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00:01Previously on Match Me Abroad.
00:03You have a little bit of sauce on your forehead.
00:05Oh.
00:06There you go.
00:07You're so sweet, it just would make you sweet and spicy.
00:09Harold seems very sweet.
00:11But at the same time, I am not so sexually attracted to him.
00:16What do you normally do for leisure?
00:19I guess I'm here on vacation to meet you.
00:22Right.
00:25Tony, why are you single still?
00:27I would just go out with any pretty girl that would want to go out with me.
00:31And I wouldn't actually talk to her and get to know her first.
00:33You have to go really deeper.
00:36I want to take physicality out of it.
00:39We have dates for you.
00:41Can I at least see their picture?
00:42No.
00:45Frog, porridge.
00:47Kind of slurp the meat out from the bone.
00:49Slurp the meat out from the bone?
00:51Yeah.
00:52Yeah.
00:53If you have one chance to take a girl and impress them,
00:58dining in the red light district, eating frog porridge soup,
01:01is not the way to do it.
01:03It's very tender.
01:07Okay.
01:08Okay.
01:09I'll see you again.
01:10I promise.
01:11Really?
01:14As we were saying goodbye, Bernardo kissed me.
01:17I came in this door.
01:18I shut it.
01:19Right?
01:20And I was like, ah!
01:22I want you to try a little bit more.
01:25Dating Brazilian guys and see how things go with Bruno.
01:30Yeah, yeah, yeah.
01:31And don't kiss.
01:32These Brazilian men.
01:34Woo!
01:57Oh, wow.
02:00Oh, my gosh.
02:01This is great.
02:14Oh.
02:17Okay, what am I going to wear today?
02:24I've been anticipating this date with Bruno since Luisa showed me his video
02:28way before I left for Brazil.
02:30When I think about finding love, I think about a partner who wants to grow together with me, and I'm ready to love.
02:41That was cute.
02:43And now I can't believe this day is here.
02:46But I still really like Bernardo, and we have been talking every day since our first date.
02:52I don't know how to make sense of what I'm feeling.
02:58I think I'm just getting a little bit nervous about potentially liking two people so much at the same time.
03:04I'm a worrier, but I'm trying to be open to the process.
03:11Oh, hi, Mom.
03:12How are you guys?
03:13Right now I'm walking to my date.
03:19I'm actually going to go see Bruno.
03:22Oh, my God.
03:24And we are going to be rollerblading.
03:27Oh, wow.
03:28I don't know how to rollerblade.
03:30I don't think I've ever rollerbladed in my entire life.
03:33That's so funny.
03:34That's so funny.
03:35Oh, my gosh.
03:36Think about me over the next couple hours as I'm on rollerblades.
03:39Oh, my gosh.
03:40Okay.
03:41Okay, babe.
03:42Love you.
03:43We love you.
03:44All right.
03:45Chat later.
03:46Bye.
03:47Bye.
03:49Bernardo was a great match for her for the first date.
03:54But I think Bruno is a better match for Monica because Bruno is much more firm about what he wants in life.
04:03And he's really ready for a relationship.
04:07I'm excited about Monica's future with Bruno.
04:10And I hope they can build this relationship together with good communication and maturity.
04:24Hello.
04:25Hi.
04:26Hi, Monica.
04:27Hi, nice to meet you.
04:28Nice to meet you.
04:29We'll give a kiss.
04:30Oh, we do?
04:31Okay.
04:32I have a rule against kissing.
04:33I'm just kidding.
04:34Don't worry, don't worry.
04:35Nice to meet you.
04:36Nice to meet you.
04:37You smell good.
04:38Uh, I'm thinking about we just going to ride.
04:41You want to ride with me?
04:42You have experience with the rollerblading?
04:43No.
04:44No.
04:45No.
04:46No?
04:47Like, zero.
04:48Not at all?
04:49Like, you are going to have to help me.
04:50Yeah.
04:51Okay.
04:52I will.
04:53Okay.
04:54No, so this is probably mine, right?
04:55The smaller one.
04:56Yeah.
04:57Yeah.
04:58With a big head, not going to lie.
04:59Oh, it looks pretty.
05:00But is it, like, tight enough?
05:01Should I take my ponytails out?
05:02No.
05:03I will help you.
05:04Okay.
05:05It's the other way.
05:06Other way.
05:11I had it on backwards, Bruno.
