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00:00I got a nice little pop-up tent, should be nice and easy.
00:14Bye, Nani.
00:16I can hear him as my daughter saying,
00:18don't be the crazy cat lady.
00:19Bye, sweetie.
00:21Today is the day, surgery day.
00:23Ready to go.
00:24See you then.
00:26Pumpkin patch seems a bit weird.
00:30For a date, let's do this.
00:33I am on my way to my date from the matchmaker's office and I am so nervous.
00:42How are you?
00:44Good to see you.
00:46This is Matthew.
00:48First thing that is really striking me is I've got like this long hair.
00:52Is that a wig?
00:54Look at Matthew's hair is still perfect.
00:55Mine's not.
00:56It's blown all over the place.
00:57So, Tyrae, just to go over, we're having the lathroscopic vertical sleeve procedure.
01:03Yeah, that's right.
01:04Yeah.
01:04I've been overweight my entire life and I feel like surgery is the only route that I could
01:10take that would help me lose weight.
01:11So, for the surgery, we do five incisions, four across the abdomen, one on top.
01:15Okay.
01:16And then I get to cut out and remove part of your stomach.
01:18I'm about to get my stomach chopped in half and I'm scared.
01:22I love the new sunglasses.
01:27I'm sure they serve their purpose.
01:29What are you talking about?
01:30You didn't have that girl or anything?
01:32It's been tense with my fiancee, Megan.
01:34If I'm looking at another girl, I'm cheating.
01:37You have my location.
01:38I'm wearing this ring.
01:39You're telling me I'm doing all the that I'm not doing.
01:41I feel like it's always excuses.
01:43Excuses?
01:44Guess what, lady?
01:45This is what I think about your excuses right here.
01:47See if the ring's gone.
02:12What'd you say?
02:15Thanks for the new film.
02:16Come on.
02:18What the is going on in here?
02:19Some of us are actually working.
02:22I'm John.
02:23I'm 41 years old, originally from Massachusetts.
02:28I'm Megan.
02:28I'm 36 years old from San Antonio, Texas.
02:36Our story began when I was lucky enough to catch a message from this beautiful woman right here who,
02:42you know, used God's gift to tempt Johnny and, you know, it worked.
02:46That's my heart.
02:51After chatting with Megan for about four months,
02:54I went down to San Antonio and we got to hang out and get to know each other and it was good.
02:58I think it went well physically.
03:00I think we had good sex.
03:02Good sex helps.
03:03Next thing you know, I'm moving down to San Antonio to be with Megan and her daughter, River.
03:11And now I'm the family man.
03:13After a few months, Megan was looking for me to make a bigger move.
03:16In three months, it's almost going to be a year.
03:19So I would hope that you were wanting some kind of commitment as far as like a ring or something.
03:24But I have no doubt about who I want to spend the rest of my life with.
03:28That's you guys.
03:31So I decided to take the hint and, you know, make the move at the tell-all.
03:35My timeline, well, you know, you know, it's like whenever it happens, you know what I'm saying?
03:39Because right now, baby, will you do me the honors of being my wife?
03:46I love you.
03:47Love you, babe.
03:49We've been engaged two short years.
03:52And we're still not married.
03:54I mean, it's been tense.
03:55We've been fighting a lot.
03:57We haven't seen eye to eye a lot lately, but we're still here together.
04:02Still holding strong.
04:03That gives me hope.
04:08Look, let's go see.
04:09Hey, babe.
04:09Hey, babe.
04:10What are you doing?
04:11What?
04:12What are you doing?
04:13I see that you're working very hard.
04:14Let me show everybody how great you look.
04:18This is my beautiful fiancée.
04:20Hi.
04:21This is your little setup.
04:22Let's take a look.
04:23Oh, yeah.
04:23No, look.
04:24Come to my office.
04:25Welcome to my office.
04:26Take a look.
04:27I got a facility right here.
04:29It's ready to go.
04:30Well, the good news is you don't have to go find a , right?
04:34Oh, yeah.
04:34No, it definitely saves me time.
04:36So I was in a car accident,
04:38which was really scary.
04:40And I ended up suffering from some, like, mild concussions,
04:43some cognitive issues.
04:45I've just been having some, like, PTSD and sensory sensitivity.
04:50This little closet right here is soundproof.
04:53Soundproof?
04:53Soundproof?
04:54I pretty much set up my stuff in our walk-in bathroom for noise control,
04:59because that's one of my sensory issues.
05:01You know, it's for the best in my interest, you know,
05:03even though it might not be the best for him.
05:04I love it.
05:10I got to get done working, and I got to get this done,
05:13and then we can enjoy our time.
05:15We have a little getaway.
05:17Hopefully, you know, we get some alone time.
05:20Oh, yeah.
