice
11:40and what they would kind of say to go from there.
11:42Yeah.
11:43It's fine with me.
11:45If this device actually works for Balen, it would be a complete game changer for her.
11:50But taking a trip to the UK is not the most realistic thing to do right now.
11:58Eat a bag of dicks.
12:01There's really not a safe place on a golf course around Balen.
12:06Just tap it in.
12:08Miss it, bitch.
12:10Hmm.
12:11Hmm.
12:13It was a really good trip.
12:14Did you bring up the new pulse to her?
12:17Yes, I did.
12:18And she gave it a go.
12:19So I don't think I realized how much I actually want this until this moment.
12:37Me and Colin got back from Boston yesterday, and I'm at my parents to pick up the dogs because
12:43my parents were pet sitting.
12:44But first, my brothers offered to help me with a little problem I have.
12:50Okay, who's helping me?
12:52Hey, bae.
12:52What's up?
12:53I'm going golfing with Colin, and I need help with my swing.
12:56Colin's meeting up with an old friend later this week, and we'll be playing golf with him.
13:01I'm not good.
13:02I probably need the most help with driving.
13:08Back.
13:09I don't want to get hit in the teeth.
13:12In the past, my tics have definitely interfered with me golfing.
13:14I've thrown the club a couple times.
13:16I like to eat the ball, throw the ball.
13:18You're taking, so you have to put it in your mouth.
13:20And you can put it in there?
13:20No, I just shoot it out.
13:21Oh, so you just put it in.
13:23Mm-hmm.
13:24Isn't it supposed to be like a fist away?
13:29Fist away?
13:29I don't know.
13:31Don't you guys golf?
13:32Yeah, but I just go up there and hit.
13:34I'm naturally good at everything I do.
13:35Congrats.
13:37I'm not.
13:38So am I, by the way.
13:39No, you're not.
13:40Yes, I am.
13:42Holy damn.
13:43This is going to hit me on the golf course.
13:46All right, bae, let me see that club.
13:47You can learn from the best over here.
13:50Beckner, who's the best golfer in the family?
13:51Um, probably Sven.
13:55This one's for a scholarship.
13:57Yeah.
13:59I don't know what you're talking about.
14:00Oh, good shot.
14:03Holy.
14:04I'm going over here to hit it now.
14:06What does it take to be a good golfer?
14:08Endurance.
14:09Endurance.
14:10Confidence.
14:11What?
14:11You swing one club and then you just pick up and walk.
14:13That's not endurance.
14:14Yeah, but you've got to do the same thing for the next time,
14:18and it has to be just as good.
14:19So consistency, not endurance.
14:23What an endurance thing.
14:25I don't know.
14:29There it is.
14:30That's a good shot.
14:30That was a good hit.
14:31Sweet.
14:32There we go.
14:33You all have a good night and a good day.
14:36I'm out.
14:42When you know what, I'm literally going to hurt you.
14:46Is that poison ivy?
14:48No.
14:48It's shiny.
14:49Okay.
14:50There are wider leaves.
14:51There are three.
14:53Hi!
14:54What are you doing?
14:56Your mother's learning about yard care.
14:59Yeah, make sure that's closed.
15:00Oh, my goodness!
15:02Hi, everybody!
15:03Do they look heavier?
15:04Hi, Becca!
15:05Thank you guys for watching them.
15:07It was a really good trip, not going to lie.
15:15What did you learn with, like, your medicine and the unintended weight pain?
15:22And she told me that everyone that experiences this specific type of side effect with this
15:28specific type of medicine, she prescribes a GLP-1.
15:32And I'm like, okay, sick.
15:35Give me it.
15:36In the past, Balin has actually stopped taking certain medications because they've caused
15:41her to gain weight.
15:42So I'm essentially comfortable with Balin taking this GLP-1 because she can stay on the
15:48mood stabilizer, which is actually working that she needs to stay on.
15:53More importantly, what I'm aching to get to is, did you bring up the new pulse to her?
