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NEICY met Frank by chance when she was helping her friend set up a profile on a dating site. Neicy was going through a divorce when Franks message popped up. They talked for a couple of months before they had their first date. Frank was quite honest in telling Neicy that he didn’t want to be her friend, he wanted to be her man. Quite quickly he bought her a diamond promise ring to show his commitment and also got her name tattooed on his forearm. The couple have been living together for over 9 months on a rural property worth $1million with 56 acres - but Neicy’s dad still doesn’t even know she is divorced. Her parents were extremely close with her ex and Neicy is worried that they might not get on as well with Frank. In this episode we will see Neicy revealing to her dad that she is divorced and with Frank - how will he take the news?

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00:00My dad still thinks I'm with my ex-husband and he does not know I'm divorced.

00:04Today I'm gonna tell my dad that I'm divorced and I'm not with Frank.

00:08I think he'll be a little upset that he isn't in the loop.

00:12I don't want to keep the person that I love so much a secret.

00:17I want to start posting us. I want to start bringing him to family gatherings.

00:22It's been long enough.

00:23There's something I want to tell Av.

00:26I'm divorced. During that time, I met somebody.

00:33I would like for you to meet him because he's very, very important to me.

00:36I don't know if you've told him that you do live with me now.

00:41You did? You too?

00:43No.

00:44I figured it out already.

00:47I'm Niecy and this is my partner Frank.

00:50The age gap between us is in excess of 20 something years.

00:56We'll leave it at that.

00:59We met on an online website and sent her a message.

01:04I kind of threw down the phone on the table,

01:06continued eating my dinner, then I get a ping.

01:10So I was going through a divorce during that time when he inboxed me.

01:14You know, I'm just like, no, I'm not going to do it. I'm not ready.

01:17But then a little voice inside of my head said I needed to smile, I guess, to feel special.

01:22We've been together now for 14 months since we first texted each other online.

01:28He still made me blush and I still get really, really shy around him.

01:33I did an older man before as my pet friend.

01:36I didn't typically expect Frank to be as old as he is, but look at him.

01:42He does not look 63.

01:45Babe, show him your guns.

01:47I keep myself in good shape.

01:49We had been talking about getting a tattoo.

01:52And as you can see, that is my tattoo, my dove for love with Niecy.

02:00And I was sober when I did it.

02:02When we're together, we don't even think about age because literally,

02:06like, he has more energy than me.

02:08Can you take some pictures of me?

02:09Yeah.

02:10I want some photos for social media.

02:12I have not went public with my relationship online.

02:15So I'm getting some pictures together with us because I'm about to start going public with us.

02:21A lot of people don't know I'm divorced and a lot of my family don't know.

02:26And I just wanted to be respectful and, you know, give it some time.

02:31Once I finally go public with him, what is going to happen?

02:35Because he doesn't have social media.

02:38And social media can be rude, but we'll see.

02:42I'm going to be posting this real soon.

02:44What's happening today is my mom and my dad is coming down here.

02:49I'm going to break the news to my dad with my mom.

02:52And then he's going to meet Frank.

02:54He's going to meet the love of my life.

02:57The upgraded love of my life.

02:59I have met Niecy's mother already.

03:03And I think we have a good relationship with her.

03:06But today is going to be the first time that I'm meeting Niecy's dad.

03:10My mom and dad get along very well with my ex-husband.

03:14I just hope that my dad can get along very well with Frank.

03:18All right.

03:19So we're done with the pictures.

03:20Let's go pick up a car.

03:22You know, my dad likes cars, so we gotta get going.

03:25Well, I do have a few choices.

03:27We just might be able to impress.

03:30I have pretty much always been a car guy.

03:34Yeah, actually when I was younger, my dad had this type of car.

03:38He's into Jeeps now.

03:39I'm just going to make sure my dad sees the car.

03:41Because I want you guys to spark a conversation.

03:44Oh yeah?

03:45I don't want it to be awkward.

03:46It's going to impress my dad.

03:48He's definitely going to know that I guess that his little girl is definitely taken care of.

03:54Now is the right time to reveal it to my dad.

03:57Because we're getting so serious.

04:00And I don't want to keep the person that I love so much a secret.

04:06But I'm going to go by myself, grab my purse, and then meet my dad and my mom.

04:13And get the conversation going.

04:15I'll text you when it's ready.

04:17I am a little nervous.

04:19I hope my dad is okay with this situation.

04:22How I feel about today is long overdue.

04:28Would be my first expression.

04:30We are Niecy's parents.

04:31I mean, we talk every day before she goes to school.

04:34So I'm always caught up.

04:35So it's not much you don't do.

04:37Do you talk with her often?

04:39When she comes by, I guess, yeah.

04:40When she needs something.

04:42Kind of nervous, but yeah, we looking forward to living with her.

04:46Yeah, I have not a clue what's going on.

04:47My Niecy.

04:49Hi, Niecy.

04:55Now, thanks for coming down.

04:58You're welcome.

05:00I'm happy that both of you guys are here because there's something I want to tell Al.

05:05I'm divorced.

05:10I've been divorced for over a year and separated older than that.

05:14And I just felt like at the time that everything was happening to me,

05:18I didn't want to broadcast it to my family and everybody.

