00:00In the olden days, the number of children was 8 or 9, or more than that
00:08Then, people used to say that there should not be two or three children
00:13But now, it has become one
00:15People think that one is better than two
00:17But now, people think that there should not be children
00:20This has become a big trend in the Dink culture
00:23This has become a big trend in the Dink culture
00:25This has become a big trend in the Dink culture
00:27This has become a big trend in the Dink culture
00:29Studies have shown that the husbands who are attracted to Dink culture
00:32are not interested in having children
00:41What is Dink culture?
00:42The complete meaning of this is
00:43Dual income, no kids
00:45Dink culture is the decision taken by the husbands
00:48to take care of their needs more than the children
00:51That means, the husband and the wife
00:53work for their needs
00:55They fulfill their career as much as possible
00:58They earn a lot of money
01:00But they are not interested in having children
01:02They feel burdened by the children
01:04They think that they cannot take care of the children
01:06They think that they will not be able to give happiness to the children
01:10If they spend all their hard earned money on the children
01:13Where is our life?
01:15This is the opinion of those who are attracted to Dink culture
01:17To put it in a nutshell
01:19The husband and wife try their best to live happily
01:24But the children are the family
01:27In the development of families and the development of the country
01:29Children are forgetting the importance of the family
01:32This culture which was prevalent in foreign countries
01:34is now prevalent in India as well
01:36Studies have shown that
01:57If we look at it in a way
01:59It will be selfish for them
02:03In some ways, it may be useful
02:05It may be useful to a certain extent
02:08But in the future, it may be a hindrance to many people
02:13That is why we are doing this
02:26As such people post about their lifestyle on social media
02:30Dink has increased in publicity
02:32Many people are inspired by those posts and become Dink
02:37Those who follow this culture
02:39They like to spend their free time with their life partner or family
02:43They visit the places they like
02:45They eat what they like
02:47In a word, they live without any restrictions
02:51They spend money only for their happiness
02:55Such people were mostly seen in developed countries
03:00But it is spreading all over the world
03:03There are many reasons to be attracted to Dink culture
03:07According to a survey, people who follow Dink culture
03:11Many of them said that they do not like their children for financial freedom
03:15If they have children, they have to spend a lot for their health and education
03:19In this era, income does not increase as fast as expenses
03:23That is why children are a burden
03:26Out of those who do not want children, 61% said the same
03:32They give more importance to their career than their children
03:35According to a study by Brookings in America
03:38A child born in 2015 spends more than 3 lakh dollars to raise up to 17 years old
03:44Families with less income do not spend so much for their children
03:49If we spend all our income for our children
03:52What will happen to us?
03:54This is what husband and wife are saying
03:56We are seeing in newly married couples
04:01Dink culture
04:03Dink means dual income, no kids
04:05There will be 2 incomes
04:07So that we can go on trips, earn money and buy property
04:11They are planning all this
04:13But we have to see what is the expense
04:16For example, earning a lot of money and having kids at the age of 35 or 40 is not the right way
04:25Because there will be a lot of fertility issues
04:28There will be a lot of hormonal disturbances
04:30In the past, we used to have 10-11 kids
04:35Now we have to go around IVF centers to have just one kid
04:38To avoid all this, we have to get married at the right time
04:43There is a need for at least 1 or 2 kids in India
04:49Because our birth rate has started to decrease
04:52In advanced countries like China and South Korea
04:56There is a declining birth rate
04:58Older people have increased
05:00They are above 40, 50 or 60
05:02If this situation continues in India
05:05We will definitely go to the same position in 50-60 years
05:08Our birth rate will decline
05:10Our total population will also decrease
05:12If we want country or individual growth
05:17We need at least 1 or 2 kids
05:21That is why dink concept is not correct
05:23Don't think too much about dink concept
05:26It is better to plan at least 1 or 2 kids early after marriage
05:42We have to spend a lot of time to take care of our kids
05:45We need patience
05:46From sending them to school
05:48We have to see what kind of environment they are growing up in
05:50How is their health?
05:51How are they studying?
05:52We have to take care of all these
05:55We have to do homework as soon as they come home from school
05:58We have to send them to school with a tiffin box
06:02Husbands and wives have to share all these
06:04That is why we need a lot of time
06:06Many people are not ready for this
06:08Some people have money issues
06:10Even if they have money, they don't have time to take care of their kids
06:13Some people who work in some sectors
06:15They have more salary, more work hours and more work
06:18They can't spend more time for their kids
06:22That is why they don't like to take care of their kids
06:25If they have kids, it is enough time to take care of their needs and responsibilities
06:30If dink concept is followed
06:32Many people think that they can use that time for recreation and rest
06:37If you don't have kids
06:39Husbands and wives can give time for each other
06:43Dink culture is followed
06:45Dink culture says that if you don't have kids, you will have less stress
06:49If you want to raise your kids mentally and physically
06:52You will have more stress
06:55If you don't have kids, you can lead a relaxed life
06:58You don't have to work when you don't have kids
07:01You can earn as much as you want
07:03Some people think that they can lead a relaxed life
07:06Dink culture is followed
07:08According to Indian tradition
07:12We pray to God to give birth to 12 kids
07:15If you pray to God not to give birth to kids
07:19We pray to God to bless us with good luck
07:24Indian marriage system follows both of these
07:29This is not a good thing
07:32It is good to have 12 kids in the marriage system
07:38It is good to spread this to the whole country
07:44Our food and water is polluted
07:54We don't want to raise our kids in polluted environment
08:01We don't want to raise our kids in polluted environment
08:05Not only in western countries but also in India
08:10Young couples are attracted to each other
08:13Some people think that they can lead a relaxed life
08:18Some people think that there are no problems in having kids
08:21They are saving some of their earnings for old age
08:25But they don't think about how hell it will be if they don't have kids
08:32In the olden days, we used to say that there are 10,000-5,000 kids
08:38But every family should have at least one or two children
08:43According to Indian tradition, marriage is a wonderful thing
08:50Children should be there in the marriage
08:52Only if there are kids, parents will come to India
08:55They will ask what your son has studied?
08:57Did your daughter get married?
08:59How many kids do you have?
09:00There are so many traditions like this
09:02Why do we say that we are great?
09:04This is a big lesson for Indian culture
09:08In reality, childbirth is a natural law
09:11This rule applies to humans and other creatures on earth
09:16Without childbirth, no society will prosper
09:20In India, children are an important part of the family
09:24Not only parents are happy to see their children
09:27But also grandmothers, grandfathers and relatives
09:31People are eager to see how the Dink lifestyle will be in India
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