- 2 months ago
WHEN Niyah started getting her hair done at AlleyB's salon, she had no idea that it would lead to love. She told Love Don't Judge, "I hooked up with my hairstylist and her man." The throuple - consisting of AlleyB, Niyah and CT - was formed at the beginning of the year, but not everyone agrees with their relationship. AlleyB admitted, "We receive a lot of judgement. They say she's [Niyah] here just for him. He's going to leave me." And it's not just online where they're subjected to hate - AlleyB's brother has his own reservations. "Chris is not on board with this relationship," she revealed. In this episode of Love Don't Judge, the throuple will be revealing to Chris that Niyah will officially be moving in with AlleyB and CT. How will he react? Watch on and see the drama unfold...
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00:00I'm Nya, and I hooked up with my hairstylist and her man.
00:03We got a whole bunch of bad comments.
00:05If he really loved you, he wouldn't need another woman.
00:08You guys are predators.
00:10Today, my brother Chris is going to be coming over,
00:12and we're going to be telling him something,
00:14and hopefully he doesn't flip.
00:15Chris is not on board with this relationship.
00:18You loud, you obnoxious.
00:19I'm loud.
00:20You're not moving in here.
00:21I could kick you out right now.
00:22Oh, wait, wait, we don't got to go this far.
00:25You can leave right now.
00:26We don't got to go this far.
00:28Hey, my name's CT.
00:29I'm 35.
00:30I'm Ally B. I'm 39.
00:32And this is our girlfriend, Nya.
00:34Well, I met Nya.
00:35She was a client of mine.
00:36She was really cute, and she was single.
00:39And we were single.
00:41So, yeah.
00:42I was comfortable with this, like, you know, open up to her,
00:45with just anything, because that's how her soul was.
00:48One day, I was doing Nya's hair, and she was texting somebody.
00:53I guess she wanted my advice on the little situation
00:55she had going on, and I gave it to her.
00:58And then that's when I knew that she was interested in being polyamorous.
01:02So I started talking to her, and then she just started coming over, and then there it is there.
01:07She started liking CT, and I thought that was so cute for her, and he liked her back.
01:12So here we are.
01:14He was just so gentle.
01:16I've always wanted a third person, but I didn't really present that to him until, like, two years into our relationship.
01:22I was surprised, but I was cool with it.
01:25We've been a Thrift Bowl officially a year, January 1st.
01:30I've been in polyamorous relationships before, but this is CT's first time.
01:33I have never been in a polyamorous relationship.
01:35I'm 20 years old.
01:36With them being older, I was like, oh, are they going to belittle me or, like,
01:40you know, judge me for the things that I don't know and things that I should know?
01:44But the deeper we got into the relationship, they just helped me with it.
01:49At the beginning, I didn't know at an age at first, and then when it happened,
01:58we just had a bond already, so it was, like, too late.
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02:18Today, my brother Chris is going to be coming over,
02:20and we're going to be telling him something, and hopefully he doesn't flip.
02:23Chris is not on board with this relationship.
02:26He does not like the dynamic of it.
02:27He thinks that it should just be me and CT.
02:30I'm nervous.
02:30What you doing, bro?
02:32Hey, yo, what's the deal, bro?
02:33How you doing, my boy?
02:34How you doing?
02:34Chilling.
02:35Hey, sis.
02:35Hey, brother.
02:36So, brother, when we first brought the night to you, how did you feel?
02:41At first, I didn't feel nothing.
02:43I didn't even think y'all was serious about it.
02:45At the end of the day, that's who y'all like, that's who y'all love.
02:48You know, I'm a respecter, you know, because you're my sister.
02:51I love you, and I want to see you happy.
02:53And if she makes you happy, then so be it.
02:55I don't really think too much about it, you know?
02:59It's going to always be Allie and CT, and then just the other.
03:02I'm an other?
03:06I'm sorry you did it that way.
03:08How you feel about the age you got?
03:09I didn't even know she was a baby at first.
