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00:00Listen to me closely, beloved.

00:07Right now, somewhere in this world, there's a single person on their knees at 2 a.m.

00:15Tears streaming down their face, hands clasped so tight their knuckles are white,

00:21and they're praying the same prayer that millions have prayed before them.

00:26God, please send me someone to love.

00:30Lord, I'm so tired of being alone.

00:33Father, when will it be my turn?

00:36But here's what will break your heart and change your life at the same time.

00:41That prayer, the one that feels so natural, so desperate, so right,

00:47it's keeping them single.

00:49If you just felt your chest tighten, if something in your spirit just said,

00:54Wait, what?

00:55Then you need to hear what I'm about to share,

00:58because 99% of Christian singles are praying the wrong prayer,

01:04and it's blocking the very blessing they're begging for.

01:08Type wrong prayer in the comments if you've ever felt like your prayers about love

01:14were bouncing off the ceiling,

01:15Because what you're about to discover isn't just going to change how you pray.

01:21It's going to change how you live, how you love, and how you see God's heart for your romantic future.

01:28The prayer I'm about to teach you, it's the one prayer that Moses prayed.

01:33The one prayer that David prayed.

01:36The one prayer that Jesus himself prayed in the garden.

01:40And it's the only prayer that aligns your heart with God's heart so perfectly that heaven has to respond.

01:49So if you're tired of waiting, if you're exhausted from wondering,

01:53If you're ready to pray the prayer that moves mountains,

01:57parts seas, and writes love stories that make heaven weep with joy,

02:02then stay right here,

02:03because your love life is about to change forever.

02:08Before we dive into this life-changing prayer,

02:11I need you to understand something that's going to heal every wound rejection

02:16ever carved into your heart.

02:18You are not single because something is wrong with you.

02:23You are not single because you're not good enough.

02:27You are not single because God is punishing you.

02:30You are single because God has been protecting you from a love that would have limited you,

02:37wounded you, or distracted you from becoming everything he created you to be.

02:43Listen to me carefully.

02:45Your singleness is not a sentence.

02:48It's a sanctuary.

02:50It's not a punishment.

02:51It's preparation.

02:53It's not God withholding love from you.

02:57It's God preparing you for a love so profound,

03:00so healing, so divinely orchestrated,

03:03that it requires this level of preparation to sustain it.

03:08Look at Isaac in Genesis 24.

03:10His father Abraham didn't send him to go find a wife.

03:15Abraham sent his servant to find the wife that God had already prepared.

03:21While Isaac was home, trusting his father's promise,

03:24Rebecca was being prepared miles away,

03:27developing kindness, generosity, and faith.

03:31Two hearts being prepared simultaneously for divine collision.

03:36Look at Ruth.

03:37She wasn't desperately chasing Boaz.

03:39She was faithfully serving Naomi, working in the fields, being who God created her to be.

03:46And Boaz?

03:47He noticed her character before he noticed her beauty.

03:51Their love story was written by the author of romance himself.

03:55Here's what I need you to see.

03:56Every great love story in the Bible was orchestrated by God, not manipulated by man.

04:04Every divine romance began not with human effort, but with divine alignment.

04:10And that alignment?

04:11It starts with the right prayer.

04:15Comment.

04:16Divine alignment.

04:17If you're ready to stop trying to make things happen and start letting God orchestrate things in his perfect timing.

04:26The wrong prayer says,

04:27God, give me what I want.

04:30The right prayer says,

04:31God, make me who you need me to be.

04:34The wrong prayer is about acquisition.

04:37The right prayer is about transformation.

04:40The wrong prayer focuses on what you're lacking.

04:44The right prayer focuses on what God is building.

04:48So what is this prayer?

04:50What are the words that Moses spoke when he needed direction?

04:54What did David cry out when he needed God's heart?

04:58What did Jesus declare when he needed to align his will with the Father's?

05:02Are you ready for this?

05:04Because once you pray this prayer,

05:07really pray it from your heart,

05:09everything changes.

05:11Your perspective shifts.

05:12Your desperation dies.

05:15Your faith comes alive.

05:17And God starts moving in ways that will leave you speechless.