05:20We're going to get some alone time, honey.
05:21Hopefully.
05:22Let's try and make sure it's a positive, positive trip.
05:26It takes two to do that, though.
05:27Oh, yeah.
05:28It takes two to do that, though.
05:28It takes two to do that, though.
05:29Oh, yeah, for sure.
05:30So not just me.
05:30You, too.
05:31Right, exactly.
05:32So while I'm working,
05:33So while you're working, why don't you work?
05:35And I will go do my thing.
05:38Megan and I are heading to Sal Padre Island for some relaxation,
05:42but more importantly, to work on our relationship.
05:44I'm hoping we can get back to, like, smiling at each other,
05:47laughing with each other, having a good time with each other.
05:50I can't wait for this.
05:51Okay.
05:53Yes, I'm ready, too.
05:57I hope there's a lot of alcohol,
05:59because I'm going to need a lot of alcohol.
06:00Let me call Patrick, see if he's around.
06:18What's up, bro?
06:19What's up?
06:20I'm trying to get some video game action going on, you know?
06:24I'd like to let out some frustration, you know what I'm saying?
06:26I got a trip with Megan.
06:28This is our trip to try to, you know, make things better,
06:32and try to, like, work on us.
06:34We fight every night.
06:37It's the trust issues.
06:38It's the, you know, accusations.
06:40I'm talking to someone.
06:41I'm cheating on her.
06:43I'm doing something.
06:44It's not good, you know?
06:46This is just like, I'm sleeping on the couch every night,
06:48because we're fighting every night.
06:50No, your situation is horrible.
06:53We've had these issues for a while now,
06:54but it's gotten even worse.
06:56If I'm looking at another girl, I'm cheating.
06:59If I'm so much as talking to another girl, I'm cheating.
07:02I have to share my location all the time, where I am, who I'm texting.
07:06And worst of all, I have to wear an engagement ring because,
07:09you know, she thinks it's going to keep women from hitting on me.
07:12And, you know, it's taxing.
07:14I mean, you guys are engaged now.
07:18Like, I don't know how you can make it more clear that you're not other girls.
07:23You don't want to take the next step if things aren't resolved,
07:27because that never works.
07:28I will not.
07:31I'm just going to let you go, bro.
07:32And I will go get stuff packing.
07:36So we're going to South Padre.
07:47Got all this stuff ready.
07:48Finally, let's see how long we can make this.
07:50Let's go on a five-hour drive.
07:51Yeah, like, four and a half hours.
07:52Five hours.
07:54Let's go.
07:55I'm just looking forward to the destinations that we'll see.
08:01Things have been really tense lately.
08:03It's just frustrating because John's saying that we would be married within,
08:07like, two years.
08:08So I'm like, clock's ticking and still nothing.
08:12I don't know, like, does he not want to marry me?
08:14Like, does he want somebody else?
08:16I'm really hoping that we can work on our issues just to really see if, like,
08:20we even do have a future together.
08:25And we're on set.
08:30Ready?
08:30All right.
08:31Well, I guess I'll catch you guys later.
08:33And we're going to start our adventure.
08:36Oh, I'm so sorry.
08:37Woo!
08:38Woo!
08:41Wee-hee!
08:41Hey!
08:42South Padre.
08:43South Padre heaven.
08:44Look at the beach.
08:49She's smiling.
08:50She's in a good mood.
08:51I'm in a good mood.
08:52So, so far, I think, you know,
08:54I think we're onto something there.
08:57We made it!
08:57Woo-hoo-hoo!
08:59Oh, isn't this nice, huh?
09:03All right, excited.
09:04Just got to keep that mouth shut.
09:05Oh, no, honey.
09:06That's not going to happen, so we've got to figure something out.
09:09But this, never be quiet.
09:11Ever.
09:13All right.
09:20Well, now Megan's going to take a little bit, so I figured Johnny will get the tent set up.
09:25I got a nice little pop-up tent.
09:27Should be nice and easy.
09:28Hopefully, it better be nice and easy.
09:29Look at that, huh?
09:32Look at this dude.
09:33Woo!
09:34In the description when I bought this online, supposedly, he had this toxin in the air.
09:39This thing won't open up, so we'll find out.
09:41Well, don't fail me, buddy.
09:43It works!
10:04Oh, look who I found!
10:06Hello, beautiful.
10:08Look at my gorgeous face.
10:10Let's see what's getting ready.
10:14Now, what we have in store for us is, you know, a nice, beautiful day on the beach.
10:19Now, look at that!
10:30Hey, babes!
10:31Hi!
10:31Come on, we're here together in this beautiful, beautiful situation.
10:36So beautiful.
10:37They're not as beautiful as you both, you know what I mean, right?
10:41I love the nude black glasses.
10:42Yeah, yeah.
