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00:00Previously on 90 Day Fimcée, The Other Way.
00:03In Roval, the houses don't really have hot water.
00:05But I could never go in there.
00:08I feel like Chloe is not being honest with herself.
00:11Chloe likes much nicer things, and she's going to want those things.
00:16Since you've been going down here, I've given you a minimum of $20,000.
00:22I'm cutting her off.
00:24You're deciding to live here, and I can't finance it.
00:30I got you some flowers, and I brought a vase, because I didn't know if Dylan had one.
00:34I actually haven't seen Patia in 11 years, but I really hope she's happy to share Dylan with me.
00:40So when do you think you'll do furniture shopping?
00:42Probably this week.
00:43You might have to keep an eye on it, Dylan.
00:45It makes me mad that she's already automatically inserting herself into our relationship.
00:50No, I've gotten better.
00:52Have you?
00:52Yes.
00:53Dylan so needs to stop talking about our personal business with his mom.
00:57I'm so damn sick of it.
01:00My sister, my mom, my dad, they assume Mano is starting ******, and Marie is like,
01:13to create drama with everyone.
01:15I'm like, wow, wow, wow, wow.
01:17I'm tired of always being the black sheep of the family.
01:26If your sister reacts like that, it's not for you, Mano.
01:29If you don't want to be a person, change your character a little bit.
01:31We're just making a buzz.
01:40From tomorrow onwards, please do come in.
01:43We made no money.
01:44They're handing out whole plates of food.
01:48All I saw was food going out the door and no money coming in.
01:54Dignity investment.
01:56We might as well be throwing money out.
01:59We might be stuck living with the family forever.
02:02Oh my gosh, babe, I'm so excited for our night out.
02:26She's had a good time.
02:29It's been about a week since Patia arrived in Tasmania.
02:32Oh, is it like an Irish pub or something?
02:34Yep.
02:35And tonight I'm taking her out to one of the best spots in town.
02:41What do you think about this place?
02:42Different.
02:43It's not that busy.
02:49Well, it's only a Tuesday night.
02:51Oh.
02:53I did not expect to go out to an Irish pub.
02:56I'm like, Irish pub in Australia?
02:58And it's so quiet.
03:00We're all the people.
03:02We're a long way from Dallas and Vegas.
03:04Thank God we're going to be hanging out with his best friend Chris and his brother Glenn.
03:10Drink.
03:10I'll have a Moscato, please.
03:12Moscato, all right.
03:12Do they have that here?
03:13I hope so.
03:14I'm not a beer drinker.
03:17Oh, nice.
03:19Patia.
03:20Chris.
03:20How are you going?
03:23I'm not going to see you.
03:24I know.
03:25Chris was with Thunder From Down Under.
03:28They were really, really close.
03:30Oh my God.
03:30Glenn.
03:31Oh my God.
03:33Long time no dream.
03:35This is amazing.
03:36I haven't seen Glenn in 11 years.
03:39Glenn is a lot of fun.
03:40He loves to shop.
03:41Loves to wine and dine.
03:43All in my category.
03:45Here's to Patia.
03:46To Patia.
03:47To new beginnings.
03:48To her new life in Tasmania, Australia.
03:51I cannot believe I'm here.
03:52Seriously.
03:54I've been teaching her some Australian slang too.
03:56And what have you got?
03:57Bugger.
03:58Yeah.
03:58Yeah, yeah.
04:00And tinnies.
04:02I love the way you said it.
04:03Tinnies.
04:04Have you met the rest of the fam?
04:08Like Dylan's mom?
04:09I met his mom.
04:10She came over the other day.
04:12Oh, she's a sweetie.
04:13She's such a sweetheart.
04:14So you got on well?
04:15Huh?
04:15You got on well with her?
04:16Yeah.
04:16Okay, cool.
04:20Me and his mom have a long history of not liking each other.
04:25But it's not something I want to bring out in front of his brother.
04:28Because Dylan always, like, tells me, oh, don't trust Glenn.
04:31He'll, like, be nice to your face and stab you in the back.
04:35Well, you've got to put a ring on that thing now.
04:37Ah.
04:37Yeah.
04:39I'm working on that.
04:40Thank you, Chris.
04:40I'm working on that.
04:41It's been, what, 12 years?
04:44Yeah, 12 years.
04:45Wow.
04:45It's been 12 years.
