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00:01Previously on 90 Day Fiancé, The Other Way.
00:04Sorry, no, I'm new.
00:07It's not good.
00:10Our first customer and we lost it.
00:14Jenny, you have to try to do it very quick.
00:16You know what I can do? I can go home.
00:20I'm so excited to see this house. Like, so freaking excited.
00:24There's even the option of renting.
00:26No, no! It's an option.
00:29I am not living in an apartment.
00:31You're reacting as if I'm, like, saying,
00:33we're getting an apartment.
00:35You know why? Because I always end up doing what you want.
00:38And I'm f***ing tired of f***ing.
00:43Lo siento por todos.
00:45I wanted to forgive him.
00:47But I can't stop thinking about he tossing a f***ing stripper.
00:52Me and Madeline got into it a couple times,
00:55trying to work through it.
00:57You haven't said one nice thing about her.
00:59And you're f***ing getting married.
01:01Like, what about this sounds like a good idea?
01:05You're deciding to live here.
01:07And I can't finance it.
01:09My mom's always my number one supporter.
01:12Now it's like my mom's almost working against me.
01:15There is a way that I would be able to support both of you.
01:19If you both moved to Boston.
01:21I've got a job as a designer.
01:23I've never been given up to you.
01:25You've got a job where you remain.
01:27It's so much greater than I can leave.
01:28I've never been taken away away and I'm going to go to, you know?
01:30I'm going to go to university hours later.
01:31I'm going to be out to school.
01:32Do you have to go to school as a school?
01:34I'm going to be out.
01:35I'm going to be right in here.
01:36I'm going to go to school.
01:37I'm going to go to school.
01:38I'm going to go to school with my mom's.
01:43So I'm excited, a day away, you and I, mommy and daddy away, you know, eating cheese and
01:57having some fun.
01:58You and I, we can take some cute photos, we can enjoy and have some like really good cheese.
02:04We cannot wait to eat the cheese.
02:06It is going to be a lot of fun.
02:09Goat cheese is something that Manon and I bonded over when we first started dating.
02:14And she's expecting to just go to like a fromagerie, but I have something else in mind.
02:23This is no Wisconsin cheddar.
02:26This is fromage.
02:29I'm taking Manon to a goat farm.
02:33Vente de fromage.
02:35Vente de fromage. So it's a store where they sell cheese?
02:38It is very authentic.
02:41Are you sure it is what you think it is?
02:44Yeah, it is an authentic cheese experience.
02:50I know that Manon is like not a farm person, but there was a specific type of cheese that Manon loved.
02:59And you cannot have in the U.S. because of regulations.
03:03So I've looked into a goat farm that makes this cheese.
03:07I felt like it would just be something really cool to see, you know, how you make the cheese.
03:12And I always fantasized about getting a goat, making some cheese, goat mowing my lawn for me.
03:20It's the French dream.
03:21There's muds everywhere. Like what is this? Did you brought me to a fricking farm?
03:29So when I said authentic, I meant like farm to table.
03:34Look at my outfit, Antoni. You could have said something this morning.
03:38Wow.
03:39Antoni told me, hey, I'm going to bring you on a nice cute date.
03:43Bonjour. Bonjour.
03:45Oh, the smell.
03:47I dress business sexy chic like my style. But if you would have told me, hey, it involves being at a fricking farm, okay, I would have put up a very cute sexy chic look for the farm. You know, just tell me and I dress the part.
04:04My farm.
04:05Hi, bonjour.
04:06Bonjour.
04:07Vous venez pour un débitation de fromage?
04:11Oui, pour manger le fromage.
04:13D'accord.
04:14Bon, on va faire ça après.
04:16Comment ça va faire ça après, monsieur? Je ne comprends pas.
04:19Avec vos... il faut le temps, hein, vous regardez.
04:21Il faut le temps de quoi?
04:22Tu en train de traire les chèvres.
04:29Non.
04:30Ah, Antoni, vous voulez?
04:32Non, non, non.
04:33Oh, the smell too. Non, non.
04:35I think, Antoni, you want to help me.
04:38OK?
04:39Of course.
04:40Allez.
04:42Allez, please come in.
04:44Oh, what the ?
04:45Where did you brought me?
04:47It's fine.
04:48Oh, no, it's not fine.
04:51No, it's not fine.
04:52It's coming.
04:53The goats are waiting for you.
04:54Yes.
04:55Oh, my gosh.