10:43I'm sure they serve their purpose.
10:44What are you talking about?
10:45Wow.
10:46Are you?
10:47Look at you.
10:48What?
10:49Oh, look at you.
10:49You look at that fat girl, are they?
10:51I know what these glasses are for.
10:52Look at them.
10:53A little slime on the...
10:54What are you talking about?
10:55You're sly, aren't you?
10:56What are you talking about?
10:57I'm not here because I'm, like, trying to cover my eyes.
11:04It's a sunny day out poolside, all right?
11:07It's not because I'm trying to stare at other women.
11:09At some point, you just got to trust me because this isn't working.
11:12I really just think you're trying to be sneaky, but yeah, no, for sure, protect your eyes.
11:20He's smart, I'll give him that, but he's, uh, he'd be smart and stupid at the same time, so.
11:25Yeah.
11:27Pack.
11:33Beautiful.
11:34Beautiful day.
11:34Good day.
11:35That's a romantic thing, huh?
11:37What a sound.
11:38Nobody in sight, though.
11:39It's place six.
11:41So, apparently, I have something with the coffee lady in this hotel, uh, because I've gone two times.
11:47You know, I love coffee, but apparently, because she's attractive to me younger,
11:52and that's the reason why I'm going after coffee.
11:54Even though I drink coffee every day, every day, but today, I'm a ho.
12:00I can't be in a relationship if there's no trust in everything I do is a question mark.
12:05I think it's time me and Megan have a serious conversation because I can't live like this anymore.
12:14I'm feeling lonely
12:17And I think you could help
12:18I know you won't believe me
12:20If I said how I felt
12:22I'm here in the laundromat.
12:24I'm about to wash a few loads.
12:25I'm feeling it.
12:33What's up, everyone?
12:34It's Tyree, your boy.
12:35I'm 35 years old, and I live in Modesto, California.
12:38And this week, I'm going to be making a huge life change.
12:41I'm going to be having weight loss surgery.
12:43I'm really excited about that.
12:45I have to go and find something to wear for while I'm in the hospital.
12:49So, yeah.
12:53My 90-day journey began once I met someone online named Carmella.
12:57I quickly fell in love, and then I ended up finding out that Carmella wasn't who she said she was.
13:09The person you've been messaging with for the last several years is not the same woman in the pictures and videos.
13:22Wow.
13:22She was actually a man named Christian who had been catfishing me for four years.
13:27It took a while for me to accept that the girl that I fell in love with did not exist.
13:33I just thought the worst about dating after the whole Carmella situation.
13:37Hell yeah, Simon.
13:40Cheers.
13:40So, me and my brothers ended up going to New Orleans just because we thought it would be,
13:45you know, a fun time and good vibes.
13:46That's all you got to do, brother.
13:48Confident.
13:49I could have got the number right down.
13:50You could have.
13:50And while in New Orleans, I ended up meeting a girl named Shannon.
13:55I don't know what to do.
13:56I ended up meeting up again at the tell-all where she gave me my first kiss.
14:00I don't care.
14:01I did want to hang out with her more.
14:04But unfortunately, I live in Modesto and she lives five hours away in Los Angeles.
14:11I plan on moving to San Diego after the surgery to be closer to her.
14:14So, hopefully, that's going to be happening really soon.
14:18I always do this to get it off of here.
14:20I'm talking to myself when it walks by.
14:23Let me turn this off.
14:25I made it to the hospital for my pre-surgery testing.
14:37Look at this beautiful view of the rain.
14:41My weight loss surgery is next week.
14:42Today, I'm going to the doctor for my final check-in.
14:45I'm super nervous because it is my last weigh-in before surgery.
14:48My first visit with the bariatric clinic, I was advised to lose 20 pounds.
15:01But honestly, I'm not sure if I did or not.
15:03Just for your piazza to get your weight.
15:06Okay.
15:07What if it's too high and it counts on my surgery?
15:09So, I have a lot of things going on that are making me nervous.
15:26The scale says that I'm 405 pounds,
15:29which is the same amount I was when I first started the whole process.
15:32And we're going to be in this room here.
15:34Okay, thank you.
15:37I'm kind of freaking out.
15:39I don't know if they're going to cancel the surgery,
15:41because I failed to lose any weight at all.
15:44Let me go get Alyssa for you.
15:47Okay, perfect.
15:48All right, thank you.
15:52If I can't get this surgery, I don't know what I'm going to do.
15:56I feel like my weight has been holding me back when it comes to dating and, you know, relationships.
16:02I haven't had a lot of experience with girls.
16:08I'm still a virgin.
16:09And I feel like it is mainly due to my weight.
16:13When it comes to, you know, intimacy, I want the person I'm dating to want and desire me.
16:19You know what I mean?
16:19I want them to like my body.