15:59Yes, I did.
16:00And she gave it a go.
16:02Like a go-go?
16:03Like what?
16:03Like she's looked at clinical studies, she's read things, and dick, and then talk at the
16:08old wankers.
16:09I picked that up in Boston.
16:10What's a wanker?
16:12Masturbator.
16:12Oh, my God.
16:13Lord, help us.
16:15Gosh.
16:19What?
16:20What?
16:21I love it.
16:22I am like numb to the idea of like all her tics at this point.
16:26Like nothing's off limits.
16:29Just nothing.
16:30Okay.
16:31Anyways, moving on.
16:33So she's basically like, give it a go.
16:35Give it a go, except for it's in the UK.
16:38So I'd love to go.
16:41But like with wedding planning right now, it's just not in our budget.
16:45It's just not.
16:46I tend to be the person pushing Balin to explore new treatments.
16:54But I do realize a trip like this could be very challenging.
16:58There's money issues, the logistics of the airport, the length of the flight, and that's if Colin
17:04can get the time off work.
17:06So did you ever say anything to Colin about the possibility that's happening and like...
17:12Who would even go?
17:13Well, I would think you and Colin, right?
17:15Well, speaking of Colin, that man's got flight anxiety.
17:18He has flight anxiety?
17:20Oh, wow.
17:20This is the blind leading the blind.
17:22He needs to be dosed up.
17:24This is...
17:25Okay, there's lots of...
17:25No, there's some things where I'm like...
17:27Isn't he in the air force?
17:28That's not helping my anxiety, babe.
17:30That's not helping it.
17:31I didn't know that about him.
17:33Mm-hmm.
17:33That's fantastic.
17:35Maybe it's just a long flight that he's worried about, an ocean or something.
17:39Yeah.
17:39But I don't know.
17:40I wouldn't join the Navy if I didn't like boats.
17:42I feel so bad for him, but it's like, oh my gosh, how is this going to work?
17:47Because she needs a lot of help when she's traveling.
17:52It's a really cool device.
17:53It would be really awesome if we'd be able to get over there.
17:56To be able to, like, see in that moment how much it helps and how much it doesn't is...
18:01Oh, it'd be like the opportunity of a lifetime.
18:04Yeah.
18:06I don't think I realize how much I actually want this until this moment.
18:13The device is not available in the U.S. yet, but maybe it will be here before my wedding,
18:18which is, like, 10 months away.
18:19It would be extremely uncomfortable and painful to feel like I have to hold my own tics in on my wedding day.
18:26So I would really like to try it as soon as possible.
18:30Finding out now that it works for me could really ease my anxiety.
18:34But there's a lot of obstacles standing in the way.
18:37I just don't want to get, like, all my hopes up.
18:39I have a gun.
18:45Does it have to be on the front?
18:48You're bald, sir.
18:49Well, I totally get why she wants to go.
18:53Why would we leave any stone unturned at this point?
18:56I have been the one encouraging Balin to check out New Pulse, and I believe it's still worth exploring.
19:03Financially, their wedding's their top priority right now.
19:06You think that they're not going to go?
19:07Yeah.
19:08And I don't want that to happen.
19:09If you get again, if you really want it, you do what you've got to do, we can come to life.
19:22Hey, bitch.
19:28Even though we don't know if we're going to London yet to try the new Pulse device,
19:32I don't want the fact that I don't have a passport to get in the way of that,
19:36especially since they can take a while to get.
19:38So, I decided to take a rideshare today to the closest passport office to get my passport.
19:45I have a gun.
19:47Oh, my God.
19:47Does it have to be on the front?
19:54I have a gun.
19:56Oh, my God.
19:57Unfortunately, the passport office is inside a library.
20:01Silence is a huge trigger for my tics.
20:04I also try to avoid museums, movie theaters, churches, anywhere quiet, basically.
20:13You can catch me not there.
20:16Oh, your nails are so pretty.
20:17Oh, thank you.
20:18Are you here for passports?
