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Married at First Sight UK follows a group of singles matched by experts who agree to marry a complete stranger. In this seventh episode of Season 10, the couples continue to navigate the complexities of their new relationships, facing challenges and celebrating milestones. Witness the unfolding drama and emotional journey as they strive to build a future together.
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00:00:00Aujourd'hui est le plus grand jour de ma vie.
00:00:0418 singlet-seigneux...
00:00:08...et de s'arrange...
00:00:10...et de s'arrange...
00:00:12...s'est pas dit, c'est pas ça.
00:00:14...et de s'arrange.
00:00:16...et de s'arrange.
00:00:18...et de s'arrange.
00:00:19...et de s'arrange.
00:00:20...et de s'arrange.
00:00:22...et de s'arrange.
00:00:24...et de s'arrange.
00:00:26...on peut dire que Stephen est bien avec ses hands.
00:00:28...et de s'arrange.
00:00:30...et de s'arrange à faire...
00:00:32...en un problème oublier.
00:00:34...et la piste le retenir.
00:00:36...et des s'arrange à un troublé par bi.
00:00:38...et d'une à droite, je pense à quelle que ça se trouve.
00:00:40...et des parents son...
00:00:42...et des années...
00:00:44...en plus, vous êtes réveillée.
00:00:46... rolesent-on-all pas de cette grandeur...
00:00:48...forment ?
00:00:50...et ensuite je vais me faireilles сказать.
00:00:52...et ça me ferait à l'我不sindeir.
00:00:54...et puis, je m'en pensais...
00:00:56Est-ce que vous avez des questions sur moi ?
00:00:57Je ne veux pas demander.
00:00:58Je ne sais pas si c'est pour la marriage,
00:01:00je ne sais pas si c'est pour la marriage.
00:01:01Je ne sais pas si c'est pour la marriage.
00:01:05Tonight,
00:01:06Our newlyweds
00:01:09move in together.
00:01:12We're so few !
00:01:14Mais pour des couples,
00:01:15Je suis allé de faire un peu real maintenant.
00:01:18Domestic harmony,
00:01:20Je sais que les trois enfants sont nées.
00:01:22Do you know mes deux ?
00:01:23est short-lived.
00:01:24C'est crunch time
00:01:26for me.
00:01:30At the first dinner party
00:01:31of the experiment,
00:01:33Oh, she's on her own.
00:01:36It's showtime for Dean.
00:01:38Here we are
00:01:39on this mad experiment,
00:01:40seeing things not in our element.
00:01:43But Sarah serves a scathing review.
00:01:45He asked me if I'd ever
00:01:47slept with anyone.
00:01:48He's calling himself
00:01:49the funny fat kid.
00:01:51He's like a care bear.
00:01:54That's not a very hot thing
00:01:55to say about your partner.
00:01:56No.
00:01:57While some are falling
00:01:58head over heels.
00:02:00I've got that like fuzzy feeling in me.
00:02:02You've got to move me.
00:02:04Others are falling apart.
00:02:06You are very negative.
00:02:09as our newlyweds return from their honeymoons.
00:02:29Yes sir.
00:02:30Let's do it.
00:02:31Our first ski together.
00:02:32It's time for them to embark
00:02:33upon the next big milestone
00:02:35in their married lives.
00:02:37We're doing it, eh ?
00:02:38Living together.
00:02:40Right.
00:02:41How do you feel about
00:02:51being here together?
00:02:52What, being married?
00:02:52Married.
00:02:53Feels quite normal for me.
00:02:55Doesn't it?
00:02:56Do you know what I mean?
00:02:56Yeah.
00:02:57I'm really comfortable around you.
00:02:59Like really comfortable.
00:03:00I mean we're sharing a toothbrush.
00:03:02Do you know what I mean ?
00:03:02Like that is gross but
00:03:03it's one of those things.
00:03:04Good luck.
00:03:07Settling into here
00:03:08and just being with you
00:03:09like that's,
00:03:10I'm excited for that.
00:03:12We're here, we're home.
00:03:13Honeymoon's done.
00:03:14Next step baby girl.
00:03:16We're so cute.
00:03:18This is beautiful.
00:03:26I barely recognise you there.
00:03:28You actually look like
00:03:29a different person
00:03:30to who I know now.
00:03:31Yeah.
00:03:32Yeah that's a bit
00:03:32she's told you this.
00:03:33Is this the one you didn't like?
00:03:34We're different people.
00:03:37I can touch you and everything.
00:03:40When I left the honeymoon
00:03:41I was feeling really on edge
00:03:42and unsure about Ash's character
00:03:43and I was kind of looking for
00:03:45flaws and negatives
00:03:46and being quite reactive
00:03:47to everything he said.
00:03:48But now the pressure's off.
00:03:50Yeah we're just getting
00:03:51to know each other
00:03:52and yeah it's a lot more chilled
00:03:54which is how I prefer things.
00:03:56It will be nice to meet everyone else
00:03:57and hear how they've got on
00:03:58and it will either make us feel
00:03:59way better
00:04:00or a million times worse
00:04:02about our honeymoon.
00:04:02No I think look
00:04:03everyone's different
00:04:04but I'm quite happy
00:04:05with where we are.
00:04:06Are you going to be jealous
00:04:07if the other couples
00:04:07are like all over each other
00:04:08like snogging on the table?
00:04:10I just said I'm happy
00:04:10with like where we are
00:04:11and the progress we're making.
00:04:20What a day.
00:04:21Who would have known?
00:04:21Didn't even know each other then.
00:04:22Yeah it's so surreal.
00:04:24What was you thinking
00:04:24in that moment?
00:04:25I think I mean
00:04:27I don't know
00:04:28I'm not going to lie
00:04:30that does feel like
00:04:30a lifetime ago.
00:04:33I'm just very overwhelmed
00:04:34by everything
00:04:35and you know
00:04:37Dean is so lovely
00:04:38and he absolutely is
00:04:39and you know
00:04:40he's great in things
00:04:41but I'm just
00:04:41I don't know
00:04:42it's just kind of like
00:04:43I just thought
00:04:44it would be different
00:04:45you know.
00:04:48If he doesn't look
00:04:50like what
00:04:50I would usually go for
00:04:52it doesn't matter
00:04:52I'm going to be open minded.
00:04:55On their wedding day
00:04:56No I don't fancy Dean.
00:05:01Despite Sarah's intentions
00:05:02she struggled to find
00:05:04an initial attraction
00:05:04to Dean.
00:05:05Take a seat
00:05:06take some heat off these feet.
00:05:07You love turning things
00:05:08into wraps.
00:05:09Oh I love wrapping.
00:05:10And on the honeymoon
00:05:11Sarah's spark
00:05:12never ignited.
00:05:14Have you ever been
00:05:15with anyone bigger?
00:05:16No I have to admit that.
00:05:17No.
00:05:18But Dean remained optimistic
00:05:19he could make it
00:05:20out of the friend zone.
00:05:22Have you been cuddling
00:05:22any pillows?
00:05:23No I've not been
00:05:24cuddling any pillows.
00:05:25I'm waiting for the real thing.
00:05:30Is there anything
00:05:31Dean could do
00:05:32to ever get a sexual spark?
00:05:35Get some tattoos
00:05:37and lose some weight.
00:05:39Maybe.
00:05:42It's nice to be home
00:05:43like and feel home
00:05:44as well now
00:05:44because we're so far away.
00:05:45I do wonder
00:05:46if living together
00:05:48is going to progress anything
00:05:49if intimacy side of things
00:05:51is going to happen
00:05:52or if it's going to
00:05:53go the opposite way.
00:05:55It's not the first time
00:05:56I've kind of been
00:05:57in the friend zone
00:05:57you know
00:05:58it kind of does change
00:05:58it does change
00:05:59so just trust
00:06:00trust the process
00:06:01trust me
00:06:02it will come
00:06:02it will come.
00:06:04Touch wood.
00:06:06All the wood
00:06:07all the wood.
00:06:09Because I'll just
00:06:10be coming a little bit
00:06:11real now.
00:06:12Is it yeah?
00:06:12Yeah.
00:06:12I don't want to get upset
00:06:15I don't want to make me upset.
00:06:19It's okay.
00:06:20It's a lot.
00:06:20It is a lot.
00:06:21Like you just
00:06:21know each other
00:06:22for a week.
00:06:23Do you know what I mean?
00:06:23Yeah.
00:06:24I don't like
00:06:25seeing anyone upset
00:06:26especially like my wife.
00:06:27It's making me a bit anxious
00:06:28I wasn't expecting that.
00:06:30Because you're so positive
00:06:31but like
00:06:32you just don't let anything
00:06:33sort of
00:06:34rain on my parade.
