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Seeking Sister Wife Season 6 Episode 10
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00:01Ms. Merrifield? Mr. and Mrs. Merrifield?
00:03Finalmente hoje, eu casei com Garrick.
00:07Now, I am Merrifield.
00:10I think there's still a lot of settling in to do.
00:14I'm wondering how the future's gonna look for all of us.
00:19Has everything been going good? You want some tea on him?
00:22Give me the tea on...
00:23Or the D.
00:26I am feeling jealous.
00:27There's a bit of me that's like, oof, someone's getting a little excited.
00:32Billy shows facial expressions that she's not comfortable.
00:37I want to believe that she won't be jealous, but we never know.
00:42How did it go last night?
00:44The conversation with Jackie regarding my boundary with Yessel not having a baby with another woman
00:50didn't turn out the way we wanted.
00:52Did she basically end things with us?
00:55Yes.
00:56Well, that kind of sucks now, doesn't it?
01:00I don't think after tonight I want to pursue a relationship with you.
01:04So that's her.
01:06She broke up with us.
01:11Okay.
01:12I haven't told my family about our relationship dynamic.
01:16They're extremely opinionated.
01:19But with Shanae being gone, I might need to lean on my family.
01:24The way that you are about yourself, Theresa, it's causing disruptions in the harmony of our situation overall.
01:32I think they are getting tired of me running away and not addressing the issues when they bring them up.
01:38We have reached a sort of a crossroads.
01:39I know, I got you.
01:40I'm going to go take a moment.
01:42I'm sitting here trying to have an adult conversation.
01:43If you want to get up and act all flustered, all extra, just get the up and go then.
01:53All right, you ready?
01:54You're heading straight for that bar.
01:56I'm definitely going to need a shot of liquid curry.
01:57Why am I so anxious?
01:59Today is our second date with Randy, and Billy's coming with, and I'm going to go to her.
02:02We're heading straight for that bar.
02:03Yeah, we're heading straight for that bar.
02:04That's all right.
02:18Yeah.
02:19Who are you going to need a shot of liquid curry?
02:20Why am I so anxious?
02:21Today is our second date with Randy, and Billy's coming with, and I'm going to go take pictures
02:25And I'm super excited to see her again
02:28and kind of see where her head's at
02:30and where this is all heading.
02:33How are you doing?
02:34Hey, I'm doing great. How about yourself?
02:35Good.
02:36Good, good, good.
02:37We're gonna start with a shot.
02:38Yeah, I guess we'll go big or go home, so...
02:42I want tequila.
02:43And whiskey, please.
02:44All right.
02:45Now that these feelings of jealousy have hit me,
02:48I'm anxious to see Randy again.
02:52But at the same time, Reese is super excited.
02:56I don't want to let him down.
02:58He's already got emotions invested.
03:00And obviously, he sees something in her.
03:03Cheers.
03:04Cheers.
03:05So, I want to give it a shot.
03:09My favorite!
03:11Give us...
03:12Oh, my gosh.
03:13Oh, careful, careful, careful.
03:15All right.
03:16Go first.
03:17Oh, I get to go first?
03:18Yeah.
03:19How are you feeling?
03:20I'm anxious.
03:21So, I mean, obviously, she's kind of interested.
03:25I don't know how this is gonna go.
03:27Just pull off the band-aid.
03:29I did.
03:30I did it.
03:31Good job.
03:32How about you?
03:33How are you feeling?
03:34I'm more concerned about you.
03:35We just have to make sure we're on the same page.
03:37You know?
03:40Hello.
03:41Hey!
03:42How are you?
03:43Good to see you.
03:45Good to see you.
03:46Hello.
03:47You doing okay?
03:48You doing okay?
03:49Yeah.
03:50Yeah, I'm doing okay.
03:51You guys are playing Jenga.
03:52You're playing a game.
03:53So, I had a great time with Reese on the first date.
03:57He seems like a great guy, but there are some concerns that I have with Billy that I think
04:03need to definitely be addressed.