04:56No, the goats are not waiting for me.
04:57Believe me.
04:58Very gentil.
04:59No, no.
05:00I'm good.
05:01I was, like, thinking I was going on a cute date.
05:08Oh, we go where there's the butch, too.
05:11What the heck?
05:12And I end up with, like, a bunch of, like, goats looking at assholes, smelling disgusting.
05:19The heck is wrong with you?
05:21I told you I'm not a farm girl.
05:23I know your favorite cheese of all time.
05:26Sam Marcelin.
05:27And I was, like, oh, my God.
05:29I got to find this cheese.
05:31It was romance.
05:35You know, no milking, no cheese.
05:38Yeah, no cheese.
05:39That's fine.
05:40I'll go vegan or whatever.
05:45So, you are all the goats.
05:46It's very easy.
05:47You pull it.
05:48Uh-huh.
05:49Whopla.
05:50When it's in contact, it starts automatically.
05:53Oh.
05:54Don't look at me like that.
05:58Look at her.
05:59She's giving me the side eye.
06:00Very facile.
06:01Very facile.
06:02All right.
06:03Try.
06:04Okay.
06:05Bear with me.
06:06All right.
06:07Guys.
06:08There we go.
06:09All right.
06:13It's fine.
06:14It's okay.
06:15Okay.
06:16Oh.
06:19Have you seen the sunset?
06:21The sunset?
06:22Yeah.
06:23No.
06:24No, it's not finished.
06:25Okay, so we're already here all day.
06:26Okay.
06:32If you petted the goats, like, you would have been,
06:34this is the greatest day ever.
06:36No.
06:37The goats were looking at me, like, with side eyes.
06:39No.
06:40Goats can smell fear.
06:47I'm going to bath.
06:48Honey, this is awesome.
06:49This is, like, all I've wanted to do since we've been here.
06:53I'm going back to L.A.
06:54I'm going back to L.A.
06:55Okay.
06:56Ah!
06:57I'm going back to L.A.
06:59There is a way that I would be able to support both of you.
07:12The lottery.
07:13Trust me, I play every weekend.
07:15If you both moved to Boston.
07:17If you both moved to Boston.
07:24Thanks, Amy.
07:25You could have obviously a primary role in my company.
07:28You could have, um, obviously a primary role in my company.
07:32You could have, um, obviously a primary role in my company.
07:36I'd have to support both of you and it's coming to Boston.
07:37You could have obviously a primary role in my company, which was our original plan, and
07:49I'm certain we could get Johnny work there as well.
07:53You wouldn't have to pay rent, and you could both have a very bright future.
08:03Why make it harder if you don't have to?
08:05I mean, I don't know.
08:07I feel like when things are hard sometimes, and you accomplish it, you appreciate it more.
08:12I agree with that.
08:13And it's more rewarding in the end than that.
08:15I didn't know.
08:16I did it, Johnny.
08:17As you know, I built my own company, and I would appreciate not having to do that.
08:25The reason why I like it here so much is being in the water, as close as I am to the water,
08:30and I cherish that a lot, you know?
08:32It's something that-
08:33And I appreciate that.
08:35But I obviously have to bring in a little realism, because that's me as a mom.
08:38Continue.
08:39Is it realistic, Johnny?
08:40I mean-
08:41Is it realistic?
08:43I'm sure if I get partnership papers with Chloe, that will make you feel a lot more
08:55comfortable, showing her that she's legally living in my house and that we don't have
08:59issue with that.
09:00You know what?
09:01None of this, honestly, Jonathan, none of this makes me comfortable.
09:04Here we go.
09:05None of it makes me comfortable.
09:07You know what would be comfortable?
09:09It's my daughter being at home.
09:11I'm sorry.
09:12I'm sorry.
09:13Can I bother you for another glass?
09:14Would you also like one?
09:15No, wait.
09:17I just want you to be happy, and I want her to be happy.
09:24You know?
09:25And I think what would make you happy is if you see her happy.
09:30I think, you know, somewhat selfishly, like, what is that going to look like for me?
09:34What do you mean?
09:35Like, we're so close as we are, you know?
09:39But that's going to change.
09:40No.
09:41It will never change.
09:42And then to have, you know, grandchildren and everything.
09:44I just, I really think that you should think through the Boston option a bit.
09:53I really would appreciate that very much if you could.
09:59I struggled to build a life to ensure that I could take care of my children.
10:04I didn't do that so that Chloe would have that same path.