20:20Yes, I am here for passports.
20:21Perfect.
20:22Okay.
20:23Dick.
20:23Do you have your picture ID on you?
20:27Thank you, baby.
20:27Let's see.
20:29Oh, no!
20:32The woman that I'm talking to doesn't react to my tics at all, which is really relieving.
20:37If I'm around somebody that doesn't know what Tourette's is, I never know how they will react,
20:42whether laughing, staring, or not knowing what to say.
20:47I have a gun.
20:49Okay.
20:50Let me go make some copies, okay?
20:51Okay, sweet.
20:52Woo-hoo, woo-hoo, woo-hoo, you're bald, sir.
20:56Woo-hoo.
20:57Bitch.
20:57Bitch.
20:58Bitch.
20:59Why don't go to the libraries?
21:01I'm the loudest person in here.
21:05I'm using my C-BIT technique, which is deep breathing and masking.
21:10I like whispering as my favorite masking technique.
21:13I'm going to take your picture, okay?
21:15Do you mind if you give me a countdown before, just because I have Tourette syndrome?
21:19Yeah, of course.
21:19So it's hard for me to...
21:21I'll just make faces the entire time.
21:23Yeah, of course.
21:24Okay, sweet.
21:25I have a gun.
21:28I don't.
21:29You ready?
21:30Mm-hmm.
21:31Three, two, one.
21:34Perfect.
21:35Sweet.
21:35Yay.
21:36Now you can come back over here, okay?
21:38Okay.
21:39My tics were pretty typical today compared to other trips to the library.
21:43Perfect.
21:44Okay.
21:45So, um...
21:47I did break your pen.
21:49That's okay.
21:50Okay.
21:50Who really knows when I'll be able to use this passport, but this is just one more step
21:55on my path to adulting.
21:57All right.
21:58And with that, you are all done.
22:02Thank you so much.
22:02You're welcome.
22:03Have a lovely day.
22:04You too.
22:05Oh, boo-hoo-hoo-hoo-hoo-hoo.
22:09Oh, man!
22:09I have a gun.
22:13God, get me out of here.
22:16We'll never be back.
22:17Just kidding.
22:18I probably will with kids.
22:20That'll be fun.
22:20F*** them kids.
22:23F*** them kids.
22:39Did you get Baylin's text?
22:41No.
22:41She got her passport tonight.
22:44Oh, my gosh.
22:45She didn't waste any time.
22:48Okay.
22:49Well, that's good.
22:50I'm sure it's not an easy process for her to go do that, especially if she had to go do
22:55it by herself.
22:55A couple days ago, Baylin's neurologist gave her the go-ahead to try the NuPulse device,
23:03but it's in England.
23:05The fact that Baylin went and got her passport kind of speaks volumes about her ambition to
23:11really want to figure something out.
23:14Well, I totally get why she wants to go.
23:16Heck, I want her to go.
23:18Why would we leave any stone unturned at this point, right?
23:21We've come this far.
23:22Well, financially, their wedding to them is their top priority right now.
23:26So you think that they're not going to go?
23:29Yeah.
23:30And I don't want that to happen.
23:32I'm in the way for...
23:35I mean, I'm willing to throw some of our money at this to make this happen right away.
23:42Yeah, I would love to be able to take that burden out of the equation for Bay and Colin.
23:49But I don't know.
23:50There's so many what-ifs and ambiguity to it, too.
23:54Even if it worked, it's not like you couldn't even leave there with it.
23:57So that's where I'm like, that's where the balancing comes in.
23:59It's like, you have to weigh it.
24:01Like, you have other kids and family to worry about.
24:03And I know that her health is still a priority in our lives.
24:07But you still have to objectively stand back and say,
24:10could the good here outweigh the bad?
24:14I have been the one encouraging Baylin to check out New Pulse.
24:20And I believe it's still worth exploring.
24:22But I have to remind myself that we are a one-income household.
24:25And we do have five other children that we support.
