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Myka navigates the maze of purchasing her first home as a single parent, from the highs to the "wait, is this really happening?" moments. "Home Buyers' Diaries" sheds light on the raw, authentic journey of home buying in today's world. In partnership with Rocket Mortgage. #ad

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00:02this is my rental house and we've lived here for about two years even though I'm
00:12renting it's really difficult for me not to make my house feel like a home when I
00:19moved in I changed lighting fixtures we planted a big garden in the backyard and
00:24we've done a lot of things just to make it feel personal like us but at a certain
00:31point you want a home that is your own something that can't be taken away from
00:35you if your landlord decides to sell my name is Micah Harris and I am a single
00:40parent to my seven-year-old son I'm also an entrepreneur and this is my story
00:47about buying my first home
00:54I got the idea that I wanted to purchase a home about four years ago right when
00:59we moved to LA but financially I just wasn't there yet when you work for
01:05yourself it's an interesting setup because when it comes time to go out and seek
01:10financing for in-house your personal income is low but when you have to buy a
01:15house all of a sudden you need to have this higher income so it takes a while
01:20to set yourself up for that process
01:26I knew that I had to make a plan and the first thing I started with is what I
01:33wanted in a home so I started with the list I put everything on the list that in
01:42an ideal scenario that I wanted lots of light fully grown trees in the backyard it
01:49needed to be close to or in Venice cosmetic renovations only skylights some
01:57type of architectural detailing I think was on the list it was important to me
02:02to put out into the universe what it was that I was looking for and now I had to
02:07back into what could I afford rocket mortgage has tools that can help you
02:13figure out what you can afford in the neighborhood that you want to be in
02:18the next step was connecting with the real estate agent and sharing with them
02:24the most important things from my list the neighborhood that I needed to stay in
02:29my purchase price and what I was really looking for in a home for myself and my
02:36son hi how's the drive going good the most important thing on my list was
02:44location it was really important for me to find a place close by to my son's
02:49school so that he could continue to go there and also still remain really close
02:53to his friends okay bye see you in five days I love you on day two of going out to
03:01look for houses my real estate agent called me and told me that I really had
03:06to see this property it had just fallen out of escrow we had to go see it the next
03:11morning after seeing the home it had checked off a lot of the items on my list so I decided
03:16to make an offer the most challenging part was all of the paperwork and the timeline of things after
03:25you make an offer what I ended up doing during that process is just taking a step
03:31back and realizing that the intensity that's around that and people are asking you for things
03:37and we need this now now now I recognized that I could control the pace a little if I didn't
03:43get
03:43it to them right in that moment it would be fine because at the end of the day they want
03:48to sell you
03:49the house as much as you want to buy it when I saw this house it was the first house
03:56that I made an
03:57offer on and my offer was accepted the seller really liked me I wrote her a sweet little note and
04:05included a picture of myself and my son and it worked out so I really felt as though being intentional
04:12around what I wanted and staying open to things that presented themselves to me really worked
04:26I saw the tree in the backyard I knew that this would be a great house for us I could
04:33see my son
04:34climbing on the branches I enjoyed the sound that it made looking up into the sky and seeing all the
04:44branches move it just gave me a real sense of serenity and groundedness in the home and that was
04:51important for me now here I am and I have a house
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