00:00My dad still thinks I'm with my ex-husband and he does not know I'm divorced.
00:04Today I'm gonna tell my dad that I'm divorced and I'm not with Frank.
00:08I think he'll be a little upset that he isn't in the loop.
00:12I don't want to keep the person that I love so much a secret.
00:17I want to start posting us. I want to start bringing him to family gatherings.
00:22It's been long enough.
00:23There's something I want to tell Av.
00:26I'm divorced. During that time, I met somebody.
00:33I would like for you to meet him because he's very, very important to me.
00:36I don't know if you've told him that you do live with me now.
00:41You did? You too?
00:43No.
00:44I figured it out already.
00:47I'm Niecy and this is my partner Frank.
00:50The age gap between us is in excess of 20 something years.
00:56We'll leave it at that.
00:59We met on an online website and sent her a message.
01:04I kind of threw down the phone on the table,
01:06continued eating my dinner, then I get a ping.
01:10So I was going through a divorce during that time when he inboxed me.
01:14You know, I'm just like, no, I'm not going to do it. I'm not ready.
01:17But then a little voice inside of my head said I needed to smile, I guess, to feel special.
01:22We've been together now for 14 months since we first texted each other online.
01:28He still made me blush and I still get really, really shy around him.
01:33I did an older man before as my pet friend.
01:36I didn't typically expect Frank to be as old as he is, but look at him.
01:42He does not look 63.
01:45Babe, show him your guns.
01:47I keep myself in good shape.
01:49We had been talking about getting a tattoo.
01:52And as you can see, that is my tattoo, my dove for love with Niecy.
02:00And I was sober when I did it.
02:02When we're together, we don't even think about age because literally,
02:06like, he has more energy than me.
02:08Can you take some pictures of me?
02:09Yeah.
02:10I want some photos for social media.
02:12I have not went public with my relationship online.
02:15So I'm getting some pictures together with us because I'm about to start going public with us.
02:21A lot of people don't know I'm divorced and a lot of my family don't know.
02:26And I just wanted to be respectful and, you know, give it some time.
02:31Once I finally go public with him, what is going to happen?
02:35Because he doesn't have social media.
02:38And social media can be rude, but we'll see.
02:42I'm going to be posting this real soon.
02:44What's happening today is my mom and my dad is coming down here.
02:49I'm going to break the news to my dad with my mom.
02:52And then he's going to meet Frank.
02:54He's going to meet the love of my life.
02:57The upgraded love of my life.
02:59I have met Niecy's mother already.
03:03And I think we have a good relationship with her.
03:06But today is going to be the first time that I'm meeting Niecy's dad.
03:10My mom and dad get along very well with my ex-husband.
03:14I just hope that my dad can get along very well with Frank.
03:18All right.
03:19So we're done with the pictures.
03:20Let's go pick up a car.
03:22You know, my dad likes cars, so we gotta get going.
03:25Well, I do have a few choices.
03:27We just might be able to impress.
03:30I have pretty much always been a car guy.
03:34Yeah, actually when I was younger, my dad had this type of car.
03:38He's into Jeeps now.
03:39I'm just going to make sure my dad sees the car.
03:41Because I want you guys to spark a conversation.
03:44Oh yeah?
03:45I don't want it to be awkward.
03:46It's going to impress my dad.
03:48He's definitely going to know that I guess that his little girl is definitely taken care of.
03:54Now is the right time to reveal it to my dad.
03:57Because we're getting so serious.
04:00And I don't want to keep the person that I love so much a secret.
04:06But I'm going to go by myself, grab my purse, and then meet my dad and my mom.
04:13And get the conversation going.
04:15I'll text you when it's ready.
04:17I am a little nervous.
04:19I hope my dad is okay with this situation.
04:22How I feel about today is long overdue.
04:28Would be my first expression.
04:30We are Niecy's parents.
04:31I mean, we talk every day before she goes to school.
04:34So I'm always caught up.
04:35So it's not much you don't do.
04:37Do you talk with her often?
04:39When she comes by, I guess, yeah.
04:40When she needs something.
04:42Kind of nervous, but yeah, we looking forward to living with her.
04:46Yeah, I have not a clue what's going on.
04:47My Niecy.
04:49Hi, Niecy.
04:55Now, thanks for coming down.
04:58You're welcome.
05:00I'm happy that both of you guys are here because there's something I want to tell Al.
05:05I'm divorced.
05:10I've been divorced for over a year and separated older than that.
05:14And I just felt like at the time that everything was happening to me,
05:18I didn't want to broadcast it to my family and everybody.
05:21But there's another part.
05:23So during that time, I met somebody and I met a wonderful person.
05:28He's a big part of my life.
05:30I would love for you to meet him because he's very, very important to me.
05:33And like I said, I don't just have you meet anybody.
05:36But he helped me through a really tough time.
05:41So how long have you been in this new relationship?
05:44It's been over six months.
