00:00I think many times it doesn't cost work to put limits.
00:02What we cost work is everything that comes after.
00:05Because we know that if we say no, we will have to have to put the blame,
00:09the rage, and all this emotional connection that we feel with our children when we say no.
00:14I really think there are days where I say,
00:16if I leave it past because I don't have enough energy in that moment to sustain the limit.
00:20But then I think,
00:22I think if I leave it past, it will be much worse.
00:25Because I think the limits are this structure that our children need.
00:29I see it as if it were the edge of an alberca.
00:32If there was no edge and there was nothing that contains the water,
00:35then everything will go out.
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