00:06:36Yeah.
00:06:38Trust the process
00:06:39and don't think that.
00:06:40Because if you do
00:06:40that's half the battle
00:06:41lost in my head
00:06:42you know.
00:06:45It's all about mindset.
00:06:47Life's all about mindset.
00:06:48Your life's as good
00:06:48as you want it to be.
00:06:50I thought I'd fancy
00:06:51the pants off my husband
00:06:52and I don't.
00:06:54I just thought
00:06:55my experience
00:06:56would be different.
00:07:00That's classy.
00:07:01Oh that's cute.
00:07:03That's the best
00:07:03fit I've ever had.
00:07:04Yeah same.
00:07:06Next chapter
00:07:07I'm really looking forward to
00:07:08I want to jump in
00:07:09with two feet.
00:07:10If anything
00:07:10how the honeymoon's gone
00:07:11then this will be
00:07:12a breeze.
00:07:13Compatibility
00:07:13is probably off the scale
00:07:14at this point.
00:07:15Let's have some snacks.
00:07:17I've never lived
00:07:18with a guy before
00:07:19so I don't know
00:07:19what to expect.
00:07:20Go on
00:07:21tuck right in.
00:07:22I do really like Stephen.
00:07:23The honeymoon was amazing
00:07:24but now we're in the real world
00:07:26I'm just
00:07:27a bit apprehensive
00:07:28of how it's going to go
00:07:29and the bubble's
00:07:30going to be burst.
00:07:30This is probably
00:07:34going to be
00:07:34the biggest test
00:07:35living together.
00:07:36Yeah it'll be
00:07:37the biggest test
00:07:37absolutely.
00:07:38Is there anything
00:07:38you think I could
00:07:39work on?
00:07:43Obviously the
00:07:43the side way
00:07:45like you just want
00:07:46that little bit
00:07:46of reassurance from me.
00:07:47I think reassurance
00:07:48for me
00:07:49can be quite hard
00:07:50to give if I felt
00:07:51like I've given enough.
00:07:51A lot of my friends
00:07:55they say like
00:07:56I'll self-sabotage
00:07:57but I need reassurance
00:07:59because boyfriends
00:08:00in the past
00:08:00have blindsided me
00:08:02and I've had no idea
00:08:03so I do need
00:08:05a little bit
00:08:05reassurance sometimes.
00:08:12I don't think
00:08:13we're going to really
00:08:13have many issues
00:08:14living together.
00:08:14I reckon?
00:08:15No.
00:08:17At the moment
00:08:17I think me and Leah
00:08:18are in more
00:08:19of like a friendship.
00:08:20she's just not
00:08:20my initial type
00:08:21so for me
00:08:22it's just been
00:08:23a little bit difficult
00:08:23to build that
00:08:24romantic and physical
00:08:25connection
00:08:26but I'm not going
00:08:26to force anything.
00:08:28I'll have to see
00:08:28if you get on my nerves.
00:08:29You actually
00:08:30get on my nerves too.
00:08:31I'm just a more
00:08:31reserved chill person.
00:08:33I think it'll definitely
00:08:34test us moving in together.
00:08:36It worries me.
00:08:37She's going to be
00:08:38this annoying little princess
00:08:39that wants this
00:08:39and wants that
00:08:40and gets her own way.
00:08:41I think we should
00:08:42have delegated jobs though.
00:08:44Okay but I'm not
00:08:45doing your washing.
00:08:47There isn't really
00:08:48any intimacy.
00:08:49I have been definitely
00:08:50trying a bit more
00:08:51because I know
00:08:51I need to be
00:08:52trying in this process.
00:08:54Got to go somewhere.
00:08:55It can't just keep
00:08:56as a friendship
00:08:57it's not going to
00:08:57work like that.
00:09:03I think we've had
00:09:04you know
00:09:04ups and downs
00:09:05and it's been
00:09:06quite tricky
00:09:07but I feel like
00:09:08I'm glad that
00:09:09we've had it
00:09:09like early on
00:09:10as well
00:09:11and now we can
00:09:12like understand
00:09:13how to like
00:09:13tackle conflict
00:09:14and that when
00:09:15it comes up
00:09:15that kind of energy
00:09:17and that like
00:09:18tornado between
00:09:20us
00:09:20do you know
00:09:21what I mean?
00:09:21Yeah.
00:09:26Hi.
00:09:28It's love of her say.
00:09:29Despite having
00:09:30instant chemistry
00:09:31on their wedding day.
00:09:32I've woken up
00:09:36with like a
00:09:37different thought
00:09:37this morning.
00:09:38I'm not having
00:09:39that desire.
00:09:42Devani didn't
00:09:43measure up
00:09:43to Julia Ruth's
00:09:44expectations.
00:09:45I have dated
00:09:46like tour
00:09:47guys.
00:09:49Yeah that hurt.
00:09:50Shit.
00:09:51Different energy levels.
00:09:53Growing up
00:09:54I'm just being alone
00:09:55and I think
00:09:56knowing that
00:09:56I could potentially
00:09:57be alone
00:09:58for the rest of my life
00:09:58that would be the worst.
00:10:00Yeah.
00:10:00And Devani's
00:10:01outlook on life
00:10:02He doesn't see
00:10:03any positives with me.
00:10:05It's just too much.
00:10:06Cause deep divides
00:10:07in the marriage.
00:10:08The last thing
00:10:09I want to do
00:10:09is talk about traumas
00:10:10and then like
00:10:11get into bed with you.
00:10:13There's trouble
00:10:13in paradise isn't it?
00:10:15You know what
00:10:16conflict isn't a bad thing
00:10:18like I'm glad
00:10:19we had it
00:10:20so that we know
00:10:20how to proceed.
00:10:22Yeah.
00:10:22It's not a nice
00:10:23thing to have
00:10:24but like
00:10:24it's important.
00:10:25Imagine if we were like
00:10:26it's all happy days
00:10:27and roses
00:10:28and it's like
00:10:28I feel like
00:10:30just a honeymoon
00:10:32I feel like
00:10:32whether it was
00:10:34smooth sailing
00:10:34or not
00:10:35for other people
00:10:35we came back
00:10:36stronger anyways.
00:10:37I think that's
00:10:38just the key part
00:10:38to it.