24:29I mean, over the years, to help Baylin with her care,
24:34the sacrifices that we've made are endless.
24:37It's uncountable, honestly.
24:40Sometimes the other kids have kind of went without.
24:44But on the flip side, she has such strong tics and loud tics.
24:49Quite honestly, her Tourette has stripped her of the experiences
24:55that some of us take for granted, like church and the movies
24:59and quiet place experiences, because she feels like a social outcast.
25:06Even if Baylin can't bring the device home with her,
25:09the intrinsic reward of it is knowing that it would provide her hope if it worked.
25:14There's no means that I wouldn't go to to provide my kid with that.
25:20I just think, you want to go to bed every night for the next 10 years
25:26wondering if something would have worked or not?
25:28Or do you want an answer?
25:29Of course I want an answer.
25:31And to be honest, I kind of want to be there for the test.
25:35And I know that they want to kind of forge their own path together.
25:39But this is completely uncharted territory.
25:42So I would love if she would feel comfortable
25:45for us to experience this together.
25:49But I don't want to feel like weird about it.
25:50Like, oh, we're inviting ourselves.
25:53Like, we're going with you.
25:54Like, sorry, this is a family thing.
25:56I want her to be.
25:57No, you invite her.
25:57You've who?
25:58Let's go on a trip there.
26:00Oh.
26:01We make it as an invite to her.
26:05Like, hey, we would like to do this for you.
26:08We can even take the boys with us.
26:10Mm-hmm.
26:11Give them an experience.
26:13Hmm.
26:13I love that idea.
26:19If we can figure out how to do it.
26:22If we're going to go big, we might as well go big.
26:24We have never been to the UK before.
26:26And they've been on Balen's journey with her.
26:29They've been alongside for this whole roller coaster.
26:32And it also provides us a way to support her
26:34because it's so unpredictable.
26:36You have no idea how much stress or anxiety
26:38or how much she's going to hold back her tics.
26:41And then eventually it comes crumbling down
26:43and she could be in the fetal position
26:45and she spends the entire trip trying to recover
26:48only to get back on a flight and come all the way back.
26:51I mean, it's not just the financial aspect of it.
26:54It's the travel.
26:55Yeah.
26:56I'd rather join them at this point anyways
26:58after hearing that Colin also has some
27:01flying anxiety.
27:03Like, the travel piece of it could be a huge hurdle.
27:07Not saying that they couldn't do it together,
27:09but anytime that people are willing to support you,
27:12you should welcome that.
27:15All right.
27:17I'm going to, uh, I think it's a go.
27:19Don't put it out there until we know 100%
27:21we can make it work
27:22because I don't want to give her any false hope.
27:24Like, you've got to figure out vacation time.
27:26I've got to figure out what works for the boys,
27:28for school, budget.
27:29We have a lot to figure out
27:31in order to really make this come to life.
27:38So I've been planning a major career move
27:42and going into real estate.
27:43More than 80% of people
27:45who get their real estate license stop,
27:47you know, in less than five years.
27:49There is so much potential to succeed in this field,
27:52but there's even more potential to fail.
27:59So I've been planning a major career move
28:16and going into real estate
28:17when I get out of the military.
28:19An old friend of mine, Josh,
28:21is actually in real estate in Myrtle Beach,
28:23and him and his colleague Nick
28:25are in town for some business,
28:27and they invited Balen and I
28:29to come play golf with them.
28:31Oh.
28:32I'm excited, but I'm also very nervous
28:34because this is only my second time
28:36on a real golf course.
28:37Oh.
28:38Compared to, like, mini golf or the range.
28:41Your head's got to be on a swivel.
28:42Actually, there was one time
28:43where me and Colin went to the golfing range
28:45and he was sitting behind me
28:47and the ball went backwards
28:48and almost hit him.
28:49There's really not a safe place
28:51on a golf course around Balen.
28:54Is there something I should know
28:56before Josh and Nick get here?
28:57Like, is one of them bald?
29:00I don't think so.
29:01Oh, there's Josh.
