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00:00Sous-titrage Société Radio-Canada
00:30The group's damning verdict on Devani's marriage
00:37Set him on a collision course with his wife
00:51When people ask you about have we been intimate, you've still been saying no, lying to people's faces, because we have
00:58I didn't want to talk about sex on camera
01:00You can be honest
01:01I looked like a complete fool today
01:03You want everything to be done your way
01:05No respect for me at all
01:07I don't know where we go from here
01:12Tonight
01:13You will be participating in Love Hate Week
01:17A new task
01:18I'm excited about the love part, but I'm not excited about the heat
01:20Brings some couples closer
01:22I love us
01:23I love that you're completely authentically yourself
01:25It's the best thing about you
01:26But forces tensions to the surface for others
01:30You'll quite happily shift the blame to me
01:32I can't win with you
01:33This isn't me, I just don't know that
01:35Grace is f***ing hard work
01:37And while secrets and betrayal still plague Julia, Ruth and Devani
01:41I don't care whether people know that we have sex or not
01:44You do
01:45I said we've had attraction issues
01:47If you're embarrassed of me, why have sex?
01:49Jo and Maeve's reunion is less than a happy one
01:53Can you really see us working on the outside?
01:56I'm feeling overwhelmed
01:58But why?
01:59That's how I feel
02:00What the f*** going on?
02:10Morning boxing club, yeah?
02:11Ready?
02:12Yeah, go
02:13Go
02:15Is that good?
02:16Good, yeah
02:17I wouldn't want that in my chops
02:18How was yesterday?
02:19Your husband had fun
02:21Mmm
02:22Mmm
02:23What did you do actually?
02:24A tequila mostly
02:25I'll love that
02:26So, I'm gonna teach you of Arabic dancing
02:30Step one is all about movement in the hips
02:33Okay
02:34Yesterday's day out was a lot
02:36I feel bad because like, obviously me and John are so happy
02:39Yes, love it
02:41Both me and John are trying to just enjoy what we have and have a great time
02:45Now add a bit of like, arms
02:47My feelings are so strong towards Abby at the moment
02:49She is incredible
02:51She makes me a better person every single day
02:55Yeah, that's really good
02:57You're a natural
02:59What do you reckon of your day out? Mine went off
03:04Same
03:05There was a question in one of our games which was, which couple do you think won't last?
03:09Yeah
03:10Yeah
03:11The bigger vote at my side was Julia Ruth and Devani
03:13How was it?
03:14I'm pretty pissed off at Julia Ruth at the moment to be honest
03:16After the spa day, Devani called me to his apartment to tell me that he's been sleeping with Julia Ruth this whole time
03:23It's quite shocking and I'm just fuming that she's been lying to everyone
03:27It's always been about him not doing enough
03:29But behind closed doors, he is doing all that stuff, he's making the effort
03:32He really does like Julia Ruth
03:34He does, yeah
03:35And they have been intimate
03:36And so it's like, you've just watched someone's character get ripped apart
03:39While you're a liar basically
03:41It's just not sat right with me at all, I feel so sorry for Devani
03:45Myself and Julia Ruth have slept separately due to a big argument that we had
03:53I haven't actually spoken to her yet
03:55We've been intimate and we did make the promise of we're not going to bring it to camera
04:00But at the same time, there's a narrative that's been spun
04:03Making me look some delusional guy
04:05And that's just disrespectful to me
04:10I feel embarrassed and betrayed by Devani
04:13I asked him to not talk about intimacy on camera
04:16The trust barrier has just been thrown out the window completely
04:20I think this is something that should have just been about the two of us
04:24Figuring that out and then bringing it forward
04:26But everyone else has been dragged into it
04:28I just thought we were on the same page in terms of not bringing it forward yet
04:31So I don't know why that trust was broken
04:36There's a conversation that needs to be had with Julia Ruth
04:39I need her to own up to what has actually transpired in the relationship
04:43And I just need to know if we're progressing forward together or separately
04:52Things with me and Bec this morning are not in a good place
04:54Bec's decided to stay in a different apartment
04:56We had an argument about a question that was asked on our separate days out
05:00Who's your secret crush amongst all the couples?
05:04My stereotypical type is Joe
05:07Like light eyes, lighter features
05:09Physically is my type
05:11Bec has made it clear during this whole process
05:14That if I'm ever asked to pick another girl in this experiment
05:17She said that would be disrespectful
05:19And the kind of man she would want to be with would never do that
05:22So she went against everything we stood for in this experiment
05:29I think Bailey's upset because he feels like I've disrespected him
05:33I'm just going to cry the whole way through
05:35What the fuck?
05:36Erm, yeah, I feel sad
05:40I'm upset at how he reacted
05:42Because I didn't think that Bailey had that side to him
05:44So that seeing that side upsets me
05:47I totally understand his feelings and his feelings are valid
05:50And I'm heartbroken that I've made him feel that way
05:54Because I care so much about him
05:56So I do feel awful about what I've done
05:59But I've got massively mixed emotions
06:02Because I've seen a side to him that I didn't like at all
06:06He was just so dismissive and so angry
06:08And he's just a completely different person
06:11And I didn't think that we would deal with conflict like this
06:21The big day out started really well when the spa and the jacuzzi
06:23Having a laugh and joking with some of the newbies
06:25I wasn't expecting other people getting involved
06:28Telling me that I should be doing this and I should be doing that
06:30Which caused that little bit of divide
06:34It was a lot with the big day out
06:36Hearing people say they think Steven likes me less than I like him
06:40It's uncomfortable
06:42A relationship shouldn't be like that
06:44Yeah, I just wish Steven would show me a bit more affection
06:47I shouldn't have to ask my husband to hold my hand
06:49He should just do it or want to do it
06:50That's what I'm normally used to
06:52That's what I like
06:53It's also what I want in a relationship
06:55If what we've got now is forever
06:57That's not for me
06:59How did your day out go?
07:05We had a great time
07:06There's been ructions after these days out
07:08Oh yeah
07:09Everyone's like gone in
07:10And you and I
07:11Grace and Ashley the golden couple
07:13Who's seen that coming, right?
