Tambagi ko Noy Kulas: Sa biyuda?

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Sa edad nga 37, single pa si Sidro. Apan duna siyay duha ka girlfriend nga alang niya pulos bug-at sa iyang kasingkasing. Ginganlan kini niya og Mara ug Jane. Dungan niya ning gipanguyaban ug dungan sab siyang gisugot. Si Mara,40 anyos, iyang kauban sa trabaho ug close sila. Siya ang sumbonganan ni Mara sa mga problema sa lovelife. Palpak ang tulo ka relationships ni Mara, kinsa gusto nga pure siya nga dad-on sa altar sa kaminyuon. Wa niya gi-surrender ang flag. Si Jane nga 35 anyos, sayo nga nabiyuda. Close silang duha kay dugay na silang managhigala kay ang igsuon niini iyang classmate sa high school. Duna ni usa ka anak. Gwapa si Jane ug naa niya ang maanindot nga mga aspect sa usa ka babaye. Gusto na ni Sidro nga magminyo apan naglibog siya kinsa ang iyang pilion. Mao kini ang atong hisgutan sa Tambagi Ko, Noy Kulas.

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00:20Thank you for joining us.

00:41Thank you for joining us.

01:01Thank you for joining us.

01:30Thank you for joining us.

02:00Thank you for joining us.

06:04So, it's the first thing to do with us.

06:08The first thing to do is separate from your feelings.

06:14It's not that your guilt.

06:16If you don't feel guilty,

06:20it's not that your feelings.

06:23It's not that your feelings.

06:24It's not that your feelings.

06:31It's not that your feelings.

06:35So, the first thing to do is

06:39the chemistry of your feelings.

06:45The first thing to do is

06:49the first thing to do is

06:54the first thing to do is

07:00the first thing to do is

07:01the third thing is

07:05you feel guilty,

07:11Marabah or Jane.

07:13What do you think?

07:16If you do not communicate

07:17what you do,

07:20you look at it

07:20and what you do

07:24are either

07:25nila.

07:27Kinsa may

07:28mas maayo mo handle

07:30o conflict nilang duha.

07:33Kay,

07:35sa kami niyo onra ba,

07:36wa na magpasabot na

07:39minyo mong duha,

07:40kwa na gud mo ka ng

07:42makasinabot na gud mo ba? Doon ay time

07:44na mo tumaw ang conflict.

07:47Kinsa nilang duha

07:48ang maayo mo dala o conflict.

07:52Kinsa nilang duha

07:53nga ka ng

07:55pasinsusa

07:57kung doon na may

07:59magkaaway mo,

08:00magkalalis mo,

08:02dili ka ng upahewan ng uban

08:04nga maglayaslayas da yun

08:06o diba ka na

08:08magloodlood da yun, di nakatinggan

08:10o usakasimana.

08:12So, mo na yung usas mga appeal

08:14na sa mga batasan,

08:15nga kimong tanahon

08:18nga ka nang muhandol o conflict

08:20in a healthy way.

08:23Kunya,

08:24tanahon sa di mo

08:25ang values nila,

08:26nilang duha,

08:28nga maaong simuha,

08:30lain po na nga sopdanan.

08:33Nga,

08:34kiniganing,

08:36kung

08:36mo build man ka

08:38o kinabuhi,

08:40no,

08:41o ba ni,

08:42dibisan,

08:43kinsa nila di ha,

08:44kinsa man

08:45ang tanahon ni mo

08:46nga mas makabil ka

08:48o maayong nga kinabuhi.

08:51Kanibang

08:52single

08:53and never been touched

08:54or

08:55ang kaning

08:56kuan,

08:57kiniganing byuda

08:58nga doon ay anak.

08:59Tanahon ni mo

09:00nagmaayo.

09:01Kunya,

09:03kinin,

09:08tanahon sa

09:09ni mo

09:09kung

09:12unse imong

09:13mafeel

09:14kung

09:16masiparit ka nila,

09:17kanang

09:17mulakaw ka ba,

09:18kanang

09:18kinsay mas mugat nila,

09:20kanang

09:21mas mingaon ka,

09:23kanang

09:23maglong ka

09:24sa presence.

09:25Kabisan tuon o,

09:26the same

09:27among feeling

09:27nga nila

09:29naaamang gay,

09:30usa nila

09:30mo stand out nga,

09:32mas mingaon ka,

09:34nga,

09:35kanang

09:36kuhan ka,

09:37kanang

09:37mag

09:38nindot

09:39ko ano,

09:39kanang nindot

09:40sa ikakuyog,

09:41kay

09:41mas malingaw ko,

09:43ni amingaon ko,

09:46kinsaan na nilang duha,

09:47usan na sa imong

09:48tanahon.

