00:00Welcome to the finale of the three C's of Christian dating apps.
00:06In part one, we celebrated the connection.
00:09In part two, we got real about the compromise.
00:13So now we're left with the million dollar question.
00:17How do we hold both of these truths at once?
00:20Is there a way to navigate this that protects our hearts and honors God?
00:26The answer is a resounding yes, and it's our third C, the Christ-centered strategy.
00:34This is the path forward.
00:35This means your identity is not in the app.
00:39Your hope is not in the algorithm.
00:41It's in Christ.
00:43This is about Proverbs 3, 5 to 6.
00:46Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding.
00:51We trust his plan, and we use tools with wisdom, not desperation.
00:56Let's get practical.
00:57Two rules for a Christ-centered strategy.
00:59One, profile with purpose.
01:02Your profile shouldn't just say you're a Christian.
01:04It should show it.
01:05Talk about your actual church, your favorite scripture, how your faith shapes your life.
01:12Two, move offline fast.
01:17The goal is not to text for weeks.
01:19The goal is a brief video call or a coffee meetup in a public place within a week or two.
01:25You need to discern character and chemistry in person, not through a screen.
01:30This isn't just theory.
01:32I told you about my friends Mark and Sarah in part one.
01:36Their success wasn't about the app.
01:38It was about their strategy.
01:40They put Christ first.
01:42They were intentional and moved quickly to real life.
01:46I've seen this work over and over.
01:48Someone decides to stop playing the game and start being intentional.
01:53They pray over their profile.
01:55They focus on character, not just charm.
01:58And it changes everything.
02:00Your ultimate hope is not in an app or a person.
02:04It's in Christ.
02:05He is the prize.
02:06Any human relationship is a beautiful reflection of his love for us.
02:11All right, family, this is where it gets actionable.
02:16I have a challenge for you.
02:17Take five minutes today.
02:19Just five minutes and pray about your approach to this.
02:25Ask God, is my strategy honoring to you?
02:29Does my hope reside in you or in my match queue?
02:33Drop a prayer hand in the comments if you're committing to doing that.
02:36Let's activate this truth together.
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02:54Be the person who offers them hope and a strategy.
02:57Remember, walk with him, trust his timing, and protect your heart.
03:03I'm so glad we did this together.
03:06Peace be unto you.
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