05:12Wow.
05:13The George!
05:14My spirit, my mind, come down.
05:16No, so this is probably mine, right?
05:17The smaller one.
05:18Yeah.
05:19It's a big head, not going to lie.
05:21Oh, it look pretty.
05:22But is it, like, tight enough?
05:23Should I take my ponytails out?
05:25No.
05:25I will help you.
05:26It's the other way, other.
05:31I had it on backwards, Bruno.
05:32No.
05:33Wow, a door.
05:34It's not like that.
05:36You can do that.
05:38I'm good.
05:39I'm fine.
05:39OK.
05:40I love you.
05:42You're going to think I'm such a dork.
05:44OK.
05:45You can think that.
05:46I will.
05:50Bruno's turning out to be a real gentleman.
05:52Every girl needs a Cinderella moment, right?
05:54I might just happen to be in rollerblades.
05:56Having a little help from someone so attractive and
05:59handsome like Bruno, he has a bright, brilliant smile.
06:03And the butterflies are just kind of fluttering inside of me.
06:07But Luisa warned me about not kissing him.
06:10I've got to keep my emotions in check on the first date.
06:13So, Bruno, what do you do for work?
06:15Um, business consultant.
06:18Oh, yeah, yeah.
06:18But I'm a journalist.
06:20Oh, wow.
06:21And tell me more about you.
06:24So I have a daughter.
06:26You have a daughter?
06:27I do.
06:28Can you guess how old she is?
06:29Um, 10 years.
06:33A little older.
06:34A little older?
06:35I have a 21-year-old daughter.
06:3621, yeah.
06:38Yeah.
06:38Um, she's my only daughter.
06:40She looks, like, pretty, like mom.
06:42Aw.
06:42Aw.
06:44OK.
06:45Breathe.
06:48Concentrate it.
06:49Oh, my God.
06:51OK.
06:52OK.
06:54I feel like that kid in, um, Christmas story.
06:57Yeah.
06:58Holy chihuahua.
06:59Yeah, yeah.
07:00All set.
07:02Let's go.
07:03OK.
07:10Yay, we're rollerblading.
07:11Yeah.
07:12Kind of.
07:13Faster?
07:13No.
07:14No.
07:15Are you afraid?
07:16I am afraid.
07:17I feel like I'm going to fall.
07:21You're amazing.
07:22Oh, my God.
07:24I'm amazing.
07:25You're sweet.
07:26You're doing well.
07:27Wait, how old are you?
07:29I'm 40.
07:30OK.
07:30I'm 41.
07:3141?
07:32Yeah.
07:32OK.
07:33You have your daughter, too.
07:34I'm so young.
07:35So young.
07:36Yeah.
07:38So do you have any kids?
07:39No.
07:39Oh, OK.
07:40Do you want to go for more?
07:42Um, sure.
07:43I mean.
07:43Why not?
07:44Oh, oh.
07:45Do I want to go for more?
07:46For more.
07:46Children.
07:47Children.
07:47Oh, I thought you meant rollerblading.
07:48I was like, sure.
07:49Uh, no.
07:50Um, but.
07:51That's all right.
07:52But what about you?
07:53I mean, what?
07:54No.
07:54I'm looking for a woman, not a mom of my child's or.
07:58Good for you.
07:59Look at you.
08:00Yeah.
08:01OK, that's.
08:02I'm looking for love.
08:03You are?
08:04Yeah.
08:05Let's sit down.
08:06Yeah, let's sit down.
08:07OK.
08:08Use the brakes.
08:09Use the brakes.
08:10Asking Bruno if he wants children and hearing that he doesn't,
08:13it's like a weight lifted off my shoulder.
08:15So he's proving to me, you know, that he knows what he wants without hesitation.
08:19And that is a big deal for me.
08:21Uh, right now, do you want to go walk away on the, the, do you know, uh, what is the name?
08:26Nice.
08:27What is this?
08:28To me, it would be like a little street market.
08:30Street market.
08:31Yeah, yeah, it looks like.
08:32But, uh, in Brazil, uh, the name is Ferinha.
08:34Ferinha.
08:35Ferinha.
08:36Ferinha.
08:37Ferinha.
08:38OK.
08:39I'll do the Ferinha with you.
08:40OK.
08:41I am having a awesome time.
08:45Bruno is attractive and kind and funny and smart.
08:50But I am now very confused and very conflicted.