09:49Kunya,

09:50kiniganing,

09:52kikinanglang

09:53yun na

09:53pod nga,

09:54dili na ni mo

09:55dugay-dugayon

09:55ang imong

09:56paghukom.

09:58Kay

09:58lain

09:59mang kaayo nga,

10:00imo

10:00dahil silang

10:01dipahuat,

10:01but

10:02ang

10:03hindi

10:03di ay

10:05kanang

10:06labiaan

10:07rin mo,

10:08imo rang talikdan.

10:11mas

10:12magkadugay,

10:14lima pa man

10:14akabuwa,

10:15no,

10:15magkadugay,

10:17magkakuan,

10:19magkasakit

10:19na inoon

10:20ang

10:21ilahang

10:22batiyon.

10:24Nabiuda na

10:25rin ba

10:26ni si

10:26si Jane

10:27na si Mara

10:28palpak

10:29ang

10:30past

10:31relationship,

10:33ang tulog.

10:34Kay

10:34gustog

10:35yung

10:35muangkun

10:35sa yung

10:35pagkababay.

10:36So,

10:37mo tingal

10:37ito

10:38nga

10:38wala

10:38ganahe

10:38kay

10:39morag

10:39nagtuo

10:39sila,

10:40nagduwaduha

10:40sila

10:42sa

10:42piling

10:42ni Mara.

10:43Or,

10:44ang ilang

10:44tuyo

10:45ang pagkababay

10:46rin

10:46huwag

10:47sila

10:47makuha,

10:48wala

10:48sila

10:49makuha,

10:51madaw-daw,

10:52gikan

10:53kang

10:53Mara.

10:54So,

10:54mo tingal

10:55nga

10:55wala

10:56sila

10:57ganahe,

10:57di biya

10:58nalang

10:58sila

10:59sa

10:59relationship.

11:01So,

11:05ang lain po

11:05di mo

11:06nga

11:06tanahon po

11:07di mo

11:08kaming

11:10kumakuyog

11:10mo,

11:11kinsa

11:11ang

11:12mas

11:12komportable

11:13ka.

11:14Kinsa

11:15sa mga

11:15pamilya

11:16nila

11:16nga

11:16mas

11:17komportable

11:17ka.

11:19Apil

11:19na sa

11:19imong

11:20tanahon.

11:21Sa

11:21ako

11:21naging

11:21ayaw

11:22tanawa

11:24ang

11:24ilang

11:25imong

11:26ma-feel

11:26nga

11:26ito

11:27nila

11:27lang.

11:28Kundi

11:28diha

11:29nila

11:29ang imo

11:31sa

11:31ma-feel

11:31nga

11:32sa ilang

11:32pamilya

11:33kaya

11:33whether

11:33you like

11:34it or

11:34not,

11:36matipik

11:37naman

11:37ka sa

11:37ilang

11:38pamilya,

11:38part

11:39naman

11:39ka sa

11:39ilang

11:39pamilya.

11:40Tanahon po

11:41na

11:41ni mo.

11:42Tanahon po

11:43ni mo

11:43na

11:43ang

11:44family

11:44background

11:44ka

11:45nang

11:46stable

11:47ba

11:47ang

11:50pamilya

11:50ani

11:51nila,

11:52either

11:53kang

11:53Jane

11:54or

11:54kang

11:54Mara.

11:57Tanahon

11:58sabi mo

11:58ang

11:59gionsa

12:00nila

12:00pagtagad

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12:01mga

12:01ginikanan

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12:02maigsoon

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12:04sa inyong

12:05relationship

12:06kay.

12:06Reflection

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12:09pag

12:09gionsa

12:09nila

12:10pag

12:10handle

12:10ang

12:13mga

12:14relationship

12:15nila

12:15labi

12:16na

12:16sa

12:16ilang

12:17immediate

12:17family.

