Seeking Sister Wife Season 6 Episode 4

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00:00Is that illegal?

00:01To hear that our family doesn't support our choice of what we're going to do, it's kind of hard to hear.

00:07It feels like I'm pulling your attention from your family.

00:11Would you ever consider moving closer to us?

00:14I have something I've been holding back from telling Matt and Angelica,

00:17but I think it needs to be in person and I think they both need to be present for it

00:22because it could absolutely be a game changer.

00:24I don't want another woman to have a child with you.

00:30That may create some drama.

00:32I couldn't handle that.

00:34Everything needs to be fair across the board and this boundary has the potential to create a whole lot of friction.

00:54Oh, it's a donut shop.

01:07Oh, I remember.

01:09Bakery.

01:09Donuts.

01:10Ice cream.

01:11Filios.

01:12Ice cream.

01:13You like it?

01:14Yeah, yummy.

01:15Si.

01:16It being Lorena's second day in America, we're trying to enjoy it and not think about all the things that we have to do right now.

01:24The 90 days.

01:25The 90 days is ticking.

01:27But after an emotional day of Lorena and I moving our stuff between the sister room and Garrick's room,

01:33we thought it'd be a good idea to show her a little bit of Buena Vista.

01:37Here, beer and whiskeys.

01:41Muy to whiskey.

01:42Yeah?

01:43Oh, yeah.

01:43You?

01:44Bar.

01:45You.

01:45A jail.

01:46Si?

01:47A jailhouse.

01:47It's not every day you see a guy with two wives walking through town.

01:51It's different, you know, for sure.

01:55You know, it's not normal.

01:56Proteção, não chuva.

01:59Yeah, sim.

02:00Perfeito.

02:01Gostei.

02:01Bonito.

02:02Muito bonito.

02:03Bom, eu estava um pouco curiosa para ver como que seria, se, lógico, veria também pessoas negras,

02:10como que seria, de fato, se iriam me olhar ou não.

02:14Eu estava ansiosa para isso.

02:15Eu não vi em uma área só tantas pessoas brancas.

02:42E sobre me adaptar a gostar daqui, eu acho que com certeza vai levar um tempo.

02:49Porque além do idioma, a diferença de cultura, de gostos, então eu vou me adaptar.

02:55E também é uma novidade para mim estar casada, morando junto.

03:00Ova, casa.

03:01Aqui?

03:02Sim, all the way down.

03:04Gerrick, família, há muito anos.

03:07Vida Vista, sim.

03:09Long time.

03:10Five? Generations?

03:11Six.

03:12Six.

03:13Seis?

03:14Muito tempo.

03:14Generations, só.

03:15Generations, yeah.

03:17Wow.

03:18My family has been in Buena Vista for a very long time.

03:23They were a minor family that came into the valley.

03:26His family helped settle the town, like, before it was even a...

03:29There wasn't a town.

03:30My family has started businesses.

03:32I've been a part of the community.

03:34And when I came out as living plural or a polygamous lifestyle, they disowned me.

03:41You know, certain people in town definitely aren't happy about us living this way.

03:45No one's mean to our face.

03:47They're never mean to our face.

03:49Just like Jesus in his hometown, they didn't really like him.

03:54I think that's just part of the cycle of God, how God has ordained things.

04:01Oh, that was the place you were thinking, too, for a reception, right?

04:04For the wedding.

04:05Yeah.

04:06Up there, dancing, come eat after a ceremony.

04:10Ah, ceremony.

04:11Ah.

04:11Baby for a wedding.

04:12Ah, fish, ah, yeah.

04:13Yeah, up there.

04:14It's definitely important for me to, you know, show Lorraine around.

04:19She's definitely probably a little sticker shocked of everything, the small town, the mountains.

04:25You're living in a big house now.

04:28Not in the city.

04:29Not in the city.

04:31Not by the ocean.

04:33And, you know, I really pray she embraces her future, and this is her future.

04:39Um, it's different.

04:41It's pretty, it can take a while to settle in.

04:45Movie.

04:46No more.

04:48No more.

04:48Ah, but, yeah.

04:50Outro city, cidade, outro cinema.

04:53No more.

04:54No more?

04:55Yeah.

04:56Only shopping grande.

04:58No shopping.

04:59No more.

05:00No more.