08:55I like both guys.
08:57And though this is a lot of fun, it's also very, it's just not my character and it's troublesome for me.
09:04Here, let's take a picture on your phone.
09:06Yeah.
09:11Do you have any idea where we are going next?
09:20To fly a kite.
09:21All right.
09:22Hello again.
09:23Hello.
09:24Hi.
09:25There we go.
09:26OK.
09:27And we're on our way.
09:28Yay.
09:29I haven't flown a kite for years.
09:40Me too.
09:41It's been such a long time.
09:43I have a lot of interest in many things.
09:46And I took an interest in kites because I wanted to make a kite that would be a generator.
09:50You hang a kite and you could charge your phone or you could make a big one.
09:54Wow.
09:55Oh, that's an interesting idea.
09:57Amber and I just finished eating some signature Singaporean food.
10:02And for the second part of my date with Amber, Dolly's idea was to go fly kites.
10:08I'm not sure if she's interested in me or not.
10:10And I hope that with flying a kite, we'll get to know each other.
10:14We'll get to experiment and work as a team.
10:17You know, Benjamin Franklin proved that while flying a kite, light means consist of electricity.
10:22And I hope that there's a spark while flying a kite with Amber.
10:27You talk about so many, like, little things.
10:29How old are you?
10:30Where are you from?
10:31I mean, I know you're here, but where were you born?
10:33So I'm 37.
10:34I was born in China.
10:36I migrated here when I was seven years old.
10:39I'm glad that I came here and I got a very good education.
10:46Oh, I should talk about myself.
10:47I'm 43.
10:48I'm Harold.
10:49Okay.
10:50I'm from the United States.
10:52I was born in Connecticut.
10:54I have a certificate and certifications to work with nuclear material.
10:58So I keep people safe at the nuclear power plants.
11:01Is it a dangerous job?
11:03It's very safe.
11:04There is danger there, but it's like a very powerful tool.
11:08As long as you follow the steps, it's safe.
11:11Wow.
11:15I think I'm going to touch.
11:17I'm okay to hold hands.
11:18Oh, okay.
11:19Yeah.
11:20Nice.
11:21Yeah.
11:22I'm so happy holding your hand.
11:24I was distracted.
11:28The chemistry between me and Harold is a bit uncomfortable.
11:32But I think the date is going pretty well.
11:34In the Asian culture, we normally don't hold hands on the first date.
11:37But because of how short he has the time here, it might be a good idea to hold hands,
11:42which will kind of give us more chance to build up this contact and intimacy.
11:49His hands are very chubby.
11:51So it feels like holding on to a sponge kind of feel.
11:55Very comfortable, actually.
12:08Oh.
12:09I'm going to need a screenshot.
12:10I mean a selfie of that.
12:12That is awesome.
12:13Selfie?
12:14Yeah.
12:15Oh.
12:16Okay.
12:17So we should go this side, right?
12:18Yeah.
12:19Let's go this side.
12:23Nice.
12:24Nice.
12:26Oh, what a view.
12:27This looks like a good spot.
12:28I have something planned.
12:29Oh.
12:30Okay.
12:31Want to do one?
12:32Okay.
12:33We'll do one first because we're going to have to run with it.
12:35Because there's only a slight breeze.
12:36That's true.
12:37Yes.
12:41I'm having a wonderful time.
12:42I feel as if my lungs might burst.
12:44I feel so full of butterflies.
12:46I have to breathe to let them free.
12:48But I don't know if she feels the same.
12:51I don't feel she's as excited about this date as much as I am.
12:55And I'm trying my best.
12:58Okay, let's run, run, run, run.
13:00You got it.
13:02Woo!
13:05Ah!
13:06Ah!
13:07Ah!
13:08Ah!
13:10Okay.
13:12Okay.
13:13One, two, three.
13:18Yay!
13:22Oh!
13:26It's totally embarrassing as my pants try and fall down as I try to run.
13:31Yeah, I do wish I had suspenders.
13:33It would have kept my pants up.
13:34It would have looked very stylish.
13:37Go!
13:39Oh!
13:40Yay!
13:43Oh!
13:47Okay.
13:49That was fun.
13:50Too bad there's not a better wind.
13:51Yeah.
13:53Did you enjoy it?
13:54Oh, yes.
13:56She is amazing and, oh my God, she's attractive.
14:01But before I develop any more feelings for her, I have to get something off my chest.