10:09I think Johnny definitely sees how much money Chloe spends versus how much money she earns.
10:16And Johnny's current job is not going to sustain them both for any significant period of time.
10:25And Chloe being cut off financially, you know, I think he's going to feel it.
10:30How much is it?
10:3570 for the small and 90 for the big.
10:39It's too much.
10:40OK, then go away.
10:41Rohit just shows up unannounced.
10:43He's negative about everything.
10:46I don't trust him at all.
10:48Do you think you will survive here?
10:50You don't have chefs.
10:51Your parents are cooking food.
10:53Who does that?
10:55Please help me get out of the dark house today.
10:58I had to move some money around.
10:59It was $2,000.
11:01I have a surprise for you.
11:03What?
11:04But this might be my last shot to try and make things work.
11:08Look at this.
11:09Hello.
11:10Where are you gonna blow?
11:11This is about glaubeing of the하고.
11:12You have to move the Fujii drafted.
11:13You have to catch podcasts.
11:14Meet me.
11:15pietapun.
11:15veut docteur D
11:21owner.
11:26Bye Ryear,
11:30Papa-ji.
11:30Papa-ji,
11:32let's cut one tomato.
11:36I'm going to put a tomato puree,
11:37and I'm going to put a tomato puree.
11:40Get that one.
11:41No, it's done.
11:42No, it's done.
11:43No, no.
11:44Is there smoke or something?
11:47What happened?
11:48I don't know.
11:49I just all of a sudden start choking.
11:51Because we are cooking here.
11:53That's why.
11:55This is the third day of the cafe,
11:58and business is okay.
12:00It's not that.
12:01But we always can do better.
12:06How are we, Shintu?
12:08All right.
12:10How are you?
12:11Namaste.
12:12Hey, Jenny.
12:13The cook.
12:14Hi.
12:14How are you?
12:16Good.
12:16Welcome.
12:18How are you?
12:19I'm going to see Sumit's restaurant.
12:22I heard about Sumit's cafe
12:24from some of his friends,
12:26that he opened it,
12:27and he didn't invite me in the inauguration.
12:29I don't know why.
12:30And that's how I'm concerned.
12:32So I came here and see.
12:34You know how to do that.
12:35I want one spaghetti.
12:37Spaghetti?
12:39Spaghetti?
12:40Spaghetti not on the menu yet.
12:42Oh.
12:43Not yet.
12:44My bad.
12:45Yes, it is.
12:47All of a sudden, Rohit just shows up unannounced.
12:49I turned around and there he was.
12:52Come outside.
12:53I want to talk to you.
12:54And I just looked at him like,
12:56what are you doing here?
12:58Go have a coffee.
12:59How much is it?
13:0070 for the small and 90 for the big.
13:03It's too much.
13:04Sorry.
13:05We have set prices here, sir.
13:07No, I don't want to have it.
13:08It's very expensive.
13:09Okay, then go away.
13:11Why is everyone so happy to see him?
13:14And when I know he's here to judge
13:17and to be negative about everything,
13:20I don't trust him at all.
13:22So, Sumit, do you see anyone outside?
13:26Two, three people.
13:27Right now, you are at the wrong time.
13:29You know what?
13:30The timing is always right, bro.
13:32You said everything is there.
13:36Too many people are there.
13:38At your restaurant, I didn't see anyone.
13:41You know what?
13:42This area is surrounded by a lot of universities.
13:45This is a hangout spot for the kids.
13:47There's hundreds of students living.
13:50Then why there is no one?
13:51Because this is school time.
13:53It's college time.
13:54Don't you know that if they...
13:55It's lunch time.
13:56No, it's not lunch time.
13:57Who do the lunch at the 12.30?
13:58Me.
13:59You do, but the student,
14:00if they are going to the college
14:01or the university,
14:02they get off by like 2.30 or 5.
14:05Sir, it's on me, okay?
14:07It's very expensive, though.
14:08It's on me.
14:09Good.
14:12Rohit seems to be very jealous
14:14of Samit with this cafe.
14:17So he's going to come and put him down,
14:19and you can't make this work.
14:21Do you give tips?
14:22No, I will not.
14:24He doesn't want us to succeed
14:27because he can't succeed.
14:29Do you think you will survive here?
14:32You don't have chefs.
14:35Your parents are cooking food.
14:37Who does that?
14:38Like, that's why we call it family cafe
14:41because we are working as a family.
14:42No.
