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In this episode of Married at First Sight UK, the social experiment continues as couples navigate the complexities of their newly formed marriages. Watch as they face new challenges, deepen their connections, or confront difficult truths about their compatibility. Will love blossom or will the pressure prove too much for some?
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00:00Let's take it up a notch
00:01Previously
00:02While Charlene's intimacy workshop
00:06Spiced things up for some couples
00:09I think he wants it harder
00:10Charlene, you read my mind
00:11An emotional breakthrough
00:13I love how everyone just loves you as a person
00:16That was cute
00:17Helped Maeve and Jo flourish
00:19Honestly, I think he's amazing
00:20It's melting my heart
00:21He was just trying to have my back
00:23But unwelcome feedback on their marriage
00:26I was just telling them that you haven't been the same since the honeymoon
00:29Other people don't need to know my shit
00:31Set Stephen on a collision course
00:34Just stay out of my business
00:36I'm not trying to come to a new relationship
00:37I'm not
00:38Couldn't give a flying f*** if I'm completely honest
00:39I'm here for my relationship
00:40That is just a f***
00:42Tonight
00:46On a scale of 1 to 10
00:48How strong are your feelings?
00:50The second dinner party serves up romantic confessions from Sam
00:549.5
00:56Do you have any regrets?
00:59While others face harsher truths
01:02Yes
01:04I feel like I'm constantly calling you out for things
01:07Trying to be nice and then they're backfiring on me
01:10I'm at a point of my life now
01:12I need to know you want the same thing
01:14I haven't got time to waste
01:15But it's gossip in the group
01:17You f***ed were like two weeks before you came here
01:20Whoa
01:21Wait
01:22That sparks the biggest conflict of the night
01:25Who has decided to say
01:26I was talking about my sexual activity
01:28You did?
01:29We were all there
01:29People are starting to f*** me off
01:31That, that, that, that, that, that
01:32Wow
01:36Did he just say that?
01:38Do you want a tea, babe?
01:47Yeah, I'm spitting feathers
01:48That means you're angry
01:49No, it means like you're thirsty
01:51I thought it meant
01:52The feathers are coming out of your mouth
01:53You're so dry
01:54I always thought that meant you're annoyed
01:56Cookie, stop force-feeding me
02:00No, no
02:00Yeah, it didn't
02:01Great
02:01I don't want the cookie now you've licked it
02:04It's Maeve's 30th birthday today
02:14So I just want to make it as special as possible
02:17And celebrate her birthday together
02:19There you go
02:20That's not too bad
02:22Maeve
02:23She sometimes needs reassuring how special she is
02:26What the f***?
02:29Happy birthday
02:30Good writing, innit?
02:33And then, oh, it's tough
02:35Oh, my God
02:36All I wanted was a three and a zero balloon, wasn't that?
02:40Happy birthday
02:41Oh, thank you
02:42I've never been treated this well of a lad on my birthday, ever
02:47Me and Jo are in a really good spot right now
02:49I just feel like we're on cloud nine
02:50I feel very good about myself today
02:53What?
02:54Is it?
02:58Oh, sweetheart
02:59It's a bit salty, mate
03:01Oh, f***
03:02It's salty
03:03After the expats weekend
03:12We're getting help with Charlene
03:13Myself and Sarah
03:14We're growing romantically
03:15Now we're holding hands, you know
03:17Now we'll cuddle, you know
03:18It's slowly, slowly getting there
03:19Then we were doing really good
03:21But we had a blit
03:22Last night we had a massive argument
03:24We had had a few drinks
03:28And I really wish the argument hadn't happened
03:31Because we have had a really good week
03:33I put my foot in it again
03:35A member of the crew came down
03:38Where we were drinking
03:39And Sarah said
03:40Oh, if you were straight
03:41I'd be all over you
03:42Made me feel like
03:45I don't know if she'll ever feel that way about me
03:47So last night we had a massive argument
03:50Because I was like
03:51Do you think you'll ever fall for me?
03:53She said, I don't know
03:54And it did hurt
03:55I now have learnt from that
03:59And I have been apologising to Dean today
04:01She's saying she's not used to thinking
04:03For somebody else's feelings
04:05And she's like, I'm genuinely sorry
04:06It'll never happen again
04:07I'm here to find love
04:08And I'm putting everything into this
04:09So we're going to be strong
04:11And we're going to get through this
04:12You want a coffee, Grace?
04:19Yes, please
04:20Things with me and Ash are good
04:22Experts, we help the relationship
04:24We're getting more trusting
04:25And I'm relaxing more
04:27The workshop was helpful
04:28For taking the pressure off a little bit
04:30Do you find it awkward at all?
04:31I'm just private, aren't I?
04:33Does it make it more awkward
04:34That I wasn't awkward?
04:35No, I think that probably helped, to be fair
04:37Grace and I are really good
04:39But there's that constant communication issue
04:41Where my terminology isn't always correct
04:43It's normally silly things
04:45I woke up the other morning
04:46And her nails were overgrown
04:47And I was like
04:48Should we go and get your nails done?
04:49And her reply was
04:50I don't need to get my nails done for a man
04:51And I was like, okay
04:53It's not what I was saying
04:54But I get it
04:55How do I say this?
04:59When I met Ash
05:00I was so disappointed
05:01That I had this traditional person
05:03That wants a lady
05:04And a tomboy Barbie
05:05And all this bollocks
05:06It made me feel uncomfortable
05:08And not really me
05:09I've asked him not to comment
05:10On what I wear
05:11And how I look
05:11And how I am
05:12He continues to do it anyway
05:14Lynette and I are in separate apartments
05:23I have gave her plenty of space
05:26I thought Expert Week was good for us
05:29We did the questions task
05:31And I asked her some direct questions
05:33Which was what she wanted
05:35And I think that went quite positive
05:40Hello
05:41Hello lovely
05:42I'd like to walk into the dinner party together
05:45A show of strength
05:46A show of becoming closer
05:48I have my fingers crossed
05:50It's a nice frock, isn't it?