05:21But there's another part.

05:23So during that time, I met somebody and I met a wonderful person.

05:28He's a big part of my life.

05:30I would love for you to meet him because he's very, very important to me.

05:33And like I said, I don't just have you meet anybody.

05:36But he helped me through a really tough time.

05:41So how long have you been in this new relationship?

05:44It's been over six months.

05:45Well, can you tell me about this guy?

05:47Okay, so he's Italian.

05:50He is 63, so he's older than you.

05:55He's a big car person.

05:57My concern is I want it to be slow.

06:02I don't want you to move so fast.

06:06Don't want you to get distracted to the point that you don't see red flags if they are there.

06:12So just take your time.

06:14Get you on.

06:15So are you open to meeting him?

06:18Yeah.

06:19See ya?

06:20Okay.

06:20Go meet.

06:29So, I already met my beautiful mama.

06:30Yes, I did.

06:32Hello.

06:32This is my daddy.

06:34How you doing?

06:34Heard a lot about you.

06:36Nice to meet you.

06:37Nice to meet you too.

06:38Mama.

06:39Hi.

06:40How's it going?

06:41I'm very good.

06:42You look beautiful.

06:42Oh, thank you.

06:43You're welcome.

06:44You do too.

06:45You're dressed tight.

06:46It's a special occasion.

06:49She wouldn't let me out of the house without wearing what she wanted me to wear.

06:53I don't know if you're familiar with your car guy or a cool looking Jeep.

06:56Yeah.

06:57Yeah.

06:57Just got it.

06:58Did you?

06:59Yep.

06:59Really?

07:00Yeah.

07:09Can I interest you in a little more wine?

07:11Salut.

07:12It's a pleasure to meet you and always a pleasure to be with you.

07:16How did everything go with the reveal about, you know, what's going on with you now?

07:25Um, it was a little emotional for me.

07:27Yeah?

07:27Um, it was hard but very easy afterwards because they accepted me no matter what, so.

07:34That's sweet.

07:34Yeah.

07:35And they never respected much of me.

07:37Did you know anything about it or did, really?

07:42I was the last to know about everything.

07:44So after meeting Frank, how do you feel about everything?

07:49I'm very happy it wasn't anything crazy.

07:51I had no clue what I was in for.

07:55Yeah.

07:56Kind of relieved.

07:57Yeah.

07:58So, how did y'all meet?

07:59I was a bachelor in the dating game and met Niecy online.

08:05She is a gorgeous, beautiful young lady, much younger than me.

08:10And really, you know, didn't think that we were going to be to where we got to today.

08:16Yeah.

08:16So, where do you see this going?

08:18Where do I see it going?

08:19Well, I don't know if you've told them that you do live with me now.

08:27Okay.

08:28So, where do I see it going?

08:29She didn't tell me.

08:31No.

08:31I figured it out already.

08:33Oh.

08:34Okay.

08:35Yeah.

08:35So, we've been living together now for about eight or nine months, right?

08:43Or more?

08:44It's been eight or nine months.

08:45No.

08:46I didn't know it was eight or nine months.

08:49I actually didn't know it.

08:51Really?

08:52I didn't.

08:52Yeah, yeah.

08:53She never brought that up.

08:54You never said that.

08:56Well, I just, you know, didn't want to broadcast all my business, but we've been living together

09:02for a while.

09:03Yeah.

09:04And I can't believe you, you said nobody in your, this is me.

09:10You didn't tell me.

09:13Really?

09:14She didn't tell me.

09:15I really thought I would know.

09:16Like, literally.

09:17I have so much fun.

09:18Okay.

09:19All right, I'll forgive you.

09:21This is kind of sudden and kind of a different type of space.

09:25Totally, totally understand.

09:27Yeah.

09:28I really respect you a lot, you know, for keeping, you know, your composure about what is going on here.

09:35This was definitely a blessing and went better than what I thought it would.

09:41And I'm happy that I got my favorite people on my corner.

09:46My love on my corner as well.

09:48So, thank you.

09:50We wish you the best, Nisi.

09:53I know you.

09:54We wish you guys the best.

09:55Bye, Mama.

09:56All right, have a great day.

09:58Drive safe.

09:58Pleasure.

10:05Pleasure with you.

10:06Pleasure was all mine.

10:09Okay, I'll get the secret.

10:15It was an exciting experience.

10:18It was.

10:19And it's been an exciting conclusion.

10:23My parents are easy going, so if they don't like someone

10:27which I never know my parents not to like anyone.

10:30So, I'm just happy with the way things flow today.

10:34So, anybody that's judging me thinking I'm just using him for money,

10:37I've always been an independent person.

10:39I always took care of myself and I'm still taking care of myself.

10:43He's not obligated to take care of me.

10:45Whatever he did for me is out of the kindness of his heart.

10:48I think our relationship works because our personalities are uniquely matched.

10:55What do I love most about her?

10:57Kind, considerate, pleasant, high-spirited.

11:01What I will say to the people that judge us is that I feel bad for you.

11:06I feel sorry for you.

11:08She makes me a better person.

11:09I don't have to search no more.

11:10What do I love you?

11:21You're life.

11:27I'm just a liar.

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