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00:00Previously on 90 Day Fiancé, The Other Way.
00:03What do you think?
00:04Like, working here is not possible at all, huh?
00:08The cafe has to be successful, because if we're not,
00:12we'll be living with the parents forever.
00:18So when do you think you'll do furniture shopping?
00:20Probably this week.
00:21You might have to keep an eye on it, Dylan.
00:23She's already like, about my finances.
00:26I'm like, the f***?
00:27This is exactly what I was worried about.
00:31Obviously, you talked to your mom about the spending habits.
00:34Yes, I had opened up to my mom, and I had told her.
00:37Patia does have a spending problem.
00:39If she wants to come here and have the champagne lifestyle,
00:42unfortunately, that's not going to work.
00:47Let's show you the other bedroom.
00:49I think it'll make an excellent kids' bedroom.
00:50Two little twin beds here.
00:52Twins is on the agenda, then.
00:54I've become really unsure if I want kids,
00:56but I haven't told him yet.
00:59I just don't feel like we're in a place for a house at all.
01:05I have f***ed up.
01:07I want to be with you.
01:09It's hard for me to believe you, really.
01:12I can't stop to thinking about he touching a f***ing stripper.
01:16I can't give you a chance,
01:18but there's no chance to come back together.
01:21It's just one time.
01:23This f***ing f***ing is broken.
01:25I don't think he's going to change my mind.
01:27I don't think he's going to lose his alias.
01:29I'm going to?
01:33I don't think he's going to kill me.
01:36I don't think he's going to keep you.
01:40I don't know.
01:47We're going to cook and make money.
02:01We hope so.
02:03We're going to cook and make money.
02:06It's been a week now, and things are starting to come together.
02:11The cafe now looks like a cafe.
02:15Construction's done.
02:16Equipment is in.
02:17And today is just final touches.
02:20It's really exciting.
02:29Tomorrow, the owner of property is doing an religious ceremony, also known as Asunder Khan.
02:38So today, we're going to prepare the cafe and some food to show a lot of people that we are opening a new cafe over here.
02:46Jenny, what are you making?
02:49Make coffee.
02:51Just coffee?
02:52So making coffee is also an art.
02:56Like, if you make good coffee, it can be at the start of our menu.
03:01Since the main customer in our area is students, we are focusing on home-cooked food, like bread roll, which is basically a bread filled with potatoes.
03:15Along with that, we're going to serve dal, lentil, rice, potato curries, the things that Indians love to eat on a daily routine.
03:22Coffee machine is here.
03:24Nice!
03:25Coffee.
03:26Yeah.
03:26Mostly people in India drink chai, but coffee is also getting popular, but people serve instant coffee, so if we get a machine which will grind the beans and make a fresh coffee, it will definitely attract a lot of customers.
03:42And that's why we just wanted this big, real-deal coffee machine.
03:47In the whole market, we had an espresso machine.
03:50In the whole market, we didn't have such a machine in the whole area.
03:54Yeah.
03:55Eggs are delivered.
03:56All the stuff, it looks like all the stuff is here.
03:59Yeah, we get a stove, we get fridge, we get another, like, cooking station.
04:07See how crowded it is already? We're not even working yet.
04:10This is such a small space. How are we going to all fit in here?
04:15We need to be, like, making schedule that who will be in and who will be out.
04:20So only, like, two people at a time, those who are cooking.
04:24Oh, we got a logo.
04:26Yay!
04:27Family Cafe.
04:30When I first showed the location to my family, everybody seemed disappointed.
04:35But I want to show them that the location is so good that we were going to get a good customer over here.
04:39Now I think we should start cleaning the place.
04:42We have a lot to do. A lot of people will be coming over here.
04:46I'm so nervous.
04:48I'm nervous, too.
04:50The people who are coming tomorrow for the blessing ceremony,
04:54they are the first ones who are going to try the food.
04:56So we really need to make sure that everything is perfect.
04:59Is this preparation for the bread rolls?
05:01Yes.
05:02Yes.
05:12Don't drink anything, Jenny.