14:07I guess we'll go.
14:08Okay, let's go.
14:09I'm nervous because Amber is already sending me mixed signals.
14:13So this very well could be a deal breaker.
14:16But I'm trying to find someone that will embrace the whole of me.
14:20So it's a necessary next step.
14:22It's a bit quiet here, right?
14:24Today?
14:25Yes, it's very quiet.
14:26Yeah.
14:27You're here for a blind dating experience.
14:36Oh, no.
14:38I didn't have in mind flying halfway across the world to be blindfolded on a first date.
14:43So how long have you been single for?
14:45Five years now.
14:46So you've been a celibate for five years?
14:48All right, let's go.
15:03All right.
15:05All right, thank you.
15:07All right.
15:18Hi, Tony.
15:19Hey, how are you?
15:20Good.
15:21How are you?
15:22Good.
15:23Good.
15:24Do you know why you are here today?
15:25I don't know.
15:26It looks like I'm at somebody's house here.
15:27You're here for a blind dating experience.
15:28Got it.
15:29Okay.
15:31I want to challenge you to see more of you.
15:34than looks and physical thing.
15:35Do you see what you have in front of you?
15:36Oh, no.
15:37Yeah, it's black blindfold.
15:38Oh, no.
15:39You have to trust this.
15:40I don't know.
15:41How are you doing?
15:42I don't know.
15:43How are you doing?
15:44I don't know.
15:45I don't know.
15:46I don't know.
15:47It looks like I'm at somebody's house here.
15:48You're here for a blind dating experience.
15:50Got it.
15:51Okay.
15:52I want to challenge you to see more than looks and physical thing.
15:55Do you see what you have in front of you?
15:56Oh, no.
15:57Yeah, it's black blindfold.
15:58Oh, no.
15:59Oh, no.
16:01Thanks.
16:02You have to trust this.
16:04I just arrived to Sao Paulo, Brazil a few days ago.
16:08And today is my first date in Brazil.
16:11And I didn't have in mind flying halfway across the world
16:15to be blindfolded on a first date.
16:17In the past, I've fallen for women solely based off of their looks.
16:20So I get it.
16:21She's doing something physical to stop me from seeing my dates.
16:25I invited three women.
16:27Okay.
16:28And they're good matches for you.
16:30And they're going to be blindfolded too.
16:32It's a double blindfold date?
16:34Yeah.
16:35Whew.
16:36And then you have a little time to talk.
16:38Okay.
16:39To them.
16:40And to connect with each of them.
16:42Okay. Perfect.
16:43Okay?
16:44In the end, you're going to choose only one girl to go to an official date with.
16:51Okay?
16:52Okay.
16:53So are you ready?
16:54I'm ready.
16:55Let's go.
16:56I decided to create a blind dating experience for Tony.
17:02Because Tony wants a serious relationship.
17:06I need to take physicality out of it.
17:09Mental and emotional connection, those are much more important.
17:13To have a solid long-term relationship.
17:16So you guys can sit and talk a little bit.
17:27I'll be back soon.
17:28Enjoy.
17:29All right.
17:30Really?
17:31Oh, my God.
17:34Where are you?
17:35I'm here.
17:37Oh.
17:38Yeah, this is me.
17:39Okay.
17:40Hi.
17:41Hey, what's up?
17:42I'm Tony.
17:43Sorry?
17:44I'm Lucila.
17:45Lou.
17:46Lou, huh?
17:47Yeah.
17:48Lou Lou?
17:49Just Lou.
17:50Oh.
17:51So tell me about you.
17:52I'm Lila.
17:53I'm Gabby Gabriela.
17:55Nice to meet you.
17:57I'm 26 years old.
17:59Okay.
18:00I used to work in, like, digital fashion, but now I am just a full-time content creator.
18:07Okay.
18:08What do you do for a living?
18:10I'm DJ.
18:11I usually don't go to nightclubs.
18:14It's just too loud for me.
18:16Um.
18:17Um.
18:18Um.
18:19Yeah, you can go ahead.
18:22That's my goodness.
18:23There you go.
18:24No hair.
18:25Yeah, no hair.
18:26Don't care, right?
18:27Or is it long hair?
18:28Don't care.
18:29Which one is it?
18:30Mine is very long hair.
18:31Oh, okay.
18:32Yeah.
18:33Very long hair.
18:34Oh, wow.