00:10:39Going into this
00:10:40dinner party
00:10:41we've come through
00:10:42our trials
00:10:42and tribulations
00:10:43we've come back
00:10:44stronger
00:10:44and I'm here
00:10:45to show off
00:10:46my wife
00:10:46and walking
00:10:47loud and bold
00:10:48confidence
00:10:49head up
00:10:50I've probably got
00:10:50the most beautiful
00:10:51wife out there
00:10:52we're unpenetrable
00:10:54right now
00:10:55hopefully
00:10:55we can
00:10:56be an inspiration
00:10:58to the other
00:10:59couples as well
00:11:00and
00:11:00damn an inspiration
00:11:01yeah definitely
00:11:02an inspiration
00:11:03um
00:11:09we don't have
00:11:10the same reality
00:11:11we do not have
00:11:12the same reality
00:11:12I'm absolutely
00:11:14breaking it
00:11:14for this dinner party
00:11:15we have to show
00:11:17the confidence
00:11:17and not be
00:11:18going into this
00:11:19thing and be like
00:11:19okay cool
00:11:20we've had our
00:11:20troubles
00:11:21but we're still
00:11:22lingering on the
00:11:23issues
00:11:23we're coming in
00:11:24as a team
00:11:25we know what
00:11:26we've been through
00:11:27we've got our
00:11:27chest out high
00:11:28yeah
00:11:29that was wonderful
00:11:39and I'm glad we
00:11:41raised it
00:11:41yeah same for sure
00:11:42definitely worth it
00:11:44yeah
00:11:44and doing it in our
00:11:45own beds
00:11:45yeah in our house
00:11:47probably try again
00:11:48yeah
00:11:48practice makes
00:11:49perfect
00:11:50let's just keep
00:11:51trying it and trying
00:11:52it and trying
00:11:52we have finally
00:11:58gotten intimate
00:11:59feeling absolutely
00:12:01fantastic
00:12:02we never thought
00:12:03it was going to be
00:12:03a problem
00:12:04and it definitely
00:12:04wasn't
00:12:05I think we both
00:12:06felt very safe
00:12:08with one another
00:12:08emotionally
00:12:09and have built
00:12:10really strong
00:12:10connections
00:12:11so that was always
00:12:12going to be the
00:12:12easy part
00:12:13right now I feel
00:12:14like me and him
00:12:15there's nothing
00:12:15we cannot handle
00:12:16we're really good
00:12:17I just really want
00:12:18this next episode
00:12:19to start
00:12:20because I feel
00:12:20like we're a
00:12:20really good space
00:12:21right now
00:12:21crikey
00:12:28that's a good one of you
00:12:29don't you think
00:12:30you didn't rock me
00:12:31so that's good
00:12:32yeah yeah
00:12:32I think the next
00:12:34chapter's going to
00:12:34be exciting
00:12:35I'm going to ask
00:12:36you on best behaviour
00:12:37where's the washer
00:12:39dryer
00:12:39hang on
00:12:40sink
00:12:41so water will be
00:12:41here
00:12:42oh dishwasher
00:12:43my heart sank
00:12:44a little bit
00:12:45within minutes
00:12:46of arriving here
00:12:47yeah
00:12:47feeling very nervous
00:12:50apprehensive
00:12:51about sharing
00:12:52a compact space
00:12:54with Paul
00:12:54hoover
00:12:56washer dryer
00:12:58ironing board
00:12:59happy days
00:13:00yeah he's just
00:13:02he's overwhelming
00:13:04he's frantic
00:13:05at the moment
00:13:05now we're talking
00:13:07I found the bathroom
00:13:08I need to have a conversation
00:13:11with Paul
00:13:11with regards to
00:13:13how we're going to move forward
00:13:14things have cropped up
00:13:16during the honeymoon
00:13:18that's kind of been
00:13:19little red flags for me
00:13:20I'm worried about the
00:13:21cupboard space though
00:13:22why
00:13:23not sure if I'm going to get any
00:13:24I need to be honest with Paul
00:13:26I need to see how I'm actually feeling
00:13:28it's crunch time
00:13:29for me
00:13:30I need to have a little chat
00:13:33with you Paul
00:13:34is that alright
00:13:35yeah
00:13:36yeah
00:13:36I've tried to get to know Paul
00:13:39I've asked him lots of questions
00:13:41however Paul has took no interest
00:13:43in my life
00:13:45when I get nothing back
00:13:47from Paul
00:13:47my heart sinks
00:13:48I have to have a conversation
00:13:51with him
00:13:51how have you found it
00:13:52difficult at times
00:13:58do you think
00:14:00you know a lot about me
00:14:02do you think you've asked
00:14:06questions about my family
00:14:08no
00:14:10no at all
00:14:13no
00:14:13so
00:14:14I know your three children's names
00:14:16do you know my two children's names
00:14:19no
00:14:25Paul never listens
00:14:28he doesn't even know my children's names
00:14:30I've told him a hundred times
00:14:32I mean
00:14:33take some interest Paul
00:14:34for me that is the basics
00:14:36I need some time out
00:14:40so
00:14:42I won't be
00:14:45living in this apartment
00:14:48with you
00:14:49I feel rejected at the moment
00:15:01from Anita
00:15:02I've had in my life
00:15:04many rejections
00:15:05I'm used to it
00:15:06I'm skilled at it
00:15:07I have a masters in it
00:15:08a PhD in it
00:15:09my job now is to
00:15:11convince her to get back together
00:15:13we'll wait and see
00:15:15pause
00:15:19not the person I was hoping for
00:15:20my life sounds really harsh but
00:15:22he's not
00:15:25I just want to see everyone
00:15:40yeah
00:15:40she think everyone got along
00:15:42my biggest one is that yeah like other people are you know maybe further along than their managers
00:15:52than we are
00:15:53I think that's my main concern
00:15:55everyone's got a good place
00:15:57just can't let it affect us too much
00:15:58no
00:15:59definitely not
00:16:00yeah
00:16:00obviously the honeymoon
00:16:07there was ups and downs
00:16:08but myself and Julia Ruth have come back on a stronger terms
00:16:11going into this dinner party
00:16:13we're just there supporting each other
00:16:15I'm feeling a little bit nervous in terms of like
00:16:17questions that might come our way
00:16:19we might be putting a microscope tonight
00:16:21I just hope that Devani and I can stand united together
00:16:24are you ready for the first dinner party
00:16:32yes
00:16:32absolutely
00:16:33all the couples have now returned from their honeymoons
00:16:35and are settling in together in the marital homes
00:16:37now this dinner party will prove a real challenge for our newlyweds
00:16:41it will test their early connections
00:16:43and in some cases highlight their glaring differences
00:16:46oh my gosh
00:16:51jeez
00:16:52wow
00:16:53first in we have Sarah and Dean
00:16:55and they're holding hands
00:16:56I feel like this is possibly a good sign
00:16:59just be our fun selves you know
00:17:04have a good time
00:17:05it'll be fun
00:17:06absolutely
00:17:07had a fun honeymoon you know
00:17:10Sarah looks really tense actually doesn't she
00:17:14just keep the wrapping to a minimum
00:17:18singing
00:17:19oh
00:17:21no but the wrap will be on request
00:17:24that will be fine
00:17:25my god
00:17:25so there's the first boundary
00:17:28so you lay down
00:17:30keep the wrapping to a minimum
00:17:31yeah
00:17:32oh my gosh who's here
00:17:35Nellie and Stephen
00:17:37they look happy
00:17:39good to see you
00:17:42how you been bro
00:17:43it's lovely to see the energy
00:17:45that both Nellie and Stephen are bringing
00:17:47and I'm hopeful that they're in a really good place
00:17:48it looks like they are
00:17:49yes
00:17:50there's a beam
00:17:51yeah thank god
00:17:52oh my god
00:17:54I know I hate to say it out loud
00:17:56when I met with Nellie before the experiment started
00:18:00she talked about finding it quite hard to open up
00:18:02so it's really nice here at this very early stage
00:18:04to hear her saying
00:18:05I quite like Stephen
00:18:06how do you feel about Dany boy
00:18:10obviously he is loving
00:18:14loving
00:18:14loving
00:18:15loving
00:18:15yeah
00:18:15I was disappointed
00:18:17oh
00:18:19he's super high energy
00:18:22yeah
00:18:22it gets annoying
00:18:23yeah
00:18:23and I sort of need
00:18:25need the space
00:18:25yeah
00:18:26he does this thing
00:18:28where he like
00:18:30starts rapping
00:18:31he loves to rap
00:18:35do you like him at all
00:18:37really
00:18:38he's just rapping that bad
00:18:40my sense is the rapping is code for something else
00:18:44yeah
00:18:44how's it been for you?
00:18:49yeah
00:18:49like we get on
00:18:50like we get on really well
00:18:51it's kind of just not been that
00:18:52like intimacy side yet really
00:18:54but I was like I've been in the friend zone before
00:18:56trust me you'll fall for me
00:18:57and she's like
00:18:58I'm like trust me
00:18:59it'll come
00:19:00it'll come
00:19:01although Dean is laughing
00:19:03that must be quite hurtful for him
00:19:05there's someone coming in
00:19:09hey
00:19:10oh my god
00:19:14hey
00:19:14big smiles
00:19:17there's a happy and confident entrance
00:19:19yeah
00:19:19absolutely
00:19:20look at this man
00:19:22look at this man
00:19:23look at this man
00:19:25oh and the big passion
00:19:26oh my goodness
00:19:27that's a lot going on right there
00:19:28yeah
00:19:28missed you
00:19:31missed you
00:19:32is everything?
00:19:33yeah okay
00:19:34you?
00:19:35oh we're great
00:19:36I can see that
00:19:37it was instant as well
00:19:38we are discussing
00:19:39I do apologize right now
00:19:41because we are very
00:19:43very very
00:19:44strongly falling for each other
00:19:46wow
00:19:48I mean
00:19:48isn't that
00:19:49an incredibly strong statement
00:19:51at this early stage
00:19:52we are falling for each other
00:19:54how's it going?
00:19:55how are the wedding days?
00:19:56so it's about yours first
00:19:57yeah yeah yeah
00:19:58we want to hear about yours
00:19:58yeah he's perfect in every way
00:20:00I have no complaints
00:20:01every way?
00:20:02every single way
00:20:03everyone else is good
00:20:11why?
00:20:12what's happening?
00:20:13it's just not
00:20:14what I thought
00:20:16I only heard really good things
00:20:18oh he's lovely
00:20:19attraction is just nothing
00:20:21there's no
00:20:22nothing there
00:20:23have you guys looked up?
00:20:24yeah
00:20:24yeah
00:20:25he's not but looking at all
00:20:27just I don't know
00:20:29he's lovely
00:20:30is that like
00:20:31is it something
00:20:32you cannot pass?