03:11She, why are you going to have a baby?
03:13You know, but you're wrong with me.
03:15Why don't she have a whole child?
03:16A baby with a baby.
03:18With her own place.
03:19But you didn't know I was young.
03:20Man, I'm old school, Christian.
03:21You didn't know I was young.
03:22What about you, then?
03:22Would you ever consider doing something like this?
03:25I just want one person to tell myself.
03:26Why would I want to?
03:27I can't even find one person.
03:28What would I look like trying to find a second person?
03:31Oh, so that's why you don't want to?
03:33Let me just find one person.
03:34I got to tell you something.
03:36I don't really know how to tell you.
03:37Because I don't want you to do this.
03:38I don't want you to judge me.
03:39I don't want you to have too much to say about exactly.
03:40You know how you is.
03:42But like.
03:43More stories.
03:44I'll be moving in next week.
03:46Moving in where?
03:47The house.
03:48In my dog house, in the backyard?
03:50Wait, Chris.
03:50Like, seriously, she's moving in.
03:52In the house.
03:53She trying to do it.
03:54Her inlay.
03:55That's not happening.
03:57What?
03:58Why not?
03:58Was y'all just conversing amongst yourselves
04:01and just made that decision?
04:02I'm grown, yeah.
04:03We all grown.
04:04CT got tired of paying to the rent.
04:06So that's what we came up with.
04:08That's not my problem.
04:10Every time you got something going on,
04:11I'm there for you, right?
04:12That don't make no sense.
04:14I am here for you.
04:15I'm here for you.
04:15You don't support nothing I got going on.
04:18Man.
04:19I mean, I do pitch in.
04:20You know, I help pay the rent.
04:22Clean around the house.
04:24I do my part.
04:24So if we move her in, then what?
04:26Y'all not going to move her in.
04:29You don't want to think about it, at least?
04:30I thought about it as soon as she said it.
04:32Okay, you sassy with it then.
04:35It's not even about space.
04:36What is it about?
04:37I don't like you, bruh.
04:38You not moving in here.
04:40Guess what?
04:40You're going to go and like me.
04:41Well, what?
04:42I'm very lovable.
04:43What have I done to you personally?
04:45What have I done to you personally?
04:45Exactly.
04:46What have I done to you personally?
04:47These my peoples.
04:48These my family right here.
04:50You kidding me.
04:50What have I done to you personally?
04:51We'll find a way.
04:52We'll figure it out.
04:52We'll leave that to renew your living.
04:53Because I'm here to stay, so I'm not going nowhere.
04:55Nah, no, no.
04:56And you'll all be a family?
04:57No, you loud, you obnoxious.
04:59I'm loud?
05:00Yes.
05:01You ain't even that loud.
05:03Obnoxious is crazy.
05:04I could kick you out right now.
05:05Oh, wait.
05:06Wait.
05:07We don't got to go this far.
05:08You can leave right now.
05:10We don't got to go this far.
05:11She's sitting there again, slick.
05:12Hey, you in a relationship with them.
05:16You're not here to talk to me.
05:17I'm waiting.
05:18Look, y'all can get past me.
05:19Relax, relax.
05:20I thought this was a simple conversation.
05:21Hey, hey, relax.
05:22Relax.
05:22That's why I don't like her.
05:23Look, bro.
05:24She just be popping it.
05:26Like, going somewhere, bro.
05:27I don't know, bro.
05:27You probably need to have a little bit more respect for my brother.
05:30A little?
05:30A whole lot more.
05:33I got a lot more respect for your brother.
05:34He's going to have nothing for me.
05:35All right.
05:36Ain't no talk about it.
05:36Y'all got it.
05:37Y'all got it.
05:37I'm out of here.
05:38Forget all three of y'all.
05:39Wait, what?
05:40Especially that little buzzard at the end, bro.
05:42I don't like you, bro.
05:43Come on, bro.
05:43I'm good.
05:44He just wanted to talk to you.