05:01No more.

05:31Oh, my God.

05:37I can't stop you if you want to go, go.

05:41Don't break into my heart.

05:44Go and don't come back.

05:45Go and don't come back.

05:47Back and just to love me and me.

05:50What are you guys doing over there?

05:53Taking hits to the face.

05:55Get on it.

05:55You're okay?

05:56Oh, you fell.

05:58Um, Sinead, she's on her way.

06:01Okay.

06:01Sinead's on her way to continue the conversation we were having last night with Angelica involved

06:06as well.

06:08Sinead and I hit a dead end last night talking about needing to live closer and spend more

06:12time together.

06:13Maybe get the kids down for a nap.

06:16I didn't tell Angelica what me and Sinead talked about because I got in.

06:20It was really late.

06:22Angelica was already in bed.

06:23Come on.

06:24Let's go to bed.

06:25And then in the morning, when you have two toddlers running around, there's no time

06:29to get a conversation in.

06:30I'm nervous that Sinead's at her breaking point.

06:40Hello, beautiful.

06:41How was your drive?

06:43That wasn't bad.

06:44Yeah, Jack, I'll take it.

06:46Where things currently stand with Matthew and Angelica, I think the best way to describe

06:52is we're at a crossroads, um, about two and a half years into it, Matt's job situation

06:57changed.

06:58Um, it caused a huge disruption to our schedules and I think that's when we really hit a wall

07:04with one another.

07:05Woman, you have company.

07:07Okay.

07:08I stuck around with Matt and Angelica for the last year, year and a half, despite the

07:13roadblock that me and Matt hit because I can see a future with them.

07:17Good morning.

07:18Well, good afternoon.

07:19Good afternoon.

07:20If Matt were to just put an ounce more effort into addressing some of the challenges, something

07:29as small as, like, a heartfelt good morning text, picking up the phone and just calling

07:34me, like, something small as that, that's what feels real.

07:39And I don't have that.

07:41With Matthew.

07:43How was your guys' night?

07:45It was all right.

07:46More importantly, how was yours?

07:48Yeah.

07:49He asked if I would be willing to, like, move closer to you guys since the time apart

07:55or the time, the lack of time that we get to spend together is really starting to get

07:59to me.

08:01Um, I expressed my concerns.

08:04Then I asked him the same question.

08:05I was like, well, what if you guys move closer to me?

08:08Um.

08:08So you're coming to me for the actual answer?

08:11Yeah, sure.

08:11That works.

08:13Could you guys see yourself moving closer to me?

08:15Well, moving is huge.

08:22And, you know, we do have, we both have kids.

08:25And ours are also established in school, though I would love to.

08:34I know.

08:35It's not an easy, it's not an easy decision.

08:38We can't move closer to her right now, and she can't move closer to us.

08:42So we're kind of at a stalemate right now.

08:44And someone's going to have to uproot their job, take their kids out of schools, you know,

08:50change their whole surroundings.

08:52I know I need to sacrifice more time with Angelica and the kids until someone is able to make some

08:58sort of change.

08:58But I'm just not sure that that's enough to keep Shanae happy.

09:03We just can't deny that, like, we have two separate lives, and they're this far apart,

09:08and we're trying to make it work and be in the middle, and we've been met with quite a few challenges.

09:14So there's a lot of information I have to process and kind of, like, sit with.

09:19I think you should take whatever time you need to think and process and see how you feel.

09:24I mean, how would you feel if I maybe went out on, like, dates with other people?

09:39To see, like, if there's something that might exist for me that isn't so challenging.

09:45I'm not going to say I'm going to be okay with it, but I also can't stop you from doing

09:55what you want to do.

10:01You'll be back.

10:04You say it so confidently.

10:06I know.

10:06I don't want it to, like, hurt your feelings or, like, disrespect the relationship that we've

10:14all built together, but I did go on a date.

10:24Just to see how it felt, and me and the person clicked really well.

10:29This person is a lot closer to me, and I have a lot of fun with him, and we communicate

10:36really, really well together.

10:42I decided to drop the news that I've been dating and that I met somebody else just because

10:48it didn't feel good keeping it as a secret.

10:50I felt like I was doing something wrong, and although I consider myself to be their girlfriend,

10:55it hasn't felt like a real relationship in a while, so let's just lay it all out on the

11:01table and have all of our cards in front of us so we can decide where we really go from

11:06here.

