Dive into the world of 'Unlocked - Family Secrets' as the series continues to unravel hidden truths. This episode, S1E3, delves deeper into the complex relationships and long-held secrets that bind the family together. Discover the revelations that could change everything for the characters involved.
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00:00I had four adult children, a wonderful husband,
00:05and strong faith.
00:06We were ready for the next chapter in our lives
00:09until that fateful day when an entire lifetime of secrets
00:14threatened to destroy everything I knew and loved.
00:18Why does he not want me to be around his family?
00:22Is he hiding something from me?
00:24I woke up knowing that I was going to do what I was going
00:27to do.
00:28At that moment, just all these creepy feelings came over me.
00:33What's wrong with this man?
00:34He's so distant.
00:35He's so aloof.
00:38This is not real.
00:40They just hit me, wow, love is not really my last name.
00:44This was big front page news for weeks.
00:49And I'm like, oh my god.
00:58And I realized my husband Bobby didn't like his photo taken.
01:04That was really weird to me.
01:06And one time I just went on ahead and took it anyway.
01:11And he got so mad.
01:14And I'm like, you are really upset with me because I took a picture of you?
01:21My dad was very mysterious, and I always wondered why that was the case.
01:26I would see my mom cry when my dad didn't want to take pictures or just do so many family things.
01:34So it was something that didn't really bother her.
01:39I wasn't going to tell Cheryl the whole truth.
01:41I was going to go to my death with my secret.
01:46My name is Cheryl Love.
02:00I grew up in Brooklyn, New York in the Louis H. Pink Houses project.
02:07It was six of us, six children all together.
02:11I remember playing in the playground, climbing on the monkey bars, playing double dutch with
02:17my friends and tag, freeze tag.
02:22Those were good times.
02:25My mom and dad, they were high school sweethearts, and they brought all that love to our family.
02:33When I was nine years old, I lost my mom.
02:37It was a sad, sad time, but I just felt that I had to take care of my brothers.
02:45And I had to learn how to cook.
02:46I was doing laundry, doing everything, and I had to pick up my boots and get up and keep
02:52on going.
02:56When I was 19, I started working as a dietary aide at the Baptist Medical Center of Brooklyn.
03:04One day at work, I walked into the kitchen, and I see this new guy there, tall, nice looking
03:12guy.
03:13I met Cheryl in 1984.
03:17Some of the guys I work with, they had told me about her.
03:23He made me laugh because he used to wear his hat instead of it being the right way, he used
03:27to wear it the wrong way, but I liked it.
03:31I was only 32, but she was 23.
03:36The first time I asked her out, she said no, but she came back and told me yes.
03:44We had a good relationship.
03:46We were just having a good time, enjoying each other.
03:55Bobby was wonderful.
03:56The only thing I noticed sometimes was that he didn't like to talk much about what his
04:01life was like before we met.
04:04The only thing Bobby told me about his childhood was that he was born in Greensboro, North Carolina,
04:11he was really close to his sister, and that was it.
04:22We dated the rest of that year, 1984.
04:27It wasn't until about maybe after the summer of 1984 when she told me, she said, Bobby, I'm
04:34pregnant.
04:36And I was scared.
04:38So I went and I told him, and he said, OK.
04:43He just said that we're going to get a place together, and we're going to work this out.
04:47Out of the blue, I proposed to her.
04:50And she started crying, actually.
04:53I said, why are you crying?
04:54She said, I'm happy.
04:56I didn't know you was going to propose to me.
05:00I said, that's what you do.
05:01You propose to the person when they at least expect it.
05:06And that's how it happened.
05:10We got married on March 30th, 1985.
05:15The wedding was the first time I got to meet any of Bobby's family.
05:19I never got the chance to ask them anything about Bobby's early life or his past because
05:25they didn't stay for long.
05:28My family came up from Greensboro, and they took off right after the wedding.
05:36You know, we said our goodbyes because they had to get back.
05:43I think if my brother Raymond would have started drinking, maybe he would have said something
05:48that I didn't want to hear him say about me.