05:52Thanks
05:52I joined this experiment
05:54And said that I would give it 100%
05:55But I don't know how I feel about my marriage
05:58I've hardly asked any questions about me
06:01I don't want to ask
06:02Since their honeymoon
06:04I don't know if that's all for the marriage
06:05Issues with communication
06:07I know your three children's names
06:09Do you know my two?
06:11No
06:11No emotional connection
06:14No communication
06:15Just miles apart
06:17And a differing approach to the pace of their marriage
06:20Surely you should know what you want by now
06:22Are you expecting me to be fully committed after two weeks?
06:24Created problems for Anita and Paul
06:26You said it takes you time
06:29I just haven't got that time
06:30Love is something you build
06:33My time frame may be different from her time frame
06:37And that's going to be the sticking point
06:39Have you had a good week?
06:42Yeah, it's been better, yeah
06:42What about you?
06:44Don't know how I'm feeling
06:45I've took the expert advice on board
06:49Done the questions
06:52Feeling more open
06:54I don't want to give any wrong signals
06:58Well, let me reassure you, you're not
07:00How would you like to arrive?
07:05Personally, I'd like to go together
07:06I think we've had a better week
07:10We've been more communicative
07:12Spent time together
07:13Your choice, madam
07:15I don't know
07:20I'm not sure whether to go into the dinner party with Paul
07:27Obviously, you came here looking for love
07:29And Paul and I are on totally different pages
07:33Different books, to be honest
07:34He feels that if he does ask questions
07:38He feels like he's being intrusive
07:40He's being nosy
07:41As always, I don't know how he feels deep down
07:44I'm not sure what Paul wants, to be honest
07:47How do you think the week's gone?
07:56It's been up and downish
07:57The workshop with Charlene was interesting
07:59Yeah
08:00I wouldn't say that the intimacy workshop brought me and Leah closer
08:04Because intimacy is still not massively progressed
08:09We went through that whole situation where Leah was being flirty with Rebecca
08:12And it annoyed me
08:13I felt disrespected
08:15I just feel like they're going to ask us, have you done your homework?
08:18Yeah, but we're not in any rush to be doing anything that we don't want to do
08:23I'm frustrated
08:25I'm putting me all on the table
08:27Do I feel like I'm getting that back?
08:29Absolutely not
08:29We did take a load of different bits and pieces
08:31From the intimacy workshop
08:33But she's dug it under the bed somewhere
08:36And we haven't done anything or practiced anything at home
08:40I just hope it doesn't just stay in this friend zone
08:43Because we're here for a reason, aren't we?
08:51Thank you
08:52It's been a really tough week
08:56I have communicated to Stephen how I'm feeling
08:58But the effort's not there
09:01And I'm exhausted
09:03How's the rib?
09:07You know me
09:07I'm quite good with the pain, so
09:09They're putting up on me, so yeah, you must be good with the pain
09:11Yesterday, I fell over in the bathtub
09:15And broke my rib
09:17When I told Stephen
09:18I just felt like he didn't really care
09:20Because he ignored how I'm feeling
09:22And he didn't come home till gone
09:2411 at night
09:25Do you want to talk or not about when I broke my rib?
09:30Sure
09:30I felt deflated
09:32Not seeing you until very late at night
09:34That's just knocked me back a little bit
09:39I want to dismay, so I'm like a dick
09:41She's not been my priority this week
09:43My stepdad's in hospital
09:44It's hard to think of anything other than that
09:46We went out for drinks last night
09:50And we had Stephen with us
09:52There's things I don't agree with that were said
09:54Yeah, it is quite concerning
09:56Stephen should have been at home with Nelly
09:59But instead he was at the bar
10:00Bragging about his sex life
10:02Before the experiment
10:02That is just insane
10:05Nelly has no idea
10:07And I'm not 100% sure if I should bring it up at the dinner party
10:09I'm struggling with that
10:11I think tonight will be very telling
10:12Once there's a bit of heat on him
10:14How strong that bond really is now
10:16I don't know what is going on in that boy's mind
10:23Nelly fell
10:25Fractured her rib
10:26She was hurt
10:27And then he just decided to stay up with the boys all night
10:29I just don't know where his head's at
10:30Both Bailey and I are really close with Nelly and Stephen
10:34But it feels really muggy
10:36And I think he's treating her the wrong way
10:39My husband wouldn't disrespect me in that way
10:41And if he did then that would be it for me
10:43People are going to have an opinion on how they would have done things
10:49Generally couldn't care
10:52I am apprehensive about going into the dinner party
10:55People are going to have an opinion
10:57And he's going to get his back up
10:59Because people are piping in again
11:00They can say their own thing
11:03But I'll just dismiss it
11:05And then see how they like that
11:08Stephen doesn't take into account my well-being
11:10And I deserve better than that
11:12Do you care?
11:15Because every single person came and checked on me
11:17Apart from you
11:18I'm in agony
11:21I'm in pain
11:22Where were you?
11:36Here we are guys
11:37Dinner party number two
11:38I cannot wait to check in
11:40And see how all the couples are doing
11:41And of course right off the back of Experts Week
11:44Let's see if the couples put into practice
11:46Everything that they learned
11:48Take a look
11:49No one in here
11:55First ones
11:56Julia Reef and Devaney
11:58Last time we saw these two
12:00They were not in a great place
12:01For Experts Week
12:02This couple had the values ranking task
12:05So it's going to be really interesting
12:06To see what that's done for them
12:07In terms of finding alignment
12:09Or otherwise
12:10Do you think anyone's going to come in alone?
12:12I don't think so
12:13I have Anita and Paul
12:14They're doing well
12:14Rooting for them
12:16How are you?