05:14We need to make a very good impression. Otherwise, they're not going to come back.
05:31Yay!
05:32Oh, good.
05:33Looks so good.
05:34Looks so good.
05:35Looks so good.
05:36Let's get some water.
05:38What's this?
05:40Let's take some water.
05:43It smells good.
05:45It smells good.
05:47I've done it.
05:53Are you taking water from here?
05:55What do you do?
05:57There's no water here.
05:59No, no, no.
06:01You don't need water from here.
06:03You'll get some water from here?
06:06I can't believe my eyes.
06:09This is unfiltered water.
06:10The area is next to the toilet.
06:12It's not hygienic at all.
06:14I don't know what makes him think
06:16that he can take water from the bathroom
06:18and use it for the kitchen.
06:20That's not going to happen in my kitchen.
06:22What?
06:24Why?
06:26There's water from here.
06:28There's water from there.
06:30What happened?
06:31What happened?
06:32What happened?
06:33They fill the water from the bathroom
06:34and using it for cooking.
06:36What happened?
06:37What happened?
06:38They fill the water from the bathroom
06:39and using it for cooking.
06:41What happened?
06:42What happened?
06:43using it for cooking.
07:13It was very important to open the cafe.
07:16We need to provide water.
07:20We should do it.
07:43Maybe this is why people get sick a lot when they eat in India.
07:56Aw, thanks. I feel so special.
07:59You are.
08:02Okay, finish shopping.
08:04Finish shopping.
08:14Wow.
08:17Oh, my God. This is super comfortable.
08:20Oh, it is, isn't it?
08:21Oh, that suits you.
08:24Oh, yeah.
08:25Is it comfortable?
08:26It's not too bad.
08:27How about that one?
08:29Grab it.
08:30Just sit in there.
08:32You love bossing me around, don't you?
08:34No, I'm not bossing you around.
08:36Do you like that one versus that one?
08:38This one would be more comfortable, yeah.
08:41Oh, here it is.
08:42That's what I like.
08:44You really like that one.
08:45It looks like a movie theater thing.
08:46It does.
08:48When I'm shopping for furniture, I look for quality,
08:50I look for comfort, and I look for durability.
08:54And if it fits that category, it's perfect.
08:57You do need to look at the price tag also.
08:59That does come into it, my love.
09:03You can't just ignore it.
09:04You have to at least just graze your eyes across it.
09:07Can't help it if I have expensive taste.
09:09I know.
09:10So this is like $2,699, and this one is $2,099.
09:15What do you think?
09:19I'd say $1,000 is cheap for a couch.
09:22Wouldn't it be better to get something more cost-effective,
09:25and then we can put the rest of the money towards your debt?
09:28We did have the conversation about budgeting and slowing down the spending.
09:33Oh, my gosh.
09:34We're furniture shopping.
09:35You have to really talk about this now.
09:37I know, love, but it's important.
09:39You still have this debt looming over you
09:42and this credit card interest that's accumulating every month.
09:49Patia's relationship with money is reckless.
09:52She would have these big spending sprees in Vegas
09:54where she'd drop $5,000 to $10,000.
09:58She'd walk into these clothing stores
09:59and the shop assistants would just absolutely love her,
10:02throwing clothes at her.
10:04She'd buy one of every colour.
10:06If she's got money, she's going to spend it.
10:08All of it.
10:09And once we get married,
10:11our finances are going to be intertwined,
10:13so it's a big issue.
10:16It's a big issue.
10:17I want you to be 100% honest with me.
10:20How much debt...
10:26What's the actual number?
10:2720.
10:3020.
10:32So, like, how many credit cards in total have you maxed out?
10:35Five.
10:37All of them.
10:40Why is there five credit cards maxed out?
10:42How does that happen?
10:44I had no debt when we went to Thailand,
10:46and then when I came back,
10:47I accumulated the debt again
10:49because I had to start all over.
10:52Okay.
10:54This is your fault.
10:55I had no debt when I moved to Thailand with you.