18:35Okay.
18:36I don't mind, like, bald guys.
18:40It's okay.
18:41But, um, of course, I'd rather hair.
18:45But I'm open to know people better.
18:48So I think it's all about the whole package, you know?
18:51No.
18:54So how long have you been single for?
18:56Single?
18:57Um.
18:58One year.
18:59Wow.
19:00Okay.
19:01I think since COVID.
19:03Five years now.
19:05Five years.
19:06Wow.
19:07Is it a long time?
19:08Four years?
19:09That is a long time.
19:10Yeah, that's a long time.
19:11So you've been celibate for five years?
19:14Uh.
19:15There's some stuff in the middle.
19:20Oh, okay.
19:21Normal stuff.
19:22Normal stuff?
19:23Yeah.
19:24Okay.
19:26What's stopped you from getting a boyfriend?
19:31I don't know.
19:32I think sometimes it's just not meant to be.
19:35Uh.
19:36In Brazil, guys are not very committed, so we go with the flow.
19:40Wow.
19:41Um.
19:44I'm a little bit more conservative than that.
19:49She told me that she has not been celibate.
19:53And if you're not in a relationship, you should be celibate.
19:56And how long have you been celibate?
20:00Uh, I don't feel comfortable answering that.
20:04So what are you looking for in a woman?
20:07Uh, definitely a woman that has, like, longer hair past her shoulders.
20:12A woman that exercises, has a little bit more muscle.
20:17Okay.
20:18Interesting.
20:19Mm-hmm.
20:21He was talking about just physical things.
20:24He tells me that he's a little bit insecure or maybe not sure about himself.
20:28He's not my type compared to what I really like.
20:31Do you have any kids?
20:33No, no kids.
20:34No kids?
20:35No kids, not yet, no.
20:37And do you like children?
20:38Oh, I love kids, yeah.
20:40Oh, cool.
20:41Absolutely, yeah. Kids are great.
20:43My daughter has one year and a half and six months.
20:47Okay.
20:48I am pretty surprised that she has a kid and is a DJ.
20:54You wouldn't think those two things would really go together.
20:58So it's a little bit concerning for me, especially in a long-term relationship.
21:02Okay, okay. Time's up.
21:04It's nice to meet you, Gabby.
21:05Nice to meet you, too.
21:06Yeah, yeah. Walk safe, okay?
21:07This blind date experience, overall, it was a very precarious situation for me. I tried to make the best of it, but I kind of felt, like, disappointed. And I'm wondering if this experience is all a waste of time.
21:23It seems as if he's not as established as most men that I'm typically used to dating.
21:32That fairytale Prince Charming doesn't exist.
21:36Compromising a little, is that in the future for you to compromise?
21:41I don't feel like I should have to.
21:45Do you want to go eat with me tomorrow?
21:48I was 100% set on Bernardo, and then enter Bruno.
21:54Oh, my God.
22:11All right, let's go to the market.
22:18Morning.
22:19Hi, good morning.
22:21Ready?
22:22Yes, sir. We're ready.
22:31So how'd it go with Freddie last night?
22:33He was really nice. It was really fun.
22:35He lives with his mom, which I thought was interesting.
22:38But apparently here, they all do.
22:40We pull her married.
22:41Oh, I love that.
22:42I know you would.
22:44But, Mom, let's be real.
22:46We would pull each other if we live together.
22:47Of course.
22:49I went on my first date last night in Singapore.
22:51It was very, very, very different.
22:54Red light district, eating frogs.
22:56Honestly, I think Freddie's great.
22:58But Freddie just seems a little bit young for me,
23:00maybe lacking his stability and success that I was hoping to find in a Singaporean man.
23:06You're here.
23:07You're here?
23:08All right. Thank you so much.
23:09You're welcome.
23:10Okay.
23:16Hi!
23:18Hey, Sarah.
23:20This morning, I'm meeting Dolly to talk about the first date and to go over next steps.
23:26Because the reality is, like, I'm not trying to waste anyone's time here.
23:32Like, especially not mine.
23:34So welcome to the Durand Market.
23:35Okay.
23:36Yeah?
23:38It's kind of unusual.
23:39Yeah.
23:40Let's have a look at some durians.
23:41Okay.
23:42Wow.
23:43So this is, like, Singapore's national fruit.
23:44Mm-hmm.
23:45Okay.
23:46Right?
