'RHOM' Star Lisa Hochstein Says Chatter About Her Relationship Has Been "Really Difficult"

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00:00We are here with the one and only Lisa Hoxstein from The Real Housewives of Miami.

00:04This season is absolutely killing it.

00:06So good so far.

00:07What was your mindset going into it?

00:11Well, I knew that I was going to have an issue with Larissa because it started before filming.

00:17There's a lot to dive into.

00:19We've been having these crazy issues since summer.

00:23I've never been thrown out of anyone's house.

00:25The whole world knows what you are.

00:26Get out.

00:27F***ing loser.

00:28Get out.

00:28And I've never been swore at like that in my house.

00:31Yes, you have.

00:32Jody and I left a real party for your fake breakup.

00:35You're a fake b***h to say that.

00:36Things kind of like snowballed after that.

00:39So I knew that I was walking into that.

00:43And I was excited because I knew I was going to walk in the Milan Fashion Week for Philip

00:47Klein.

00:48Like, that was an amazing moment.

00:51That was in vogue also.

00:53So that was awesome.

00:54But besides that, you know, the norm.

00:56Like the fights and the makeups and the breakup, you know, the whole thing.

01:01Yeah.

01:02Yeah.

01:02Well, I have to say.

01:02And then Alexia and her divorce.

01:04Yes.

01:05I knew that was going to be a big thing.

01:08And I feel terrible for her.

01:10Yeah.

01:10Well, how have you been able to, you know, be there for her?

01:12Because you kind of very recently went through your own stuff with that.

01:18With me, at least, she's been a little, maybe a little secretive.

01:23I think she's trying to protect her relationship or what is left of it with her and Todd to

01:29not hurt him in case they were to rekindle their relationship.

01:34And I get that.

01:35Like I said, whenever you're ready, just tell me.

01:37Yeah, absolutely.

01:38And I have to say, I love to see you in mom mode.

01:41How are you and Lenny co-parenting?

01:43How's that whole thing going?

01:46We're just basically kind of co-existing.

01:50I'm trying my best to co-parent.

01:52And we're like kind of high-conflict co-parenting situations.

01:59So it's difficult.

02:00But I just try to be, you know, very positive.

02:04And when I'm with them, giving them everything, all my attention.

02:07Because I only have them 50% of the time right now, which I hate.

02:12You know, as a mom, I really wish that I could have them more.

02:16Well, I have to say, I do love you and Jodi together.

02:20I think you guys are adorable.

02:21How have you been navigating all this stuff about your relationship this season?

02:26It's been really difficult because, you know, he's not used to this world.

02:32And he's, you know, a little more to himself and didn't know what he was getting into.

02:38I tried to warn him.

02:41But, you know, dealing with a divorce, he felt like he was getting divorced also.

02:47And he has definitely been my rock through this whole thing.

02:50And it's such an amazing support for me.

02:53My biggest supporter.

02:55Well, I also want to talk about, you know, the stuff going on with Larsa.

02:58You guys have kind of been going back and forth a little bit this season.

03:01And it seemed to maybe stem from you continuing to follow Marcus, that stuff.

03:06At least on her end, it stemmed from that, you know, her anger.

03:09Well, you know what's interesting?

03:10I just saw an article the other day and a bunch of her best friends still follow Marcus.

03:16So, I just find that very peculiar.

03:19Yeah.

03:20Like, why are, where is that energy for them?

03:23Right.

03:24Why so much energy for me when the headline was like two people, I think Carolyn and, Carolyn and her husband.

03:34They follow.

03:35And I just recently saw that they were in Miami.

03:37They stayed at Larsa's house.

03:38Like, she was fine with that.

03:40Like, why, why, why is that okay?

03:41But it's not okay for me.

03:44Can we talk about your timeliness a little bit?

03:46I have to say you were on time today.

03:48Your castmates all seem to accept that it's kind of a normal thing to not have you be on time, you know.

03:53And, and Stephanie kind of went in on, on you about it.

03:56What are you doing today?

03:58Waiting for you, goddess.

04:01Lisa, do you think your time's more important than all of ours?

04:04Or do you think that you're like more valuable?

04:05Are we supposed to, like, celebrate your entrance?

04:10No.

04:11Did you realize how much your tardiness bothered everyone else and have you gotten better with it?

04:16Um, you know, yes.

04:17I have been working on myself.

04:19I take full responsibility.

04:21Like, it's not, I don't like this feeling of being late.

04:24Like, it's not something I do intentionally.

04:26It's something, it's my worst flaw.

04:30Like, that's the worst thing I would say about me is, is that.

04:33But I am so much better, got the message loud and clear.

04:38Um, and I actually have a time management coach.

04:41No way.

04:42Yes.

04:43That's what I've been working with.

04:44And I, I have my company Splitwell and now I manage many people.

04:47And I have to be an example for them and an example for my children.

04:52So I'm really trying to do my best.

04:56I have not been late for, I can't even remember the last time.

04:59I, I have been late, I was three hours early for Andy's show yesterday.

05:03He did say that.

05:04Um, so yeah, on that one, my bad.

