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00:00Hi, David, Dad.
00:02He remembered me and he started to brighten up.
00:05Hi, it's Melissa.
00:08It's Melissa.
00:11Hi.
00:16They were separated for so long.
00:18So what caused them not to cross paths until now?
00:22When he was in his 20s, he was in a horrible car accident,
00:25leaving him with traumatic brain injury.
00:26His mom and dad assigned him to the state and abandoned him to facilities.
00:32For 46 years, he was passed around from facility to facility to group home to group home.
00:39Learn at one point he was homeless, too.
00:41Over the years, he's always told people that he's had a daughter.
00:44Nobody's ever believed him.
00:46For my entire life, it was very difficult to find my dad.
00:49He was always a mystery and just a story told very shortly by my mother.
00:53He has no teeth, no ID, no birth certificate.
00:57After decades of mysteries, she got a phone call that changed everything.
01:01I got a phone call from a doctor at a hospital in Las Vegas.
01:05I learned that my father hadn't eaten for two weeks.
01:08They wanted me to sign a DNR and also to sign him over to hospice,
01:12as he didn't want a feeding tube and he didn't want any assistance to keep him alive.
01:17For years, I had thought he was dead.
01:19I knew I needed to fly from Florida to Vegas the very next day.
01:22Reuniting with his daughter changed David's whole perspective on life.
01:26He remembered me and he started to brighten up.
01:28I witnessed him eat three meals while I was at the hospital.
01:32We saw each other, looked like it gave him the will to live.
01:35He started moving around.
01:36He was walking on his own with assistance, but he had more energy.
01:41He had more life.
01:42She realized that she needed to do everything in her power to help her dad through whatever time they had left.
01:47The home that he was at, there was no nurse that visited every day.
01:50The clothes that you see him in here were soiled.
01:53They smelled awful.
01:55We took him to his new hospice place.
01:57Got him more clothes, warm jacket, snacks, food.
02:01I did everything to make sure that his stay was going to be good.
02:04Despite all this, she decided to make a life-changing decision for both of them.
02:08Something convinced me that I needed to bring him to Florida.
02:12On my last day, I sat down with my dad and told him.
02:16We both sobbed.
02:17He's so excited.
02:19He's a proud grandfather of five children.
02:22However, that was not meant to be.
02:24A month after their reunion, David passed away.
02:27She is eternally grateful for the time they spent together.
02:29After going home for just a little bit of, I mean, it was such a short period of time before it happened.
02:34I'm numb.
02:35I'm devastated.
02:36That's not fair.
02:38We went to the facility.
02:40We laying in the bed with him, calmed him and comforted him.
02:44After we left, we went immediately to go grab him a cup of coffee.
02:50I'm so glad we had this adventure and I would do it over and over again.
02:56He couldn't have spent his final days in any better way.
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