12:24Here's Lee and Leah
12:25Good
12:26Good
12:26The first thing
12:28Lee and Leah really struggled with intimacy
12:31So it'd be really interesting to find out
12:34Whether there has been some progress
12:36What have you guys been up to?
12:39We had intimacy week
12:40And there was literally just sex toys all over a table
12:43I got to take them in half time
12:45Have you used it since you've been back?
12:46No, then you put it all under the bed
12:47Really?
12:48All of it
12:49All of it under the bed
12:50Doesn't sound like they've been accessed
12:52Leah sounds quite disappointed
12:54The thing for me is that
12:56I mean, touch first base
12:57We haven't gone to second base
12:59Yeah
12:59So pulling out a dildo at this point
13:01Oh, God, aggressive
13:02You're actually going to, like, balls to the walls
13:04What have you got?
13:04The candle, the massage candle
13:06Shall we try that later?
13:07Yeah
13:08Let's make a pack now
13:09Yeah
13:10Don't just say it
13:10We're the witnesses
13:11We're the witnesses
13:11Yeah
13:12We'll do that
13:13Oh, I'm knocking your door tomorrow
13:15And I'm like, how did it go?
13:16If I'm not burnt tomorrow
13:17With candle wax
13:18Then she's a liar
13:18Well, it sounds like they might have shared a kiss
13:22Which is progress
13:23The question is
13:24Will Lee make good on that pinky promise?
13:27Let's see
13:28And Nilly and Steve?
13:32Are we talking about the fact that he went out all day
13:34When she had a broken rib and didn't come back
13:36And see if she was all right
13:37And everyone else was in the apartment looking after her?
13:39Yeah
13:39Oh, Nilly must be really suffering
13:41Yes
13:42I mean, it's not what you expect from your partner, is it?
13:45To have a broken rib
13:46And for them not to show up for you
13:47Something's going wrong there
13:49I think everyone came in and checked on her
13:51But Stephen
13:52Hey, hello
13:59Hi, gorgeous
14:01Rebecca and Bailey
14:03They look like a really strong couple
14:06And it's because they've managed to build
14:08Both a strong physical and emotional connection with each other
14:12They seem to be doing really well
14:13Hello, Gellie
14:14How are you?
14:15Hello
14:15Did our old, um, experts week
14:19We had values
14:20Okay
14:21Our values was like, complete opposite
14:23So we didn't align on the, the sex and the looks
14:27When did you put sex and looks?
14:28I put sex as number eight
14:32Well, I can imagine that Julia Ruth wasn't happy to hear that
14:37Because one thing we do know about Julia Ruth
14:39Is that sex is right up there
14:41It's very important for her
14:42He put sex, eight, and then looks as nine
14:45Oh my god
14:46Sex as eight for you is a no
14:49The thing that got me was that he had occupation and money
14:52Above sex and looks
14:53And I just was like, so you're more worried about someone's job
14:56Than you are
14:57The sexual connection with them
14:59Really?
15:01I would appreciate it if it was like, five, six, maybe something like that
15:04It was a man, I was like, eight
15:05Hey
15:11Hey
15:12Hi, everyone
15:13Maeve and Jo
15:15So I saw these two for experts week
15:17And we've had a really good session
15:18Maeve had a challenge around accepting compliments
15:20And I believe that we were able to work her through that hump
15:24So we had to do an exercise when I'm looking in the mirror
15:27Jo's got to give me a compliment
15:29Was she like, did you feel that?
15:31You would have hated that
15:32You would have hated it
15:33And then obviously then look at Jo and then repeat it back to him
15:36That's so nice
15:37We're in a fucking great spot, man
15:39Like, this morning, I actually woke up genuinely, like, buzzing
15:43I just felt very good where I was at, do you know what I mean, with her
15:46It's a good feeling
15:47So I just feel in a really good spot with her
15:48Yeah
15:49Go on, Sam, cheers to that, mate, yeah
15:51I feel like you two are actually closer
15:54Like, every time I see you, I'm like, oh, a bit closer, a bit closer
15:57We have had a wobbly week, haven't we?
16:00Our problem is, and I'm going to speak about this at the commitment ceremony
16:06Because I don't know where these feelings will come from
16:08I felt a bit of a type of way
16:11And Leah was being flirted with Rebecca
16:13I felt rubbed up the wrong way about it
16:18And we was having a bicker and I was like, look, you take a minute
16:21We'll come back and talk about it again
16:23It'll be interesting to watch it play out and see whether this really is
16:27Leah having deeper feelings for Leah
16:30Or whether her pride's been hurt
16:32Or is this triggers from her past relationships coming up and unsettling her?
16:36Oh, Paul
16:43How are you?
16:44On me on again?
16:45Oh, no, Paul's alone
16:47So him and Anita are still not going too well
16:50How are you, Rosanita?
16:51I have no idea, is she here?
16:53No, not yet
16:54You're in before her this time
16:55How are you?
16:56Yeah, my son
16:57Thank you
16:58Just last week Anita was talking very much about feeling that Paul wasn't listening to her
17:02Wasn't asking her questions or really engaging with her
17:05By the looks of things, there might not have been any improvement
17:09Do you want to like her though?
17:11Yeah
17:12I need to take time and I build and I build and I build
17:15The more I get into her mind, the more I get to know her as a human being
17:19The more chance of me is of loving her
17:22I'm disappointed that we didn't come together
17:24Because I've put quite a bit of effort in this week
17:27I hope she realises that my intentions are sincere
17:31And perhaps that time
17:34Is something she will give me
17:35I'd like to try and build
17:37Some kind of emotional connection
17:39Of course, yes
17:40I've started to build it
17:41That's good
17:45Oh
17:49Here she comes, we'll talk of the devil
17:52Oh, here's Anita
17:53How are you?
17:55You all right?
17:56Hello
17:57What are you talking about?
17:58What are you talking about?
18:00You all right?
18:01Well it looks like Paul missed Anita
18:03The question is if Anita missed Paul
18:05She looks nice, doesn't she?