04:47Had some issues to sort out first.
04:49Yes, we did.
04:50Well, that just got serious.
04:51What are the issues that you need to sort out?
04:54I don't know if now's the right time to bring them up.
04:56You know how many times we broke up, Chris?
04:59A lot.
05:01You know?
05:02Excuse me, guys.
05:03I'm just going to go to the restroom.
05:04Okay.
05:07I love Patia and I love Dylan.
05:09And I know that they have a rocky relationship.
05:13I know that it's a very passionate relationship.
05:15The happiest Dylan has ever been is when he's with Patia.
05:20But then things happen.
05:22It's all very good now, but six months down the track.
05:26I don't know.
05:28Moving to Tassie.
05:30This is it.
05:31Yeah.
05:32It's crazy.
05:34Oh.
05:35Oh.
05:36What is going on over there?
05:38That young lady over there, Patia.
05:41I've written a song for her.
05:45I'm a little bit rusty, but sometimes I feel like I don't express myself properly to Patia.
05:51But if I can put it in a song, that's how I feel like I can get the message across.
05:57My heart was jumping around like a kangaroo when I first laid my eyes on you.
06:07I never thought I could fall in love so fast.
06:11But then I gave you a ring and I took it right back.
06:18And I'm sorry for that.
06:21Welcome down under, baby.
06:24From the outback to the ocean, you got all of my emotions, and they're running like a river to your heart.
06:38Have you heard this song before?
06:39Have you heard this song before?
06:40If you're not coming, I'm not going.
06:45And I hope that I die knowing that we never spend another minute apart.
06:55And I promise to be more gentle with your heart.
07:01Thank you so much.
07:18Hearing that song tonight makes me want to fight harder for a relationship.
07:21I want us to finally tie the knot, get married.
07:25I just hope we don't fall back into our old patterns and break up again.
07:29I honestly feel like and I couldn't take it anymore.
07:32Oh.
07:38Comment et tu étais, où étais-tu?
07:42You've been on my brain, I've been missing you.
07:44Va te dire, désolé.
07:46Va te dire, désolé.
07:49Comment et tu étais, où étais-tu?
07:52Maman, merci pour garder Ben.
07:55Bye.
07:57Attends, j'ai le parapluie.
07:58It's a two-step walk.
08:00Come on.
08:00It's just water.
08:01No, I have my beautiful jacket on.
08:04Okay?
08:06It's been a little bit tense at my parents' house because of the drama that I had with my sister.
08:12Marseille sous la pluie, c'est encore plus triste.
08:15We texted last night and I'm fine with my sister now.
08:19It is what it is.
08:20But the dynamic with my parents attacking my character, like, it just really lit the fire in me to just get the head out of there ASAP.
08:28And Antonio and I, we actually made it really clear from the start, we were only going to live there just temporarily until we found a house.
08:35I'm so excited to see this house.
08:38Like, so freaking excited because it's exactly, 100% what I want.
08:47Today we are going to La Provence Verte, which is a very nice place in Provence with lakes, waterfalls, a very nice small village to visit a beautiful house that we found online that's for sale.
09:05It's only an hour and something away from the city.
09:12It's, I think, three, four or five bedrooms.
09:15I don't remember, but it's like just in what we need.
09:18There's the pool and the view.
09:20You, you are going to love the view.
09:24How much is this one?
09:25It's under our budget.
09:27Well, at $375, this one.
09:29I mean, it's the highest, highest of our budget.
09:32Yeah.
09:32We have the 25% down for that.
09:36And then it's just wiped out.
09:39Yeah.
09:39So it's a little, it's, yeah, but, but that's negotiation.
09:42We are in France.
09:43And if they want like a guaranteed French income, we don't even have an account at a French bank yet.
09:51There's even the option of renting.
09:54No, no.
09:55It's an option to rent.
09:59There will be a lot less worry when it comes to renting an apartment.
10:03Plus we have the money to do that long-term or even like buy an apartment if we really wanted to.
10:11We have that money.
10:13Oh my Lord.
10:14Get me out of here.
10:16Get me out the car now.
10:17Whoa.
10:18It's just an option.
10:19Antoni.
10:20Chill.
10:20I am not putting my money down the drain and I am not living in an apartment.
10:25You will not put me in a cell jail.
10:29I am not living in an apartment.
10:30I've seen some pretty nice apartments.
