Why She Can’t Trust You Again

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She doesn’t just feel you lied to her — she feels you lied to yourself. And that’s the deepest cut. Accountability isn’t punishment, it’s a doorway to growth. But only the healed man can see that.  🎯 Watch to understand the truth about trust. ©️ All rights and credit reserved to the respective owner(s).  #MensHealing #RelationshipTruths #HealingForMen #LoveAndTrust #RelationshipHelp #SelfGrowth #TrustInLove #MensMentalHealth #LoveHealing #RelationshipGrowth

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00:00She don't trust you because you lied to her.

00:02There are a lot of men who over-promise and under-deliver.

00:06And it never gets talked about.

00:07There are men that think that women also can take accountability, but they do.

00:12A lot of men are just scared little boys that they are afraid to tell the truth, right?

00:17And it's like she doesn't trust you because you lied to her.

00:20She doesn't trust you because she knows that you're lying to yourself.

00:24She can feel that.

00:25So your word is unstable to her.

00:27You said you wouldn't do something and you did it.

00:29You said you would do something and you didn't do it.

00:31And I'm not going to lie to you, man.

00:32That's just hard for anybody to trust.

00:35But when a man has unhealed trauma, being in trouble really triggers his inner boy.

00:42Because not keeping his word often feels like a failure.

00:45And when a woman is disappointed to him, that feels like rejection.

00:49That feels like shame.

00:50That feels like abandonment all over again.

00:52And instead of him taking accountability, he gets very defensive.

00:56He avoids.

00:56He's shut down.

00:57He ghosts.

00:58Gaslight.

00:59You know, it's not that he doesn't care.

01:01It's that accountability feels like punishment and not growth.

01:05And until he heals, he won't know the difference between being corrected or being held accountable or being attacked.

01:10You see, to the unhealed man, he sees you being upset as a threat to his worth.

01:16But the healed man sees it as an opportunity or invitation to just show up better the next time.

01:22I've never expected it to do the next time.

01:25Until next time is an email.

01:27I want to say thank you.

01:27I want to bring some revelation.

01:28That's it.

01:29Very cool.

01:29I want to give some revelation.

01:30I I want to be excited.

01:39I want to call the dimension.

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