00:20:35no it's just
00:20:35he's got no tattoos
00:20:37okay you can get tattoos
00:20:38he doesn't want tattoos
00:20:39what's so interesting
00:20:41about Sarah is
00:20:43she's someone who has said
00:20:44her past type
00:20:45didn't work for her
00:20:46right
00:20:46and her past type
00:20:48was mainly based
00:20:49on physical characteristics
00:20:50and she wanted
00:20:51someone different
00:20:53and she wanted
00:20:54someone nice
00:20:55this is exactly
00:20:56what we've delivered
00:20:57in Dean
00:20:58but yet she's very quickly
00:21:00shutting him down
00:21:01hello
00:21:07Jerem May
00:21:08hi
00:21:09they look happy
00:21:11yeah
00:21:12aww
00:21:13I've been waiting
00:21:14for this you know
00:21:15do you know what it is
00:21:17I'm actually so happy with him
00:21:18aww
00:21:19yeah
00:21:20he's funny
00:21:22isn't it?
00:21:23it's just everything he says
00:21:24like in his accent
00:21:25is just
00:21:25where's he from?
00:21:26where's he from?
00:21:26Yorkshire
00:21:27yeah
00:21:27Hallifax?
00:21:28Hallifax
00:21:29I keep remembering
00:21:30because that's who I bank with
00:21:31so
00:21:32so has anyone
00:21:37um
00:21:38christened
00:21:39er
00:21:40I don't know
00:21:41what?
00:21:42what?
00:21:43confirmation
00:21:45she got a little bit
00:21:46confident
00:21:47okay
00:21:48guilty
00:21:49yeah fine
00:21:51that's the confirmation
00:21:52yes
00:21:53yes
00:21:54have you?
00:21:56yeah
00:21:56wow
00:21:57it was not a
00:21:58I'm happy for you
00:21:59wow
00:21:59no
00:22:00today
00:22:01it must be hard
00:22:06hearing another couple
00:22:07talk about
00:22:08their sexual escapades
00:22:10when she isn't at that stage
00:22:11with Dean
00:22:12I think I'm a bit nervous for her tonight
00:22:15because she said she kind of compares
00:22:17like just naturally
00:22:18and she's hearing like
00:22:19everyone probably doing well
00:22:20and she'll be like
00:22:21oh we should be further along
00:22:22yeah
00:22:22there's a few rules coming like
00:22:23because I sing a lot
00:22:24and rap a lot
00:22:25and she was like
00:22:25it was annoying her
00:22:26but she's like
00:22:26you sing it all the time
00:22:27and she's just getting used to it now
00:22:29no she told me to kind of
00:22:29she was like
00:22:30can you stop it
00:22:30like why are you doing it
00:22:31oh really
00:22:32yeah yeah yeah
00:22:32alright okay
00:22:33so how do you think you're going to be
00:22:35like living together like that
00:22:36are you sharing a bed
00:22:37yeah sharing a bed and all that
00:22:38yeah like all fine
00:22:39because I'm just like
00:22:40just like look
00:22:41no rush
00:22:41no pressure
00:22:42nothing
00:22:42have you had like
00:22:43no intimacy at all
00:22:44nah not even kissed or anything
00:22:45really
00:22:46yeah yeah yeah
00:22:47she's kind of never really been
00:22:48with a bigger person
00:22:49you know type thing
00:22:49yeah okay
00:22:50and I'm like
00:22:50oh that's okay
00:22:51I'm like I'm not bad looking
00:22:53I'm just fat
00:22:53like that's it
00:22:54it's quite clear that right now
00:22:55he's feeling rejected
00:22:56well it's fine
00:22:58like it doesn't bother me
00:22:58yes it does
00:23:01hey
00:23:06how's it going
00:23:07Bryce and Ashley
00:23:09looking good
00:23:10looking happy
00:23:11relaxed
00:23:11tell us the story
00:23:13yeah
00:23:13how's it going
00:23:14I think
00:23:15sort of found out quite early
00:23:17like we're completely different
00:23:18in the way we like
00:23:19flirt and everything
00:23:19so
00:23:20oh god
00:23:20I'm like very
00:23:21hands-on touchy
00:23:22and that
00:23:22she hates being touched
00:23:23we all have a right
00:23:27to enjoy touch
00:23:28or not
00:23:29we probably need to learn
00:23:30a little bit more
00:23:31about what that means
00:23:32for her
00:23:32but then look
00:23:33we just had a conversation
00:23:34and like
00:23:35it's learning isn't it
00:23:36mate
00:23:36we communicate so well
00:23:38so like turn the relationship
00:23:40180 like
00:23:41we're really really good
00:23:42getting on really well
00:23:43yeah
00:23:43yeah
00:23:44she couldn't look at me
00:23:45to start with
00:23:45and now she's snorting
00:23:46laughing and all sorts
00:23:47I'm doing something right
00:23:48yeah
00:23:48more of this
00:23:51he's saying I'm trying to learn
00:23:53my partner
00:23:54I'm trying to listen
00:23:55I'm trying to understand her
00:23:57how are you
00:23:58yeah good
00:23:59thank you
00:23:59everything's going
00:24:00he's a very nice bloke
00:24:04we had some
00:24:05sort of spiralled at my wedding
00:24:07I just sort of panicked
00:24:08I think
00:24:09Ash very naturally
00:24:10put all this trust in
00:24:11the experts
00:24:12and was like
00:24:13you're my wife
00:24:13we're together
00:24:14let's go
00:24:15and I was like
00:24:16oh whoa
00:24:17you're a stranger
00:24:18kind of did what I always do
00:24:19which was just
00:24:19like instead of even
00:24:20thinking about one thing I liked
00:24:22I was like
00:24:23no I don't like this
00:24:23this this this
00:24:24okay
00:24:24but then
00:24:26we pulled her back
00:24:27he's so patient
00:24:28he's so tolerant
00:24:29he's like
00:24:30makes me laugh
00:24:31and that's about building
00:24:32a good solid foundation
00:24:34isn't it
00:24:34in the relationship
00:24:35having those early struggles
00:24:36overcoming them
00:24:37but it's all like
00:24:39settled down
00:24:39yeah yeah definitely
00:24:40the communication we've got
00:24:41is fantastic
00:24:42yeah
00:24:42I feel like
00:24:43quite proud of us
00:24:44like I think we do it better
00:24:45than people have been married
00:24:46for 10 years
00:24:47like amazing girl
00:24:48that's a bold statement
00:24:50very
00:24:51we're getting on so well
00:24:55but you know
00:24:55for me
00:24:56no attraction there
00:24:57okay
00:24:58and it's very much
00:24:59friend vibes
00:25:00fine
00:25:00yeah
00:25:02I would like to find a reason
00:25:04why I've been
00:25:05struggling
00:25:06can't find anyone
00:25:08hearing all of the other couples
00:25:11and all of Robin
00:25:12having sex on honeymoon
00:25:12and I'm just like
00:25:13I let them hold my hand today
00:25:16he's now said to me
00:25:18look um
00:25:19I'm gonna leave you
00:25:20to make the move
00:25:20and I'm like
00:25:21I'm frustrated
00:25:22I'm annoyed
00:25:23Dean is so far away
00:25:25from my usual type
00:25:26I wish I was like
00:25:27being intimate on the honeymoon
00:25:28and we weren't
00:25:29I'm gutted
00:25:30I'm gutted I'm not there
00:25:32I like joke all the time
00:25:35do you know what though
00:25:36maybe
00:25:37he's desperately trying to like
00:25:39make you feel better
00:25:40think of the key word
00:25:41that you just said there
00:25:42desperately trying to yeah
00:25:44desperately
00:25:45it's giving me the ick
00:25:47it's starting to feel
00:25:49like Sarah is mocking Dean
00:25:51this is getting really frustrating
00:25:53to watch isn't it
00:25:54I mean once you got the ick
00:25:55you got the ick
00:25:56can't you
00:25:56it's the way that Sarah's going
00:25:59about it
00:26:00that feels so disrespectful
00:26:02telling everyone
00:26:05about all the issues
00:26:06that Dean has
00:26:07does he not know
00:26:08he doesn't know
00:26:09that's a sign
00:26:12of immaturity
00:26:13someone who
00:26:15has
00:26:15no clue
00:26:17as to what it is
00:26:18that they need
00:26:19in life
00:26:19if he went in for a kiss
00:26:21I'd be like whoa
00:26:21I need that attraction
00:26:23I just wanted that spark
00:26:25that fire
00:26:26there's no spark there
00:26:28yeah it's just cute
00:26:47this is horrible
00:26:48oh
00:26:49oh
00:26:50oh
00:26:51oh no
00:26:53oh she's on her
00:26:56I hear you all right
00:26:57oh
00:26:59Anita's alone
00:27:00I've been thinking about you
00:27:03oh
00:27:03she seems happy to see her support group
00:27:06yeah
00:27:07where's your husband