10:32Good for you.
10:32Go live there.
10:33Go live in an apartment.
10:35I'll live in a house by myself.
10:36You're reacting as if I'm like saying we're getting an apartment or we're moving somewhere cheaper.
10:41Because I know you, but you know what?
10:42Yeah.
10:43You know why?
10:43Why?
10:44You know why?
10:44Because I always end up doing what you want.
10:47And I'm tired of this.
10:51If we can make getting this house happen, we'll do that.
10:55As long as we're in a good space.
10:58Yes.
10:58So we're not like in the financially.
11:00Yes, I agree.
11:02But if I'm sitting here putting other options on the table, it's because those might have to be considered.
11:08No, I want to buy a house.
11:13I want to be out of Menon's parents' house just as much as she does.
11:17But there's options that we need to look at that are really what make the most sense financially speaking.
11:24And if that means we have to stay at our parents' place for a little bit longer, I feel like that's a small sacrifice to be made.
11:31You got like tunnel vision.
11:34I want to buy a house.
11:42You want me to help you or?
11:44No, no.
11:48I have no idea how to make this work.
11:52I'm doing my best, okay?
11:58There's a lot of costs involved.
12:00And you and Chloe are going to need a more solid plan.
12:04I'm doing all I can.
12:05We are doing all I can to figure it out.
12:08There is a way that I would be able to support both of you.
12:22We need a ladder.
12:34That's okay.
12:35We can fix it later.
12:37Today is the first day of our actual business.
12:41Yesterday, we were successful in the ceremony.
12:45We already served the samplers to a lot of people,
12:49so we are hoping that they will gonna show up again.
12:53It's the first big day, so we're gonna try to make some money today.
12:56Whatever we spent yesterday, we'll try to recover as much as possible.
13:00All right? Assign yourself a job and don't sit idle, okay?
13:04Jenny, you go to your coffee stall.
13:08What do we do? You go.
13:12Yesterday, we made absolutely no money
13:14because we were giving it away for free,
13:17and I was just standing like,
13:19don't you guys understand the concept of business?
13:23I'm more worried about making money
13:25so I can get out of the house and go back into our own apartment.
13:29I wanna make money. We need to make money.
13:34Yes, yes.
13:35Excuse me?
13:40Cappuccino?
13:41Ah.
13:43Oh, I gotta find the milk container.
13:51This coffee machine that we're renting is so cool.
13:54It's the real deal.
13:55I mean, it comes with the fresh coffee beans grinder
13:59and everything attached.
14:01There's nothing like it anywhere else,
14:03unless you go to Starbucks.
14:06Okay, I don't know where that container,
14:08the milk container is.
14:10Ha.
14:12Find it.
14:13I've been put in charge of the coffee machine by the family,
14:19and Sri showed me how to use it.
14:23But I'm not totally comfortable with it yet.
14:26I mean, I can make coffee at home, no problem,
14:29but this thing, I don't even know where to start.
14:32Oh, I have to grind the beans.
14:41I don't know how to do that.
14:42Papa!
14:44I have a customer standing here waiting for his coffee,
14:47and I have no idea how to make this grinder work.
14:51Sorry, one minute.
14:52What are you doing?
14:54How?
14:55How, how, how, how?
14:58What are you doing?
14:59What are you doing?
15:01What are you doing?
15:02I'm new.
15:04I know you are new, but...
15:06Wait for me, I have to go somewhere.
15:08Okay.
15:10What are you doing?
15:12What are you doing?
15:16I don't care.
15:17I don't care.
15:18I don't care if the electricity is coming from me.
15:20Actually, it's not plugged in.
15:29He didn't plug it in.
15:31Come to find out, it wasn't plugged in.
15:34That's why it wouldn't turn on.
15:38You want me to help you?
15:41Hey.
15:42Yeah.
15:43First, collect the paper.
15:44No, no.
15:45We have late on American paper.
15:47What do you mean, no, no?
15:48That's how you do it.
15:50OK.
15:52Put it in two minutes.
15:54I need to put it in two minutes.
15:59That's a bad sale.
16:00You did.
16:03Then you have to try to do very quick.
16:06You know what I can do?
16:07I can go home.
16:10That's what I can do.
16:11You're a part of Family Cafe.
16:13This is our idea.
16:14You know, first customer loss is a big loss.