16:21And I don't think anyone else will like my body if I don't like my body.
16:25I want them to like my body.
16:27Hello.
16:27Hello, hi.
16:28Hi.
16:28Happy pre-op day.
16:29Oh, thank you.
16:31So, Tyree, just to go over, we're having the laparoscopic vertical sleeve procedure in a week.
16:35Yep, that's right.
16:36Yep.
16:37Now, your pre-op weight today was 405 pounds, okay?
16:44Your initial weight was 407 pounds.
16:46Okay.
16:49Okay, with all of our patients, we encourage, obviously, any weight loss before will make the
16:52surgery safer and overall usually more doable.
16:57Okay.
16:57So, that being said, didn't lose necessarily a ton of weight, all right, before.
17:02However, at least we didn't gain weight.
17:04That is important that way.
17:05So, I will give you credit for that.
17:06Okay.
17:07Um, other than that, we'll see you in the morning of surgery.
17:10The hospital is going to let you know what time you need to be there next week, okay?
17:13Okay.
17:13All right.
17:14We're good to hear you.
17:14Appreciate it.
17:15You're welcome.
17:15All right, bye.
17:16Bye.
17:17I got approved for the surgery, but barely.
17:21So, I have to be strong and find the discipline to make changes to my lifestyle and my diet,
17:27so I can reach my weight loss goals.
17:35I got a pizza.
17:37I'm going to bake it for my sister.
17:39She's going to come through.
17:41Yummy.
17:41Looks so good.
17:42It's not for me though.
17:44My sister and my nieces are coming over before my surgery, and I decided to make them some food.
17:50And since tomorrow is my surgery, my dinner is something a little different.
17:54Good old organic broth.
17:56It's yummy.
17:58I'll let it simmer.
18:02Hey.
18:02Hi.
18:03How you guys doing?
18:04Hi, bud.
18:05Hello.
18:06Hey.
18:07Oh, you're tall.
18:08Where are you coming from?
18:09I don't know.
18:11I made some food.
18:12You want some food?
18:13Yeah.
18:14Any drink?
18:14Sure.
18:16Being around family, there is a lot of temptation, and it is hard to stick to a diet.
18:21Okay, wine glass.
18:22Okay.
18:23Yeah, super big.
18:25But I don't want to avoid gatherings just because I'm afraid that I'll cheat on my diet.
18:30I feel bad eating in front of you like this.
18:31Oh, I'm used to it now.
18:33Is that like chicken broth?
18:35Yeah, chicken broth.
18:36Oh.
18:37So how are you feeling about the surgery tomorrow?
18:40Um, yeah, I'm excited.
18:41I'm a little nervous though, just I've never been like under, you know?
18:45Yeah, no, that's the thing that's weird to me too, because I always be like,
18:47what if I don't wake up dead?
18:49Well, you won't wake up.
18:53I'm just most nervous about him, I guess, going under.
18:56Um, I just don't like surgery, it always makes me so nervous.
19:00You know, I just, I just pray that everything is okay, and you know, he's in God's hands.
19:04I would say cheered, but.
19:06Yeah, cheers.
19:07I have nothing, no more broth or anything, but cheers.
19:11Good luck.
19:12Thank you, thank you.
19:19Today is the day, surgery day, so just got up, it's 5 a.m.
19:24I have to be at the hospital at 6.30, so I'm going to get dressed really quick.
19:27And so I'm just going to wash my face and brush my teeth, so I'm going to do that.
19:30So it's the day of surgery, I am up and ready to go, I have my clothes packed, I have my bag ready.
19:36I'm going to do one final weigh-in, I'm going to wear myself on my scale.
19:41Oh wow, I lost seven pounds.
19:44This is the start of a new tirade.
19:47Ready to go, let's see then.
19:49I made it to the hospital at 6, like 6.35, I'm a little late.
20:03I am happy to have my family here with me.
20:09My mom and my aunts and my sisters, they both made it.
20:12I have to put on my gown and my robe and wipe myself down again, so I'm going to do that really quick.
20:17As I put on my surgery gown, it really is real.
20:22Like, I'm really about to have this surgery done and I'm about to get my stomach chopped in half.
20:28Ooh, sexy.
20:34I really don't know what's going to happen and, you know, I'm scared.
20:39For the surgery, we do five incisions, four across the abdomen, one up top.
20:43Okay.
20:44Once that's all free, then I can take a surgical stapler, staple across the stomach,
20:47and cut out and remove part of your stomach.
20:49Any questions?
20:49No, no questions.
20:50Perfect.
20:50Thank you so much.
20:52Just praying for a fast, safe surgery.
21:04I just got out of mass.
21:25It was beautiful.
21:30Beautiful service, beautiful day.
21:31Now I'm going to go meet up with my beautiful daughter.