14:43Your parents are working here at this age.
14:46For what?
14:47For you?
14:48Problems in this Samit family cafe
14:52is that the family is cooking.
14:55Jenny is making coffee.
14:58For how long?
14:59For how long?
15:00Maybe a day or two,
15:01she will get tired
15:02and she will say,
15:03Sumit, take me home.
15:04And at this age,
15:05he is insisting his parents
15:07to cook, help him.
15:09This is not a real business,
15:10what he's doing.
15:11It will be closed soon, I guess.
15:13We're going to serve food,
15:16which is, you know,
15:17which we eat in our house.
15:19In our house, like in the family.
15:20Homemade cooking.
15:21Homemade cooking.
15:22All those students
15:23who are living away from their house,
15:25I want them to eat something
15:27and think about like
15:28they are still with their family.
15:30And that's the concept.
15:31And maybe we are not like
15:33as fancy as like other people,
15:35like they're serving pizzas
15:36and all other stuff.
15:37But we are making sure that
15:39whomsoever come here
15:40will be a part of the family cafe,
15:42just like our family.
15:45I don't know.
15:46You started this restaurant
15:47in this place
15:49and you are saying,
15:50okay, this will grow.
15:51See, I got a customer.
15:53See?
15:54See?
15:55And look, what he's ordering
15:57is coffee.
16:00One customer.
16:01Yeah, but
16:02there's hardly any customer over there.
16:04Maybe after hearing the price,
16:05he will go away.
16:06No.
16:08It's twisting me out.
16:10He put me into a mindset
16:11where I'm really doubting myself.
16:13What if things won't work out?
16:16What if he's right?
16:18There is nobody.
16:20I cannot see anyone.
16:21Only me
16:22who will not pay for your coffee.
16:27They're making me so worried
16:28that we're going to fail.
16:29I really feel pressure
16:31because I want to prove him wrong
16:33and show him that we can be successful.
16:36I need to make this cafe work.
16:39I need to make this cafe work.
16:58Please help me get out of the doghouse today.
17:14The conversation with Brian made me question my future with Madeleine.
17:19But I love her, and I don't want a life without her in it.
17:24I have no other choice but to fight for our relationship.
17:29Maddie, where are you?
17:32I am the lavandery.
17:35I have a surprise for you.
17:37What?
17:39I have your boxers.
17:41And I have your new dog.
17:46Look at this.
17:46Oh, my God, don't make it, don't make it.
17:53Oh, my God.
17:57Madeleine is not being responsive to anything that I've done to mend this relationship.
18:04The cleansing was a bust.
18:06But when I arrived back in Colombia, she had made it known that she wanted to bring a new puppy into the family.
18:14I had to move some money around.
18:30It was $2,000.
18:31Is this a good use of money?
18:33I don't know.
18:35It's cute, huh?
18:36Are you beautiful?
18:39That is amazing.
18:41I told him I want another dog, and he made true.
18:45Is that curious, Lever?
18:47No.
18:48He's the second little dog I see as more beautiful in my life.
18:53Obviously, the first one is Angel.
18:57So, it looks like Chewbacca.
19:00So, I think we should call him Chewy.
19:02Chewy?
19:03Chewy.
19:03I know, Boyzuan.
19:05Huh.
19:06Cairo.
19:07Like Egypt?
19:09No.
19:10Cairo, the signification is the time of God is perfect.
19:15Okay.
19:16I know it's not going to fix all of the fights, all of the hardships that we've endured,
19:22but I'm really hoping that this puppy will show her that I'm listening and how much I care
19:30about her.
19:31I am your mom.
19:33Yo soy tu mamá.
19:34Our wedding is supposed to be in less than a week, so this might be my last shot to try
19:41and make things work.
19:43Oh.
19:44She don't want even looking at me?
19:47Yeah, because you're bad.
19:51Here.
19:51Okay.
19:53So, you're happy?
19:56You're not mad with me anymore?
20:00Obvio.
20:00Oh, my goodness.
20:11That puppy was so expensive, but this is not about the money.
20:17My love's language is take care of me and service to me.
20:20I just wait for my man to make me feel special.
20:27I'm with this.
20:28He shot me like he pushed over to be better.
20:32That is the only I wanted.
20:34And I forgive him, and he's so happy.
20:37Now move on of that.
20:39But I still be cautious with him.
20:42You were my priority.
20:44That's it.
20:45Nobody else.
20:46I just want us to be okay and for us to move forward.