07:14It's great up here at the top
07:16Last night I got a message from Joe saying that he's staying away from the apartment
07:29I felt so alone
07:30And I've never ever ever ever wanted to feel that way
07:33And I've never made him feel that way
07:35It's sad
07:36It's shit
07:37I know Joe's struggling
07:39I get that
07:40He's got a lot going on at the minute
07:42Obviously he's had a death in the family
07:44But today he's not replied my messages
07:47He's not rang me
07:48Like we've had no contact
07:49All I wanted was a message just to say everything's fine
07:53Yes, I get that you need space
07:55But like don't leave me hanging
07:58I spoke to Maeve after this party
08:00Her and Joe were staying separately
08:02You know
08:03I think I just I know he's struggling
08:06I had a conversation with him at the spa
08:08And he opened up to me
08:09So what are the problems?
08:11I think they just they owe it to each other to communicate it
08:14I think she just feels a bit like
08:16Where do I go from here?
08:18If he knows which way this is going
08:20Put her out of her misery
08:23Do you know which way it's going?
08:25No, not really
08:27It's just his and hers in it
08:32I feel like you know more than letting on
08:34No
08:35Joe mentioned to me that
08:37He maybe doesn't love Maeve
08:40The last thing I'd want to do is betray Joe's trust
08:42When he first opened up
08:44And go and tell
08:45Because I know if I was going to tell Grace
08:47She'd go straight to Maeve
08:48I feel like I'm between a rock and a hard place
08:50Hopefully he just opens up to her now
08:52And just tells her all his what he's thinking
08:54I'm nervous about seeing Bailey this morning because I haven't seen him yet
09:11I want to know if he's got any awareness around how he deals with conflict
09:15I did think it was weird that you did end up leaving
09:22I decided to leave because of the way you were being
09:24I thought I'm not spending a night like that with someone
09:27I didn't shout, didn't swear, I was just like no I don't want to talk
09:30So you didn't shout, you didn't swear
09:32You weren't confrontational, you weren't aggressive
09:34I'm not saying anything like that
09:35But you weren't who I knew you to be
09:37Like you were a completely different person
09:39You wouldn't let me come anywhere near you
09:41You wouldn't look at me in the eye
09:42I was upset
09:43But I didn't want to be around that type of energy
09:45You were like flipping this whole thing on me
09:47You had zero respect for me then
09:50The way you were acting as if I'd slept with the guy
09:54You were being rude and nasty
09:58You flew off the handle
10:01And you were too far
10:03That is not for me
10:06We had an agreement that I would never pick another girl in any discussion
10:10I said I wouldn't answer these questions
10:12And then you did it to me
10:14I couldn't believe you'd done it if I'm honest
10:31We had an agreement that I would never pick another girl in any discussion
10:35I said I wouldn't answer these questions
10:37And then you did it to me
10:39I couldn't believe you'd done it if I'm honest
10:41You did sound to upset me agreed?
10:44I did something to upset you 100%
10:45I was upset so you left because I was upset
10:46I left because I didn't want to be around that
10:47I also sat here and was like I'm done I'm done I'm done
10:48Yeah because I was annoyed
10:49Basically implying that you were done with me and our relationship
10:50You're just shouting at me you're just going in there
10:51Because you're annoying me
10:52This is like slapping someone in the face and then being like why are you crying like that?
10:54If I was asked who I fancy and I picked any of the other girls how would your reaction be?
10:59Would you sit there and like would you let me touch you?
11:00I wouldn't be as dismissive and angry as you were
11:01You said to me you would never be with a man that ever answered that question
11:02I know
11:03So you wouldn't be with me then?
11:04It's not
11:05So you would leave me?
11:06So your reaction would have been much worse because you've said it
11:07You said if you ever pick anyone else that we'd be done
11:08I know I appreciate all that
11:09I was like I'm going to be with someone in the face and then being like why are you crying like that?
11:12If I was asked who I fancy and I picked any of the other girls how would your reaction be?
11:16Would you sit there and like would you let me touch you?
11:18I wouldn't be as like dismissive and angry as you were
11:21You said to me you would never be with a man that ever answered that question
11:24I know
11:25So you wouldn't be with me then?
11:26It's not
11:27So you would leave me?
11:28That's what so your reaction would have been much worse because you've said it
11:31You said if you ever pick anyone else that we'd be done
11:33I know I appreciate all that
11:35I was just baffled that you said it
11:37That was it and I was hurt
11:41I felt so sad and upset today because I've hurt you
11:45Because you mean so much to me
11:47I am sorry for doing it because we've always had this protective bubble around us
11:53Of like having each other's backs
11:56And I feel like I have like popped it and like ruined what we've got
12:03I don't think it's popped, do you know what I mean?
12:05I do trust you
12:07I haven't changed how I feel or how I'll act
12:09You alright?
12:11Yeah?
12:13I don't want to make a big deal
12:15And move past it
12:16Yeah
12:17It's really emotional seeing Bec get upset
12:19You don't want to see anyone cry let alone your partner
12:21She made me think
12:22Fuck it up
12:23Wait I don't know what's wrong with me
12:25It makes me realise that I'm just happy going through this with her
12:28I just wouldn't be able to do it with anyone else
12:30I've got such deep feelings for him
12:34And I don't want a life without Bailey
12:36You moving back in?
12:38I'll move back in
12:39I'm having a meltdown
12:48Oh, I'm having a fucking meltdown
12:50Come on in
12:51My head's all over, of course it is
12:53I'm in limbo right now
12:54I don't actually know what's going on
12:55So I need to talk to someone
12:57And Grace is very honest
12:58And she just says how it is
12:59And that's what I need right now
13:03Oh, girl
13:04My head is just all over
13:06Yesterday
13:08He didn't come back
13:09So I've rang him
13:10Right
13:11He said he needs to have some time away from the apartment
13:14Okay
13:16That was it?
13:17How much space do you need?
13:18Do you know what I mean?
13:19I just feel like I'm just waiting here for something bad to happen
13:24He should be aware of how it's making you feel
13:33I just don't want to do this again
13:35I know
13:40It's every time
13:42Every time
13:43You think you've met someone
13:44And then they just fuck it up
13:46Do you know what I mean?