23:47And it looks like what you see here is in that shell.
23:49Okay.
23:50Do you want to try that?
23:51Sure.
23:52I decided to ask Sarah and Kitty to meet me at the fruit market to hear all about her date with Freddie.
24:02I also want them to try some durians.
24:06Mm-hmm.
24:07Smelt kind of foul.
24:08Uh, it is not for the faint hearted.
24:11But I want to see Sarah out of a comfort zone because she needs to reset her mind.
24:17She's been dating the same kind of guys in Texas, and I just want to do the exact opposite of what she's used to.
24:24So I hope this wakes her up and will get her excited to date differently.
24:31It is a sweet, sweeter taste.
24:36Mm-hmm.
24:37So the smell actually lingers on your fingers for 24 hours.
24:41Oh, wow.
24:42Wow.
24:43So, um...
24:44I'm just messing with you.
24:45I'm just messing with you.
24:46I was going to say, not surprising.
24:49Almost looks like what I imagine a yellow kidney or something like.
24:55I'm much more open to eating a fruit than a frog.
24:58And in some sort of weird way, it grows on you.
25:03You know how there are sometimes some things that, like, smell kind of rank, but, like, for some reason, it's, like, a good rank?
25:10Oh, my God, that's gross.
25:14So tell me about the date.
25:17Freddie took me to a place in the Red Light District, and we ate frog porridge.
25:24What did you think?
25:25Did you actually try it?
25:26I did.
25:27It tasted like chicken.
25:28Wow.
25:29I love it.
25:31What I liked about him is I just liked how much fun we had together.
25:35But it seems as if he's not as established as most men that I'm typically used to dating.
25:39You want to have someone to make you feel safe.
25:44Mm-hmm.
25:45I am drawn to guys that kind of remind me of my dad in that aspect.
25:50I didn't really get those vibes from him.
25:52The family life that I had growing up, my dad was kind of like the breadwinner, and my mom took care of the family and the kids.
26:03And even though I own my own business and I support myself, that's what I want one day.
26:08Why would I put myself in a stressful financial situation if it's not necessary?
26:13Especially if you're talking about having a family and even a future with someone.
26:18When you're thinking about bringing children into the world, stability is like...
26:22Yeah, it's very important.
26:23Very important, right?
26:24Yeah.
26:25I think what you've asked for is fair.
26:27Okay, good.
26:28It's just about setting the right expectations.
26:31I think that's very important.
26:32Because even though you may find someone checks a lot of the boxes, that fairy tale Prince Charming doesn't exist.
26:39You're gonna have to compromise a little bit on certain things.
26:42Mm-hmm.
26:43So I'm just talking about priorities now.
26:45Yeah.
26:46Right?
26:47So far, you have been covered in brands.
26:49Right?
26:50That's what I noticed about you.
26:52Are you gonna expect your man to pay for all of your apparel?
26:57Because he's gonna look at you and go, oh, can I provide for her?
27:01He's gonna wonder that too.
27:03They have to provide for me and my family on a comfortable level.
27:06Does it have to be a luxury lifestyle?
27:08No.
27:09But I am used to a nice thing.
27:12Compromising a little.
27:13Is that in the future for you to compromise?
27:17I don't feel like I should have to.
27:21Of course, I'm annoyed that Dolly and my mom want me to compromise with what I'm looking for.
27:25I mean, if I can provide this life for myself, then I feel like a guy should be able to as well.
27:31And I'm not to the point where I'm willing to potentially give up on that dream yet.
27:36I am fully committed to finding love in Singapore.
27:39I feel in my heart and soul and gut that I'm getting closer and closer and that he is right around the corner.
27:46I'm just not willing to compromise.
27:49If five years down the road, I still haven't found someone, then sure, I'll compromise.
27:55Okay.
27:56But right now, I'm not really willing to compromise.
27:58Try the chicken.
27:59Okay.
28:00And say to me.
28:01What do you think?
28:02Mmm.
28:03That's good.
28:04It's good.
28:05Wow.
28:06So good.
28:07I gotta tell you, you guys have some delicious food in Brazil.
28:11Mm-hmm.
28:12Do you ever try a pastel?
28:13No.
28:14But you know what it reminds me of?
28:15A little bit of like an empanada, but like an empanada, but with more of a fried taste.
28:18It's very, yeah, very super good.
28:19I mean, I love them.
