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00:00Previously on Match Me Abroad.
00:06Glenn is just fun and just carefree.
00:09And right now, I feel torn because I feel like tonight really gave Keevan a run for his money.
00:19Oh my word.
00:21You're very cute.
00:23I know I am.
00:26Oh my god.
00:28Big mistake.
00:30I'm a little worried that it might scare her off and hurt my chances with her.
00:35You said you have multiple girlfriends at the same time.
00:37Isn't that a lot of work?
00:39Physically, it's almost impossible.
00:41Unless you're in the adult entertainment industry, which I actually explored.
00:47Really?
00:48Do you honestly think that I would want the father of my children and my husband to be in porn?
00:55Sorry to hear of an old loss.
01:00Oh, it's fine.
01:01Like, I don't know.
01:02I feel like it's made me who I am.
01:04Telling Darren about, like, all this stuff, it doesn't feel like he's judging me like most people do.
01:09I just hope that Darren's feeling the same way about me.
01:12Especially because he's about to, like, get the tattoo of me, like, permanently on his body.
01:19Do you regret it now that it's done?
01:20The date itself with Bruno was fantastic.
01:32Guess who comes back in my mind?
01:34Bernardo.
01:35The fact is, Bruno has more of what I want than Bernardo.
01:39But, like, I'm still really entranced by Bernardo.
01:42I don't like hurting people.
01:43I would rather be hurt.
01:44And you stay sad.
01:46And you stay alone.
01:47By yourself.
01:48Single.
01:49Forever.
01:51This is not good.
02:02This looks good.
02:04Okay, which side do you want to see?
02:07I'll see this side.
02:09All right.
02:12Cheers.
02:19Oh, yes.
02:20To a beautiful date.
02:21Yeah.
02:23Mmm.
02:24Mmm, pineapple.
02:26I've never dated a woman as complex as Amber.
02:28And it's throwing me for loops.
02:31In the back of my mind, I keep thinking about how she has told Dolly she has concerns about autism and spectrum.
02:36But she wasn't up front with me, and I don't understand why.
02:39Singaporean women in general are very conservative, so I can see how maybe she has walls put up.
02:45She is protecting herself.
02:47Regardless, I need to move forward, but left foot or right foot.
02:50How's the food?
02:54Oh, that's good.
02:55I don't know what that is.
02:56It's good, though.
02:57Um, this two are hummus.
03:00It's chickpea.
03:01Chickpea.
03:02Yeah, it tastes like cheese.
03:03I love cheese.
03:04I used to have really bad diarrhea when I have milk.
03:10I thought it would be funny if it was gas.
03:13Gas is funny because girls don't fart.
03:15No?
03:16Which part of biology tells you girls don't fart?
03:19Oh, the polite part.
03:21That's very nice of you.
03:23Yes.
03:23Hey, right.
03:24I actually have questions I want to ask you.
03:27Okay.
03:28What is the wildest thing at the end?
03:31I don't know how much I can say.
03:34Just go ahead.
03:35I have a high tolerance.
03:36Sorry.
03:37Ah.
03:40I took a day off college, and I met my girlfriend in another town because we were far apart.
03:45Okay.
03:46And we had a fling in a car in a field in broad daylight.
03:51Wow.
03:52Okay.
03:53That sounds like something I might want to try.
03:58Hmm.
04:00In Asian culture, we don't really talk about sex stuff.
04:03Yes.
04:04At all.
04:04Oh.
04:05But for me, I think a little differently because I feel sex is a very important part of our relationship.
04:11Yeah.
04:13So for a lot of questions to that, besides the car one, what's the most exotic place you've had sex?
04:25Movie theater.
04:25I think mine's in a public toilet.
04:33Interesting.
04:35You're a big big blush.
04:37I am very relieved with how openly Amber's discussing sex.
04:41It makes me feel that she's into me.
04:44It makes me feel that, oh, we might have sex.
04:47Oh, I should have said that.
04:49I mean, I haven't had sex in a port-a-potty before.
04:53It sounds messy, but now I hope that opportunity arises sometime.
04:58I have a question.
05:00With sex, do you instigate or the man instigate or is it always together?
05:03It depends.
05:07Who has the urge?
05:09Being sinful.
05:11A lot of people view sex as a way for things like, I want to have kids.
05:16Okay, then we have sex.
05:17Not many people actually enjoy the process of it.
05:19Oh, okay.
05:20So.
05:20I enjoy the process of it.
05:23That's good.
05:25In Asian culture, we have sex only after marriage.
05:29But for me, maybe five, six things?
05:32Because sometimes things just progress and things happen.
05:37Like the kiss on the lips.
05:39It was a bit sneaky, but pleasantly surprised, I would say.