13:47I knew something bad was going to happen
13:49I tell you, didn't I?
13:50I knew
13:51This is what I always feel like
13:53It's always the case
13:56And you don't deserve it?
13:57I'm just tired, man
13:59I'm starting to wonder
14:02If Joe is maybe panicking
14:05And trying to
14:06Put the brakes on
14:08If that is the case
14:10Just tell her
14:11She deserves the truth and honesty
14:13Dragging it out
14:14If he has had a change of heart
14:16Is cruel
14:17Oh, Stephen
14:18It's an envelope of doom
14:19Oh, God
14:20A thriving marriage depends on couples accepting both the things they cherish about each other
14:32Gold letter
14:33Oh, no
14:34And the aspects they find more challenging
14:37Dear Abigail and John
14:39This week
14:40You will be participating in Love Hate Week
14:43Oh, wow
14:44Love Hate Week encourages newlyweds to openly share their preferences and frustrations
14:50Helping them build a solid base for their future together
14:53A realistic understanding of your partner encompassing both their strengths and weaknesses
14:58Is crucial for fostering honesty and acceptance
15:00Ooh
15:01Ooh
15:02List three things you dislike about your husband or wife
15:06I can't think of anything I dislike about you
15:10Then list three things you love about your husband or wife
15:14It'll be an interesting one, won't it?
15:15Mm
15:16Can't wait until we dislike about me
15:19Only three things that we love about each other as well
15:22You must have a long list
15:25Ooh
15:26I'm excited about the love part
15:27But I'm not excited about the heat
15:28Love bits will be easy
15:29Yeah, yeah
15:30And the hate bits will be easy too
15:31Yeah, I think it will be easy for you
15:37Well, he does nothing
15:38All right
15:39See you in a bit
15:40We'll see you in a minute
15:41I'm genuinely really intrigued to see what Leo puts for his hate
15:44I don't know if it will bring us closer together as a couple
15:46Because it's going to depend what he says
15:48I'll see if I agree
15:49Probably not
15:55Good luck
15:56Good luck
15:57The first half of Love Hate Week
15:59Let's do this
16:01Involves the couples spending time apart
16:03To write a list of the aspects of their marriage they find more challenging
16:07I am going to start
16:11You give more to others than to us
16:14Yes
16:15I've always been that person that has been there for other people
16:17Same with you
16:18You make sure that everyone is okay and you check on everyone
16:20We just need everyone else to pull their fingers out and sort their marriages out themselves
16:24I agree
16:25Honestly
16:26It's not that hard
16:27Honestly
16:28It's not that hard
16:29So
16:30You don't believe in yourself
16:33What I see in front of me is an absolutely amazing person
16:39And you're the best wife
16:40You're more than I can ever imagine
16:42And I just wish you could have more confidence in yourself about all of that
16:46I appreciate that
16:48Throughout my life I've had people put me down
16:50So I think that has like knocked my confidence like a lot
16:53So I do kind of like doubt myself and doubt am I good enough
16:56But it's definitely something that I am working on
16:58And you are helping me get there
17:00Like through the short time that I've known you already
17:02Like you have made me more confident within myself
17:05So yeah, thank you for that
17:07Yeah
17:08John is helping me believe in myself more and more
17:11And he makes me feel like I am good enough
17:13I'm just really excited because I'm just really happy
17:15And I've never ever like felt that way before about someone
17:23So April, the brutality of your honesty
17:28Sometimes I wonder whether it's deserved
17:30I agree, I can be a bit too brutal sometimes
17:33If it helps it's not just you, it is everybody
17:36You should be nice to your husband
17:38Okay, I don't think this would be a shock
17:42You're not very inquisitive
17:44No, I completely agree
17:45Sometimes when we have conversations
17:47I'd draw a blank or there's nothing much going on in my head
17:50I fucking knew it
17:52This is a monkey fucking clapping cymbals
17:56I would say our biggest issue is communication at the minute
17:58Because I genuinely feel like I've had way more deeper conversations
18:00With half people in this experiment than I have with Leo
18:02It's just very difficult to get a free flowing conversation out with Leo
18:05And that's where I'm struggling
18:07So it's not ideal
18:10It's not what you want from your partner
18:16Hi!
18:17How was that?
18:18Yeah, fine
18:19Off the back of the commitment ceremony
18:21I had a lot to think about
18:23And I was really emotional
18:24Because it was a massive realisation for me
18:26That I am still affected by my past
18:28And I've been holding back in this whole process
18:30So I've been more affectionate towards Leo
18:32And I feel like it's brought us closer together as a couple
18:35I do think this task will be helpful for me and Leo
18:38Because it's always good to work on that vulnerability
18:40So my one is
18:42You comment on how good looking you think people are
18:45I know you're not trying to be muggy or anything like that
18:48But I think maybe it's just that tiny little bit too far sometimes
18:51Yeah, I am very complimentary with people, yeah
18:54Maybe I go too far with it
18:56I think just to put your mind at rest
18:58I don't mean it in a way of, like, to ever disrespect you
19:01And I've never cheated
19:03And I never would cheat
19:04And I'd never disrespect you
19:05No, I know that now
19:06Obviously, I do want you to know that
19:07I do care about you a lot
19:09I do care about you a lot
19:10I care about you a lot
19:19OK
19:21I'm feeling nervous
19:23I don't actually have a clue what Rhys is going to say
19:25We've had a couple of different spats
19:27Is this going to create more drama between us?
19:30Honestly, I don't know
19:31I hope not
19:32You start unnecessary arguments
19:38Give me the receipts
19:39You made me breakfast
19:40I ate my breakfast
19:42And then after I said, Shia, do you want a cup of tea?
19:45Your response was, no
19:46Walking Shia slammed the door
19:47I thought, ooh, what's up with her?
19:49I was really hungry
19:50And I just kind of wanted you to, like, just, like, butter my toast
19:53So, to save the argument, I should have buttered your toast
19:56Yeah
19:57OK
19:58I'll try and, like, think about things before just saying it
20:01That's something that maybe I need to take on board
20:05All right, then, let me hear what you got
20:07Oh, God, OK
20:09OK
20:10I hate that you're not as spontaneous as me
20:13Fuck
20:14What?
