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In Married at First Sight UK, singles are matched by experts and marry complete strangers. This episode continues to explore the complex dynamics and emotional journeys of the couples as they navigate their unconventional relationships, facing new challenges and making crucial decisions about their future together.
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00:00Sous-titrage Société Radio-Canada
00:30...and there was zero tolerance for Sarah.
00:34You went around gossiping about your husband.
00:37You were laughing at it.
00:39As her scathing behaviour towards Dean was exposed.
00:42This man is talking about how lovely his partner is,
00:46and you are on the other side of the room disrespecting him.
00:51It's not me. It's not who I am.
00:55Tonight.
00:56Hello.
00:58It's Experts Week.
00:59Do I have permission to remove your robe?
01:01While some couples lean into physical intimacy...
01:04Ooh, I hope you know where the key is for that.
01:06...Anita's patience with Paul wears even thinner.
01:09Surely you should know what you want by now.
01:11Are you expecting me to be fully committed after two weeks?
01:14I need to know where this relationship's going.
01:17No, I'm not hanging around.
01:19And an unwanted interference in one couple's marriage.
01:22Other people don't need to know my shit,
01:24because you'll see a side of me which probably you won't like.
01:28I'm not having it sold it.
01:29I've been trying to come to a new relationship.
01:30I'm not. Couldn't give a flying f***ing completely.
01:32I'm here for my relationship.
01:33...causes two husbands to collide.
01:35It's one of the people just, uh...
01:37basically just f*** off.
01:39It's super...
01:39You're not part of this relationship, so see yourself out.
01:51I'm absolutely starving.
01:55There's a hair in me pineapple.
01:58It's yours.
02:01Oh, my God.
02:05It's the morning after the group's first commitment ceremony.
02:08Which David could not attend as he felt unwell.
02:13I'm never doing it alone again.
02:15I felt really guilty about not being there.
02:17Your letter was absolutely gorgeous.
02:19It did make me feel supported.
02:21Hopefully I made you proud.
02:23I am proud of you for doing it by yourself.
02:25Of the boys who look the best.
02:27It's rude. It's actually just rude at this point.
02:29You look really cute for failure.
02:31Who looked the best out of the boys?
02:32Me. Me. I do.
02:34I just wanted to say it.
02:34There you go. Yes, you did.
02:38I felt like I was a bit blindsided yesterday at the commitment ceremony.
02:50When it was revealed that Sarah was kind of talking about me
02:53in not the most positive of ways sometimes.
02:54It was a lot.
02:58I didn't expect everything to come out.
03:00It did come out, you know, it did catch me off guard.
03:02Disrespect is a big thing to me.
03:03It's like my biggest red flag.
03:06Hearing that word, I was like, whoa.
03:08I was literally white-knuckling the couch, I think.
03:10I was like, ah, this is intense.
03:11Like, what's going on?
03:14It wasn't nice to hear.
03:15Yeah, absolutely.
03:16Yeah, and it, like, and it wasn't okay.
03:17Like, you don't like it was okay and it's not okay.
03:19It's because I want my wife, like, championing me.
03:22It was hurtful and I needed to get that across
03:25because usually I'd be like, it's okay, it's okay.
03:26But I feel like this time I'd be like, no, that did hurt my feelings.
03:29I want my wife in the corner saying all the great things about me.
03:32Like, he's funny.
03:33He does these caring things for me.
03:34I don't want to be sitting there worrying, like, oh, did I annoy her?
03:37She's going to tell everyone I annoyed her.
03:38and, yeah, and it's something I didn't think I had to think about.
03:42It was a bit of a wake-up call and I do need to, you know,
03:45obviously consider your feelings at all times
03:47and think before I say anything.
03:50I found our first commitment ceremony pretty hard.
03:54You know, I really, really liked Dean.
03:56I would never want to hurt him.
03:58I'm ready to move on, you know, taking those baby steps
04:01and just seeing where it takes us.
04:03I just want to make sure that you're okay.
04:05Yeah, it was hard, but, like, I am okay.
04:07Like, you know, I mean, I am okay.
04:09But it's one of those things, we won't let it happen again.
04:11You know, like, it's one of those, like, we can let that happen,
04:13but that's it, lying under it.
04:15Yeah, 100%.
04:15So it would be silly to hold on to a grudge
04:18when we've both said sorry and said our piece, like,
04:20got to move on, fresh chapter,
04:22and hopefully be in a better place on the couch next week.
04:33There were some great points that
04:34Paul and Charlene touched on.
04:37Did anything stand out for you?
04:39The fact that, obviously, we did argue just to separate
04:42and just have that time away before we start back fresh.
04:46Perfect.
04:46I mean, just make sure that everything is just all clear.
04:48I feel like the commitment ceremony in general was quite intense.
04:53I think it gave Devani a bit of a reality check
04:56and a little bit of a shake-up as well.
04:57I felt like he opened up last night
04:59and I just understand a little bit more
05:00how to best support him as well.
05:02It feels like we hit the reset button properly now.
05:08Obviously, they said I should have a little bit more fun,
05:10let down my hair.
05:11We're actually strong.
05:13The things that we need to work on is just mainly our communication
05:15and that's what I'm going to go into this week, Ben.
05:18I'm excited.
05:20OK.
05:27I was open and honest at the commitment ceremony.
05:30I wrote leave because that's how I felt.
05:32Paul and I haven't actually had that initial spark.
05:36Obviously, being in the separate apartments,
05:38we're not living in the same space,
05:41but Paul is a kind, sweet man.
05:44I want to show that I am being open
05:46and see if he does start asking questions
05:49and showing a bit of interest.
05:57Stranger.
05:57Hello.
05:58After the first ceremony,
06:00I'm feeling a little bit upset.
06:03Got your peace offering.
06:05Oh, bless.
06:06I thought Anita and I had a lot in common.
06:08I thought we had a great foundation stone to build on.
06:11It's nice to be nice, isn't it?
06:12Mm-hmm.
06:13In my wedding vows, I said I would give it 100%.
06:16It would be nice if she allows me to try and give it 100%.
06:19Why did you think I wrote leave?
06:23Oh, you said you came into fine love.
06:25Yeah.
06:25I think there was a word missing that came to fine instant love
06:29because it was only eight days in.
06:34I wrote leave because of the lack of interest in me and my life
06:39because I think that is the basics of starting to get to know someone.
06:44Obviously, when we were in this apartment last time,
06:49I was, can you remember my children's names?
06:50And you said, no.
06:52You want to be asked the questions to volunteer the information
06:55and I volunteer the information.
06:59Are you expecting me just to go,
07:01I'm Anita, I've got two children,
07:03I've got three grandchildren,
07:04I'm an operations manager,
07:06do you expect that?
07:09Yeah, because that's what I did.
07:11Because you're good at talking about yourself.
07:12We're here to find out about each other.
07:18We're married.
07:19Paul definitely needs to ask more questions.
07:23If I'm not feeling it,
07:24I'm not getting what I want,
07:25then I'm off.
07:27I'm done.
07:27How you doing, you all right?
07:38Yeah, good, you?
07:39Yeah, good.