16:18Yeah, just like yesterday, giving away free food was a big loss, too.
16:22I'm doing my best, OK?
16:24If this is best, then you need to do a little more extra.
16:29I feel like so nervous upon it, so frustrated.
16:32We were preparing for such a long time, like our first customer, and we lost it.
16:39We had to go home with Shri.
16:41We had to go home from the morning.
16:42We had to go home from the morning.
16:43And the coffee machine woke up.
16:44We didn't understand anything.
16:45We had to ask him at that time.
16:47We should have to practice.
16:49We had to go home.
16:50We had to go home.
16:51We had to go home.
16:52We had to go home.
16:53We had to go home.
16:54We had to go home.
16:56I'm frustrated with her, but at the same time, I don't want other people to get mad
17:00at her because everybody in the family finally getting along.
17:04And I don't want the stress of the business to ruin that.
17:19Mom.
17:20Mom.
17:21Mom.
17:22Mom.
17:23Mom.
17:24Mom.
17:25Mom.
17:26Mom.
17:27Mom.
17:28Mom.
17:29Mom.
17:30Thank you so much.
17:31Oh.
17:32Ah.
17:33Earlier today, my mom and I went car shopping and she kinda dropped the bomb that she's going
17:42to financially cut me off.
17:44Hello, hello.
17:45Good evening.
17:46Good evening.
17:47but you were a waiter the way you came over i think in a way my mom is trying to create shocking
17:52situations so i can just switch up and be like you know what mom i'm coming home but no this is
18:00not happening so how was the whole car lot thing to find anything interesting any cars the price
18:08point was much higher we couldn't even get it close to the range that you had thought it should
18:14be at okay it would be something that we would need to purchase on like the internet in order to
18:21get anywhere near that pricing point yes that was a total fail today but now we just need to find a
18:26plan b because that's not gonna work right and i think at that point it should you should just bring
18:34her car maybe i don't know that that's an option either because chloe and i had a conversation you
18:41know that i wasn't going to contribute financially anymore
18:50so this is something that you know chloe needs to work through right
18:56right the thing about chloe is that she's always been catered her whole life always had that safety
19:03net so she doesn't really need the concept of money you know like maybe it's a good thing that chloe's
19:09mom is actually cutting her off because you know i think she needs a more sense of reality and i feel
19:15like if she doesn't have the funds to just do whatever she wants she's going to really have to
19:18think smart on what she's going to do next so like i feel like now is a good time to see if she really
19:25wants this and like who she really is you know chloe's going to need you know a more solid plan you and chloe
19:35are going to need a more solid plan yeah you know getting the the worker's permit is a is a really
19:42big deal what is needed to get them um you yeah you have to pay for the first permit how much you have
19:50to pay for the first permit six hundred dollars six hundred dollars yeah for the first permit but if
19:55you have to pay like a permit every three months but if a company signs for you they pay it wait a second
20:01six to eight hundred dollars and you have to do this every three months the other way to go about
20:05it is if jonathan and i went to the office together and jonathan sponsors me how can he sponsor you if
20:11he doesn't have because he doesn't own a company no this is a different paper this is like a partnership
20:16paper hang on partnership what does that mean like married partner no that's a marriage certificate
20:23it sounds like you have a lot more obstacles um just with papers than i thought that you did
20:27maybe you're just not listening i am listening i'm clearly not so what's hard about walking
20:33here to an office there's a lot of costs involved why are you being so negative about the situation
20:37being like oh well it sounds like you have so many obstacles well i just i wasn't aware of the high
20:42costs but i'm not asking you to pay for it and i've made it clear that i'm not going to exactly so
20:47don't make it so like out of reach like just i'm not i'm not gonna do it enough of the drama to be
20:53quite honest with you it's not about all the way out here and you know what this isn't the first time
20:56i've come out here okay i've invested a lot of money many times but stop making it out to be like
21:02that because it's frustrating to move there permanently then you know what we need to have
21:06these conversations and we're having them but have it in the have it in the back of your mind isn't
21:11like okay like you stop i'm trying to give you some no i want specific yeah right but it's general ease
21:16i need specific ease okay this is my daughter living in a foreign country i don't want to make things
21:21up to make you feel better i'm doing all i can you're doing all i can to figure it out i feel like a lot
21:26more could have been done up until this point no you have to get here to do it it's not something
21:31you can do from home okay if you say so
21:39so i said that i will not financially support any longer 700 times yes agreed however there is a way
21:50that i would be able to support both of you the lottery trust me i play every weekend
