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05:05Isabagogical activities.
05:05And we are all working in our partnership with our practical activities area.
05:08We learn a lot to come back from the Premiering business.
05:20We have our specific activities and our activities and our activities and our activities for their activities.
05:21We get forgiveness only because of course a lot.
05:28We are leaving as a community part in our activities.
05:33but they don't have to do their own partner.
05:38They don't have to do their job.
05:42They don't have to do their job.
05:45But they don't have to do their job.
05:50In the past, they were doing their meetings.
05:53They were doing their schedule.
05:54You can move to the 5.00.
05:59He was doing their job at 8.00.
06:02That's why it's been a long time for me.
06:04After that, the assumption of the SWAT
06:07is that they were going to do their job.
06:13They were going to do their job more than nothing.
06:19They were going to do their job as they were going to do their job.
06:23So, kapoy,
06:26nangita gani ka o partner lang na makasabot ni mo,
06:33ikatambayayong ni mo, ikayayong ni mo kung doon na kayo problema.
06:36Pero siya mismo, mo ay nagbognag problema,
06:39sulod si imong kinabuhi, which is not good, no?
06:42Mag-unsama ng partner,
06:44mag-unsama ng imong live-in partner,
06:47na dili na kayo balo maminaw,
06:50dili kayo balo mo sabot.
06:53Mag-mug na yun ang problema, panalitan ron.
06:56Compulsory ang pagtambong sa kining-meeting.
07:03Compulsory ang team-building.
07:05So, maproblema ka.
07:07Maproblema ka kay nga naman.
07:10Maproblema ka kay one man, mag-ubot man noon.
07:12Mo'o naman yun mag-ubot kung ato baka dili,
07:15matambong baka dili.
07:16So, dili siya kasabotan na, which is not good.
07:19O niya, ang worst pagyodlan kay,
07:22mutan ka kung kapila ka mo ato sa iyong mga anak.
07:26Imo ng mga anak, imo ng dugo.
07:29Nitipon ng katuod niya,
07:31batwa magpasabot nga,
07:33imuhan nalang hatagan o pudyot sa iyong panahon ang mga bata.
07:39Gani, dapat unta,
07:40ikaw mo yung nagbuot nga at tumungo mo puyo sa inyong balay.
07:44Dili siya ha.
07:45Naaman kay mga anak, tuha pagit kabuok.
07:47Kano'ng mga bata araba, magdako,
07:50kikinhangla na,
07:51ka doon ay ginikanan na mag-iya.
07:53Doon ay magmatuto ng mga ginikanan.
07:56Kaning, kanang naagod,
07:58kanunay ang presensya sa,
08:00kanaganin ginikanan.
08:01Labi na yun.
08:02Nga wala sila ay,
08:04assume na sa dako,
08:05nga ang ilang papa,
08:08dikuyog nimo.
08:09Wala mag,
08:10no,
08:11wala magkanang magtagad aning mga bata.
08:13Assumption, anak ko.
08:15Bisa naman tuog nagtagad,
08:16but,
08:17ang bata,
08:17naanag po yung uban nimo.
08:19So,
08:20ang,
08:22kuha niya na,
08:23ang netabo niya na,
08:25kuha,
08:26kining,
08:27imong mga anak,
08:28wala kanunay,
08:30diha ang presensya sa parents,
08:32both parents.
08:34Naaman ka ni kaya,
08:35puyo mang kaanang imong,
08:37live-in partner.
08:39Unya,
08:39ang imo sa kapuyo,
08:40doon na sila in tingal eh.
08:42So,
08:43wala diha ang presensya niyong duha,
08:45which is not good.
08:46Unya,
08:47tibhangan pagyod,
08:48kuhaan pagyod na ng imong,
08:51imong,
08:52live-in partner.
08:54So,
08:54dili yun maayo.
08:56Unsa may mayin mong buhaton,
08:58naingutan na kag makigubuhag,
09:00makigubuhag pa ka,
09:01I advise na makigubuhag ka,
09:03kung dili yun siya mag-usap.
09:05Sultihan ni mo siya lang,
09:07kanang,
09:08dili yun maayo,
09:10ang,
09:10iyang gibuhat.