05:41I think I am definitely more attracted to Harold, but I am still concerned about something.
05:48So, we'll see how it goes.
05:52So, I think we have had a good date, but I have never worried about autism.
06:00It's regarding, relating to offsprings.
06:04Oh.
06:04Yeah.
06:06I understand there is a high chance that our kids...
06:09It could be passed down.
06:10Yeah, it could pass down.
06:12Um, with offspring, if it is an issue, we'll be able to recognize it.
06:17Because I have experienced it myself.
06:19That's true.
06:20And we'll catch it early, and it's not a problem.
06:23If we see them having trouble reading, we'll get special tutors, or I'll teach them.
06:26And I think if we have more children, it'll be less chance.
06:29Diluted, huh?
06:30Yes, diluted.
06:31Diluted.
06:31We might have one out of six.
06:33They're already thinking of six?
06:35Yes.
06:35Okay.
06:36Wow.
06:38I'm glad Amber asked these questions, because it shows me that
06:40she's taking our relationship seriously, and we're moving forward.
06:44I'm ready.
06:44Are you ready?
06:45Yeah.
06:45Let's go.
06:46Okay.
06:47And I also feel more hopeful now, having learned that she's not as conservative as most
06:52Singaporean women, I see it as maybe she'll be more willing to fast track so that I can
06:58go forth and meet her family to pass her mini-test.
07:01And she'll be confident and assured that I am everything that she wants, that she's everything
07:06that I want, and we can immediately have a family.
07:11Honestly, I wanted an excuse to hold your hand.
07:13You were sitting across from me too far.
07:15I could tell.
07:15I saw you walking to the room, there's nothing I can say.
07:21You picked me up, I'm running back to us, I'm here to stay.
07:26When you know I'll go away.
07:32Yum.
07:32I love a good luncheon.
07:34I'm holding back, I want you now.
07:39I wonder if you know it.
07:41I'm holding back, I'm holding back.
07:47Coming.
07:53Hey, Dolly.
07:54Sorry, I'm in the process of putting my shoes on.
07:56Everything's on point.
07:57You are ready?
07:58Yeah.
07:59I will be once I put my other shoe on.
08:02My date with Sean a couple days ago, it was horrific.
08:04And I'm really wondering if Dolly, if we're on the same page.
08:11Sean.
08:11Él me preguntó cuánto men he slept con.
08:13Él me preguntó, ¿qué es mi body countaña?
08:16Sí.
08:16No debería estar hablando de estas cosas en la primera vez.
08:19Cuando he escuchado a él,
08:20él expresó que él quería encontrar el amor.
08:25Hay compatibilidad en términos de valor.
08:28Entonces, voy a hablar con él.
08:30Voy a decir que él tiene que ser mejor.
08:33De hecho, puedes ayudar a él.
08:35De hecho, estoy muy annoyed.
08:37Pero, Dolly, no tengo tiempo para gastar.
08:39Así, voy a ir a mi tercer date en Singapur.
08:42Y estoy esperando el tercer time de charme.
08:44Pero, estoy sceptical.
08:46Porque, ella me dijo que vamos a ir a la gym.
08:50Y, sweating en la primera date es no es muy cute.
08:54EJ.
08:55Así, esto es Sara.
08:56Hola.
08:57Soy Sara.
08:58¿Qué tal?
08:58Great.
09:00Vamos a ir a mi gym.
09:01Y, vamos a ir a mi laboral.
09:03Ok.
09:04Ya, vamos a ir.
09:06EJ es Singapurian.
09:08Pero, él es un mix de portugueses, malaysia, y indian.
09:12Y, tiene mucho que ofrecer Sara.
09:15Have a great workout.
09:16Ok.
09:16Y, voy a ir con ustedes con ustedes después de su date.
09:18Ok, great.
09:19Gracias.
09:19Have fun.
09:20Gracias.
09:21Let's go.
09:21Bye.
09:23Sara wants a man que es masculino.
09:26Y, que es el proveedor de la familia.
09:28Y, EJ es un successful business owner de several gyms.
09:32Y, también es un bodybuilder.
09:34Y, EJ es un poderoso de la familia, pero no mucho.
09:39Y, no, es un perfecto balance para Sara.
09:42Y, estoy muy emocionada para ver si Sara es capaz de abrir su corazón y seguir cosas con EJ.
09:49Y, EJ es definitivamente handsome y masculino.
10:19I'm a sucker for big muscles and tattoos, so, yeah, he's cute.
10:26He's an entrepreneur.
10:28He's easy to talk to, so, we'll give it one more shot.
10:32I've never done anything like this, so, you're going to have to tell me what.
10:37No, no, no, it's going to be fun.