04:06So, how's the babies?
04:07How's the kids?
04:08Good.
04:09Getting big.
04:10Oh, my gosh.
04:11You're so cute.
04:12It's crazy.
04:13I was looking at pictures from a year ago and they just look so different and it's only
04:16a year.
04:17So, how are you guys feeling like with everything?
04:21I feel like I love being able to get to know you and like being able to message you and
04:28cause now like you totally understand him.
04:30So, I have somebody that I can relate to.
04:33I know like she's had some questions too.
04:35Yeah, me too.
04:36Yeah, me too.
04:37Shoot, ask away.
04:38Yeah.
04:39I was just wondering like how you feel about some things because it felt like last time
04:46we met that maybe you were uncomfortable.
04:51Got the vibe that maybe it was just like not for you or you weren't sure about me or just
04:57the whole situation in general.
05:02I really didn't even want to come back.
05:05Oh.
05:06I about, I like basically wanted to cut off contact because of it.
05:12Because of my reaction?
05:14Yeah.
05:15Oh, okay.
05:16Knowing that Billy did feel jealous, I'm not surprised that Randy is feeling this way.
05:23I would be really disappointed if we had to end things with Randy because of these feelings.
05:31I mean, we put all this effort, I have put a lot of emotion, a lot of time and energy
05:36and for it to all just kind of be flushed away is really defeating.
05:44This is why mommy's a nurse and not a cake decorator.
06:01I'm going to let it slide because you're cute.
06:06Are you excited for Daddy to come home?
06:09Yeah.
06:10Today's finally the day.
06:12Yessel comes home and I'm super excited.
06:16But I would say this homecoming feels a little bit more awkward than most because we need
06:22to address that things didn't work out with Jackie, which sucks a little bit.
06:29Daddy's going to be home in like 45 minutes, dude.
06:33So mommy's got to get cooking, okay?
06:35I don't want negative feelings to fester or like resentment or anything.
06:40It feels like it might be a little bit in that arena, which is scary.
06:46So I feel like I kind of like this is why I'm excited for your daddy to be home.
07:09It's been a long couple of days of traveling.
07:12I am jet lagged.
07:13Also, I am feeling a little bit cranky about how it was handled with Jackie.
07:21We've had our struggle with seeking a sister wife, obviously.
07:26It just didn't really work out with Jackie.
07:29So it's just one of those things that it sucks, especially because it happened while I was away.
07:36Shortly after Danny and Jackie had that conversation, Jackie did reach out to me.
07:42She immediately let me know how very disappointed she was.
07:47Danny and I haven't really talked about what happened at that dinner or after.
07:54I am feeling a little bit bitter.
07:57We have to really hash this out, so we're back on the same page.
08:01There's no more awkwardness between us.
08:05Daddy.
08:06Oh, hi, boy.
08:07Oh, my goodness.
08:08Go get her home.
08:09No, no, no, no.
08:10Go get her home.
08:11Go get her home.
08:12Go get her home.
08:13Bye, Bobby.
08:14Good job.
08:15Oh, my God.
08:32He's a big boy.
08:33Isn't he heavy?
08:35I am so excited to see Danny and the boys.
08:40Coming home is always one of the best days
08:44of the year, I guess one can say.
08:50Oh, yeah.
08:52Thank you, babe.
08:52You're welcome.
08:54Good luck.
08:55I'm about to bust this food down.
08:56I am really hungry.
08:58This is mine.
09:00Where's your guys' food?
09:02OK.
09:04Did you make some for you?
09:05You know how hard I worked making all of that
09:07with your two children running around in the kitchen?
09:09With, like, no other adult help?
09:12I mean, to be fair, we could have
09:18had a little adult help.
09:23You know.
09:27JJ, JJ, JJ.
09:29No, no.
09:34I could have.
09:36Watched that one, huh?
09:38Are you mad about it or are you?
09:41I mean, I'm a little pissed about it.
09:44It happened while I was away.
09:45I wasn't really there to even try to remedy this situation.
