00:00We have a 46 year age gap. I'm 74 years old. I'm 28. New school versus old school.
00:07The first thing they think is she's with me for the money. I tell him he's gonna
00:12go to the nursing home and I'm not gonna take care of him. So my best guy friend
00:17Greg, he's coming over today and I'm gonna reveal to him David's age. I am so
00:24nervous. So you said that you think that he's 49. Okay let's add 30 to that. Some
00:38of the favorite gifts that David has given me are like shoes, bags, but my
00:44favorite is my yellow eye bag. David does fool me. I get the majority of the things
00:51that I asked for. Like my Speedy. I love a cute little Tory birch bag. Boots he
00:58bought me and they were like almost $500 boots. My jewelry case. Yeah that's her
01:03favorite. She loves that. She loves to shop. Just about everything she asked for,
01:08she will get it. I told her you spoil me, you get what you want. He's paid my car
01:13off in full. He's paid my entire college. Pays for this beautiful place for us to
01:18live. And he pays for my son to go to school. How much money have you spent on
01:23Charlotte since you first met? Oh I can't give you an answer. I'm not gonna answer that.
01:33We met here in Orlando, Florida. I was on vacation with my son and I ran into David.
01:40I'm retired so I work part-time driving the buses and I saw her and she looks so cute I
01:46just had to say something to her. He asked me for my number. He asked if I had
01:50a pen and paper. And so I asked him, do you don't have a phone? I got his number and
01:55we just started talking and we hung out for the rest of the weekend. He convinced
01:58me to move to sunny Florida and we've been together ever since. He's the only
02:02oldest man I've ever dated. I heard that older men were like more mature. I just
02:08thought I'd give it a try. I didn't know his age at first so it didn't ever bother me. I
02:12just thought maybe we can just grow a friendship and see where it goes. So babe,
02:17my friend Greg, he's literally on his way. I'm really so worried about letting him
02:23know about your age today. When she told me about her dating David, I knew he was a
02:29little bit older. When she decided to move to Orlando with David, I was kind of
02:34like, are you ready to move to Orlando with David? I've never wanted a woman older
02:39than me and most of the women were younger but she's a lot younger. He's told me
02:46that the women his age are boring. Yeah, they're boring. And they like to stay in the
02:52house. I don't have the kind of energy that I have. For my age, I have a lot. Yeah. I
02:56have more energy than she does. Well, I really wanted to, you know, introduce the
03:02fact that, you know, you know that we are obviously not of the same age group but how
03:07old do you think David is? 49, 50? Yeah. That's right. That's right. That's it.
03:1449? Yeah. Okay, 49. You're doing good at 49. Yeah. Okay. Well, what do you think when we first got
03:23together? I thought it was a little bit different, you know, but I'm not a person to
03:28judge. Exactly. You know, it wasn't like a shocker ordeal. It wasn't a shocker? Ordeal. Not for real,
03:34friend. Okay. Well, maybe this might be a shocker. When we do go out, we do get, you know,
03:40like side looks or people were staring. Because when you look at us, you don't know our dynamic,
03:46of course. Like, oh, that looks like her dad or her grandpa. But then when you see us kissing,
03:51they're like, oh, wait, why are they doing that? So you said that you think that he's 49.
03:56Yeah, 49, 50. Okay, let's add 30 to that.
04:04He is 74.
04:07Yeah, 74.
04:18David is 74 years old.
04:22Sorry.
04:27Yeah, 74.
04:3174?
04:32Yeah.
04:32I feel like I'm back.
04:33You feel like you?
04:3449.
04:3549.
04:35The gym.
04:38Being good.
04:39Yeah.
04:39Standing good.
04:40Moving.
04:40Yes.
04:41Standing awake for the drug.
04:42Do you ever expect you to be with somebody that's 74?
04:45No.
04:46Yeah.
04:48Me either.
04:49People are going to judge.
04:51That's their business.
04:52But the thing I noticed, women get jealous.
04:55When a woman sees an older man with a younger woman,
04:58women get jealous because they feel like I should be with them.
05:02The men go, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, the guys, the guys are different.
05:08The guys be like, you go, man, lucky you.
05:12Older women, and I'm not saying this to pet myself, but they think I'm a very handsome man.
05:19Women will deliberately speak to him and ignore me, I guess, because they think he's out at the mall with his daughter.
05:27Sometimes it makes me feel, am I doing, you know, the right thing?
05:31I feel like they might think that I'm, you know, just here for his money.
05:35I would like to tell the people that think that I'm a gold digger that he would be the gold digger because I'm the gold.
05:41I'm not a gold digger.
05:43I don't have those type of intuitions.
05:46I really like him for who he is and not for what he gives and what he has.
05:50My friends, you know, they'll say, oh, she's going to take you for this.
05:53She's going to take you for that.
05:55Or what would you do if, you know, she wanted to be with someone younger?
06:01And I just tell them, we'll cross that bridge when we get to it, if it happens.
06:04But right now, things are fine with us and we're good.
06:07This is what I told my son.
06:09I said, if I die, put me in the casket like this.
06:14And he said, why, Dad?
06:15I said, so when everybody walks by me, they can fist bump me and say, that man had fun.
06:20I see so many guys my age and they're miserable.
06:23Not me.
06:24I'm still a young kid.
06:26Okay, now, since you know my age, what do you think about our relationship now?
06:31Yeah, there's a change.
06:32Well, there's a change.
06:32Exactly.
06:33My man.
06:34Is this a mama?
06:35My man.
06:35My man.
06:36My man.
06:37Yeah.
06:37You're looking to the girl.
06:39Exactly.
06:40You're still going to party, get a party, get a party, get a party, get a party.
06:42I joke with him all the time.
06:46I tell him, you know, when you're going to die.
06:50But I tell him, like, you know, he's going to go to the nursing home and I'm not going
06:55to take care of him.
06:56I'm going to go out and still party and have fun and travel.
07:00But those are all jokes.
07:02I told him, you know, I told him, you know, if he ever falls ill or anything happens, I
07:07will be here to take care of him because that's what partners are for.
07:11And I would expect the same from him if anything happened to me.
07:14You never know.
07:15You never know.
07:15Here today going to matter.
07:17You could go before me or you could get ill before me.
07:20Yeah, I feel like whenever you meet somebody in your life, they're there for a reason.
07:24You know, everybody has certain seasons with everybody.
07:27And I just feel as though like we're here for a reason to help each other.
07:31I'm not a gold digger.
07:32I'm a goal digger.
07:35She has goals and like.
07:36And when I met her, I told her, I said, I will help you.
07:40She's not like this.
07:42Our relationship is like this.
07:45Right.
07:45And it makes it very interesting.
07:47And I think she's sexy as hell.
07:50Oh.
07:50Maybe one day we should think about marriage.
07:53Hey, I'm not getting any younger.
07:55Right.
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