20:50Okay?
20:50And you know what is the biggest responsibility of all that?
20:54It's yours.
20:56I know.
20:57It's my fault.
20:58I took the blame.
21:00I don't want to fight anymore.
21:01Please.
21:02You won't continue to fight it.
21:04No, I don't.
21:05You know which one will be the consequence of your action.
21:08And you will do it even here.
21:10At the end of the day, I just want to move on.
21:14That's it.
21:14You know the only reasons I don't want to be mad at you?
21:17Why?
21:19For Cairo.
21:19I don't want to be mad at you, because he gave me two.
21:24Oh, my goodness.
21:30Mmm.
21:30Oh, it's so good.
21:32You can see it now, yeah?
21:34I love like 130 goats.
21:36You mean making and doing...
21:37I see myself eating the cheese.
21:40Can you imagine the investment?
21:41First of all, the money, because you need like...
21:44Put it in your mouth.
21:45Mmm.
21:55Hi.
21:56I know.
22:01You're waiting your turn to eat, aren't you?
22:03Do you want to be a real farmer?
22:14Sure.
22:15Is it yours?
22:16Okay.
22:16Allé, allé, allé.
22:18Allé, allé, allé.
22:20Allé!
22:21Allé!
22:21Allé!
22:22Why do they scream?
22:22Allé, allé, allé, allé, allé, allé!
22:26Allé!
22:30Merci beaucoup, chef!
22:34What the f***?
22:35Oh, my Lord Jesus Christ.
22:37Oh, my gosh.
22:38Santa Maria.
22:39I'm here.
22:43Seeing Menon's reaction to the farm, I'm kind of questioning my decision on the surprise.
22:51Okay.
22:53There are the flyers everywhere!
22:55But I am thrilled when the farmer is asking me to help him.
23:02Very good, student.
23:03That was awesome.
23:06What's up?
23:07So this is what's going on.
23:08We're going to farm all day?
23:10No.
23:10That's what you call a nice copole experience?
23:13We're done milking the goats.
23:15It was so cool.
23:16You should have at least tried it.
23:18No.
23:19You left me for, like, some f***ing...
23:21I was there to learn.
23:22No, that's not cool, bro.
23:24Not cool.
23:24Oh, my gosh.
23:25Not cool.
23:27The faster I help him, the faster we eat the cheese.
23:31Wow.
23:32Oh, yes!
23:33Okay, the good part, finally.
23:36The farmer waiting for all day?
23:38Oh, yeah.
23:39With the sunset.
23:40Oh, yeah.
23:40With the sunset.
23:40Exactly.
23:41This is my type of experience.
23:43Exactly.
23:44Merci beaucoup.
23:46Yeah, yeah.
23:47This is what I love.
23:49Uh-huh.
23:49Okay?
23:49See, change your tune already.
23:51Yeah, but I don't need to make it.
23:53Give me a big piece.
23:56Oh, what's up?
23:59Hey, stop.
23:59One sec.
24:00I haven't finished the one.
24:01Good.
24:01Put it in your mouth.
24:02Mm.
24:02Okay.
24:03I could eat that all day, every day.
24:08You can see it now, yeah?
24:10See what?
24:11This.
24:12I mean, not like on this scale of like 130 goats.
24:15You mean making?
24:1680,000 cheese.
24:17You mean making and doing?
24:18No, I see myself eating the cheese.
24:20This is just not for me.
24:22Like, can you imagine the investment?
24:24First of all, the money, because you need like equipment to do it.
24:28The commitment of having a goat.
24:30We have Ben already.
24:31Ben is a big goat to take care about already.
24:33Okay, but like, I'm not talking about massive production of goats.
24:37Just some animals as a hobby.
24:40Make some cheese.
24:42Ben will love it because he loves animals.
24:45You want more space.
24:46Making cheese as a hobby in the future, maybe, whatever.
24:53But how this is helping our situation right now, it's not.
24:59We are struggling.
25:00We moved here for like a balance.
25:02I feel you do what you want for you.
25:05So you didn't have fun today?
25:08When I ate the cheese.
25:11I thought this would be a really cool experience.
25:13It doesn't feel that your intention were actually good.
25:17Your intention was like, I want to do this.
25:19I'm going to bring her with me even if she doesn't like it.
25:22It's not my intention.
25:24My intention was to show you a new side of France that we both haven't seen.
25:28We both love goat cheese.
25:30You know, this is not what I like to do.