10:38So, I'm going to be doing it with you.
10:40So, just have fun.
10:41Okay.
10:41Don't hit me, okay?
10:42Don't hit you?
10:43Don't hit me.
10:43I want to hit you.
10:45Okay, all right, shall we?
10:46I'll go easy on, yeah.
10:47Okay.
10:49My first impression of Sara, I was like, okay, wow.
10:53The way she looked, she is, sorry to say, like, bimbo-ish.
10:58Maybe I just have to get to know her a little bit more.
11:00Okay, show the situation to the front.
11:02I wanted to do Muay Thai together with Sara today, and I want to show her my gym,
11:07because this is a reflection of who I am, and what I do for a living.
11:11And this is very important for my partner to understand, you know,
11:15because your partner is the better half of you, and they need to understand
11:18what you do in order to support you, so that you can be better at what you do.
11:23And here's my coach, Danny.
11:25Hi, I'm Sara.
11:26Yeah, I'm Danny.
11:27Nice to meet you.
11:28We'll go through some of the basic punches, okay, facing me.
11:31Jab, cross, left hook, with a right front knee.
11:35Ready, go.
11:37Cross, left hook, right knee.
11:39Okay, nice.
11:40Okay, so the next one, what we're going to do will be the, a form of reaction training,
11:44using your palm to tap each other's shoulders.
11:47If you've managed to touch me, that means he has succeeded in scoring the point.
11:53All right?
11:54Okay.
11:54So maybe me and he, we can do one round to show her.
11:57Yeah.
11:57Okay, so from here, go.
12:00All right.
12:01Okay, so that is the idea of the reaction drill.
12:06Okay, you're going to, like, let me get you, right?
12:09Okay, ready?
12:10Three, two, one, go.
12:12I'm scared.
12:13Dolly is constantly telling me how I need to get out of my comfort zone, but I'm a total
12:20girly girl, and this is not my vibe.
12:23Like, I like to chill and drink wine and talk.
12:26That's more of my vibe.
12:29I don't like that.
12:30I'm just also kind of like a perfectionist, and I don't want EJ's first impression of
12:38me to be watching me flail around and look like an idiot.
12:43My hair is like whipping, boobs bouncing, like, yeah, it's so embarrassing.
12:51Okay.
12:52Hopefully, this date gets better.
12:54If not, then I really need to consider finding a different matchmaker.
13:00All right.
13:02We're not done?
13:07So fill me in.
13:08What's been going on with you and Darren?
13:09We got matching tattoos.
13:11Are those titties?
13:12Yes, they are.
13:15He's not the same as a king?
13:16Yeah.
13:16So he's got titties on his cast?
13:19Mm-hmm.
13:29Hi.
13:29How are you?
13:30I'm fabulous.
13:31How are you?
13:31Good, thank you.
13:32Can I do two pints again?
13:34Two pints?
13:34Yes.
13:35Perfect.
13:35Thank you.
13:42Excuse me.
13:50I broke the rules.
13:51I know I'm supposed to let it sit, but I didn't want to leave you out here waiting.
13:54Oh, no, you're fine.
13:55Let me get you a coaster, though.
13:57Thanks.
13:59Cheers.
14:01Orisky even tells me to say, sláinte.
14:05I'm so happy that my two American clients, Amber and Victoria, became friends.
14:11So is this your first time in Dublin or Ireland?
14:14Yep.
14:14It is.
14:14It is.
14:15Oh, you too.
14:15Oh, awesome.
14:16Okay, so two newbies.
14:17Yeah, exactly.
14:18Okay, so that took away a lot of nerves.
14:20Oh, yeah.
14:20Thank you.
14:21Yeah.
14:22Okay, now I'm excited.
14:22Yeah.
14:23I have another newbie.
14:23Yes, yeah.
14:24At least we're in it together.
14:25At least we have each other.
14:27I think it's very important for Amber and Victoria to support one another and feel that they are not
14:33alone in their exciting adventure in Ireland.
14:36So fill me in.
14:37What's been going on with you and Darren?
14:39We got matching tattoos.
14:41No way.
14:42I gotta see this.
14:45Are those titties?
14:46Yes, they are.
14:48Yeah, so he still has to keep the thing on still, but like...
14:51Ah, you're so funny.
14:52Oh, yeah.
14:53So it's like me and then like his style.
14:56The counter ghost looks like me every morning.
14:58I know.
14:59All right.
15:01I love it.
15:03He got the same exact thing.
15:05He's got titties on his cast.
15:07Mm-hmm.
15:07Darren and I have been texting every day and it's been really flirty and everything and the more I get to know Darren, the more I like him.
15:17I don't even remember the last time I had this feeling.