28:20Um, so, so, so, I don't mean to change the subject, but I wanted to thank you for that video you made.
28:33Yeah.
28:34And tell me about, like, are you looking at the menu?
28:35Yeah.
28:36You know what it reminds me of?
28:37I don't know.
28:38You know what it reminds me of?
28:39I don't know.
28:40You know what it reminds me of?
28:41A little bit of like an empanada, but like an empanada, but with more of a fried taste.
28:45It's very, yeah, very super good.
28:46I mean, I love them.
28:47So, so, I don't mean to change the subject, but I wanted to thank you for that video you made.
28:49Yeah.
28:50So, you're looking for a relationship.
28:51Yeah.
28:52In this moment in my life, I'm very anxious to meet you, and I was wondering, oh, how
28:59looks she or imagining all these things.
29:02So, you were nervous?
29:03I'm nervous.
29:04I'm very curious to know you, to talk with you, and know everything.
29:11I'm really, I really like you, really like you to this date.
29:15I really like to be here, and I want for more.
29:19I want for more.
29:20He's so cute.
29:21I really like you.
29:22Yeah.
29:23I really like you.
29:24Me too.
29:25I'm glad we met.
29:26Yeah.
29:27What am I going to do with you?
29:28No!
29:29No!
29:30No, no, no.
29:31Not sexist.
29:32It's love.
29:33I know.
29:34I just...
29:35Okay.
29:36Sorry.
29:37No, you're great.
29:38You've done nothing wrong.
29:39You're awesome.
29:40You're amazing.
29:41Okay.
29:42You're wonderful.
29:43I'm just dealing with stuff.
29:44But I just think you're great.
29:45No, no.
29:46I like it.
29:47I really like it.
29:48I like it.
29:49I like it.
29:50Yeah.
29:54Very good.
29:55Very good kiss.
29:56Oh, no.
29:57Oh.
29:58Oh, my God.
29:59It's a trouble.
30:00You're a trouble?
30:01No, I'm not trouble.
30:02Oh, okay.
30:04I'm not trouble.
30:05I just think you're great.
30:06That's all.
30:07I really like it.
30:08very good kiss it's a trouble you're trouble no I'm not trouble not trouble I just think you're
30:23great that's all I really like it yeah Bruno is such a good kisser gosh I could have kissed
30:30him forever I felt like he really wants me and I feel like he really likes me and there's a
30:38part of me that didn't want to kiss him because of Bernardo and Louisa had told me not to kiss
30:46somebody else and maybe she was right but I just feel so connected to him so impressed by him so
30:54enamored do you want to do you want to go eat with me um tomorrow maybe um I don't know what my plans
31:03are but I do want to see you again yeah I just think you're great I just I don't know I just
31:08know anymore okay you you about the distance about a lot of distance people I've yeah other people
31:16I've met okay I have a lot to think about yeah well I think it's so beautiful okay I think I need to
31:33go okay I'm gonna see you again yeah yeah see you tomorrow maybe I'll see you again
31:42see you soon thank you I thought this that was it I could go home happy and then enter Bruno
31:58and I've got two amazing candidates like how does that happen all right see you bye wait for you
32:07oh my god this is horrible so now I'm like what do I do this is the worst case scenario I just
32:16it's like a good problem to have but it's the worst problem to have because someone's gonna get hurt
32:22and that's the last thing I ever wanted to do
32:26have you done any picnics recently no I haven't I haven't gone on many dates actually okay I just
32:41want to fully disclose everything about myself especially since I really want to find a woman
32:45that accepts me for the way I am you have a great deal nice Ali wants me to go deeper on this first
33:06date with Amber so it means speaking more hard truths and getting to know each other so have you done any
33:14picnics recently no I haven't I haven't gone on many dates actually okay I just want to fully
33:23disclose everything about myself especially since I really want to find a woman that accepts me for
33:29the way I am I have not told a date I'm autistic before so this is new territory for me and it's
33:35deeply personal I hope she takes it well so what kind of qualities do you look for in you know in a wife
33:46kind honest attractive you have the chemistry very independent but caring and I need her to be patient with
33:55me because I'm a little bit autistic so I miss obvious things I've been told I'm very patient
34:04so I think I probably feel the view yeah I'm not looking to just casually date someone yes I'm
34:13actually looking for my future husband I've never been with someone who is autistic and I'm I know there's a
34:23spectrum of autism so I'm not sure how much autistic he has actually if he didn't tell me that he's
34:31autistic I probably wouldn't have noticed I think we match on many different levels and we have many
34:40similar interests I am looking for someone who wants to put the family first and it's important to me my