09:50I wasn't there to try to support you in this situation.
09:53Right.
09:53So it sucked.
09:55This is supposed to be a happy time.
10:02I just feel like you're a little hangry and you should probably eat.
10:06We will talk about it later when we can sit down, focus,
10:09full bellies, kids asleep.
10:11OK.
10:12Let's give them a nap while I eat some food.
10:15OK.
10:17I think in an ideal world, Yesel would want Jackie here to welcome him home.
10:23I don't like feeling like I let someone down.
10:28And just, like, knowing that, you know, maybe I could have prevented the ending of everything.
10:36It kind of feels like I took it away from him, so it's just emotional and, like, disappointed in myself a little bit.
10:49We let Danielle come in and we let Vera call her mommy.
10:52And then she left.
10:54I don't want to do that again with Teresa.
10:58It's just enough is enough at this point.
11:02There's been some things going on in my family.
11:05I am scared to let my family in on this because it can go either way.
11:11What is it then?
11:28I want us to be able to have fun and enjoy Jenny's pregnancy.
11:32Absolutely.
11:33And enjoy each other's company.
11:34All the time.
11:35And if every single time we try to talk to her about her...
11:38Self-destructiveness.
11:39Right.
11:40Her self-destructiveness.
11:41Let's go ahead and call it what it is.
11:42Right.
11:43Every time we try to talk to her, she runs away.
11:46And then we never get to talk about it.
11:48And then she'll try to come back and act like nothing ever happened.
11:51You know, I love Teresa very much.
11:54We all do.
11:55She's got a special place in our heart.
11:57And she's made a place in our family.
12:00I mean, we'd like to have a place for her and our family.
12:03But it's been eight or nine months that we've had to constantly revisit these same issues,
12:09these same topics that she finds herself stuck on and able to move past.
12:14This is not the energy or the mode that we want to sustain.
12:23All we've done is try to help, making sure that she feels secure and...
12:29Supported.
12:30...try to help her cancel out all of those negative, you know, self-talk moments.
12:36I don't want to have that constant energy in the house of being like, oh...
12:41Right, right.
12:42You know what I mean?
12:43Walking on eggshells, worried about if somebody's...
12:45Gonna trigger her.
12:46Right.
12:47Something's gonna upset her.
12:48Right.
12:49I mean, and I guess if she's just gonna always run away, then maybe we need to just let her run away.
12:53Yeah.
12:54And not keep trying to pull her back in.
12:59It's 100% about Teresa's relationship with herself.
13:05That is the trouble.
13:06Mm-hmm.
13:07There's nothing we can do to help her address the relationship she has inside.
13:14And the thing is, is the baby's gonna be here in a few weeks.
13:19And it breaks my heart.
13:21Because we're so concerned about making sure Teresa feels good.
13:25We can't even enjoy Jenny's pregnancy.
13:27And I just don't want to keep doing that.
13:34It's like maybe just, you know, keep giving her a chance and give her a chance.
13:38And like, you know, she'll work through it.
13:42But at the same time, we're at the point that we're at.
13:45You know?
13:46And so that's what's...
13:47That's what has me really torn.
13:49You know?
13:50It's like...
13:51Especially coming up on having a baby.
13:53It's like, you know, maybe...
13:56Maybe I'm being too hard.
13:58You know?
13:59Maybe it's not a big deal.
14:00Like, maybe I'm overreacting and stuff like that.
14:05It's upsetting and concerning to me for my two beautiful wives to be all emotional
14:11and upset.
14:12And I'm really not happy about that at all.
14:18We let Danielle come in and we let Vera call her mommy.
14:22You know?
14:23And then she left.
14:24And so it's like, I don't want to do that again with Teresa.
14:30And have my child get attached just for you to leave because you can't get your together.
14:37Yeah.
14:39It's just enough is enough at this point.
14:42Either she's gonna commit herself to doing the internal work that she needs to do to help herself heal.
14:49Or she's not gonna be here.
14:52Today, I'm going over to my mom's house.