20:15You're very strict bedtime, Rhys
20:18Nah, you go to bed different times every single night
20:24Yeah, I think I'm talking a little bit more like
20:28Oh
20:29You know, like
20:30No
20:31You know, like
20:32No
20:33Our sex life has very much been the same time every single night
20:36We don't need to just, like, wait till the bedroom to, like
20:39Like, any time, any place
20:41All right, yeah
20:42All right, yeah
20:43Yeah
20:44I was a bit surprised because, to me, we are getting all right on that
20:48But I'm not a machine
20:49She wants, like, three times, four times a day and stuff
20:51The machine can just go, like, any time, can't they?
20:52It's like Terminator
20:53You can just go, like, switch with a button
20:54No, I ain't got that button
20:55This is just a bit of a sticky one
20:56Why am I scared?
21:10Me and Stephen have really been at rock bottom
21:13And I'm thinking, surely, it can't get any worse than that
21:16I truly think that it can only get better from here
21:19This is the best time to tell them what I don't like and what it needs to change
21:22I just need to be honest
21:24I hate that you don't like me as much as I like you
21:28There is, obviously, truth in it
21:33You do like me more than what I like you
21:37It's not nice to hear that he agrees and that I like him more than he likes me
21:45No-one wants to hear it
21:47I need more affection, I need to feel safer and secure
21:49It's what I want from a relationship
21:51It's justified what you're saying, absolutely
21:55But it's not like I don't like you
21:57The like's obviously still there, it's just you're at a different stage of that liking than what I am
22:01I know that anyway, it's just I'll always try and compliment you whenever I can
22:06I don't think I get it back as much as I give it to you
22:09You've been brought up to be more complimentary of people where I haven't
22:13We still like one another, you're just further ahead
22:15Yeah
22:16I personally feel I'm on the right tracks with things and where I want the relationship to be at
22:20I understand that Nelly might have wanted to meet her
22:22I'm not quicker but I think she's a great girl and she cares for me a lot
22:25Just for now she's still slightly ahead of me on the like front
22:28I hate that you have to ask for affection
22:33Do you not feel that though if I'm having to ask you it's because I'm not getting it enough?
22:40My whole point is I want it to feel natural like to the point where you're not asking
22:44This is all as a result of what's happened in the past to me
22:47Which I know is not fair to you
22:49It gets harder the more and more you get hurt so that's why I am the way I am
22:53I need to understand that you've had your own experiences and this is what you want going forward
23:00I'll definitely try and work on it
23:03Maybe I need to just loosen up a bit
23:08Okay, so you're not romantic enough
23:12Probably used to be romantic
23:13Why aren't you anymore?
23:15Just a bad dating history I suppose
23:17Every time you do something romantic something bad happens
23:19First time I bought flowers for someone after the first thing they thought was
23:22He's only buying me this now because he's done something wrong
23:24He's trying to hide something
23:25I would never think that if you wanted
23:27If you'd like to buy me flowers once a month I would think that's really nice
23:31But I don't want you to think that it's a case of I walk in and I have a bath ready with rose petals
23:37Or anything like that
23:38It's a lack of thought of like just spending time together
23:40I want you to want to spend time with me
23:42It's just little things like that that's all
23:44Bare points
23:46Yeah
23:47Yeah
23:48I want to be romantic with Nellie
23:50I need to do more actions or like say a lot more than what I've actually done
23:54I've no doubt in my mind this is going to bring us closer together
23:56I think ironing out these points now
23:58I think we're going to be able to just draw the line under it and move forward in a positive light
24:02Hearing your ones I think you're so right and I agree with them
24:05And I actually am really looking forward to putting it into practice
24:08I feel so much better after the chat with Stephen just because he only knows what's in the way of us moving forward and progressing
24:15It's a fresh week embrace what's getting thrown our way and then we can just crack on just move past it
24:27At this moment I haven't seen my wife since the argument that we had
24:30There's a lot of questions that I need answered
24:32I'm confused about all of this
24:34I'm hoping to get advice from Billy and see what his perspective is on our relationship
24:42Hello Giza
24:43What are you saying, you all right? Yeah, cool
24:44How are you?
24:45Come in mate, yeah
24:46I have heard Julia Ruth and Devani have been sleeping together
24:49But it seems like maybe she hasn't been telling him the things that she's telling everyone else
24:55So how are you doing bro, you all right?
24:56I don't know, I don't know
24:58Um
24:59A very intense conversation with Julia Ruth
25:01Was it a lot?
25:02Yeah
25:03I do feel like I have to tell you a few things
25:05What have you been hearing man?
25:07She said
25:08I've told that boy ten times I don't fancy him
25:11I've told him I don't fancy him
25:13She said to the girls that she don't think you're her type
25:17She says she don't think you'll ever be her type
25:19Mm-hmm
25:20Has she been saying that to you?
25:21Nah she hasn't and that's the thing
25:23Fucking hell
25:25She's been saying something totally different to everyone else and behind closed doors
25:28It's not fair
25:29Like you've been totally respectful and in my opinion she hasn't towards you
25:33She's more concerned about the image
25:35Yes
25:36Rather than your actual feelings
25:38It's very muggy in my eyes
25:40If I knew that
25:41Yeah I could have just put my hands up and just been like
25:43Yeah
25:44Why am I physically here?
25:45Yeah
25:46I don't know what to do
25:48Ted must be totally scrambled and this is all coming through a girl that he cares about
25:52And really likes
25:53It's out of order isn't it?