05:21The prayer 99% of singles never pray is this.

05:26God, prepare me to be the person my future spouse needs,

05:30even if it means I'm not ready yet.

05:33But beloved,

05:34this prayer has five parts that most people miss.

05:38Five components that transform this from wishful thinking into prophetic declaration.

05:46Let me break this down for you.

05:48One, the prayer of preparation.

05:51God, prepare me to be the person my future spouse needs.

05:56This isn't about changing yourself to attract someone.

05:58This is about asking God to reveal the areas of your character

06:03that need refinement, healing, and growth.

06:07In 1 Corinthians 13,

06:10Paul describes love as patient,

06:12kind,

06:13not envious,

06:14not boastful.

06:15But here's what we miss.

06:17Those aren't just qualities you need to find in someone else.

06:21Those are qualities God wants to develop in you.

06:25You're not praying God, send me someone patient.

06:28You're praying God, make me patient.

06:31You're not praying God, send me someone kind.

06:33You're praying God, make me kind.

06:35You're not praying God, send me someone faithful.

06:38You're praying God, make me faithful.

06:41Type, prepare me,

06:42if you're ready to let God work on your character

06:45before he works on your circumstances.

06:48Two, the prayer of surrender.

06:50Even if it means I'm not ready yet,

06:52this is where 99% of singles stop praying

06:56because this part requires surrender.

07:00This part says,

07:01God, I trust your timing more than my timeline.

07:05I trust your process more than my impatience.

07:08I trust your preparation more than my desperation.

07:13Look at Moses at the burning bush.

07:15He said, I am not ready.

07:17And God said, I will make you ready.

07:20Look at David in the field with his sheep.

07:23He wasn't ready to be king,

07:25but God was preparing him for kingship.

07:28Look at Mary when the angel appeared.

07:30She said, how can this be?

07:32But then surrendered with,

07:34let it be unto me according to your word.

07:36You're not ready yet isn't disqualification.

07:40It's invitation.

07:42Invitation for God to do surgery on your soul.

07:45Invitation for the Holy Spirit to renovate your heart.

07:48Invitation for the Father to prepare you

07:51for a love story so beautiful,

07:54it will preach the gospel to everyone who witnesses it.

07:58Three, the prayer of identity.

08:01God, show me who I am in you

08:03before I try to be someone's everything.

08:07Here's what destroys most relationships.

08:10People looking for completion in another person

08:13instead of finding their completion in Christ.

08:15You cannot give what you do not possess.

08:18You cannot love from an empty well.

08:21You cannot build a godly marriage on an ungodly foundation.

08:26Ephesians 5, 25 to 27

08:28doesn't just tell husbands to love their wives

08:31as Christ loved the church.

08:33It tells us how Christ loved the church.

08:36He gave himself up for her to make her holy,

08:39to present her radiant without stain or wrinkle.

08:42Before you can be radiant with someone else,

08:46you need to be radiant with Jesus.

08:49Before you can be holy in marriage,

08:51you need to be holy in singleness.

08:54Before you can be without stain or wrinkle in relationship,

08:58you need to let God wash you clean in His presence.

09:02Comment,

09:03Radiant in Jesus,

09:05if you want to glow with His love

09:06before you glow with human love.

09:094. The Prayer of Purpose

09:12God, align my desires with your desires for my life.

09:18This is the prayer that changes everything.

09:21Because when your desires align with God's desires,

09:24you stop wanting the wrong people.

09:26You stop settling for less than His best.

09:29You stop forcing doors that He wants to keep closed.

09:34Romans 12, 2 says,

09:35Do not conform to the pattern of this world,

09:39but be transformed by the renewing of your mind.

09:42Then you will be able to test and approve

09:45what God's will is,

09:47His good, pleasing, and perfect will.

09:50When your mind is renewed,

09:52you'll want what God wants.

09:55When your heart is aligned,

09:56you'll desire His desires.

09:59When your spirit is submitted,

10:01you'll love His choices for your life.

10:04You'll stop being attracted

10:06to people who don't love Jesus

10:08the way you love Jesus.