21:58if you both moved to boston
22:11immediately to the left you will find a bijou of the house
22:15i love it i thought we were supposed to be playing it cool yeah that's exactly what i've done
22:24i'm here let's go i'm excited
22:55hello hello hello hi hi nice to meet you nice to meet you you speak french no french
23:01je suis française la marseillaise is parlangli okay so let's let's do it in english
23:08and everybody will understand it let's uh start our journey yes please let's go i see that you are oh
23:13yeah oh yeah follow me enter in the living room thank you the kitchen everything together okay oh the
23:20kitchen i think that i like it you can still try to modernize it and you can and keep the style of
23:28but keeping the style and without spending too much it's not like correct crazy expensive too bad to
23:33redo i want to see more please i want to see more so and then um you have the first room here okay for your
23:40guests children maybe you have one kid or even an office space because i do sometimes like remote
23:47walk so i'm gonna need a room actually for work for sure oh yeah no there's multiple rooms wait
23:54and here you will find the bijou of the house handmade not standard exceptional look at that sink i love it
24:06i love it i love it look at that bathtub it is really nice and then you can go to the left to the
24:13uh first big room and there's another shower yes yes yes there are three showers there are three showers
24:26i thought we were supposed to be playing it cool yeah that's exactly what i've done you show them
24:30interest you show them you're excited so they are like oh she wants it okay like who's the queen of
24:37networking like you said bb right here who doesn't have any friends doesn't have any network you so
24:45please trust me whoa i'm not on my own anymore i've got my companion his name is ben well he's a baby who
24:52doesn't speak yet speaks to me oh my gosh can you imagine waking up naked from your bed with your cup of
24:59coffee you just took your shower here are the birds here the bird and oh look at that view
25:09can i cry go ahead it has charm it's not a prefab like you say it's not the standard yeah you can go
25:18in the pool naked no one see you it's so like private and stuff i love what i see there's a lot of
25:26potential even if it's not completely quite perfect yet there's a pool which i said it's what i want
25:32a la pièce de résistance it's an hour away from my parents house far but not too far close but not
25:39too close you know what i mean all right um the price at the moment uh is 3.75 you were looking
25:49for this house so i guess it's in in your budget because i guess you already talked with the banks
25:54i guess or not yet not yet and we have great history i don't have any loan i don't have any
26:00debt nothing my husband is a stay-at-home dad he's not going to work just yet because he speaks english
26:06he has to learn french it's going to take time on my end i still have a little bit of source of income
26:13from my agency because i do have a business what are you doing what are you doing i have a social media
26:18and digital marketing agency we sold our house in los angeles we sold our car we sold everything
26:24we have right now a total of like around 100 000 cash cash that we have okay so based on your
26:33experience do you think it's possible for us to get a loan through a french bank um i think with
26:40everything what you were telling me i don't know that many persons today who has uh one third in
26:48cash immediately so uh i think it's gonna be doable but there there's a but i'm gonna be very honest
26:54that's my job also because i'm there also to be tell you everything in all transparency i will do the
26:59same so the place is perfect the house is perfect but there is in the um in the roof asbestos oh there's
27:07asbestos so there are the works to do on the roof and it's around 40 000 to 45 000 to do all the works
27:16oh wow so she is ready to deduct that from this price oh so like 335 instead of 375 correct correct
27:25minone really knows how to make a house a home i can see the wheels turning in her head but i'm sitting
27:33there thinking how well is it going to hold up and there's asbestos this is the first house we're
27:39seeing and i know that we could find something better out there i just hope that she can step back
27:45and understand where i'm coming from because it always ends up in a fight or some type of argument
27:51and i don't want to get into it all right bon appetit bon appetit very tender let me get a little
28:01something in your head i hope it's not kangaroo wait a minute is it really kangaroo
28:21oh my god that's beautiful look at that lake have you ever swam over there yeah i'm swimming there
28:37better watch out for the old crocs though you're not swimming there if there's croc it's so it can bite
28:43you you know tonight we're having a family dinner at mum's house and i know that patia can't stand my
28:53mum but at the end of the day my relationship with my mum isn't going to change she's always going to
29:00be in my life so tonight i'm hoping they can really bury the hatchet hello hi hi welcome patia how are you
29:10doing what about you good good are you settling in yes hi patia good to see you thank you being