25:54That's the only word for it
25:55It's bang out of order
25:56If I was in this situation and it was my partner that had done that
25:59I personally couldn't see a way you could work through that
26:01I've got strong feelings for her but these strong feelings mean nothing if they're not gonna go anywhere innit
26:05Yeah
26:06It's not fair mate
26:07I feel like she might actually be embarrassed
26:11That's probably why like she wanted me to like not tell everybody about the intimacy part
26:17I don't want to do that
26:18But obviously I'm respecting my wife's wishes
26:20It does like raise questions
26:22It's been very tough caring for someone that may not care for you
26:27It's tragic
26:30The next thing I need is just an open conversation on how she truly feels
26:34If Julia Ruth is here to waste my time I'm not here for it
26:42You better go first so I don't feel bad when I read line out
26:45They're bad, they
26:46No, they're not too bad
26:48I hate that you don't understand my humour
26:51Because I feel like you just don't get it at all
26:54Sometimes I think you think your humour is funnier than it is
26:57But other people find it funny just not you
27:00Yeah
27:01You love that kind of old school
27:03My wife's such a drag
27:05That kind of humour which obviously I'm not gonna like
27:08Yeah
27:09It makes me feel like your cheap gag that makes everyone else laugh
27:15Is more important to you than upsetting me
27:20My humour is never personal, it's just a funny thing to say in the moment
27:24There's a level of joke and then there's a bit of disrespect
27:27So I would love it if you could reflect on that as well
27:30Because it's in front of other people
27:32So you're telling me I only do it when there's other people about?
27:34I think for the most part it's the benefit of other people
27:37So this is the issue, you think I'm doing it for other people?
27:40Yeah
27:41I'm really, I'm just doing it
27:42It's exactly what I'm saying
27:43OK
27:46I don't do it for an audience
27:47And how do I react when you do it if it's just us?
27:49If you are doing it?
27:50Sometimes you take it as a joke and then other times you just shut down
27:53And make it into a thing
27:55I've told you I don't like it
27:56So when I tell you you've done it and remind you
27:58Oh I don't really like that
27:59You transfer it back to me, you deflect it
28:02You're the problem, you should laugh after you should do this
28:04How about you're accountable for the fact you've upset me
28:07And that I don't like those particular type of jokes
28:09And that you continue to make them anyway for the sake of other people
28:12It's just learning about each other isn't it?
28:15Yeah, that's all it is
28:19I'm a little bit taken aback by Ash's response
28:21I do understand Ash's humour
28:23It's just part of his humour that I don't find funny
28:25That I've asked him to nip in the bud
28:28Which he's struggling to do
28:29Because I don't like jokes that paint me in a bad light
28:31That's where we're butting heads
28:33His humour is at my expense a lot of the time
28:36Right, ready for mine?
28:42I hate that your initial reaction to a dispute
28:45Is to assume it's something I'm doing wrong
28:48Okay
28:50But isn't that a little bit hypocritical?
28:54Because it's normally something that you think that I've done wrong
28:57Yeah
28:59Yeah, I just mean like things like this morning
29:02We've obviously had a tiff last night
29:05And this morning when you summarised it
29:06The summary was Grace is being a dick
29:09Right
29:10No reflection on your actions, your behaviour, how it came to be
29:15We haven't even argued once this week yet
29:17Mmm, yeah, no
29:18Have you?
29:19No
29:20Nah, not really, just a drunken dispute
29:23What happened?
29:24What happened?
29:25Grace is being a dick
29:26We can't really
29:27You kill me Ash
29:29You kill me
29:30I can't believe you've just turned around and said that
29:35Because that was 100% said in a joke that you laughed at
29:39You're saying that I put it on you
29:41It's always on me
29:42And to be honest
29:43It's not always on you
29:44I'm doing
29:45It's not always on you
29:46But in this circumstance
29:47We both contributed to a tiff
29:48The summary of it cannot be that I'm a dick
29:51When you said you were going to do something
29:53This is bullshit though
29:54Okay
29:55I'm always the problem, Grace
29:57I'm always the one that's doing something wrong
29:58You're not always the problem
29:59But you understand
30:00Sorry, Ash
30:01You understand that we have a task now
30:03That I've been asked to say the things I don't like
30:06But the fact that nothing was mentioned in that moment when it happened and you laughed at it
30:10And now you've brought it to me in a task
30:12But is that not what you've asked me to do?
30:13No, I've always asked you to be open and honest about it in that moment
30:15You've never asked me to be playful and laugh it off?
30:17Yeah
30:18When you make a joke?
30:19You've never asked me to do that?
30:20Right, you took it as a joke
30:22You took it as a joke
30:23And now you're putting it in as though I've just called you a dick
30:25And you've made it serious
30:26You've made me look like a mug in a task
30:29Okay, sorry
30:31I don't agree with it at all
30:33And it's kind of, I feel it's a bit muggy
30:35I do feel a bit pissed off
30:37She tried to side swipe me there with something that was really innocent
30:40And fucking funny in the moment that she laughed at
30:42She turned it as though I was calling her a dick
30:44And blaming everything on her and that
30:46I've changed loads of myself to be with Grace
30:49So do I want to change this bit of me as well?
30:52This, yeah, was a task
30:55So
30:57Sorry to have upset you
31:05Honestly, I didn't think he would react like that
31:16I thought he'd be like, yeah, that's a good example
31:18He's again not being accountable for the words he says
31:21And how they make people feel
31:22It's frustrating
31:24She's looking for the perfect man
31:27I mean, there's no way that exists
31:30So if she can't come to terms with that
31:33Then this isn't gonna work
31:35Where are we going?
31:48That would defeat the point in a surprise
31:50But we're going this way
31:51For the next phase of Love Hate Week
31:53The couples must reveal the things they like about one another
31:56I understand that I'm not good at leading
31:58Okay, no, you're not
31:59Oh, fuck me
32:00To do this, Kia has decided to take David to a special surprise location
32:05Have you guessed where we are yet?
32:06No
32:07A little inkling?
32:08No
32:09No
32:10I have a surprise for you today
32:11He will be meeting and feeding otters his favourite animal
32:15David does wonderful things for me each and every day
32:18And it is nice to give back
32:20Oh, and we're sharing our loves with each other today
32:22So it's kind of, yeah, it's gonna be such a good day
32:25You ready?
32:27Yes
32:28Today, you are going to be meeting an otter
32:32Shut up!
32:33Shut up, really?
32:35I'm really excited, like, otters are my favourite animal
32:38I can hear them, I can hear them, I can hear them, I can hear them
32:41Otters hold hands, because they don't like to drift away with their partners
32:45They're really cute
32:46We hold hands like otters, so it makes sense
32:48How can you not love these animals, honestly?