15:11house, I'm going to be meeting with my mom, my sister Chastity, my Auntie
15:16Pumpkin, and my Auntie Tiffany, so that I can share that me and Matt, we had this
15:23polygamous relationship. Hey. Are you ready for a shot? Shot o'clock? Yeah, I'll take one.
15:29Two or three years ago, I told Chastity that we had this relationship, but I think I've
15:40decided now after three years to let my family in on our secret, on our life, because we just
15:48broke up with Shanae, and I'm hurting. Right now, I need my family more than ever. I don't
15:57have that extra support to lean on in my relationship, because Matt is also hurting. He doesn't know
16:04how to process my pain and his own. Shot o'clock. Shot o'clock. She's so stupid, I swear.
16:17What? Sorry. What you been up to, Angelica? Nothing, just working. Raising these kids.
16:24Trying. My family is very judgmental. They're extremely opinionated. I am scared to
16:34let my family in on this, because it can go either way. All right, Jeff, go ahead and
16:39explain the game, because some of them don't know. See? You have to see. You have to put
16:43it in the center. Ah, pass it to the right. Left, you pass it to the left.
16:52There you go. Center and right. Yeah. Oh, I got one back. There you go. All right,
16:56so the reason why, you know, I wanted to talk to you guys... Don't make me fall.
17:00There's been some things going on in, you know, my, my house, my family. You can have
17:06just one more baby. No, no more kids. What is it? What is it then? So...
17:11Matt and I have actually been dating... You said you're the swingers? Someone else.
17:24Girl, don't tell me that. What, you swing? Yes!
17:28But we're not swingers. We're not swingers. What is it? Let her talk.
17:31Yeah. We're not swingers. Matt and I have been dating some... a woman and...
17:37What? The same woman? As a sister-wife. As a sister-wife.
17:41Oh, hell no! Oh, hell no! What? I don't get it. I don't know what you're saying to me.
17:48I don't know either. What she's saying?
17:50So essentially, Matt has a second... He has a girlfriend or a second wife.
17:55Do you have a girlfriend?
17:57You sign... You're signing up to be... Like, you and Matt...
18:01A sister-wife on TV?
18:02You and Matt are married. You got that?
18:04Yes!
18:04You and Matt are married. Thank you. You and Matt got married. How long have you been married?
18:10Since 2019.
18:11Okay.
18:13How you sign up to be a side chick? You're married. You're okay with being a married side chick?
18:19I know you love him, but you know what? No.
18:21I can promise you his ain't that good. He don't even got that much money.
18:24It was actually my idea.
18:26Help us, Jesus.
18:29Bye!
18:29Bye!
18:34It doesn't have anything to do with sex. It's not fueled by sex.
18:37What is it? What is it? Not for you?
18:39Why? Why? Why did you bring it up, though? Why?
18:43Because I want the relationship. I want the relationship dynamic, the friendship, the camaraderie.
18:50With Matt? Or the girl?
18:51No, with the other girl.
18:52You want a friend, so you're gonna find a side chick for Matt?
18:55No, no.
18:56Because you're the side chick?
18:57No.
18:58I don't know how she got to this point where she thinks it's okay to find another, a replacement
19:06for herself, because that's what it is.
19:10I love Matt. I love my son-in-law. But I just don't think he's worth any of this.
19:16Angelica, whatever happened to just having an affair? He's throwing that all in your face.
19:25You know what I mean? Why can't he just have an affair?
19:28Because an affair doesn't involve a full relationship.
19:31Oh, it does. Do you think, okay, do you think he will allow you?
19:36I don't want to be with anyone else.
19:39Yes, you do.
19:40But him, she loves him. She just wants to make him happy. That's the way I'm thinking.
19:43I can't say nothing, because the stuff I'm going to say, you're not going to like.
20:04Oh, yeah.
20:10Hey, man.
20:11Hey.
20:13Boys are down after about seven books.
20:16Two bedtime songs.
20:18The usual.
20:19That looks nice.
20:20Ooh.