15:20And so I invited Darren to meet up with Amber and I. I really want her opinion, see what she thinks of Darren, and like see what her view is.
15:29You look so happy. You're like, oh, I'm loving it.
15:34I want to get a little ink now. Maybe you and Keevan? That'd be cute, but I don't know.
15:40Would you get a matching tattoo with him?
15:42I don't be scared to get a matching one with him. I'm starting to get confused.
15:46Why?
15:47I haven't really been speaking to him that much.
15:50I think it's because I went on another date with someone else.
15:53That Mr. Ireland?
15:54I went on a date with Mr. Ireland.
15:56He was such a dreamboat.
15:57And it sucks because everything that I was like questioning about Keevan are the things that he already has.
16:04It's easy for Glenn to be in the running right now because the communications with Keevan are slacking since he came to my hotel.
16:11Would you like to come in?
16:13Yeah.
16:14Thank you, Paul.
16:15Yeah.
16:16You're like my little heating blanket.
16:17Yeah.
16:18Oh, my word. It is so cold.
16:21I'm very big on communication. He knows that I'm only going to be here for so long.
16:26And without clear communication, it's going to be hard for me to keep that spark once I get back home to Texas.
16:30And that really, really concerns me.
16:33I'm really annoyed and aggravated and disappointed in Keevan.
16:36But now I'm even more confused because Keevan called me and asked me to go on an overnight trip.
16:42And I just don't even know where this came from.
16:44What's been going on these past three days that I haven't seen you?
16:47I want to know that someone is really, really interested in me.
16:50Yeah.
16:50I don't want to question it.
16:53Not me getting teary.
16:54I'm such a baby.
16:55But I'm like, you cry, I'll cry.
16:58I'm sorry. Let me hold it back.
17:00My nose is going to get red, though.
17:02Oh, I don't even have a tissue with me.
17:04With Keevan, I just want him to communicate better.
17:06Yeah.
17:07Yeah.
17:07Do you think that maybe you should say that to him?
17:09Do you think it would make a difference?
17:10I think so.
17:11Good.
17:12Yeah, because you don't want a guy that's going to get offended by...
17:14Yeah.
17:15But if he does get offended, then I know that he's not the one.
17:18Exactly.
17:19Hello.
17:19Hi.
17:20Oh, we're all on Guinness.
17:21Yeah, of course.
17:22Good.
17:23How are you?
17:23How are you?
17:24I'm good.
17:25I'm Irish.
17:26Do you want a Guinness?
17:27You know what?
17:28I said I wanted a margarita because I'm Texan, but I'm going to do another Guinness.
17:31Is that a Texan name?
17:33Yeah, it is.
17:33Yeah, I'm good.
17:37Oh, he looks nice.
17:39Yeah, he's super nice.
17:41Katerina told me the guys in Ireland move at a way slower pace than the guys in the U.S.
17:47But that's not true because Victoria and Darren got matching tattoos.
17:51I think they talk almost every day.
17:53They have conversations that it seems like are a lot deeper.
17:57It sounds like what I'm looking for.
17:59It sounds like stability.
18:03Two Guinness and an Irish margarita.
18:06That's a good one.
18:07So what have you done in Ireland?
18:09A lot of Irish things.
18:11I went to an alpaca farm.
18:13Okay.
18:14I went to a prison.
18:15Katerina.
18:16In court.
18:16Oh, in court.
18:17Oh, it's Spike Island.
18:19Yes.
18:20I visited someone's parents.
18:22Like someone you dated or you just met some random people's parents?
18:25No, someone that Katerina hooked me up with.
18:27So first date that you got introduced to the parents?
18:30I did.
18:30But have you time before you met them or that was like the first time?
18:33Like we went to the jail and then we went straight to the mom's house.
18:35Oh my gosh.
18:38He's Mr. Ireland.
18:39Mr. Ireland?
18:40Oh, Jesus.
18:41Mr. Ireland, yes.
18:42Oh, Jesus.
18:43Funny.
18:44I'm kind of mad because I have high aspirations for me and Keevan's relationship.
18:49But he's timid.
18:51He's allowing another man that I just met and went on one date with to just swoop in and
18:57to woo me and to do all these things.
19:00And now here we are.
19:01But at the same time, our connection is undeniable.
19:05And I've been questioning if I'm falling in love with Keevan.
19:08I don't know.
19:09I'm praying that this weekend getaway gives me the answers that I'm looking for.
19:17Do you know Samba?
19:18No, I don't.
19:20I couldn't ask for a better date right now.
19:23But, you know, I'll be honest, I still feel a tug towards Bernardo.
19:28All right.
19:29Do you live right now?
19:33For her, I think I need a different approach.