25:34I was very uncomfortable.
25:36It's absolutely not my world.
25:38So respect also that I'm still here making an effort for you.
25:41At least I'm here.
25:42And when have I not been there for you?
25:46Anthony, I'm sick and tired of you trying to negotiate with me all the time
25:52and trying to make me change my mind and playing games on me like that.
25:57When I just feel you don't listen, it's just too much.
26:02Of course, I want you to be happy and I don't want it to be all about me.
26:06But you need also a little bit to go towards your wife.
26:11Moving to France did wonders for my relationship with my son, with Ben, but not with my husband.
26:17And in a lot of ways, it actually puts more pressure.
26:22We live at my parents.
26:24There's no intimacy whatsoever.
26:27We are exhausted because we sleep in a tiny bed with a two-year-old.
26:31So we sleep like this every night.
26:34I love that he actually took the time to plan a little date for us to be alone.
26:39But that was absolutely not for us or for me.
26:42That was actually a date for himself with a goat.
26:47I don't know what to do anymore with you, Anthony.
26:49Maybe we just cannot communicate with each other.
26:52We didn't get off to, like, the greatest start.
27:01Why?
27:02I was feeling pretty torn about telling my mom, I don't want her down my neck, telling me,
27:08Chloe, you're stupid.
27:09This is a bad idea.
27:10Why would you do this?
27:11Okay.
27:12I'm actually pissed about that.
27:18We are here.
27:19Are we ready?
27:25It's a hot day.
27:26It is a hot day.
27:36Look at this water.
27:37It's beautiful.
27:38It's nice.
27:39This is perfect.
27:40Yes.
27:42Last night, Jonathan and me went to dinner with my mom,
27:45and things got a little...
27:49They got a little hectic.
27:51My mom really put the burners on our relationship.
27:55Jonathan, can you get me and my mom a drink?
27:57Yeah, of course.
27:58I think my mom's offer of Jonathan and me both moving to work with the company would have sounded great.
28:06But it's important to us to build something together and kind of create our own life in the future.
28:14Yeah, honey.
28:15Hakuna patata.
28:17Two pina coladas.
28:17Two pina coladas, please.
28:19It's like the heaviest card I ever held in my hand.
28:21It doesn't melt.
28:22It's metal.
28:23Wow.
28:24Watch.
28:25Jesus.
28:27You never seen that before?
28:29I'll be back in a few hours, okay?
28:30I'll be back.
28:31I'll get you guys the drinks.
28:33Aren't you going to miss this when you go back home?
28:37No.
28:38I'm going to miss you, but not this.
28:42I think you're lying.
28:43I think it's beautiful.
28:44Don't get me wrong, but if I want to retire, I can't keep just vacationing all the time.
28:50I have to save money and get ready for retirement.
28:55Yeah.
28:56I just wish you would come home with me.
29:00Well, I can't do that.
29:02That's kind of...
29:04That ship sailed.
29:08I don't like the fact that I'm leaving, and I'm leaving you here.
29:11Like, you've made a decision to stay here, and with no financial support, like, and you
29:16have, you know, the clock's ticking.
29:18I just struggle with wondering why you want to do this, and I get that you love Jonathan,
29:23but I just think Boston would be a better place for both of you.
29:29It's important to our relationship to be here right now and to start here.
29:33I mean, going to the States would also be a lot harder.
29:36If the roles were reversed, to get Jonathan there would be a lot worse.
29:41The processes are much longer and much harder.
29:43Me and Jonathan would have to do, like, long distance for a long time.
29:47And Jonathan and I will not last long distance.
29:51We won't.
29:51I've told you this.
29:52We just won't.
29:54Now, the reason why I need to be here, it's like some relationships can do it.
29:59We cannot.
29:59Well, I think a relationship that you're going to commit to, you know, potentially forever
30:06should be able to sustain long distance for a period of time.
30:10And if it's not, then it's not something that you should even be entertaining.
30:15Definitely sounds like a trust issue, and you should probably spend some time thinking about that.
30:19Well, I mean, Jonathan, I mean, we didn't get off to, like, the greatest start.
30:25What?
30:26Like, what do you mean?
30:27Like, at the very beginning, I thought everything was fine, and then all of a sudden, he's like,
30:33I'm going to Miami for a boys' trip.
30:35So I'm like, yeah, go have a boys' trip.
30:37I don't care.