20:21A little hot.
20:22A little bit.
20:23Almost got me.
20:24Since Yassil's been home, there's definitely some tension in the air.
20:28I can tell he's upset.
20:30A little more paper doesn't hurt.
20:32I think he's pissed.
20:34I know he's pissed.
20:35I want to touch some grass with my toes, because the last three months, I feel like I need to be grounded.
20:45The last few months have felt very long.
20:51While I was away, Jackie and I were video calling, messaging on a pretty regular basis.
20:57Things were going well.
20:58I feel like we had a strong bond.
21:00I felt pretty close to her.
21:02And then in one day, it just blew up.
21:07What happened at that dinner?
21:09What exactly happened?
21:10There it is.
21:11You still a little spicy?
21:13Obviously, things completely fell apart.
21:16Right.
21:17So?
21:18We had the conversation about the no-kid thing.
21:21Like, I'm just not comfortable with her having a biological child with you.
21:26What did she say when you brought that up?
21:28I just feel like she was a little too shell-shocked, and she definitely thought it was unfair.
21:35I feel like, you know, woman to woman, I feel like maybe she could have took it as you asserting almost like some sort of dominance or something.
21:49She could have took it as a threat.
21:51You don't know.
21:52I could have possibly been the buffer there.
21:55It sounds like her problem.
21:57No.
21:58It's an all of us problem.
22:00If you were there, that boundary is not going to change.
22:04So this is not a her problem.
22:09It's not a her problem.
22:16I wonder every day if Dani really wants this.
22:20I have kept a lot of my opinions to myself, and I feel like maybe it wasn't the wisest choice to completely let her, you know, give her the reins.
22:30And I am regretting not being more vocal with my concerns initially.
22:35I don't feel like, I just kind of want to ask, like, is it, is it, do you still want to do this?
22:40Or is it the boundary awaited for you to, like, sabotage?
22:45Kind of like the relationship.
22:47Kind of like the relationship.
22:50So...
22:52You got to look at it from somebody else's point of view.
22:55You're a person coming into an established marriage, an established family.
23:00If somebody's telling you, you cannot have biological kids with my husband.
23:07I mean, wouldn't you see that as a major red flag?
23:10Like, what, what else?
23:12Are they trying to control me, you know?
23:14It's not about control.
23:19Like, it's not, I could, I could see how it would seem unfair to someone.
23:23Absolutely.
23:24And I get that.
23:25But this is not like a new boundary just because it's her.
23:29Is it something that, is it fair to me?
23:31Because, obviously, I want more kids.
23:36Oh, I feel like that's another discussion to have.
23:39And that we're, we can have it right now.
23:47Do you think it's fair to you?
23:56Just, just, just a thought in my head is all it is.
23:58Well, if I could give you more, I would.
24:00Oh, I know you would.
24:01I just, like I've said multiple times, like, I just don't.
24:05My journey's over with it.
24:06My body's done.
24:07My heart is not.
24:11So to watch another woman have what I want so bad.
24:18I can't do that.
24:20I can't do that.
24:23I believe if someone wants this dynamic with us that bad,
24:30then they would, you know, be willing to compromise.
24:40Can you live without having more biological children?
24:43Yeah.
24:50Okay.
24:51Absolutely can.
24:52I mean, I have our three boys.
24:55I have you.
24:56And we're perfectly happy.
24:57I'm perfectly happy.
24:58Okay.
24:59I am more than prepared to sacrifice having another child for the sake of my family, my boys, and my wife's happiness.
25:12All right, let me guess.
25:18During this, during this process, I feel like I've been giving you more of the reins and, you know, with Jackie and all that.
25:25Mm-hmm.
25:26And I feel like it, it, it, it possibly bit us in the ass.
25:32Maybe if we are more together in, in, in all of it.
25:38I just realized we both kind of did the same thing in different ways.
25:45Irony.
25:47You know, we got to learn lessons the hard way.
25:50That's true.
25:52During our first attempt at seeking, Yassel took the reins and I took a backseat and it, it blew up in her face.