10:59When I met Dylan,
11:00I was in a lot of debt,
11:02but I worked really hard myself
11:04and was able to pay it off.
11:05But then we moved to Thailand,
11:07and we broke up.
11:08Eleven months later,
11:09I had to move back to the United States
11:11and start from scratch.
11:14I hadn't been working in Thailand.
11:16I had zero savings.
11:17I felt like I was at the lowest of my lowest.
11:21So, I have a lot of resentment
11:23regarding my financial situation
11:25because I sacrificed a lot for Dylan.
11:28I understand that some of it was possibly my fault,
11:33but that was four years ago,
11:35and you've been dancing for the last four years,
11:37making pretty good money.
11:39It just seems like the same problem just keeps occurring.
11:46Are your spending habits going to change?
11:48Yes.
11:49I'm not the same.
11:51I've learned from my mistakes.
11:54That's why I'm asking you to sell that house
11:56to help me with this debt.
11:58I'm scared that if I do sell one of my properties,
12:05that there's going to be something else
12:07and something else and something else.
12:09I own a couple of properties in Launceston,
12:13and they generate some income.
12:15But I don't think selling one of those properties
12:17to pay off her debt is the right financial choice
12:21because it just feels like she's not taking
12:23any accountability for her spending habits.
12:26And it's rubbish that she's in debt
12:28just because she moved to Thailand.
12:30She's been spending this way her whole life.
12:33When I first met Patia,
12:35I thought she was, you know, rich or something.
12:37I thought, you know, she's a stripper.
12:38She's got heaps of money.
12:40But then I found out she was 60K in debt.
12:44So, this is a pattern.
12:46And, I mean, I love Patia, and I want to be with her.
12:50But I don't want to have to be always cleaning up her mess.
12:55You keep asking me for a ring.
12:58The main reason you haven't got that ring
13:00and I haven't proposed yet
13:01is because of the spending issues that you've had.
13:04And my fear is that this spending thing
13:06is never going to stop.
13:11I'm hoping there's going to be lots
13:13and lots of little babies and children.
13:15I didn't plan on opening up to Matthew's family,
13:19but it all just kind of came out.
13:21I've been having, like, a lot of anxiety
13:23about having children lately.
13:25I don't know.
13:26I don't know.
13:27I don't know.
13:28I don't know.
13:29I don't know.
13:30Me and Madeline got into it a couple times.
13:32She called off the wedding.
13:34You're completely just manipulated and controlled all the time.
13:40Wake the up.
13:41You don't have to go through with this.
14:11You're dead.
14:12You're dead.
14:13You're dead.
14:14You're dead.
14:15You're dead.
14:16You're dead.
14:17Hi.
14:18Great.
14:19Hi.
14:20So hot.
14:21Since I've arrived in England, things have been up and down.
14:26It feels like Matthew and I are on different pages about everything.
14:32Like money and where we're going to live and the future.
14:36It's been a bumpy start.
14:39What type of tea is this?
14:40English breakfast.
14:41OK.
14:42I mean, I don't know why I asked that.
14:43That's what I'm saying.
14:44The only tea that we have, actually.
14:47Matthew is working today.
14:50So Matthew's mother has invited me to tea with her, Matthew's grandma, and also Matthew's
14:58brother's fiancé.
14:59All right.
15:00So these are the normal.
15:02Do you think we're meant to say normal, aren't we?
15:05Oh, it's OK.
15:06I'm used to it.
15:07So these are the vegan ones.
15:08These are the vegan ones.
15:09We're not saying you're abnormal.
15:11It's OK.
15:12I realize I probably am.
15:13So this is the vegan plate here.
15:14That's the vegan.
15:15That's the vegan.
15:16Oh, my gosh.
15:17Wow.
15:18When I did English afternoon tea once before, I just loved it.
15:22I felt very posh, as English would say it.
15:26You drink tea together, and you normally have a tray of little sandwiches and pastries
15:32set in the middle of the table, which is why in those old English TV shows, when people
15:37are trying to speak to each other, they have to, like, look over the little rack of food.
15:42This is vegan cheese.
