Girthmasterr on Setting Boundaries With Fans

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Girthmasterr on Setting Boundaries With Fans  #Girthmasterr

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00:00Now, you recently did a mainstream campaign back in Australia, right?

00:04For like a spice?

00:06Yeah, Mingle Seasoning.

00:07Tell us a little bit about that.

00:09Yeah, that was awesome.

00:09I got an email one day.

00:11Because I've been looking to do a few brand deals and I did one with a condom company

00:15in Australia.

00:17And then, yeah, Mingle Seasoning reached out to me and asked if I wanted to be a part of

00:21their new campaign they're doing.

00:23Yeah, so in Australia right now, there's a TV commercial, billboards, like I'm on the

00:28radio, a whole bunch of online articles, all for being the chief satisfaction officer

00:33for Mingle Seasoning.

00:34I was on the Today Show, like the morning Today Show, doing like a cooking show with them.

00:39Oh my God, that must have been surreal.

00:42Absolutely, yeah.

00:43Like my friend's girlfriend was in the dentist's chair and she saw me on the TV, like above

00:47the dentist.

00:48And I had someone on my Instagram, they saw they were in prison and saw me on the prison

00:52TV.

00:53And then when they got out, they sent me a message, like I saw you on TV in prison.

00:56Now, do you get like crazy fan mail and DMs now?

01:00Yeah, I always have.

01:01Like message request folder is like to be avoided.

01:05Yes.

01:05It's full of butthole pics, dick pics, unsolicited pictures of people's wives.

01:10Like it's just random weird stuff.

01:12What is like some of the craziest messages that you've gotten?

01:15Oh, I had one fan, bless her soul.

01:19She'd sketch me like every day.

01:20She had sketchbooks full of sketches of me and like, you know, pages and pages of my

01:25eyes.

01:26And then one day she sketched like an entire song and every page had one line from the

01:31song with us acting out what the lyrics in the song was saying.

01:35And like, bless her soul.

01:37Like she's such a sweetheart.

01:38But I had to kind of be like, look, it's getting a little parasocial here.

01:42Like, I don't know where this is going, but I don't want to go too far.

01:46But it was really sweet.

01:47I loved it.

01:48Have you ever met her like at a convention?

01:50No, no, no.

01:50This is like a fan on OnlyFans.

01:53She may meet me one day at a convention or something.

01:55Right, right.

01:57Yeah.

01:58I mean, sometimes you, it's hard to set those boundaries.

02:01Yeah.

02:01And it is fun and it is like kind of funny as well, but I don't want it to get too far.

02:06Yeah.

02:07Yeah.

02:07How do, how do you set those boundaries?

02:09Because I've, I've had to deal with that too, where sometimes it gets to a point where

02:13you're like, whoa.

02:13Yeah.

02:14Well, I don't shy away from, you know, reminding my fans that, like of the dynamic.

02:20Like I've made videos on TikTok, like I made one last week saying like, if you find yourself

02:24getting in a parasocial relationship with me, just remind yourself, I'm a 31 year old

02:27guy making TikToks.

02:29Like you'll get over it pretty quick.

02:30Like I'm not all that.

02:32But yeah, you know, and I try not to lean too much into like, I don't know, pretending

02:36to be in relationships with fans and stuff like that.

02:38It's just not really my vibe.

02:39If it's going to make me feel bad, I don't want to do it for money.

02:43So I'm like, yeah, I'm happy to reinforce a boundary, even if it means losing a little

02:48bit of income.

02:49Right.

02:50Now you're, and you're single, right?

02:51Yeah.

02:52And that feels like the right move for you right now?

02:54I'd say so.

02:54Definitely.

02:55Yeah.

02:55When do you, are you somebody who like wants to get married and like have a family later

03:00on in life?

03:01I think one day.

03:01Yeah.

03:02Like where I am in life right now, like porn career has gone great.

03:06Living in LA feels like I got like the world at my feet right now and introducing like

03:12a relationship dynamic to my life right now would kind of complicate things and maybe

03:16hold me back in some way.

03:17I'd kind of prefer to just stay single, not break hearts, focus on work, have as much

03:24fun as I can while I'm in LA, disappear back to Australia and settle down a bit once I'm

03:29back home.

03:30Do you think that it would be hard to like date?

03:33The way I look at it, like, cause I decided this when I started doing porn, I realized that

03:37there's a large demographic of people that won't date me because I did porn, but I'm

03:42kind of doing myself a favor in that I don't want to date those people if they'll have an

03:46issue with someone that does porn.

03:47So I've done my, otherwise I'll compromise, like get them out of the dating pool.

03:52I did myself a favor.

03:54So I don't know.

03:56It's hard to not date.

03:58Cause like dates are fun.

04:00I love women going out for drinks and stuff like that.

04:02And then, you know, how do you reinforce, like, I can't do anything serious right now,

04:07but feelings inevitably get involved.

04:09Right.

04:10It's tough.

04:11It's complicated.

04:12It's hard.

04:12Cause you want to be, I want to be sweet and nice and, you know, have fun with people,

04:17but I don't know.

04:18It's a tricky situation to navigate.

04:20Yeah.

04:20And then also have to, yeah, set those boundaries.

04:23That's really hard.

04:23Yeah.

04:24I'm so glad I am no longer in the dating pool.

04:27It's tough.

04:28Oh my God.

04:28Those were, those days were rough.

04:31Absolutely.

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