29:19at joe's house i'm putting on a little bit of a front what a beautiful view it's gorgeous isn't it
29:25yes like i really want to make a good impression and i want her to accept me but at the same time
29:32i'm like really dreading to have to sit down and talk to her because i really deep inside don't like
29:38her why don't i do some cooking you guys relax and uh i'll let you know when it's ready okay where's my
29:45sous chef here hey you look good with that apron on i'm so relieved that dylan's cooking because i have
29:58this phobia that if somebody else cooks for me and they don't like me i feel like just the thought
30:04of them not liking me that the food is going to be contaminated is that sausage you're cooking do you
30:11like sausages yeah good my mom always taught me not to eat out of your enemy's hands
30:18i'm surprised dylan hasn't kicked off those dirty big boots dylan yes ma'am i will take them off right
30:24now good boy you should know better you've got a lot of wallabies running around you end up with poo
30:29on the carpet it's naughty i feel like my mum and patia are both kind of putting on a performance
30:37dylan you didn't tell me that your mum collects elephants too appears we have quite a bit in common
30:41patia yeah i know crystals and elephants it's like i want to see them sort of get along and be friends but
30:50they both need to be honest first and stop pussyfooting around come on down
30:57it looks good all right bon appetit bon appetit
31:05very nice yes very tender mommy got a little something on your head i hope it's not kangaroo
31:14wait a minute that's not kangaroo is it
31:24shut up stop is it really kangaroo i don't want to eat kangaroo i know it was a little mean but i
31:32just wanted you to try it and i knew if i said it was kangaroo you wouldn't try it and this is how
31:36we eat down under i told him not to feed me kangaroo and he fed me kangaroo for dinner
31:44tasted like you know steak but still when i look at the kangaroo i'm like oh my god i can't eat you
31:52it's actually really good to see you and patia in the same space i know that patia sort of felt like
31:59like we were sort of talking too much you didn't like our relationship that we were a bit close did
32:05you well i don't know you can be honest no no in the past dylan told me that you wanted him to
32:12marry somebody younger closer to his age and give him kids it just made me so mad i'm like oh
32:17i want nothing to do with her i don't want to talk to her i don't want her calling you that's been
32:22embedded in my mind and that's that's where the resentment with you talking to dylan comes from
32:29i've never said that and you know what i couldn't give a toss about grandchildren
32:36yeah that's the only do you think maybe that was like just a thought no no no no no you
32:41we said it babe you said it you were very mad and you said that several times did you dylan because
32:47i've never ever said that i don't remember saying that no okay well i've never i've never said anything
32:52like that liar liar pants on fire i feel like they're in cahoots with each other and they won't
32:59admit that they said it i mean why would i make it up well i mean i'm not crazy who makes that crap up
33:06so that comment never happened so aside from that is there anything else underneath any of that that's
33:12it that's it i can't believe it just sort of felt sometimes when dylan's been on the phone
33:17i'm just oh hi patia how you going lucky and i'm happy to engage but i don't think you like that
33:24no it's because of what he said
33:28i've never said to dylan that he should be with somebody younger i can't imagine dylan saying that
33:34to patia i really can't it's an odd thing to say it's very odd it is an odd thing to say
33:41it just seems strange two and two is not adding up
33:47i'm so sorry joe really it it stemmed from from that well thank you i i really appreciate that yeah
33:55because all these years i thought god i haven't done the thing i just you know i was happy for you
34:00really yeah i've never ever had an issue with the age so he must have said that to try to make me mad
34:05or something he'll say some hateful things and that's where because he just lashes out yeah yeah
34:11but then he regrets it afterwards don't you dylan yes
34:20yeah well i apologize if i did say that let's move forward from that
34:26did you really never tell patia that your mom wished you were with somebody younger
34:31um i may have said that when i was when i was angry but i don't remember the specifics it was a
34:41long time ago so that's that's put to bed all right finally but now there's still the constant
34:47issue of me talking to my mom and it's always a problem well that's where it stems from is the
34:53fact that you said that i think that's a bit of a cop-out really no it's not it's like no it's not a cop-out
34:59i just feel like us chatting on the phone every now and then is still going to be an issue no it's
35:04not going to be an issue are you sure yes if you want to talk to dylan as much as you want then i'm
35:10okay with it now problem solved
35:16i'm so mad at dylan because i hated her i resented her and i held this resentment and hate
35:23for many many years well thank you for having us come you're very welcome now i'm looking at dylan