15:44Yeah, vegan cheese.
15:45I think I'm going to have a fat.
15:49Sorry, Greta.
15:50Are you all right with me eating this?
15:51Yeah.
15:52I figured no worries.
15:53Greta, I just want you to know how welcome you are in our family and how much it means
15:58to have you with us.
15:59And if you stay in our house for three weeks or three months, or even perhaps not quite
16:03three weeks.
16:04No, three years would be far too long.
16:07Especially in such a small house.
16:09Yeah.
16:10But you know you are most welcome.
16:12And I just want you to know that.
16:13Thank you so much.
16:15I've said to Matthew, I think you're his soul mate.
16:19Aww.
16:20You were pulled together from across the world.
16:22It was meant to happen, wasn't it?
16:24It was fate.
16:25Sorry.
16:26That's, like, so sweet.
16:29Yeah, I mean, it really, like, it really means the world to be so accepted in this family.
16:34Like, I, like, don't know what that's like, really.
16:37We have, last two years, we've had some wonderful Christmases, haven't we, together?
16:41Yeah.
16:42Yeah, they really have.
16:43And I know you said that that's not what you have done in the past with your family.
16:47Yeah.
16:48And, like, holidays are especially really challenging because I, my mother and my sister and I, we
16:55made homemade ornaments for the tree.
16:58And the first time we were integrating the tree after she had passed, my father was in
17:05a new relationship and I was, like, so excited to hang up the ornaments on the tree.
17:10And this, this person that my father was in a relationship basically said, like, the ornaments
17:17were really ugly and that she didn't want them on the tree.
17:21Oh, she wasn't very nice.
17:22Yeah.
17:23And so, like, one of my first memories was, like, me, like, trying to hide some of the ornaments
17:29in the tree.
17:30Oh, no.
17:31And so, like, we can still...
17:32Oh, you shouldn't have to hide.
17:33Have you still got them?
17:34No, because she, she, um, she threw them out.
17:37Oh, my God.
17:38Yeah.
17:39That's awful.
17:40That's dreadful.
17:41Oh, Greta.
17:42Oh, Greta, I want to hug you.
17:43I'm sorry.
17:44I've got to hug you.
17:45Let me hug you.
17:46I can't bear that.
17:48I tell you what, we've got lots of family traditions and we will have some Christmas family traditions
17:55and you can be part of those traditions.
17:57And your babies.
17:59Yeah.
18:00Yeah, exactly.
18:01We'll hang ornaments.
18:02Yeah, we'll make them.
18:03In fact, we've got lots of Christmas ornaments and we will buy some new ones.
18:06You'll buy new ones.
18:07And you can make some ornaments.
18:09Yeah.
18:10We will start.
18:11You'll be able to do that with your children.
18:12Yes, you will.
18:14I'm hoping there's going to be lots and lots of little babies and children.
18:18I've been manifesting twins since I was, like, 16 years old.
18:21Oh, my God.
18:22So.
18:23Excellent.
18:24Yeah, I mean, I think, like, when we first met, we both wanted children, like, a lot.
18:30But I've been having, like, a lot of anxiety about having children lately.
18:38And I can't tell if it's, like, a phase or not.
18:43Like, if I'll want them more later, like, if we have a house together and I can, like, feel it more.
18:49I mean, I know he wants children and I think he should have children, like, I, and I, like, I think he's, he's the type of person who would be a really amazing dad.
19:06And I don't want to take that from him.
19:09It's hard as well because your upbringing in your childhood and, um, not having your mother to see as a role model.
19:17Such a young age.
19:18That means being a mother yourself must be quite a big thing.
19:22Yeah.
19:24I loved having babies myself.
19:26And I've always looked forward to the day when perhaps they would go on and have children of their own.
19:31So I would be disappointed if I didn't have any grandchildren.
19:35But it's quite a big decision whether you're going to have children or not.
19:40It is the sort of thing that could break up a relationship if one desperately wants children and one doesn't.
19:45Relationships, if they last the long haul, they don't go easy.
19:51There's tricky times and you have to get through them together.