18:06Yeah
18:07With her dress on
18:08She looks lovely
18:09All the compliments that Paul has are beautiful
18:13But is he saying this to Anita?
18:15Why are you coming separately?
18:16Did you start overthinking?
18:18This morning I did
18:19Just didn't want to give him any
18:20Oh
18:21What's hope?
18:22Yeah
18:23I wanted to go in separate from Paul tonight
18:25Because I still believe that he's on a self-discovery journey
18:29And I'm on a love journey
18:31I have no idea what Paul's thinking
18:33I've wasted 17 years
18:34I don't want to do that again
18:36It's quite notable that after a 17 year relationship that never progressed
18:41This weighs heavily on her
18:43This is about past triggers from previous relationships
18:50Yay!
18:51Ashley and Grace
18:52What an entrance
18:53You look dashing in your lilac
18:55Thank you very much
18:56How are you honey?
18:57Good?
18:58So my wife brought it for me
18:59Oh!
19:00Wow
19:01Oh my wife
19:06How are you?
19:07I feel a bit intense you know
19:08I think you're definitely warming up to him
19:11Yeah
19:12Yeah
19:13I just feel he's just getting a bit...
19:15I don't think he is
19:16But then I worry like...
19:17We've just had a few conversations this week
19:19Just about like...
19:21I don't know
19:22Speak it out
19:23For sake
19:24Ash made the mistake of telling me I needed to get my nails done
19:27And I was like Ash no one's going to tell me how to have my nails done
19:29So I was going to tell me what outfits were
19:31That's for me
19:32This is a big one for Grace
19:34You know as an independent woman
19:36Having a man tell her what to wear
19:39How to do her nails
19:40This is really rubbing her the wrong way
19:42And this goes deep into her values
19:44This is not something she's just going to get over
19:46This is something that the two of them really need to
19:49Very carefully navigate together
19:51I'm really confused at the moment
19:52No
19:53Do you know what I mean?
19:54No no no
19:55I'm really good couple
19:56I'm really good
19:57And the fact that
19:58The way I say things isn't necessarily what I mean
20:00But
20:01Yeah
20:02Things like I turned around and I was like
20:03Oh your nails look like you need to in
20:04Like should we go and get your nails done?
20:05And then she's like
20:06I don't need to get my nails done for me
20:07Yeah
20:08And I was like
20:09That's not what I meant
20:10That's not what you meant at all
20:11Yeah but it's like a constant thing
20:12So we're clashing
20:13But then also like
20:14We went out last night
20:15And of course I knew where I was going
20:16But it was a surprise
20:17So she got ready
20:18And then she was like
20:19You look lovely
20:20But have you got a dress?
20:21And that's because
20:22I'm not telling you to wear a dress
20:23I'm just saying
20:24I know where we're going
20:25You should have probably told her before she got dressed
20:27Yeah I'm sorry
20:30When Ashley says things like wear a dress
20:32I think there are lots of women that will be like
20:34Don't you tell me what to do?
20:36Because if she's saying that this is offensive
20:38Then what we would want from Ashley
20:40Is for him to take that on board and make changes
20:42So here's that opportunity to question his partner
20:45And say what do you need?
20:46How do we interact around this?
20:49Can I talk to him?
20:58I just found it very weird that Stephen
21:00Oh fuck me dude
21:02He was talking to the group
21:04And he was bragging about how he's on Raya
21:06And how he had like fucked a girl like two weeks before he came on here
21:12Oh come on Stephen
21:14Like he kept bragging about it
21:16Like if I called Maeve here
21:17Like she can like
21:18Thumbna
21:21Maeve
21:23What am I going to get in for?
21:26Sorry
21:27Okay
21:28When we were at the bar
21:29And then Stephen made the comment about
21:31Him being on Raya
21:32And the celebrity girl
21:33And then fucking
21:35Yeah
21:36So what I'm gathering here
21:38Is that Stephen's out
21:39With all the other guys
21:40Bragging about
21:41Being with other women
21:42On the internet dating site
21:44Is not a good look
21:45But my real concern here is that
21:47Nellie's at home
21:49With a broken rib
21:50She's feeling pain
21:51Probably quite vulnerable
21:52And really needs that support of her partner
21:54And it sounds like he hasn't shown up
21:56It wasn't just like one comment
21:59It was like
22:00Oh yeah
22:01And then I did this
22:02And then I did that
22:03And then also when I went with her
22:04There was someone else that I went with
22:05And we were just like
22:06This would be really hurtful for Nellie
22:08If this gets back to her
22:09It's really going to reinforce any insecurities
22:11That she's having in this relationship
22:13And her doubts about whether Stephen's interested in her
22:15South border
22:21I think he's a cheeky bastard
22:29You guys are amazing
22:31Hi
22:32Stephen and Nellie
22:33I'm shocked
22:34They actually seem pretty happy
22:36Poor Nellie
22:37None the wiser
22:38How are you getting on today?
22:42So obviously I broke my rib
22:44And then he didn't come home until like
22:46Yes
22:47Which really upset me
22:48And I told him at the time
22:49I just don't want to rock the boat
22:51Because I feel like anything I do is
22:52But you're not rocking the boat at all
22:53You're not the one who's rocking the boat
22:54I feel like
22:55If I say anything about how I feel
22:56Then
22:57No
22:58Is he how you fucking feel?
22:59I know but it just turns into
23:00Turn the fuck off
23:02At the end of the day
23:03You were injured
23:04But he still
23:05He still chose the boat
23:06With the lads
23:07For hours and hours
23:08And he was a five minute walk away
23:10So Nellie's talking about
23:11Being in this vulnerable position
23:13And not wanting to say anything to him
23:14Because she doesn't want to rock the boat
23:16It's a very dangerous position
23:18Walking on eggshells
23:19In a relationship
23:20And that's precisely what she's doing right now
23:22Yeah
23:25What's going on?