35:29and i'm questioning my relationship because dylan had been lying to me about it i don't want to be in
35:35a relationship like that it's going to take you so long to find a job here and you're going to make
35:44pennies it's very hurtful to hear it makes me feel like i'm not good enough for her you are never ever
35:52going to be able to make like i do
36:07that was amazing that was insightful today antoni and i saw a home for sale
36:23and i'm excited just thinking about it oh well there's a lot to talk about honey oh my american
36:33boy no boy i am a man you're a man yes you are my american man who i love so much
36:41that went so well he said he's confident we can make it happen you know i mean i definitely think
36:51it's possible but i think it's like looking at other stuff because you might find something else
36:56you like more that's not going to need a new roof honestly i was really in love with the house
37:05but there's asbestos in the roof so i understand antoni and i'm kind of grateful for
37:11him nitpicking but the good news that you talked to me about financials and everything saying it's
37:18totally possible so let's just go visit a little more and maybe i can manifest actually my dream house
37:24you know so like a big thing i feel that need to be addressed the most is employment that's the next
37:35step i agree we cannot buy a house without income if i build a business for a long time
37:41i'm not going to be able to get a salary or to make money so i don't know i can find something
37:46else too part-time remote but you know speaking of like working i like where we are now i know we're
37:57living with your parents but ben has been way better with you oh yeah i know i love it you've taken
38:03a lot more initiative with the food with everything you're instead of like asking me if i need help you're
38:08actually like doing things okay i love you i love you too we're starting to get the balance we need
38:28but granted we're not working but i'm starting to see the positive changes already in moving to france
38:35but we cannot deny that in life we are not rich we don't have like money coming in from the sky
38:42every month we're still gonna need to find income i understand that balance or not we're still gonna
38:46have to i'm just scared that you are gonna go over i know why not i know how passionate you get with
38:54work and you're already talking about starting your own business here and another thing about moving
39:01here was that you would step back and maybe i would take over the providing more right and now
39:06it seems like you're full steam ahead on you doing the solo providing again it's because it's going to
39:12take you so long to find a job here and even if you find a job here you are never ever going to be able
39:20to make like i do still you don't speak french how are you going to find a job and what type of job
39:30what type of without speaking french the only thing that comes to mind is speaking english to kids so
39:35that they can learn are you going to make pennies doing that here
39:44it's very hurtful to hear she would love for me to be providing but i'll never make as much as her
39:52and the term i hate the most that she uses is that i would make pennies i feel like it's not true
39:58it just would take time for me to get to that space and it makes me feel like i'm not good enough
40:05for her essentially i love you and we moved here to stay together i want to be married i want our
40:14family to be together i am just scared because i've seen how passionate you can get with work if i work
40:23less i'll be fine antonia and i wants to be out of my parents house and i'm not trying to be harsh or
40:31anything you know like i know france and he doesn't i know the economy here so i'm just trying to be
40:38practical and me working may be our best shot i don't want to survive in france if i moved to france
40:48it's to actually be more comfortable and thrive or i would have stayed in the us so no way i'm just
40:54sobbing here sorry not sorry next time on 90 day fiance the other way all right i know he's here to
41:05judge and to be negative i don't trust him at all you don't have chefs your parents are cooking food
41:14who does that this is not a real business what he's doing it will be closed soon
41:22no i'm not going there this is awesome this is like all i've wanted to do since we've been here
41:29seeing menone's reaction to the farm i'm questioning my decision on the surprise
41:34i found out on social media that he was with a girl for her birthday i am absolutely pissed that
41:45johnny was not faithful to my daughter i can't even put into words how disappointed i am if you can't
41:52trust somebody you shouldn't be committing anything to him let alone um changing your entire life
41:57look at this i had to move some money around it was two thousand dollars is this a good use of money
42:07i don't know i think i like give you a pretty good life and similar you're always mad at me yes i am
42:14you always made me mad and you never made me happy exactly so like what are we doing here if this is
42:20anything like what our marriage is gonna be holy do we have problems this isn't the life that i signed up
42:27what are we doing here if this isn't the life that i signed up for you
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