21:37Hi, my name is Misha.
21:39I'm 45 years old and I am from Blaine, Minnesota.
21:42She asked me to go to brunch with her, which I absolutely love, but she also said that she
21:48wanted to talk to me about something, so we'll see.
21:52Seven plus years ago, I met Nicola online.
21:57We connected over talking about Catholicism.
22:01We started off as friends and our friendship ended up turning into a romantic relationship.
22:10I ended up hopping on an airplane, traveling across the world, and I met with him for the first
22:17time in person in the Holy Land.
22:23Oh, my.
22:25Oh, my God.
22:30I was over in the Middle East for a handful of weeks with him.
22:35And by the end of my trip, we ultimately got engaged.
22:41I'm asking you if you want to.
22:44Yes, I will.
22:46Oh, my gosh, Nicola.
22:52Nicola ended up coming over to the United States.
22:56And I think right away, we just realized that culturally, we were so different.
23:03We had such different worldviews.
23:06So a few months ago, we decided to call off our engagement.
23:09And now he is back in the Middle East.
23:12I'm here in America and my life is moving forward.
23:18All right, pulling in here.
23:21Let me see.
23:22Is her car here?
23:24Yes, it is.
23:25Interesting.
23:26My daughter is never early.
23:32Hi, honey.
23:33Hi.
23:34Hi.
23:34Can you see her?
23:36Hi, babe.
23:37How are you?
23:38What?
23:39Are you doing a vlog?
23:40Yeah, I'm doing a diary cam.
23:42Oh, hi.
23:44Normally, I have to beg my two daughters, Marea and Svea, to go out to lunch with me
23:50because they're so busy away at college.
23:53So now I am genuinely really interested as to what this meeting today is all about.
23:59I was so surprised when you were like, do you want to go to brunch?
24:03I mean, are you sure I shouldn't be nervous?
24:05No.
24:06Well, I don't think you should be nervous.
24:08Well, me and Svea just feel so bad.
24:10Like, we're away all the time and we don't see you a whole bunch anymore.
24:13And we're kind of hoping you would get back out in the dating scene a little bit.
24:18We set you up with a matchmaker.
24:22Oh, Marea, no.
24:24No, I'm not doing that.
24:25Yes.
24:25Yes, you are.
24:26I'm not doing that.
24:28My daughter, God love her, but oh my gosh.
24:31Have you gone mad?
24:32Like, you know that is not who I am.
24:36No.
24:37Just full stop, no.
24:39I just don't feel like I need to go out and search for something like that.
24:44I just want to lean into divine providence and trust God.
24:47Well, you can't, you can't fail.
24:50It's tomorrow.
24:51What?
24:53Me and Svea put so much effort into this.
24:55We had to put a couple pictures and like talk about you a little bit.
25:00To the matchmaker.
25:01Yep.
25:01We already have cleared your schedule for you.
25:03What?
25:03Everything is already done.
25:04You guys are like stalkers.
25:06All you have to do is get ready and go.
25:07That's it.
25:09I don't know, honey.
25:10Don't even say that you're going.
25:12You have to.
25:14I will show up there with an open mind for you and Svea.
25:18But I will not promise that I'll walk out of there with a date.
25:23I think you'll have a lot of fun.
25:25I feel very sickly nervous all of a sudden.
25:27So right now I am on my way to the infamous matchmaker's office.
25:44Oh my gosh, I'm getting so nervous.
25:46Girl, I actually feel sick.
25:50I'm having a lot of internal struggles, a lot of internal battle.
25:55Here we go.
25:55I'm thinking like, Nisha, what are you doing?
25:59Like, did you all of a sudden become depressed?
26:01Like, you should not be doing this.
26:04Hi.
26:05Oh my gosh.
26:06Hi.
26:07Nice to meet you.
26:09Oh, hi, nice to meet you.
26:11It's such a pleasure.
26:12We're so excited to have you here.
26:13Pleasure is all mine.
26:15It still feels all hella weird.
26:17It feels very transactional.
26:19Like, it shouldn't, like, part of me was like, this shouldn't be legal.
26:23God bless you.
26:25Yeah.
26:25Okay.
26:26Welcome to Minneapolis City.
26:28Minneapolis City, cheers, by the way.
26:29Yeah, cheers.
26:29I'm so nervous.
26:30So you guys are all making me feel so much better.
26:32I'm so glad.
26:33I know that there are several things that are very important to you just kind of as a concrete
26:38foundation.
26:40Yes.
26:40I know faith.
26:42Yes.
26:42Yeah.
26:43So talk to me a little bit about that.
26:45Yeah.
26:46So I, my whole life is surrounded by faith now.
26:50I work for the Archdiocese.
26:52So when I say that that is an absolute must, I really mean that.