07:39A bit tired, but I'm all right.
07:40I know, me too.
07:41Yeah, eventful evening?
07:42Yeah.
07:43After the intensity of yesterday's commitment ceremony,
07:47some of the couples went to let off steam at a local bar.
07:50Stephen and Nellie have had a bit of a disagreement.
07:57After the commitment ceremony,
07:59Stephen did go into himself
08:00and then naturally Nellie needed a little bit of reassurance.
08:04Then I feel like a couple of people picked up on it,
08:05said to him, I'll go up to her
08:06and I feel like as a typical man,
08:08when people are telling you to do so,
08:09and he kind of fights against it a bit more.
08:11And I think he just was like going into himself
08:13more and more, wasn't he, yeah?
08:20It was really good at the commitment ceremony,
08:22but last night, Stephen and I had our first bit of conflict.
08:27I think the last couple of days,
08:28I've just felt like a little bit on edge.
08:31He's not being the same as he was on the honeymoon.
08:35It's been an absolute spot
08:36and I couldn't have asked for a better match.
08:38Despite their perfect honeymoon...
08:39Where the hell have you been for 34 years of me life?
08:43I don't know what to say.
08:45Stephen's approach to validation...
08:47Reassurance for me can be quite hard to give
08:50if I feel like I've given enough.
08:52Mm-hmm.
08:53Fuelled Nellie's insecurities.
08:55We just had a really, really good time,
08:57but then I would think,
08:58he's not giving me a kiss this morning.
09:00And then I think, yeah, it's because he doesn't like you.
09:04I probably did need a little bit of validation
09:06and I was being needy,
09:08but he does feel distant.
09:12Then last night, we all went out for some drinks.
09:14Other people started picking up on it a little bit.
09:17Some of them were saying to Stephen, like,
09:19tell her how good she looks,
09:20and he didn't like that.
09:22I'm really sorry that it's upset him,
09:24but these are my friends.
09:26I need to lean on them.
09:27I need that reassurance.
09:28Last night made me feel a little bit uneasy.
09:33Kia walked in with Nellie,
09:35asking me to compliment her.
09:37Absolutely no idea why Kia's got involved.
09:41I believe Nellie said something to the group
09:43about our relationship.
09:44That needs to stop,
09:45because it would just wind me up even more
09:47if more and more people get involved in stuff
09:49they shouldn't and don't need to be involved in.
09:52Let's just talk over, I guess, what happened yesterday.
09:56People were coming in,
09:57Kia being the main instigator,
09:59telling me that I've got to compliment you
10:01on how you've worn this top just for me only.
10:03So I'm thinking,
10:04what has Nellie been saying?
10:07I was just telling them
10:09that you have pulled back a little bit
10:10since the honeymoon and stuff.
10:12That was all.
10:14Kia was just trying to have my back more than anything
10:16and just make...
10:16try and make me feel a little bit good.
10:18It feels like you're going behind my back
10:19and talking and shit.
10:20I would never...
10:20No, but this is what I mean.
10:21In the moment,
10:22that's what it felt like.
10:26I didn't ask them to have this conversation with you.
10:30Other people don't need to know my shit.
10:33It's just going to blow up this situation
10:36worse than what it actually is.
10:38I can't be having people.
10:39I can't have to be it again
10:39because you'll see a side of me
10:42which probably you won't like.
10:47Let's be honest.
10:48You haven't been the same since the honeymoon.
10:51And that's why I needed a bit more reassurance from you.
10:56I've been standoffish
10:57because you've already created scenarios
10:59of when things are going to go wrong.
11:01I'm thinking, oh, shit.
11:03Is she now going to look for things?
11:05But that's what I do.
11:06That's what I said to Paul
11:07on the commitment ceremony.
11:08I'm doing this
11:09and I hate that I'm doing it.
11:11Sorry, I don't want to go upset
11:13but I hate that I'm doing it
11:14because I'm going to potentially
11:15throw something away
11:16that is just my protection mechanism
11:19coming up
11:19so that I don't get blindsided
11:21and this is why I'm single.
11:22but if you're already in that self-sabotage mode
11:26or got shit in your mind
11:27that's just going to make it 10 times worse.
11:29Just be yourself
11:30it will get back to the honeymoon stage
11:32but that comes in time.
11:34I hate getting emotional about these things.
11:36It sucks having to tell someone
11:38it's because of my past.
11:39I am a little bit worried about
11:41if I am going to push him away
11:42but well, we can't go on like we were
11:44so I haven't got a choice.
11:46Like, do you feel like that's everything off?
11:47My main issue is with other people
11:49and I'll have those conversations
11:51with other people.
11:53Still feeling annoyed with a few things.
11:56Really want to have a conversation with Kia today.
11:57I don't want people meddling
11:58in Lenni and I's business.
12:00You're not part of this relationship
12:01so see yourself out.
12:08Last night, drinks were flowing
12:10and we were having a fun time
12:12but Leah was being a little bit flirty
12:14with Rebecca.
12:15She has said to me before
12:17that she's got a flirty personality
12:18and it's something that I've dealt with in my past
12:21so I just don't want to feel
12:23like I'm being disrespected.
12:26Last night, I started to feel like
12:28you were being overly familiar with Rebecca
12:30and then because we've had conversations before
12:33and you've said you're quite a flirty person
12:35No, I didn't say I'm a flirty person
12:37I said people sometimes take...
12:38You've got a flirty personality, you said.
12:40So you did say that
12:41and then I started to feel like
12:43you were being overly familiar with Rebecca
12:45and it started to make me feel
12:46a little bit like I was like
12:47that's a bit muggy.
12:50I think because she's from a similar area to me
12:52I do gravitate to her
12:53so I do feel like it's more that than anything
12:56but I think the bottom line of that is
12:59you realise at this point
13:01that you liked me more than you thought
13:02because you got a little bit jealous over Rebecca
13:05that's why you thought
13:05I'm going to pounce on you.
13:06OK, let's get into that, shall we?
13:10You got jealous?
13:11Obviously that's coming from somewhere
13:13I wouldn't feel that way
13:14if I just saw you as a friend.
13:16I feel like we both are getting a little bit closer
13:18to that romantic side.
13:21We had a kiss last night
13:22which is not something we've been doing
13:24yeah, it was nice to be fair.
13:26We shared a kiss last night
13:28if I'd just purely viewed Leah as a friend
13:31behaving that way
13:32it probably wouldn't have bothered me
13:33so the fact that it did
13:34obviously there are some feelings there
13:37that I maybe wasn't aware of.
13:46I need to speak to Kia after last night
13:48I didn't like the way he was acting with Nelly
13:51paraded around like a bit of meat.
13:57Who's at the door now?
14:01Hello, how are you?
14:03I need to tell him that
14:03look, your actions for last night
14:05don't sit right with me
14:06and now it's affected my marriage.
14:11Last night I got frustrated with you
14:14with everything going on with Nelly and I
14:16with the distancing stuff
14:17I just wanted people just to
14:19basically just fuck off.
14:22Kia, you brought her over to me
14:23and was like
14:23comment on her like
14:25outfit, comment on like her breast.