23:26Everything good or?
23:29Mhm
23:30Yeah
23:32More little bickering's going on
23:33Yeah
23:34I'm gonna go chat with Stephen
23:36You know he gets really annoyed about people
23:38I don't give a shit
23:40I feel like it's gonna go badly
23:42Right
23:43Nellie's really panicking
23:44Want a chat?
23:45Yeah
23:46Come on
23:47I'll be back
23:48Here we go
23:49Oh hell
23:57So
23:58Yes
23:59Things are getting said
24:00And I'm obviously coming to you prior
24:02To it going back to Nellie
24:04Mm
24:05Why did you not come back all day all night?
24:06I said this to Nellie
24:08I've had an emotional challenge week
24:09And my stepdad's in the hospital
24:10So yeah
24:11She's not been my priority this week
24:14Which I've held my hands off for
24:15Oh that's why
24:17Okay
24:18Which is why I didn't come home the other night
24:20Which again held up
24:22Yeah it didn't look good
24:23I'm not gonna lie
24:24Like it was a shit move from you
24:26Something's happening with his stepdad
24:28That must be very hard
24:30I think it does help us understand his behaviour
24:33There's external pressures bearing down on Stephen
24:36He was pulling back
24:38Just listen to everything first
24:40Cause I know you'll get up and go wild
24:42I have Steve make comments about like um
24:47Having sex with a celeb
24:50Oh hell
24:51Two weeks before he came here
24:53It became raggy
24:55We're just looking at each other
24:57Thinking what the fuck do you even say about that
24:58When your wife's at home with a broken rib
25:00Yeah
25:01Poor Nellie
25:02She's been cheated on in three relationships
25:04So you can imagine her alarm bells will be going off
25:08I'm such an idiot
25:09No no no
25:10You've knocked her out
25:11The night that I hurt my rib and he didn't come home
25:15Stephen's obviously discussing who he's been with
25:18When your girl's at home
25:20I feel like an absolute fool for letting my guard down
25:23Just feel like he cares about himself
25:26Sorry to encroach
25:31If you care about Nellie
25:33And you want it to go somewhere truly
25:36You've got to be smarter about what you're doing
25:39The stuff that you've done so far don't look great
25:42Some of the things do look sticky
25:44They just look dodge
25:48I don't like the fact that everyone's getting involved in Nellie's relationship
25:51People sticking their two pence in
25:52I hate it from the off
25:53The way they go about their business
25:54They can fuck off
25:55Dean and Sarah
26:02At the intimacy workshop they both really gave it a good shot
26:06Whether the sexual attraction has grown though I'm not sure
26:09Come and sit down and say hello
26:12Are you and Dean getting on?
26:13It's tough
26:14Yeah
26:15Just have a little bit of an argument
26:16I think you've probably heard
26:18Yeah
26:19Don't know if you heard
26:20We had our first like argument
26:21She said to one of the crew members that if he was straight she would sleep with him
26:24Ugh
26:25Last time we saw Sarah and Dean at the commitment ceremony
26:28We were quite firm with Sarah about some of the quite disrespectful comments she made about Dean
26:33She's made another one and she's hurt his feelings again
26:36If my missus said something like that I would probably take advantage to it
26:39I would definitely put up for it
26:41Are you okay though as well?
26:43Yeah I know
26:44Because obviously it sounds like it was quite a heated thing
26:45No it was yeah
26:46It just kind of caught me
26:47I was like I don't think you're ever going to say that to me
26:48So then that triggered that
26:49Yeah
26:50And then I went upstairs like I don't think I can stay
26:52Because I don't think you're ever going to
26:53Ever going to feel that way about me
26:55And she went I don't know if I will
26:57I was like what am I doing here
26:58Yeah
26:59Because that's what I meant
27:00Sticking up for yourself is perfectly fine
27:01Yeah
27:02I find it quite up and down and things
27:03I'm glad that Dean and I are getting on and we are getting better
27:06Normally having arguments but as long as you're taking something positive out of them
27:09And these are things that you've gone through and you're not going to go through again
27:12And then yeah
27:13Yeah we did have yeah
27:14So we're actually like probably in the best place we've been in
27:16Dean wants this relationship more than anything
27:19But hopefully he's able to identify what his self-worth is
27:22Before he places priority on the relationship
27:24Yeah
27:25My real concern for Dean here is that his expectations are so low
27:29That almost anything Sarah offers him he's going to be prepared to accept
27:33Yes
27:35You don't deserve this
27:36I don't deserve this
27:37I deserve better
27:38Someone out there will give me better
27:42What he needs to do now is he needs to figure out how he's getting out of this
27:44That's what he's doing
27:45Mmm
27:47It's going to be bloody tough mate
27:50You need to ask him
27:53Let it go
27:54I think it's time
27:55Go
27:56Go
28:01This has been a fun start to the dinner party innit?
28:03Mmm
28:04Extremely fun
28:05Apparently there's a lot of stuff going about
28:06Mmm
28:07I've been told apparently a few weeks before you'd hooked up with some said Lister
28:16And you were talking about the sexual stuff that you'd done with her
28:21I wasn't
28:22So has that come out completely
28:23Fuck of me who the fuck has said that?
28:25People have heard it
28:27Do you know how it feels to come in here and everyone tell you this is how Steven's been acting
28:32When I've already been upset with how you've been behaving anyway
28:38Two weeks before an experiment Nelly man
28:40Do you know how fucking silly that is?
28:41Why is it coming into the experiment?
28:45Don't get mad at me
28:47Fucking clownish man
28:49So this is interesting looking at Steven's default reaction to being confronted with his behaviour is to get defensive, angry and deflect
29:03You're speaking about ex-partners that you've been with on the night when you should have been at home with me
29:08Oh wow
29:10Wow, wow, wow
29:14Are you going to listen to what I'm saying?
