Love Without Trust Isn’t Love At All… 🚩

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Is your relationship suffocating from control and fear? 💔 In this video, I break down why trust—not love—is the foundation of lasting connections and how to rebuild it after betrayal. Learn: ✅ Why “deepening love first” destroys relationships ✅ The 3-step framework to stop controlling your partner ✅ How to heal trust issues from past trauma 🔔 Subscribe for weekly tools to transform your love life and self-growth journey!

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00:00The reality is that you cannot love without trust.

00:02And when you say you love someone, but you don't trust them, then you try to control

00:06them.

00:06And they become psychologically more of a possession because you're trying to tell them

00:11how to live their life and what to do so that you can trust them.

00:14And one of the great challenges is if you've been hurt or betrayed and you've trusted people

00:18in the past, and so it's hard to trust, and all of a sudden you're in a relationship and

00:23you're following fast, you're feeling deep feelings, your love is moving faster than

00:27your trust, and that creates the space for conflict.

00:30And so what you need to do is, quote, not deepen your love, you need to deepen your trust, and

00:35that will release you from a need to control.

00:37And then when you don't control another person, they're with you because they choose to be

00:40with you, but they're also not suffocating.

00:41If you are in a genuinely trust-to-trust relationship, love-to-love relationship, you don't need to

00:47be controlled, you're committed to the relationship, and you still have oxygen to breathe.

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