26:58So we definitely have some great candidates.
27:00Okay.
27:01We have a wonderful gentleman named Matthew.
27:03He has his doctorate.
27:05Okay.
27:06He is a dedicated father to beautiful girls as well.
27:10Okay.
27:11So if, I don't know if this is possible, but can I see the video?
27:14You bet.
27:14Oh, amazing.
27:15I don't know where we'll watch those, but.
27:17Absolutely.
27:19We are not a matchmaking service to the point where we send them out on a blind date or all
27:25of that.
27:25We do the research based upon what our clients tell us.
27:28And then we try and match them based upon their key points of what they're looking for.
27:32And then the rest is just going to happen naturally.
27:36Let's click on video here for Matthew.
27:38I'm 41.
27:41I'm a single dad.
27:43I'm a Twin Cities native.
27:44I'm a physician.
27:46I like to play chess.
27:47I like to do arts and drawing.
27:50I'm a great guy, down to earth.
27:55Those kinds of things.
27:59Watching Matthew's video, the first thing that is really striking me is,
28:04he's got this long hair.
28:06I was like, is that a wig or like a toupee or something?
28:11Men that age just don't typically have hair that long.
28:15And I don't know if luscious is the right word, but I'm questioning if it's a wig.
28:21I'm just kind of excited to enroll into the Minneapolis singles here.
28:31I'm also noticing that he's pretty timid.
28:34He's acting nervous.
28:35That's always what I'm most fearful of.
28:38It's like a stick in the mud and they don't talk.
28:40And I feel like I'm having to like pull questions out of him.
28:43I'll give it a whirl.
28:44I mean, I don't know.
28:45Poor Matthew doesn't know the crazy he's in for.
28:48But I'll give it a go, girl.
28:50Right.
28:52Yes.
28:52Bye, Nani.
29:05Bye, sweetie.
29:08All I can hear in my mind when I say that is my daughter saying,
29:12don't be the crazy cat lady.
29:13Get out and date someone.
29:15Don't just sit at home with your cats.
29:18Here I go, guys.
29:19This is it.
29:20So I am on my way to my big date with Matthew and I'm very nervous.
29:31A pumpkin patch seems a bit weird, especially a pumpkin patch in the morning.
29:37Seems a bit weird for a date, a first date, but maybe that's cute.
29:44I mean, is that what people are doing nowadays?
29:49Let's do this.
30:00I think I see Matthew.
30:03Hi.
30:05How are you?
30:06I'm good.
30:07Good to see you.
30:08Oh, it's so nice to meet you as well.
30:11By the way, this is Matthew.
30:13How are you?
30:15How are you?
30:16You look lovely.
30:16Nice to see you.
30:17I'm so excited.
30:17You too.
30:21I'm shocked.
30:24Matthew is way cuter in person than what I was expecting.
30:27And I can also tell he is not wearing a wig, which is very good news.
30:34So what is that over there?
30:35Like you peel corn?
30:36No, you walk through it like a corn maze.
30:38Oh, that's good.
30:39Try to get lost.
30:39Should we go back there?
30:40I think we'll probably go back there.
30:45Don't worry, Matthew.
30:46If you get kidnapped, I will keep looking for you, okay?
30:48I like it.
30:48I won't give up.
30:50So tell me a little bit about yourself.
30:53I was raised Catholic in kindergarten through eighth grade.
30:56Oh, sure.
30:57I went to a Catholic private school in St. Paul.
30:59Okay.
31:00I lived in Morocco for the first four.
31:03Okay, so I love that so much.
31:05Because I feel like you have to have a different kind of heart for that.
31:10My dad actually does a faith formation for fifth graders at the church.
31:13Oh my gosh, he does.
31:15So sweet.
31:15And my mom attends kind of like the adult faith formation group.
31:18Oh my goodness, I love it.
31:20And kind of does gardening at the church.
31:21That's so awesome.
31:23Wow.
31:24I wouldn't have thought that the matchmakers would have exceeded my expectations.
31:31But they matched me up with someone who's a total sweetheart.
31:36Ready?
31:36Here we go, Matthew.
31:39Look at all that.
31:42Totally.
31:42You can't even tell there's amazement.
31:44I'm sorry.
31:44We would never have come out of it.
31:45No.
31:45We would have literally come out of it.
31:48Everything just feels so easy.
31:50And this is resurrecting all these feelings inside of me.
31:54Of like that little school girl.
31:56Like, oh my gosh.
31:57Like, what's going to happen?
31:58What do I do if he tries to kiss me?
32:03I can't help.
32:04Yeah, I can't help.
32:05Okay, ready?
32:06One, two, three.
32:06Here you go.
32:07Here you go.
32:14Good job, Matthew.
32:15Give me a hug.