19:55I didn't plan on opening up to Matthew's family, but it all just kind of came out.
20:02I didn't want to ruin this perfect image they had of the future.
20:05But they're so excited for me to be here and they love me so much and they've been so accepting.
20:12I don't want to get their hopes up about something that may never happen.
20:22Matthew, he loves you daily and he wants the best for you.
20:26So you'll have to navigate that decision together and hopefully, um, you know, reach a compromise.
20:32The last time Matthew and I talked about kids was almost six months ago.
20:39And Matthew and I talked about it and agreed that we would want kids together.
20:44But when I've really started to picture it recently, like house, marriage, kids, I feel really conflicted.
20:54I feel nervous that I'm going to now have to break this news to Matthew because it could really determine the course of our relationship.
21:02I accumulated this debt because of you.
21:12Every time there's a problem, it's like it's my fault.
21:16It's almost like he wants to see me suffer through the debt.
21:20Like, let's watch you squirm.
21:22He needs to move past this because if he doesn't propose, I'm done.
21:25What's up, man? How you doing?
21:26Good.
21:27Starting without me?
21:28Yeah, let me grab a beer.
21:29I'll be right back.
21:30What's up, man?
21:51How you doing?
21:52Good.
21:52Starting without me?
21:55Let me grab beer.
21:57I'll be right back.
21:57Brian is one of my closest friends.
22:01We met in Columbia.
22:03He was married to one of Madeline's friends.
22:05But Madeline and Brian hate each other.
22:11Madeline started a rumor that I was unfaithful to my ex-wife just to get back at me telling
22:20Luke what happens when he's not there.
22:22It's Madeline's world and we're just living in it.
22:24Like, she says, jump, and Luke says, how high?
22:26She says, bark, and Luke barks.
22:31Here you go, man.
22:33Cheers.
22:34Salud.
22:35Madeline does not want me to see Brian.
22:37But to be honest, I think that we should be able to talk and I could use it just about now.
22:44How you been, man?
22:45Good.
22:47How's it going?
22:48So you've been here for a couple of days now, right?
22:49Yeah, it's been dramatic, man.
22:51Me and Madeline got into it a couple of times.
22:54She called off the wedding.
22:57I mean, it's been stressful, man.
22:59You know, but trying to work through it.
23:02Yeah.
23:03It sounds real healthy, Luke.
23:04It sounds like you're really making progress.
23:06Yeah, I mean, I, you have a point, dude.
23:09I feel like you have, like, Stockholm Syndrome.
23:11You know, like, when someone, like, kidnaps somebody and takes them hostage, then the hostage starts to fall in love with the captive.
23:23We've been through a lot, you know?
23:24I mean, maybe there's a little bit of a trauma bond there.
23:27Like, I've kind of been at, like, my, my lowest low in life, you know, like, financially unstable.
23:34Yeah, but you've been saying this since the moment you met her.
23:37So, you're, everything you're telling me, nothing's changed.
23:40It's bad, bro.
23:42And you're completely just manipulated and controlled all the time.
23:46What is it about her?
23:50Like, why do you want to be with her?
23:52Sell her to me, please.
23:55Really, like, me seeing you and your life, I wanted to move here.
24:00I wanted to be in a different country as an entrepreneur, living a life.
24:05I just wanted to live the dream and not have to work how I did in the United States.
24:08Sell me her, not the dream.
24:09Sell me her.
24:10I think, ultimately, I'm a little bit scared of being alone.
24:18And she has been there.
24:20Is she there for you?
24:21Because last time I talked, you're like, oh, sometimes she ignores me for days.
24:25That's someone that's there for you?
24:27I'm telling you to sell me her.
24:29You haven't said one nice thing about her.
24:32And you're getting married.
24:33Like, what about this sounds like a good idea?
24:36You don't have to go through with this.
24:42Did I want to be going through this stuff, like, the weeks before my marriage?
24:46No.
24:47You know, am I happy right now?
24:51No, I feel like I'm walking on eggshells.
24:54But the way she makes me feel when I'm with her makes me forget a lot of the stress, a lot of the things that I'm going through.