11:07If you feel that's what's going to make you happy, then that's what you have to do.

11:14Obviously, we want...

11:15Like, you truly okay with that?

11:16Like, hearing that I've met somebody and...

11:19No, but who am I to stop you from that?

11:23I mean, if I'm being honest, that wasn't the response that I was expecting.

11:27I would have expected you to have a little bit more, like, no, don't.

11:32I mean...

11:34Um, I'm upset.

11:36Very upset.

11:38But it's like a defensive mechanism for me to kind of just cut things off from what could

11:43happen in the future.

11:44Um, he knows about you two, and he just has one very adamant request, and that's not to

11:55be intimate with you, as we're exploring potentially entering that into our relationship.

12:02Um...

12:04Well, are you guys being intimate?

12:10Um...

12:11We have.

12:14F*** him.

12:16Whoa.

12:16What?

12:17You just asked me what I really feel about it, so I just told you.

12:21No.

12:22You shouldn't.

12:22I don't want you to.

12:23So, Nikki, I wanted to tell you something.

12:31Well, spit it out, because you're freaking me out.

12:33Reese and I are on the hunt for a sister wife.

12:40So, Jackie messaged me recently.

12:43Wait, texted me in the group chat?

12:46Because, I mean, I don't miss much, but...

12:48I'll tell you in the group chat.

12:50If he doesn't live up to what we agree to, then I don't think I can continue to seek

12:58a sister wife.

13:09All right.

13:12Oh, Billy.

13:13Does this remind you of anyone?

13:16Look, it's my high school boyfriend.

13:18Oh.

13:20Oh.

13:21Too much cactus.

13:22Too much cactus.

13:24So, Reese and I have been on the apps for a few months now, and we've been trying to

13:29meet our sister wife that way, and obviously it's not working out the best.

13:33So, we have decided that we are going to tell a few of our friends that are really open-minded,

13:38and hopefully they have suggestions on how to meet new people.

13:42These are super cool.

13:43Mm-hmm.

13:43I've known Nikki for 13 years, and she knows mine and Reese's dynamic, and our personalities

13:49really, really well.

13:50I think telling her would be really helpful because she knows a lot of interesting people,

13:55and she could put some feelers out and maybe finally get a date for Reese.

14:00So, Nikki, I wanted to tell you something.

14:07I've got Kayla's opinion on it, and I was wondering what your opinion would be.

14:14Well, spit it out because you're freaking me out.

14:15Okay, so Reese and I are actually on the hunt for a sister wife.

14:29Shut up.

14:30You knew about this?

14:31I did.

14:31I mean, I'm kind of speechless.

14:35Yeah, some big news.

14:38I'm just like, I'm all over the place in my head about it.

14:41Okay.

14:41I'm cool, like, it's cool, but I just need you to, like...

14:44Clarify some for you?

14:45Okay.

14:46So, what exactly is a sister wife like?

14:48Basically, like, we're bringing someone into our family, so Reese will have, like, a relationship

14:53with her like he does with me.

14:55And you're cool with that?

14:56Yeah.

14:57It was my idea, actually.

14:58I mean, like, what, you're just laying in bed one day, and you're like, hey, I think

15:02I'm going to get me a sister wife.

15:04Like, how did that whole thing come about?

15:06Honestly, it started when we knew that we had to use donor eggs.

15:10And the way that our children came to be kind of helped me and opened my eyes to seeing

15:17that there is more to life than just the stereotypical mom, dad, kids.

15:23Like, there's more love to give.

15:24So you want, like, a community-ish.

15:26Yeah, yeah, basically.

15:27What type of thing?

15:28It took me so long to convince him before he...

15:30And you don't think you'll be jealous?

15:32Like, what if he's, like, I don't know, more into her on a Thursday or...

15:36Then that's great for her.

15:38All the time.

15:39I'm not jealous right now because it's not been an issue.

15:43So I don't know, confronted with it, will I have those feelings?

15:46I mean, we'll cross that bridge when we get there, I guess.

15:49I am shocked.

15:51I am speechless but excited.

15:55I am elated for her.

16:00I love it when people can live in their truth.

16:02And so I think it's really cool.

16:06Do you have anyone in mind?