29:15I'm listening but I'm finding it fucking laughable Millie, to be honest
29:20Well I'm laughable
29:21No, I'm finding this situation laughable
29:23Okay, I'm not finding it funny
29:24So if you are finding it funny, great
29:26These are my feelings and I'm not finding it very funny
29:29Okay?
29:31What?
29:32Guys?
29:33Guys?
29:39Oh God
29:41Who has decided to say I was talking about my sexual activity with this fucking Z-lister?
29:46Did it happen at a bar?
29:47Was I talking about how great your sex was?
29:48I mean you did talk about who you were having sex with on Raya, I guess
29:51No I was not
29:53At the bar you did?
29:54You weren't there?
29:55Davani, Maeve, you were there so what is it?
29:57Huh?
29:58I've just said I don't
30:00Hey, please I don't want to get involved with this
30:04Davani, don't leave me hanging, no seriously
30:07You did?
30:08No I didn't darling
30:09Oh
30:12What's interesting though is Davani has not said a word
30:15Mmm
30:16We were all there, Dean, Sarah, Maeve
30:20Some people are really starting to fuck me up
30:24I wouldn't lie about that, seriously
30:26You said that
30:27All right, of course
30:28Of course
30:29Yes, because I spoke so openly about my sexual activity with people
30:32You did, you said she gave sloppy head
30:36Whoa
30:39She gives what?
30:40She gave sloppy head
30:41Sloppy head
30:44Let me ask a question here
30:46Two weeks before I started the experiment, why the fuck does it matter?
30:49Okay
30:50It's fine
30:51Why the fuck it matter?
30:52Who I date beforehand
30:53Why the fuck does it matter what I do?
30:54Maeve, you didn't win
30:55No, because people are starting to fuck me off
30:56That, that, that, that
30:57That
30:58Need to fucking realise shit
31:00Fucking bollocks, man
31:04That's a fucking loop
31:05I ain't going over there
31:06Fuck this
31:07You fucking said it
31:10You alright?
31:11No, I'm not fucking alright
31:12They're all fucking cunts
31:23People are starting to fuck me off
31:24That, that, that, that
31:26Need to fucking realise shit
31:29Fucking bollocks
31:30Wow
31:31Did he just say that?
31:32He did
31:33He's under pressure
31:34He's back against the wall
31:35He's been confronted with things that he said he cannot cope and so he's attacking everyone else and this is ugly
31:43Currently with Stephen I don't know where I'm at, obviously I'm going to be thinking what the hell is going on and you were sat there getting annoyed at me that I'm believing these people, why would Julia Ruth and Maeve like, they're not going to?
32:00You are?
32:01You are?
32:02You are?
32:03You are?
32:04You are?
32:05You are?
32:06You are?
32:07You are?
32:08You don't have to talk?
32:09You don't have to say nothing, cool?
32:10You are?
32:11You are?
32:12You are?
32:13You are?
32:14You don't have to talk?
32:15You don't have to say nothing, cool?
32:16Fucking idiots man
32:17I know, I know
32:18Just chewing it and have a breather for a second geese
32:19You're saying that you've done this, you've done that but then you haven't even fucking seen your wife?
32:22That's what everyone's
32:23And then you don't take accountability for it and then you want to shout at everyone?
32:24You said it, what do you mean who said it?
32:25You said it, but then it you said it came out of your mouth
32:26but then it, obviously if you said it more than once
32:27You didn't pipe up
32:28Hey
32:29You left me
32:30I didn't leave you
32:31You left me
32:32I didn't leave you
32:33I didn't leave you
32:34You did?
32:35Just disappointed in Davani
32:39He just could have said something
32:40I didn't like how that was handled
32:42And he needs to have my back next time
32:44Hey
32:46hey
32:49You don't have to say anything
32:51C'est parti !
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36:52C'est comme ça, tous ces choses sont factées dans cette semaine
36:55et j'ai déjà été open et émotionnelles
36:57sur des choses que je n'ai jamais pu parler d'avant
36:59parce que je suis un person de closed-off.
37:02Je pense que c'est clair ici que, oui, il y a beaucoup de choses à faire à la maison,
37:06mais ce qui n'est pas bien c'est comment il s'est treating Nelly.
37:09C'est pas ça.
37:10Steven, je pense que le point de ce que tu dois dire en ce moment,
37:13c'est qu'il faut dire que, oui, il s'est foutu à l'heure.
37:14C'est ce que je disais, et je disais ce que je disais.
37:18Mais maintenant, c'est comme ça, je dois dire,
37:20et je dois dire, je dois dire, juste pour placer tout à l'heure.
37:23Et c'est ce qui se fait, c'est ce qui est fait.
37:25Tu sens que tu as une apology ?
37:29Donc, tu m'as excuse évidemment, le moment que tu as m'aies en,
37:32mais je pense que ce qui me aimes,
37:34c'est pas que tu as disais, tu ne s'as pas à dire de la famille
37:36depuis ce moment, tu ne sais pas, tu ne sais pas.
37:37Tu as des choses de choses que tu ne pense pas est appropriée,
37:40et c'est ce que tu as dit, où tu as mis à l'hômes.
37:44Les mots sont greats, mais je veux juste d'action.
37:46Je ne peux pas faire du même dans 24 heures
37:49...to show that action, it needs to be over time, so I've said sorry and not even 24 hours has passed and then we've got another issue that we've got to deal with.
38:00I feel like I'm getting frustrated now because it's at the point where I'm trying to look at the good in everything.
38:06And I just find that sometimes my feelings get dismissed.
38:11Don't roll your eyes at me.
38:13Sorry, can I just say it because that's uncomfortable at the moment.
38:16The minute... No, no, no.
38:19It's uncomfortable, Stephen, your reaction to when Nelly goes to talk about how she feels.
38:23Well, good on Lee for standing up for Nelly and actually calling this out because this is passive-aggressive behaviour and it is dismissive.