25:02I see my future, and I want to be happy.
25:07I want to be happy with her.
25:09I just, I want it so bad.
25:12It's just, I felt like I haven't been myself in a really long time.
25:16Because, really, like, I can't hit home on the financial stress that I'm going through.
25:22So, where is the root of your financial problems?
25:29How much money did you spend on Madeline in a year?
25:32There are a lot.
25:37Any woman will love you if you send your whole paycheck to them.
25:42That doesn't mean it's true love.
25:44A real woman, knowing that you're in financial ruin, won't push the limits of what you can or cannot give her.
25:52It's hard to be your friend when you keep making the same mistakes with the same girl.
25:59Wake the up.
26:00Brian is saying some pretty nasty s***, but there's some truth in that.
26:09I've boughten her cars, I've boughten her beauty studio, I pay her rent, I pay her food, I pay everything.
26:16It's been horrible since I've moved here.
26:21And it's not how I want my future to be.
26:24It's not the relationship that I had envisioned.
26:27I don't know.
26:28I don't know what to do.
26:29You keep asking me for a ring, but my fear is that this spending thing is never going to stop.
26:41I haven't seen the changes.
26:51I need to see those changes before we commit and get married.
26:54It's an addiction that you have.
27:01It's a chronic addiction.
27:03You know, it's detrimental, love.
27:05It's got to stop.
27:06And it's serious.
27:08You brought me to tears with it, because it's like, when is this woman going to stop spending?
27:13You know, there's been many months where you have not had the money for rent, and I've had to pay it for you.
27:20What are you talking about?
27:21That's because you put me in that place.
27:24You've got a very deluded view of what has and hasn't happened.
27:33I didn't know, like, deep down how you really felt about my spending issue.
27:37In the past, every time I expressed it, you'd get really upset and mad and just told me to start your business.
27:43And it would just start a fight, and so I just kind of gave up.
27:47You're right.
27:49But I accumulated this debt because of you.
27:54The debt that you had when you met me, whose fault was that?
28:00When I met Dylan, I just moved to Vegas, and I was in a lot of debt.
28:05As performers, strippers, we had to look the part, and it's expensive.
28:10We had to tan, we had to do the nails, the hair.
28:12You have to spend to make it, but I did not spend like I used to.
28:18Babe, I've learned from my mistakes, but this debt, I swear, honestly, I feel like it's your fault.
28:26You know it's your fault.
28:27Every time there's a problem, it's like it's my fault.
28:31It just seems it's just easy just to blame stuff on me and then just keep spending.
28:35It makes me mad.
28:39This last debt was because of him.
28:43If it bothers you, help me, help me pay it.
28:46It's almost like he wants to see me suffer through the debt.
28:49Like, let's watch you squirm and see what you can do, you know?
28:52You're not that same girl anymore.
28:56I've gotten better.
28:57Now that we're together, it's going to be your money, and I'm not going to be doing that.
29:03I don't know what more I can do or say to say,
29:06look, I'm not that high-maintenance girl like I was back in the days.
29:10He needs to move past this because if he doesn't propose, I'm done.
29:14I'm moving on.
29:25He spread some holy water, which was mixed with a cow urine.
29:44You know, last night was rough night.
30:14Like, you know, I really felt so bad that you guys worked so hard for so long,
30:19and we have to throw everything away.
30:22That was so bad.
30:24Last night, that really set us back.
30:27We were up late preparing once again, and now we all are tired, cranky, and, you know,
30:33it's not a great way to start our first day.
30:36This blessing ceremony is a big thing for all the businesses in the market.
30:40A lot of people are coming, and we're going to hand out a sample of our food in order to advertise our cafe.
30:46But, like, it's not going to be easy because we all are tired.
30:51Okay, here we are.
30:56We have the water jar.
30:57If you guys need water, we have water over here.
31:01Yeah, big jar.
31:02Sunda Khan ceremony is an important time when we ask for the blessings from all the gods and goddesses.