10:10You'll stop being impressed

10:12by people who don't have character.

10:14You'll stop settling for chemistry without covenant,

10:17attraction without alignment,

10:19romance without righteousness.

10:225. The Prayer of Faith

10:24God, I trust that you're writing a love story

10:28better than anything I could imagine.

10:30This is the prayer that turns waiting into worship.

10:35This is the prayer that turns loneliness into expectancy.

10:39This is the prayer that turns questions into confidence.

10:44When you truly believe that the God

10:47who painted sunsets and carved mountains,

10:50who breathed life into Adam

10:51and fashioned Eve from His rib,

10:54who orchestrated the greatest love story

10:56between heaven and earth

10:58through Jesus and His bride, the church,

11:01when you truly believe that this God

11:03is writing your love story,

11:05desperation dies,

11:07anxiety flees,

11:09peace floods your soul,

11:11joy becomes your strength,

11:13and faith becomes your foundation.

11:16Put this prayer together, beloved,

11:18and watch what happens.

11:19God, prepare me to be the person

11:23my future spouse needs,

11:25even if it means I'm not ready yet.

11:27Show me who I am in you

11:29before I try to be someone's everything.

11:32Align my desires with your desires for my life.

11:36I trust that you're writing a love story

11:37better than anything I could imagine.

11:40Type, better than I imagine,

11:42if you believe God's plan for your love life

11:45exceeds your wildest dreams.

11:47Listen to me, beautiful soul.

11:50Listen to me, precious heart.

11:52Listen to me, beloved child of the Most High God.

11:56While you've been crying,

11:58when, God, when?

12:00He's been whispering,

12:02wait, child, wait.

12:04While you've been asking,

12:06why not now?

12:07He's been saying,

12:08because not yet is not never.

12:11While you've been wondering,

12:13what's wrong with me?

12:15He's been declaring,

12:15everything's right about my timing.

12:18God is not withholding love from you.

12:21He's perfecting love for you.

12:24He's not delaying your blessing.

12:26He's designing your blessing.

12:28He's not denying your request.

12:30He's refining your readiness.

12:32You think you're ready for love,

12:34but God knows you're being prepared for covenant.

12:37You think you're ready for romance,

12:39but God knows you're being prepared for partnership.

12:42You think you're ready for marriage,

12:44but God knows you're being prepared for ministry.

12:48The love God is preparing for you

12:50will not just bless you.

12:52It will heal you.

12:53It will not just complete you.

12:55It will commission you.

12:57It will not just satisfy you.

12:59It will sanctify you.

13:01It will not just make you happy.

13:03It will make you holy.

13:04Some of you watching this have been single

13:06for five years,

13:0810 years,

13:0915 years,

13:10and you've wondered if God forgot about you.

13:13Let me tell you what I see

13:14in the spirit realm right now.

13:17I see God's hand moving in your situation.

13:20I see divine appointments being arranged.

13:23I see hearts being prepared for collision.

13:26I see love stories being written

13:28that will make heaven applaud.

13:31Your future spouse is praying too.

13:33Right now,

13:35somewhere in this world,

13:36they're asking God to prepare them for you.

13:40They're growing in faith,

13:41developing character,

13:43learning to love like Jesus loves.

13:46The same God preparing you

13:48is preparing them.

13:50And when you collide,

13:52and you will collide,

13:54it won't just be two broken people

13:56trying to fix each other.

13:58It will be two whole people,

14:00complete in Christ,

14:01coming together

14:02to build something beautiful

14:04for the kingdom of God.

14:06So stop begging God for scraps

14:07when he's preparing a feast.

14:10Stop settling for temporary

14:11when he's crafting eternal.

14:14Stop rushing his process

14:15when his timing is perfect.

14:18The prayer 99% of singles never pray,

14:22God prepare me,

14:23is about to become the prayer

14:25that changes your life,

14:27your love,

14:28and your legacy.

14:29Your love story is not late.

14:31It's right on time.

14:33Your future spouse is not lost.

14:36They're being found by God.

14:38Your prayers are not ignored.

14:40They're being answered in ways

14:42that will astound you.