05:53Starting a family with Bobby was beautiful.
06:04Jasmine Love was born July 1985.
06:08And then after Jasmine, Jessica came September 1987.
06:15And then Justin and Jordan came May 1998.
06:21It was joy.
06:23Just pure joy.
06:24We were so happy.
06:25I felt like our family was complete, and Bobby was a wonderful father and provider.
06:31Bobby was a very hard worker.
06:34He worked at YAI, the Young Adult Institute, and they help people who have disabilities.
06:40And then he worked at the nursing home as a cook in the Bronx.
06:46He had two jobs, and he would go in early in the morning from 6 to 2, and then he would go
06:55into the next job and work from, say, like 3 to 11.
07:04Bobby was perfect in every way except those rare occasions when it felt like he was hiding
07:10something from me.
07:13Not long after the twins were born, Bobby's brother passed away, his brother Leroy.
07:22So I was sure I was going to go with him to support him and, you know, the family.
07:30But Bobby said to me, no, Cheryl, I'm going to go.
07:34I don't want you to go.
07:36It felt a little weird because I've always known that family, something happens in family,
07:42you support each other.
07:44But he told me no.
07:46Why does he not want me to be around his family?
07:53She said to me, she said, why are you trying to, you know, separate yourself from us?
07:57And I just said, sometimes I felt like I needed some space, but I was lying.
08:03I'm thinking, does he have another family somewhere?
08:07Is it another woman somewhere?
08:10I just felt like he was keeping something from me.
08:13I was taking the secret to my grave, and I only told one person at that time, it was my
08:19sister.
08:21And she was asking me, if you're going to ever tell Cheryl.
08:24I said, yeah, I'm on my deathbed.
08:31I didn't know much of my dad's past.
08:35More so, when I asked him certain questions, he would avoid answering it fully.
08:39There's one example I particularly remember.
08:42I was just trying to figure out why every person in his family had a different last name,
08:46and he had the last name Love.
08:48And he just said that we all grew up with different fathers or different families.
08:53And that's how he answered them.
08:56My dad, I felt like he wanted to share, but just a little bit.
09:02It was definitely times where it was challenging.
09:05Whereas my dad was closed off, and my mom was trying to push it out of him.
09:08And there was a lot of situations like that.
09:13Named in 2008, I got fired.
09:18Oh, boy.
09:20He was really hurt by losing that job.
09:22He was closed off then, and then once he lost the job, he got further down.
09:34I'm getting up, going to work early in the morning, and he's still laying there.
09:39And I'm like, no, this is not, this ain't going to cut the cookie right here.
09:42No, you're going to have to get up and find a job.
09:45I went out to Stanton Island to apply for a job out there.
09:50And on that application, they said you needed to be fingerprinted.
09:54And I said, I'm not letting nobody fingerprint me.
10:02The next few years were a lot of ups and downs.
10:06Bobby was a good father and had a few jobs here and there.
10:10But he got more and more distant.
10:13And I found myself depending on my church for support.
10:17For Christmas, they usually have a big program at church.
10:21And so around Christmastime 2014, I was like, are you going to come with us this year?
10:27Are you going to come?
10:28And he said no.
10:30And that's like, to me, it almost like that was the straw that broke the camel's back,
10:35telling me no about that.
10:38I knew Cheryl was at her breaking point.
10:42Then on January 22nd, 2015, everything shook loose.
10:48Everything changed.
10:51I got up early because I had an AP calculus class.
10:56My mom got up at five to make us breakfast.
10:59And it was a normal morning.
11:02Everybody else was still asleep.
11:04It was just me and Jordan up.
11:05So we said a prayer.
11:07And then he said, OK, Ma.
11:09I said, all right, have a good day.
11:10I'll talk to you later.
11:11And he went on out.
11:13And I went and fixed me my peppermint tea.
11:19And getting ready to, you know, stir it and drink it when there was this knock at the door.
11:24It was a cold morning in January, and I was making a hot cup of tea.