00:27:10somewhere
00:27:11I'm not too sure where though
00:27:13yeah
00:27:13you guys okay
00:27:14you good
00:27:15we do get on
00:27:16it's kind of
00:27:17there
00:27:18it's a sense of humour
00:27:19and he's a gentleman
00:27:20oh really
00:27:20yeah but
00:27:21the deepest stuff
00:27:23but
00:27:23total opposite
00:27:24yeah
00:27:25just needed some time apart
00:27:27so I've moved into a different apartment
00:27:29fine
00:27:29absolutely fine
00:27:30yeah
00:27:30space is the best thing
00:27:32yeah
00:27:32it was just kind of a make or break for me
00:27:35whether I was going to stay in the apartment
00:27:36and I just said
00:27:38Paul what's my two children called
00:27:39you went
00:27:40oh
00:27:41nice
00:27:42but maybe
00:27:44yeah
00:27:45it's the basics isn't it
00:27:47I've just got up
00:27:48got the case and went
00:27:48my sense is
00:27:50she's putting such an emphasis on that
00:27:52because that's a real value for her
00:27:53actually
00:27:54she shouldn't really be testing him at this stage
00:27:57because they are getting to know one another
00:27:59so that feels quite a shame
00:28:00he's never been in a relationship for 15 years either
00:28:04so you're feeling a bit like
00:28:05why would you not date for 15 years
00:28:07and then get married to a complete stranger
00:28:09you're a bit like
00:28:10what's that all about
00:28:10he hasn't dipped his twin
00:28:11along the way
00:28:13it's been more of a self-discovery
00:28:15experiment for him
00:28:16rather than a
00:28:17a love journey
00:28:18what it's been for me
00:28:19kind of
00:28:19maybe he does need some time to adjust
00:28:23but it doesn't sound like
00:28:25Anita has that patience right now
00:28:27hi hi hi hi
00:28:29hello
00:28:30we're coming to sit and say hello
00:28:32how are you doing you okay
00:28:33yeah good sir
00:28:34are you all right
00:28:35are you okay
00:28:36yeah good how are you
00:28:36yeah good
00:28:37good good good
00:28:38what about
00:28:41you and D
00:28:42he's an absolute hoot
00:28:47honestly he's a sweetheart
00:28:48oh he's he's lovely
00:28:49but
00:28:50attraction's not there for me
00:28:52do you think I'll never come or
00:28:54you know
00:28:55I'm gonna be honest
00:28:56looks wise
00:28:58tall tan tats
00:28:59was my thing
00:29:00I was like
00:29:02would you get a sleeve or something
00:29:04or are we necktap
00:29:05but no
00:29:05she's creating this really rigid fixed mindset
00:29:10yeah
00:29:10and we're so early in the piece
00:29:12she's literally going around
00:29:14to everyone in the group
00:29:16and and and talking about this
00:29:18I didn't really realize
00:29:19how big the attraction thing
00:29:20was for me
00:29:22if you know what I mean
00:29:22so it is what it is
00:29:24oh he's happy
00:29:32we're back in belly
00:29:34and it looks like they have
00:29:35maybe
00:29:36blown up in a good way
00:29:37yeah
00:29:38how are things
00:29:45how was the wedding
00:29:46right so
00:29:47both got to the wedding
00:29:49it's overwhelming isn't it
00:29:50it's a lot of emotions
00:29:51there wasn't like that instant spot
00:29:53and then since our honeymoon
00:29:55like
00:29:56literally
00:29:57adoring
00:29:58he's such a gorgeous person
00:30:02like little best mate
00:30:03I fancy him
00:30:05so yeah
00:30:05we've just been
00:30:06I can feel the fucking electricity
00:30:12in the room
00:30:12with everyone
00:30:13I am surrounded by
00:30:15and I am like
00:30:15what is going on
00:30:17why is it not me
00:30:18why is it not me
00:30:19it is so hard
00:30:21I want to have that
00:30:22bye they're all kissing
00:30:23and like
00:30:23you can just feel it
00:30:25and we don't have that
00:30:27and here's our gorgeous ladies
00:30:36Lee and Leah
00:30:38style
00:30:39so
00:30:42were you in dresses
00:30:43or suits
00:30:43both dresses
00:30:44it's been an adjustment
00:30:46for me to try and get used
00:30:47to like the feminine element
00:30:48yeah
00:30:49and I wouldn't say
00:30:50we're at a romantic point
00:30:51we've said that we're gonna like
00:30:53build the friendship first
00:30:54how's yours
00:30:55good
00:30:56the sexual connection
00:30:57isn't there yet
00:30:58it's still not there
00:30:59no
00:30:59you feel like you're a bit more
00:31:01at friendship level
00:31:02at the minute yeah
00:31:02but the deeper connection
00:31:04yeah
00:31:04it's there
00:31:05and it has been growing
00:31:06isn't it nice to hear this time
00:31:08someone talking about
00:31:09having a type
00:31:10but being open to someone different
00:31:12where are you at
00:31:13oh like I'm obsessed with him
00:31:14fuck off
00:31:15are you
00:31:16yeah
00:31:17we get along really well
00:31:19we've both been like
00:31:20really honest about everything
00:31:22yeah
00:31:22like everything from the very start
00:31:24good
00:31:25so like and I've never had that
00:31:26with anyone
00:31:26have you
00:31:27what shagged him
00:31:29yeah
00:31:29yeah
00:31:29oh you have
00:31:30is it good
00:31:31yeah
00:31:32yay
00:31:32my love
00:31:33I think she's trying to tell us
00:31:35that they've had
00:31:37more than one
00:31:38or maybe two intimate moments together
00:31:40which is just really lovely
00:31:41so it's not
00:31:43is that you two
00:31:44yeah
00:31:44can you say much or not
00:31:46yeah
00:31:47they're getting on like a fucking
00:31:48are you
00:31:49I hate the fact that
00:31:52how's it been like
00:31:53a week and a half
00:31:54I feel like you've known him forever
00:31:55yeah
00:31:56yeah and I really
00:31:57it's freaking me out man
00:31:58it's freaking me out
00:31:59it was freaking me out
00:32:02Dawn
00:32:03you can't
00:32:04I'm so worried about
00:32:06becoming emotionally
00:32:07dependent on someone
00:32:08that they will
00:32:09then learn who I am
00:32:10think I'm too much
00:32:11and then
00:32:12break my heart
00:32:13and be
00:32:13I'm one out
00:32:14Nelly is leaning into
00:32:15her past
00:32:16of having all of these
00:32:18traumatic experiences
00:32:18so then she begins
00:32:20looking for red flags
00:32:21so right now
00:32:22her friends are saying
00:32:23no no no
00:32:23if things are good
00:32:24look for the green
00:32:25divani and julia roof
00:32:34so we've got julia roof
00:32:44that's coming really high energy
00:32:45lots of fun
00:32:46and divani who looks
00:32:47it's a little bit subdued
00:32:48ooh
00:32:51fill us in
00:32:53like what's the energies
00:32:54and everything like
00:32:54it seems good
00:32:55mad bro
00:32:56because that was the big thing
00:32:56I remember you said
00:32:57we're literally like
00:32:58yin and yang
00:32:59like we're literally
00:33:00the exact same person
00:33:01bro
00:33:01yeah
00:33:01yeah yeah yeah
00:33:02so no I'm very happy man
00:33:03100
00:33:04wow
00:33:06strong statement
00:33:07we're literally yin and yang
00:33:09they are the same
00:33:11person
00:33:12he's a lot shorter than me
00:33:16oh
00:33:16without you
00:33:18like we get on very well
00:33:21but like sometimes he's like
00:33:22trauma dumping has passed
00:33:24and everything
00:33:24and I'm just like
00:33:25there's no chance for me
00:33:26to get a word in
00:33:27it kind of feels like
00:33:28we're two very different
00:33:29energies there
00:33:30it's like we're peering
00:33:31into two very different
00:33:32relationships here
00:33:33what do you know
00:33:36stop up
00:33:36oh he's really happy
00:33:37they're much energy
00:33:38and it's really cute
00:33:39okay
00:33:39they're like um
00:33:40they're like the same person
00:33:42male or female
00:33:43okay
00:33:43it's all super cute
00:33:44I don't know
00:33:45like super super happy
00:33:46okay
00:33:47is she happy
00:33:47I don't know
00:33:48you didn't look like
00:33:49not like
00:33:50when you see something
00:33:53I find people
00:33:55come back to me
00:33:55yeah now we've got
00:33:58too much similarities
00:34:00too much similarities
00:34:01in a good way or a bad way