29:02Hi.
29:03Hi.
29:04Either one of them are bald.
29:06I told you.
29:07What's up, man?
29:08How are you, man?
29:09Good to see you.
29:10Good to see you.
29:11Hi, I'm Josh.
29:11Can I give you a hug?
29:12Nice to meet you.
29:12Nice to meet you.
29:14I've known Colin for over 10 years.
29:16I was his youth pastor
29:17when he was in middle school
29:19and he reached out
29:20knowing that we had
29:22our own real estate company.
29:23Let's go play a few holes.
29:24Let's do it.
29:25All right, let's do it.
29:31Rollercoaster.
29:32Be careful.
29:33Oh, are we seeing a break?
29:34Oh, oh.
29:35That don't sound good.
29:38We made it across.
29:40Eat a bag of debts.
29:42Oh, we got a beautiful day to golf.
29:46Nice wind.
29:47Yep.
29:50Just tapping it.
29:52Just tapping it.
29:54Miss it, bitch.
29:55I was a little nervous to meet Valen
30:02in person for the first time today
30:03because I have never met someone with Tourette's.
30:06Yeah.
30:06I had not met anyone with Tourette's before.
30:08So it caught me a little off guard
30:09when Josh first got up there.
30:10What she said on his backswing
30:11was pretty funny
30:12and I had to hold it in.
30:14Not to laugh.
30:15Oh, what a shot.
30:24Miss it, bitch.
30:27Oh, baby.
30:28That might be on the green.
30:28Good looking ball, too.
30:29Oh, my gosh.
30:31I might be in trouble here.
30:35Miss it, bitch.
30:36That's in the water.
30:42Oh.
30:43Well, there's no pressure on Valen.
30:45She can't do worse than Colin.
30:47I'm just going to move up.
31:10Oh, you're close to the fairway now.
31:12Here we go.
31:15Oh, my God.
31:16We're going to get there by next year.
31:18Oh, man.
31:22Oh.
31:23Water ball.
31:24That was better contact.
31:25Yep.
31:27Maybe I just need to get a little warmed up,
31:29a little wrist flicking,
31:31making sure the swing is good.
31:32It comes up.
31:34Ooh, ooh, ooh.
31:39Yeah, there you go.
31:41Sweet.
31:41There we go.
31:42Keep going, ball.
31:46Just topped it.
31:48Yep.
31:48It's OK.
31:49You want to drive up to my ball?
31:50It's five feet.
31:52Sure.
31:53I'm walking mine off.
31:53Which one?
31:54How do you use this thing, though?
31:55What's this for?
31:57It's reverse.
31:57You don't use that.
31:58OK, so all I do is...
31:59Right is gas, left is brake.
32:05Wait, Colin, why is...
32:06Turn the wheel.
32:06Turn the wheel.
32:07Why is...
32:07Turn the wheel.
32:07Turn the wheel.
32:08This way?
32:08Yep, and then press the gas.
32:11There you go.
32:11Now straighten it out.
32:12Straighten it out.
32:14There you go.
32:17Sorry, I almost took you guys out.
32:19Press, press brake, press brake, press brake, and then push right here.
32:22Yep, push down all the way.
32:27No, I've never driven a golf cart in my entire life.
32:31It's the same as a car.
32:33I don't drive cars either.
32:36So thank you for that, but in one year, out the other.
32:40So how'd you get so good at golf?
32:42He plays every day.
32:44I wish.
32:45Definitely real estate, you get to play golf, you know, often.
32:47Josh was telling me you're thinking about getting the real estate.
32:51Yeah, I am.
32:51Awesome.
32:52I think what really intrigues me about it is, like,
32:55the amount of success that you have in real estate
32:58is based off of the amount of effort that you put in.
33:00No, there's no ceiling where you can make,
33:02but especially in the beginning, it's a grind.
33:04The top three things that we see that attract people to real estate
33:07are freedom of their time, unlimited income potential,
33:11and they get to be their own boss.
33:12But there's a lot that goes into it.