09:12Imbong,
09:13kuhaan nun,
09:14imo siyang,
09:15sopakun,
09:16tubagon,
09:18daang pagpasabot,
09:19na,
09:20dili yun maayo,
09:21ang iyang gibuhat.
09:22Kanang,
09:23primarily,
09:23kanang imong mga anak,
09:25na kinhanglanan ni mo.
09:27Dapat gani,
09:28wag yung kamubiya sa inyong balay.
09:31Ang mga bata,
09:33dili ni mo,
09:34ang ngay nga intrigot,
09:35tingali,
09:35akong i-assume,
09:36dito sa imong parents,
09:37sa iyong luluglula.
09:39Lahimang yun ang mga bata,
09:41na magdako,
09:42sa uban,
09:43sa mga ginikanan.
09:44Mauwitan na yun,
09:45na yung mga inahan,
09:47na nag-antos,
09:48bisan sa kapintas,
09:49sa,
09:50kining,
09:52pagpanapat,
09:52pagbabuso,
09:53sa ilang partner,
09:54sa ilang bana,
09:56pero,
09:57giagwanta nila,
09:58ang ilang sitwasyon.
10:01Tungod,
10:01o galang sa mga bata,
10:03ang uban,
10:04gani,
10:04iluom lang.
10:06Pila,
10:06nag-ugoy sa,
10:07kadugay na nako,
10:08aning,
10:09tambag ikonikulas,
10:10in real life,
10:11doon nag-ugoy,
10:12kanaging,
10:13in cases,
10:14doon nag-ugoy mudanghop na ko,
10:17kanang abused women,
10:18na,
10:20ilang giluom,
10:21suod sa dugay ng panahon,
10:23ang ilang problema,
10:24ilang parents,
10:25wala kaybalo,
10:26ang ilang,
10:27ang pamilya,
10:27wala kaybalo,
10:29usahay,
10:29mabunog,
10:31tagoon lang nila.
10:32Nga naman,
10:33ang ilang,
10:34gikwanan,
10:35ang ilang gilikayan,
10:36is magubot,
10:37ikaduha,
10:39dili sila ganahan,
10:41nga makigbuwag,
10:42kay ang pamilya mo,
10:44ipinsa,
10:44mag-gina,
10:45dili sila ganahan,
10:48magbuwag sila,
10:49kay,
10:49mahadlok sila,
10:50ang mga bata,
10:51magdako,
10:51nga,
10:51way mama,
10:52way papa,
10:53di prefer to live life,
10:56a life nga,
10:57doon ay abuse,
10:58no?
10:59So,
11:00mauna,
11:00looy,
11:01jud,
11:01kayo ang,
11:02kanaganing,
11:03ubang mga inahan,
11:04na akong nasugatan,
11:05so,
11:05akong kitambagan nga,
11:07dango pong disability,
11:08po niya,
11:09niligid na maayo,
11:10na ang,
11:13mga wata,
11:14magdako,
11:15within an abusive environment,
11:17kanang daghan,
11:19o pangabuso,
11:19kay,
11:20ang,
11:21resulta niya,
11:22na nagbugna,
11:23o ka,
11:24o mga wata,
11:25na,
11:26abuse,
11:27o,
11:28na,
11:28posibleng,
11:29abusado,
11:30po,
11:30nagdako,
11:30o,
11:31at the same time,
11:32kuhan po,
11:33ganang waka-pictus,
11:34ilang pagkataw,
11:35insecurity,
11:36o,
11:36uban pa,
11:38niya,
11:39ang uban nga,
11:40abuse nga mga bata,
11:42grabe sa doog ka nang,
11:45pakita,
11:45diri sa gawas,
11:47dili maayo po,
11:49so,
11:50mauna na,
11:50nga,
11:52mo,
11:52tambag yun ko nga,
11:53kung di,
11:54gud mahilot,
11:54di,
11:55gud madala,
11:56kining,
11:58wag gana lang yun,
11:59mauna na akong,
12:00advice ni Mulan,
12:01wag gana lang yun,
12:02but,
12:02you have to talk to him,
12:05ang,