14:28In that way I don't want anyone
14:29to get involved
14:30or just leave me alone.
14:34Sorry, I'm actually still just confused
14:36as to what I've done.
14:39Nelly had said that she was feeling down
14:41didn't feel very cute about herself
14:42so I picked her up to make her feel
14:44like she was cute.
14:45I then walked her in
14:46gave her a spin and said
14:47look how amazing your wife looks.
14:50It was more the comment of like
14:52look at how good her breasts look
14:54she wore this top for you.
14:55I was literally saying directly to her
14:56look at those boobs, look at those boobs.
14:58When you hear like
14:59look at your wife
15:00you automatically assume
15:01oh she's directed at me.
15:02I can't be held accountable
15:03for your assumption.
15:05I'm not having it sold it.
15:07I was trying to come
15:07between your relationship
15:08I'm not.
15:08Couldn't give a flying fuck
15:09if I'm completely honest
15:10I'm here for my relationship.
15:11I was being supportive
15:13the same way I would support
15:14absolutely anyone.
15:15That's who I am
15:16I am a cheerleader
15:16I'm a positive person
15:17it's what I do
15:18and if you've assumed
15:20all that
15:20that's on you.
15:21when people were saying
15:43no you've got to say these things
15:44I was like
15:44but I've said it to her
15:45when I walked in.
15:48It actually had nothing to do
15:49with you whatsoever
15:50I came in and gave you
15:51an opportunity to compliment her
15:53because I had spent the time
15:54outside with her saying
15:55maybe you just needed
15:56more opportunity
15:56I was literally playing
15:57devil's advocate
15:58having your side
15:59and having your back.
16:01No one knows the conversation
16:02we have back at home
16:03God just stay out of my business.
16:07If Nelly comes to me again
16:08and says I feel shit about myself
16:10I don't feel very cute
16:11I'm going to big her up again
16:12and do exactly the same thing.
16:15The same as I would
16:16for anyone in this fucking room
16:17because that's what you do
16:18when someone feels low
16:19about themselves
16:20and that's never going to change
16:24I'm afraid.
16:26I think everyone needs to put effort
16:27into a relationship
16:28Stephen included.
16:29If there are aspects
16:30of his relationship
16:31that he doesn't want discussed
16:32that's the conversation
16:33between him and his wife
16:34not me.
16:38Feeling pretty pissed off.
16:40So I just ended up
16:41just walking away.
16:42My relationship
16:43is my relationship
16:44and I don't like people
16:45getting involved in business
16:46they shouldn't get involved in.
16:48So stupid.
17:02I thought someone's actually
17:03at the door
17:04but it looks like
17:04we've got an envelope.
17:05Star.
17:06Oh my God.
17:07Oh my God.
17:07Our first golden envelope.
17:09Today marks
17:10the start
17:10of Experts Week.
17:12I think we've won the lottery, kids.
17:14I can't pick it up
17:15with my nails.
17:17We've devised
17:18a series of exercises
17:20to help the couples
17:20navigate these early stages
17:22of married life.
17:24I feel stressed.
17:26Some couples
17:26could find these exercises
17:27challenging
17:28or confronting
17:29but
17:30this is a vital part
17:31of the process
17:32to allow them
17:33to develop
17:33deeper levels
17:34of emotional connection.
17:36There is no one size
17:38fits all remedy
17:39for any relationship.
17:41So each of us
17:42have drawn
17:42on our own
17:43specific areas
17:44of expertise
17:45and devised activities.
17:47Tailored specifically
17:48to you
17:48as a couple
17:49to help you
17:49navigate the challenges
17:50you face.
17:52There were some big words
17:53in that one.
17:53Why wouldn't there?
17:55Dear Grace
17:56and Ashley
17:57you are requested
17:58to attend a fun workshop.
18:01Nice.
18:01I know that intimacy
18:02and affection
18:03has been an issue
18:04for your marriage
18:04and this is something
18:05I'd like to help
18:06you work on.
18:07Lots of love, Charlene.
18:09Charlene, here we come.
18:10Come on, Charlene.
18:12We have left
18:13something outside for you.
18:15Oh no.
18:16Will I go get it?
18:16Yeah, go, go, go, go.
18:19Oh.
18:20Oh God.
18:22I'm already impressed.
18:24You're joking.
18:26No, it's a little right.
18:28I mean, that's cool for me.
18:30I might do one leg.
18:34We'll see.
18:35We'll see how it goes.
18:37Dean and I get on great
18:38but the main thing
18:40really missing
18:41is the intimacy.
18:42We've obviously not kissed,
18:43you know,
18:44being intimate with each other
18:44or anything like that
18:45so yeah,
18:46I think,
18:47you know,
18:48it's quite scary
18:49because you don't really know
18:50sort of what's going to happen
18:51and things
18:52but I know it's what
18:53our marriage needs
18:54so I'm really willing
18:55to work at it.
18:56I'm excited,
18:57yeah,
18:58to touch.
19:00It's exciting, right?
19:02It's a big moment
19:03I guess in our relationship.
19:04It's the next stage.
19:05So yeah,
19:05I'm hoping it's the start
19:06of the touching
19:07and not the end
19:07of the touching.
19:08I'm hoping it's the beginning.
19:09Bring it on.
19:10Let's do it.
19:11Let's do it.
19:11Let's do it.
19:14I can't wait.
19:15Yep, me too.
19:16I wouldn't like to think
19:17what's in store
19:18for this workshop.
19:18I hope it's not a massage.
19:20We've already done that
19:22on the honeymoon.
19:23Are you okay with it?
19:24On their honeymoon,
19:25Grace's struggles
19:26with physical touch
19:27were brought to the surface
19:29during what should have been
19:30a romantic massage
19:31from Ashley.
19:32Okay, is that enough now?
19:36Do it for me.
19:37I will do it for you.
19:38You do so much for me.
19:39I am totally willing
19:41to do this for you.
19:41Thank you.
19:42Would you like a hand?
19:46Because you're actually
19:47stressing me out.
19:50Me and Leah
19:51are trying to build
19:52a romantic connection.
19:53At the minute,
19:53it's just sort of
19:54more of a friendship thing.
19:55So I feel like
19:56it's definitely come
19:57at a good time
19:57for us to see
19:58if we can initiate
19:59a bit of a spark.
20:02Ah, look at me.
20:05Hello.
20:05It's important
20:08for our couples
20:09to understand
20:10that intimacy
20:11isn't just about sex.
20:13There are many
20:13different ways
20:14in which a physical
20:15connection can develop.
20:17With that in mind,
20:18I've set some of the couples
20:19a task to inspire trust
20:21and understanding
20:22between them.
20:24Welcome to my workshop.
20:27I'm sure you're
20:28very excited to see me.
20:30Let's talk about intimacy
20:32because one thing
20:33that I realise
20:33is that as soon
20:34as I say the word
20:35intimacy,
20:36everyone gets
20:37a little bit nervous.
20:39But intimacy
20:40should be fun.
20:42The key is to explore
20:43and that's what
20:44I want you to do today.