34:48family as well yeah so uh well I'm I'm the only child so my parents worry about my lack of a marriage
34:59life which is also one of the reasons why I was so intent on finding someone and you have like many
35:06tests to pass many tests to pass so you have like to pass my um my parents of course and then my my
35:17close group of friends my relatives back in China so three rings okay and then even my ex-boss oh is
35:24very invested in my um dating life right now I sound like I have a lot of tests I have to pass you do
35:32actually okay I share this intimate detail with her about maybe on the spectrum and she seems to
35:41understand she takes it well and then Amber tells me I must get past her Chinese family her friends
35:47and an ex-boss and have all of their approval before being able to truly move forward I'm pretty scared
35:53but I think Amber sharing all these walls and obstacles I must overcome is quite quite good it alludes
36:01to that there's a path forward where we might have a future together because she's laying out the
36:06path and she's on my side so how can I lose I've never been put in a position where I have two amazing
36:17people that are just genuinely awesome I have been cheated on in the past and it's the worst feeling
36:26in the world I feel like I'm cheating hello I need to just have you listen to me for one minute
36:34I just feel so bad I feel so bad because I really like I have feelings for Bernardo
37:04I really do he's awesome but then Bruno's awesome I've never been put in a position where I have two
37:13amazing people that are just genuinely awesome and that have been interested in me at the same time
37:19and that I've been interested in at the same time and like someone's gonna get hurt and I don't want
37:24to hurt anybody so you know I feel like if Bruno's being as nice as he says he is and he's that interested
37:35in me and he's that cool and he has that much going on and we had great chemistry and the kiss was
37:39kisses were great and he wants to see me again and if I say no I mean that'd be great for Bernardo
37:46be great for me because I really like Bernardo and I would feel like I was true to him
37:54I have been cheated on in the past and it's the worst feeling in the world and so now going on
38:04two dates with two great men I feel like I'm cheating since my first date with Bernardo we text
38:10all day long and he has become someone that is like a threat in my life so I feel this sense of
38:17obligation I feel this sense of like responsibility towards him now at this stage in my life and what
38:24I'm looking for I'm not going to build a relationship on omissions I want to be totally transparent I want
38:31to be totally clear so I just want to talk to him and make sure that I haven't ruined everything
38:35between us okay hello hi how are you good how was your day today
38:54um good it was good I uh you know I want to tell you I need to tell you that I um I need to just
39:06have you listen to me for one minute um I had a good date today
39:12and it was really fun and and the person I was with was really nice and he was really great
39:19and we spent time talking afterwards and I really I like him too and I want you to know
39:27that like I I kissed him a couple times
39:30can you hear me
39:34what can I say you I I feel so bad
39:40still to come on this season of match me abroad
39:48oh nice what do you want to wager if I win the rest of time you're here you just take me
39:55he then definitely is in the running but Glenn has been texting me every day
40:02so have you broken up with him yet
40:04what's the most exotic place I've had sex
40:10I think mine's in the public toilet it'll make me blush
40:17it's something we I want to try
40:19oh wow hello handsome I'm a sucker for big muscles and tattoos
40:29I spoke to EJ earlier today
40:33what did he have to say about me
40:35remember I'm on your side
40:37okay what are you going to tell me
40:39so Monica how are you feeling
40:43I feel like I don't want to make a decision
40:46I have two incredible men and I'm still unsure of what to do
40:51I invited Bruno and Bernardo here
40:55together
40:56grown-ups make decisions right
40:59Darren and I are supposed to hang out
41:05doesn't show up
41:07I feel like what he did it just triggered so much
41:09I guess I'm just so used to being like strong and independent
41:11so if I feel vulnerable it makes I guess feel like I'm not strong I guess
41:16I have another date for you
41:22however how can I help him
41:26if he doesn't want to be open
41:29if we have a list of deal breakers
41:33it's gonna be very hard to find someone for you
41:37I don't think you've ever met anybody that's like me before
41:40you can't put me in a box
41:41get out
41:44cause you're not gonna lie on me bitch
41:46get the out
41:47I don't tolerate people being disrespectful to me
41:51he gotta go
41:53don't lie to my face
41:55stupid ass
42:00you
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