12:18O

12:18nindot

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12:19ilang

12:19relationship

12:20kanang

12:21walay

12:22mag-away

12:22mag-uli

12:23dahon

12:24mag-lalis

12:25dili

12:25ka

12:25nang

12:25mag-dum

12:26tanay

12:26dako

12:27kayo

12:27na nga

12:27factor

12:28kaya

12:28nga

12:28naman

12:28sulot

12:30sa

12:30pamilya

12:32nga

12:32imuhang

12:33tukuron

12:34sa

12:35umaabot

12:36mood

12:37plague

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12:38doon

12:38nag-influence

12:39ang

12:39kanang

12:41pamilya

12:42sa ilang

12:43tag-satag

12:43sa

12:43kapamilya

12:44sa ilang

12:44pagkatao

12:45and how

12:45they

12:46handle

12:46family

12:47relationship

12:47so

12:50ingon

12:51anak

12:51importante

12:52ang

12:54pagtanao

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12:55pag

12:56susi

12:56nimo

12:57dili

12:57ni

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13:01tiaw

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13:02ang

13:02pagpili

13:02so

13:03hindi

13:03kinahanglan

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13:04ngayimuhang

13:06timbangon

13:07maayo

13:08tanaw

13:09sabi nimo

13:10kung

13:10kinsa

13:11ang

13:12nakikinabuhi

13:13nga

13:14financial

13:14stable

13:15ka

13:15kanabang

13:205 years

13:21from now

13:2110 years

13:21from now

13:22di ba

13:22kakamapurdo

13:22eh

13:23basen

13:24ang

13:24usana

13:24bilmuko

13:25o

13:26ang

13:26usana

13:27kanang

13:27ikaw

13:28may

13:28mag

13:28abagas

13:29pamilya

13:30tanawan

13:31po

13:31na nimo

13:31siya

13:32i-apillo

13:33na nimo

13:33kay

13:33kumpanang

13:34litan

13:34kanas

13:35mara

13:37kanaganing

13:37si mara

13:3840 years

13:39old

13:39so

13:39mahimo

13:40panang

13:40mumabdos

13:40so

13:41makaanak

13:41mo

13:42kanarabang

13:43naatay

13:44bata

13:44natay

13:45anak

13:45di

13:46arabang

13:46lalim

13:47kaya

13:48nagkagdayaper

13:48gatas

13:50masakit

13:50ginalan

13:51dalos

13:51doktor

13:51mga

13:52sinina

13:53pagpaiskoy

13:54dako

13:55na kaya

13:55ng

13:55irresponsibilidad

13:56so

13:57tanawan

13:57nimo

13:58kung

13:59in the future

14:00kinsa

14:00ang

14:02kanaganing

14:03katambayayong

14:04nimo

14:04para sa

14:04financial

14:05stability

14:06so

14:07how

14:07they

14:08handle

14:09money

14:11kinsa

14:12ay

14:12mas kahibalo

14:13nilang

14:13duha

14:14lain po

14:14ng

14:15aspect

14:17kanabang

14:21mahimo

14:21ni mong

14:22partner

14:23in any

14:25aspect

14:26sa pagpadagan

14:27pag dumala

14:27o pamilya

14:28dili lang

14:29kay

14:29ang

14:30romance

14:32lang

14:32ang

14:32imong

14:32una-unaon

14:34so

14:37tanaw

14:38ni mo

14:40imong

14:41timbangon

14:41o maayo

14:44timbangag

14:45yun

14:46kinsa

14:47nilang

14:47duha

14:47katong

14:48akong

14:48ipang

14:48ingo

14:49ni mong

14:49mga

14:49aspeto

14:50na imohang

14:54hanayon

14:54i-considerar

14:56na

14:56hunaw

14:56nao

14:57ni

14:57magmayo

14:57kinsa

14:58nilang

14:58duha

14:58mo

14:58ito

14:59yung

14:59mga

14:59sukdanan

14:59sumbanan

15:02kanang

15:03ang

15:04imong

15:04future

15:05maayo

15:05tingas

15:06pa

15:06na

15:06kinsa

15:07ka

15:07unsa

15:08ka

15:08o

15:09vanilla

15:09o

15:10bania

15:13mahim

15:14pariho

15:14ba mo

15:15panglantaw

15:15sa

15:16pagtukod

15:17ng pamilya

15:18pagpadagan

15:18ng pamilya

15:19sa

15:20career

15:20ni

15:20enhancement

15:22makaayaw

15:23ba siya

15:23kung

15:24doon

15:25na

15:26kay

15:26plano

15:26na

15:26musaka

15:27baron

15:27panalitan

15:28ordinary

15:28yun

15:28ang

15:29piyado

15:29in the

15:30future

15:30mahim

15:31mo

15:31kang

15:31supervisor

15:32o

15:33manager

15:33kanang

15:34supportive

15:35sa

15:35imong

15:35career

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15:37maka

15:38enhance

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15:38imong

15:38pagkataw

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15:41kay

15:42imong

15:42ijudge

15:43buotan

15:44siya

15:44gwapa

15:44siya

15:45in love

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15:47kundi

15:48how

15:48di

15:48unsa

15:50siya

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15:51na unsay

15:52treatment

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15:59good

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16:14nindot

16:14kay ganit

16:15kung panalitan

16:15the same

16:16religion

16:16the same

16:18ang inyong

16:19outlook

16:19sa religion

16:20outlook

16:22sa kinabuhi

16:23unsay

16:24panglantaw

16:25nimo

16:25unsay

16:26panglantaw

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17:13trust

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17:18kuyog nimo

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17:22bahala

17:22na nag

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17:26doon ay anak

17:26ang usa wala

17:27never been

17:28touched

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17:32love

17:33man

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17:35pikas

17:35basing

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18:0810 years

18:08from now

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18:10mga

18:11the same

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18:13the same

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