00:34:02very good way
00:34:03very good way
00:34:04everything's great
00:34:05I'm not gonna lie
00:34:06I mean there's clearly
00:34:07two different narratives
00:34:08going on here
00:34:09I don't know about
00:34:10you guys
00:34:11but I'm feeling
00:34:11a little bit confused
00:34:12right now
00:34:13two very separate
00:34:15individuals
00:34:16oh hell yeah
00:34:22c'est moi
00:34:26where's my wife
00:34:27where's my wife
00:34:29where's my wife
00:34:29oh here's Paul
00:34:30do you want to stand up
00:34:33I'll do whatever you want to do
00:34:34yeah
00:34:34I'll just stay with you
00:34:36it's nice to see Grace
00:34:37having Anita's back
00:34:39yeah
00:34:39where is she
00:34:40here go on
00:34:40excuse me
00:34:41oh gosh
00:34:42you alright
00:34:44yeah
00:34:44thank you
00:34:45had a good day
00:34:46it's been a long day
00:34:48yeah
00:34:48I tell you what
00:34:49you look nice
00:34:50my main plan of action
00:34:52is to speak to my wife
00:34:53Anita
00:34:53I really want to make sure
00:34:55she's in a good head space
00:34:56and she's ready to move forward
00:34:58Paul
00:35:02is it that you panicked
00:35:03in the moment
00:35:04where you forgot the name
00:35:05of Anita's children
00:35:06or was it that you didn't know
00:35:08or take interest
00:35:08it's taken me eight days
00:35:11to remember the groom's names
00:35:12so you think it's a memory issue
00:35:14I have four tattoos
00:35:15my children dates to birth
00:35:17and their names
00:35:19right
00:35:21now you get the experts
00:35:24so they can help you
00:35:25with all this stuff
00:35:25perhaps
00:35:26I said to you
00:35:27when you passed
00:35:28what has been your
00:35:29past relationship breakdowns
00:35:32you avoided the question again
00:35:35sometimes you have to be
00:35:36show a little bit of weakness
00:35:38pardon
00:35:38vulnerability
00:35:39as soon as it comes down
00:35:42to relationships
00:35:43and personal stuff
00:35:44for some reason
00:35:46you just divert
00:35:47listen
00:35:48you know what I expect
00:35:49the day doing
00:35:50steaming my clothes
00:35:53there's the other
00:35:55meaningful deep stuff
00:35:57that also matters
00:35:58in a relationship
00:35:59other than making you laugh
00:36:00do you know
00:36:04Anita's Paul
00:36:07Anita said that they'd spent
00:36:08the day apart today
00:36:10god I felt like
00:36:11I was the only one
00:36:12going through the fucking ringer
00:36:13I was like
00:36:15because you know what
00:36:16it's been a lot
00:36:17he said it's different
00:36:18yeah
00:36:19it's been hard
00:36:21like
00:36:22yeah
00:36:22because he just said
00:36:23it's been easy sailing
00:36:24as soon as everyone walked in
00:36:27when it was like
00:36:27yeah
00:36:28he said oh
00:36:28like
00:36:29you can see
00:36:31yang kind of thing
00:36:32we've had issues like this
00:36:36where it's just like
00:36:37one of us is not
00:36:37receiving the information
00:36:39have you had more of a deep chat
00:36:40to say like
00:36:41look we swear
00:36:41who knows
00:36:43so this is interesting
00:36:44Julia Ruth is getting feedback
00:36:46from the group
00:36:47that Devanis thinks
00:36:48they're really well matched
00:36:49is it that Julia Ruth
00:36:51is presenting in a way
00:36:52that makes him feel
00:36:53like everything is fine
00:36:54or is he someone
00:36:56that sort of
00:36:56has his head in the cloud
00:36:58I don't love that
00:37:00no you
00:37:01wait what I was going on
00:37:03I mean
00:37:04we're going step by step
00:37:05the spark is definitely there
00:37:07yeah
00:37:07did he just say
00:37:08the spark is definitely there
00:37:09he said it's definitely there
00:37:11I'm so happy you're happy
00:37:14Julia Ruth
00:37:15this is really hard
00:37:16because it's not what you wanted
00:37:20isn't it
00:37:20voice your issues
00:37:23don't bite at him
00:37:24don't bite at him
00:37:25please don't do that
00:37:26I feel awful
00:37:28you just don't feel it
00:37:30yeah
00:37:30I want to
00:37:32and I'm trying
00:37:34I know
00:37:34but you can
00:37:35I'm trying so hard
00:37:36we spoke about
00:37:38having each other's back
00:37:39and being honest and open
00:37:41makes me look fucking stupid
00:37:42telling people that
00:37:43that we can have hard times
00:37:44you're saying it's fucking great
00:37:45hello guys
00:37:51I'm coming over
00:37:52is that okay
00:37:53yeah
00:37:54do you want to step up
00:37:58yeah
00:37:59where's your wife gone
00:38:10she is somewhere
00:38:12I don't know
00:38:13Giovanni not even knowing
00:38:16if Julia Ruth is in the room
00:38:18it's like these two
00:38:20are not even on the same planet
00:38:21I just feel awful
00:38:24because I just feel like
00:38:25I'm going to be like
00:38:26a bitch
00:38:27because I feel this way
00:38:28like and I'm trying the best I can
00:38:30smiling through everything
00:38:32but you don't have to though
00:38:34I'm going to cry if I don't
00:38:36fucking cry
00:38:37so are you happy
00:38:40very happy
00:38:41both of you
00:38:43vibing with each other
00:38:44yeah 100% vibing
00:38:45I think it's really hard to work out
00:38:47why Giovanni has such
00:38:48a different view
00:38:49of the relationship
00:38:50don't ever feel like
00:38:52you're being a horrible person
00:38:54by voicing what you
00:38:55want
00:38:55oh I do
00:38:58I feel like a fucking monster
00:39:01wow
00:39:17oh my god
00:39:19it's gorgeous
00:39:19woo
00:39:20Maeve
00:39:21Sarah
00:39:22Dean
00:39:23boom
00:39:24head of the table
00:39:26madam
00:39:27darling
00:39:27hello hello hello
00:39:29hiya mate
00:39:30fancy seeing you here
00:39:31it's a bit posh for you
00:39:33innit
00:39:33very posh for me
00:39:34oh and dad
00:39:35yeah we're the mum and dad
00:39:37in the crew
00:39:37interesting
00:39:41yeah
00:39:43it disappeared for a minute
00:39:44yeah
00:39:45oh you could cut the tension
00:39:50with a knife
00:39:51hey guys
00:39:56I know a few of you
00:39:57have probably heard
00:39:58that I rap
00:39:59sometimes
00:40:01alright
00:40:03here we are
00:40:06on this mad experiment
00:40:07seeing things not in our element
00:40:09learning what we may grow to be
00:40:10you
00:40:11I feel like
00:40:13I have experienced
00:40:14a lot of the raps now
00:40:15hands up in the air
00:40:16I mean he's rapping
00:40:17in the shower
00:40:18he's rapping
00:40:18I can hear him and stuff
00:40:20and I'm like
00:40:20the novelty for me
00:40:22has worn off
00:40:24yeah
00:40:24yeah
00:40:26okay
00:40:29AD
00:40:30Sess
00:40:32Sess
00:40:33Sess
00:40:33Sess
00:40:33Sess
00:40:34Sous-titrage Société Radio-Canada
00:41:04...about what it is that you would like to sort of change.
00:41:07I think we knew quite early that we're on different paces.
00:41:13I'm quite a talker.
00:41:15And then she said to me one day, you know nothing about me.
00:41:18Why don't you ask me questions?
00:41:19And I said, because it's not my style.
00:41:21I volunteer the information.
00:41:23Right.
00:41:23I did this, I went here, I did that, and I did that.
00:41:25She likes to have a conversation and be asked.
00:41:31And do you find it hard to be like, sorry?
00:41:33Can I talk now?
00:41:35No, she's quite polite.
00:41:36I'll just let them.
00:41:37Ah, fuck that.
00:41:38Why don't you maybe have a signal where, like...
00:41:41Cut!
00:41:42Yeah.
00:41:43Shut the fuck up!
00:41:47Observing Anita tonight,
00:41:48she looks like she's completely lost her sparkle.
00:41:51Yes.
00:41:52Doesn't she?
00:41:53All of that zest for life and that energy
00:41:56that we know she possesses has just been zapped away.
00:41:59I honestly look at everyone and I'm like,
00:42:02I said to Stephen earlier.
00:42:04I was like, um...
00:42:05All the girls gorgeous, like,
00:42:06is there anyone that you want to be with?
00:42:08And he was like...
00:42:08Is that what you...
00:42:11Oh, my God, Nelly, man!
00:42:14Oh, God, not on the first date.