11:39My life at that point was good.
11:42We always had food on the table.
11:44I was very strong in my faith.
11:47I thought everything was fine.
11:52And then there was a knock at the door.
11:57Me and Cheryl's bed was in our living room.
12:02Because we gave the other three rooms to my kids.
12:05So I woke up with the noise.
12:09It was so loud.
12:10Like, it was just like boom, boom, boom, boom, boom.
12:13And when I opened that door, police officers, FBI, guns drawn.
12:24I'm like, oh, my God.
12:26And they said, get back, ma'am.
12:28Get back.
12:29Move back.
12:30And I'm like, oh, my God.
12:31What's going on?
12:33It was about eight to 12 of them.
12:35And some of them were still standing outside, too.
12:38They just came, stood right next to the bed.
12:42And I heard the cops say, you had a long run.
12:47I'm like, what in the world?
12:49They said, what's your name?
12:51And I said, Bobby Love.
12:54They said, no, your real name, your given name.
12:57And they just said to us, you think you know who he is,
12:59but you don't know who he really is.
13:02The cop says, ma'am, move back.
13:04You don't know who this man is.
13:07When he said that, my heart dropped.
13:13This is it.
13:15This is what it is.
13:17All these years, that's it.
13:19I've been wondering what's going on.
13:21Here it is right now.
13:23So she said to me, she said, Bobby, what did you do?
13:28I said, Cheryl, this was a long time ago.
13:32I didn't know what to do.
13:42And so I just went on to work, hoping that I would hear something from him later or whatever.
13:49And then I went back home, and that's when the young lady called me.
13:54And she told me that she was Bobby's lawyer.
13:58She said, now, when you go and see him, you're going to look for Walter Miller.
14:05I said, oh, is that the facility he's in?
14:10She said, no, ma'am.
14:12No, that's not.
14:14And my mom, when she looked at me, and she said, Jessie, your father's real name is Aunt Bobby Love.
14:23His real name is Walter Curtis Miller.
14:27And I was just like, what?
14:30The next day, we were able to go to Rikers Island to see Bobby.
14:42And when he came down to see us, he was bawling, crying.
14:47And we were crying.
14:50And we were just like, what happened?
14:53Like, what is all of this?
14:56What did you do?
14:58I said, Bobby, what is going on?
15:01Tell me what this is.
15:03What's happening?
15:04He said, Cheryl, my name is Walter Miller.
15:08And I'm sorry I didn't tell you these things.
15:13He laid it all out for us.
15:15Walter Miller was a convicted bank robber who escaped from prison and was on the run for the last 37 years as Bobby Love.
15:26It felt like a dream, a bad dream.
15:29So then that's when he started to just tell us everything.
15:33And me and my mom just sat there and we just listened to everything he had to say.
15:39I was born in Greensboro, North Carolina in 1950.
15:49There was eight of us and I was number seven.
15:52He didn't tell me these things before.
15:55When I was nine years old, my father died in a house fire.
16:01And it was devastating to us.
16:04I should have been staying out of trouble.
16:07I had a paper route.
16:08But my thinking is, you know, I've got to do something else to make some money.
16:14I used to look in cars and if people left their monies or their pocketbooks or wallets in their cars and the car was open, I would go in there and take the bag and get the money.
16:28Bobby told me that he got arrested for stealing and served 13 months in a juvenile facility.
16:35Then he moved from North Carolina to Washington, D.C. where his brother lived.
16:44Bobby was still in high school, but was also working different jobs.
16:49One of my buddies was Agenal McCutcheon and we called him Tang.
16:56When I think about Bobby, what I remember about us initially meeting in D.C. was Bobby was fly.
17:06He was fly.
17:09Back that during that time, D.C. was wide open.
17:12It was to me like if I could coin it maybe like the Wild West.
17:19Bobby said he was just a hustler, just did what he had to do to survive, to get things.
17:29I would get in some more trouble and some of my friends was already doing certain things like robbing stores.
17:40Bobby was a stick-up boy.