05:45Well, can you tell me about this guy?
05:47Okay, so he's Italian.
05:50He is 63, so he's older than you.
05:55He's a big car person.
05:57My concern is I want it to be slow.
06:02I don't want you to move so fast.
06:06Don't want you to get distracted to the point that you don't see red flags if they are there.
06:12So just take your time.
06:14Get you on.
06:15So are you open to meeting him?
06:18Yeah.
06:19See ya?
06:20Okay.
06:20Go meet.
06:29So, I already met my beautiful mama.
06:30Yes, I did.
06:32Hello.
06:32This is my daddy.
06:34How you doing?
06:34Heard a lot about you.
06:36Nice to meet you.
06:37Nice to meet you too.
06:38Mama.
06:39Hi.
06:39Hi.
06:40How's it going?
06:41I'm very good.
06:42You look beautiful.
06:42Oh, thank you.
06:43You're welcome.
06:44You do too.
06:45You're dressed tight.
06:46It's a special occasion.
06:49She wouldn't let me out of the house without wearing what she wanted me to wear.
06:53I don't know if you're familiar with your car guy or a cool looking Jeep.
06:56Yeah.
06:57Yeah.
06:57Just got it.
06:58Did you?
06:59Yep.
06:59Really?
07:00Yeah.
07:09Can I interest you in a little more wine?
07:11Salut.
07:12It's a pleasure to meet you and always a pleasure to be with you.
07:16How did everything go with the reveal about, you know, what's going on with you now?
07:25Um, it was a little emotional for me.
07:27Yeah?
07:27Um, it was hard but very easy afterwards because they accepted me no matter what, so.
07:34That's sweet.
07:34Yeah.
07:35And they never respected much of me.
07:37Did you know anything about it or did, really?
07:42I was the last to know about everything.
07:44So after meeting Frank, how do you feel about everything?
07:49I'm very happy it wasn't anything crazy.
07:51I had no clue what I was in for.
07:55Yeah.
07:55Yeah.
07:56Kind of relieved.
07:57Yeah.
07:58So, how did y'all meet?
07:59I was a bachelor in the dating game and met Niecy online.
08:05She is a gorgeous, beautiful young lady, much younger than me.
08:10And really, you know, didn't think that we were going to be to where we got to today.
08:16Yeah.
08:16So, where do you see this going?
08:18Where do I see it going?
08:19Well, I don't know if you've told them that you do live with me now.
08:27Okay.
08:28So, where do I see it going?
08:29She didn't tell me.
08:31No.
08:31I figured it out already.
08:33Oh.
08:34Okay.
08:34Okay.
08:35Yeah.
08:35So, we've been living together now for about eight or nine months, right?
08:43Or more?
08:44It's been eight or nine months.
08:45No.
08:46I didn't know it was eight or nine months.
08:49I actually didn't know it.
08:51Really?
08:52I didn't.
08:52Yeah, yeah.
08:53She never brought that up.
08:54You never said that.
08:56Well, I just, you know, didn't want to broadcast all my business, but we've been living together
09:02for a while.
09:03Yeah.
09:03Yeah.
09:04And I can't believe you, you said nobody in your, this is me.
09:10You didn't tell me.
09:13Really?
09:14She didn't tell me.
09:15I really thought I would know.
09:16Like, literally.
09:17I have so much fun.
09:18Okay.
09:19All right, I'll forgive you.
09:21This is kind of sudden and kind of a different type of space.
09:25Totally, totally understand.
09:27Yeah.
09:28I really respect you a lot, you know, for keeping, you know, your composure about what is going on here.
09:35This was definitely a blessing and went better than what I thought it would.
09:41And I'm happy that I got my favorite people on my corner.
09:46My love on my corner as well.
09:48So, thank you.
09:50We wish you the best, Nisi.
09:53I know you.
09:54We wish you guys the best.
09:55Bye, Mama.
09:56All right, have a great day.
09:58Drive safe.
09:58Pleasure.
10:05Pleasure with you.
10:06Pleasure was all mine.
10:09Okay, I'll get the secret.
10:15It was an exciting experience.
10:18It was.
10:19And it's been an exciting conclusion.
10:23My parents are easy going, so if they don't like someone
10:27which I never know my parents not to like anyone.
10:30So, I'm just happy with the way things flow today.
10:34So, anybody that's judging me thinking I'm just using him for money,
10:37I've always been an independent person.
10:39I always took care of myself and I'm still taking care of myself.
10:43He's not obligated to take care of me.
10:45Whatever he did for me is out of the kindness of his heart.
10:48I think our relationship works because our personalities are uniquely matched.
10:55What do I love most about her?
10:57Kind, considerate, pleasant, high-spirited.
11:01What I will say to the people that judge us is that I feel bad for you.
11:06I feel sorry for you.
11:08She makes me a better person.
11:09I don't have to search no more.
11:10What do I love you?
11:21You're life.
11:27I'm just a liar.
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