12:06i-mong gisulti na ako,
12:084 months,
12:08mauna na nagpuyo mo,
12:11doon ay mga senyalis,
12:12nga,
12:12kuhan na,
12:13narcissism,
12:14but,
12:14I'm not saying,
12:15ma-aug na siya,
12:16pero,
12:17sa i-mong description,
12:18mong gud,
12:19kanang,
12:20kuhan na,
12:21kanang urasya,
12:22kwa,
12:24grabing pagsalig niya,
12:25sa engkaw galingon,
12:26kunya,
12:27gusto siya nga,
12:30terimikang naaalang niya,
12:32murabag,
12:32ang iyang kalibutan,
12:34nag-usab,
12:35na,
12:35naara nagkuhan,
12:36na naglibot niya,
12:37na naglibot niya,
12:38unya,
12:39kanang gusto siyang,
12:42murag daigun,
12:43kay ikaw,
12:43siya ko'y magbuot,
12:44sa i-mong,
12:44i-mong profile picture,
12:47sa i-mohang,
12:48kuhan,
12:49kining,
12:51post,
12:51murabag,
12:52siya rin na kayo balo,
12:53no,
12:54siya rin kayo balo,
12:54na ikaw,
12:55mulayog kayo,
12:56muna yung pagtanaw siyang kong galingon,
12:58nga ngilingig siya,
13:00unya,
13:00mulagi,
13:01ang,
13:02iyang gotasan,
13:04gusto,
13:04gud nga,
13:05kanang naagad,
13:07kapirmi,
13:07na,
13:08naakapirmi,
13:09o ba niya,
13:09unya,
13:10ang sintros atinsyon,
13:12nga naa niya,
13:13dapat unta'lan,
13:15ang imuhang,
13:17guna o na,
13:18ang imong atinsyon,
13:20dilik diha niya,
13:21tuas imong mga anak,
13:22live-in partner na ni mo,
13:25live-in partner ni mo,
13:26huwa na'y dugo ni mo,
13:28ang imo mga bata,
13:30mo'y na'y dugo,
13:31maunta na'y imong giuna,
13:33paghunahuna,
13:35giuna,
13:36pagka ng,
13:37paghatak o pagtagad,
13:38huwa ka ni mo,
13:39biya'y ang mga bata,
13:40instead,
13:41kanauntang imong partner,
13:43mauna'y imong ipapuyo,
13:44diyas inyuhah,
13:45or,
13:46asa mang ka nagpuyo,
13:47karun,
13:48so,
13:48mauna'y imong,
13:49timanaan,
13:50kanuna'y,
13:51plan,
13:52no?
13:54Kaya mga bata,
13:55imong mga anak,
13:56nagkinahanglan,
13:57ginani mo,
13:58magdako,
13:59importante kayo ng presensya sa,
14:02mga bata,
14:03o sa ginikanan,
14:04nga to sa mga bata,
14:05santang sila nagtubo,
14:07maabi taong ng lahi-iragyod,
14:08maluoy ang taong kuhan ng mga OFW banga,
14:11nagpalayo ang,
14:13kuhan ang,
14:16kusa sa mga ginikanan,
14:17kunya,
14:18yung usapagid nga nabilin,
14:19irresponsable,
14:21tagka naman may unan na,
14:22ang asawa,
14:24to in town,
14:25nagdomestic helper,
14:26o diba,
14:27nag,
14:28kineng,
14:29kuhana,
14:30kineng factory worker,
14:31o,
14:32kunsa pa na di hanggi,
14:33trabaho dito sa abroad,
14:34kunya,
14:34ang bana nga nabilin,
14:36nagsigilag inom,
14:37o diba,
14:38pamabay,
14:39no,
14:39pang chicks,
14:40kaya wala lagi di ang asawa,
14:42so,
14:44muna,
14:45instead nga,
14:47hatagan o igong panahon,
14:49ang mga bata,
14:49daily na noon,
14:50matagan o panahon,
14:51kay tuas bisyo,
14:53so,
14:54uwang pa,
14:54o ginikanan,
14:55o sa kaginikanan,
14:56kunya,
14:57gisamutan pagyod,