19:35I need a grand gesture.
19:37And proposing is strong on my mind.
19:40Oh, wow.
19:42In Harold's case, Amber is definitely sensing his impatience.
19:46And that's not how it works in Singapore.
19:47I just want to let you know I'm on my way to my second date with Bruno.
20:06Uh-oh.
20:08Don't be jealous.
20:09Don't be jealous.
20:10I'm so happy to have you.
20:13Thanks.
20:14O seu amor é o que me faz me sentir viva é o que traz paz.
20:22Tudo bem?
20:23Sim.
20:23Today, I'm going on my second date with Bruno.
20:29And he invited me to his house tonight so he could cook me dinner.
20:32I am so excited because the key to my heart is food.
20:35I came into my first date with Bruno, a little biased, thinking about Bernardo.
20:45That wasn't fair.
20:47I think it's important for me to explore this connection with Bruno and a place that he's
20:51comfortable in allows us to get a little bit deeper and really see if our values truly
20:56do align.
20:56Hi.
20:59Oh, you're cute.
20:59It's cute.
21:01It's cute.
21:02Yes.
21:03Yeah.
21:03Yeah.
21:03Hi.
21:04Oh.
21:05You're so pretty.
21:06Spent a long day.
21:06Oh, I'm tired.
21:07I'm tired.
21:08Oh.
21:09It looks so pretty.
21:11Oh, stop.
21:12No.
21:13Oh.
21:14Welcome, my home.
21:15Oh, my gosh.
21:15Very nice house.
21:16Yeah, very nice house.
21:18Come on.
21:19Cute.
21:19It's awesome.
21:20I love it.
21:22And the kitchen, I'm starting to cook it.
21:25Oh, I love it.
21:26This is cute.
21:29Saúde.
21:29Saúde.
21:30Cheers.
21:31Saúde.
21:31Yeah.
21:33Thank you for having me over.
21:35Another kiss.
21:39Mônica, she's an incredible woman to see in the future, in the energy, in the histories,
21:47and the talking, and the kiss.
21:50Everything is very good.
21:52And I love this, this moment with her, and I can, I need you more.
21:58Do you like cooking?
22:00I do like cooking.
22:01I prefer eating.
22:06What did you learn to cook?
22:07Uh, with my father.
22:09My father is a very good cooker.
22:11Is he?
22:12Yeah.
22:13And my mom, my mom, too.
22:14My mom are incredible, too.
22:17And I said, oh, I'm, I've been with the Mônica for the second time.
22:22And I went, oh, yeah.
22:23No, she is very happy.
22:25And she, uh, very enthusiastic for my, for my life.
22:29Yeah.
22:30My chemistry from the start was hotter with Bernardo.
22:35But with Bruno, it's gone, you know, to the point of great.
22:40I couldn't ask for a better date right now.
22:43He is just wonderful.
22:45Mm!
22:46It's good.
22:47He's got a great place.
22:49He's making me feel so comfortable.
22:51I'm, um, I'm so happy to be here.
22:56Tell, tell me more about your history.
22:59So I had my daughter when I was in college.
23:01Okay.
23:02Um, and then it took me eight years to graduate with a bachelor's degree.
23:07Eight years?
23:08I had to work.
23:09Mm-hmm.
23:09It was, like, scraping by, scraping by.
23:12I, I can imagine all the things you, you passed through, but, uh,
23:16you are a, a very strong woman.
23:19You are a warrior.
23:21But now you, you, you talk to me, I have, uh, I have a company.
23:24I work with my mom and my sister.
23:26It looks like, uh, oh, he got everything.
23:28No, I came from nothing.
23:33A simple life.
23:33Simple life.
23:34And now I have a little things more.
23:37But I really am that guy, that simple guy.
23:41And now it's a very good thing to look into the past and to be proud.
23:46You are, um, winners.
23:50Yeah.
23:51You're perfect.
23:55You have been, have been best, all these things, and you are here with me.
24:05You're beautiful.
24:07Yeah.
24:08You're incredible.
24:09I'm just saying.
24:10I'm just saying.
24:11Yeah.
24:19Yeah.
24:20Yeah.
24:20no i don't
24:36i'm a professional now
24:40you're perfect
24:49No, no.
24:51No.
24:53Bruno,
24:55he is
24:57pretty much the man of my dreams.
24:59Alright.
25:01Maybe in a few minutes.
25:03Okay.
25:05One more kiss.
25:07He cooks,
25:09cleans, he's smart.
25:11That's like ideal
25:13in a relationship.
25:15Alright, goodnight.
25:17You know, I'll be honest,
25:19I still feel a tug towards Bernardo.