16:07Currently, no.

16:08I've let him kind of just do his own thing and go on the apps and see how that has worked

16:15out.

16:16And I think he's hitting a little bit of a road bump and it's been kind of hard for him.

16:20So I'm asking you guys...

16:22I'm like, could I, could I, like, hook up dates?

16:26Yeah.

16:26Because I've got the, the pimpin' black book, girl.

16:29I'll get into it.

16:30I'll get into it.

16:32That's what I need.

16:33I would appreciate any help because the guy needs it.

16:36You know, I'm a better done kind of girl.

16:38That's true.

16:39All right.

16:39That's true.

16:40That's why I'm asking you.

16:40So can I take on the job?

16:42Like, I can be the person hunter?

16:44I will assign it to you.

16:45Right on.

16:45Yay!

16:48Okay, I'm down.

16:49I have a wide range of a social group.

16:52Closed-minded people, open-minded people.

16:54I know a little bit of everybody.

16:56But Reese might have a few problems dating because he's quirky, awkward, and funny.

17:02He's all over the place.

17:04But I think if I can match him up with the right person, it'll all be good.

17:09Okay, so what am I looking for for Reese?

17:11Reese's type.

17:12Let's see.

17:13He likes not, like, super tall girls around his height.

17:17Intellect is obviously a big thing.

17:20And I don't know if you guys know, like, the Michelle Obama type.

17:22Like, that's what we're looking for.

17:25Independent women.

17:26These are not people who are like, oh, do everything for me.

17:30Like, I want you to be.

17:30So an assertive leader.

17:32That's why, this is why we are all here together.

17:34And this is what Reese surrounds himself with.

17:37It's very strong, powerful women.

17:40A lot is riding on Nikki to come through for us on this.

17:44My dreams of having this community and a big family, I feel like that dream is just slowly

17:50dying.

17:51I really hope she's able to find someone who's a good fit for our family.

17:55I think I can handle it.

17:56We'll see.

17:57I'll find you the perfect girl.

17:58I hope so.

17:59I hope you can.

18:07You want mommy to show you how to do a snow angel?

18:09Like this.

18:10In the snow, like that, look.

18:11Put him down.

18:12Go like this.

18:13Yesel's job requires him to travel for months at a time, which is really hard on me and

18:18the kids.

18:19So when he's leaving for a big trip, we like to spend a few days before he leaves, squeezing

18:25in that last bit of family time.

18:26All right.

18:27You want to swing duty?

18:28Ready?

18:31We're in bright light.

18:32They're on the swings.

18:33I'm hoping to just burn enough energy so we can be productive.

18:37Take a nap.

18:38You ain't napping.

18:39You have things to do.

18:40Not me.

18:41I'm taking a nap.

18:43Have you started packing yet?

18:45Who's packing?

18:46Do I know her?

18:47Is that a person?

18:49Who's packing?

18:50I am going to miss you terribly.

18:52It's always hard.

18:53I'm going to miss you too, babe.

18:54It's always very freaking hard.

18:56At least the good news is, this time around, we're going to have another lady around.

19:01That's true.

19:02What are you thinking so far?

19:04You know, with Jackie?

19:08So we met somebody.

19:10Her name is Jackie.

19:12We met her through an app.

19:13She messaged us.

19:14She was like, oh my God, you guys look very beautiful.

19:17So we have been seeing her for a few weeks now.

19:20Our first date was tacos and margaritas because that is us right there.

19:25So far it's going great and we really like her.

19:28Things seem like, you know, things are going well in the group chat.

19:31Yeah, I think we all mesh really well.

19:35We all have like good natural conversations.

19:39Like it's not forced.

19:40Jessel's listened and he's been respectful of the boundaries.

19:44And for now, until we're all more comfortable, we're kind of existing in a group chat.

19:49We are just in the beginning stages.

19:52We're getting to know each other.

19:54She has a child and we have kids, which is something we related on immediately.

19:58She's in the medical field.

20:00So is Dani.

20:00So that's something they immediately, you know, clicked on.

20:05She's definitely got that go-getter attitude.

20:08She's got a great bod, you know.

20:12She's a little shorter than the, you know, the typical girls I go for.

20:16There's nothing wrong with that.

20:17She's got, you know, her physicality both up and down.

