The secret every husband needs to know about love

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Epic date or quick errand — it’s never what you do, it’s how you make her feel. Change this simple mindset and transform your relationship.  Follow for more videos on building deep love and personal growth.  #MarriageAdvice #RelationshipGoals #HealthyMarriage #HusbandTips #SelfGrowth #LoveWisdom #RelationshipMindset #MarriageMatters #LoveAndRespect #EmotionalConnection  ©️ All rights and credit reserved to the respective owner(s).

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00:00Husbands, a woman cares more about how you make her feel than really what you do.

00:05You can take your wife on an epic date, yet you're cross with her or you're short in a sense,

00:12and the whole night was blown away because it was more, you could take her to the Arby's,

00:16but if you make her feel like the queen of the night, I'm going to tell you what,

00:19that's a night that she'll remember.

00:21When you come home, it's more about how she feels than really what you do.

00:26And I did this, and I did this, and I did all these things, and she was unappreciative.

00:30But you didn't spend time talking to her, and you didn't communicate,

00:33and you didn't work hard at making the night amazing for her.

00:37Yeah, she wants your help, but when I changed my mindset,

00:42that it wasn't so much what I do, but it was how I made her feel while I was doing what I do.

00:47So you can take out the trash for her, but do it with a bad attitude,

00:51and you might as well not take the trash out at all because it's how you made her feel while you did it.

00:55So can you do things with a joy, with a smile, when my wife says,

00:58hey, can you go grab them?

00:59I'm like, oh, yeah, all day, baby, for you.

01:01I'll go to the ends of the earth.

01:02How did that make her feel?

01:03It wasn't that I went and got something for her,

01:05but I made her feel like she was so important that I would slay a dragon for her.

01:11So begin to change that on your texts, on your response.

01:14When I answer the phone, when she calls, it's like, hey, yeah, what's up?

01:18No, it's like, hey, beautiful, how are you today?

01:20Right?

01:21It's how I answer is how she is going to feel in that moment.

01:25Change that, and you'll see a big change that happens in your relationship.

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