31:09This particular ceremony becomes extra special because it's on an auspicious day where the planets and stars are aligned,
31:17which helps us to get more blessings from the god.
31:20I feel like I need to take a coffee-making class.
31:32I'm here.
31:33I'll teach you.
31:34That's not an issue.
31:35Okay, so to make Americano single cup.
31:38Single sauce.
31:39Shots.
31:39This is for double shots.
31:41Double shot.
31:42Press it.
31:42Your espresso will count.
31:43The espresso is ready.
31:44Then put the water here, and your Americano is ready.
31:47I was really excited to get this coffee machine, and now I'm looking at it like, what the hell?
31:57Temper this and steam that.
31:59I'm in way over my head here.
32:01I'm lost.
32:03Shall I help you?
32:04Yeah.
32:05Yeah.
32:05You have to be really very fast.
32:07Simple.
32:08Okay.
32:09I mean, what the hell did I get into?
32:12My fingers are crossed.
32:13Everything works out.
32:15We'll see.
32:17I already forget what to do.
32:34Before the main ceremony begins, the priests come into every individual cafe and bless every shop.
32:41Celebrating all my time.
32:43We'll see you on the part.
32:43We'll see you on the part.
32:44We'll see you on the part.
32:45We'll see you on the part.
32:47We'll see you on the part.
32:49He spread some holy water, which was mixed with a cow urine.
32:54Cow urine is considered very religious and pure in my culture.
32:59Did you say cow urine?
33:01Yeah, you heard it right.
33:03Cow is a honey animal above anyone, even like gods, because cow gives us milk.
33:09She's like a mother to us.
33:11Throwing cow urine around while you're cooking?
33:14We would never do something like that in America.
33:17You use holy water, we use cow urine.
33:32Now our cafe is bliss.
33:39We are just making a buzz that yes, we are here in the market.
34:01So from tomorrow onwards, please do come in and enjoy more and more different varieties of foods and coffee.
34:08At the end of the day, I'm very proud of the work we did.
34:17Like, it's really good.
34:19We served a lot of people, hundreds of plates went out of the kitchen.
34:23It really makes us feel good that we can do it.
34:26You guys, you know, all I saw was food going out the door and no money coming in.
34:33I know how important this was, but we made no money.
34:39When they said we were going to be handing out samples, I thought it was going to be small, but they're handing out whole plates of food.
34:48And there's got to be at least 100 people here.
34:51So at this point, we might as well just be throwing money out.
34:55So there's a lot of people, so I thought this is our chance.
34:59We are letting people know that look what we are having over here, which you won't find in the neighborhood.
35:05See, we are new today, and they are running business for months now.
35:10So how will people recognize Family Cafe?
35:14Take it as investment.
35:15Yes, don't worry.
35:16It will be all fine tomorrow.
35:18Are these people delusional?
35:21Am I the only one realizing we didn't make any money today on top of all the food we had to throw away yesterday?
35:30Like, what the hell?
35:32Now I'm worried it's going to take us longer to start making any money, and we might be stuck living with the family forever.
35:40I've been having a lot of anxiety lately because I've been thinking about something.
35:55I don't think I've ever picked apples before.
36:16Really?
36:17No.
36:18It's great as a third day here, and things still feel unsettled.
36:24I hear some snorts.
36:26Oh, my God.
36:27Piggy.
36:28Aww.
36:29Aww.
36:30Look at those sweet little angels.
36:33Aww.
36:34Hi, honey.
36:35Look at their ears.
36:36You're just like...
36:37Hi.
36:38How are you?
36:39Do you have a name?
36:41It's okay.
36:42If you don't want to come to us, you don't have to.
36:45We just want to say hello.
36:47I think we should go pick some apples for them, honey, so they trust us more.
36:52Yep.
36:53Let's go get some apples.
36:55Do apples grow in Oklahoma?
36:58Um, I'm sure they do, but it's not really a thing in Oklahoma.
37:03I'm going to get some of the apples down here on this low branch.
37:07Yeah, they look good.
37:08Oh, God.