20:23Um, yeah.

20:31It's a little weird talking about this stuff in front of Dani.

20:34It's just a lot weird talking about this stuff in front of Dani.

20:36I know my body and I know what he's attracted to on me, which is like everything, let's be clear.

20:42So to compare it to another woman who's like different height, different proportions, everything's different.

20:50It's just interesting to hear.

20:53So, Jackie messaged me recently.

20:58Mm-hmm.

20:59Um, obviously she knows.

21:01Wait.

21:02Texted you in the group chat?

21:05Because, I mean, I don't miss much.

21:07Outside the group chat.

21:09Just, you know, getting to know her and all that.

21:12Nothing, nothing that we wouldn't say in the group chat.

21:20What was it about that she texted you?

21:23So basically, she was basically asking about the three of us going on another date soon.

21:28Okay.

21:28You know, just so we can keep getting to know each other.

21:33Hearing that, Yesel's been, um, venturing outside of the group chat.

21:43A little, a little aggravated by it.

21:46Bending the rules a little bit.

21:47Hmm, I feel like that's a rule we don't bend, so.

21:52Just a little time.

21:54One time?

21:55One time.

21:55Just a one time?

21:56Just a one time.

21:56I've heard that before.

21:57You know, while I understand that she's the one that took it out of the group chat,

22:04I just, I don't want it to be taken and ran with.

22:10Just because I don't want to feel left out of the loop.

22:13All right.

22:14Like last time.

22:15Well, we definitely don't want to do that, and I don't want to leave you out of the loop,

22:18so I will keep it in the group chat.

22:21Bring it back in.

22:21You know, it's a little worrisome that Danny's uncomfortable with these little slip-ups.

22:30You know, I mean, it was just a simple mistake.

22:33You know, Jackie obviously doesn't know all of our boundaries and the things Danny and I talk about.

22:37You know, for now, I'm not going to say anything.

22:40It's important for Danny to take the reins, just because there's still some feelings of guilt

22:46from when I messed up the first time around.

22:48You know, maybe after we talk about boundaries and all that, things would change.

22:55But as of right now, my comfort level is keeping...

22:58Keeping you involved in all conversation.

23:01Okay.

23:02I really do like Jackie.

23:03I think she's a really good fit.

23:05I can tell that he's having a fun time talking to her as well.

23:09They're having a good conversation.

23:10But I am worried that if I'm not in the loop, it could go sideways again.

23:13If he doesn't live up to what we agree to, then I don't think I can continue to seek a sister-wife.

23:26Night-night.

23:28Okay.

23:29Love you.

23:30Lorena will spend her first night in Garrick's room tonight.

23:34Buonocci.

23:34I'm a little nervous, but I'm excited to love her, make love to her.

23:42Yeah, ma.

23:43Sure.

23:59Me and Lorena tonight.

24:01Yeah.

24:01See?

24:01So what's the game plan?

24:05Correct me and you tonight in the bedroom?

24:08Sister up in the sister room?

24:10Correct?

24:11Yesterday was Lorena's first day in America and also my birthday.

24:16So she insisted that I spend the night with Garrick in his room.

24:20So Lorena will spend her first night in Garrick's room tonight.

24:25I'm happy.

24:26I'm happy for Roberta.

24:28Or...

24:28I'm telling you.

24:30Lorena.

24:30I'm happy for Lorena, like, seeing her happy.

24:36You a night-night?

24:37Yeah.

24:37Night-night?

24:38No.

24:39No.

24:40No.

24:40Savvy?

24:41Savvy?

24:41No night-night?

24:44Yeah.

24:44No night?

24:45No.

24:48Oh my God.

24:51There's somebody else in the house and, you know, we take turns with Garrick.

24:57So he has his master so while one of us spending time with him, we have our sister room where

25:01we each have our own beds.

25:04Then maybe tomorrow we can all discuss a better schedule, what works best for all of us.

25:09Game plan, yeah.

25:10Yeah?

25:10Ah, sí, sí.

25:12Yeah?

25:12Yeah.

25:12Good?

25:13Yeah.

25:13Good?

25:14Yeah.

25:14Good?

25:14Yeah.

25:14Tomorrow evening, we're planning on go over all the ins and outs, schedules, sleeping

25:22arrangements.

25:24Is it every other night?