26:01The second time around, Yassel let me take the reins because I feel like he felt a little bit guilty and it blew up in her face again.
26:11We're one for one each.
26:13Dead even one for one.
26:14Yes, we are.
26:15Okay.
26:16Knowing that we're both learning from our mistakes is reassuring.
26:20And now it's even.
26:22Moving forward, we should definitely bring up the baby subject in the beginning, you know?
26:28We.
26:29We.
26:30Together.
26:31Together.
26:32So it's not just one person delivering that very big piece.
26:35Especially if we know it's somebody that's definitely interested in having a child.
26:40You know?
26:41Put it in our profile.
26:43It's just one of those things we, I feel like we need to be really upfront about.
26:46Right.
26:48I have learned that keeping quiet doesn't work because emotions are very loud.
26:54Yeah.
26:56And this is for everybody out there.
26:57If your relationship is not solid.
26:59Right.
27:00On solid freaking ground.
27:01Right.
27:02Try and polygamy out.
27:04Whew.
27:05It is not for the faint of heart.
27:06No.
27:07No.
27:08Mm-mm.
27:09As long as we commit to being on the same page with each other, then I feel like, you know, third time might be the charm.
27:18Might be.
27:19Or fourth or fifth or sixth.
27:20We're not gonna speak.
27:21We're not gonna speak.
27:22We're not gonna do that.
27:23This experience has made our relationship better.
27:30Learning how to just slow things down a little bit.
27:33Finding more of those compromises that we never thought we'd have to make.
27:37Right.
27:38As many times, times as it takes.
27:40Jesus.
27:41Okay.
27:42I think our needle and haystack is out there.
27:48How far out there?
27:51No idea.
27:52I don't think it'll be easy.
27:54But I'm looking for a lifelong bond with someone.
27:58You don't take the easy road to get that.
28:00Hot young couple, done with kids, but looking for a sister West.
28:06You're not wrong.
28:08I am hoping third time is the charm and we hit a home run.
28:13But in the back of my mind, all I'm thinking is, does she really want to do this?
28:17We'll see what happens.
28:19Well, I'm about done stroking this fire.
28:23Stoke.
28:24Stroke this fire.
28:25I'm gonna stroke that fire.
28:27Can we go inside now?
28:28Okay.
28:29How do I know you're not just gonna run away with my husband?
28:36I just really hope that Billy can get her feelings in check because I like Randy.
28:41I felt like last time we met that maybe you were uncomfortable because I mean basically it was jealousy.
28:54I really didn't even want to come back.
29:07Because of my reaction.
29:08Yeah.
29:09Okay.
29:10I don't know.
29:11I wanted to talk to you about that a little bit more if we could and just make sure.
29:22Yeah, absolutely.
29:23I've got to run the restroom.
29:24So I'm gonna leave you ladies so you can sit and chat for a minute.
29:27Okay.
29:28All right.
29:29I just really hope that Billy can get her feelings in check because I like Randy.
29:34I see something there.
29:36But this relationship has to work for Billy as well.
29:39So I'm just gonna excuse myself and let them talk amongst themselves because there are gonna be a lot of tough conversations in the future if we do move forward with this.
29:49So I think this will definitely be a test for them to see I mean if they're compatible in this journey.
29:57So.
29:58So.
30:00How do you think that you will handle the jealousy if we do bond and click because I'm not fully convinced right now that you would be able to deal with that.
30:15So one of my biggest fears is how do I know you're not just gonna run away with my husband.
30:25What if my husband ends up loving you more because everything is you know shiny it's new it's fun and I'm not I'm what's been here before you know what I mean.
30:37Old news.
30:38Like yeah like the old news.
30:40I wouldn't do that.
30:42I mean I can understand those fears.
30:46I don't want to ruin anything that you guys have you know.
30:49Yeah.
30:50I mean I wouldn't be human I think if I didn't have some sort of emotion.
30:54Definitely.
30:55You know what I mean.