17:42This is what we used to call them, stick-up boys.
17:45The crew he was with, these guys did banks.
17:49They were bringing in big money.
17:52The more my husband Bobby told me about the things he'd kept secret all these years, the worse it got.
18:02I was like in shock.
18:04I felt very shameful at that point.
18:08I didn't want to tell anybody anything.
18:10I didn't want to talk about it.
18:12My biggest fear was like, people would think, well you've been with this man all these years, all this time and you didn't know something.
18:22You didn't know anything.
18:24I was angry at how he didn't like share his whole life with his wife.
18:34Because remember, before the kids, right, is the wife.
18:37So it's like, why wouldn't you just tell your wife like everything, you know?
18:42Like why would you hide this from her?
18:45January 20th, 1969, Inauguration Day for President Richard Nixon.
18:55We decided that it wouldn't be that many cops on the street and we was going to rob this pharmacy over in southeast Washington, D.C.
19:06There was three of us and I had a gun.
19:11And so when we announced, this is a hold up.
19:15And that's when I started looking for and putting the monies in the bag.
19:20They had a silent alarm or something.
19:23Once I got out the door and the other two went out the door, the cops was just coming in.
19:29So I went between these two cars with my gun in my hand and I looked to my right and I got shot from my left.
19:42They took Bobby to the hospital and stitched him up.
19:45But first they arrested him.
19:48He was only 18 years old, still in high school.
19:52I pleaded guilty to armed robbery because my lawyer told me your best bet is to plead guilty.
20:01And the judge probably will send you to the youth place like youth offenders.
20:09So that's what I ended up doing.
20:11I served 13 months at Lawton Youth Facility.
20:17I got out of there and I felt good about being out and everything like that.
20:21But I needed more money for my life, my lifestyle.
20:26And I would talk to some of the guys that I was associating with.
20:30And we would talk about how we can get this or how we can get that in the place we need to hit.
20:35Because they got a lot of money and stuff.
20:42It was the summer of 1971.
20:45I had just graduated high school.
20:48Then a blue Chrysler pulled up in front of my house.
20:52And I see Bobby and asked me, what was I doing of course?
20:57And did I want to make some money?
21:01They were on their way to Greensboro to rob a bank.
21:05And did I want to be a part of that?
21:07So I went downtown and I stole a car.
21:19The plan was to hit this credit union right there in the middle of nowhere.
21:24And it was open.
21:25So we went in there to rob it.
21:30And then we took off.
21:34Unfortunately, someone saw us and called the police.
21:37And we were on 85 Highway, coming back.
21:44Police got up beside us.
21:45Start pointing like this.
21:47Pull over.
21:48We were like, uh, everybody just be cool.
21:50Maybe they're just looking for somebody else.
21:54So the cop walked over and he said, whose car is this?
21:58I was worried and I had a gun under the seat, the driver's seat.
22:05Ting said, man, don't do that.
22:07I just calmed down and the guy told me I was under arrest.
22:10I felt terrible.
22:19I knew I was going to go back to jail.
22:23But now I'm going to a big jail.
22:25I'm not going to back to a youth center anymore.
22:29I was tried myself and convicted of armed robbery.
22:34And I wound up doing six years, six months and 23 days.
22:41Of that 25 year sentence.
22:45In 1971, I was sentenced to 25 to 30 years.
22:49And they sent me to Central Prison in Raleigh.
23:02He kept apologizing to me.
23:04And he said, I feel so basho because I know that this is not you at all.
23:11So he's just explaining everything to us.
23:13And I'm just sitting here talking to him and I'm just listening very intently.
23:17It was just so many things that I was just learning about my dad.
23:22And he's telling me that when he was in that prison, he was laying in with his prison cot.
23:26And he just kept saying to himself like, I'm getting out of here.
23:31It made me feel like I wanted to do something that I know I shouldn't do.
23:35In 1977, I was transferred to honor grade.
23:46It was less security.
23:47And next thing I know, they was assigning me to a job outside the gate, which was on the road.