38:32You've got your head in your hands, you're rolling your eyes, you're having...
38:35I'm extremely dismissed in what I'm saying.
38:37I just... It's a little bit difficult to watch my life.
38:39Are you joking?
38:40Here's the honesty box where we get to ask difficult questions but always bring out the truth.
39:06Right, are you ready?
39:12What are you finding the hardest about being in this experiment?
39:16I think, obviously, you know my past.
39:20From a really young age, I was addicted to the party lifestyle.
39:24Yeah.
39:25And I think being round, like, the drinking environment is what I'm really struggling with.
39:31But that's where you've been so amazing.
39:33And I think, obviously, you love getting pissed.
39:36I do, yes.
39:37But, and that's very much part of your lifestyle, but I think you've really adapted to me.
39:43And sometimes I've said I feel like I'm sucking the fun out of you sometimes, but you're saying that's not the case.
39:48Just, like, compromising me really well and I just don't want to be in that environment all the time.
39:53Yeah, I suspect that.
39:54Thank you.
39:55Thank you.
40:01Why are you not just the best human now?
40:03Aww.
40:05I'm embarrassed now.
40:06That was really brave of Joe, I think, to open up and talk about the struggles he's had in that social environment in the past,
40:14and that this is quite tricky for him.
40:15It shows real vulnerability.
40:21Julia Roof, do you feel like we are on the same team?
40:29No, we're not always on the same team, no.
40:31Last week was telling that we, like, maybe weren't, and then I think today, I don't need anyone to, like, fight my battles.
40:42I can do that.
40:43But I think if I'm calling your name, I need you to step up and, and be there.
40:47I don't care if you like conflict or not or if that's your boy.
40:51You could have done a bit better in that regard.
40:54Yeah.
40:55That's what it is.
40:57I really appreciate Julia Roof's honesty here because, fair enough, Devani could say, I didn't know you needed my support, but she actually called his name and he still didn't help her.
41:09Right, Anita, young lady, why didn't you want to come to the dinner party with me?
41:18Initially, I did think, yeah, we can go to the dinner party together.
41:21There's, there's no harm in that.
41:23But then I thought, I'm not sure where Paul has placed us.
41:29Is he thinking friendship or is he wanting more?
41:32Okay.
41:32So that was me kind of taking a step back.
41:35Mm-hmm.
41:37Judge me after six, eight, ten weeks. Don't judge me after two weeks.
41:40I'm getting more fond of her the more I spend time with her.
41:43Yeah.
41:43And that's fair.
41:44And Anita, is that, would you, is that friendship? Is that not a good base?
41:48I'm at a point of my life now where I need to know where I stand.
41:52I need to know you want the same thing and I haven't got time to waste.
41:56You've got ten weeks in you. You're not fucking dying.
41:58Time's precious.
41:59Seems like the issue is on both of their sides.
42:03They're moving at totally different speeds.
42:05Anita's said that she has no time to waste.
42:08Paul, on the other hand, is comfortable with the slow and steady approach.
42:11It takes him time to form a bond.
42:17Go on, Leah.
42:20How have your feelings changed for me this week?
42:23I feel like my feelings for you have changed this week
42:27because in the Rebecca situation,
42:30I realised that I obviously had feelings towards you
42:34because I was bothered by it.
42:38And if I didn't have any feelings towards you at all,
42:41it wouldn't have bothered me.
42:42Grace.
42:48What?
42:50That was a cheek, wasn't it?
42:52She swerved her.
42:53It's not total rejection,
42:55but it is stating a boundary when it comes to intimacy.
43:01Grace, what's the biggest challenge in our marriage for you?
43:04I think a challenge I'm having is that in speaking with you,
43:11I do sometimes feel it's, like, put back to me, like,
43:14well, you're just, you know, I can't understand you.
43:16I don't, you know...
43:17And I think, how do we get to a place where I feel comfortable,
43:20but you don't feel nagged and, like,
43:23you don't feel like I'm constantly calling you out for things and...
43:27But everything you've kind of called me out on,
43:28I'm genuinely, I'm trying to be nice and I'm trying to do these things,
43:31and then they're backfiring on me.
43:33Yeah.
43:34What sort of things, like...
43:36So, little things, so, like, the nails incident.
43:39In my head, I was thinking,
43:40right, your nails are, like, overgrown,
43:42and let's take you out to get your nails done.
43:43I meant it in, like, let me treat you, let me take you out.
43:46To clarify, he didn't say, like,
43:47oh, can I treat you to get your nails done?
43:49He didn't say that, he was like...
43:51The way you say it isn't the way I said it is.
43:53OK, well, we're doing...
43:53There's three sides to every story. How did you say it, then?
43:55I got sisters in that, so there was a gap in the back,
43:57and I was like, your nails are overgrown.
43:58That's when you go to get your nails done.
43:59I was like, sorry?
44:00And he was like, yeah, I prefer French tips.
44:02And that wasn't said all in one thing, neither.
44:04I said, here's a French tip.
44:05No, no, no.
44:06Fuck off!
44:09I wouldn't have said it like that.
44:10What he meant to say.
44:11I'm not going to be a person that tells you,
44:12like, you need to get your nails done,
44:13or you need to wear this, or you need to do that.
44:15I'm not that person.
44:16I've never been that person.
44:17Forget the terminology.
44:19Do you think it came from a genuinely nice place,
44:21or do you think he was actually saying, like...
44:22In the moment, I was like, easy, Tiger.
44:24I'll manage my own alley cat.
44:26And I was like, you're all good.
44:27And I was like, car, that is really bothering me.
44:29And it was just a few things, like,
44:31I'd put an outfit on, and Ash would be like,
44:33haven't you got a dress you can wear?
44:34No, no, no.
44:34No, no.
44:35Again.
44:36So I booked a fancy meal and a show.
44:39And you said, do I look good?