37:09You know, who'd have thought that three years after we met on a vegan dating app, we would
37:16go on this journey together and share these experiences?
37:20Yeah.
37:21I'm really grateful that you love animals as well because I've felt like I've always struggled
37:28finding a partner who feels the same way that I do about animals.
37:32So, thank you for allowing me to have that space.
37:35I feel exactly the same.
37:37I thought I'd have to go my whole life being in relationships with people or probably getting
37:43married to someone that I just accepted wasn't a vegan or doesn't love animals to the same
37:49extent as me.
37:50And it surprised me when I was able to find you.
37:56And maybe what I'm trying to say is thank you for being in my life.
38:01No.
38:02Gretel moved to a new country.
38:06She's left her cat behind, her friends behind to be with me.
38:10And although it hasn't been perfect, I just want to reassure her that she's my person.
38:16And I'm looking forward to a life with her.
38:19That's very sweet.
38:21And I mean, you helped me be unapologetically myself, but I've been having a lot of anxiety
38:30lately because I've been thinking about something, like really struggling with it.
38:39And I didn't talk to you about it because I wanted to know if I was going through a phase
38:46or not, but where my head's at now, I feel so unsure if I do want kids anymore.
39:08That's a bombshell.
39:13Yeah.
39:15I am like really struggling because I think you were meant to be a dad.
39:20And I think like you would be an amazing dad.
39:23I absolutely want kids and I want those kids with you because you are the one for me.
39:36Do you think maybe the reason why you feel like you don't want kids is because you had a difficult childhood?
39:44No, I think my childhood would actually be one of the reasons why I would want kids because I would be able to build a family life that I've always dreamed of, but never got to experience.
39:59This is a complete shock to me.
40:04Me and Greta have spoken together about kids dozens if not hundreds of times.
40:10We've even named what all of our kids would be called.
40:14The hobbies they would have, the way we would raise them, all the way down to the kinds of schools we want them to go to.
40:21I don't know where this has come from.
40:28I was really sure about having kids and then I started to really think about what having a child would mean and like what my life would look like if I had a kid.
40:36And I think having a kid and a family life would be a major deterrence to being the type of advocate that I've always wanted to be.
40:53I don't think you should see it purely from your impact.
40:56I think you should see how much of an impact they could have as well.
41:01Your ability to raise people in the image that you always wanted to be raised in as a child.
41:10I think it's such an opportunity for you.
41:13And if you don't have the time to be a mother, I will be 200% of the father.
41:31Still to come on 90 Day Fiancé, The Other Way.
41:37This is the happiest I've seen you since we got here.
41:41I have a surprise for you.
41:51I feel like our life is really starting here.
41:53It's giving me anxiety.
41:55There's no food deliveries, no taxi, nothing.
41:58We are finally moving to our home sweet home.
42:03It's in the ass of France.
42:05What the ?
42:07There's nothing here, Ben.
42:10I'm not made for this.
42:13I've got one, Pattaya.
42:15Ah!
42:17Dylan's mom is the reason why we are not married today.
42:20I feel like you're a needy mother, Joe.
42:23I'm not going to be classed as needy.
42:25Every day, you have to talk to your mom.
42:28It's ridiculous.
42:30You better stop picking your battles.
42:31Because you're just going to be nagging me until we're both dead.
42:35Ah, .
42:39At the beginning, I felt like he was Mr. Darcy, and I was Elizabeth.
42:43I am home.
42:45And that's not how I'm feeling right now.
42:48The honest, like, truth is that I don't think I'm being very fair to you at all.
42:54What do I do now?
42:55What do I do now?
43:00I already told your parents we're moving out.
43:02We are depending on them right now.
43:04We cannot move out of there.
43:06If you don't want to go with me, I guess I'll have to move out by myself.
43:11You're going to be marrying my son, but it's her.
43:15Is this really what you want?
43:18I still have so many doubts.
43:24I even know if you're going to marry this guy.
43:31These aren't my earrings, you .
43:35Oh, God.
43:37I feel like I was in a relationship with a total different person.
43:41Chloe.
43:43Those are not mine.
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