20:45I don't want you
20:46to do anything
20:47that you're not
20:48comfortable doing.
20:51So blindfold your partner.
20:53Not too tight.
20:54OK, OK.
20:55Can you see?
20:56No.
20:57Not too tight.
20:58No, even a bit
20:59tighter probably.
20:59Yeah, perfect.
21:00Next to you,
21:01what you'll see
21:02is some massage oil.
21:04My heart drops
21:05a little bit
21:06at the thought of massage.
21:07It's always going to be
21:08something that I find
21:08really, like, uncomfortable.
21:10OK, then you want me
21:12to go with a tickle or off?
21:12No, that's good.
21:15Oh.
21:17Feel free to make sounds
21:18if you want to,
21:19if it feels good.
21:20Oh, make some sounds, Leah.
21:22Make it better, then.
21:23OK.
21:23How's that?
21:25Yeah, that's nice.
21:26Good.
21:29I've waited a long time
21:30for this.
21:31It's been worth the wait,
21:33though, as well.
21:33It's so nice to kind of
21:34share that moment.
21:35I think this is a step
21:36in the right direction
21:37from what we're missing,
21:38really.
21:39More oil?
21:40Oh, yeah, go on.
21:41Ooh.
21:42That's nice.
21:44I want to be
21:44Dean's biggest jewelry.
21:46I want for things to start
21:47going in the right direction,
21:48but, um,
21:50it was a little bit
21:51funny, isn't it?
21:52Like...
21:53You're really good at it.
21:54Thank you.
21:55Soft hands.
21:57We're giving it a go.
21:58We're giving it a go.
22:05Grace, how does that feel?
22:07I've never been one
22:08for massages myself.
22:10I'm trying to focus
22:11on the fact that
22:12it's a good massage.
22:13Like, Ash is a good masseuse.
22:16OK.
22:16Mm-hmm.
22:18I'm feeling a bit stressed.
22:19It's not me.
22:20It's not my kind of thing.
22:22It's beyond my comfort zone.
22:23My comfort zone was, like,
22:24120 miles back.
22:26You're doing amazing.
22:27Thank you.
22:29But, Ash,
22:30this is important to him,
22:31so I'm trying
22:32to have an open mind.
22:35So the partners
22:35that are massaging,
22:37I'm sensing that
22:37you're really enjoying this.
22:39Is it showing that much?
22:42You can see a massive difference
22:44from the honeymoon.
22:45Even though she's feeling
22:47a bit uncomfortable,
22:47she's staying there
22:48and she's working at it.
22:49Do you want to swap?
22:50Yeah, we could swap, yeah.
22:52Swap, good.
22:53Especially with Grace,
22:54where feelings are starting to build.
22:56Like, she's really
22:57sort of throwing herself
22:57into this, and, yeah,
23:00nice to see, to be honest.
23:01Do I have permission
23:02to remove your robe?
23:03I'm really proud of her.
23:04I'm, I'm chaffed.
23:08Is that OK?
23:08Yeah.
23:09Perfect.
23:09Ooh!
23:10Ooh!
23:11That looks nice.
23:14Nice.
23:15It's good.
23:16I really enjoyed
23:21getting a bit more
23:22touchy.
23:25Yeah, for something, yeah.
23:27And I think all it can do
23:28is just make us stronger.
23:31Initially, I was slightly nervous,
23:33but actually,
23:34Dean is doing well
23:35at giving the massage.
23:36I'm getting rid of
23:37some of that tension.
23:38He's made me feel
23:39super comfortable.
23:40so, yeah,
23:42he is doing well.
23:45It's nice.
23:46Is it?
23:46Yeah.
23:47Oh, good.
23:48I think you guys
23:49have had quite a lot of fun,
23:52Grace and Ashley.
23:53The good thing
23:53with the two of you
23:54is that you have
23:54a really good connection.
23:55So, although there is this issue
23:57around the skin-on-skin touch,
23:59there's a bond
24:00that I see
24:01between the two of you.
24:02That's key.
24:04Today was important
24:05because I did want
24:05an opportunity to show Ash
24:07that I am trying as well.
24:08He has made
24:09a huge amount of effort
24:10and he does deserve
24:11someone who's going
24:12to put as much in
24:13as he does.
24:14Well done, guys.
24:15Now, I think
24:16you're absolutely ready
24:18for stage two.
24:20Let's take it up a notch.
24:22Where is Charlene going?
24:28No way.
24:29What's going to be
24:30inside this room?
24:32What is behind this?
24:34What is going on?
24:36Charlene.
24:37Charlene?
24:37Where are we going?
24:39There's no words.
24:40Here we go.
24:41Here we go.
24:43Oh, my God.
24:52Wow.
24:53I wasn't expecting that.
24:56Oh, my God.
24:58Holy shit.
25:00Okay.
25:01Oh, strawberries.
25:03There is a table
25:04full of sex toys here.
25:05We've got handcuffs,
25:06we've got dildos,
25:07we've got butt plugs,
25:08we've got God knows what.
25:11Does Charlene just carry
25:12these around in her bag
25:12every day or...?
25:14Welcome to my table
25:16of treats.
25:18You now have an array
25:20of lots of different tools
25:21that you can have
25:22lots of fun with.
25:24You may look at
25:24some of these things
25:25and think,
25:26well, that's not for me.
25:27Yep.
25:29But you may look
25:30at some of these things
25:31and think,
25:31actually,
25:33I wouldn't mind
25:33trying that.
25:38I hope you know
25:39where the key is for that.
25:40Yeah, go on.
25:41Okay, you can go harder.
25:42Oh, really?
25:43Yeah, yeah, yeah.
25:44Ooh, ooh.
25:45Harder?
25:46Yeah.
25:46Ooh!
25:49I'm just going to
25:49stay seated here for a while.
25:50That happens to everyone.
26:04I swear I didn't mean
26:05to do that,
26:05I swear.
26:08It went a bit
26:09tits up, didn't it?
26:11Can't even think about it.
26:13I just had cream
26:16all over my face
26:17and a strawberry
26:18shoved into my mouth.
26:19Not feeling very sexy
26:20and sensual right now.
26:22Do you want another one?
26:23I'm fine, thank you.
26:25Up your mouth.
26:27Ooh!
26:28Ashley!
26:31That's what I wanted,
26:32but that's not what I got.
26:33The next activity
26:37is fill in the blanks.
26:40Partner A
26:40will read out the card
26:42and partner B
26:43will answer the question.
26:45Right now,
26:46I'm feeling...
26:47Intrigue.
26:48Intrigue.
26:49Ooh!
26:51I love it when
26:52you are...
26:55cuddly
26:56and...
26:58tactile.
27:00Hmm.
27:00That's nice.
27:03It's because she doesn't
27:04say a lot of nice things.
27:05No, often, I mean.
27:07Often.
27:09No, often.
27:11I don't agree, but okay.
27:12It's a little bit uncomfortable
27:16that Leah's just said this
27:18in front of a group of people.
27:21I do feel like
27:22I have put a lot of effort in
27:23and there's this, like,
27:24running theme with you
27:25at the moment
27:26where you will sort of
27:27act as if I'm not
27:28doing anything at all.