25:25I mean, could it be maybe every two nights maybe?

25:28Laundry, what are we all doing?

25:29I mean, there's a lot of moving pieces.

25:34Oh my gosh.

25:35Nay-nigh.

25:36I'm a little nervous.

25:37I mean, it's been eight months since I saw her.

25:40It's like, oh, my wife's here.

25:41Thank God.

25:42Like, I'm excited to love her, make love to her, like, kiss her, talk to her.

25:49Look at her face?

25:51Yeah, look at her face in real life, you know?

25:54Hear her laugh.

25:55Like, it's a blessing.

25:59Yeah.

25:59Night-night.

26:02Okay.

26:03Love you.

26:04Love you.

26:05Okay.

26:06Buonauti.

26:07Okay, you?

26:09Oh.

26:10Yeah, I see.

26:11You, yeah.

26:11Me.

26:12Okay, no problem.

26:13Okay.

26:13For leggings?

26:28Oh, man.

26:29Oh, man.

26:31Oh, man.

26:35No.

26:35I need a seat.

26:36No, I got it.

26:39Sleepy.

26:43Sleepy?

26:44Oh, my gosh.

26:46Yeah.

26:47Yeah.

26:47Amo.

26:48Amo a companhia dele, não só fazer sexo com ele.

26:51Mas, lógico que o sexo, eu sinto falta.

26:55Che, amor.

26:56Che, amor.

26:57Che, amor.

26:58Okay.

27:00A comma, a comma baby.

27:03Touch your daughter.

27:05Boop. Boop, boop, boop.

27:07Yeah, Mom.

27:11First night?

27:16Being my first night alone in the sister room is kind of crazy.

27:22My brain's still, like, processing.

27:30For Lorena, coming in, it's a little bit different.

27:32Like, she's lived alone, you know,

27:35so the aspect of her having nights by herself

27:37isn't probably as shocking as it is to me.

27:41Like, thinking that, like, I am going to be alone every night

27:44or every couple nights or whatever we decide,

27:46which we still need to decide.

27:47And so, like, the unknown of that, I think,

27:49is a little overwhelming, too,

27:50that we haven't, like, figured all this out.

27:55Just sleeping next to him, talking about, you know,

27:57how our days went, things with the kids,

28:00at the house, life.

28:01There's going to be nights I can't share all that with him.

28:04That's even more difficult, to not have that connection.

28:09We've had a lot of failed things

28:11and relationships and hard things,

28:13but in the end, like,

28:15we've stayed together and stayed strong,

28:17so that's my hope.

28:28Where do we go from here?

28:29What's next?

28:32I'm going to take off.

28:33I know that I want to have a relationship with Angelica,

28:36but I don't know if this is something

28:38that Matt and I can just bounce back from.

28:40Are you okay?

28:41It's a lot.

28:42Well, are you guys being intimate?

29:00Um...

29:01We have.

29:08him.

29:09Whoa, language.

29:11What?

29:11I don't like the thought of you being with somebody else.

29:16I don't like the thought of somebody else touching you.

29:18I don't like the thought of someone else being in your space.

29:23Sheenae just dropped this bomb on us

29:25and told us that she's seeing someone

29:27and it could be getting serious.

29:29I know Matt's hurting,

29:30and it hurts me knowing that he's hurting.

29:34It's also scary to think about

29:37that our friendship might change

29:39if their relationship ends.

29:42I don't really try and think about you being with somebody else

29:45because that's not a thought

29:47that I like to cross my mind.

29:49Um...

29:50So, what does this mean for us?

29:54Where do we go from here?

29:55What's next?

29:59I mean, there's, like, so many heavy things

30:02that we have just brought into conversation.

30:04I don't think it's fair

30:05for me to give an answer right now.

30:08I feel like it's extremely premature,

30:10and I need time to process

30:12my own emotions about this relationship,

30:16about my potential new relationship.

30:17I think you guys need time to process.

30:22I don't know.

30:22I just think...

30:23I think there's a lot that needs to be figured out.

30:27I truly...

30:28I'm confused.

30:30I...

30:30I don't know which way I want to go.

30:33I don't know which way I should go.

30:36All right, well, I'm gonna take off

30:38if that's all right with you guys.

30:40It's a lot for one day.

30:42It's a lot.