23:54A road job.
23:58So I started saving my money along with other money that my friends had sent me.
24:04So I had close to $100.
24:06And they called us.
24:10November the 8th, 1977.
24:13I woke up knowing that I was going to do what I was going to do.
24:17I had a personal shirt, which I put under my green clothes.
24:22They started calling us about 20 minutes to 7.
24:26So I got on the bus, went to the back of this bus to sit down.
24:32They had one driver.
24:34The driver didn't have a man with him, you know, like they do now.
24:39He gets up to the intersection.
24:42He's only doing about six, seven miles an hour.
24:47Right then, when the driver wasn't looking, I jumped off the bus.
24:50I ran into the woods.
24:53I took the clothes off on top that I had and dropped them in the woods.
25:00And I came out on the other side.
25:02The woods there.
25:04And now I'm trying to find the bus station.
25:08And when I got to the bus station, I asked a guy to go in and buy me a ticket to New York.
25:17I gave him a $20 bill.
25:18And once I got on the bus, I sat in my seat and I went down.
25:23So you couldn't see nothing but this right here.
25:27And I was looking out the window to see if anybody had come from Central Prison looking for me at that bus station.
25:36That bus pulled out.
25:38I was so happy.
25:40And I kept looking around, looking around, looking out that window on both sides.
25:43I couldn't for the life of me understand how the loving husband and father that I knew could have been a criminal and an escaped convict.
25:58I arrived in New York City.
26:04I'm looking around, making sure that, is there any extra cops around here?
26:12And I didn't see any.
26:14But this girl had asked me my name.
26:18I didn't know what to say.
26:20So I kind of thought for a minute and I said, Bobby.
26:24Just out of the blue like that.
26:26Bobby Love.
26:28I went up to the Bronx, up there on East Chester Road.
26:34And I say to the guy, I said, man, I need to get my license.
26:39He said, okay.
26:41I said, you know what I'm talking about, man.
26:43And I got a driver's license.
26:45Some Bobby Love.
26:46It's amazing, man.
26:53Yeah.
26:54When I think back on it.
26:55Yeah.
26:56How we used to get down.
26:57I used to tell Dan, man, come on, man, let's play some nine ball.
27:01I remember that, huh?
27:03So after Bobby escaped, before I actually communicated with him, it was a big secret.
27:10And I'm not even sure I wanted to trust myself with the information.
27:15Because I know how critical it was, you know, for him.
27:19All that was important to me was knowing that he was okay.
27:27Eventually, I had heard about a very good job at a hospital in Brooklyn.
27:33That hospital was Baptist Medical Center, where Bobby and I met in 1984.
27:41And then got married and began our life together.
27:44When my first daughter was born, it was joy, just pure joy.
27:50Man, I was beside myself.
27:53I said to myself, you know, this is it.
27:56This is it and this is going to be my life.
27:58The reason I never told Cheryl my secret is because she would have told me to go back and turn myself in.
28:06But I wanted to change.
28:10Bobby did change.
28:12But now, after 30 years of hiding his secret, he was sitting in Rikers jail,
28:18on the verge of being sent back to North Carolina to serve the rest of his sentence.
28:24They brought all my records back from 1977.
28:30So the lady is telling me that, you got nine years to do.
28:35I said, wow.
28:40Oh, man, can you imagine?
28:43I was, I was knocked down, devastated, upset, you know, all of that.
28:51Every week, we were there.
28:55Whenever they said that he could have a visitor, we would go.
28:59He was sad, his voice was soft, and he just wasn't, he wasn't himself.
29:05He wasn't looking like my dad.
29:08He looked more so like just a defeated old man.
29:11I had to weigh everything, the good, the bad, all of it.
29:18I had to tell myself the truth, which was this man had deceived you for many years.
29:23And what are you going to do with that?
29:27How are you going to deal with this?
29:29Do you still love him?
29:31The man who I thought I was married to was kind, was gentle.
29:37I thought about all those years that he just, he didn't want to leave me.