30:56I totally agree with that too like having all those emotions and fears is natural.
31:01So I know you have your fears but I have mine too.
31:07And how you know am I supposed to know that I'm not always gonna be second.
31:12Yeah and and that's totally legitimate and I've told Reese I don't like like the terms like first wife second wife because I don't want there to be a hierarchy among people.
31:26I it's all it's all of our relationship like yeah we got married first and I understand that like when we have history.
31:33But that's why we're going slow and dating is to build up that rapport so that you guys can be just as comfortable.
31:40You have very valid fears you know and as long as we go slow and steady and everyone's comfortable I think we'll be on the path to the right way because I mean those fears that you have of being kicked out is the same fears that I have you know being kicked out.
31:57I'm glad that we were able to have this conversation and talk about these things because that's really reassuring that yeah things could work you know.
32:11I'm definitely glad that we had this conversation.
32:16Oh I'm starving.
32:17Randy seems really receptive to everything I'm saying which is a good quality you know I want to be able to have a sister wife that I can talk to and ask hard questions or have hard conversations.
32:26So I feel like it's definitely a good thing.
32:33No look who's here.
32:34Oh there he is.
32:35Food is here.
32:36Food is here.
32:37We're back.
32:38Sorry I would call you.
32:39The man, the myth, the legend.
32:40That's right.
32:42So after I mean I guess so where do we stand how like where are we going from here.
32:50I think that we can continue to talk and see where, explore it, see where things go and hopefully it will work out.
33:02Okay cool.
33:03Okay I was kind of nervous.
33:05I was like oh my god.
33:06I know I give up vibes but I promise I'm okay.
33:09I'm really satisfied with the way she handled my concerns.
33:16I feel better knowing that she's willing to communicate and hear my side too.
33:22I'm excited to see where this goes because they're great people.
33:26And Reese is cute and he gets cuter too.
33:31Like he's one of those people that's like you get to another personality and they get, so it's good.
33:38He's so fun.
33:39All right so what are we thinking for third date then?
33:44So we're going to do a third date?
33:45I mean.
33:46Tripoline park.
33:47That's what I was thinking.
33:48Okay.
33:49And.
33:50We're going to do it.
33:51I was really nervous that it wasn't going to happen.
33:54I don't want Billy to be uncomfortable or feeling jealous.
33:58I don't want our relationship to go negatively and get worse while a relationship with someone else is getting better and forming.
34:06So you're going to have to speak up obviously and then we can address it.
34:22Okay.
34:23If Lorena is pregnant, there is no going back.
34:25We're tied to her for life.
34:27Hi love.
34:28Hi sister.
34:36Where were you when he met this girl and went on a date?
34:44So if you let me explain, I can put all that out there.
34:49About three years ago.
34:51Are you kidding me?
34:52We met her on a dating app.
34:54No he met her, not me.
34:55No, no we met her on a dating app.
34:58Okay.
34:59I created his dating profile.
35:01I helped him write the biography.
35:04I was the one that was swiping through the photos and I was the one, I liked her profile.
35:12For him?
35:13For him.
35:14Her name is Shanae.
35:16You know, she's been a great friend to me and like a support system, a sister.
35:22What is this?
35:23What is this about you don't have a support system?
35:25You need to bring this bitch in because you need support?
35:27When your sister's right across the street, I'm always around the corner.
35:31What do you need support for?
35:33For what?
35:34For Matt?
35:35No, it's more than that.
35:37What?
35:38What is it?
35:39It's a different relationship.
35:40She and I are experiencing the same thing.
35:43We're going through the same thing.
35:45What?
35:46What are you going through?
35:47And it's like a frustration with Matt.
35:51She understands how, you know, how he can be and how...
35:55Kind of how?
35:56Because they're in a relationship as well.
36:01My understanding is she's looking for her village, her support system.
36:06She has it right here.
36:07I know.
36:08I said it in front of me and hurt my feelings, but when she explained it to me...
36:11Anything that came out of your mouth right now was supportive.
36:14I...