00:42:16Like, why she's asking Stephen, like,
00:42:20are you attracted to any of the other wives?
00:42:22Like, it's just an insecurity, like...
00:42:24I'm giving myself the ache.
00:42:25I say it, I'm like, stop, and it just comes out.
00:42:27Do you know what?
00:42:28I think you're surprised at how much you like
00:42:29and sabotaging it,
00:42:30because I don't think you'd be expected
00:42:32to get someone that you would like.
00:42:35Oh, my God, you're so right.
00:42:36It's fine, I can say it to the girls.
00:42:37Yeah, yeah, yeah.
00:42:37I mean, 100%.
00:42:38Not only is she showing her insecurity,
00:42:42but she's acknowledging that she is being insecure.
00:42:45She realises that this is a weakness that she has,
00:42:48and she is trying to work on it.
00:42:50Yeah.
00:42:53It's crazy, because you think,
00:42:55I bet everybody else is getting on,
00:42:57and I bet there's loads of attraction there.
00:42:59And it's just, like, tonight is kind of like, wow,
00:43:02it's so diverse.
00:43:05Come here.
00:43:06Okay?
00:43:06My light is being dim.
00:43:09You can talk to me.
00:43:11Me and Julia and Ruth are having the same issue.
00:43:13We don't have a spark with our partner.
00:43:16And I'm not going to lie,
00:43:18I'm actually quite, like,
00:43:20glad that someone else is experiencing
00:43:22the same thing as me.
00:43:26Okay, so I'm struggling because
00:43:28I think it's been glossing over how hard it's been.
00:43:33Do you keep telling everyone that it's fine?
00:43:35Yeah.
00:43:35These two
00:43:37are in two different relationships.
00:43:40What we need to really figure out
00:43:42is how they got to that point.
00:43:45I just have a little question,
00:43:47because I just think I was just a bit thrown off
00:43:49when you were like,
00:43:49that's not what I'd heard
00:43:51when I explained what the honeymoons was.
00:43:53like, your face was shocked,
00:43:54but you were like,
00:43:55yeah.
00:43:56Yeah.
00:43:57I went and spoke to your husband,
00:44:00and the conversation was entirely different.
00:44:05Entirely different.
00:44:06Like, he said that how amazing it was,
00:44:09like, you were vibing,
00:44:10rah, rah, rah, everything he wants.
00:44:12We said that we're going to be open and honest
00:44:16and say, look, shit hit the fan,
00:44:17but I'm just hearing that it was great.
00:44:19Yeah, that's what we're hearing too.
00:44:21You're on different pages,
00:44:23yet your reality is different,
00:44:25so different.
00:44:25Hearing how he perceives our relationship,
00:44:29like, apparently everything's been smooth sailing,
00:44:32and he's brushing over everything
00:44:34like we're a fucking power couple.
00:44:37On what planet?
00:44:39You want to come closer?
00:44:46When people are asking how things are going,
00:44:49are you just saying, God,
00:44:50the honeymoon was not easy?
00:44:52100%.
00:44:53I'm not saying it's all Gucci, nah.
00:44:54What I think is really confusing
00:44:56is that Devani has painted a picture
00:44:58that this relationship is great,
00:45:00but he's not actually acknowledging that
00:45:02now he's been called out by Julia Ruth.
00:45:04I think he's embarrassed.
00:45:06Because I sat down, spoke with Steve, Joe, and Rebecca,
00:45:09and they said they have a completely different
00:45:12response from you.
00:45:14Then that's my shoes.
00:45:16Beaming.
00:45:17Just be honest.
00:45:19Don't.
00:45:20I'm just hearing different stories,
00:45:24and I don't want to look like a dickhead
00:45:26for being like, oh, it's hard,
00:45:27and you're like, it's great,
00:45:28and then I look like a dumbass.
00:45:29No, no, no, absolutely.
00:45:30Because I'm being mean,
00:45:31saying that, like, it's hard.
00:45:33And you're like, oh, it's roses.
00:45:35I just feel like, fuck me, dear.
00:45:37They've heard a different story.
00:45:39It makes no sense.
00:45:41Maybe how I articulated our issues
00:45:45could have been a little bit sugar-coated,
00:45:47which would stem from a little bit of pride.
00:45:49Like, we're a team.
00:45:50I'm here to unite us.
00:45:53But at this moment, I feel locked out.
00:45:55How's it all been then?
00:45:56Yeah, it's been good.
00:45:58Has it?
00:45:58We get on really well.
00:45:59Like, we, like, laugh all the time.
00:46:00I can see that you're both, like, proper nice,
00:46:02like, happy Gabby.
00:46:04Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.
00:46:05She's got such a good heart.
00:46:07He has me, I'd ever slept with anyone.
00:46:09That's okay.
00:46:09And I said, no.
00:46:11But people work on themselves.
00:46:14Do you know what I mean?
00:46:14Yeah.
00:46:15Do you know what I'm getting?
00:46:16Yeah, he did before, if you know what I mean.
00:46:18He lost some weight.
00:46:21She said I'm kind of not her normal type,
00:46:22and she's never been with a bigger party before,
00:46:25so I was kind of a bit new to her.
00:46:27And I was like, I appreciate you being honest with me,
00:46:28and telling me, like...
00:46:29What do you mean, bigger, though?
00:46:30It's new for her, innit?
00:46:31I'm saying you're big.
00:46:32Uh, yeah, I am, though.
00:46:33Like, the scale would, and the BMI.
00:46:34You know, like, I'm okay with it.
00:46:36It's not, like, a thing for me.
00:46:37He keeps calling himself the funny fat kid.
00:46:41Oh, it's so funny.
00:46:42I'm so confused myself.
00:46:43Remember when we were in a handoo,
00:46:45and you said, I always go for the bad boy, the red flags?
00:46:48You ain't a bad boy.
00:46:49No red flags.
00:46:50He's like a care bear.
00:46:53Oh.
00:46:53Yeah, it's not a very hot thing to say about your partner.
00:46:56No.
00:46:56A lot of what she's showing when she talks about Dean is disgust.
00:47:05Sarah's already entered the zone of being disrespectful.
00:47:07That just wasn't kind.
00:47:09How ridiculous, how petty, how low.
00:47:11And that's something that needs to end.
00:47:19Guys!
00:47:19Good evening, newlyweds.
00:47:28In this box are questions designed to help you navigate the problematic aspects of your marriage,
00:47:33as well as celebrate the more positive.
00:47:35Please remember they will hold little value if you do not respond with courage and absolute honesty.
00:47:41I love Charlene, Paul, and Mel.
00:47:43Grace, how far do you think we've come in terms of progress since our wedding day?
00:47:55I think we've made great progress.
00:47:57We started rock bottom.
00:47:59Couldn't have got worse, really.
00:48:02I didn't think you were coming away on the honeymoon.
00:48:03I was like, should I be going?
00:48:06I know, I know, he's so nice.
00:48:08Why is she so mean?
00:48:11I'll hold my hands up.
00:48:12I spiraled, I misjudged, he misspoke, and we talked it out, and we're good.
00:48:18We're great.
00:48:19Well done.
00:48:26Ashley, what are my best and worst qualities?
00:48:32Best quality is 100% your personality.
00:48:36Like, you light up wherever you are instantly.
00:48:39You're a really lovely girl.
00:48:41Marry me!
00:48:44Marry me!
00:48:45Joachim.
00:48:46Joachim?
00:48:48Oh.
00:48:49Oh.
00:48:51Ouch.
00:48:52Yeah, that joke didn't land.
00:48:54Your worst quality.
00:48:57It's like, how many can I give?
00:48:59Maybe just jump into conclusions straight away about something that you think is happening.
00:49:03Maybe it's not exactly as you thought it was.
00:49:07Fair.
00:49:07Fair.
00:49:08I'll take it.
00:49:15Sarah.
00:49:15Oh, gosh.
00:49:18What has been the hardest part of the experience for you so far?
00:49:21Probably the intensity, I would say.
00:49:29Marrying a stranger, going halfway across the world with someone I don't really know, moving
00:49:34in together.
00:49:35I have struggled, and you know I have, you know.
00:49:36So, yeah, I would definitely say the intensity has been the hardest part for me so far.
00:49:42Yeah.
00:49:43Yeah, that's good.
00:49:45It's actually quite humiliating for Dean, because actually Sarah has already gone round and told
00:49:50everyone that she's not attracted to him.
00:49:52What we need is honesty.
00:49:54That's quite cool.
00:49:58Dean, what do you hope for in our future together?
00:50:03I hope that we can kind of just continue, like, getting to know each other and grow and
00:50:07not have any pressure on anything and just concentrate on us, you know, just make sure
00:50:10we're okay.