32:16You did so good.
32:17I won.
32:17Fair support, yes.
32:18You still, you still did so good.
32:22I kind of had a feeling you were going to win.
32:23Oh, you did.
32:24Yes, I did.
32:24It's just me.
32:26Misha is stunningly beautiful, kind-hearted, caring, and intelligent.
32:32I definitely felt comfortable, and I do feel like there's some chemistry there between she and I.
32:38That's awesome.
32:39Do you want a piece of dough here?
32:41Sure.
32:41Sure.
32:46Overall, the day went really well.
32:51I love it, Matthew.
32:52I was like, oh my God.
32:54I don't know exactly what is next for me,
32:57but I definitely know this.
33:00If Matthew asks me out again, I will not say no.
33:05I will say yes.
33:06I'm giving myself the green light to get back out there a little bit and date, and I love it.
33:13I can't wait.
33:15Look it.
33:15Matthew's hair is still perfect.
33:16Mine's not.
33:17It's blown all over the place.
33:18Give me a shot.
33:19All right.
33:34Let's get out of here.
33:41Hey, I'm John.
33:42I'm 41 years old.
33:43I'm originally from Massachusetts, but now I live in good old San Antonio.
33:49I'm here on vacation with my fiancee, Megan, and things ain't going so well.
33:55I can't stay in a relationship where there's no trust, and everything I do is questioned.
34:00I think it's time me and Megan have a serious conversation, because I can't live like this anymore.
34:10Oh, that was a trip?
34:12Yes, to say the least, if that was a trip.
34:14I think, you know, it's like, it always goes the same way.
34:20Never snooze.
34:26All I can say is, you know, I got to be true to myself.
34:30I'm not going to, you know, pretend to be something or pretend things are better than they are.
34:35I'm going to just sit here and be quiet.
34:38You know, I've been miserable because of the fighting.
34:42Yeah, it makes sense.
34:42It's every day.
34:43I'm sleeping on the couch.
34:46Because you think I'm literally checking out every goddamn woman there is.
34:51Yeah.
34:51Well, I mean, you're a very possessive person, too.
34:53I am not.
34:54Everybody's.
34:54It goes both ways.
34:55I am not.
34:57I am not that bad.
34:59You have my location.
35:00I'm wearing this ring.
35:01You're telling me I'm doing all this that I'm not doing.
35:04You know, something has to give.
35:09When it comes down to it, like, it all goes back to, like, does he really want to be with me?
35:16Does he really want to marry me?
35:18Because I feel like it's always excuses.
35:20Why would I want to get married?
35:22Why would I want to get married?
35:23If you don't want to get married now, you're not going to want to get married.
35:26No, no, Megan, I told you.
35:27I told you.
35:28I'm coming to the understanding that right now that I'm kind of letting go of the idea of marriage
35:32because I'm getting so turned off of it because all I'm hearing is excuses.
35:36So, and I get it.
35:37Oh, excuses, huh?
35:38Excuses?
35:39Excuses?
35:40Guess what, lady?
35:41This is what I think about your excuses.
35:43I have two rings gone.
36:02I'm kind of confused right now.
36:13I mean, do I take this off?
36:15Like, do I take the ring off?
36:16Take it off.
36:17Take it off.
36:18I'm not making you wear it.
36:19I'm not going to make you tell you you have to wear it while I don't wear mine and mine's gone.
36:24So, yeah, there you go.
36:25Oh, wait, that's mine.
36:26I'll just pawn it.
36:26Oh, there you go.
36:28I'm just trying to figure out, like, what we're doing.
36:50Are we ever going to get married?
36:52And then, and then this happens.
36:54You acting like this and throwing your ring out the window.
36:59Yeah, that's because I keep telling you over and over again.
37:03All I get from you is I'm talking to someone.
37:06I'm someone.
37:07I'm doing this when I'm doing nothing.
37:09And so, therefore, I'm getting tired.
37:12I'm getting frustrated.
37:14You know, it doesn't matter how much we have sex.
37:16You know, if, if I'm sleeping on the couch and we're fighting every day, I'm miserable.
37:22I already told you, miserable.
37:24This fucking ring doesn't mean nothing.
37:41At the hospital, I'm in my room.
37:43I get to relax for a little while.
37:46So that's my plan.
37:48My name is Tyree.
37:48I'm 35 years old and I live in Modesto, California.
37:52Today, I'm finally going to get my gastric sleeve surgery.
37:55I am terrified and nervous and scared.
38:00I'm just praying for a fast, safe surgery.
38:05I'm going to get my gastric sleeve surgery.
38:10I'm going to get my gastric surgery.
38:11I'm going to get my gastric surgery.
38:12I'm going to get my gastric surgery.
38:14So...
38:15Oh, it's hard.
38:16It's hard.