30:38And I think maybe in that moment, I thought we were more serious than we were,
30:42because then I found out on social media that he was with a girl for her birthday in Florida.
30:51That's why he went there?
30:53He went to Florida to go see another girl?
30:54He brought her there for her birthday, yeah.
30:57So she was from here?
30:58She was from here, yeah.
31:03Okay.
31:04I am absolutely pissed that Johnny was not faithful to my daughter.
31:09No, I'm actually pissed about that, so.
31:12Yeah, tell me.
31:12Yeah, I went on telling him, actually.
31:16As a mother, I can't even put into words how disappointed and concerned I am, because for
31:24you to build a relationship based on infidelity, like, in lack of trust, is outrageous to me,
31:30and it's destined to feel.
31:34I mean, yeah, it wasn't exactly the greatest start, but, I mean, we've had our issues.
31:40We definitely have, but I think at the end of the day...
31:42That's a big one.
31:42Yeah, it was a big deal.
31:44That's why I'm having these issues.
31:47But you think that you can stay here and that's going to fix the ability to trust someone?
31:51That doesn't make any sense.
31:53If you can't trust somebody, you shouldn't be committing anything to him, let alone changing
31:58your entire life and leaving, you know, leaving your family behind and your friends behind
32:03and your pets behind and your brother behind.
32:06It makes it a lot harder.
32:08You know, that's a whole other conversation, and that makes me more concerned than I actually
32:13was five minutes ago.
32:15Even though it happened, like, 11 months ago, I'm really, to this day, still not happy about
32:23it, because we had many occasions where I had sat him down saying, do not lie.
32:30Just do not lie.
32:32And he lied.
32:34But I'm trying to reassure my mom as best I can that I know what I'm doing.
32:38I don't want her down my neck telling me, Chloe, you're stupid.
32:42This is a bad idea.
32:43Why would you do this?
32:44And make my anxiety and my trust issues honestly harder.
32:50It sounds concerning, is what it sounds like.
32:54I mean, as your mother, that to me is, you know, a lot bigger than a position or a job.
33:00But I mean, there was just certain things that they seemed crazy or they seemed small that
33:04helped, that the more he did them, it made me feel better.
33:09And slowly over time, he kept proving to me that he did want this to work, and he did want
33:14me to come here.
33:15I kind of put the trust on him to rebuild it.
33:21And he did.
33:23I was feeling pretty torn about telling my mom about Jonathan's little cheating scenario.
33:31But at the same time, I wanted her to kind of understand where I'm coming from.
33:35But now, I kind of regret telling my mom what happened with Jonathan in the past, because
33:41now she will always have that in the back of her head.
33:45And every decision that I make, she's just always going to think, how can she choose to
33:51go on?
33:53I'm obviously super concerned.
33:56But quite honestly, the infidelity would have been enough for me.
34:01I mean, yeah, in a perfect world, that would not have happened.
34:05It's not a perfect world.
34:05I know.
34:06In a perfect world, that would not have happened.
34:06It's a low expectation world.
34:09I don't have a positive outlook on where this is going.
34:14But, you know, for your sake, I really hope it doesn't backfire.
34:19Can you help me?
34:23No, do it.
34:24You're ridiculous.
34:25I've sacrificed so much to just try and make her happy.
34:28And I haven't been appreciated.
34:32You want me to do everything.
34:33I do the work.
34:34I pay the bills.
34:35I do this.
34:36This isn't the life that I sign up for.
34:38F*** you.
34:39F*** you.
34:49Are you ready to go to Guatapé?
35:07Can you pop the trunk?
35:10Do more, baby.
35:12Can you pop the trunk?
35:14Can you put this on the side, please?
35:15See, but I think this is the last thing you need to bring.
35:19Yeah, just, if you're not going to help, you just need to help me do it.
35:25The wedding is this weekend, and Luke came in.
35:28We're driving to Guatapé.
35:31I agreed to forgive Luke, and I tried to move on.
35:35But I feel so nervous.
35:37I really hope he don't prove I am wrong.
35:41Are you guys ready for three hours of strike?
35:45Can you help me?
35:47Put this on this hanger.
35:48No, do it.
35:49You're ridiculous.
35:51A couple days ago, Madeline and I worked things out.
35:54I'm glad the marriage is back on.
35:56I'm happy that we have another shot together.
35:59But things are still not going as smoothly as I thought.
36:04Close the door.
36:09I was hoping we could put all the fighting behind us.
36:12But that doesn't seem to be the case.