14:44If this word hit your heart like lightning,

14:47if you feel like I was speaking

14:49directly to your soul,

14:50then I need you to do something right now.

14:53First, type prepare me in the comments.

14:58If you're ready to pray,

14:59the prayer 99% of singles never pray.

15:04I want to see this comment section

15:05flooded with declarations of surrender

15:08to God's perfect timing.

15:11Second, if you know someone

15:13who's been praying the wrong prayer,

15:15who's been frustrated with God's timing

15:17in their love life,

15:18tag them in the comments.

15:20Your obedience to share this

15:22could be the key

15:23that unlocks their breakthrough.

15:26Third, hit that subscribe button

15:28and ring the notification bell

15:30because I release content

15:32like this regularly

15:33and your heart deserves encouragement

15:35while you're waiting for love.

15:38But here's what I really want you to do.

15:40I want you to comment

15:42one word that describes

15:45what you're asking God

15:47to prepare in you.

15:49Maybe it's patience.

15:50Maybe it's healing.

15:52Maybe it's confidence.

15:54Maybe it's forgiveness.

15:56Maybe it's trust.

15:58Whatever God is working on

15:59in your heart right now,

16:01declare it in the comments.

16:03Let's create a community of people

16:05who are saying yes

16:07to God's preparation process.

16:10And listen,

16:11if you pray this prayer

16:12with genuine faith,

16:13if you surrender your timeline

16:15to his timing,

16:17if you trust his preparation

16:19over your desperation,

16:20I want you to come back

16:22to this video in six months

16:24and tell us what God did.

16:26Because I'm believing with you

16:28that supernatural breakthrough

16:30is coming.

16:31Divine appointments

16:32are being arranged.

16:34Heart collisions

16:34are being orchestrated.

16:37Love stories are being written

16:38that will make this entire community

16:41weep with joy.

16:43So right now,

16:44wherever you are,

16:46your bedroom,

16:47your car,

16:48your kitchen,

16:49lift your hands

16:50and pray with me.

16:51God,

16:52prepare me to be the person

16:53my future spouse needs,

16:55even if it means

16:56I'm not ready yet.

16:58Show me who I am in you

17:00before I try to be

17:01someone's everything.

17:03Align my desires

17:04with your desires

17:05for my life.

17:06I trust that you're writing

17:08a love story better

17:09than anything

17:11I could imagine.

17:12In Jesus' name,

17:14Amen.

17:15If you prayed that prayer,

17:17type

17:17A-M-D-N

17:19right now.

17:21Let's flood heaven

17:22with the same prayer

17:23Moses prayed,

17:24David prayed,

17:25and Jesus prayed,

17:27the prayer of surrender.

17:28Remember this,

17:29beloved one,

17:30the same God

17:32who never makes mistakes

17:33in sunsets

17:34will never make a mistake

17:36in your love story.

17:37He's not preparing you

17:39for any love.

17:40He's preparing you

17:41for covenant love.

17:42He's not preparing you

17:43for temporary romance.

17:45He's preparing you

17:46for eternal partnership.

17:48He's not preparing you

17:49for worldly marriage.

17:50He's preparing you

17:51for godly ministry.

17:53So stop praying the prayer

17:5599% of singles pray,

17:57God,

17:58give me someone.

18:00Start praying the prayer

18:021% of singles pray,

18:05God,

18:06prepare me

18:06for someone.

18:08Because when preparation

18:09meets opportunity,

18:11it creates the kind of love

18:12that doesn't just

18:13satisfy your heart,

18:15it satisfies heaven's heart too.

18:18Your love story

18:19is being written

18:20by the author

18:20of romance himself.

18:22Trust the pen

18:23in his hand.

18:25Trust the story

18:25he's crafting.

18:27Trust the timing

18:28he's orchestrating.

18:30The best love stories

18:31always start

18:32with the hardest prayers.

18:34And beloved,

18:36your hardest prayer

18:37is about to become

18:38your greatest praise.

18:41Until next time,

18:42you are loved,

18:43you are chosen,

18:45and your love story

18:46is closer than you know.

18:48See you in the next video.

18:49See you in the next video.

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