05:45I'm going to call you, bro, because that ain't.
05:47I ain't got it.
05:47I'm going to get your number, so I can't call you.
05:49Stop talking.
05:50Bro.
05:51My brother's a really good person, and maybe we just have to give him a little time,
05:55a little space, and kind of talk to him more about Nya.
06:02Communicate.
06:03That's the biggest part about communication, because you feel jealous about something,
06:06you just let that person know and be like, hey, I feel this type of way,
06:09or I feel like you're not doing this enough.
06:11The only time I really felt jealous is it's kind of like they were hiding their feelings,
06:15and I could sense that, and I didn't like it.
06:17I was like, hey, what's going on?
06:18I said y'all could be together.
06:19Y'all could love each other.
06:20What happened?
06:21I was worried about Allie's feelings.
06:23All my love, all my time I had with her,
06:26I didn't know how to give someone that to Nya.
06:29I didn't know how to express my feelings, but Nya, around Allie.
06:33We had a conversation.
06:34Right?
06:36And eventually, after that, everything just went with the flow, and we just
06:39our bond, because when I came in, I felt like I didn't want to step on no toes.
06:44I felt like I was walking on airships.
06:45I had to remember, like, we're both sharing him.
06:48This is our man.
06:48Ever since then, we just spend three peas in a lot.
06:52Whenever we want that alone time, we just like, hey, let's go do this, or let's go do that,
06:56and then we just go and do it.
06:57And then, if the other person want to spend some time with that one other person,
07:00we just take it how it is.
07:03Especially since we're girls, we have other stuff that we can do to bond,
07:06like go get our nails done, go shopping, just do a whole bunch of girl stuff, and I love it.
07:11I spend a lot of time with CT, because I live with him.
07:14We go on dates alone, but I like, push them to go on dates, like, and to spend more time together.
07:19We receive quite a lot of judgment.
07:21A lot.
07:22They say a lot of stuff.
07:23They say, she's here just for him.
07:25She's going to take him, run off, have her own kids, marry him.
07:28He's going to leave me.
07:30They going to leave me.
07:31Yeah, we and her, we're lesbians, and we don't want him.
07:35I'm just here, because I need a place to stay.
07:37People are worried about maybe Nia getting pregnant.
07:40Like, what if she get pregnant?
07:41I'm like, well, we'll just have a kid together.
07:43That's the whole point of politics.
07:44Extended family.
07:45We got a whole bunch of bad comments.
07:47If he really loves you, he wouldn't need another woman.
07:50He's not satisfied.
07:52You guys are predators.
07:54Who, y'all?
07:56Y'all was praying on me?
07:57They ain't talking about me.
07:58Nia is using us.
08:01This girl is really brainwashed.
08:02Y'all going to be crying when y'all get cheated on.
08:05Wow.
08:06When we went viral, I think it locked us in a little bit more.
08:09Nia has a two-year-old daughter.
08:11We don't have a kid, so her visiting, it was like,
08:15um, can you find a babysitter?
08:18And that, that kind of was the issue in the beginning.
08:21That was something that I was very scared of.
08:24Like, if this relationship makes me happy, it needs to make my baby happy as well.
08:28That's exactly what it is.
08:29My baby is so happy.
08:30I feed her, like, I take her places and stuff.
08:32He taught her how to walk down the stairs.
08:33I taught her how to walk down the stairs.
08:35She get on my nerves sometimes, you know.
08:38She eat all my snacks.
08:40Our relationship worked because we make it work, not because we trying to make it work for somebody else.
08:47It's not just for an image or anything like that.
08:52It's because we genuinely love each other.
08:54It's something I see myself in for the rest of my life.
08:57Oh my God.
08:58I would like to say to the people that judge us that love comes in many forms.
09:06Shapes, sizes, age gaps, all of it.
09:08Okay, that's what really happens.
09:10The same way a mother could love all five of her children is the same way somebody could love
09:14both people.
09:30You
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