00:00Lots of people think it's weird that I would be dating my daughter's ex.
00:04I see the keyboard warriors. I see the types of things they write.
00:09But I love it. Bring it on.
00:13Not today, thank you.
00:17Just kidding. Come on, come into the house.
00:20I was definitely attracted to Scott the moment I met him.
00:23I mean, he's gorgeous. I just wanted to rip his clothes off and get him in bed straight away.
00:28I was still kind of that straight lad, so I didn't really have that attraction straight away.
00:33My s*** was s***. I was straight.
00:37But then, I don't label my s***. I like what I like.
00:41So, to Scott, how did you meet Saffron and how long did you date?
00:49So when Scott was coming out, he didn't want to just announce to his parents and everybody that he was gay.
00:56So between him and Saffron, they came up with this plan to say that Saffron was actually his girlfriend.
01:03And in fact, they were. He was literally seeing me.
01:06It kept our relationship secret.
01:10I'm a filthy secret.
01:12Well, you're not a secret anymore. The whole world knows who you are now.
01:17It's kind of nice.
01:20Lots of people think it's weird that I would be dating my daughter's ex.
01:24But the fact is, she was never his ex. That's the thing.
01:27And unfortunately, once it appears in the Daily Mail or The Sun, it has to be the word of God.
01:35He didn't want to tell everybody he was gay. They were best friends.
01:38They went out to a few parties and clubs together.
01:41They got papped and ended up in the paper as being together.
01:44I never actually dated Scott. He was my best friend.
01:47We were just best friends from the minute he came in.
01:49You should have seen the backlash. It was horrendous.
01:53The hate mail and how he's a homewrecker.
01:56And how could I go with my daughter's boyfriend if he was my daughter's ex-boyfriend?
02:03I would still have no qualm whatsoever in f***ing him.
02:07There'd be no problem with that at all.
02:09If they're done, then he's mine if I want him and that's it.
02:13But the fact was, he never really was.
02:20I think our relationship is almost like...
02:24It's very passionate and very open, isn't it?
02:29Yeah. I always see other couples and there's always something to moan about their partner.
02:35But we don't do that. We do things for each other and we just have fun.
02:40Oh my God! What happened?
02:44That 19-year-old's gone!
02:46The weirdest part about having my dad and Scott date is that
02:49Scott sometimes tells me a bit too much information that I'm not really interested in knowing.
02:53He'll tell me that they've had s*** or something and I don't need to know about that.
02:58Scott and I have been together now for almost nine years.
03:01When Scott and I decided that we were going to have a family,
03:03we knew that we wanted to have a biological link to the baby that we had.
03:07So the best way forward was to find a surrogate and an egg donor.
03:11We ended up with a beautiful daughter, Valentina.
03:15She's ten months now.
03:17Nine.
03:18She's nine.
03:19She's nine months.
03:21You could have just lied then and just agreed with me for like two seconds.
03:25She's ten months.
03:26Then corrected me.
03:27We're so lucky really and that's why we decided that we're going to have another one.
03:31So that by this time next year, she'll have a brother or a sister.
03:36What are we having to eat tonight?
03:41Our family is seen to be very unconventional.
03:45I've certainly seen attitudes change over the years.
03:54Actually, I can't sleep at night because of the amount of judgement and keyboard warriors.
03:59I couldn't give a flying f*** what any of them thought about me to be honest.
04:03Honestly, they don't pay my bills.
04:05They don't pay my kids' bills.
04:07They're not paying for a new G-Wagon next month.
04:10I'm doing all of that so I don't answer to anybody.
04:13If they don't like it, tune off.
04:15Even when this goes out, there'll be a hundred negative comments underneath the stream.
04:20You can better plan it for them.
04:22But I love it. Bring it on.
04:25What would you say to the haters?
04:27I don't really have anything to say to the haters who say it's weird because they can think what they want.
04:32We know as a family what we are and what we're like.
04:35That's all that matters really.
04:37It takes many different types to make the world go round.
04:40We're just one of those types.
04:42You better believe that there's going to be lots more families like ours eventually.
05:02You
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