27:30No, I'm not.
27:31I'm just saying
27:31it's nice to hear it
27:32when you say it
27:33because you don't say it often.
27:34That's all.
27:38It's a little bit deflating.
27:39I'm trying to be nice
27:41and trying to make
27:41the effort
27:42and it doesn't always
27:44feel like it's received
27:44in the best way.
27:46She likes what I'm saying,
27:47but there's always a but.
27:48Yeah, it just gets
27:49a bit draining.
27:52I will do that more,
27:53but I also would appreciate
27:54if when I do do it
27:55you don't make
27:55a backhanded comment
27:56because that makes me
27:57not want to do it again.
27:58Okay.
28:02Intimacy Workshop
28:03isn't going the best
28:04for me, I'll be honest.
28:08Now, because we
28:09absolutely love you all,
28:10we would like you
28:12to choose anything
28:13on the table
28:14that you might want
28:14to go home with
28:15and have a bit of fun with.
28:16I promise I won't look.
28:17Thank you.
28:18Thank you.
28:18Cheers, thank you.
28:19Bye.
28:19Thank you.
28:20Come on in, guys.
28:21What are we grabbing?
28:23Today was amazing
28:24for Grace and I.
28:25Behind closed doors,
28:26she's cuddly
28:27and affectionate,
28:28so it was really nice
28:30to be around people
28:31and for her to still
28:31be okay with it.
28:32It's a huge step for us,
28:33I feel.
28:34Huge.
28:34I did it for you.
28:36Oh, well done, guys.
28:40Let's do that.
28:41You basically burn it,
28:42it melts and then you massage.
28:44So, the intimacy workshop,
28:46I suppose it felt a little bit tense,
28:48but Lee picked up the candle,
28:51so I think I'm getting
28:52a full body massage.
28:53In for a treat.
28:55If that's not dibs.
28:56Okay.
28:56She's a lingerie girl, yeah.
28:59There's been a lot of pressure
29:00in not having that
29:01industry with Sarah
29:01that's been building up
29:02and building up
29:03and today's helped
29:04kind of deflate that
29:05and make it fun.
29:06So, it's keeping that going
29:07now on our own
29:08and then hopefully
29:09progressing to
29:09loving, nice relationship.
29:13This could not have come
29:14at a better time
29:15for Dean and I.
29:16So many things are there.
29:17The main thing that is lacking
29:19is the intimacy side of things.
29:20I still do want to take it slow,
29:22but I think it has been
29:24just what we've needed.
29:26A values ranking.
29:34That's going to be fun.
29:35Oh dear.
29:36We'll see how it goes.
29:37Struggling to see eye to eye
29:39since their honeymoon,
29:40Julia, Ruth and Devani's task
29:42is to both rank
29:43nine different values
29:45chosen by the experts
29:46in their order of importance.
29:49Devani and I
29:49haven't spoken about values before.
29:52I hope that we get
29:53a better understanding
29:53of each other as a couple
29:55and that we can
29:56and understand as well
29:57why we're both here
29:58and what we're here for.
30:01No peeking.
30:03I know what my core values are
30:05and hopefully
30:06they do align with Julia Ruth's.
30:09Here we go.
30:11This is my list.
30:13Mm-hmm.
30:14At number one,
30:15I'd say humour.
30:16Mm-hmm.
30:16If someone can make me laugh
30:18and that, I feel like
30:19that makes them
30:19like so outrageously attractive
30:21if you just want to be around
30:22that person.
30:23Mm-hmm.
30:24And then sex and looks
30:25is important to me.
30:26Mm-hmm.
30:29Okay.
30:30So, this is my nine.
30:33Mm-hmm.
30:36Devani's put sex and looks
30:38at the bottom of his list.
30:39So, I've got a lot of questions
30:43to ask.
30:46Sex is quite low down.
30:47Mm-hmm.
30:49Um, yeah.
30:53Do you want to explain that?
30:54Like, why you've put it at eight?
30:57I want to know the person
30:58before anything else.
31:00And that's why I put it at the bottom.
31:02Not because it's the least.
31:04But it is out of this list.
31:05That is the least.
31:06It's the second least.
31:07So, someone's ambition to you
31:11is more important than sex?
31:14Yeah.
31:15Um, okay.
31:17Because all of this
31:18will connect a person
31:19and then this
31:19composites everything else.
31:23Money before sex?
31:25Yeah.
31:29For him, it's looks and sex
31:31is the last thing
31:32on a man's mind.
31:33On a man's mind.
31:35Looks and sex
31:35is the last thing
31:36on a man's mind.
31:37Go on.
31:41Okay.
31:44My sex was four.
31:45My sex was eight.
31:47Sex and looks
31:47is important to me.
31:48Mm-hmm.
31:49It's a struggle for me
31:50because that is
31:50not important to you
31:52at all.
31:52Mm.
31:53Mm.
31:54It's a little bit,
31:55uh, yeah,
31:56it's a little bit worrying.
31:57apparently it's not enough.
32:03It doesn't care.
32:05It's the bottom of the list,
32:07so.
32:10Do you know what's
32:11really interesting?
32:11I almost put looks at one,
32:13so we literally would have
32:14had the polar opposites.
32:16But it does shed a light
32:18on things.
32:18It's definitely interesting
32:19to see.
32:20Yeah.
32:20I don't know where
32:21this leaves me and Damati
32:22just in terms of
32:23progressing forward.
32:24It's day one
32:25of hitting the reset button.
32:26It was meant to be a fresh start.
32:28It was meant to be fun
32:29and banter,
32:30but, um,
32:33they're quite opposite.
32:37Opposites attract.
32:48I'll never want to see
32:49that picture in my life.
32:51I look about 50 as well.
32:53No comment.
32:53Yeah, no comment.
32:55Go on then, girl,
32:56hit me with it.
32:57Dear Rebecca and Bailey,
32:58you seem content
33:00in the present,
33:01so we're going to ask you
33:02to delve into your past
33:04by opening your X-Files.
33:06We want you to explore
33:07the lessons you've learned
33:08and how you can bring them
33:09to bear on your
33:10current relationship.
33:11Lots of love,
33:12Mel, Paul and Charlie.
33:13Let's get into it.
33:14X-Files then, yeah?
33:15X-Files.
33:16I'm sure it'll be fine,
33:17as long as my ex
33:17isn't going to walk
33:18in through the door.
33:19Or your ex.
33:20You ready?
33:21Yeah.
33:22Have you ever broken
33:22someone's heart,
33:24and how do you feel
33:24about that now?
33:26Uh, yeah.
33:28So, with my long-term ex,
33:33we, um,
33:35had built a life together,
33:36built, literally built
33:37a house together.
33:40You all right?
33:41Yeah.
33:42You all right?
33:43Mm-hmm.
33:44He proposed,
33:46and I thought,
33:47God, like,
33:48I'm going to have to
33:48make a decision.
33:49Either, like,
33:50marry him,
33:51or, like,
33:53being more true
33:54to this, like,
33:55weird, niggly feeling
33:56that I had.
33:58It broke his heart.
