00:04The conversation is over, but the mind keeps replaying it.
00:09Was that comment awkward? Did the pause last too long?
00:12Did the other person seem annoyed?
00:15This pattern is common with social anxiety.
00:17It is called post-event rumination.
00:20The mind reviews an interaction, focuses on possible mistakes,
00:24and treats assumptions like facts.
00:28Cognitive behavioral therapy, or CBT, can help break the cycle.
00:33CBT teaches people to separate what actually happened from what anxiety predicts.
00:38The person looked away is an observation.
00:41They thought the conversation was boring is an interpretation.
00:45CBT may also reduce avoidance, reassurance-seeking, excessive rehearsal,
00:50and other habits that keep social fear active.
00:53The goal is not perfect confidence.
00:57The goal is greater freedom to speak,
01:00connect, and move forward without analyzing every word.
01:25River North Counseling Group, 405 North Wabash Avenue, Suite 3209, Chicago, Illinois, 60611.
01:34Office 312-467-0000.
01:40Visit RiverNorthCounseling.com
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