00:00You don't want to spend it with her.
00:01So what does that mean?
00:02You never go out with the guys?
00:03No, of course you have to go out with the guys.
00:05But understand, when she's asking for time,
00:08she wants quality time.
00:10And it's also when she comes to you to help,
00:12to come for advice.
00:13She wants some issue to solve.
00:15One of the biggest problems that men have
00:17is they think as if the woman is coming to him
00:21to solve her problem.
00:23So immediately he'll say,
00:24Oh, you did this wrong, you did that wrong,
00:26you should do this, you should do that.
00:27And that is not what the woman wants.
00:30What does the woman want?
00:31The woman wants a loving ear,
00:36a sympathetic ear.
00:38She wants somebody to listen to her problem,
00:40to be sympathetic to her,
00:42not necessarily to solve her problem.
00:45This is quality time.
00:47To express that whatever she went through
00:49was frustrating, was problematic,
00:50and inshallah, they will work it out.
00:52You have to give what the woman wants,
00:55and in return she will give what you want.
00:57When the man gives love,
00:59when the man gives that,
01:01what we call romance,
01:02and romance is nothing.
01:03Men think romance is a very dangerous word.
01:06They never want to use it, right?
01:08All romance means is,
01:10you show her you're thinking about her.
01:12You show her you're caring about her.
01:14Husbands, the phrase I love you,
01:16giving roses, remembering the anniversaries,
01:19taking them out,
01:20spending quality time.
01:21This is what romance means.
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