33:13It is a five- or six-day-a-week job from day one.
33:19You have to be available,
33:21and that's why it's really important
33:22that both of you are on the same page as well.
33:25He's going to be away a lot.
33:26He might be on showings, weekends,
33:28he'll be running open houses,
33:29running outside, you know, for phone calls,
33:31different things like that.
33:31So it really helps if, you know,
33:33you're supportive with that, that he's going to be busy.
33:35And on his phone a lot, probably.
33:37But it's really important that you can get well.
33:41Holy s**t.
33:42It sounds way longer than a nine-to-five job.
33:47Colin's been talking about starting a family soon,
33:49but I don't want to be alone 24-7 all day, every day,
33:54with an infant.
33:56Yeah, but even hearing the nitty-gritty parts
33:59that Josh and Nick are telling me,
34:01it just comes down to it being something of mine,
34:05and I'm putting all of this hard work
34:09and effort into my business, into my name,
34:13and that will give me a lot of satisfaction
34:16at the end of the day.
34:19It's a lot of work,
34:21and you might show 20 properties
34:22to a couple over seven days,
34:24and then they choose to buy in another area.
34:26It's also, it's tough to kind of get over,
34:29you know, you could go three, six months
34:30without a paycheck.
34:31And, you know, as a realtor,
34:34you're an independent contractor,
34:36and so health care can be challenging.
34:40So more than 80% of people
34:42who get their real estate license stop,
34:44you know, in less than five years.
34:46Yeah.
34:48If anything, that statistic gives me motivation.
34:50Like, I kind of like when odds are betting against me
34:53so that I can just prove people wrong.
34:56Knowing that only 20% of people in real estate make it
35:00really makes me worried for Colin
35:01because there is so much potential to succeed in this field,
35:05but there's even more potential to fail.
35:08Also, there is no health insurance and no benefits.
35:11My parents told Colin that he needs a backup plan,
35:14and I'm starting to think he's going to need a backup plan too.
35:25Did either one of you guys have a backup plan?
35:27Not really.
35:29I just said, I'm going to do this and make it work, you know?
35:32I did not either.
35:34You have to be all in.
35:35You know, it's tough if you have a side job or something else.
35:38Like, it has to be what your priority is.
35:43Yeah.
35:44I know that Alan and Julie want me to have a backup plan
35:47going into real estate,
35:48but listening to Josh and Nick makes me think I don't need one.
35:52If I have a backup plan, it's already introduced...
35:56Backup dick!
35:57I can't let myself off the hook in case things get hard.
36:01So that's official then? No backup plan?
36:03Yeah, it's official.
36:06You want to be around the right people, the right company.
36:09I mean, we have a great company that really focuses on new agents.
36:12You know, kind of giving you a blueprint
36:13on how to be successful in this business, you know?
36:16Yeah.
36:16You should come down to Myrtle Beach to check out our office
36:19and allow us to be able to introduce you to some of the agents
36:21and be able to show you a lot of the training that takes place
36:25and what a day-to-day life would look like.
36:29Yeah, we'll have to figure out a time for me to come down there.
36:33With everything that's going on in our lives right now,
36:35I don't know when I'll get the opportunity to go down to Myrtle Beach,
36:39but it is an amazing offer,
36:41and I'm feeling really good about this opportunity.
36:44I'm glad you are.
36:45All I hear about is long nights, hard days, long hours.
36:50You'll never be home.
36:53Yay.
36:53I'll be out there golfing.
36:56So should we get back to the game?
36:58Yeah, let's do it.
36:59Sweet.
36:59Awesome.
37:00Oh, we got a couple missed calls from Alan.
37:13What do you think, Alan?
37:13I've got a couple missed calls from my dad.
37:15What do you think he wants?
37:16I don't know.
37:16Do you care if we call him?
37:17That's fine.
37:18Okay, sweet.
37:21Oh.
37:21Hey.
37:24What's up, Dad?