33:59Like,
34:00I feel selfish
34:01that, like,
34:02I decided to, like,
34:05take that away
34:06from him then.
34:06Yeah.
34:07And I know
34:08it broke his heart.
34:09He told me I did.
34:09So,
34:10Yeah, I didn't want to,
34:16like,
34:16I didn't,
34:16I wouldn't want to
34:17make anyone that sad.
34:18Yes.
34:19But I also felt like
34:20I had to be true to myself,
34:22but also true for him.
34:25It's such a double-edged sword
34:26to see a bit get emotional,
34:27because it is hard.
34:28Don't want to see someone upset,
34:29but then also,
34:30that vulnerability
34:31is somewhat a nice feeling.
34:33It's, like,
34:33part and parcel
34:34with kind of
34:34falling for someone
34:35and starting to like
34:36someone more.
34:36So, yeah,
34:37I'm relishing it.
34:37Yeah.
34:38Can I answer?
34:38Are you all right?
34:39Yeah.
34:39Cool?
34:40Yes.
34:40Happy?
34:41Give me a hug then.
34:41Come on.
34:43I find it hard sometimes
34:45to open up to people,
34:46but being with Bailey
34:48does make me feel
34:49like it's safe.
34:52I haven't felt that
34:53for a while,
34:55and it's a really nice feeling.
35:05Ready?
35:06OK.
35:06Teddy?
35:07Cool.
35:08Yeah.
35:08To help strengthen
35:09their emotional connections,
35:11Anita and Paul
35:12and David and Kia
35:13have been given
35:14the Ask Me Anything task.
35:16It's what we wanted.
35:17We're letting go.
35:18We're going to smash it.
35:19Yeah, we will.
35:20I like this.
35:21This is things to do.
35:22It's what we're here for, right?
35:23It's to work on ourselves.
35:24It's to make sure
35:25that we get to know
35:26each other deeper.
35:27Ready?
35:28Let's do this.
35:30Right now,
35:31I have no nerves.
35:32I have my men.
35:33Where do you think
35:35you've gone wrong
35:36in your previous relationships?
35:38Um,
35:39many ways.
35:42OK.
35:42I lose aspects of myself.
35:47In my marriage,
35:48I changed and edited myself
35:49and turned into something I wasn't
35:52and became very vacuous.
35:54I guess until this point,
36:03I've never really
36:04got into a relationship
36:05as myself,
36:05so I guess I haven't
36:07given anyone
36:08a fair opportunity
36:09to actually date me
36:12or be in a relationship
36:12with me
36:13because I just
36:13have a different
36:15edited or amended version
36:16that I think
36:17they're going to like.
36:20I guess most of the
36:21Vassar versions of me
36:22are pretty shitty people,
36:23so...
36:24Yeah.
36:25I wouldn't want
36:25to have dated me either.
36:27They're in their past.
36:29They are indeed.
36:32You know,
36:33I don't judge
36:34for anything
36:35of the past.
36:36You're good
36:37as you are.
36:38I've never met
36:39anyone that is
36:40more themselves
36:40than you are.
36:42Thank you.
36:43It's OK.
36:45The more time
36:45I spend with Daveed,
36:46the more I'm
36:47growing and developing
36:48because of how
36:49considerate and caring
36:50he is.
36:51I like this.
36:52This is nice.
36:53This is lovely,
36:53yeah.
36:56Kia,
36:56tell me three things
36:58you change about.
37:00I wish your job
37:01didn't involve you
37:02having to go away
37:02for long periods
37:03of time.
37:04OK.
37:06When you get
37:07in your head
37:07and overthink things,
37:09most of the time,
37:10it's a non-problem,
37:11it's a non-issue.
37:12I can work on that.
37:13We can try
37:13and do it together.
37:14And the third thing
37:15I would change
37:16is your perspective
37:18on your body image
37:19because I think
37:21you're absolutely
37:23goddamn sexy as hell
37:25and wish you could
37:25see yourself
37:26the way that I see you.
37:29That's very cute.
37:29being open with my body
37:33makes me a little bit
37:35anxious.
37:36But slowly,
37:37slowly,
37:37I'm getting more
37:38confident.
37:39I think it's lovely
37:41to see how he sees me.
37:42He makes me feel
37:43wanted.
37:43He makes me feel
37:44worried about myself.
37:46It's been a while
37:47since someone made me
37:47feel like that.
37:49It's just nice.
37:50Stop.
37:51Stop.
37:51It's kind of the perfect
38:01task this week
38:02for us, isn't it?
38:03That's what I've been
38:04banging on about
38:04all week
38:05at the end of the day,
38:06Anna.
38:07Hi.
38:09Depending on his
38:09questions,
38:10it'll depend
38:11where that actually
38:11leaves us.
38:13Did you find that
38:14hard?
38:16No.
38:17All right.
38:18Because I've not
38:19really asked you much
38:19as you've pointed
38:21out a few times.
38:24I am a little bit
38:25sweaty palms.
38:27I think it's important
38:28for me to see
38:29some improvement.
38:30So,
38:31fingers crossed again.
38:33Will you give
38:34the marriage
38:35enough time
38:37so I can love
38:39you for you?
38:42How long's
38:43a piece of strength
38:44time?
38:46I'm not in a hurry.
38:48I just,
38:49it's more
38:49a case of
38:51I need to know
38:52where this
38:52relationship's going.
38:54What's on your mind?
38:55What you want out of it?
38:57Whether you're
38:58fully committed.
38:59Are you expecting me
39:00to be fully committed
39:01after two weeks?
39:02Well,
39:03the clue's in the title,
39:04isn't it?
39:04Married at first sight.
39:07Surely,
39:08you're wanting to commit,
39:09aren't you?
39:10I think you can be committed
39:12to the process
39:13to going down that
39:15road of
39:15building a relationship,
39:17building trust,
39:18building respect.
39:19I think you are expecting me
39:20to be further ahead
39:21than I am.
39:22You've said it takes you
39:23time.
39:24It could be six years
39:25before you get a spark.
39:27That's the doubt
39:28that's set in my mind now.
39:30How long does it
39:30actually take you?
39:31I just haven't got
39:33that time.
39:35Love is something
39:36you build.
39:38My time frame
39:39may be different
39:41from her time frame
39:42and that's going to be
39:42the sticking point.
39:44I need to know
39:45what you're thinking.
39:47Surely,
39:47you should know
39:47what you want by now.
39:49I don't know
39:50if Paul understands
39:50I haven't got time
39:51to waste.
39:52I was in my
39:53previous relationship
39:54for 17 years
39:55and didn't get
39:57the outcome I wanted.
39:58So,
39:58I need to know
39:59where I stand.
40:00I've just wasted
40:0117 years
40:02and I don't want
40:02to waste time.
40:04Surely,
40:04we should want
40:05the same outcome.
40:06He's 60,
40:07I'm nearly 55.
40:09No,
40:09I'm not hanging around.
40:24What are we going
40:24to have dinner tonight?
40:26Pasta.
40:26Lots of cheese.
40:27Lots of cheese.