44:40I said, you look amazing, but have you got, like, a dress?
44:42Because I knew where we were going, and you didn't.
44:46The real test of a mature relationship
44:49is your willingness to compromise,
44:51and also to listen to what your partner's saying.
44:54They both have two very different versions
44:56of the same event.
44:57So it's really difficult to know what the intention is.
45:01I'm with you.
45:01I'm confused.
45:02I feel like there's a reluctance on both of their parts
45:05to seek deeper.
45:07In this scenario, it's become quite apparent to everybody.
45:12Gracie is very independent,
45:14doesn't need anybody else's opinion.
45:16And so I think, given that you're her husband,
45:18and that you've probably taken that on board...
45:20But I am trying my best.
45:22I know you are.
45:22I know you are in so many ways.
45:24But I'm also, I'm not, like,
45:25I think Grace thinks that she's the bad person in it,
45:27but she's not.
45:27No, she's not.
45:28I understand that, I completely understand
45:30that I take full responsibility,
45:31that it is the way I say it,
45:33and the way it's presented.
45:34Yeah.
45:34I get that.
45:35But I'm not blaming Grace.
45:36I'm taking responsibility for it.
45:37Well, okay.
45:39Yeah.
45:40We have this issue of, like,
45:42struggling to understand each other.
45:43But for us to progress,
45:47we need to get on the same page.
45:49That's the challenge we face.
45:54On a scale of one to ten,
45:56ten being love,
45:58how strong are your feelings for you?
46:01Ooh!
46:02Ooh!
46:02Ooh!
46:03Ooh!
46:0512 wasn't on it.
46:06One.
46:07Be honest, Bailey.
46:09Um, I am a firm 9.5.
46:12Ooh!
46:16Wow!
46:17Ooh!
46:19That's strong.
46:20That's strong.
46:21Oh, my gosh.
46:21You round up.
46:22He's a ten.
46:23My heart is literally like...
46:24I don't know how much more I can say.
46:27I am falling,
46:30and I like the way it's going.
46:31Can't imagine you're not in my life.
46:33Why couldn't you just give me a ten?
46:35Listen, maybe the ten will come.
46:36Give me a moment.
46:38Listen, 9.5,
46:39maybe I'm holding a little something back,
46:42but honestly, yeah,
46:43it's nearly there.
46:44It's nearly, nearly there.
46:46But I'm sure it's not going to take too long.
46:51OK.
46:52Sarah,
46:53do you have any regrets so far?
46:55Yes, I do.
46:59I regret the last dinner party
47:03and the comments that I obviously made to the girls
47:05that were brought up to the commitment ceremony.
47:06And I apologise again to you.
47:08I know I've apologised quite a bit now for it,
47:11but I do regret that,
47:11and I'm really sorry.
47:13And our argument as well,
47:15I wish that hadn't happened,
47:16but it has,
47:17and we've dealt with it.
47:18We all have blips,
47:19but if we communicate as we did
47:21and get over it,
47:22like, we're going to come out stronger,
47:23then I think we'll be fine, you know?
47:25We'll be good.
47:25Thank you.
47:26It's great that Sarah took responsibility,
47:29but Dean so quickly
47:30dismissed his own feelings in that.
47:33And there was no mention
47:34of how she made him feel,
47:37and he made no mention of how he felt.
47:39Yeah.
47:39It is lovely that Dean has,
47:42you know,
47:42he speaks so highly of me,
47:45and that's what I mean.
47:46He's just so lovely.
47:48So,
47:49yeah,
47:50I don't really know how to, like,
47:51deal with it,
47:52so I just,
47:53I don't want to cause any problem.
47:56We are in a better place
47:57than we were last week, I hope.
47:58I really am trying,
48:00and I'm trying to, like,
48:00hold his hand and hug him and stuff.
48:03I don't know if it ever will come.
48:09Canella?
48:14Oh, no.
48:15All right.
48:16Do you trust me?
48:21Um,
48:22I don't know.
48:30The only thing I struggle with is,
48:32can I trust you with my heart?
48:35I like to think we can get there.
48:39Words are great,
48:40but I just need action to back it.
48:42That's all.
48:45I just don't want to be broken at the end.
48:47I don't know how I've got that much making up to do.
48:49It can't just be what I've got to compromise on.
48:52It needs to be a better happy balance,
48:54otherwise it's purely I'm give, give, give,
48:56and she's just receive, receive.
48:57What a fucking day.
48:59The way I'm feeling right now and after today,
49:00I generally don't know if I'm going to be staying or leaving,
49:03so a lot of things to do overnight.
49:05Next time.
49:14I'll get bored saying the same thing over and over again.
49:16What do you keep saying?
49:16Don't antagonize me then.
49:17Don't raise your voice at me.
49:18Nellie and Stephen continue to clash.
49:21Fucking idiot.
49:22Why am I liking someone who's treating me like this?
49:23Ahead of a tense.
49:24We have hit an issue this week.
49:27If this is the way it is,
49:29I can't do this forever.
49:30and emotional commitment ceremony.
49:33My mindset really hasn't shifted that much.
49:36Sorry, I've just got to jump in.
49:37It's time to actually take responsibility.
49:40This week has been awful.
49:42It's been hell.
49:44I don't know who you are.
49:45I don't know who you are.
49:46I don't know who you are.
49:47I don't know who you are.
49:48I don't know who you are.
49:49I don't know who you are.
49:50I don't know who you are.
49:51I don't know who you are.
49:52I don't know who you are.
49:53I don't know who you are.
49:54I don't know who you are.
49:55I don't know who you are.
49:56I don't know who you are.
49:57I don't know who you are.
49:58I don't know who you are.
49:59I don't know who you are.
50:00I don't know who you are.
50:01I don't know who you are.
50:02I don't know who you are.
50:03I don't know who you are.
50:04I don't know who you are.
50:05I don't know who you are.
50:06I don't know who you are.
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