37:25I've been talking with your mom,
37:27and I know you guys are saving for your wedding.
37:31But going to the UK to try the new Pulse device is a must.
37:35So we're going to pay for you to go.
37:38Oh, my God.
37:38Really?
37:39Yeah.
37:40Thank you so much.
37:41It's exciting.
37:42Yeah, thank you, guys.
37:44Hello.
37:44Hello.
37:45I'm so excited.
37:46I'm so excited that my parents were able to make this work for me and Colin,
37:51and I couldn't be any more grateful.
37:54There's one more thing.
37:56We're going to go with you and bring Sven, Vic, and Beckner.
38:00That's kind of cool that it's going to be like a little family vacay
38:03mixed with a little, like, doctor's appointment.
38:06Well, really the main focus is for you and to make you comfortable traveling.
38:10You don't feel alone, and we don't want to put Colin in a spot either.
38:14Well, thank you guys for making a decision for everyone to go.
38:18It's worth it.
38:18It's just a small investment in your health.
38:21I love you, Dad.
38:22Thank you so much for letting us know the big news.
38:24Bye.
38:25All right.
38:25Bye.
38:26We're going to London.
38:28Yeah, we are.
38:29And I.
38:29Are you excited for the whole family to go?
38:32Yeah.
38:34I've never flown out of the country.
38:36Yeah.
38:36So at least they're there to help us, guide us through.
38:39Yeah.
38:40It would have been a fun trip for Balin and I by ourselves,
38:45but it also would have been a little bit scary at the same time
38:49because I haven't been out of the country in, like, 10 years.
38:53She hasn't been out of the country,
38:55and neither one of us have ever been to that part of the world, so.
39:00Do you think they trust us to go alone?
39:03I don't know.
39:04That's a question I was going to ask you.
39:05Like, does your parents not...
39:07Can you stop doing golf while we're trying to talk serious right now?
39:10It's making me want to sway.
39:11Okay.
39:12Yeah, that's amazing that they're offering to fund it
39:15and, you know, help us get there,
39:16but does your dad or parents not trust me
39:21to be able to handle the health, you know, appointments,
39:25doctor's appointments?
39:26We're literally about to...
39:28Be married.
39:29I see where you're coming from,
39:31but I personally don't think it has anything against you or me.
39:37I just think they've always been invested
39:39and always have been there for my health,
39:41and this is huge.
39:43Like, this is a really, really big deal
39:45to go there and try on a device
39:46and see if it works,
39:48because this could be life-changing.
39:50Like, maybe my parents just want to be there
39:51to suck to witness that
39:54right there in front of their eyes.
39:55I can just see it being a trip
39:58for all of us to remember.
40:01I'm super grateful that Alan and Julie
40:03have offered to pay for this trip to London,
40:06but I can't help but to feel like
40:08Julie and Alan don't fully trust me.
40:12It's gonna be a little upsetting.
40:14Yeah.
40:16We've been dating for over two years,
40:18and I've helped Balen through some really tough times,
40:21but even then, it still feels like
40:23no matter what I do,
40:25it's just not enough for them.
40:31Colin!
40:33That should be enough!
40:36Go in there for a week, not a month.
40:38We are going to London, England,
40:40and I am so excited.
40:42What are you looking forward to the most?
40:45Scones, tea, crumpets.
40:47I was talking about adventures.
40:48I wasn't talking about food.
40:49What age can you get a tattoo in London?
40:52This is gonna be epic.
40:53I have always had anxiety about flying.
40:57I guess I'm slightly concerned
40:59that nervous energy pours over onto her.
41:02Holy crap, that's a lot of people in there.
41:05You're not helping.
41:06Sorry.
41:07Oh, my God, something's going on.
41:12The airport's just a tick disaster.
41:15I just really need to get through this
41:17as quickly as possible.
41:18Is there anyone behind us?
41:19Yes.
41:19Because my legs are locked.
41:20Yeah.
41:20We got a long way to go, Balin.
41:23We got a long way to go, Balin.
41:24You
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