25:21And
25:23now that we're talking
25:25about him, I wonder how he's doing, and I wonder what
25:27he's doing, and
25:29uh...
25:31Yeah. I am so torn.
25:33Okay. Okay. I will talk to you soon.
25:35Yeah. You can message me anytime, okay?
25:37Yeah, yeah, yeah. Alright. Goodnight.
25:39Goodnight.
25:47Do you want a picture with a merlion?
25:49Oh, definitely. Yeah.
25:51So there's this thing that they say,
25:53the wider you open your mouth,
25:55the better luck you have.
25:57Oh, okay. Look up.
25:59This way.
26:01Wider!
26:03It has the head of a lion,
26:07and the body of a fish.
26:09Oh.
26:11Because Singapore used to be a fishing village,
26:13a long time ago.
26:15So this is a representation of what Singapore is about.
26:19Love it.
26:21On my date with Amber, we had an amazing boat ride.
26:23And she was able to point out the merlion,
26:25and she pointed out numerous other spots.
26:27Did you have good weather like this?
26:29It was like this, but then with her,
26:31the sun opened up, the clouds parted,
26:33and it was a wonderful day.
26:35What about the first kiss? Did you do it yet?
26:37Oh, good story.
26:39She started to lean in to give me a kiss on the cheek,
26:41and I saw her moving in.
26:43I turned and caught her.
26:45From that, she felt opened up and was comfortable
26:47to talk about sex. I was like, oh, my.
26:49Okay, I don't want to know too much.
26:51It's a private thing that she's sharing with you.
26:53She is something special.
26:55Proposing is strong on my mind.
26:57Wow.
26:59Okay.
27:01As a matchmaker, it is challenging for me
27:03when two clients have different expectations
27:05when it comes to dating.
27:07And in Harold's case, Amber is definitely
27:09sensing his impatience.
27:11Harold makes me feel very special,
27:13but Harold's really here on a mission
27:15to find a wife.
27:17And no one deserves it.
27:19It's a private thing that she's sharing with you.
27:21I think it might indicate immaturity.
27:23Maturity is a very important thing,
27:25because if I'm going to leave someone
27:27who is not mature,
27:29then everything will just fall on me,
27:31and that will be tiring.
27:33Amber definitely likes Harold,
27:35but she just wants to move at a slower pace.
27:37I mean, even the sneaky kiss for instance.
27:39I told Harold to kiss Amber on the cheek,
27:41but he did not listen to me.
27:43He went in for the lips instead.
27:45That's not how it works in Singapore.
27:47We tend to take our time in any relationship,
27:49so we can be sure that our partner
27:51is the right fit for us and our family.
27:53I really think that you and Amber have a great connection,
27:57and she had a great time,
27:59so that's a good thing.
28:01But I did check in with her after her date,
28:03and we have spoken about how that you are more sure
28:07and more certain that Amber,
28:09I think it's important for you to slow down,
28:11enjoy the process, take time,
28:13be patient, be patient.
28:15I think it's important for you to be patient.
28:17Do you agree with that?
28:19Yes, I agree, but it'll be hard.
28:23I understand why Dali wants me to take my time
28:25and to not rush things,
28:27but with my friends,
28:29I think it's important for you to stay in peace.
28:31And I think it's important for you to be patient.
28:33We have spoken about how that you are more sure
28:37and more certain that Amber,
28:39I think it's important for you to slow down,
28:41enjoy the process, take time, be patient.
28:43Do you agree with that?
28:45Yes, I agree.
28:47With my time limited here in Singapore,
28:49I want to leave with a love.
28:51Michaela and I didn't solidify our relationship
28:53before I left Prague,
28:55so I feel that if I don't solidify the relationship
28:57with the label, it may not survive the time apart.
29:01Um, so another thing,
29:05she just wonders if you have the maturity
29:07to be the head of the household,
29:10like show leadership and show you can take care of her.
29:16Uh, so for her, I think I need a different approach.
29:20I need another different grand gesture.
29:22Um, but it doesn't have to be anything big.
29:26Could be a drawing.
29:28Maybe ask her to the United States to visit me.
29:30Something like that,
29:32and then she can meet my parents.
29:34Uh, I don't know about that.
29:36I don't feel it's really all that fair.
29:38Amber has been giving me mixed signals.
29:40She's the one who wanted to talk about sex
29:42and non-traditional things.
29:44So because of that,
29:46I thought she'd be more open to moving faster
29:48than an ordinary Singaporean woman.
29:50But now Dolly wants me to pump the brakes
29:53and slow the relationship.
29:55I am more confused than ever,
29:57and I fear that I might mess up
30:01and be back at square one brokenhearted
30:05and just twice devastated.
30:09You've got something great, uh, with Amber,
30:13and you should just focus in on that right now.