00:50:11I'm hoping it'll kind of get to that place where that spark is there, and it's kind of
00:50:16magical.
00:50:22It's making me cringe a little bit.
00:50:25I don't want magical.
00:50:27I want fiery.
00:50:29I came here to find the one.
00:50:31I've given this opportunity and this experience everything.
00:50:34Like, everything.
00:50:38There's something not right here.
00:50:52Nellie, can you see yourself falling for me?
00:51:02Go on now.
00:51:04Um, it's very hard for me to say.
00:51:11Have you got this?
00:51:12I have pressure, girl.
00:51:15Yeah.
00:51:16Yeah.
00:51:17Yes, let's just move on.
00:51:19Yes.
00:51:19It's okay.
00:51:20Yes, you're great.
00:51:20Go.
00:51:22It's tough, aren't I?
00:51:26Why is it so hard for you to talk about falling for somebody?
00:51:33Do you know what it is?
00:51:34I think, um...
00:51:36I think I'm so afraid of, um, being so emotionally, like, open and vulnerable to someone.
00:51:47Like, thinking, like, they know who I am and think, you know what, I'm not into her.
00:51:54I'm not into that.
00:51:54And then they, yeah, and then they're like, then they break my heart.
00:52:04Just...
00:52:05I can't, I can't with it anymore.
00:52:07It's too much.
00:52:09Okay.
00:52:10But you know you're not too much.
00:52:11Yeah, you go.
00:52:12Yeah, you go.
00:52:12I never took it.
00:52:12Yeah, it was funny.
00:52:14Yeah.
00:52:14Yeah.
00:52:15Yeah.
00:52:15Thank you.
00:52:16Sorry.
00:52:18Crying all over me.
00:52:19I know.
00:52:20Yeah, tears all over me now.
00:52:21No, I hate this.
00:52:23For Nelly, showing this level of vulnerability is really difficult.
00:52:27And here, she's starting to do it.
00:52:29I'm really proud of Nelly tonight.
00:52:31For me, first night together, like, seeing my family up really take care of something,
00:52:37they're the first people you look at for validations.
00:52:40And as soon as I sat down that night at the dinner table, it was, yeah, Steve, this is
00:52:44what you've been looking for.
00:52:45So that's probably, for me, the biggest validation I need.
00:52:50You can see that just means the world to Nelly.
00:52:53She is craving reassurance and validation from him, and he's just given it to her,
00:52:58which is everything she wants to hear.
00:53:00Yeah, it's huge.
00:53:04Anita.
00:53:04Yep.
00:53:06What three things can I do to make this marriage work?
00:53:13I would like you to listen more.
00:53:19I would like you to find out a little bit more about me.
00:53:24And actually start asking questions about me.
00:53:30Right, I've got it.
00:53:35I've got to remember now.
00:53:39Can you not remember them?
00:53:42Well, apparently that's the way he works at home as well.
00:53:43He's got post-it notes all over.
00:53:45So just because he's wrote them down, though, doesn't say that he's going to do it.
00:53:54Right, Paul.
00:53:56I'm ready.
00:53:57How much are you willing to fight for this marriage?
00:54:03Whoa.
00:54:06I'm not sure if fight's the right word.
00:54:11Don't really want to fight with you at all.
00:54:13I'd rather work with you.
00:54:19So hopefully we can build some bridges and get over the other side.
00:54:27It kind of deviates again.
00:54:29Is this marriage worth fighting for?
00:54:30Well, I wouldn't say it was fighting.
00:54:33We're certainly not on the same page.
00:54:34I'm in a different book.
00:54:43Daveed, how did you feel when you turned and saw me walking up the aisle?
00:54:51Turning back and seeing you,
00:54:53first of all, I was like, whoa.
00:54:54It wasn't just that.
00:54:57As soon as I hold your hands,
00:54:59the entire thing just disappeared.
00:55:01It was just me and him.
00:55:03And since then, we haven't let go.
00:55:08The way that you have the ability to make everyone feel so seen
00:55:12and so safe and so comfortable,
00:55:16it's incredible.
00:55:18It's like a shooting star.
00:55:20You don't try and explain it.
00:55:21You just appreciate its beauty.
00:55:24Leah.
00:55:37Oh, fuck me.
00:55:40Do you think you like me more than I like you?
00:55:45No.
00:55:45No?
00:55:48I think I'm moving faster than you are now.
00:55:52100%.
00:55:52We both know where we're at at the moment.
00:56:01Romance isn't where we both thought it would be at this point.
00:56:04So I think the biggest challenge, realistically,
00:56:06is going to be whether that romance does come.
00:56:09Yeah.
00:56:13Maeve, how do you feel about me right now?
00:56:16Like, as I've got to know you, do you know, I actually really like it.
00:56:24Like, really like it.
00:56:25And I don't tell people that.
00:56:26You can tell that.
00:56:29I'm really excited to see, like, where's it going to go?
00:56:32Do you know what I mean?
00:56:33And that's all I'm saying.
00:56:34Oh, good to see you.
00:56:35Oh, good to see you.
00:56:35Oh, good work.
00:56:41Um, as every day has gone on, like, I've learnt more and more about you.
00:56:46And honestly, like, I've got that, like, fuzzy feeling in me where I'm...
00:56:51When I look at you...
00:56:52Sorry.
00:56:52I'm just gathering feelings for you, like, as long as I can't wait to spend the rest of the time on you.
00:57:02Yay!
00:57:10It's so lovely to see Maeve gradually dropping those walls.
00:57:14She's really trusting Jo.
00:57:16And being very vulnerable, which we know is something that she has really struggled with.
00:57:20I just want to go home with my goalie.
00:57:22No, he does.
00:57:25No, no, he does.
00:57:30Um, okay.
00:57:32Devani, how do you think I feel about our marriage?
00:57:43So what you think about our marriage is that we've definitely hit tough, tough, tough times.
00:57:51Because the honeymoon wasn't glitz and glam, for sure.
00:57:57He didn't say that.
00:58:02It wasn't what I expected, to be fair.
00:58:04Um, but I'm glad that we are where we are right now.
00:58:09Um, but how you truly feel, it's a bit...
00:58:14It's a bit of a turbulent feeling.
00:58:17Okay.
00:58:18With the honesty box, I feel like he was trying to be a little bit more honest, because he fucked the heat on him.
00:58:27So he was a bit more open, but he hasn't been that way before.
00:58:30And I'm sitting there like you seem to be in a la-la land.
00:58:38Julia Roof, what one thing would you change about me?
00:58:42Like, I think it's your, your outlook on life, and how you respond to things.
00:58:56I think...
00:58:58It's okay, you've got this girl, you've got this, you've got this, you've got this, you've got this.
00:59:03I think life can be tough, and I think we've both gone through a lot of shit, but there's no point in dwelling on it, and I just feel like I want someone who matches my energy.
00:59:21I'm struggling with my own emotions, and I, and I want to be there for you, but I struggle to do it for both of us.
00:59:29You are very negative.
00:59:33Yeah, and I feel very tired.
00:59:38Sorry.
00:59:43That energy's very, very different.
00:59:46Yeah, it's just different, aren't they?
00:59:47Different people.
00:59:55Ready?
00:59:56Ready.
00:59:58Who do you think is the strongest and the weakest couple at the table?
01:00:03I feel like Nelly and Stephen got, like, a connection going on.
01:00:14Like, there's something going on with you two that feels strong.
01:00:17Okay, weakest.
01:00:24I don't want to say.
01:00:28Sorry.
01:00:28Just say it.
01:00:37We're all here for a reason.
01:00:42Just say it.
01:00:43Just say it.
01:00:44Hold it underneath her.
01:00:47And also, Julia Ruth, let's be honest, there's struggles in particular, your relationship and your relationship.
01:00:59Exactly what I thought, what I'm of the motherfucking barrel.
01:01:08I need a man who's honest.
01:01:11I read to that bullshit.
01:01:13It's just a lot.
01:01:15I just want to say it's genuine.
01:01:27Next time is the very first commitment ceremony.
01:01:30It's time for the couples to face the experts.
01:01:32I can't communicate with you, and you don't listen.
01:01:35You don't back down.
01:01:36It's been difficult.
01:01:37It's been proper difficult.
01:01:39This isn't going to work.
01:01:40Tension builds as two couples clash.
01:01:43No emotional connection.
01:01:45No communication.
01:01:46I thought we could build from the wedding day.
01:01:49Just miles apart.
01:01:52And Sarah's badmouthing.
01:01:54Do you think that you were rude while talking about your partner?
01:01:58Catches up with her.
01:01:59This man is talking about how lovely his partner is,
01:02:03and you are on the other side of the room disrespecting him.
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