00:00Last year both my parents got cancer, I'm not able to say them what I have to say and they are also fearing about me, you are also getting that same thing because we do have.
00:14So why not then make the most of the time that is available because even to a healthy person the end is inevitable and when you are someone who has a greater probability of cancer returning then you have to be even more sensitive about your time which means you cannot spend time in grieving, in lamenting, in remaining depressed, in spreading sadness.
00:38Even though I'm telling the same things, death is inevitable, we have to face that, they are making me to go into their situations.
00:47That's a question that has to be asked, suppose we have three more years, how do we want to spend these three years?
00:54When something is available only in a small quantity, you spend it with even more caution, don't you?
01:08I am listening to your videos since six months and I joined in Geeta sessions also and last year both my parents got cancer, so they were very worried and financially disturbed.
01:26So in this situation they are in depressed state and they are talking with me in that way otherwise I am not able to say them what I have to say and so in this situation how to handle them?
01:45What is the situation right now, Adi?
01:52Both of them have finished their treatments, they are with me now and what they are thinking is they are getting again and again, they thought again and again.
02:06What is the situation right now and remission?
02:11Remission is, treatment was over, three months of screening is over, once is over and everyday they are thinking like they will get that again and they have to go through that treatment again and again and they are forcing me indirectly in that sad situation.
02:31But what are the doctors saying, what are the chances that they will relapse?
02:36What are the doctors saying?
02:38They will get that.
02:39That they may get?
02:40One is breast and one is colon.
02:42And they are also fearing about me, you are also getting that same thing because we do have, we both have the same thing and you will also get that because of us.
02:52When the discussion is so much around health, death and mortality, why not face it head on?
03:20Right now they have been treated, right now there are no cancer cells in the body, right now, but there is a chance that it may, as of now there is nothing.
03:38In the future, there might be something, there is some chance.
03:43But for everybody in the future, death is anyway certain.
03:49What matters is that today you are alive.
03:52And also there is a probability that you may continue to live for a fairly large number of years.
04:03It is still possible, right?
04:06So why not then make the most of the time that is available?
04:10Because even to a healthy person, the end is inevitable and when you are someone who has a greater probability of cancer returning, then you have to be even more sensitive about your time.
04:28Which means you cannot spend time in grieving, in lamenting, in remaining depressed, in spreading sadness, right?
04:39That should be the question around, that it is a matter of grace, that right now we are free of the disease.
04:47Let's make the best use of this time because we do not know.
04:50Even though I am telling the same things, that death is inevitable, we have to face that, they are making me to go into their situations.
05:01So that is a question that has to be asked.
05:03Suppose, we have three more years, how do we want to spend these three years?
05:12The common man will say, I have 20 more years or 30 more years.
05:15You know, at the age of your parents, they will, they must be in their 60s.
05:20Maybe one is 50, 55.
05:2250, 50, late 50, okay.
05:24So the common man at this age will say, I have 20 more years.
05:28Maybe your parents will say, we have two more years or five more years.
05:32So we know the time is limited.
05:34And if time is limited, that's even a bigger reason to spend it very carefully.
05:43Which means, to the extent the body and the doctors allow it, you must travel, you must, you must explore life as much as possible.
05:56Because you know what's knocking on the door.
05:59Right?
06:00Wasting time is bad even for an otherwise healthy young man.
06:06But when you know that your clock is ticking, then wasting time makes no sense at all.
06:13Or does it? Yes.
06:15So that's what you must say, let every day be a celebration of some kind or the other.
06:20Let's say, let's sit together, eat together, travel together, do whatever is possible under the conditions and make the best use of whatever time is there.
06:31And who knows?
06:33I mean, medical sciences advanced to an extent, who knows?
06:36Maybe still there are decades to live, who knows?
06:40Yes.
06:41But the worst case is, let's say we have two years or five years.
06:44Right?
06:45Live with the stock.
06:46No?
06:47When something is available only in a small quantity, right, you spend it with even more caution, don't you?
07:02Yes.
07:03So, we be free and then make the maximum use of the time available.
07:19Right?
07:20Yes.
07:21It's better.
07:22For the rest of the time, for the rest of the time, you will be free.
07:23To have a happy life.
07:24Me.
07:25To have a happy life.
07:26If you are good at your time, you can't wait.
07:27To have a happy life, you will be free and you'll be free and deliver.
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