29:41He's always said he wanted to stay.
29:44So I just put it together, you know, and that's what made me stay with it and tell him that I'm with you.
29:51I'm not going to leave you.
29:52I'm here with you.
29:53In June of 2015, we went to Bobby's extradition court date.
30:10We were waiting for him to hear what the judge said.
30:16I was concerned.
30:17I mean, because we're not young men anymore and he's got diabetes.
30:22You know what I mean?
30:23So I'm thinking about his health.
30:25You know, I'm thinking about his family.
30:28Just, it's just a series of things, you know, I'm thinking about.
30:32And, um, if I could be honest, they were all negative.
30:36Yeah, they were all negative.
30:41I came in the courtroom.
30:43I sit down for a second.
30:46And next thing I know, they was telling me, you know, come on, let's get up.
30:52And they said that he has to go back to North Carolina, a place called Spruce Pine, for 10 years.
31:01Knowing Bobby was going to North Carolina and maybe being in jail for 10 years, that was a tough time for me.
31:13Like, don't they see he's different? He changed. Like, just let him go.
31:19But when that didn't happen, it was just really heartbreaking.
31:22I felt sad. I felt sad to see him get on the bus. I felt sad to see the shackles on his legs, shackles on his arms.
31:32My kids were saying, bye, daddy. We love you, daddy. Those kind of things.
31:37I just broke down and cried as I was walking.
31:40It was...
31:42It was hurting me. It was hurting me.
31:45And I just was looking, too, and I just watched the vehicle as they took him away.
31:51Watched the drive off.
31:52And I just remember saying that to myself, like, he's good.
31:58I was thinking, okay, you're going to have to really dig your heels in, Cheryl.
32:04It's going to be like you're a single parent.
32:06You're going to have to be tough.
32:08But I was terrified that Bobby might die in prison.
32:11When I got to Spruce Pines, oh boy, that place was terrible.
32:18Bobby's health was deteriorating.
32:21He was getting older, and they wouldn't let him use, like, his cane and things like that in the jail.
32:29I couldn't feel anything. I was numb. I was upset. I was... everything that goes with that.
32:37You know, I said, you know, I'm thinking it's over. It's over for me.
32:47I said, if you want to leave me, Cheryl, I would understand because I didn't tell you all the past of my life and the things that I've done.
32:59She thought for a minute, and she said, no, I'm not going nowhere.
33:03When Bobby was away, right, and we would write to each other, I would write him something every day, whether it was a card or in a letter.
33:15He would write me back.
33:17The letters that I wrote to Cheryl were comfort letters, I feel, for me, in telling her how I'm getting along.
33:27There was scripts that Cheryl would tell me to read. One of them was Jeremiah 2911. I would just talk to God, pray to God.
33:39He just started opening up with a lot of things. And I think because that secret was out, now he could be his true self. He was able to express himself. He was able to really tell me what he felt.
33:53He would tell me that he loved me, but now it just felt like it just meant so much more.
34:03The reconnection between my mom and dad was beautiful. It just felt like my mom had a breath of fresh air.
34:08I just prayed and I just said, God, you're going to work this thing out. I believe it. Bobby is coming out.
34:19I remember us being in contact with another lawyer in North Carolina.
34:25So one day he called my mom and he said, your husband has a parole hearing.
34:30He said, you're going to sit in front of board members and you're going to tell them who Bobby Love is, who is the person he has been, and just whatever you know.
34:44We all made a big effort to get him out. So the lawyer, she was with us the whole time.
34:51She was like, start asking for letters. She was like, write letters. At that point, we figured like, okay, wait, he has a shot.
35:00And so I said, okay, I'm going to talk to my pastor. I'm going to get a letter from him, from people in my church that knew Bobby.
35:09I wrote to President Obama and I explained who Bobby was, who I was.
35:14So we got all those letters together and we got them down to North Carolina.
35:18In October of 2015, we went down to the parole hearing for Bobby.
35:29So we went into the room and I just told him that Bobby was a good man.