40:29Maeve and Jo's
40:30exercise for this week
40:31involves a visit
40:32from one of the experts.
40:34At the commitment ceremony,
40:35Maeve voiced her
40:36insecurities within
40:37the marriage
40:38and herself.
40:41Oh,
40:42I knew that could be.
40:43As Jo was absent,
40:45I'm visiting him
40:46and Maeve
40:47at their home
40:47to offer further
40:48one-on-one expertise.
40:50Yes!
40:51Yes!
40:51Hiya, you all right?
40:55I'm so happy
40:56to see you, Paul.
40:57Honestly, like,
40:59his home's my home,
41:00do you know what I mean?
41:00No, my home's his home.
41:02Is that what you say?
41:03Well, anyway,
41:03I'm not asked,
41:04just take your shoes off
41:05and get comfy.
41:07Where I would love
41:08to begin
41:08is the commitment ceremony.
41:10Yeah.
41:11Jo,
41:11I believe you missed
41:13a very important moment.
41:15It was profound.
41:15At yesterday's
41:18commitment ceremony,
41:19Maeve faced the couch alone
41:21while Jo was ill.
41:22I think he is
41:23really attractive
41:23and I thought,
41:24like, he's not going
41:24to find me attractive
41:25whatsoever.
41:26I think he's too good
41:28for me.
41:30I mean,
41:30it's quite heartbreaking
41:31to hear you say that.
41:32Well, he is.
41:33You need to love
41:34on yourself more.
41:36This is more important
41:38than your relationship
41:39with Jo.
41:41Yeah.
41:42Do you recall
41:43a little bit
41:43of the conversation
41:44that we had?
41:45Oh, God.
41:45Jo compliments me
41:47all the time.
41:47Like, I couldn't have
41:48anyone nicer
41:49to say nice things
41:50about us,
41:50but I don't believe
41:52what he's saying.
41:53At what point
41:54in your life
41:55did you begin
41:56doubting yourself?
41:58Probably
41:59when I was
42:01with me ex.
42:02He used to talk
42:03about me appearance,
42:04just negative shit
42:05all the time.
42:06Okay.
42:07If someone says
42:08it enough to you,
42:09you start believing it.
42:10Do you know what I mean?
42:11Yes.
42:11How do we take
42:12that narrative
42:13and switch it
42:14to positive?
42:15Maeve,
42:16what I would love
42:17for us to do
42:17is teach you
42:20how to receive
42:21a compliment.
42:24Taking compliments
42:25sounds like
42:26a very easy thing
42:27to do,
42:28but it's not.
42:29I really struggle
42:30to take stuff
42:31on board.
42:32All right,
42:33this is going
42:33to be great.
42:36So Joe
42:37is going
42:38to give compliments
42:39and when he gives
42:40you that compliment,
42:41I want you to look
42:42in the mirror,
42:45repeat the compliment
42:47and you're going
42:48to say,
42:48I receive this,
42:50I believe this
42:52and thank you
42:53for seeing me
42:54this way.
42:55Okay?
42:56So hit us, Joe.
42:57I love how
42:59you give everyone
43:00your energy
43:01and everyone
43:02just loves you
43:03as a person.
43:06That was cute.
43:08What, do I look
43:09at myself
43:09and say that?
43:10Yes.
43:11Just do it.
43:12I'm trying to.
43:13Come on.
43:14I feel like I got
43:15to say it.
43:17This is hard,
43:18isn't it?
43:18Yeah.
43:19Why is it hard?
43:20Because I can't
43:21take it in.
43:22Okay.
43:23I actually can't.
43:24I can hear him.
43:25I'm listening
43:26but it doesn't go,
43:27like it's literally
43:28in one ear
43:29and out the other.
43:30Exactly,
43:30because you've
43:31taught yourself
43:31to just not believe it
43:33and I also notice
43:34that you have
43:35a hard time
43:35keeping eye contact
43:36with yourself
43:37in the mirror.
43:38Why do you think
43:39you're having
43:39a hard time
43:40looking at yourself
43:40in the mirror?
43:42I don't really enjoy
43:44looking at myself
43:45in the mirror.
43:46Why?
43:46I don't know.
43:47I just don't feel
43:47confident in myself.
43:49That's why this
43:50is important.
43:50Yeah.
43:51So we're going
43:53to do that round again
43:54but you have to
43:55look at yourself
43:56in the mirror
43:56the entire time.
43:59Joe.
44:00I love how
44:01you have my back
44:02in any situation.
44:06That is so true.
44:07It's so true.
44:08It's actually really true.
44:09Yeah.
44:09I believe that one.
44:10So you believe
44:11that's what I mean
44:11but do you?
44:13Yeah,
44:13because I do have your back.
44:14Say it in the mirror then.
44:15Joe loves the fact
44:16that I have his back
44:17in every situation.
44:19I receive this,
44:20I believe this.
44:21I actually do though.
44:23Like I know
44:24I'm struggling
44:25but I feel like
44:26it is starting
44:27to make me believe him.
44:29This exercise
44:30actually makes me
44:31feel a little bit
44:31better about myself.
44:34It's melting me heart.
44:35You can always tell
44:36if an intervention
44:37has worked well
44:38because the couple
44:39is closer.
44:40You come back together
44:41and look at it.
44:41Maeve is in your lap
44:42right now.
44:43Maeve,
44:46you have this story
44:47going on in your mind
44:48that you are not
44:50good enough
44:50and the more
44:51you take in
44:52these compliments
44:53what's going to happen
44:54to that negative script
44:55in your mind?
44:56It's not going to be
44:56negative anymore.
44:57It's going to be positive.
44:58It's going to be positive.
44:59When you can connect
45:00at your true self
45:01that's true love.
45:03Yeah.
45:04And that's what
45:04we're trying to get to.
45:07I'm very grateful
45:08for Paul.
45:09Yeah,
45:09we're going to work on it
45:10and actually do
45:11the task going forward
45:12so hopefully
45:13it'll improve.
45:15We are making
45:16baby steps.
45:17Yeah,
45:17but moving in
45:18the right direction
45:19100%.
45:20Well then,
45:20on that note,
45:21I'm gone.
45:23Thank you for coming.
45:24Yeah.
45:24100% this is the
45:25beginning of a new Maeve.
45:27I actually want to
45:28believe what Joe's saying.
45:29Honestly,
45:30I think he's amazing
45:31and I don't want him
45:32not in my life.
45:33I know,
45:33what is the matter
45:34with me?
45:36What?
45:38Oh,
45:39God.
45:40This place
45:42makes you go crazy.
45:50Come on, Goose.
45:51To mark the end
45:52of Experts Week,
45:53some of the group
45:54head out to compare notes.
45:55I am so excited
45:58to find out
45:58what everyone else
45:59has done,
46:00what everyone's tasks
46:01have been for Expert Week.
46:02It's a special day
46:03if Stephen's getting
46:04around, isn't it?
46:04Oh!
46:06First little day out.
46:07Cheers, lads.
46:07Cheers.
46:08I've been loving
46:09my time with Beth
46:10but also exciting
46:10to see the lads
46:11and have a bit
46:11of a debrief.