30:20So all these tattoos that you have on your arms,
30:22like, are you tattered, like, everywhere?
30:24Yeah, fully.
30:25Oh, fully?
30:26Yeah.
30:27I think it's important that he's open and honest.
30:29I like the bad boy look,
30:30but I don't want them to actually be bad boys.
30:32So have you ever been married?
30:35Um...
30:48So awkward.
30:49Best first date ever, no?
30:51Right.
30:52Okay, okay, okay.
30:53Stop.
30:54Okay, so I hope you all guys enjoy the training.
30:56Thank you, thank you, thank you.
30:57Yeah, thank you.
30:59So shall we go and have a drink of this?
31:01And have a drink of this and relax, so...
31:03Yeah.
31:06But before that...
31:10Aww, these are so beautiful.
31:12Thank you.
31:13Thank you for being such a sport.
31:15It's so sweet.
31:16This was my favourite part of the day.
31:20Okay, anyway, I'm gonna go and get changed.
31:22Okay.
31:23Sounds good.
31:26I love flowers.
31:27And this is so sweet.
31:29After Muay Thai with EJ, I definitely feel like I earned that bouquet.
31:34It was definitely a different experience.
31:37But I'm proud of myself for getting myself out of my comfort zone.
31:42And I'm happy that EJ, you know, kind of helped push me there.
31:45Gosh, this guy is so beautiful, right?
31:46Did you do this for me?
31:47I wish I had a direct light to go on.
31:48Right, me too.
31:49That would be interesting, right?
31:50So far today, I think he's doing quite well.
31:51But I believe if you want to fall in love with someone, you have to not hold back emotionally.
31:54And that creates a very strong bond with your partner.
31:55And it's more than just physical.
31:56I definitely want to get to know her more and see where it goes.
32:01So where are you from?
32:02So I'm originally from here, born and bred in Singapore.
32:03My mom is Portuguese and my dad is in here.
32:04Okay.
32:05Yeah.
32:06Would you ever want to live anywhere else?
32:07I do want to live in Bali.
32:08I do want to expand my business over into Bali.
32:32Can I come?
32:36I'll send you the email for sure.
32:39Perfect.
32:41Cheers.
32:42What are we choosing to?
32:43Let's cheers to an interesting person.
32:46Okay.
32:47Cheers to that.
32:48Cheers.
32:51So, what makes you want to come to Singapore to look for love?
32:55You also typically have, like, really good traditional values and family values and things like that that are important to me.
33:02So, family is a very big thing for you?
33:04Yeah.
33:04My mom lives, like, one street away from me, which is amazing.
33:08I get to see her all the time.
33:09We're very, very close.
33:10She's actually here with me on the trip.
33:12Nice.
33:12Yeah.
33:14Okay.
33:16But, yeah.
33:16I was extremely close to my dad.
33:19And after he passed, I guess my mom and I got even closer.
33:21So, yeah, she's, like, my best friend now.
33:25Both my parents passed 10 years ago.
33:27I'm so sorry.
33:28Yeah.
33:28And, I mean, I was really close with my mom.
33:30Um, dad was mostly not around.
33:36So, dad not being around, I had to step in and be working early at an early age, supporting the family, doing all grown-up stuff at a very young age, right?
33:46I think that built a lot of resilience and made you realize, look at the world in a different way, right?
33:54For sure.
33:55I love that he's being open and honest and vulnerable.
33:58I feel more comfortable opening up to EJ versus Sean because EJ just seems like a real, genuine human.
34:06And I think it's important that he's driven and motivated.
34:09I have also built my business from nothing, so I can relate a lot to this.
34:15So, have you ever been married or close to being married?
34:19Yes, I was married about 13 years ago.
34:24Okay.
34:25Love at first sight.
34:26Oh, yeah?
34:26I saw her, she saw me, and we fell in love immediately.
34:28Really?
34:29But sometimes what you want is not what you need.
34:34I have had love at first sight situation one time, and it was the same kind of thing.
34:38I went through a really, really rough time after that breakup.
34:41And so, I don't know, I guess at some point I just thought, like, I'm never going to fall in love again.
34:47And this is kind of embarrassing, but my dad is cremated, and whenever I'm sad or going through something,
34:54I always find myself, like, going over there and just, because it's really peaceful where he is.
34:59I just, like, sneak in at night, and I lay on his little tombstone, and I just, like, look at the stars and pray.
35:06Hearing her talk about how her father's ashes were split, and when she feels that she needs answers, she goes there.
35:14It says a lot. It says a lot about her personality.
35:17I think if you look at her face value, the impression will be a certain way.