30:43I need to...

30:43I need to time.

30:45I know that I want to have a relationship

30:47with Angelica.

30:48That's my sister.

30:49That is my best friend.

30:50But I don't know if this is something

30:52that Matt and I can just bounce back from

30:54and continue on a friendship after this.

30:56Make sure you let me know

30:57when you get home next time.

30:58I will let you know when I get home next time.

30:59Okay.

31:00But now I'm gonna come find you.

31:01I bet.

31:02Bye, guys.

31:02Bye.

31:04Right now, me and Sinead are at a crossroads

31:06in our relationship.

31:07I'm not 100% sure

31:09which direction we're going to go in,

31:11but I know which direction I'd like us to go in.

31:16Are you okay?

31:18It's a lot.

31:20It is.

31:23I love Sinead.

31:25I love Matt.

31:26I love them both the same and separately.

31:30And I don't like being in the middle.

31:35I don't like being in the middle.

31:38I need Sinead.

31:40I cannot lose her.

31:42And this is a prime example.

31:46I don't know what to do.

31:55I'm just upset right now.

31:57I don't want to be rejected.

31:58You have to let that guard down.

32:02And I need your help.

32:04I think step one is telling Sinead

32:08exactly what you told me.

32:12It would be a huge loss

32:15if Sinead no longer is in a relationship with us.

32:21We'd be losing a sister, a best friend,

32:25and someone that we confide in.

32:30You know, we lose everything

32:34that we've been working towards

32:35these past three years.

32:38I do whatever it takes.

32:39Jackie's a very sexual person, and so am I.

32:55It does worry me a little bit

32:56because I don't want Danny to feel threatened.

33:12I'm feeling like it's going to be a really good night.

33:14One shot.

33:18Two shots.

33:20Okay, some drinks.

33:21Some drinks.

33:22Some drinks.

33:23Okay.

33:24Let's do it.

33:26Tonight, we're going to meet with Jackie.

33:27You know, we have met her a couple times,

33:29and so far it's gone great.

33:30It's been just friendly, you know,

33:32just getting to know each other.

33:33Like very surface level.

33:34Very surface level things.

33:36We haven't really dug into, like,

33:38the weeds of how everything would work, you know.

33:42So I'm very excited to just keep moving this train forward.

33:47Hi.

33:47This bullet train.

33:48Yes.

33:49Sir.

33:51Choo-choo train.

33:52I'm the conductor.

33:56There's a lot of important topics

34:00that we do need to talk about,

34:01the boundaries and the rules.

34:05I am interested to see the level of honesty

34:09that comes out

34:11with some of the things we need to talk about.

34:15Frits.

34:16Frits.

34:17It's French for fries.

34:19Well, I'm not French, honey.

34:20You're not French.

34:21Hi.

34:22Hi.

34:23Hi, nice seeing you.

34:24Nice seeing you.

34:25How are you?

34:26Good.

34:26How are you?

34:26Good.

34:27Good.

34:27My name is Jackie.

34:29I'm from New Haven, Connecticut.

34:31I met Yesel and Danny through a dating app.

34:35And since we met, we just kind of kicked it off.

34:38Oh, we're twinning.

34:39Same color, matching.

34:41Right?

34:42I'm wearing green, too.

34:44So I have been in a polygamous relationship before.

34:46It has been more of a casual situation.

34:50Getting to know Yesel,

34:52and Danny,

34:52I saw that they had very strong values.

34:56I thought they were super fun and open,

34:59which is something that I've been craving,

35:01something that is long-lasting.

35:04So I'm very excited to see

35:05where this journey leads us to.

35:08So I'm thinking something that we could share.

35:10So probably the trio board.

35:13There's no Yesel on the menu?

35:17Not yet.

35:19Do you like mac and cheese?

35:22I love mac and cheese.

35:23You don't like the way mac and cheese sounds?

35:25Not right now.

35:26Have you ever heard the term mac and cheese noises?

35:32No.

35:33Oh, boy.

35:39That might be a concern.

35:41Mac and cheese in the bedroom.

35:43Things are getting really frisky,

35:45and it starts sounding like you're making mac and cheese.

35:50You know, it kind of sounds like that.

35:53I do like making my own mac and cheese.

35:59As a dessert.

36:00Yeah?