14:58kay ang,
14:58nabilin,
14:59wala mo function,
15:01supposedly,
15:01sa iyang gimbuhat ton,
15:04so,
15:04mauna lang,
15:05na araw to,
15:06kasdool,
15:06na araw ka diri sa Cebu,
15:07akong guess yung,
15:09huwag ka magkumbutan ko ka,
15:10diris,
15:11but,
15:12imong gibiaan,
15:13imong mga bata,
15:14tungod,
15:15o galang anang imong,
15:17imong living partner,
15:18imong boyfriend,
15:20waani mo mauna-una,
15:21nga,
15:22mas gikinhanglan ka,
15:23mas nagkinhanglan na sila ni mo,
15:26kaysa imuhang,
15:28living partner,
15:29nga,
15:30gusto na karun nga,
15:31kausa,
15:32o kaduhan na lang,
15:33nimuduawon ang mga bata,
15:34ayaw gyan pagsugot,
15:37ayaw gyan,
15:38no negotiation,
15:39walay,
15:41walay ka nang,
15:42ayaw pag give in,
15:43ayaw pag,
15:43sugot niya ng iyang gusto,
15:46dili gyan na maayo,
15:47dili magkaayo sa mga bata,
15:49dili isan,
15:50ka nang makaayo sa,
15:52kiningimong ko,
15:53galingon,
15:54kay,
15:55magkuha naman ka,
15:56magunahuna naman ka,
15:59nga,
16:00kuhan ka na ganing,
16:03makonsensya ka,
16:04samtang magdako sila,
16:05magtanaw nga,
16:07ka nang,
16:08wala ka kagahin,
16:09o gdakong panahon niya,
16:11nila,
16:11nilang duha,
16:13later on,
16:14mauna imong ma-realize,
16:15ayaw na paabutan,
16:17nga,
16:17maabot ng panahon nga,
16:18magmahay ka,
16:19nga,
16:20ang imong,
16:21dakong panahon,
16:23ang pahat sa dakong panahon,
16:24dito sa imong boyfriend,
16:26ni Mugihatag,
16:27instead,
16:28nga na,
16:28sa imong,
16:29imong an,
16:30na mga anak,
16:31na imog yung kadugo,
16:32imog yung,
16:33ang dugo,
16:34nga naglatay sila na kaugatan,
16:35imo hagyon,
16:37niya,
16:37kanang imong boyfriend,
16:39laing tao,
16:40wala,
16:40wag yun kay,
16:42wisan-usana lang kakuha niya,
16:44live-in partner,
16:45pagyod, no?
16:46So,
16:46dili pagyun ni Mubana.
16:48So,
16:50kung dili mangani,
16:51uli dito,
16:52kung makibuhag ka,
16:54o man mo makibuhag,
16:55uli nang,
16:56umuuli,
16:56magyod ka,
16:57ayaw na pagsugot,
16:59kung pananglita,
16:59makibalik na ni Mubana.
17:00Kung gusto siya,
17:02siya may puyong uban sa inyo ha,
17:03uban ni Mubana.
17:05Mubalhin,
17:05dili kay tungod kay ikaw,
17:06may mubalhin nga to niya.
17:09Kung pananglita,
17:10magyod gani,
17:11nga gusto siya,
17:12nga kanang mga bata,
17:15kanang,
17:18uban pagpuyo ni mo,
17:19ayaw dada ang mga bata,
17:21nga to niya.
17:22Ikaw mo ay mupuyo,
17:23balik nga to sa inyong punyayanan.
17:25Kung gusto siya,
17:27siya may mupuyo sa inyo ha.
17:28Nga naman,
17:29doon na yung possibility,
17:31nga ang kanang mga bata,
17:32iyan ang abusuhan.
17:34Ang iyang frustration,
17:36na wala ka mo sunod,
17:37wala ka mo sunod sa iyang gusto,
17:40ha yan,
17:42i-balhin nga to sa mga bata,
17:44o niya ang manifestation,
17:45ang iyang buhaton,
17:46mga buso.