32:52It's so cute
32:53I love you
32:54He has outdone himself today
32:56It is a dream come true, though
32:58It is something that I never thought I would be able to do
33:00This is for you, Bubba
33:01Yeah, I love it
33:02It's all so special
33:04Enjoy it
33:05Thank you
33:06This was amazing
33:08Obviously yesterday was the hate list
33:11Yeah
33:12Today's love day!
33:13Something that I love about you is actually the way that I don't have to change nothing about myself
33:21I can just be me, I don't have to hide the flamboying side or anything
33:27It just makes me feel very comfortable
33:28I love that you're completely authentically yourself, so, like, unapologetically
33:32Yeah
33:33And it's the best thing about you, honestly
33:35I love you
33:36Honestly
33:37Thanks
33:38Kia planned literally the perfect date
33:40I feel like after love-hate week, me and Kia, we're going from strength to strength
33:44There's no other way to put it, I love this man
33:46He makes me feel special and safe
33:49What else can I ask?
33:50Just love him
33:51Just love him
33:58Ready for all the love?
33:59This was definitely a lot easier than writing the hate ones
34:02Yeah, me too
34:06You ready?
34:07I'm ready
34:08You're very tactile
34:10What does tactile mean?
34:13I thought it meant, like, if you were, like, super fast and sneaky
34:17Bloody hell
34:20Is that not what it means?
34:24Tactile means touch
34:25Ah
34:26If you're a touchy person
34:28Yeah
34:29I'm someone
34:30Tactile, see?
34:31Tactile
34:32Yeah
34:33No
34:34Too tactile
34:35Too tactile
34:36Too tactile?
34:37Yep
34:38You always teach me new words
34:43What I love about you, April, is...
34:45Yo, booty
34:49I was...
34:50To be fair, I was a little bit worried that you were going to say something superficial
34:55Because that is superficial
34:59I really didn't want a superficial answer
35:01It's definitely a fear that this is just his personality
35:03There isn't a lot of depth, you know, I mean, that is the problem
35:06I need him to sort of take the lead on conversations a bit more
35:08You know, we need a bit more depth
35:10Like, personality is bigger to me than physical attraction
35:13I need that
35:14Bit of a wasted one, that maybe
35:23Hello, baby girl
35:24Hello
35:25Been waiting for this
35:26I'm excited
35:27This one's an important one for me
35:29Probably the most important one, I guess
35:32Bum and boobs, it was really hard to decide
35:34Bailey
35:35Really?
35:36I love them both equally
35:38But no, I'm joking
35:40I love your humour and your energy
35:43Honestly, all we do is laugh
35:44Yeah
35:45You're always cracking jokes, I love that
35:46I just want to spend my whole life laughing
35:47Do you know what I mean?
35:48So it's really important that I have someone that I can do that with
35:50And you are that person
35:51Cool
35:52That's really good
35:53I like that one
35:54Perfect, alright
35:55Massive
35:58Yeah, massive what?
36:02Sense of humour
36:03Oh, okay
36:04Sense of humour
36:05She's very happy in the humour department
36:07Yeah
36:08We're happy in a lot of departments
36:10You never wake up in a different mood
36:14You wake up funny, laughing, singing
36:16Like, you are a ball of energy
36:19And I love that about you
36:21I never knew that I needed somebody that had such a big personality
36:25Until I was with you
36:26And I was like, actually I would never want to let that go
36:28Doing alright then, didn't we?
36:29Yeah
36:30Done alright, girl
36:31Things with me and Bec are great
36:32Arguments done
36:33We've put a pin in it
36:34To be fair, if anything actually
36:36Bec seems to be a bit closer to me after that
36:38And I feel exactly the same
36:39R&B are definitely back
36:40We're back on track
36:41We're both super happy
36:42And Love and Hate Week has definitely helped with that
36:49I just received a text from Devani
36:52Saying that he wants to have another talk
36:54I'm not quite sure what to make of it
36:55Because the last talk that we had
36:57Didn't really go well at all
36:58It was quite heated
36:59And I felt like two people were just screaming at a wall
37:02So it's been made really messy and muggy
37:04Hello
37:06Hello
37:07We're at the point where
37:08We're at the point where
37:09Conversations need to be had
37:10This shit has hurt me the most
37:11Because it's like
37:12Been intimate
37:13I don't know as to why
37:14You don't want people to know that
37:15How are you feeling?
37:17Not particularly great
37:19The problem is the fact
37:21This is making me look like
37:22I'm some delusional guy
37:23That's a slap in the fucking face
37:24Especially because we know the truth
37:25And I don't care
37:26Whether people know that we have sex or not
37:28You do
37:29If you're embarrassed of me
37:32Like shit
37:33Say your chest
37:34Because
37:35I've said it before
37:36I've said we've had attraction issues
37:38What's the attraction issue?
37:39I've answered it a million times
37:41It's the height
37:42So that means you've been leading me on emotionally
37:45For what?
37:46I haven't been leading you on
37:47You haven't?
37:48So why have sex?
37:49Why have sex multiple times?
37:50Because I want to see if there was something there
37:51It felt good
37:52I feel safe with you
37:53So you're having sex with someone that you're not attracted to
37:55That you have no emotional connection with
37:57How do you think that feels?
37:58There's lots of qualities and traits that you have
38:00That I've never had before
38:01And that's why I focus so much on trying to get to know you
38:03And having fun with you
38:04And building that connection
38:06Clearly it hasn't worked out for me
38:07By just going off of looks solely
38:12If you can't answer to the experts
38:14Who actually are here to improve our relationship
38:16One simple question
38:17About any form of intimacy
38:19I'm not saying that we never made a pact
38:21To never talk about intimacy on camera
38:23We made a pact to talk about it when we were both ready
38:26This is a two-way street
38:27So please do not play this game
38:32It just gets to the point where enough is enough
38:33To be fair
38:34Yeah, it looks very fun
38:39I think Julie Roof is embarrassed to be with me
38:41Because it's always you're not attractive enough
38:44You're not tall enough
38:45There's so many different things
38:46That keeps coming in my direction
38:47But now I have to really think about
38:49If there's going to be any form of progression
38:51Or if we're just going to part ways
39:07You excited?