36:07So I feel like this dinner is an opportunity

36:10to get more into, like, semantics and boundaries

36:14before moving forward.

36:17I agree.

36:17Yeah.

36:17Especially because I have a daughter.

36:20I just prefer something more structured.

36:23So for, like, future tense, you know,

36:25if we're, like, you know, in a relationship,

36:29like, who makes the rules?

36:31Or how do we communicate that?

36:33That rule with an iron fist.

36:37She doesn't.

36:38I feel like Danny makes the rules.

36:42When it comes to, like, establishing rules

36:45and, like, if you want to change a rule,

36:46it would have to be something

36:48where we would all have to be involved.

36:50If you and him were to do things

36:52without me being aware of

36:55and then telling me after the fact,

36:57that's when jealousy would come in.

37:00That's what we're trying to avoid.

37:02Oh, my goodness me.

37:04Oh, thank you.

37:06I feel like that's where communication is, like, key.

37:11We should all have an equal say

37:13in, you know, the decisions.

37:15Ultimately, I feel like

37:18that's what's going to make things work.

37:19We're all equal.

37:20We're all held to the same standards.

37:22We all have, you know, an opinion

37:23that we can talk with each other about.

37:26That's great.

37:26You know?

37:28Compared to last time,

37:29I feel like we're definitely off

37:30to a much better start.

37:32There's a lot more open communication,

37:35a lot more honesty.

37:37So, Dana, like, why do you want to do this?

37:39What's in it for you?

37:42For me, the, like, emotional aspect of it

37:46is that, like, obviously, he goes away from work.

37:50I'm alone a lot.

37:51So, for me, having that other person present

37:56when he physically can't be

37:58is another means of support for me.

38:04As an only child, I've always wanted a sister.

38:07It is very much a reason why I want this lifestyle.

38:11So, being able to connect with Dani

38:13and have, like, that very close relationship with her

38:16is just something that's very exciting for me.

38:19What would the living situation look like?

38:22Like, if we were to get serious?

38:24I think in the long run,

38:27we'd all live together under one room.

38:29We have multiple rooms where you have a room,

38:32she has a room, and then I go back and forth.

38:34And we need a she shed, then.

38:36I was gonna say, I want...

38:37We need a she shed.

38:38We need a she shed.

38:39Or a big bathroom.

38:41A she shed.

38:42It's a thing.

38:44So, I'm Latin.

38:46I really enjoy sex.

38:51Sex is, like, a big part of my life.

38:55Yep.

38:55I enjoy it.

38:57Yep.

38:58I love it.

38:59Absolutely.

39:00Jackie's a very sexual person, and so am I.

39:04Boy, I'm all for it.

39:07I don't know exactly how that's gonna make Dani feel.

39:11So, when can I expect, you know,

39:13to be intimate with, yes.

39:17This drink, though.

39:20Right now, I'm a little worried.

39:21I'm a little concerned with Jackie's sexual drive,

39:25as she stated, is very high.

39:29And, you know, I feel like that's gonna bring out

39:30a little jealousy out of Dani.

39:32And it does worry me a little bit,

39:34because I don't want her to feel threatened.

39:37I'm playing blank.

39:38Are you okay with me having sex with your husband?

39:42You know.

39:44When it comes down to us being comfortable.

39:52Um.

39:54I can't with 100% certainty say that I would be.

39:58I've got 87 days to get married here.

40:06I can bring my family.

40:07It would be really incredible and special for me.

40:10That kind of seems a little bit overwhelming.

40:12There's some things that, you know,

40:14we're gonna have to compromise on.

40:16When you and I made love,

40:19I just knew you were the last person

40:21I would ever make love to.

40:24Oh.

40:25Me changing my last name to Davis

40:27would kind of make me like a wife.

40:30Hi.

40:31Jackie.

40:31It's so nice to meet you.

40:32I'm Leah.

40:33At the end of the day,

40:34I don't care who they think they like.

40:36I trust their opinion,

40:38but obviously I'm gonna have to see

40:39what kind of person you are.

40:41Meeting Leah, I'm a little bit nervous.

40:43I have been talking to someone else.

40:46I am absolutely pissed.

40:48Hey.

40:49I like to call myself a goddess.

40:51I am a witch.

40:52Where the hell did you find this girl?

40:54What is going on?

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