05:07I want to talk about this, this party that Alexia threw, this event she threw.

05:11Yeah, you pick Lisa?

05:12Yeah.

05:13I pick Lisa too.

05:14Oh, she's very offended with me.

05:15That one was quick to take offense and Lisa got the most with three.

05:19I win again.

05:21This is like a whack game with some whack people.

05:24It was terrible.

05:25What happened through your mind in that moment?

05:26Did you expect that to be the outcome?

05:29Well, no, I didn't even know that it was a narcissist party.

05:32I was told that we were all, I don't know.

05:34I was told it was a goddess party dressed like a goddess.

05:38We're celebrating us.

05:39We're celebrating women.

05:41And that's not what it was.

05:43It was creating division.

05:45And I felt ganged up on and not to, you know, play a victim or whatever they want to say,

05:53but I literally had just came back from, you know, saying goodbye to my father.

05:58And I didn't expect friends to treat me like this.

06:02You know, it doesn't matter how close you are or not with somebody.

06:05Losing a parent is one of the worst things, you know, a child or a parent, whatever, anybody

06:11that you love, it's really difficult.

06:13So I didn't like that.

06:14And I thought it was, I thought it was terrible.

06:16Who would you say displays the most narcissistic traits out of the group?

06:20I would say Larsa.

06:22All of us have certain narcissistic traits.

06:24Like anyone with an Instagram, I think we have a little bit of that within us.

06:29Um, but to diagnose somebody as a straight up narcissist without, you know, you're not,

06:35you're not a doctor.

06:36You're not a therapist.

06:36You can't really make that diagnosis.

06:39Yeah.

06:39It's just, it's just like, um, it's messy.

06:43And it seems like there have been a lot of overall shifts in dynamics this season.

06:47Which one surprised you the most?

06:51Um, well, Larsa and I, that surprised me again.

06:55There's a whole backstory before filming.

06:56I won't get into it now.

06:57Um, with Julia and Adriana, that, I mean, they were besties.

07:04They got engaged.

07:05Like they had a whole like marriage, like friendship, engagement.

07:09I thought those two would, I didn't ever see this coming, but it's unfortunate.

07:14And Adriana is really, uh, upset about it.

07:18Yeah.

07:18She really never expected that.

07:20Yeah.

07:20And it, it seems like Julia is kind of having a hard time.

07:22Cause even with the Gertie thing and throwing the water.

07:25Be quiet.

07:26I literally, don't you tell me.

07:27Oh, shit.

07:28Oh, shit.

07:29You're a liar.

07:30Martina had a cancer situation.

07:31Oh, my God.

07:32You're a liar.

07:33You are a liar.

07:34I've never seen her act like that.

07:36And I, I, if I was there, I would have for sure said something.

07:39Like, I don't agree with that.

07:41I wasn't there.

07:43And so the whole season, I'm like, well, what happened?

07:45I was so confused until I saw it.

07:48And I was like, ah, yeah, that wasn't great.

07:51Right.

07:51She should have not.

07:52I don't think, I'm pretty sure she probably is like mortified, like by the reaction that

07:58it's getting.

07:59I'm sure she wishes she never did that, but it happened.

08:02Yeah.

08:02It was very out of character for sure.

08:04Shifting gears a little bit.

08:05I want to talk about your company, Splitwell.

08:07Yeah.

08:07You made tech history for being the first housewife to enter the AI space.

08:12So smart.

08:13Give us some deets.

08:15It was like another full-time job.

08:16Getting divorced.

08:17Before you're sending the message, it's helping you send the right message to deescalate the

08:24conflict.

08:24Please tell me everything, all the amazing things.

08:26You were somewhere very cool this morning.

08:28Oh my God.

08:29So like pinch me.

08:31What a moment this morning.

08:33I was on such a high.

08:34I got to ring the NASDAQ bell.

08:37Splitwell is an AI powered divorce support platform aimed to help people lower the costs with their

08:44divorces because divorces are super expensive.

08:49We have lawyers that we suggest that are ethical and it's just everything all encompassing.

08:57So it's organizing your documents to help you analyze it.

09:01It has a note taker that literally sits in meetings with you or conversations and records this information

09:09so it can help you understand what's being said, like from a legal viewpoint.

09:15I'm really proud of it.

09:16It's just the beginning.

09:17I'm just so excited, you know, to have this platform and to help people hopefully not go

09:22through what I and many other women have gone through.

09:25What's one thing or anything you can tease about the rest of the season?

09:28No, we have some great trips coming up.

09:30Yes.

09:31No, it just sucks fighting with a friend.

09:34Yeah.

09:34You know, I don't like, it was so much anxiety whenever I had to see Larsa and I don't like

09:41walking into a room and feeling like that.

09:42It's just, that sucked.

09:44But it gets, it gets better and then it gets worse and better.

09:47It goes up and down.

09:49It's like literally a roller coaster, but we go on these amazing trips, you know, and

09:54we're just like jet setting around the world to Marbella.

09:58We're in Sevilla, Spain.

09:59It's just beautifully, it's just beautiful.

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