17:47Kasi iyang munala,
17:48noong sabah,
17:49kasabaan,
17:49pirmi,
17:50kay wala makuha niya
17:51ang iyang gusto dihaan ni mo.
17:54So,
17:54maunay,
17:56kuwanlan ka na ganing
17:59possibility,
18:00gudana,
18:00kung imong maang mga bata,
18:02imong dadun,
18:03nga to uban ni mo,
18:05sa inyong ipuyan ka ron.
18:06The other way,
18:07it said with the other way,
18:08siya may mupuyo uban ni mo.
18:10Labi ngayon kung naana,
18:11naakaubahan sa imong mga ginikanan.
18:15Nga naman,
18:16ang imong parents,
18:17maunay makapanalipod,
18:19makaprotektar sa imuhang
18:21mga anak,
18:22sa imong mga bata,
18:25na tili,
18:25mabusuhan,
18:26mabantayan,
18:27kung mga buso man,
18:28ang imuhang
18:29live-in partner,
18:31nga to nila.
18:32So,
18:32muna yung imong,
18:33kwanan,
18:34imong timanan ka nunay.
18:36Una,
18:37mauni,
18:38talan,
18:40makibuwag ka,
18:40pakibuwag,
18:41kung dili siya mag-usap,
18:43kung dili siya gusto nga mag-usap.
18:46Iyan na ng undango,
18:47nang makiglali siya ni mo,
18:50nga ang,
18:50ang kuha ng imong anak,
18:53imong mga anak,
18:54mubalihin,
18:55mukuhaan ka nang singanin mo,
18:56imong hataga,
18:57ang dakong panahon,
18:58during weekends,
18:59non-negotiable,
19:00good na.
19:01Unya,
19:02ka nang,
19:03magbuot,
19:04punsya si imong trabaho,
19:05which is not good.
19:07Ganong nitrabaho,
19:08magka nitrabaho ka,
19:09tungod kay,
19:10doon na kay mga anak,
19:11doon na kay,
19:13gi pakaon,
19:15wala ka magpabuhi niya,
19:17wala sa di mo,
19:18gi pabuhi ang imong mga anak,
19:19ikaw may breadwinner,
19:21alang si imong,
19:22doha ka mga anak.
19:24So,
19:24muna yung una-una unin mo.
19:26So,
19:26karun,
19:26muna,
19:28kung diligid siya,
19:29musugot,
19:29di ka mag-usap,
19:31hala,
19:31diskasi,
19:32piyae,
19:33buwagi,
19:35ayaw pagdugay
19:36ng relasyon na,
19:37wala yung respeto ni mo,
19:39kay kanaarama mga narcissists,
19:40maayaw kayo na silang mudag drama,
19:43magpa-play victim na sila,
19:45unya sila,
19:46di ay naada yun nila ang problema,
19:48dilig sa picas partner.
19:50So,
19:50muna,
19:50itiman ilan.
19:52Choose your kids
19:53over him,
19:55over him,
19:56kung diligid siya gusto
19:57na mag-usap
19:59o maubani mo
20:00kung pananglitan,
20:02mauli ka man sa inyo ha.
20:04So,
20:04dinilang takutob,
20:05wala naman tayo panahon,
20:07no,
20:07kay,
20:07doon na parabay,
20:08musunod na
20:10tuluman nun
20:10sa atong mga tinunan
20:12ng dili na tayo,
20:14mula hos o
20:1430 minutes,
20:16atong hatagan o panahon,
20:18ang musunod na tuluman nun na to.
20:20So,
20:21dagang kang salamat
20:22sa mga kanunay
20:23nagsunod ni atong
20:24tuluman nun,
20:26tambagi kunoy kulas,
20:28mabierne sa hapon,
20:29alas 3,
20:30magsugod.
20:32Dagang salamat,
20:33unya,
20:34mag-amputa
20:35sa atong pag-uli,
20:36ngatos,
20:37atong tagsa-tagsak
20:38ang mga napit
20:38kung labinan itong
20:39mobiyahi o glayo.
20:41Dagang salamat.
21:08Dagang salamat.
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