36:16We're in shock.
36:18It does bother me and hurt me to see her sad and tearing up and holding back her feelings.
36:24At the end of the day, I'm not okay with this, but I am okay with my sister's happiness.
36:29So, um, we actually just got broken up with by Sine.
36:35Good.
36:36And, um...
36:37And you're sad?
36:38I am sad.
36:39Who gives a if she left?
36:40I feel like you're in the middle.
36:41And it's still not going to be you and your husband like it shouldn't be.
36:44And your kids.
36:45But I've developed a really good and close relationship with her and friendship.
36:48That's fine.
36:49You can still be her friend.
36:50Well, that's...
36:51And she can be your best friend.
36:52You know?
36:53That's what I was getting at.
36:54Okay.
36:55What?
36:56She's...
36:57You guys are...
36:58You and her are going to still be friends?
36:59Hopefully, yeah.
37:00You know, this was...
37:02There was a lot of love and a lot of...
37:04A lot that went into this.
37:06I'm in a lot of pain.
37:08You know?
37:09I am in a lot of pain.
37:10I'm hurting.
37:11And I'm looking for my community, my support system.
37:15And I'm coming to you guys asking for that.
37:18That's why I'm here today.
37:20That's...
37:21I love you.
37:22That's what I need.
37:23I don't agree with any of this stuff you're doing, but I'll be here for you.
37:35You can maintain her friendship.
37:36Just keep her out of your bed.
37:38At this point, I'm completely over even attempting to have a conversation with them.
37:44Maybe this wasn't the best way to go about telling my family about our situation.
37:51It just reminds me why we're on this journey.
37:57And it's...
37:58If anything, it's pushing me to continue down this path even more.
38:04I...
38:05I...
38:06I...
38:07I need Shaday.
38:08I...
38:09I cannot lose her.
38:10I...
38:11I...
38:12I...
38:13I...
38:14I...
38:15I...
38:16also...
38:17I'll lose her.
38:18Okay, sister.
38:19You?
38:20Peepy?
38:21Mm-hmm.
38:22Un...
38:23Dois...
38:24Treis...
38:25Cuatro...
38:26Cinco...
38:27Aqui.
38:28This.
38:29It's a cute cute.
38:31three weeks after lorina and garrick got married garrick and my brother sam ended up having to
38:41go out to wisconsin to help my grandma with some remodel work for her house that she's trying to
38:45sell cappy e flat that's the season yeah same so shortly after garrick left for wisconsin with my
38:55brother lorina realized she was a little bit late with her period grávida dois
39:02no gravity um okay eu sempre quis engravidar mas não que eu quisesse engravidar tão rápido chegando
39:15aqui eu estou um pouco preocupada realmente se eu tiver grávida porque vai ser muita mudança é
39:25principalmente eu ainda não estar nativa no idioma do inglês e ter um bebê e também
39:32a minha família longe de mim me deixa um pouco preocupada se vai mudar as coisas muito tanto
39:39pra mim e pro garrick mas também pra família oh my deus lorina's only been in the usa for
39:48three months and garrick and her literally just got married like three weeks ago so everything is
39:52really happening fast to be honest everything with the relationship with lorina has happened fast
39:57immigration like it's kind of surreal how fast everything is going garrick and i have never
40:08been to this point in polygamy where he's having a child with another woman and so i really don't know
40:13how i'm going to feel the reality is that if lorina is pregnant there is no going back we're tied to her for life
40:27okay any minute now she should be here i have no idea what to expect from this conversation this
40:32interaction we're about to have with teresa oh she's here
40:36i just hope that we can all leave from this experience still being friends at the very least
40:47i see my house over here i see her house over here i feel like we're getting really close to having
40:57our dream you know our village our family now would you be okay though knowing i'm right next door with
41:03a sister wife how are you i'm doing all right you yeah i went with matt to see another woman and i
41:16didn't tell shanae i think what broke the camel's back for me is you met this person i'm not ready
41:24to lose her at all i'm angry angelica
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