39:08I am excited
39:09Can you tell me what we're going to do now?
39:10Can you tell me what we're going to do now?
39:11No
39:12As Love Hate Week draws to a close
39:14Leah and Lee are completing the task
39:16On a special date planned by Leah
39:19It's nice to just organise something
39:20That's going to make her feel special
39:22Oh, look at you
39:23Isn't it cute?
39:24It is really cute
39:25I feel like it's really important for me to be romantic
39:28Because I want her to see
39:29That I do care
39:30That she can trust me
39:31I make sure she's aware
39:32That I do pick up on all the things she likes
39:35You?
39:37Red and white
39:38It's like our wedding day
39:39Aw, I was hoping that you'd actually remember that
39:41Yeah
39:42That's really sweet
39:43I can see all the effort you put in
39:45And this is actually really cute
39:46And this is good vibes
39:48I'm excited to just spend some time with Leah
39:51And have some fun together
39:53I feel like in the little things that she does
39:54It shows me how she feels
39:55And that is one big thing that grows my feelings for her
40:00What feels different for you this week with me?
40:02I feel like you're more open now, aren't you?
40:04Yeah
40:05Good
40:06I thought I'd been so open in this process
40:09But realistically
40:10I hadn't been
40:11I hadn't been being vulnerable
40:12And so, like, when I go to hold back
40:14I'm like, no, don't do that
40:16And then I'm just going with it in the moment
40:18I can definitely vouch you on that
40:19100%
40:20I mean, ultimately
40:22If you can feel the difference from me
40:24That is all I care about
40:27I definitely feel closer to Leah
40:29She's getting a little bit deeper on her feels
40:31It's definitely a turning point
40:33If you don't love me at the end of this boat ride
40:36I've done something wrong
40:37I think this is like 10 out of 10
40:39I love you type of thing
40:40Do you love me then?
40:41No
40:42Speaking of love
40:44Yeah
40:45I think we should share our loves about each other
40:47We've done our hates yesterday
40:49So my loves for you would be
40:53That you make me feel safe
40:56Aw
40:57Like scenarios like this
40:59Sometimes initially I'll think
41:00For fuck's sake, Leah, why have you done that?
41:02But then when I'm in the moment
41:04I kind of feel better that you're there
41:06Because you make me feel grounded and safe
41:08That's cute
41:09Just hearing that's nice to hear
41:10Because I just didn't ever think you felt like that
41:13Yeah
41:14What's yours?
41:15Come on now, tell me what you love about me
41:16I love when you laugh
41:18Why?
41:19God
41:20Don't I just look like a little bit geeky like
41:22Like
41:23So it's like a cute thing
41:25That's cute
41:26Aww
41:27I love us
41:28I've always known that Leah's a really thoughtful person
41:32But I've really felt how much she cares about me today
41:35And to be at a place where I'm feeling the best that I've felt
41:38This whole time with Leah
41:40It's just so reassuring
41:41And it just makes me feel calm and relaxed
41:43And that's what I've been searching for this whole time
42:00Hey Dave
42:01Hey
42:02I'm feeling a little bit on edge
42:03I've arranged a fun date for Ash and I
42:08We haven't really spoken
42:10Since we had the hate aspect of the love-hate task
42:14So I'm not really sure how the date's going to go down
42:19What are we painting?
42:20Erm, I don't know
42:21Do you want to paint each other?
42:22Can I do?
42:24I'm happy that Grace has arranged this date
42:25Because it's like her making an effort
42:27But I'm not really in a good place with Grace today
42:29We haven't really spoke
42:30I didn't sleep well
42:31I've been kind of running over things
42:33She caught me off guard
42:34And she completely reworded what happened
42:36And left out major bits
42:39And just said that
42:41Like, I called you a dick
42:42It almost feels personal
42:44Yeah, I can't help but feel a little bit betrayed
42:46In this moment
42:47And I don't really know how to move past it
42:55I just, I'm sick to death with feeling like
42:58I've got to protect my character
43:00But you don't
43:01I trust your character
43:02I don't want you to feel like that either
43:05I feel like I've done that since I got you
43:07Sorry that you feel defensive
43:09I just literally made a joke
43:10I said
43:11I saw it was just Grace being a dick
43:12And I smiled at you
43:13And you laughed back at me
43:14In that moment
43:15If you'd turn around and gone
43:16Don't call me a dick
43:17And I'd gone half a
43:18Yeah, sorry I'm wrong there
43:19Because that's the way we do things
43:20But why did you wait until the cameras were on
43:22To then bring it in there
43:24And completely, like, reword it?
43:26Have you not asked me to be more playful
43:28And to take it as a joke?
43:29If you didn't take it as a joke then obviously
43:31I can't win with you
43:32You want me to laugh it off and be playful
43:34But you want me to call you out in the moment
43:36You've got to tell me Ash
43:38I'm very willing Ash
43:40And I'm very ready
43:42To take accountability
43:44To take the blame
43:45And to be responsible
43:46If something's my fault
43:47And I think what's happened here is
43:49You are very ready to make it my fault
43:52You'll quite happily shift the blame to me
43:54And I will take it
43:55I always feel like I'm in a bad light
43:58You always feel like I'm attacking a character
44:01And you seem to be struggling with your role in that
44:05I don't know what, I'm tired
44:07I'm just, I haven't slept
44:08Okay
44:09And I don't even feel like arguing
44:10I just, I don't, I don't, I don't feel like
44:12I'm sorry
44:14I just, sorry
44:17This isn't me, I just don't know
44:19Grace is fucking hard work
44:24I've proved myself to everybody else
44:29In the experiment
44:31I just, um
44:33Have I got to keep proving myself to Grace?