35:22But I think if you ask the real questions, the deep ones, and you hear her talking about feelings and emotions and connection with family,
35:30then you realise there's so much more to her than just the outlook.
35:34And that's what's different.
35:36I'm happy I met her.
35:39So all these tattoos that you have on your arms, like, are you tattered, like, everywhere?
35:42They're full.
35:43Oh, fully?
35:44Yeah.
35:44Oh, wow.
35:45Okay.
35:46So the dragon extends from here all the way to the back.
35:49I know we're in public, but can I see it?
35:50No.
35:51Why?
35:51I don't think of my shirt now. We're not in public.
35:54I'm shy.
35:54You're shy?
35:55Yes.
35:56Maybe we should go to a witch bar then.
35:58And then I get to see you put your shirt on with your dragon.
36:00Yes.
36:01Then perhaps you get to see me with my shirt off.
36:04That's what I want to know.
36:06DJ is so different from his appearance.
36:10I like the bad boy look, but I don't want them to actually be bad boys.
36:13He's so kind and gentle, and it's really opened my eyes to dating someone outside of my cover zone.
36:19Maybe I do need to focus less on checking boxes and find someone that I can love and that can love me back fiercely.
36:36Okay, maybe Dolly does know what she's doing here.
36:45I'm about to go on an overnight day with Keevan, and I don't even know how I feel.
36:50Do you want to go on this overnight with him?
36:52I'm sitting on it.
37:20What a nerd.
37:21I spoke with Amber after her date with Glenn, and I'm quite worried because it is totally out of ordinary in an Irish culture to introduce your girlfriend to your family on a first date.
37:36He is very fast.
37:38This is the speed of light.
37:39And I personally believe Glenn represents Amber's love-bombing past, and Keevan represents Amber's potential future.
37:49I have recently met Keevan for coffee, and he shared with me that he has very deep feelings for Amber.
37:58So I told him to step up and make his feelings more obvious because if they don't open up to one another now, their relationship is in danger.
38:08I'm about to go on an overnight day with Keevan, and I don't even know how I feel.
38:18Do you want to go on this overnight with him?
38:20Like, at this point, I don't know what I want.
38:24I don't know.
38:27Everything is unclear.
38:30The fact that Darren and Victoria, they've done something so personal together where they have, like, long-lasting memories together.
38:37Like, that is what I was wishing and praying for and, like, really searching for.
38:42For me, if I know that someone is interested in me, I have to talk to them continuously.
38:47We have to continuously build that bond.
38:50And it's hard for me to put my trust in somebody where I don't know where we really stand.
38:57Have you texted Glenn since you saw him?
38:59Glenn has texted me every single day since I saw him.
39:01Like, he's been super persistent, and he's let me know, like, I want to get to know you.
39:06I want to pursue you.
39:09And I know it's not good to be jealous-hearted, but even he's been like, you know, do I need to come and get you?
39:16Like, where are you at?
39:18What guys are you dating?
39:20Like, he wants to be the number one guy.
39:25And I knew that this trip was going to make me emotional, but that's what's really making me feel overwhelmed.
39:33I know I have literally seven days.
39:35Like, it's my last week here.
39:37And it's just, it's a lot.
39:40It's way more than I thought that I would be feeling.
39:48Next time on Match Me Abroad.
39:51There you are.
39:52Thank you.
39:53I want Amber to see that I have a fun and spontaneous side to me.
39:56So I planned a crazy adventure date for Amber.
40:00It might be the craziest thing I've ever done for love so far.
40:02Do you want to tell me what I'm here for?
40:05Yes.
40:06Hoy, to the airport, please.
40:08What?
40:08I'll feed her.
40:09Huh?
40:12I spoke to EJ earlier today.
40:14What did he have to say about me?
40:15Are you ready for it?
40:16Yeah.
40:16And also remember, I'm on your side.
40:19Okay.
40:20What are you going to tell me?
40:20The first impression that he had of you was that, oh no, is she high maintenance?
40:29So where do you see this going with Darren?
40:32Um, I don't know.
40:33I think just maybe that, like, we're on the same page.
40:35Like, the same, like, vibe.
40:37If you want to have real intimacy in your relationship, the next step naturally is physical connection.
40:44And can you imagine ever making love with him?
40:45So what you been doing since Thursday?
40:52I hadn't talked to you in so long.
40:54It's like, you know, it's important for you to have your space.
40:58I don't have all the information on why Keevan's communication is falling off.
41:02But I am annoyed.
41:04You got none of the dates and stuff.
41:06You know, I wasn't texting.
41:07I don't think we are on the same page.
41:18I'm so super disappointed.
41:20This is terrible.
41:22This is never, this is exactly what I was concerned about.
41:25Like, who does he think he is?
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