38:17It's hard.
38:18I like burping a lot because it's a lot of gas coming out.
38:20Coming out of surgery, the first thing I remember is the anesthesiologist trying to wake me up.
38:28He's calling my name and I'm having a hard time breathing.
38:31I just was really...
38:36I felt like I was high.
38:38And everything was just like a blur.
38:42I have a heartburn or gas or something.
38:45There's a lot of fucked up in that.
38:47But I finally got the surgery done and I did it.
38:53This is a big step towards some of the goals that I want to accomplish.
38:56Everything's good.
38:57My blood work.
38:58High blood pressure under control.
39:00So I hope you guys didn't understand me.
39:03But yeah, I'm up to eat some gel.
39:14Okay, so it's day four.
39:16I had surgery on Thursday.
39:18Right now it's Monday.
39:20I'm feeling pretty good.
39:21I was able to down an entire protein shake.
39:24Haven't had that much pain.
39:26Um, other than like the gas pain occasionally.
39:29With the surgery, I know that the weight loss isn't going to be instant.
39:33But the goal is to lose five pounds every week.
39:36So I really have to be strong and find the discipline to stick to this strict diet.
39:41My decisions are good.
39:43Looks good.
39:44I went and I changed them.
39:46I like made them extra secure.
39:48Yesterday we had a party for my niece.
39:50She turned 13 and, um, went over to my sister's house and everyone was eating and drinking.
39:56I just sipped on my Gatorade all day.
39:58So yeah, it's not easy.
40:00And, um, yeah, that's it.
40:03Let that sunshine hit your face.
40:07All we need is good skies in the summertime.
40:11It fits.
40:12Yes.
40:14Oh my God.
40:14When I first got this shirt, it was like stuffed on me.
40:19Like I couldn't even breathe in it.
40:23So it's been three months since my weight loss surgery.
40:26How am I looking?
40:29Not yet.
40:29Ha ha ha.
40:30Still big, but getting there.
40:33Now I can fit it.
40:34And I fit it really good.
40:36You know?
40:36Oh my God.
40:38I just feel so much better.
40:39It makes me feel great.
40:42Man, it's really emotional.
40:48I feel a lot more confident.
40:49I feel a lot more comfortable.
40:51I've been doing really good with the lifestyle changes.
40:54And I've been working out, going to the gym.
40:56And I'm officially down 80 pounds, which is amazing.
40:59I feel great.
41:01I'm feeling like a whole new person.
41:02I'm still not exactly where I want to be at, but I know that it's a process.
41:06And I'm really happy with the progress that I've made so far.
41:09I feel like I'm finally, like, in control of my life.
41:13And now it feels like the world is finally my oyster.
41:16The oysters are good.
41:18This is just the beginning, guys.
41:20So stay tuned.
41:21Yeah, I think it looks pretty good.
41:22Yes.
41:30All right, go.
41:35The bees are head-butting me.
41:38Yeah, I'm just not happy we're here.
41:40Coming to the grand foyer.
41:42Which is also our living room, which is also our bedroom.
41:44Which is also our .
41:46I mean, is that, yeah.
41:47Is this a PG program?
41:49No, don't do...
41:51We try to put Gokhan in his crib, but he ends up in our bed.
41:57He's kicking us.
41:58He's crying.
42:01And we can't be intimate.
42:02We really need to change our sleeping ranges.
42:05What?
42:06I'm tired of not having this ex-wife.
42:10I hate you grabbing my ass on your finger.
42:14I would like it if you didn't have your stupid ex-wife's initials on your finger, bro.
42:20I'm just gonna, like, chop it off at this point.
42:22For the nipples, the scar goes around the areola.
42:25You can't ever guarantee that you won't get hypo or hypersensitivity.
42:30There are a lot of risks that go into getting your boobs reducted.
42:35I could lose nipple sensation, have an ugly scar, or maybe be lopsided.
42:40Oh, my God, I'm getting anxious.
42:42I see this.
42:43Hmm.
42:44I feel like Siyad is completely withdrawing from me and this marriage.
42:58And it just makes me really suspicious, especially after finding him with another woman.
43:03I was kind of hoping we could enjoy having a Saturday off together.
43:06Good.
43:07Right together.
43:09Are we?
43:14Good.
43:15Good.
43:16Good.
43:17Good.
43:18Good.
43:19Good.
43:20Good.
43:21Good.
43:22Good.
43:23Good.
43:24Good.
43:25Good.
43:26Good.
43:27Good.
43:28Good.
43:29Good.
43:30Good.
43:31Good.
43:32Good.
43:33Good.
43:34Good.
43:35Good.
43:36Good.
43:37Good.
43:38Good.
43:39Good.
43:40Good.
43:41Good.
43:42Good.
43:43Good.
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