44:36Because I don't think I can do it forever
44:37I feel like Love, Hate, Bexamplified
44:41How I do get mixed messages from Ash
44:43I can't get it right
44:44I'm always going to be the problem
44:45No matter what I do
44:46I find it a bit frustrating
44:48He is keeping us in the same space we started
44:50For as long as he doesn't let things go
44:52And move forward
44:53We'll stay there
45:01Let's go
45:02Date night
45:03Yes, date night
45:05Thank you for organising
45:07I have a plan for a date night with Nelly
45:09And hopefully she can see that I'm trying my hardest
45:11To be more romantic
45:12Yeah, I'm on you
45:13Thank you
45:15Thank you
45:16Sometimes it's nice to wine and dine someone as well
45:18And just have some alone time
45:24Love a bit of sushi
45:25Feels really nice that Stephen has decided to take me on a date
45:28So after going through our hate
45:30I thought I'd put into some practice
45:32One of your points of being a little bit more romantic
45:35Now we can tell each other how much we like each other
45:37Instead of just thinking about hate, hate, hate
45:39Yeah, I know
45:40Well, cheers and thank you so much
45:42Cheers for time
45:43He has heard what I've said and put it into action
45:46And showing me a bit more of his romantic side
45:49So I just hope he keeps it up
45:50And it's not just a one-time thing
45:53Since you've organised this lovely fancy dinner
45:56To go over what we love about each other
45:58I will let you do the honours
45:59Because I went first last time
46:00Right
46:01One of the things that I love about you
46:04Is that you're actually a really caring person
46:06I haven't had anyone who's sort of cares for me in a way
46:10Really?
46:11So it's still new to me to have this
46:14And have someone put my thoughts and feelings sort of ahead of theirs
46:18Is definitely like number one thing for me
46:20And I think like I haven't done it enough
46:23And sort of like putting you on that pedestal
46:24And I think it kind of needs to be reciprocated
46:26So that's what I like about you the most
46:28I was like that I didn't expect
46:30But that was so nice
46:31Thank you
46:33So one of the things I love about you
46:36Is actually how confident you are
46:38You don't really care about what people think
46:40It's really sexy just the way that you don't care
46:42I think sometimes it gets me in trouble a little bit though
46:45I think my confidence though
46:46But I kind of like it
46:47I'm glad you think that
46:49I also really love how funny you are
46:52Because you make me laugh constantly
46:54And it's a really attractive quality
46:56I feel the fun element's gone
46:58And we need to be more fun around one another
47:00And whenever someone's feeling down
47:02One of us needs to light up that room
47:04Yeah, because honestly I think
47:06Once we sort out this communication thing
47:08I do actually think we'd be really, really good
47:10I think it has been a really beneficial day
47:12Like even talking about things we hate about one another
47:15Yeah, I still enjoyed that
47:16Yeah, it's definitely been a blessing
47:18It's definitely helped us going forward
47:19Yeah
47:20Love Hate Week has actually made me really hopeful
47:23That Stephen is determined and wanting to make it work
47:27It's kind of built me back up a little bit
47:29So yeah, I actually feel loads better now
47:31Pretty nervous about seeing Maeve
47:43I haven't seen her for a couple of days
47:45As I've taken a bit of a time out
47:47My grandad passed away
47:49And being in this bubble
47:50I've just found it hard to process
47:52I want to explain what's been going on with me
47:56The reasons why I've been feeling the way I've been feeling
48:00I'm not a very argumentative person
48:03But she can go from 0 to 100 pretty quickly
48:06I don't want her to go off on one
48:08And it all just ends really badly
48:10So yeah, I'm pretty nervous about how she's going to react
48:16You all right?
48:17I can't even look at him
48:20Like, you've been gone for two days
48:23You've not spoken to us
48:24I've just been waiting here like an absolute idiot
48:27I look like a dick
48:31I just needed some time away
48:33Just to, like, think about things
48:35Mm-hm
48:36I've been really trying to, like, think
48:38About our compatibility on the outside
48:41Is it just this bubble
48:43And as soon as, like, in the outside world
48:46Would me and you really work?
48:50We're honest with each other
48:51Can you really see us working on the outside?
48:56I didn't think this was how this conversation was going to go
48:58I really didn't
48:59What do you mean?
49:00Like, I have felt like I've been a little bit, like, mugged off
49:03How am I mugging you off?
49:05It's okay for you to have two days off
49:06To get your head together
49:07But I've been in this fucking chaos
49:09Spiralling
49:12I can't help the way I'm feeling
49:14You needed time to make sure that you were okay
49:17And I just felt alone
49:18And obviously the first time I see you is now
49:20So I didn't know what was going on
49:22I'm feeling fucking overwhelmed
49:24But why?
49:25I don't get it
49:26That's how I feel
49:30And I'm trying not to raise my voice
49:31And I'm trying to not fucking be loud
49:33But I literally just need five minutes
49:35I'm getting emotional
49:37Because what I personally deserve
49:38Is happiness
49:39And fucking honesty
49:40And I'm not getting that right now
49:41He's saying that he loves us
49:42And he's saying that I'm a great person
49:44Can't just go from one thing to another
49:46I've been sitting in here for two days
49:48Thinking, is he coming back?
49:49Is he not?
49:50Do I pack my bag?
49:51Like, I'm actually drained
49:53You've had time to get out of this
49:55I've not
49:56My head is up my arse right now
49:58Right, okay
49:59Well, we need to just leave it there
50:00I don't really know where this leaves me and Maeve
50:11It's still frustrating for me
50:13That we can't openly communicate
50:15Me and Maeve's marriage right now
50:17Is very much up in the air
50:18Because we're not actually discussing
50:20The problems between us
50:21I can't believe that Jo left me again
50:26What the fuck's going on?
50:33Next time
50:34Are you ready to take our intimacy to the next level?
50:37Lee no sooner enjoys a breakthrough with her own wife
50:40Yes
50:43Before she's on a collision course with another
50:46She's a stupid bitch
50:47She's a little snake
50:48What the fuck all to say to you Julia Ruth?
50:50You're the one in the wrong
50:51As Julia Ruth faces a backlash from the entire group
50:54She's been slightly new since day one
50:56And her opinion hasn't changed
50:57You've been saying it to all the girls, mate
50:59This relationship is fake
51:01I'm gonna leave
51:03Not doing this
51:04I was here for a husband
51:05I found one
51:06I don't need fame
51:07She's making an absolute mockery of the experiment
51:16Aikah
51:19I am so wordless
51:34He is...
51:35Airen
51:37Ahat
51:39She's not a boy
51:41Merci.
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