36:15Yeah, it's stressful.
36:19Do you know what I think?
36:21Yeah.
36:21The dogs are a very good sense of character.
36:27And both dogs are with me right now.
36:29Mentiroso.
36:35Oh.
36:37She always loved me more.
36:39So you want to go with your mama?
36:40I'm kind of going to love me more, too.
36:46You barely take care of her.
36:49How you can I say that?
36:53You never help.
36:54I always do everything.
36:56Oh, you don't say that to yourself.
36:59You leave your boxers in the floor, smiling like a s**t.
37:04Oh, like you always be a baby.
37:08I don't want to complain about putting s**t in the car because I can do it.
37:12I have the dog.
37:15Why the hell man if he need to take the s**t into my car?
37:19Look at this, how I couldn't take the little, the bigger suitcase with this.
37:28Like, I am the woman.
37:30I need to be straight like a queen.
37:31You should be be caballero.
37:39I am a gentleman.
37:40No, you don't.
37:41I open the doors for you.
37:42I do everything for you.
37:44I, like, try and be nice to you.
37:46You do it when I tell you why you don't do it.
37:48You, like, try and bicker and fight and nitpick and so many things.
37:53Like, how f**king rude.
37:55How you talk to me, bro?
37:57Okay, like, I'm just saying, like.
37:58How you talk to me?
37:59Okay, I'm just saying, like.
38:01How you talk to me?
38:06You want me to do everything.
38:08I do the work.
38:09I pay the bills.
38:10I do this.
38:11I cook.
38:11I clean.
38:12I do, like.
38:13You think I don't kind of pay my bills?
38:15I can't.
38:16If you want to be with me, you need to be providor.
38:20You know it's so ugly when you pay for something and later you mention you pay for that.
38:27Be a man.
38:28Pay the rent.
38:28I pay the bills.
38:29It's the minimal things.
38:30It's the main, the men have to do.
38:34Me and I.
38:35If this is anything like what our marriage is going to be like, holy f**k do we have problems.
38:43The things that Brian and I had talked about are really sinking in right now.
38:48I felt like I haven't been myself in a really long time.
38:50I feel like I've sacrificed so much to just try and make her happy.
39:06And I haven't been appreciated for.
39:11I'm constantly disrespected by a 20-year-old.
39:16I think I gave you a pretty good life.
39:19You think you gave me a pretty good life?
39:22You think I already don't have a pretty good life?
39:27It seems like you're always mad at me.
39:30Yes, I am.
39:31You always made me mad.
39:33It doesn't seem like you're out the good thing.
39:35F**k you.
39:36This isn't like the life that I sign up for.
39:40I don't like fighting.
39:41Yes, I am mad because it's you who disappointed me.
39:44But you're always mad.
39:45And made me ask you why I f**king be with you.
39:47Why?
39:48Like, why?
39:51And you never made me happy.
39:53Exactly.
39:53So, like, what are we doing here?
39:55Shut up.
39:58I am so furious right now.
40:01I kind of believe, Osea, we're fighting a lot.
40:04And you just continue to make more f**king f**king f**king f**king f**king.
40:06Are you f**king f**king kidding me?
40:08You're very opinionated.
40:09and you're so you try and be so dominant and you try and and you try and act like you're the boss
40:15of everything and everyone in the whole world you're not though i am you're not i put up with
40:21all your baggage and all your good stuff because i love you
40:24mentiroso don't interrupt me mentiroso like i am how i am you don't like it leave
40:38i have so many more reasons for leave of this relationship respect goes both ways
40:44next time on 90 day fiance the other way i don't know if i'm nervous for my own to see me as a mime
41:02or to improvise for strangers but it is the only job that i'm qualified for
41:08what the antoni what the heck what are you doing this what is what's wrong with you
41:17welcome to the great outdoors i love it really it's so different from being in the city
41:24that's mom hi mom hi how are you going she's constantly invading our relationship she calls
41:34every day what's the big deal it's my mom babe it's not normal
41:43very windy today yeah learning that johnny cheated on my daughter has changed a lot of things if it
41:50was up to me i would bring my daughter home with me it scares me and i don't want to leave my daughter
41:55here on this island with you i have been feeling shifts in my relationship with matthew in the past
42:07six months honey i'm home hey what's for the tears
42:16since i've arrived all we've done is fight i have doubt in my mind whether or not i'm the right person
42:23for you we don't make each other happy what are we doing here
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