46:14We did a workshop
46:15with Charlene.
46:16She had us
46:17like a secret
46:17doorway into this
46:18like sex dungeon.
46:20Wait, where is it?
46:22Where is it?
46:23Could I have a go?
46:27I'm jealous
46:28that you got
46:28to do the workshop.
46:29I want you to do it.
46:29It was really good.
46:31Yeah, it was good.
46:31Like, I'm not going to lie,
46:33I was a little bit nervous.
46:34I mean, you just,
46:35you don't know
46:36what you're kind of expecting.
46:37Do you feel like
46:37it's grown you
46:38closer to him
46:39in like a different way?
46:41I think it's still
46:42too early to tell.
46:44Dean and I,
46:44obviously,
46:45we haven't had
46:45really any form
46:46of intimacy at all.
46:48But obviously,
46:48there are different
46:49forms of it,
46:50there's different levels
46:50of it.
46:51We are still
46:51taking baby steps.
46:53Yeah, it was good.
46:53I think it was
46:54what we needed.
46:55I said to him
46:55after the commitment
46:56ceremony,
46:57he's constantly
46:58got you on this pedestal
46:59and that's what he said
46:59he wouldn't do.
47:00I was like,
47:01you know,
47:01you also need
47:02to be there for you too.
47:04I think that commitment
47:06ceremony kicked
47:06up the arse a little bit.
47:07You know,
47:08maybe it's made her
47:09realise a little bit more
47:10how good Dean is.
47:11She needs to be open
47:12and vulnerable to him.
47:13Like, she's been
47:14matching for a reason.
47:17Where are you
47:17and Lee now?
47:19Yeah, we haven't,
47:20like, we had to
47:21have the best night.
47:22How did you not?
47:23No, like,
47:24Lee thought I'd
47:25come up to you
47:25in a bar,
47:26and was like,
47:27hey, Rebecca,
47:28I fancy you.
47:31But it's not
47:31in that way at all.
47:33I think you'd said,
47:35like, Rebecca's
47:36more my type,
47:37gym girl,
47:37darker.
47:39And also,
47:40like I said,
47:40you feel like home
47:41to me because
47:42my friends are like you
47:43and it was just
47:45something that was
47:45latched on to you
47:46but there was
47:46literally nothing in it.
47:49That made her realise
47:50definitely that,
47:52OK, maybe I do like
47:53her a little bit more
47:53but she still
47:54won't admit that.
47:54I can't understand
47:57why Lee would feel
47:59negative feelings
48:00towards it
48:00because if somebody
48:02in the group
48:03has pointed out
48:03as being more
48:04your wife's type,
48:05then there's going
48:06to be some sort
48:06of feelings
48:07but there's just
48:08nothing to worry
48:08about with me
48:09and Leah.
48:10all right then, Steve.
48:13You're the one
48:14to hold your cards
48:14close to your chest.
48:15What about you?
48:15Obviously, for me, look,
48:17I never like to show
48:18vulnerability
48:18because it makes me
48:20look weaker
48:20and when I've done
48:21that in the past,
48:22then people take the piss.
48:23So I've decided
48:24to slow down
48:24on the intimacy side
48:26of things.
48:26The less hugging,
48:27the kissing,
48:28which sounds bad.
48:29But why have you
48:29kind of made that?
48:30Because she's three steps
48:31ahead of me
48:32because she's opened up
48:33and I haven't.
48:34It might get in her
48:36head a little bit
48:36if she sees you
48:37going backwards a bit.
48:37I think if you are
48:39doing that,
48:39you've got to be
48:40super clear
48:41as why you are
48:41doing that.
48:42I don't like needness.
48:43I like it.
48:44It's good to feel
48:44wanted, right?
48:45Of course it is.
48:46Everyone wants
48:46to feel wanted
48:46but just let me breathe.
48:48I need my time apart.
48:50I don't think
48:50she's super needy
48:51but then also
48:52if you're saying
48:54yourself,
48:54you're more
48:54on the closed side,
48:55that might bring
48:56a little bit of that out.
48:58She really likes you
48:59and I've talked
49:00with her a lot
49:01and you know that.
49:03Stephen is overthinking it.
49:04He's definitely
49:05overthinking it.
49:06He's being way
49:06too logical
49:07about this.
49:08Just let go.
49:10It's the only way
49:10it's going to work
49:11if you say let's go.
49:17So Stephen
49:17came to see you,
49:19didn't he?
49:20I think he just
49:21needed to kind of
49:21vent and go through
49:22what happened
49:23in the evening.
49:23He just kind of
49:24needed to say it
49:25out loud to us.
49:27I told him
49:28time and time again
49:29that they're not
49:29trying to do it
49:30to wind you up.
49:30No one's aim
49:31is to wind you up.
49:32Their aim is to
49:33pick me up
49:34because you could
49:34see that I wasn't
49:35myself.
49:35Much better
49:36to do it over
49:37wine.
49:38No.
49:39And you's two are
49:40good now.
49:40That's all squashed.
49:41Yeah I'm just
49:42obviously it's still
49:43hard I think.
49:44He still has pulled
49:45back but now I'm like
49:46well cool sweet
49:47you pull back if
49:47that's what you
49:48want to do.
49:49I'm going to do me
49:50if you want me then
49:52great.
49:53If he doesn't his
49:53loss.
49:54Yes it is yeah.
49:57I don't really know
49:58where I stand.
49:59I just need a bit of
50:00consistency.
50:00It's really hard
50:01sometimes if the
50:03Stephen I've got now
50:03is slightly more
50:04reserved than the
50:05Stephen I met on
50:06the honeymoon.
50:07Usually I would be
50:09like okay cool I'm
50:10tapping out I'm not
50:10going to put myself
50:11through this.
50:12So if you don't want
50:13all of me to see you
50:14later mate.
50:16You can get fucked.
50:17Next time.
50:21On a scale of one
50:22to ten how strong
50:23are your feelings?
50:25The second dinner
50:26party serves up
50:27romantic confessions
50:28from Sam.
50:299.5.
50:32Do you have any
50:33regrets so far?
50:34While others face
50:35harsher truths.
50:38Yes.
50:39I feel like I'm
50:40constantly calling you
50:41out for things.
50:42I'm trying to be
50:42nice and then they're
50:43backfiring on me.
50:45I'm at a point of my
50:46life now.
50:47I need to know you
50:47want the same thing.
50:48I haven't got time
50:49to waste.
50:50But it's gossip in
50:51the group.
50:52He fucked a girl like
50:53two weeks before he
50:54came with you.
50:56Oi.
50:57That sparks the
50:58biggest conflict of
50:59the night.
50:59Who has decided to
51:00say I was talking
51:01about my sexual
51:02activity?
51:02You did?
51:03We were all there.
51:04People starting to
51:04fuck me off.
51:05That, that, that, that,
51:06that.
51:09You're fucking
51:09cunts.
51:10Wow.
51:11Did he just say
51:12that?
51:17Oh.
51:18All right.
51:34Bye-bye.
51:34Bye-bye.
51:36Bye-bye.
51:41Bye.
51:42Bye-bye.
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