35:40I know that he had escaped prison, but I just want to say that all these years, he's been in a prison.
35:48A mental prison.
35:51But if you see fit, I just want to tell you the things that he has done.
35:57He's been a good husband to me, as good as he could be.
36:01He has raised four children, helped me raise four children.
36:05I just told him everything about Bobby that I knew, and all the good that I knew.
36:10And the Lord explained to us that we did well, speaking about him and who he is.
36:16And then they were just like, it's a waiting game now. All we do is just wait.
36:21It was Christmas time, 2015, but it was hard to feel much holiday spirit.
36:35My husband Bobby was still in prison after nearly a year.
36:39And then a few weeks later, I got a phone call.
36:45I was at work and an officer called me and I said, yes.
36:51And she said, well, I'm calling to tell you that Bobby is going to be released.
36:55I was so happy. I was so happy.
36:59And Bobby didn't know if I knew or not.
37:02So that evening when he called, I said, Bobby.
37:07He said, I know, I know.
37:10So we just, just so we laid it.
37:13I got to New York around six something in the morning.
37:26I could see them over there and they was anxiously looking at me.
37:31They could see me through the window too.
37:34And I was only one on the bus.
37:36So I stepped off.
37:38I crossed in front of the, the, the street.
37:41Cheryl came running to me and we started hugging right there.
37:46And I just hugged everybody and hugged everybody.
37:49And I just gave him a big hug.
37:52And I remember tearing up.
37:54And I just said, so proud of you.
37:59Like it's over.
38:01And he was like, yeah, he was like, it's over.
38:05It's over.
38:10Bobby, I love this picture.
38:12That looks like Jordan.
38:13Once I was released, I turned 65.
38:17I had to get my social security check.
38:21Cheryl asked me, are we Millers, are we loves?
38:25And he said, we are love like that.
38:27And I said, okay, okay.
38:31He didn't want to be known as Walter Miller anymore.
38:36Because he just felt like, that's not me.
38:40I'm this new person now.
38:41I'm Bobby Love.
38:43I'm this new person who changed my life.
38:45The difference I see with my dad today is that he's very open-minded now.
38:52And he's more happy being able to just be himself authentically.
39:00When I compare the Walter Miller I knew then to the Bobby I know now,
39:06no, I would never have expected that.
39:09I'm just so proud of you.
39:10Yeah, man.
39:11I love you, man.
39:12I love you too, man.
39:13I mean that.
39:14I mean, like I said.
39:22God told me to keep moving forward.
39:25And after I got out, I became a deacon in the church.
39:31I go to church every Sunday.
39:38If we could go back in time, I would want Bobby to tell me the truth.
39:44Tell me about the secret.
39:45Tell me what's going on with you.
39:48Because you wouldn't have to go through all of this pain that you went through.
39:53You know, you wouldn't have to go through that.
39:56I want people to seize all the bad things that I made happen, I did when I was younger.
40:03You can still turn that around.
40:05You can turn it around and become anything you want to become.
40:09My dad created this whole new persona, this whole new life.
40:14He rehabilitated himself on his own without the system.
40:19Because they claim that jail helps you.
40:22Maybe in some instances it does, but for my dad, he said, I can do this.
40:26I can do this.
40:27I can do this myself.
40:28And he did it.
40:32You can definitely change your life and do something new.
40:37Do something beneficial to be able to be the best version of yourself.
40:41Forgive and let the goodness come to you.
40:44Because that's what happened.
40:46When you forgive, goodness comes your way.
40:49It comes your way.
40:56Being married to this Hollywood actor, I understood this is a very big secret that I have to keep.
41:02In our family, you didn't talk about this secret.
41:05I found pictures of her.
41:07I was just like, oh.
41:09Like, what?
41:11God was punishing me for what I had done.
41:14I never really process it.
41:16I dropped on the floor.
41:17You know, hi, we've been living a lie for the last 20 years.
41:19I was terrified.
41:21I'm not going to keep this a secret anymore.
41:24Woo!
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