00:00 This is Honey. She fell in love with Sean.
00:05 Before we got together, I was a lesbian.
00:08 She is old enough to be my daughter.
00:10 They assume sugar daddy, sugar baby.
00:12 Sean's loved ones have worries about their differences in the relationship.
00:17 It could be a recipe for a disaster.
00:19 Not only is she a former lesbian, but she's a lot younger than him.
00:25 What if he's taking a c*** all over himself?
00:28 Are you going to stick around for that?
00:30 And I feel like, in a way, she has been somewhat attracted to me.
00:34 Everyone calls me Honey.
00:38 I go by Sean.
00:40 I'm 23.
00:41 I'm 51.
00:43 In 2018, we met outside a vegan restaurant.
00:48 We decided to sit at the same booth and had a blind date that we didn't plan.
00:55 We've been talking every day since.
00:58 It just felt right.
00:59 I say it's love at first sight. He made that to this.
01:02 That chocolate kind of enticement.
01:05 Oh my goodness.
01:07 What I love most about Honey is that she's not me.
01:10 I don't think nobody wants someone just like themselves.
01:13 I'm a photographer. She's a model as well.
01:15 We work out.
01:16 One of the rudest reactions we dealt with, we were working out,
01:20 and a lady came up to me and she was like,
01:23 "That's very nice of you to work out with your dad."
01:27 And I was like...
01:29 And I think she was just trying to be funny.
01:30 I ain't have no problem with that.
01:31 She is old enough to be my daughter.
01:33 People tend to judge our relationship because I went from dating women
01:38 to being engaged with a man.
01:41 I was a lesbian.
01:43 I would say most men in the world would actually want their woman to be
01:47 attracted to other women because of their possibilities.
01:49 But for me, I'm pretty much a one-woman guy.
01:52 It bothered me, but then I got to understand who she is as a person.
01:58 I don't got over that issue.
02:00 Almost completely. That's still a work in progress.
02:02 My family wasn't really the biggest fan of me being a lesbian.
02:07 Because my family, Christian, Haitian, the normal morals they wanted me to have.
02:13 So it was never an issue on my end, even though he's 20 years older than me.
02:19 They were just happy, you know, future kids was happening.
02:24 What am I mother about?
02:26 You sure?
02:27 By the age at first, you know, she was like, "Well, she's way younger.
02:30 You know, you're going to get older and eventually, you know,
02:33 she's going to grow out of that."
02:35 She felt like once they like women, even on the other side,
02:39 they're going to always crave that and they'll never be faithful.
02:42 So that was one of her doubts that she'll find a woman later on down the line.
02:46 But she's coming around now.
02:48 She was just trying to protect me.
02:50 More of our judgments come online.
02:53 Someone said, "You need to crave this Bible."
02:55 Some people are like, "Oh, is that your dad?"
02:58 "Can he even get up?" And I'm like, "Oh, my God."
03:02 So all that is is a God-wishes woman position.
03:05 Yeah, yeah.
03:06 She gets a lot of men on her post.
03:10 So I guess they see my age and feel like they got an opportunity
03:13 because she like older men.
03:15 So a lot of older men.
03:17 I barely like men.
03:19 So how do we get to older men?
03:21 Judgment, honestly, doesn't really bother me.
03:24 I know we're different, so I expect some judgments,
03:27 but I don't really take it to the heart.
03:30 A lot of people, they see us and, you know, they assume,
03:33 "Sugar Daddy, Sugar Baby," or, you know, something like that.
03:36 And then they get to know us and they're like, "Y'all have relationship goals.
03:39 Like, I wish I had what y'all had."
03:41 And he broke, too.
03:43 So it's real love.
03:44 It's time.
03:45 Well, my cousin and his wife are coming over today.
03:50 I know they probably have some strong views about our relationship.
03:54 So I guess they'll express that when they get here.
03:57 Y'all just have to talk to Karlie.
03:59 She'll tell you how she feels because--
04:01 She's blunt and honest.
04:03 Not only is she a former lesbian, but she's a lot younger than him.
04:11 So it could go either way down the road.
04:13 Things can happen and things can be unexpected with Sean
04:19 that she may not be ready for at her age.
04:21 It could be a recipe for disaster.
04:24 I think she mostly dated women.
04:26 Before, yeah.
04:27 Before.
04:28 It got hard to transfer her over.
04:29 But, you know, looks like he did it.
04:32 I would like to ask her if she would ever want to revert back to maybe dating women.
04:39 I don't know if she switched it off and it's turned off permanently
04:43 or if it's something that could be turned back on.
04:46 Sometimes I feel like--I don't know that it's flirting, per se.
04:51 I think that it could be maybe a little attraction there.
04:56 As if if I weren't with Sean, then maybe, you know, she might try me out.
05:05 I do have a little skepticism.
05:07 The issue that I have is going forward with the age
05:14 and you just don't know what might come into play.
05:21 I mean, because what if he's taking a crap all over himself?
05:26 Are you going to stick around for that?
05:27 Unfortunately.
05:28 You know?
05:29 She ain't got no choice.
05:30 Yeah.
05:31 She ain't got no choice.
05:32 Cubs ain't going to let her go like that.
05:34 I'm worth it.
05:35 But most relationships are going to go through, you know, trauma or situations.
05:38 Well, let me ask you this question, honey.
05:42 Are you still attracted to women?
05:47 Most definitely.
05:48 I don't think that would ever leave me.
05:51 Me being with him did not just make me not like women.
05:54 And that's why, like, her honesty, she told me from the get-go that's what it is.
05:58 That was one of the main conversations we always had.
06:00 We came to a compromise.
06:02 Yeah, we came to a compromise.
06:04 Easier to say those things now.
06:08 But when you're actually forced and put into a situation unwillingly,
06:12 you don't know what the outcome is going to be.
06:15 But me, like I say, you know, most guys would love that.
06:18 Me, I could be with just one woman.
06:20 But if it's going to, like I told her, if it's going to be that,
06:23 then you're going to have to relinquish me to do whatever I need to do.
06:28 I'm still very skeptical about the relationship.
06:31 You have experienced more in life that honey has experienced.
06:36 So, again, this is my concern.
06:39 And I feel like, in a way, she has been somewhat attracted to me.
06:44 Yes.
06:46 What do you mean?
06:47 Yeah.
06:48 Just the, "Oh, Carlette, you look so nice," or "so good."
06:55 You always look nice.
06:57 Hold on, hold on, hold on. I caught that once now.
06:58 No, you always look nice.
07:00 She compliments women.
07:01 And I understand.
07:02 I tell you one time, I was like, "Carlette, you look so good."
07:07 And I had to raise an eyebrow. I'm like, "Hold up now."
07:10 Right. I really, really like honey.
07:13 I think you are a great person.
07:16 But going forward, I just want you guys to make sure that this is where you want to be
07:24 and this is the relationship that you want to be in
07:27 because feelings, when they're hurt, there's no taking it back.
07:31 Honestly, it's good to hear, you know, everybody voice their opinions.
07:37 You guys know I love you both.
07:39 What I love about her, she don't want us to miss the wedding.
07:42 She wants to go to the courthouse, the cheapest route possible.
07:45 She would rather live life with me.
07:47 It's about us, and she makes me feel comfortable that it's about us.
07:51 He's very caring. He's very hands-on.
07:53 I come home, dishes washed, meal done.
07:57 I'm so lucky I'm a woman.
07:59 He's the perfect why. I'm just kidding.
08:01 To people who like to judge us, judge yourself.
08:04 Look at your own life. Look at your own self in the mirror and ask yourself,
08:07 "Could you take being judged?"
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08:13 [silence]
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